When a Man Hides His Pain but Hurts Her in the Process

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  • Опубліковано 11 січ 2025

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  • @patriciaparsons1905
    @patriciaparsons1905 8 годин тому +3

    Vulnerability can make a man so beautiful 😊

    • @JohnRyan-v1c
      @JohnRyan-v1c 7 годин тому

      Until I watch this video I did not know the amount of damage because of my own ignorance and stubbornness and what I didn't realize PL. WAS ACTUALLY TRYING TO HELP ME,

  • @mariaperez7355
    @mariaperez7355 12 годин тому +3

    I wish he would have trusted me with his pain, so I could comfort him and understand him.

  • @deborahwhite361
    @deborahwhite361 8 годин тому +1

    Yes, I am going through this now..🙏

  • @shoni32
    @shoni32 11 годин тому +1

    I have met many men like this within my personal lifetime. I always felt that in introspect, I could have done more before the relationship became non-existent, and I left. Men out there...Life is short. If a woman truly loves you, you hold no weakness in describing your pain to her. We care.🙏✝️🦋

  • @Loveandpeace227
    @Loveandpeace227 8 годин тому

    I would sit down with him when he hasn’t been drinking and let him know how you feel. Let him know you’re worried and that you’re there for him. Good luck.

    • @JohnRyan-v1c
      @JohnRyan-v1c 7 годин тому

      As a man I am now understanding it but I am so deathly afraid and I seriously mean afraid that I've lost this most important person in my life because of my abundance of ignorance

  • @AnnaLivingston-tl9mi
    @AnnaLivingston-tl9mi 11 годин тому

    ❤😢yes goin through it now it's like he does not have a real thing in my life anymore and I love this man he is my rock I had to change my way I use to be a lot more than I thought...im not that hard to be with me around I think I have a high level of connection with people who are not acting like a good person but who actually is just like that....its not only my life its his own life and I don't want to be with out him....his silent treatment everything is my fault I have to have been so wrong and just know that its me me me....i admit it was me and I fault in many ways to be able to be gaslighting to someone who you have claimed to be in love with to be able to be isolating to the point where you haven't seen the world in the longest time living like a hermit and just don't have any idea what we are doing!!?? Thats way to much I'm dealing with this man he actually had my heart I was 15 I love this man still but what damage I have been in the beginning it was hot and just awesome I just don't understand how it goes so sour and just hold on to the way I use to mean to him...the way he use to look at me the way he adored every thing about me to the point where he seen no other as he did for me....thats the love ive dreamt of and I have made mistakes to but i admit it he doesn't know how to....he will not say he was wrong I have a million times I don't have to be right or wrong I have to conversate with this man he actually used to do so but now hes silent and just don't have the way I use to know him...is he a narcissist I don't know how or what happens when you find out what it is but its definitely a lot to bare I love him but hes so different than the way I use to know him.... please answer me and you can say anything honest i need to hear it...😢hes a good worker provided me and never had a complaint I was just holding on to someone who doesn't exist anymore?? I don't know what to do then i do know is walk away cause he's not that guy and never was....please comment on this

  • @Nancy-r6k
    @Nancy-r6k 22 хвилини тому

    ❤YES AND NOT WILLING TO GET HELP TO SEE HIS FAULTS❤Gods BLESSINGS to those that suffer❤

  • @scordova789
    @scordova789 10 годин тому

    Yes, for me it's the fact that I know that something is wrong. It's when he decides to go back to drinking, not like he used to. If he did that, all hell would break loose. But just enough to get me to see the changes in his personality. I've known him for over 24 years. We have children together, divorced. I'm just trying to figure out how to get him to realize the weight of the situation. I'd rather know what is going on with him and his job. And not resort to drinking. He knows that I don't want anything or anyone around that is drinking or drugging around our kids or myself. He's a good guy and father. I love him, he knows that. I just don't know what to do about it. 😢😢😢

    • @cjoy2024
      @cjoy2024 3 години тому +1

      Leave now and work on all the damage he had done to you! You need to work on healing all that toxic behavior you have gone through. You need to take care of yourself now and learn how to love yourself again and let him handle his own battles. Set yourself free and move on.

  • @lissacampbell04
    @lissacampbell04 12 годин тому +2

    Absolutely yes

    • @JohnRyan-v1c
      @JohnRyan-v1c 7 годин тому

      Bless you but until I read this and watch this video I didn't realize the amount of help that (C.PL) WAS ACTUALLY TRYING TO HELP ME BLESS YOU TROUBLE😢

    • @JohnRyan-v1c
      @JohnRyan-v1c 7 годин тому

      And buy me holding this back and let it Fester it cost more damage then I realized because of my ignorance.

  • @MichelleACooper
    @MichelleACooper 8 годин тому

    Yes I know about this way to very well 😢😢😢

  • @TinaJames-t8r
    @TinaJames-t8r 11 годин тому

    That happened with my twin flame 😢 I blamed myself for what happened I never blamed him because our love was complicated & forbidden my mom forced him out of my life 💔

  • @loniwatson8110
    @loniwatson8110 9 хвилин тому

    This was true.
    except his pain can be shared and healed by the one that was created to heal it.
    Believe God knows what or who you need.
    If you truly believe in God.

  • @SheilaDay-k6q
    @SheilaDay-k6q 5 годин тому

    Yes.

  • @constancehaiden7315
    @constancehaiden7315 10 годин тому

    yes..

  • @SongiLangston-v6c
    @SongiLangston-v6c 45 хвилин тому

    I am a woman ♀️ and I accidentally hurt a man because I was hurting and I didn't even know I did it until later that's why it's good to know if someone really cares and I love you have a great day

  • @Loveandpeace227
    @Loveandpeace227 9 годин тому

    Yes ❤

  • @hemalathar6632
    @hemalathar6632 7 годин тому

    Fantastic there you are accepting the truth where such men lose their women ok can improve after all we are humans which society laid down rules for men all made up by men for their own convenience ok

  • @omerfarooq1746
    @omerfarooq1746 10 годин тому

    Yes

  • @Lori-u6t
    @Lori-u6t 21 хвилина тому

    A most helpful video! Thank you! It seems the universe has a direct connect to UA-cam 🌌🤲 for the videos my soul needs serendipitously and miraculously appear as a healing energy love force on my journey road to wholeness 🌌🌟💫💜🍀❇️🦋🔆

  • @Shell-w5j
    @Shell-w5j 6 годин тому

    YES

  • @ConnieHardge
    @ConnieHardge 5 годин тому

    YES😊

  • @caren6573
    @caren6573 3 години тому

    Yes

  • @cakntny1
    @cakntny1 2 години тому

    Yes