@@EricaLucasLoves Just today, I took an old beat up white leather purse my mom threw out and cut it up to cover a frame...have not finished it yet but so far so good! Strap could be a hanger or trim around a basket or jar but I think I will use it as a book band. May reuse hardware. Desk accessories, notebook, Just think of it as material. Coach bag I might try fix first..If not, I might use logo as part of craft. Lining can be washed or replaced. Not my mom's favorite hobby, but I love upcycling!
My heart jumped when I saw that beautiful Teddy purse!!! oh my God the quality!!! the craftsmanship!!! the color is stunning!!! it is just exquisite!!!
I am at the place where I started to downsize my handbags. Well, I took them out of the closet, just haven't done anything with them yet. This video is motivating me to do that. Thank you.
Purses/handbags were where I started decluttering. Handbags and shoes were my "thing" when I was younger. I had handbag and shoes to match and compliment every outfit I owned. I now have 3....or rather 2 and a small backpack. Most of the shoes have gone too. I started downsizing here before I even considered decluttering my home
I made a deal with myself when I started decluttering, if I got rid of everyone of my handbags I would treat myself to 1 Louis Vuitton small minimalist style purse. Best thing I ever did 😊
Erica! You may want to consider buying a. Small clear pouch for your purse to put food/candy in so you never get crumbs or any mess in your bag’s lining from food. It also just keeps everything organized in your bag ☺️
I stopped carrying an "everything" purse several years ago; only carry absolutely what's needed, just the basics. From watching minimalist and organizational channels, I incorporated a few suggestions. I have a repurposed wet wipes container, it's in the center counsel to hold all the "just in case" items we all carry in our purses; safety pins, hair ties, band aids, panty liners, dental floss, (dentist gives samples away), nail clippers, nail file, a few emergency type items, what ever your life calls for, it certainly frees up space in the purse for that "just in case may need it someday" item. I don't have kids at home any longer but I think I would have a small bag kept stocked by the door or where you hang your purse and keys and keep it stocked with some kid thinks, snacks, a few small toys, etc. Grab on the way out the door when needed. Could also keep a small tote in the car with kid stuff, a few small toys, etc.
I use a big canvas tote to store handbags. The purse is gorgeous. I am a big tote girl and have a lightweight bag...Coach bags are heavy before you put anything in the bag and recently sold mine so win win.
Yes! Erica’s hair is so beautiful! I bet a hair dresser would love to get their hands on it! Maybe something a little shorter (but still long) with some layers around the face? Something sophisticated ! I wish I had hair like Erica!
Wow! I love that purse! I don't even carry one haha... Just need my phone, chapstick, keys, and I have a small card holder that clips to my keys! Sunglasses go on my head when I go inside. Pockets are my best friend!
The Coach bag with the damaged strap is a made for outlet bag so it's not worth trying to repair and I'd chuck but the Coach bag with the candy can 100% be cleaned and given away or sold- that's good leather! You could clean it (if you want to) by pulling out the lining like you did to show us and then spraying it with Resolve cleaner and scrubbing with a dish brush then rinsing. SUPER EASY FIX! Bare minimum- donate that one it's a really well made bag. As an aside- I would hold on to the smaller coach bag you were currently using because while that Teddy Blake bag is super cute- the straps to get into it are going to drive you crazy!
I always watch your channel and while I love it, I wish you would donate more. Those purses can be repaired. Lining can be replaced as well as straps at a shoe repair place and some dry cleaners. There are a lot of people in the world that would be thrilled to find a nice item at a thrift store and just repair it or get it repaired. The candy can be removed the way you remove melted crayon. Warm iron and paper towels. Also, thrifty stores like good will are way less picky than you may think. I find stuff all the time with stains, stuck on stuff, rips, etc. Anyway, love your channel. You inspire my long standing journey through minimalism and my ongoing improvement of eco friendly items. Thank you!
So cute! I keep my purse and diaper bag by the front door both packed up. So all I do is switch my wallet over depending on which kiddo(s) I have with me and how long I'm gone for. No other bags needed, simple and easy.
I’m not even a mom but I’ve never understood tiny handbags! I want to carry an umbrella and a water bottle and it needs to fit in there. Good on you for realising you’re looking really good! Go for that waist! 💕💕
My twin girls have had their own bagpack since they could walk; had some extra clothing and diapers, prepacked snack and water bottle and some toys in it. Now, at teen age, they stil have their own bagpack and niw what they need to put in it! Also extra stuff always in the car that stays there.
The sound you made when you saw your pretty is the same sound I make also when I see my pretties - a sort of possessive purring growl - mine mine mine! I love that purse, it is absolutely gorgeous!
I carry a giant tote in the fall / winter and a basket in the spring / summer. I'm not a mom LOL, but everything that needs to leave the house goes in there. But inside is a small purse that actually goes inside places with me. I like the little system, I don't like to carry a lot of things
I had a tote under my bed with handbags 😱 When I started this journey I started giving away purses to friends and family and decided to do a final purge. Yeah the tote is empty and I have the purses I like and use. I have not bought a handbag in over 2 years and the ones I have are as you stated good quality. Thanks for sharing and the encouragement to keep up the decluttering process❤️
How many funerals are you attending?! So long as I’m dressed respectfully & soberly, I’ve left Victorian year of mourning traditions behind me. Which reduces the second wardrobe kept for sad occasions only. Shoe repair shops can often repair or replace leather handles, but do a cost comparison analysis. Is a 10 year old bag worth the repair guy’s labor + material. Unless you’re buying designer, NO. And organic materials like leather are far better in landfills than adding more plastic purses & leather is renewable as long as people eat beef. Finally, from a daughter’s viewpoint, PLEASE give her a choice about Granny’s purses. I spent a lot of my life carrying my mother’s memories for her via stuff she gave me that I wasn’t allowed to dispose of or give to someone else. The things are not the memories & your mom certainly never intended her love to be turned into holy relics never to be released. If you no longer need them & daughter doesn’t LOVE them, turn her loving work loose to bless someone who wants or needs them.
