People Read Their Biggest Fights Through Text Message
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the girl whose sister has social anxiety was too nice and caring :( like just the fact that she texted her because she knows her sister doesnt communicate best face to face
paulina faúndez 1 thousandth like 👌
she is too soft
dxccount ikr the whole thing was about potatoes
caring is creepy still about potatoes 💀
KYMN K - you saying that means you know nothing about anxiety
at 2:10 omg i wanted to give that guy such a big hug. he seemed so hurt by what his ex said :(
I feel bad for him too. Like it wasn't even him who did it, but his FRIEND. What was his ex expecting him to do???
@@elucified RIGHT the ex was kinda childish in a way too, she could have just ignored it and not be so affected by the friend's immature behaviour to the extent of having to bring it to him
People do that kind of stuff to me and it’s really frustrating when you just wanna move on
Emily Ross right! it wasn’t even his fault.
Awe. I hope he sees your comment.
The title is basically the definition of my group chat everyday lol
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same 😩
I felt bad for that guy who's ex girlfriend complained about his friend liking her comments like he didn't even do anything
The ex is pettyyy. Clearly isn’t over him
She just wanted to pop back up in his life. She wanted to be relevant for a few minutes
It seems like she was using that as an excuse to show off to her ex that she's dating someone new
Sunflower i don’t agree with that, coming from someone who really misses their ex. i know it can be really frustrating when the person who hurt you or that you left for whatever reason wont leave you alone it can be very frustrating, she probably didn’t have contact to his friends & thought it had to do with him. not trying to sound rude at all just shed some light on her side!
well when you tell someone to leave you alone and then that someone’s friend starts to bug you without context ofcourse you’d think it was “someones” doing. The guy didnt even reply with context. We dont even know if that guy did something.
Fighting through text message is like the worst thing possible. So many misunderstanding along the way. Things dont come off the way you thought it would in your head or in person. I would avoid this at all cost. Its best to argue in person. Fight the urge to response so quick and possibly ruin a relationship or friendship or w.e . You can also make the other person super anxious. Thank you for showing that this is not the way to go lol.
I definitely agree and it makes the other person anxious
I actually prefer fighting over text because it allows me to think out my responses and not get overwhelmed with emotion. My fights in person always end horribly messily, whereas my fights in text generally end pretty clean and with both parties being okay afterwards. So I guess it just depends on the person.
@@xejune I agree that it can depend on the person. I think people in person also forget to give each other space so that emotion isnt overruling the actual argument.
Same when I feel the text messages are kinda becoming into a disagreement with my boyfriend I always call him. And we go on from there. You can’t tell how someone is feeling through a screen.
one of my best friendships were destroyed this way
“Does the plate come with potatoes?”
“I HATE YOU DAD!”
first world
not cool, she has social anxiety :
@@pl4net0id doesn't matter she was acting like a bishhh
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Mental health or not, she was still acting like a ill mannered person.
martin then u don’t know what social anxiety is like
I have social anxiety.
I’m very grateful for when my family asks waiters and waitresses things for me lol. Idk why the girl would be angry .... like wtf
Henya Noodle honestly same i haven’t been diagnosed with anything but when im in public i just feel a bit dizzy and my voice cracks and shakes when i want to ask for something and im always grateful when my sister asks instead. thing is, my dad usually pressures me to ask by myself because he thinks im not going to get anywhere in life if i can’t talk properly
@@minghaoscarrot358 Same I haven't been diagnosed, I don't think I do have it but I get really nervous around strangers and asking even my parents questions.
Deku Is my child feels, I can’t even walk inside a store to return an item without shaking
Deku Is my child same! My parents get really mad when I ask them to order for me and I’d appreciate it so much if they would ask waiters things bcs I’m always to scared to so I just like.. accept the wrong meal or whatever
Maybe simply because she felt like her dad took the decision for her and with that didn't respect her as a person . As a person with anxiety who needed help ,but still a person who choosed not to ask this question, the reason didn't matter. And maybe she felt bad bc she was mad or disappointed in herself for not being able to ask this question herself.
Jesus I’ve had far worse arguments through text than these bickers 😂
Maybe they just didn't want to share too personal fights. I know I surely had much worse arguments then any of those, but I also know I would never want to share it with anyone. ❤️ Just a thought❤️💋
@ The Magical Zebra yea same
Saaame lmao
trussss in my school, all of the relevant people have a snapchat group cht, sometimes peple cuss eachother out ad instead of stopig it we all go 'personally, i wouldnt have tht'. Just to spice up the convo but at the end of the day we're just jokes and its livooo.
