I’m with you, Paul. Especially with parking spots. I remember my mom passing by so many perfectly good spots because “what if there’s one closer?” Drove me NUTS!
These two are so great I totally agree with your comment oh, it will just open up our hearts you find love and companionship and places you never thought you would that's why I love their story
@@greendragon4058 agreed! Their story is pretty awesome. I'm a hopeless romantic and I hope this happens for me too one day!! Until then .... I just binge M&P's videos. 🤣🥰 **EDIT:** damned autocorrect
I’m a mixture of both but it gets bad when I’m looking for something to wear for a special day. My birthday is next month and I changed outfit ideas about 20 times. 😂
You know what he didn’t do that with, though? You, Paul. He found you and never let go or wanted something different. It’s special that right off the bat he knew he couldn’t do better. That’s love, baby! 🎉
@@greendragon4058 Depends on the context. If I'm driving it would be unsafe for me to wear headphones, so car radio it is, so we're playing my playlist. In that case my partner can wear headphones and I can turn the car radio's volume lower so we both get what we want. In any other scenario tho, yeah, wear headphones. I prefer people not knowing what I listen to anyway.
I'm both as well. I always order the same thing, but still feel the need to scan through the whole menu, just to make sure it is really the best thing there is.
I'm the opposite! I stay on a great song if it's truly a great song and not just an okay song. But I will try everything on the menu and then go back to my favorites at the end, like Matthew.
Yeah for me it depends, if it’s a simple thing like a radio station then I don’t have to check every one but if it’s a major purchase or major time investment, then I do more research & worry about getting the best one
I love your content. I know we only see snippets of your lives and it's parts you want to share with us, but it's very easy to see that you two have a very strong relationship. Keep happy. Keep being you. Love it all
I'm a maximizer 😁 I want to see and hear Everything! Taking the other route home, taking a different turn when I walk our dogs. Eating everything I can possible eat, I always switch it up 💕
I'm 100% a satisficer, but I wouldn't necessarily say it makes me a happier person. It's not natural for me to get out of my comfort zone so I have to force myself to try out new things that could enrich my life. If us satisficers are not careful we can end up close minded and scared of taking risks.
This is hilarious. I’m completely a satisfizer. I have a favorite thing at any restaurant that I go to regularly, I tend to find things I like and stick with them. I never knew there was this distinction.
I used to just order the same thing.... But now that I'm 54... I want to try new things. So I try to keep an open mind. You 2 are so beautiful and just ooze kindness!!!❤❤
Paul is such a genuine and happy person, just radiates empathy and joyfulness❤ Hopefully there will be more people like Paul in youtube, who are giving out that much good energy and are not whining and complaining about dramas that they are making in their life (usually by themselves) 🥰
Satisficers are the best type of people to date! You know they're not gonna be looking elsewhere🤗❤️. Both me and my hubbie are satisficers and have been together for 8 years now ❤️
I'm a mix of the two! I do the same as Matthew on finding the best song. But I also have a favorite meal at restaurants. I love you guys and your relationship!! ☺❤
I randomly came across your channel talking about my severe astigmatism and myopia, I totally understand Paul when he says there’s levels to being blind, I’m obviously more full sighted. It’s so irritating people don’t seem to get that I’m fine driving during the day but not at night. I know Paul can’t drive but what would he tell his friends if they just didn’t get it?
I would say "I have an eye condition that makes me night blind, but my eyesight is good in daylight." I'm not blind, but I have Autism, and I have learned that explaining my symptoms accurately doesn't work. You need to paint a simple and relatable picture for them, even if it's not 100% correct. Even though night blindness is something else, most people won't know/question it.
Oh I am always looking for something better and trying something new! I just memorize the good thing I enjoyed or take a note of why I didn’t enjoy something. Sooooo, when I go back I know what to do. That process brings me so much joy tbh :)
Is there such thing as being both satisficers and maximizers? I feel like I'm both lol. I love you guys and this video. I watched the premiere earlier. You guys make the best couple ever so glad you found Love for and and other you guys are so good for one another and work hand-in-han so beautifully 😊❤. Paul you definitely found a keeper and Matthew vice versa. You guys are my favorite youtube couple everything ever thank you for sharing your experience love you guy's 😊❤
it depends on the topic completely for me. bc i’d search for a better song or tv programme while i only ever order the same thing at a restaurant if i liked it the first time
I'm like Paul too. When I try something at a new place and love it I refuse to order anything else. If I don't like that new dish I'll be pissed I wasted the money when I could have gotten what I love. 😂😂😂
You two are constantly fascinating without drama and wholesome without being boring. Like I’m sure you have fights and I’m sure you have boring days but I feel like your general setting is interesting but not due to causing drama (with each other or others). Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t think so.