All of this! When she said "my mom made these... *pause*... I'll give them to my daughter." It felt like she was really saying "I don't use these, I don't want these, but my mom made them and I feel guilty for not wanting them so I'll store them in my daughter's room." As for the funeral clothes, I'm not against keeping them if that's the standard for your community of people. I have never been to a funeral where everyone wore all black. Thankfully, I have not been to many funerals but people just wore nice clothes, it didn't matter what colour.
@@EricaLucasLoves I have several bags my beloved grandmother used...they mean a lot to me. I do not carry them but decorate with them in my dressing area( with her gloves and faux pearl necklace resting on one) and store a few momentos in them. Also a couple hatboxes and vintage hats. I feel her. I keep most momentos in general in two stacked trunks so I do not see busyness but really enjoy the few times a year with each season change when I turn on music or an old movie and reminisce. Photos are great option too of course.
@@EricaLucasLoves Absolutely! I cherished everything that was my grammas! I didn't mean that you shouldn't offer it to your daughter, you 100% should. I was only agreeing with the previous comment stating that asking your daughter if she wants it would be nice (I'm not saying that you weren't going to ask). And I was making my own observation that it seemed you may have been feeling guilty about wanting to let go of a sentimental item (which is common and reasonable) and the idea of passing it onto your daughter would possibly fill the desire to both keep the item and let it go. I know from other minimalist groups that people have commented that their parents have done that to them, and even my own dad does it to me on occasion.... something is sentimental to him but he doesn't want it and he tries to pass it onto me and convince me that I should want it. I have really enjoyed watching your videos and following along on your journey. People often seem to misunderstand my comments which is why I don't often post comments. I will keep my comments to myself in the future.
@@TiredJaded No need to stop in my opinion. ...thoughtful commenting is fine and useful, I think. Just be ready for comments back sometimes😉 It seemed that you maybe misinterpreted tone and intention in her words? Maybe projected or referenced something quite valid but that does not really fit here?🤔 That is all appeared to be to me, anyway.😊
I have a summer purse and a winter purse. I also have five old purses that are in good shape that I keep in a small box at the top of the closet in case I feel nostalgic.
Lovely bag from Teddy Blake...I have 3 bags...my everyday bag which is a cross body style in tan/brown...a black bag...and a black clutch for very special occassions...and when they wear out...I buy only to replace them
I, too, carry a mom bag. But, I use a wristlet for a wallet. When I go into a store, I just take the wristlet, and leave the big bag in the car. I like the wristlet; I’m in no danger of setting it down and forgetting it somewhere.
@@glockenrein Many times I do, for that reason. But if it’s just a quick trip, I’ll put it on the floor of the back seat with a blanket or jacket on top.
i am no way a minimalist in handbags. lol i just decluttered 84 handbags, but still have have 102. and i am keeping them. i have a teddy blake that i got around 4 years ago in grey. its a staple in the winter. love that bag. my oldest bag is my coach and its going on 35 years and still looks new. i got rid of all my target handbags and kept my high end bags. :)
I figured my colours out years ago based on the seasons. I'm a winter. Makes shopping so much faster, I skip over things that aren't my colour. I used to carry a little swatch with me, but now I just know what will suit at a glance. You can also go further and develop your own palette, for example I never wear fuscia even though it's a winter colour. It's just too loud for me. Another colour I like is icy green, but it's rare to see it in the shops. When I do I snap it up.
@@labradorite8256 She used some sort of method though to figure out what goes with her skin tone and eye color etc. I’m wondering what system she used to figure all of that out.
@@brittany7768 It's the "4 Season color system", afaik been around since the 80s. There's some sort of expansion called "12-tone seasonal colour analysis".
You can cut the leather off the bag you with throw and make a journal cover. You would need leather needle or leather hole puncher and loop in leather thread or macrame thread and habe the kids do it as a craft for their first journal. The minimal mom inspired me to try a crossbody wallet so you have place for your cards, keys, phone and very few coupons and thats it so the lack of space forces you not to accumulate receipts, toys...
I have done the same thing buying cheap. Now at almost 60. I have decided to buy better quality. Awe!!! That’s sweet to save the purses your mom made for your daughter. Great job Erica.
I had a “teacher bag” which is a mom bag to the extreme for 26 years. Never know when you need paper clips, highlighters, sharpies, pens, pencils, notepad, etc. After all these years, I am finally starting to get used to carrying a smaller bag. Lately, I’ve been using a phone case that hold my license and card and only taking that when I have to go in somewhere. It seems freeing somehow.
I still have to go through my bags, I’m still in the mom bag stage so I’m holding onto my smaller purses still. Sometimes I have a mom bag in the stroller AND a tiny crossbody so my phone is at hand. The auto-caption at 8:21 cracked me up though! 😂
Erica.. You have come so far😊. Don't beat yourself up if there are the odd things that you have to "trash" (landfill). You can try to give them away for free.. But if no-one wants them.. Then you have no choice but to trash them. The positive thing is that you have changed your mindset to stuff and now don't buy stuff unnecessarily.. So in the future you will produce minimal rubbish! Your new bag looks fantastic
Oh my goodness that bag is so cute! I'm not even a handbag person! 😍 I really like crossbody bags so I definitely get what you want to keep that little one. It's nice to be hands-free to either carry stuff of your kids or hold on to kids hands whenever you're out and about with little ones.
I'm a backpack style purse person because I'm too heavy chested for a crossbody and I need my arms free. It was hard trying to find one that didn't look or was made cheap. I'm surrounded by friends and family who are super into expensive name brand purses but I know what want and love what I have.