@@tetravw10 exactlyYyyyyyyyy
Any time someone from Jubilee comes on screen it feels like when movie characters break the fourth wall
Pourya Bigonah why you everywhere!!! Yup someone gonna write this comment so hold he is not at sally walker song at least
Pourya Bigonah you’re a celebrity in Jubilee’s comments.
I literally see your comment on every video I watch lol
Kool Kat omg jade from bratz
Yess omg fr
As a principle, I try to never fight through text because I know I can´t handle the power of being able to say what I want
without having to look someone in the eye.
Pourya Bigonah that’s a smart way to look at it man
youre everywhere wtf, hello is this justin Y?
LS ya I know I see him everywhere too
It's you again
Why the Frick you everywhere
So i texted him and I said “ L I S T EN H E R E B I T CH !”
Ok the girl that was angry at her friend who tried to help her move is also annoying. If the recruiter was running late, she should've told her friend to wait or come at a later time. She didnt. Then she expects a quick sorry to fix it? Just let the friend be. You wasted their 2 hours cos of bad planning.
For real, you can't expect people to be fine with being fucked over.
DJ StaRyu she apologised didn't she?
peaches that’s not a real apology
For real. That friend was doing her a favor and she lets them sit without news for 2 hours and gives a half assed “sorry about that”. Nah. That friend was right in what they said and ending the friendship. I would’ve done the same. She needs to understand other people better.
I don't think the friend needs to be that dramatic either though. She forgot to text him. It happens, I'm sure she would've apologized more in depth, but it was over text.
He could've also texted her and been like where you at after 30 minutes, and when he didn't get a response leave and come back later.
The fault is shared. Nothing is perfect. Let's fix what we can but always remember we can't control other's actions.
Lool the regret that hits when you end up saying everything on your mind.
"the intentions dont matter when the actions have a negative impact"
What negative impact? All he did is ask if a dish had potatoes? I get she has social anxiety but I'm sorry I cannot handle being around a person like that.
well you don't have to
She didn't want to ask cause she was scared so someone asked for her. She got mad because of "negative impact". What impact? Did they say "hey, she wanted me to ask you.." so she got embarassed?
😂😂😂😂 I don't think I could be around somebody like that either. Im really confused what the negative impact was. I'm sure all the waiter did was say yes or no.
If you don't have social anxiety you cant judge someone for reacting the way they did. No means no. Her dad simply did not respect her wishes.
@@heavenloves7819 I think u can judge someone for being an ass. Having a mental illness is no excuse to act like crap to other people
"the intentions don't matter when the actions have a negative impact"
Wtf
sjw logic at its finest
@variety byun nah one is wrong
But what was the negative impact?
@@myacole1272 no, in philosophy there is no set "wrong" - everything is objective. I think that's what they meant when they said "both are not wrong"
fr 💀
lol the last girl made me angry. You can't expect a simple sorry to fix wasting 2 hours of someone's life especially if they are doing a favor for you. It literally takes 2 seconds to send a message letting them know that you'll be late and tbh at that point its not even about being blown off anymore but its about how dismissive you are about them and their feelings...its so inconsiderate and is a huge red flag for the type of people you want to keep around in your life
True, she irked me quite a bit too. Saying “sorry” is not a get out of jail free card, especially when you don’t demonstrate that you actually are. And it’s pretty hypocritical for her to complain about her feelings but expect the friend to not be hurt.
i feel you. I had two friends who were like her and I'm so glad they aren't my friends anymore.
i understand where you’re coming from but you also have to remember she was with someone, maybe she didn’t have the opportunity to text him and say she wouldn’t make it until later. being on your phone can also be seen as rude when talking to other people so maybe she was just trying not to be rude.
on the other hand, however, he was waiting for two hours and i can’t lie i would have been a little pissed off too but that’s still no excuse to bash her. i just think if they both were a little more understanding with each other than they wouldn’t have had such a problem.✨
@@lov3tia exactly
@@lov3tia even in the video she doesn't really seem to take on much accountability. When she apologised she included an excuse in the same sentence which also doesn't exactly scream accountability either. The guy who was supposed be helping her move dodged a bullet
The girl with the "Gucci bag" needs to learn some manners lmao.
C Dai what’s that?