YES! There is a word for this? I'm definitely a satisficer, I am good with trying new things but specifically with shopping I find the first thing that I am happy with and I look no further. I do it with shoes, clothes, even groceries...I did this when I got my cat. Nori was the first cat I met and I picked her and looked at no other cats lol
I am one hundred percent a Satisficer. Restaurants may as well only serve one dish, and I listen to the same two hundred songs on shuffle for _months_ before I start cycling them with new ones. I am most comfortable with the familiar, and I am okay with that.
I think when it comes to songs on the radio, I'm like Matthew. But when it comes to restaurants, I'm more like Paul. Occasionally I order different items but most of the time, I go with my favorites. It makes me happiest. As always, you guys are hilarious & endearing at the sametime.
I’m like a combo plate satiisficer and maximicer😁. I am like Matthew and Paul combined. In my opinion, that’s a wonderful thing. Thank you Matthew, Paul and Mr. Maple.
I'm not sure what I am (so to speak). Maybe a third option? I can be happy *anywhere*, but if I go to the same restaurant more than once, I'm trying something different every time I go.
Ooooo! It was GREAT seeing BOTH of you together with your beautiful smiles and gorgeous looks. I'd love to hug you both. No worries, I'm a 64 year old mom of an LGBTQIA daughter. 😊
I’m definitely a satisficer. I operate in such a way that I don’t even have to look at menus when I go to restaurants anymore and my family automatically knows what I want from most fast food places. I also read the same books at least three times before I even consider getting rid of them and stick to the same songs by the same band. Don’t even get me started on how many movies I can recite the whole script of because I’ve seen them so many times. It drives my cousin crazy because I don’t want to try anything new😂
Satisficer here! If I try to be adventurous and try something other than my go-to, I'm always disappointed. When I choose what I want, I put a lot of thought into it for good reason!
All this say to me is that Paul is so in love yet maybe needs a bit of verbal reassurance sometimes. I’ll bet one of his love languages is words of affirmation ❤❤❤ They are so adorable!!
My rule for this is only to keep searching if the searching itself is also fun. Ordering a new thing is for the risk and fun, ordering a familiar one is for comfort, or if it's just not worth the risk,
That's true love if you remeber and noticed those details about your partner . And recall them in this way ( sound like you adore those little things , momments of him ) .
I’ll try everything on the menu, but if I find something really good, it’s my go to at that restaurant. Like, in PA, there were three or four diners we went to in town, and one was my chicken parmigiana diner, one was my breakfast diner, one was my burger diner, and so on.
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Oh were fam.
I'm like Paul, I like what I like it's simple ❤ 😂
Is this the full video? Bc I'm dying to finish it lol😂
I'm with Matt. And, hubby is with Paul. Lol. ❤❤
I’m with you, Paul. Especially with parking spots. I remember my mom passing by so many perfectly good spots because “what if there’s one closer?” Drove me NUTS!
me too. by the time we park several have come and gone from their spots and im pissed we wasted so much time.
I'm paul cause I'm super picky eater though but if order something new I might not it like or get money's worth or feel full
Same on the parking.
My mom will spend twenty minutes looking for a parking near the door than park further away and walk to the door in less than a minute.
I park further away because I know I'll find a spot and I can use the exercise.
I'm like Paul. I find one item on the menu that I like, and I only eat that item there for the rest of my life
Same, Like the stations I use are the ones I've had good songs on
Same here always finding one thing that will forever stay my favorite on menus
Fun fact! Those are called safe foods :3
Lol yeah, I usually order the same thing. I may switch it up now and then, but I definitely have my "go-tos".