I can't use a regular crossbody either - it puts too much pressure on my shoulder, triggering a migraine, and I don't even carry a lot with me. Someone introduced me to the Patagonia Atom Sling several years ago, and I've been using it ever since because I love it so much. I forget how much it was (I think ~$60), but to me it's worth every penny because it's so durable and has just the right amount and kind of space I need. I think my mom needs to invest in something just a little more long-lasting, though, because the straps on the purses she gets keep breaking on her, sometimes within a few weeks of getting them (she refuses to get them anywhere but thrift stores).
@@labradorite8256 Wish I could do that, but for me it triggers one no matter which shoulder the pressure is on. The Atom works great for me because when adjusted properly, the design makes it so well balanced that it doesn't feel like there's much of any pressure on my shoulder. The only thing I wish it had is the ability to be worn on either shoulder.
I never did the Mum hand bag, I brought a $5 school backpack and used that as my nappy bag, it’s still going 4 years later 😅 pretty good for a $5 buy. It’s been used as a camping bag, a swim bag, a picnic bag and a book bag for going to the library since it was no longer a nappy bag. As for a purse 👜 I don’t have one. I’ve got my wallet and it’s big enough to fit my phone and then I put my keys in my bra or a pocket 😂 minimalist much. Also I see tampons with the applicator in your bag contents. Moving to tampons without the applicator or even a cup or reusable pads will help you cut down on the amount of rubbish 👌🏻 just another step on the minimalish journey
I would love to see content about where you live - excursions like going to a pumpkin farmer - going to the naval museum - etc. In Germany we used to get children aquainted with the landscape around us - think big round stones from ice age - explaining medieval development, mens‘ influence on landscaping ( Lüneburg Heaether south of Hamburg developed from burning trees for winning salt) so any trip anywhere could be loaded.
Donate the bags, a patient person may take the time to clean the melted candy out, lol. Also thank you for mentioning Carol Tuttle in your recent video, it has changed my view about my purchases and helped me clean out my closet easier! Keep up the good work!!!
Hey Erica...love your content 😍 A great way that has helped me to organize my purse is to use the Travlon 3-pc packing squares (they are 22 on Amazon I usually can find at Marshalls or Home Goods for like 10) It's a great way to keep things organized. I have like 3 sets and use a couple of the smaller ones in my purse. Yes I agree a nice quality bag or piece of clothing that is timeless can last for years. I have a few "timeless" tops that still look great and one I even bought at a second hand store..win win.
I repurpose bags for their hardware or fabric as part of my sewing business, I'm too far away as I live in the UK but it might be worth finding out if anyone does something similar near you rather than throwing out the broken ones if you're keen to keep them from landfill :) just another idea x
the coach bag can be donated! Someone will buy it even with the damage. They will put a new handle on or use the logo and the leather to craft a whole new bag. Just because it is trash to you, doesn't mean they are not valuable. Multiple sold listings on ebay for damaged bags! Just clearly state they are damaged if you want to sell.
I keep a large bag/purse with a cross-body strap for when i travel internationally as they hold lots and count as a purse! I pack a small purse to use daily when I arrive.
One alternative is to turn the bigger bags into planters. Cut a few holes in the bottom, fill with potting soil and plant something that needs to be moved to a warm spot to overwinter. Yrmv.
I carry a dome purse by Betsey Johnson. I need to carry an inhaler with me so a dome purse is the smallest I can go. But it's only an inhaler, a small wallet, lip gloss, and a piece of candy (that I forgot about and am going to eat now).
Yes give away the ones you can’t sell or give to good will. And maybe set a timelimit for trashinc them if nobody wants them. I usually set a time window of two weeks 😊 I love the new bag! Like you said, you don’t need that many bags. I have a burnt orange one for fall because I love that colour and a black one for the rest of the year. I also have a blue bag that is my dressing up/going on a date bag that’s it 😊 They are all smaller sized.
I turned my “mom bag” diaper bag into a camera bag ages ago. 😂 Those little animal figurines...we love them too, hahaha. (I 100% agree on the quality over quantity thing!)
You can clean out the candy. If the bag is still in good shape, clean it. Coach can last forever. Every woman needs a tote, a dressy bag, a crossbody, a clutch, and a backpack. 5 essentials.
Ahhhh, this is where I’m at, the search for the ultimate purse! I’ve always loved bags and purses! I’ve decluttered most of my bags and purses and would like to have only 1 purse that I use everyday. My kids are in high school and college so I don’t need the mom purse. It can’t be too deep or things get lost in the bottom. It has to have some structure and have lots of pockets, preferably a crossbody strap and top handles, not too expensive but not “cheap”.
Regarding quality, good observation! I read a book by an Australian woman who married a Frenchman. She wore her cheap clothes and eventually noticed that French chic was based on having a few quality pieces that would last for decades, instead of a wardrobe stuffed with trash.
Definitely don't trash the candy-bag. That can be salvaged by someone if not you - especially if you love it. I always love a purse with a zipper. I'm so paranoid that stuff will fall out! Love the green purse that your mother made. The detail is quite lovely. I use one of those small backpack/purse hybrids on most days but really should downsize. I carry too much stuff as well "just in case".
Coach bags can be repaired. Coach will also clean them. Part of getting quality things and keeping them longer is taking care of them and repairing if needed.
I’m working toward minimalism for the last 4 years; have a ways to go, BUT! When I went to Europe 24 years ago, I eliminated a big purse for a small crossbody purse & eliminated so much & never looked back! I stopped carrying a wallet, brush, comb, makeup except for lipstick, etc. To this day, I wear small purses... BUT! I own a Lot of purses! Definitely need to pare down!!!!! Thanks, Erica!
Whenever I hear mom bag I think of the movie One Fine Day with Michelle Pfeiffer and George Clooney. She has this monster bag that has everything!! When my kids were little I started carrying a very small bag that I could cram inside the diaper bag. I keep going back to a small bag enough for a card case, lipstick, comb, pen, small pad and folder for receipts.