@@missswendyle She needs to learn some *Manners* Can't start a convo with someone that way and expect it to go well. 🤷♂️
C Dai uh the gucci bag girl literally replied to you. and she clowned you lol
@@scarletclough Omg I didn't notice either!! Lol
@@cdai216 lmao missswendy le, the girl that said "what's that?" is the girl in the video 😂
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2:11 This Poor dude Looks so sad I wanna jump through my screen and give him a hug 😩
I think the message of this video is that you cannot translate emotions and feelings accurately through texts, and a lot of context gets lost.
you right 💫
A “friend” once said to me that my parents don’t raise me right and that I’m skinny because they don’t feed me. She also said that no one actually likes me. I only have friends because something is wrong with me and people feel bad. So. That hit me hard and i didn’t talk to anyone for 2 months. Cuz I actually believed what she had said. Don’t listen to idiots people.
Lilly Rob wow.. yeah that’s a horrible person who people actually won’t like because of the horrible souls she possesses. You’re way better off without that terrible person in your life! There’s still lots of good in the world
Another issue with text arguing is that you can't read tone and your mood can impact your judgement. The last girl is a good example. She read the friends message with a lot of attitude and hers as more composed which is clearly bias.
I think we have all done this. I have had a million arguments via text. I always regret it each time. The written word without benefit of facial features and voice inflections can change the meaning of the message.
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I read the title and it seemed like drama.
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2000 subscribers with only a meme posted lol same
Sameeee
The girl at 2:15 your family argues in a very healthy way.
over potatoes lmfao
MIL social anxiety is literally based around people making a big deal out of little things you’re literally just laughing about what the condition is
@@iBarkBite Potatoes is not a goddamn mental condition. What are you smoking and can I have some?
@@aliasanew3398 substitute that with illness and her statement is 👌🏾
Sia
Wait did that girl ever get her Gucci and LV bags BACK?
Idk 🤔🤷🏼♂️
& yes I did honey ;)
missswendy YES!!! Thank the Lord cause that’s what you deserve!! It’s yours you paid with your hard earned money!
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"oh my god what is wrong with me"
That last one hit home. I waited 2 hours for my boyfriend. Then the following day I waiting another hour to give him a second chance and again he fell asleep and didnt come out.
had an ex like that, it's never worth the time if they cant make the time for you
“I feel like.. what’s wrong with me??” Hahaha story of my life
The girl with the Gucci bag is hilarious, I’ve seen her looks on Instagram and they’re amazing
Jeanine what’s her insta ??
@@maya-fayelundy8915 @missswendyle
*why didn't you say that to her face-*
Doesn’t this basically describe a group chat with close friends?
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This is why there is an option to call instead of texting out what comes to your mind because other people interpret from a text way more different than you imagine.
This could kinda go both ways. With texts you get more time to collect yourself and think out a response before sending it. You can also take a day or two before responding. Calls can be helpful because you can hear tone, but its way harder to control what you say and your response time is cut a lot shorter.
no I can't talk to people when i'm mad because I will apologize for sh!t that I didn't do or say . I have get my thoughts out through text or else I will loose the argument . My mind works very randomly so I start off talking without a structure or a plan of how to build my arguments or my side of the story ,when that happens people get either more mad at me or they think they already won the fight because i can't get my thoughts out properly .
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1:50 if she wanted to be left alone she could’ve blocked/not texted you and ignore it if it was that big of a deal😂😂😂
Or what about her simply deleting those comments, lol. Somehow she seems to not being able to just move on.
I think just wanted to be dramatic
This is why when I'm having a disagreement with my girlfriend through text, I call her right away. Texts get misconstrued so easily. Just pick up the phone and say what you have to say.
kid in my class: asks for pen and never gives it back
me the next day: 1:20
‘If i tell you something in confidence don’t use it against me in an argument’ YES!!! If something is willing to stoop to those levels you need to re-evaluate you’re entire friendship/relationship
2:00 I feel so bad for him, cause it's very relateable to me.
My ex after 1 month of breaking contact, outta nowhere went out of her way to burn me to crisps with accusations and insults, and block me again right after.
Saying how good she was off without me, had somebody better now, and how much of a dick I appearently was.
The part that hurted the most was that I never hurted or did her wrong, and only ever wanted best for her, plus the breakup was from her side..
And somehow she felt the need to send those texts..
All of this social media and technology has really hindered our communication skills. I feel like if people talked to each other face to face than texted, things would be a lot simpler.
Watching this video makes me feel really grateful that I have the friends and boyfriend that I do. (To anybody out there who has fights w their friends a lot: maybe you should read this, it might help) if there’s ever a problem, and somebody in my friend group can tell that somebody is getting heated, we try to deescalate the situation and talk things out calmly. If it’s ever over text, by the grace of god, my friends and I call each other to talk things out over the phone. Being petty and letting your anger out can feel really, really satisfying, don’t get me wrong; but at the end of the day, it won’t make your problems go away.