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If every relationship was this wholesome - no matter what kind! ❤
I'm like Paul😂😂❤❤
@@dianelara3570 LOVE! 🥰
These two are so great I totally agree with your comment oh, it will just open up our hearts you find love and companionship and places you never thought you would that's why I love their story
@@greendragon4058 agreed! Their story is pretty awesome. I'm a hopeless romantic and I hope this happens for me too one day!! Until then .... I just binge M&P's videos. 🤣🥰
**EDIT:** damned autocorrect
I’m a mixture of both but it gets bad when I’m looking for something to wear for a special day. My birthday is next month and I changed outfit ideas about 20 times. 😂
You know what he didn’t do that with, though? You, Paul. He found you and never let go or wanted something different. It’s special that right off the bat he knew he couldn’t do better. That’s love, baby! 🎉
Not to ruin the sweetness but if Matthew lhad boyfriend before he technically did do it.
Paul just ended up being the best.
I have to shoo my boyfriends hand away when he tries to flip through the saved radio stations when there’s already a good song playing 😂
This is why I have earphones I can listen to whatever I want and not having to listen to everything he plays because I can't stand it goes both ways
@@greendragon4058 Depends on the context. If I'm driving it would be unsafe for me to wear headphones, so car radio it is, so we're playing my playlist. In that case my partner can wear headphones and I can turn the car radio's volume lower so we both get what we want.
In any other scenario tho, yeah, wear headphones. I prefer people not knowing what I listen to anyway.
@@LoreCatan yeah driving with headphones no no, passenger seat back seat yes, sitting in the doctor's office yes. I guess I should have clarified
I feel like Matthew did this with relationships, definitely found the best one. Love you both
They must have been together a long time, tho. Since Paul was in college. He can’t have sown that many oats
What if you're both? 😂 I'm with Matthew on the radio part but with Paul on the restaurant part.. 😅
I'm both as well. I always order the same thing, but still feel the need to scan through the whole menu, just to make sure it is really the best thing there is.
Same!
Same
@@missnowonethe worst of both worlds with all the lack of variety of one and the time wasting of the other? Damn, pal
I'm the opposite! I stay on a great song if it's truly a great song and not just an okay song. But I will try everything on the menu and then go back to my favorites at the end, like Matthew.
You guys have such a good relationship, you both seem genuinely happy ❤
Paul is so positive ❤🎉😢😢his happiness is priceless...... God bless you both.. Mathieu and Paul 😮😅😊
This is relationship quality💛. You both are the best couple on the internet. Your laughs make my day every day with a smile❤️🐶. I love you guys✨
Paul is so expressive and dramatic ❤
Matthew’s got jokes 😂😂😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Always! ❤
Oh my gawd I love you guys. You can be both. Satisficer in the streets and maximizer in the sheets. Lol
Yeah for me it depends, if it’s a simple thing like a radio station then I don’t have to check every one but if it’s a major purchase or major time investment, then I do more research & worry about getting the best one
I didn't realise I'm a satisfied person, and now I'm happy.
I love these two. They make me smile.
I miss happiness in my life it's very rare. that is why I love to see you having fun and happy! Love you!😂❤
As long as you decided you're each other's favorite nothing else matters. LOVE you both so much 💗
Same Matthew, always gotta look if there’s something you can work better with and we are always a perfectionist.
They are the CUTEST couple💞💞
I love your content. I know we only see snippets of your lives and it's parts you want to share with us, but it's very easy to see that you two have a very strong relationship. Keep happy. Keep being you. Love it all
I'm a maximizer 😁 I want to see and hear Everything! Taking the other route home, taking a different turn when I walk our dogs. Eating everything I can possible eat, I always switch it up 💕
I love learning something new like this! I’ll remember this concept for forever and already see it in so many thinga
I'm 100% a satisficer, but I wouldn't necessarily say it makes me a happier person. It's not natural for me to get out of my comfort zone so I have to force myself to try out new things that could enrich my life. If us satisficers are not careful we can end up close minded and scared of taking risks.
This is hilarious. I’m completely a satisfizer. I have a favorite thing at any restaurant that I go to regularly, I tend to find things I like and stick with them. I never knew there was this distinction.