Here in the UK we have areas that we can take our items to for recycling so I would do that with your bags if you can rather than just put them in the trash/landfill. Materials - especially of quality such as Coach use - can definitely be recycled. Hope that helps.
Thank you for reminding me to clear out my handbags !! They have all been shoved inside a large tote bag. Sooooo. . . . . I’m guessing I can let them go. 😂
I have been dabbling in the Kibbe Body Type . It seems like a really great method. A little difficult to understand, but I think with research, it would be one of the most reasonable systems to use.
The Coach bag could be sold if you wanted, people will buy them at a reduced price specifically to fix them up. It all depends on your preference :-) You are doing so well! Your videos are encouraging me to get started on decluttering my life as well!
I’m still working on my minimalism journey. Hubs is kinda the hoard for my house. Plus 2 kids in about 600 square foot. But I was going to say I have to get better about choosing quality. I can’t tel you how many times I’ll decide I need a piece (clothing, storage something, etc) go to the thrift store get what seems to be the best of my choices then turn right back around because I realize it just wasn’t right. I’ll look for a little longer at thrift stores till I do the same thing over again. It’s soo annoying but I just can’t stop lol
If I am not sure if I need an item at the thrift store . I will circle around and if I can't stop thinking that I need it . Then I go back and get it .
I used to do the same thing. To break the cycle, I challenged myself to not go inside a 2nd hand store for 12months. It's now been 2years. I've been in 1 2nd hand shop in all that time and that was on a trip when I realized I needed a sweater and the 2and hand store was the closet place to get one. When shopping in general, I no longer buy things if I cant try them on. And then if i dont LOVE it in the dressing room, i dont buy it. No more buying something to make do. I can make do with what I have until the right thing comes along. This was not an instant shift. It took time. But was so worth it!! My wallet, my storage, and my husband are much happier! 🙂
I struggle with getting a bag that's the right size for me. Don't need a mom bag but nevertheless I was guilty of buying too small bags all the time! I purged them this summer, kept a single small "dressed up" bag, one canvas tote (typically used when I need to carry dog papers/stuff) and one "right size for me" everyday bag in black leather. I want to add another in a lighter colour for summer but I vowed not to buy one until I find one that fits my requirements. No more "it's adorable", no more "meh, it's OK, it will do for now"...
You may want to keep the cross-body purse because it's great for walking so you have your phone on you and your house key if no one is at home when you get back. Just a thought. Also, someone may be able to fix the handle and reline the other purse.
you should buy a retractable key clip . They would be handy so that you can pull your keys out of you purse, and yet not detach it from the purse, or ever lose them . They are super cheap at staples.
I dont know if this is something that you would like to do with your old handbags but this is an initiative that started a few years ago here in my shire in Western Australia - each time an individual has a hand/bag to let go off - if is within your means - to put hygiene and sanitary items (esp womens personal products) and maybe a couple of pairs of socks and drop them to your local charity/homeless assist to be distributed where most needed
I went from a mom bag to a show bag (I work in live theatre) I carried safety pins, OTC medication, and other useful items that my actors sometimes needed 😀 Now that we aren’t doing live performances, I can carry the bare minimum.
Your making it a mom bag again😱 Try carrying a cloth tote in the car filled with goodies , snacks, tissues , water bottles etc leavening your pretty new hand bag all yours👍🏻
I think it’s good to list it for free on market place (for maybe a week) and if no one takes it then in the bin. Sometimes if it’s a larger size item crafters may want it for its raw materials. We had an old leather sofa that we stripped the leather off and someone wanted that for some leather projects they were doing.
Yes, donate all the coach bags on FB! People are crafty and they can fix them up OR turn them into something totally different.
OK I can do that!!
Yes, my town has a FB group called Buy Nothing and people on there will take almost anything! 🙂
@@EricaLucasLoves Just today, I took an old beat up white leather purse my mom threw out and cut it up to cover a frame...have not finished it yet but so far so good! Strap could be a hanger or trim around a basket or jar but I think I will use it as a book band. May reuse hardware. Desk accessories, notebook, Just think of it as material. Coach bag I might try fix first..If not, I might use logo as part of craft. Lining can be washed or replaced. Not my mom's favorite hobby, but I love upcycling!
Give away! They can be repaired or someone can pay to repair by a shoe cobbler or leather worker.
My heart jumped when I saw that beautiful Teddy purse!!! oh my God the quality!!! the craftsmanship!!! the color is stunning!!! it is just exquisite!!!
Mine too. When she opened it I thought it was so beautiful!
For the bag with the melted candy, can you turn the lining inside out and carefully hand wash it. If so, you can save the bag!
Yes, I was thinking the same thing!
I am at the place where I started to downsize my handbags. Well, I took them out of the closet, just haven't done anything with them yet. This video is motivating me to do that. Thank you.
I’d put your lipstick and inhaler into a small makeup bag in your purse just in case the lid comes off the lipstick or your inhaler leaks.
Thought the same thing-and crackers for kids inside a baggie, a reusable zero waste one 😉
Ditto for food!
And your mask should be protected from germs by putting it in a ziplock bag.
Inhalers dont leak in my experience.
Purses/handbags were where I started decluttering. Handbags and shoes were my "thing" when I was younger. I had handbag and shoes to match and compliment every outfit I owned. I now have 3....or rather 2 and a small backpack. Most of the shoes have gone too. I started downsizing here before I even considered decluttering my home
I made a deal with myself when I started decluttering, if I got rid of everyone of my handbags I would treat myself to 1 Louis Vuitton small minimalist style purse. Best thing I ever did 😊
Erica! You may want to consider buying a. Small clear pouch for your purse to put food/candy in so you never get crumbs or any mess in your bag’s lining from food. It also just keeps everything organized in your bag ☺️
I stopped carrying an "everything" purse several years ago; only carry absolutely what's needed, just the basics. From watching minimalist and organizational channels, I incorporated a few suggestions. I have a repurposed wet wipes container, it's in the center counsel to hold all the "just in case" items we all carry in our purses; safety pins, hair ties, band aids, panty liners, dental floss, (dentist gives samples away), nail clippers, nail file, a few emergency type items, what ever your life calls for, it certainly frees up space in the purse for that "just in case may need it someday" item. I don't have kids at home any longer but I think I would have a small bag kept stocked by the door or where you hang your purse and keys and keep it stocked with some kid thinks, snacks, a few small toys, etc. Grab on the way out the door when needed. Could also keep a small tote in the car with kid stuff, a few small toys, etc.