Over the past year or so, I’ve changed a lot as a person because of the friends who have let me feel comfortable with being vulnerable. I no longer feel the need to put up a guard that’s made of anger to keep people from getting to me, I can just let go for a second and talk things out. It’s nice :)
But yeah thanks for coming to my TedTalk
Texting is too easy to start fights.. try meditation, it helps with anger :P
Curiosity Culture But how? Do i just sit, relax and think?
Or maybe go to the gym and box
Entertained there’s guided meditations on UA-cam - Jason Stephenson 👌🏻
The sister with the social anxiety about the potatoes is projecting her insecurity onto the dad's gesture. It was made with no malice but b/c she's insecure she made it bigger in her mind by thinking it would draw overly unwanted attention and felt "embarrassed" asking for help. She needs therapy or to self-reflect more.
How I know: I used to be like her.
The gucci bag girl lmao
*Whenever I saw the video's title, it kinda reminds me on EVERY UA-cam VIDEO THAT HAPPENED IN THE COMMENT SECTIONS.*
If I can't say something to someone's face, I won't say it through text. I try to stay consistent with the way I communicate. It's not healthy to create some brave persona through texts.
So true. I have a friend of mine who always started the fight via Messenger, he is throwing me some very insulting words but he can't even do it to me in person, face to face. There are some people who are only warfreak via text messages or on messenger. Duh!
We're all here to relate...
and while you're still here, a moment of silence to all the comrades and friends we've lost because of impulsive angry texts...
0:42 was so passive-aggressive, you can clearly see they didn't intend to exclude her.
LMAOO Y’all need to make this again or a series bc this happens everyday and it’s wild
Texting your feelings usually ALWAYS end badly
I recently had a month long argument with two friends (a married couple). It went from me trying to apologize, to them attacking me, to them being upset that I was defending myself. They attacked my character, they played the victim, they played God, and it got so heated over text. I begged them to just meet up with me in person, just for them to lie to me about agreeing to talk in person. This huge fight all started the last time we saw each other in person, and as I remember it, I had excused myself calmly and left with my boyfriend. I told them both I needed to calm down and that I would talk with them later. After that, they just kept picking fights through text. Talk your problems out in person. Don’t hide behind your phones. I really wish they could have shown me that respect.
2:43 i dont really understand this one. Shes angry because the dad asked for potatoes?
he asked about the potatoes in her dish on her behalf. She has social anxiety and didn't wan't to ask because it feels perhaps like confrontational or bothersome when you have social anxiety. Know the waitress knows you had a question, they know you couldn't ask for yourself, they're looking at you and it makes you incredibly anxious throughout the entire experience and thereafter.
Rashelle Dawkins yes but she was being bitchy, she got angry at her dad for asking for her and refused to apologise or even admit what she did was wrong, having social anxiety is not an excuse for being a brat
@@lizzypoo0 ^^^^ THIS. FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT.
Liz
100% agree!!!
I saw Wendy & I immediately clicked! I love her!!!
one of my toxic ex friends literally started arguments with me for no reason and i ended up always apologizing. and one time she got so mad at me for saying "no" to someone else we were both close to... and what i said "no" to had NOTHING to do with her and i was just putting myself first for once lmfao
1:27 how u gonna say mind ur business if it’s both y’all business 😂🤦🏾♂️
I can relate to the guy @1:39😞the fact that your ex directly tells you that they’ve moved on with someone else & tell you to do the same is such a dagger to the heart. Sometimes it’s just not that easy & it takes awhile for some people to
They ain't even fighting well through texts. Or they maybe fight decently. For me, they are having just simple chat. I am a volcano when I fight through texts.
Yeah. These were tame in comparison to some of the text-fights I've had.
@@blushmuffin5259 literally same
okay but on the technical side, THAT LIGHTING THOOOOO 🔥 It's different and not spot..lighty, which works great.
these text fights were light. If i was reading mine there would be a lot of censoring that would have to happen lool.
aww the girl with the cool hair and glasses has such a sad story.Hope things work out for her and sge can learn and grown stronger from the situation.
I love how all of these people are mature enough to see both sides 💕 that’s all that matters
I can proudly say I learnt the power of silence and I have never had a fight over text :)
My fights usually start with "Do you put cereal or milk first?" and from there on its war
I just ignore negative text messages,
It sends a more powerful message than replying.