I used to just order the same thing.... But now that I'm 54... I want to try new things. So I try to keep an open mind. You 2 are so beautiful and just ooze kindness!!!❤❤
Love you two Please believe God will not take your eyesight totally away What a testimony for God. Please Lord😊
Paul is such a genuine and happy person, just radiates empathy and joyfulness❤ Hopefully there will be more people like Paul in youtube, who are giving out that much good energy and are not whining and complaining about dramas that they are making in their life (usually by themselves) 🥰
Satisficers are the best type of people to date! You know they're not gonna be looking elsewhere🤗❤️. Both me and my hubbie are satisficers and have been together for 8 years now ❤️
Y'all funniest ppl ever love y'all
I just cannot imagine a better match than you two. ❤️
I'm a mix of the two! I do the same as Matthew on finding the best song. But I also have a favorite meal at restaurants. I love you guys and your relationship!! ☺❤
Love this explanation. I relate with being a Maximizer 😅 but am converting to a Satisficer... never heard these terms before, so relatable 😊
I want a relationship like this so bad. They are fluff personified
I always have a 😊 on my face when I come across your content. So refreshing
im the same as paul, i find one thing on the menu that i like and decide that its my “usual”
I randomly came across your channel talking about my severe astigmatism and myopia, I totally understand Paul when he says there’s levels to being blind, I’m obviously more full sighted. It’s so irritating people don’t seem to get that I’m fine driving during the day but not at night. I know Paul can’t drive but what would he tell his friends if they just didn’t get it?
I would say "I have an eye condition that makes me night blind, but my eyesight is good in daylight."
I'm not blind, but I have Autism, and I have learned that explaining my symptoms accurately doesn't work. You need to paint a simple and relatable picture for them, even if it's not 100% correct.
Even though night blindness is something else, most people won't know/question it.
I'm definitely a Satisfier!😂 Watching TV with a Maximizer is pure torture. They never stop changing the channel. 🙇
While a satisfier is watching the same movie over and over ? Not changing the channel, is more endurance in giving it a chance.
You guys put a smile on my face, you have great chemistry and make me laugh hahaha
This is hilarious y’all are a great couple! 😂❤❤
I do the same as Matthew! You 2 loves inspire me! ❤😊❤
They are both so sweet. They make me laugh
Omg me too Paul! I have friends who flip the radio stations constantly. The good songs they listen to like 30 seconds. Drives be insane
Now I understand why I relate so much to Paul 💕
You guys are great 😂 I love how wholesome you two are!
You two are great together, you are so funny!
Lol, i’m with paul, when I try to live on the edge and “try something new” from the menu, more than often regret is involved 😂
Same here. I usually end up regretting not going with my favorite.
you guys are so cute and genuinely make me smile
Oh I am always looking for something better and trying something new! I just memorize the good thing I enjoyed or take a note of why I didn’t enjoy something. Sooooo, when I go back I know what to do. That process brings me so much joy tbh :)
You two always put a smile on my face!
You guys are so incredible !!!!
No wayyyy Matthew😂😂😂
Paul hands down is the favorite man to us too😇
I have a scarily strong desire to hug Paul as hard as I can but I can't quite place why
It’s because he touches your pathos but then releases it with his joy
I’m Mathew with the radio but I’m like Paul with the food 😂
Is there such thing as being both satisficers and maximizers? I feel like I'm both lol. I love you guys and this video. I watched the premiere earlier. You guys make the best couple ever so glad you found Love for and and other you guys are so good for one another and work hand-in-han so beautifully 😊❤. Paul you definitely found a keeper and Matthew vice versa. You guys are my favorite youtube couple everything ever thank you for sharing your experience love you guy's 😊❤
I'm with Paul and Maple😂😂😂 I like what's nice. I don't need the best.
Variety is the spice of life! Except when it comes to partner! Lol! Hugs boys! Cutie patooties.
😂 i love this explanation satisfizers and maximizers
Oh, that two types of people makes so much sense. I'm a satisficer as well, if I like it here I don't wanna check other stuff.
Definitely a satisficer, i have been eating the same thing at McDonald's for my entire life, and many other restaurants too lolll
You guys are so perfect together. Sending Love 💖..oh..Paul I love your top.😊
it depends on the topic completely for me. bc i’d search for a better song or tv programme while i only ever order the same thing at a restaurant if i liked it the first time
I'm sorta both lol. Sometimes I'm a maximizer, sometimes I'm a satisficer!
I'm like Paul too. When I try something at a new place and love it I refuse to order anything else. If I don't like that new dish I'll be pissed I wasted the money when I could have gotten what I love. 😂😂😂
I agree with Paul. That is a humble and contrite good spirit, Matthew not so much 🤒
I'm with Matt on the music. I'm with Paul on finding something my I like at a restaurant. I will order it every. single. time.
you guys should make your book a braile option too love your videos❤
You two are constantly fascinating without drama and wholesome without being boring. Like I’m sure you have fights and I’m sure you have boring days but I feel like your general setting is interesting but not due to causing drama (with each other or others). Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t think so.