Keep the coach bag that you are using. For the winter and use the new one for spring and summer because of the light color.
I use a big canvas tote to store handbags. The purse is gorgeous. I am a big tote girl and have a lightweight bag...Coach bags are heavy before you put anything in the bag and recently sold mine so win win.
Beautiful purse. I'm still in the mom bag phase. I think the next step for you in a hairstyle change. :) A trim even makes me feel better sometimes.
Yes! Erica’s hair is so beautiful! I bet a hair dresser would love to get their hands on it! Maybe something a little shorter (but still long) with some layers around the face? Something sophisticated ! I wish I had hair like Erica!
Wow! I love that purse! I don't even carry one haha... Just need my phone, chapstick, keys, and I have a small card holder that clips to my keys! Sunglasses go on my head when I go inside. Pockets are my best friend!
The Coach bag with the damaged strap is a made for outlet bag so it's not worth trying to repair and I'd chuck but the Coach bag with the candy can 100% be cleaned and given away or sold- that's good leather! You could clean it (if you want to) by pulling out the lining like you did to show us and then spraying it with Resolve cleaner and scrubbing with a dish brush then rinsing. SUPER EASY FIX! Bare minimum- donate that one it's a really well made bag. As an aside- I would hold on to the smaller coach bag you were currently using because while that Teddy Blake bag is super cute- the straps to get into it are going to drive you crazy!
Exactly 😆
I always watch your channel and while I love it, I wish you would donate more. Those purses can be repaired. Lining can be replaced as well as straps at a shoe repair place and some dry cleaners. There are a lot of people in the world that would be thrilled to find a nice item at a thrift store and just repair it or get it repaired. The candy can be removed the way you remove melted crayon. Warm iron and paper towels. Also, thrifty stores like good will are way less picky than you may think. I find stuff all the time with stains, stuck on stuff, rips, etc. Anyway, love your channel. You inspire my long standing journey through minimalism and my ongoing improvement of eco friendly items. Thank you!
So cute! I keep my purse and diaper bag by the front door both packed up. So all I do is switch my wallet over depending on which kiddo(s) I have with me and how long I'm gone for. No other bags needed, simple and easy.
I’m not even a mom but I’ve never understood tiny handbags! I want to carry an umbrella and a water bottle and it needs to fit in there. Good on you for realising you’re looking really good! Go for that waist! 💕💕
My twin girls have had their own bagpack since they could walk; had some extra clothing and diapers, prepacked snack and water bottle and some toys in it. Now, at teen age, they stil have their own bagpack and niw what they need to put in it! Also extra stuff always in the car that stays there.
OMG. This was hard to watch! I LOVE handbags, lol That Teddy Blake was amazing. And great decision on the easy crossbody.
The sound you made when you saw your pretty is the same sound I make also when I see my pretties - a sort of possessive purring growl - mine mine mine! I love that purse, it is absolutely gorgeous!
The Teddy Blake looks like it could be a hassle to open and close properly when you are out and about.
You did a great job letting go of those bags!
Yes im so excited to hear you tkimg about your style and your waist!!! You deserve to feel and look amazing 👏 💕
I wouldve kept that brownish orange crossover bag. I like the small crossover bag for if you're going out to a concert or fair or anything like that.
I carry a giant tote in the fall / winter and a basket in the spring / summer. I'm not a mom LOL, but everything that needs to leave the house goes in there. But inside is a small purse that actually goes inside places with me. I like the little system, I don't like to carry a lot of things
I had a tote under my bed with handbags 😱 When I started this journey I started giving away purses to friends and family and decided to do a final purge. Yeah the tote is empty and I have the purses I like and use. I have not bought a handbag in over 2 years and the ones I have are as you stated good quality. Thanks for sharing and the encouragement to keep up the decluttering process❤️
How many funerals are you attending?! So long as I’m dressed respectfully & soberly, I’ve left Victorian year of mourning traditions behind me. Which reduces the second wardrobe kept for sad occasions only. Shoe repair shops can often repair or replace leather handles, but do a cost comparison analysis. Is a 10 year old bag worth the repair guy’s labor + material. Unless you’re buying designer, NO. And organic materials like leather are far better in landfills than adding more plastic purses & leather is renewable as long as people eat beef. Finally, from a daughter’s viewpoint, PLEASE give her a choice about Granny’s purses. I spent a lot of my life carrying my mother’s memories for her via stuff she gave me that I wasn’t allowed to dispose of or give to someone else. The things are not the memories & your mom certainly never intended her love to be turned into holy relics never to be released. If you no longer need them & daughter doesn’t LOVE them, turn her loving work loose to bless someone who wants or needs them.
All of this! When she said "my mom made these... *pause*... I'll give them to my daughter." It felt like she was really saying "I don't use these, I don't want these, but my mom made them and I feel guilty for not wanting them so I'll store them in my daughter's room."
As for the funeral clothes, I'm not against keeping them if that's the standard for your community of people. I have never been to a funeral where everyone wore all black. Thankfully, I have not been to many funerals but people just wore nice clothes, it didn't matter what colour.
@@TiredJaded ... or my daughter would like something her grandmother made.