I can feel a fierce fight through the message.😵💫Watching this series makes me think that we live in an online world.
The title is literally me in group chats like no matter what I say I just get flighted back like I don't want no drama😭
2:35-3:16
Me: Wow that's... civil
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I actually almost lost my best friend cause of a misunderstanding in person but we didn’t have time to talk about it in person so we texted which made it worse,actually. But then we eventually worked it out through text 😂 weird how that happened.
these replies are *SAVAGE* 😂😂😂😂😂😂
"if i tell you smt in confidence, don’t use it against me when we argue"
factsssssssss
"I have one friend-" Lol, same!
3:50 her hair is blending in with the background, so beautiful but funny haha
3:45 I love her hair!
It’s interesting going back and looking at yourself in a heated state
I wanted to hug these people. Fighting in any manner is tough, but when it's through text, so many things can get taken out of context, misread.
None of these arguments i ever had was close to any of theirs, and I’m only 13.
Texting can lead to fighting even when it's not necessary that is why I hate texting
maria m-tzortz same !
There are so many reasons why people fight. It's an emotional engagement.
I love the Gucci bag girl😂💛
Do the last picture you toke with someone and tell the storie :D
I had some heated arguments with my s/o (significant other) through text, because we are a long distance relationship. The most heated one was when my s/o started having feelings for this boy. (My s/o is bisexual, and we are the same gender.) We were arguing all the time, and were not getting along, so this boy was her distraction from our relationship problems. We have been communicating more, and we are open with each other. She goes back to school today, and she is going to be around him, so wish me luck, I guess? 😅
Jason tysm for coming to WashU St Louis 💕 I was too shy to come up to you but I appreciate you speaking to us at the mental health conference
I think solving each other's conflicts through text messages is also very helpful. Because we have time to think about each other's
2:20 you maybe think that her sister is bad or something. But, as a girl with social anxiety. I can understand what she feel. And why she did that.
I can't agree with that but I understand that.
Like if you have social anxiety, that's going to be interesting.
To the last girl,
An incident of him waiting for you for two hours could not have been the only reason for your breakup with your friend. Maybe things had been bottling up for a very long time without you knowing it and it was that particular time when he couldn’t handle it anymore.
Just saying. I hope you’ll talk to your friend
Indeed there are a lot of people who do things that are really irritating and inconsiderate and generally aren’t aware of them. It’s usually small things that you’d let slide each time because individually they’re not that big of a deal but collectively paint their personality in a more negative light.
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My friend and I had arguments all the time, for about 8 months. We talked about the problems and misunderstandings we had, now we are friends again
People after this video:
*opinion on how they should have reacted, what they should have said, how the person is a bad or good person, how they feel like they should have done beforehand*
Them also:
*would never reveal all the texts the have sent to argue w/ people because they have also made mistakes*
my biggest text fight was with my college roommate about her wanting me to leave at 1 am for her boyfriend to come over. It was pretty awkward seeing each other in person cause we always were good in person, then we argued over text and awkwardly tried to act normal again.
I listened to a podcast recently that stated 3 things you shouldn't have over texts; debates, disagreements & discussion & I couldn't agree more...
Everyone is so cute
I can see your personality
2:35 I can relate tho I get bad anxiety going out or asking stuff so when my mum asks for this or that I get embarrassed or angry idk why,.oof
Yeah I got super bad anxiety like I cant even talk to myself without being judged by myself! Life sucks man 😭🙏
so we are getting updated on how jason's hair is getting longer per video but no updates on the aftermath of 36 questions eps?? (i love jubilee i just want to know how their second dates went lmao)
im here after watching people reading their last messages from their loved ones because i needed something i wouldnt cry to lmao
Jubilee's got good content 🙌
1:03 pissed me off so much, i'm so happy the dude got rid of this chick
Txmilx ssi how is she in the wrong
@@why5137? Because she said unnecessary stuff about her being happy now over a like. Let him be. If you really enjoy your life that bad, you don't need to put it out there as if you're asking for gratification. She didn't take his feelings in account and thought selfishly with the intention to hurt him and feel better about herself.
1:38. My life in a nutshell
This only just came up on my recommended but the instrumental near the end of the video sounds like a weird rendition of avatars love and it was a nice suprise 🥰
Texts are something else to me. I told my first love that I loved her via text and I told that same love that I hated her and to never associate with me again via text. I'll never regret the first part but I'll forever regret the second part. Even though I called her and apologized from the bottom of my heart the relationship was already gone. Texting has too much power in that in the heat of a moment we could ruin relationships and friendships. So now I don't text for fun.