YES! There is a word for this? I'm definitely a satisficer, I am good with trying new things but specifically with shopping I find the first thing that I am happy with and I look no further. I do it with shoes, clothes, even groceries...I did this when I got my cat. Nori was the first cat I met and I picked her and looked at no other cats lol
I’ve only first saw your guys’ content today and I’m already loving it. You guys are so sweet ❤
Thank you so much!!
I am one hundred percent a Satisficer. Restaurants may as well only serve one dish, and I listen to the same two hundred songs on shuffle for _months_ before I start cycling them with new ones. I am most comfortable with the familiar, and I am okay with that.
I think when it comes to songs on the radio, I'm like Matthew. But when it comes to restaurants, I'm more like Paul. Occasionally I order different items but most of the time, I go with my favorites. It makes me happiest. As always, you guys are hilarious & endearing at the sametime.
You two are just the best 💕 x x
I’m like a combo plate satiisficer and maximicer😁. I am like Matthew and Paul combined. In my opinion, that’s a wonderful thing. Thank you Matthew, Paul and Mr. Maple.
I'm not sure what I am (so to speak). Maybe a third option? I can be happy *anywhere*, but if I go to the same restaurant more than once, I'm trying something different every time I go.
Ooooo! It was GREAT seeing BOTH of you together with your beautiful smiles and gorgeous looks. I'd love to hug you both. No worries, I'm a 64 year old mom of an LGBTQIA daughter. 😊
i'm so in love with your "couplehood"!
Paul gives off a not-evil Gaston vibe. Nooooo-one, pranks him like Paul!
i find it so funny that matthew has a very attractive voice and paul is very visually appealing 😂
I'm a satisficer for sure! Sometimes I get bold and try new things, and I usually regret it (at restaurants usually). I like what I like!
I love your shirt❤
I’m definitely a satisficer. I operate in such a way that I don’t even have to look at menus when I go to restaurants anymore and my family automatically knows what I want from most fast food places. I also read the same books at least three times before I even consider getting rid of them and stick to the same songs by the same band. Don’t even get me started on how many movies I can recite the whole script of because I’ve seen them so many times. It drives my cousin crazy because I don’t want to try anything new😂
Satisficer here! If I try to be adventurous and try something other than my go-to, I'm always disappointed. When I choose what I want, I put a lot of thought into it for good reason!
Maximizer here, I love trying new things, variety in greater quality is just better than getting bored eventually.
All this say to me is that Paul is so in love yet maybe needs a bit of verbal reassurance sometimes.
I’ll bet one of his love languages is words of affirmation ❤❤❤
They are so adorable!!
You complement each other perfectly❤
That is me with the radio 200%. Unless it's Footloose
My rule for this is only to keep searching if the searching itself is also fun. Ordering a new thing is for the risk and fun, ordering a familiar one is for comfort, or if it's just not worth the risk,
omg you guys slould make like a my first braile book ❤
I'm with Paul when it comes to actually doing the thing, but I still need to know all the options for me to feel 100% confident with my choice
Oh yes, definitely. Satisfiers are happier. My child who is most like this, her nickname is Happy because she just so happy and content ❤
I'm like matthew when it comes to online shopping for clothes and the like. If there's 1067 items from my search term, i will check the 1067 of them.
Apparently I am a satisficer at restaurants and a maximizer when listening to music.
That's true love if you remeber and noticed those details about your partner . And recall them in this way ( sound like you adore those little things , momments of him ) .
You guys are too cute ❤ I love watching your videos!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So different yet so perfect for each other! ❤❤❤
You two are so cute💜🫂💜🫂💜🫂💜
Hahah that is how I am with the radio! It drives my family crazy.
Wait, this actually explains so much about myself 😅 Paul is really on to something!
And Matthew made it hilarious 🤣(of course)😂
I’ll try everything on the menu, but if I find something really good, it’s my go to at that restaurant. Like, in PA, there were three or four diners we went to in town, and one was my chicken parmigiana diner, one was my breakfast diner, one was my burger diner, and so on.