@@EricaLucasLoves I have several bags my beloved grandmother used...they mean a lot to me. I do not carry them but decorate with them in my dressing area( with her gloves and faux pearl necklace resting on one) and store a few momentos in them. Also a couple hatboxes and vintage hats. I feel her. I keep most momentos in general in two stacked trunks so I do not see busyness but really enjoy the few times a year with each season change when I turn on music or an old movie and reminisce. Photos are great option too of course.
@@EricaLucasLoves Absolutely! I cherished everything that was my grammas! I didn't mean that you shouldn't offer it to your daughter, you 100% should. I was only agreeing with the previous comment stating that asking your daughter if she wants it would be nice (I'm not saying that you weren't going to ask). And I was making my own observation that it seemed you may have been feeling guilty about wanting to let go of a sentimental item (which is common and reasonable) and the idea of passing it onto your daughter would possibly fill the desire to both keep the item and let it go. I know from other minimalist groups that people have commented that their parents have done that to them, and even my own dad does it to me on occasion.... something is sentimental to him but he doesn't want it and he tries to pass it onto me and convince me that I should want it. I have really enjoyed watching your videos and following along on your journey. People often seem to misunderstand my comments which is why I don't often post comments. I will keep my comments to myself in the future.
@@TiredJaded No need to stop in my opinion. ...thoughtful commenting is fine and useful, I think. Just be ready for comments back sometimes😉 It seemed that you maybe misinterpreted tone and intention in her words? Maybe projected or referenced something quite valid but that does not really fit here?🤔 That is all appeared to be to me, anyway.😊
I have a summer purse and a winter purse. I also have five old purses that are in good shape that I keep in a small box at the top of the closet in case I feel nostalgic.
Lovely bag from Teddy Blake...I have 3 bags...my everyday bag which is a cross body style in tan/brown...a black bag...and a black clutch for very special occassions...and when they wear out...I buy only to replace them
I, too, carry a mom bag. But, I use a wristlet for a wallet. When I go into a store, I just take the wristlet, and leave the big bag in the car. I like the wristlet; I’m in no danger of setting it down and forgetting it somewhere.
Do you put your bag in the boot while you’re in the shops? Because I’m always afraid someone is going to see it and break into the car.
@@glockenrein Many times I do, for that reason. But if it’s just a quick trip, I’ll put it on the floor of the back seat with a blanket or jacket on top.
i am no way a minimalist in handbags. lol i just decluttered 84 handbags, but still have have 102. and i am keeping them. i have a teddy blake that i got around 4 years ago in grey. its a staple in the winter. love that bag. my oldest bag is my coach and its going on 35 years and still looks new. i got rid of all my target handbags and kept my high end bags. :)
Good job on your decluttering! I'm sure your daughter will love to have those purses that your mom made. What a special memory!
Do you have a video on how you figured out what your style colors are? I’d love to figure that out for myself.
I figured my colours out years ago based on the seasons. I'm a winter. Makes shopping so much faster, I skip over things that aren't my colour. I used to carry a little swatch with me, but now I just know what will suit at a glance. You can also go further and develop your own palette, for example I never wear fuscia even though it's a winter colour. It's just too loud for me. Another colour I like is icy green, but it's rare to see it in the shops. When I do I snap it up.
@@labradorite8256 She used some sort of method though to figure out what goes with her skin tone and eye color etc. I’m wondering what system she used to figure all of that out.
@@brittany7768 It's the "4 Season color system", afaik been around since the 80s. There's some sort of expansion called "12-tone seasonal colour analysis".
@@MrGrumpyGills thank you!
Wow!!! Gorgeous bag!!! So glad you got a new purse
You can cut the leather off the bag you with throw and make a journal cover. You would need leather needle or leather hole puncher and loop in leather thread or macrame thread and habe the kids do it as a craft for their first journal. The minimal mom inspired me to try a crossbody wallet so you have place for your cards, keys, phone and very few coupons and thats it so the lack of space forces you not to accumulate receipts, toys...
Glad you kept the cross body!
I have done the same thing buying cheap. Now at almost 60. I have decided to buy better quality. Awe!!! That’s sweet to save the purses your mom made for your daughter. Great job Erica.
I loved your COACH bag you were using. I don't think the Teddy bag will be going to the movies anytime soon.
Oh my gosh I’m actually sorting through my bags right now! Haha 😂 sending love from the UK 🇬🇧
Thank you for all your hard work and inspiration x
I had a “teacher bag” which is a mom bag to the extreme for 26 years. Never know when you need paper clips, highlighters, sharpies, pens, pencils, notepad, etc. After all these years, I am finally starting to get used to carrying a smaller bag. Lately, I’ve been using a phone case that hold my license and card and only taking that when I have to go in somewhere. It seems freeing somehow.
I still have to go through my bags, I’m still in the mom bag stage so I’m holding onto my smaller purses still. Sometimes I have a mom bag in the stroller AND a tiny crossbody so my phone is at hand.
The auto-caption at 8:21 cracked me up though! 😂
All the packaging with Teddy Blake would put me off for starters but i guess you didn't know about that before hand. very good timely video though.
I found your channel few days ago ...... and I love your honesty ♥️
Coach will fix your bag. It use to cost nothing but shipping! Call Coach and find out! Then you could sell it and get a better price.
I'm so glad you kept the date night bag after all. I thought you might regret parting with that one.
Erica.. You have come so far😊. Don't beat yourself up if there are the odd things that you have to "trash" (landfill). You can try to give them away for free.. But if no-one wants them.. Then you have no choice but to trash them.
The positive thing is that you have changed your mindset to stuff and now don't buy stuff unnecessarily.. So in the future you will produce minimal rubbish!
Your new bag looks fantastic
My purses are like an abyss! 😂🤣 I just recently downsized on my handbags as well.
Oh my goodness that bag is so cute! I'm not even a handbag person! 😍 I really like crossbody bags so I definitely get what you want to keep that little one. It's nice to be hands-free to either carry stuff of your kids or hold on to kids hands whenever you're out and about with little ones.
I'm a backpack style purse person because I'm too heavy chested for a crossbody and I need my arms free. It was hard trying to find one that didn't look or was made cheap. I'm surrounded by friends and family who are super into expensive name brand purses but I know what want and love what I have.
I can't use a regular crossbody either - it puts too much pressure on my shoulder, triggering a migraine, and I don't even carry a lot with me. Someone introduced me to the Patagonia Atom Sling several years ago, and I've been using it ever since because I love it so much. I forget how much it was (I think ~$60), but to me it's worth every penny because it's so durable and has just the right amount and kind of space I need. I think my mom needs to invest in something just a little more long-lasting, though, because the straps on the purses she gets keep breaking on her, sometimes within a few weeks of getting them (she refuses to get them anywhere but thrift stores).
@@SnowySpiritRuby my osteopath has told me to wear my cross body on the other shoulder and it feels weird! Might have to go back to the backpack.
@@labradorite8256 Wish I could do that, but for me it triggers one no matter which shoulder the pressure is on. The Atom works great for me because when adjusted properly, the design makes it so well balanced that it doesn't feel like there's much of any pressure on my shoulder. The only thing I wish it had is the ability to be worn on either shoulder.
I used to use worn handbags as planters in the garden
I am sure someone would love the old coach bags they would make great journal covers!
I never did the Mum hand bag, I brought a $5 school backpack and used that as my nappy bag, it’s still going 4 years later 😅 pretty good for a $5 buy. It’s been used as a camping bag, a swim bag, a picnic bag and a book bag for going to the library since it was no longer a nappy bag. As for a purse 👜 I don’t have one. I’ve got my wallet and it’s big enough to fit my phone and then I put my keys in my bra or a pocket 😂 minimalist much.
Also I see tampons with the applicator in your bag contents. Moving to tampons without the applicator or even a cup or reusable pads will help you cut down on the amount of rubbish 👌🏻 just another step on the minimalish journey
Love the new bag ! I love purses !!
I would love to see content about where you live - excursions like going to a pumpkin farmer - going to the naval museum - etc.
In Germany we used to get children aquainted with the landscape around us - think big round stones from ice age - explaining medieval development, mens‘ influence on landscaping ( Lüneburg Heaether south of Hamburg developed from burning trees for winning salt) so any trip anywhere could be loaded.
Erica, declutter your main keychain, they might scratch up the inside of the bag having by so many keys in it!
Donate the bags, a patient person may take the time to clean the melted candy out, lol. Also thank you for mentioning Carol Tuttle in your recent video, it has changed my view about my purchases and helped me clean out my closet easier! Keep up the good work!!!
Hey Erica...love your content 😍 A great way that has helped me to organize my purse is to use the Travlon 3-pc packing squares (they are 22 on Amazon I usually can find at Marshalls or Home Goods for like 10) It's a great way to keep things organized. I have like 3 sets and use a couple of the smaller ones in my purse. Yes I agree a nice quality bag or piece of clothing that is timeless can last for years. I have a few "timeless" tops that still look great and one I even bought at a second hand store..win win.
I repurpose bags for their hardware or fabric as part of my sewing business, I'm too far away as I live in the UK but it might be worth finding out if anyone does something similar near you rather than throwing out the broken ones if you're keen to keep them from landfill :) just another idea x
the coach bag can be donated! Someone will buy it even with the damage. They will put a new handle on or use the logo and the leather to craft a whole new bag. Just because it is trash to you, doesn't mean they are not valuable. Multiple sold listings on ebay for damaged bags! Just clearly state they are damaged if you want to sell.
I keep a large bag/purse with a cross-body strap for when i travel internationally as they hold lots and count as a purse! I pack a small purse to use daily when I arrive.
One alternative is to turn the bigger bags into planters. Cut a few holes in the bottom, fill with potting soil and plant something that needs to be moved to a warm spot to overwinter. Yrmv.
I love handbags and all styles too.
love the smaller Coach bag. I would make that a keeper, just to have a change
Declutter your keys/key chain too, makes it so much lighter!
I carry a dome purse by Betsey Johnson. I need to carry an inhaler with me so a dome purse is the smallest I can go. But it's only an inhaler, a small wallet, lip gloss, and a piece of candy (that I forgot about and am going to eat now).
Yes give away the ones you can’t sell or give to good will. And maybe set a timelimit for trashinc them if nobody wants them. I usually set a time window of two weeks 😊 I love the new bag! Like you said, you don’t need that many bags. I have a burnt orange one for fall because I love that colour and a black one for the rest of the year. I also have a blue bag that is my dressing up/going on a date bag that’s it 😊 They are all smaller sized.
Good choices. I do have a funeral or visitation purse. I find people are often very sensitive.
I turned my “mom bag” diaper bag into a camera bag ages ago. 😂 Those little animal figurines...we love them too, hahaha. (I 100% agree on the quality over quantity thing!)
Also, that Teddy Blake bag is really, really cute!
Great idea!
@@stinaljungstrom8691 Thank you! ☺️
That purse is so pretty!!! I don’t use them but I’d buy one 😍😍😍
So true. You can buy a new purse for $40 every year for 10 or spend $300 on a nice bag that lasts 10 years.
You can clean out the candy. If the bag is still in good shape, clean it. Coach can last forever. Every woman needs a tote, a dressy bag, a crossbody, a clutch, and a backpack. 5 essentials.
Ahhhh, this is where I’m at, the search for the ultimate purse! I’ve always loved bags and purses! I’ve decluttered most of my bags and purses and would like to have only 1 purse that I use everyday. My kids are in high school and college so I don’t need the mom purse. It can’t be too deep or things get lost in the bottom. It has to have some structure and have lots of pockets, preferably a crossbody strap and top handles, not too expensive but not “cheap”.
Regarding quality, good observation! I read a book by an Australian woman who married a Frenchman. She wore her cheap clothes and eventually noticed that French chic was based on having a few quality pieces that would last for decades, instead of a wardrobe stuffed with trash.
Definitely don't trash the candy-bag. That can be salvaged by someone if not you - especially if you love it. I always love a purse with a zipper. I'm so paranoid that stuff will fall out! Love the green purse that your mother made. The detail is quite lovely. I use one of those small backpack/purse hybrids on most days but really should downsize. I carry too much stuff as well "just in case".
Coach bags can be repaired. Coach will also clean them. Part of getting quality things and keeping them longer is taking care of them and repairing if needed.
Nice! Great you got some $ for the items you sold!!!
I’m working toward minimalism for the last 4 years; have a ways to go, BUT! When I went to Europe 24 years ago, I eliminated a big purse for a small crossbody purse & eliminated so much & never looked back! I stopped carrying a wallet, brush, comb, makeup except for lipstick, etc. To this day, I wear small purses... BUT! I own a Lot of purses! Definitely need to pare down!!!!! Thanks, Erica!
Whenever I hear mom bag I think of the movie One Fine Day with Michelle Pfeiffer and George Clooney. She has this monster bag that has everything!! When my kids were little I started carrying a very small bag that I could cram inside the diaper bag. I keep going back to a small bag enough for a card case, lipstick, comb, pen, small pad and folder for receipts.
I love the new bag! 😍
Here in the UK we have areas that we can take our items to for recycling so I would do that with your bags if you can rather than just put them in the trash/landfill. Materials - especially of quality such as Coach use - can definitely be recycled. Hope that helps.
What a beautiful bag! Enjoy...you deserve it!
Erica, for better bags with issues such as your Coach bags, you need to take them to the cobblers! The fixes are inexpensive!
Some dry cleaners also have tailors. I had a leather dog leash fixed. Not coach 😏 but still good quality useful item.
Love your new bag, it’s beautiful!
You are doing so great!
I think coach has a lifetime warranty and will fix anything that breaks? I would check and maybe get them fixed to sell them?
Should of waited till the end lol I'm glad they found good homes.
@@britneyharper3572 I was thinking the same thing about getting it fixed.
The Burgundy one is a great size and a neutral color.
Thank you for reminding me to clear out my handbags !! They have all been shoved inside a large tote bag. Sooooo. . . . . I’m guessing I can let them go. 😂
Someone might be okay with cleaning the stain from the black Coach bag, great declutter!!
You look so pretty Erica!
Two fun ways to re purpose bags: doorstops (fill with sand), or pot plants. Of course, it depends on your deco vibe 😏
I have been dabbling in the Kibbe Body Type . It seems like a really great method. A little difficult to understand, but I think with research, it would be one of the most reasonable systems to use.
The Coach bag could be sold if you wanted, people will buy them at a reduced price specifically to fix them up. It all depends on your preference :-) You are doing so well! Your videos are encouraging me to get started on decluttering my life as well!
I’m still working on my minimalism journey. Hubs is kinda the hoard for my house. Plus 2 kids in about 600 square foot. But I was going to say I have to get better about choosing quality. I can’t tel you how many times I’ll decide I need a piece (clothing, storage something, etc) go to the thrift store get what seems to be the best of my choices then turn right back around because I realize it just wasn’t right. I’ll look for a little longer at thrift stores till I do the same thing over again. It’s soo annoying but I just can’t stop lol
If I am not sure if I need an item at the thrift store . I will circle around and if I can't stop thinking that I need it . Then I go back and get it .
I used to do the same thing. To break the cycle, I challenged myself to not go inside a 2nd hand store for 12months. It's now been 2years. I've been in 1 2nd hand shop in all that time and that was on a trip when I realized I needed a sweater and the 2and hand store was the closet place to get one. When shopping in general, I no longer buy things if I cant try them on. And then if i dont LOVE it in the dressing room, i dont buy it. No more buying something to make do. I can make do with what I have until the right thing comes along. This was not an instant shift. It took time. But was so worth it!! My wallet, my storage, and my husband are much happier! 🙂
I struggle with getting a bag that's the right size for me. Don't need a mom bag but nevertheless I was guilty of buying too small bags all the time! I purged them this summer, kept a single small "dressed up" bag, one canvas tote (typically used when I need to carry dog papers/stuff) and one "right size for me" everyday bag in black leather. I want to add another in a lighter colour for summer but I vowed not to buy one until I find one that fits my requirements. No more "it's adorable", no more "meh, it's OK, it will do for now"...
Love the video! I'm still in the mom bag season of life and can't imagine having a small purse.😁
You may want to keep the cross-body purse because it's great for walking so you have your phone on you and your house key if no one is at home when you get back. Just a thought.
Also, someone may be able to fix the handle and reline the other purse.
you should buy a retractable key clip . They would be handy so that you can pull your keys out of you purse, and yet not detach it from the purse, or ever lose them . They are super cheap at staples.
I dont know if this is something that you would like to do with your old handbags but this is an initiative that started a few years ago here in my shire in Western Australia - each time an individual has a hand/bag to let go off - if is within your means - to put hygiene and sanitary items (esp womens personal products) and maybe a couple of pairs of socks and drop them to your local charity/homeless assist to be distributed where most needed
I went from a mom bag to a show bag (I work in live theatre) I carried safety pins, OTC medication, and other useful items that my actors sometimes needed 😀 Now that we aren’t doing live performances, I can carry the bare minimum.
Your making it a mom bag again😱
Try carrying a cloth tote in the car filled with goodies , snacks, tissues , water bottles etc leavening your pretty new hand bag all yours👍🏻
I think it’s good to list it for free on market place (for maybe a week) and if no one takes it then in the bin. Sometimes if it’s a larger size item crafters may want it for its raw materials. We had an old leather sofa that we stripped the leather off and someone wanted that for some leather projects they were doing.
If your "bad" Coach bags are leather, you should see if someone wants them for free. Many crafty folks can re-use the leather for other projects.