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  • In the final episode of Season 2, Carrie shows up after Mr. Big's engagement party and asks him the important question we were all wondering: ""Why wasn’t it me?""
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  • @HBO
    @HBO  3 роки тому +133

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  • @Kristin2885
    @Kristin2885 Рік тому +5866

    Ladies, when your ex is getting married, resist the urge to be whimsically dramatic and show him how untameable you are. Don't put on something semi-bridal, do your hair and stalk him outside his engagement party with that look. Just don't do stuff like this. This is how you reveal yourself to be a crazy person.

    • @MsLemon1971
      @MsLemon1971 Рік тому +130

      Lol😂😂

    • @EstherRimert
      @EstherRimert Рік тому +111

      😂😂😂 so good and true

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru Рік тому +223

      Or the one who he’s glad got away. It wreaked of desperation.

    • @Maya-ig9kx
      @Maya-ig9kx Рік тому +134

      This is great! Well said! You should write advice columns - not Carrie Bradshaw!

    • @c.c.6930
      @c.c.6930 Рік тому +36

      I love this comment!Precious!

  • @missbubbles8367
    @missbubbles8367 3 роки тому +9845

    This should have been how their relationship ended.

    • @aszak8654
      @aszak8654 3 роки тому +437

      Yes and I hope Carrie was not so forgiving towards him . So many chances .. in a way I lost respect for her. And I wonder always is it Big she loved or his status?

    • @Alena-xoxo
      @Alena-xoxo 3 роки тому +465

      Agreed! He seemed like a child in a man's body lol ...Aidan was sooo the one I wanted her to end up with

    • @HealingQuest777
      @HealingQuest777 3 роки тому +159

      The mystery of life and relationships not always rationnal

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish 3 роки тому +19

      no..

    • @chriscyjimflores2326
      @chriscyjimflores2326 3 роки тому +31

      it did not happen because Carrie is dumb

  • @amormio4293
    @amormio4293 3 роки тому +5397

    Carrie: I need to run free and be wild.
    Also Carrie: I will never stop trying to get Big to settle down with me.

  • @jasresearch7218
    @jasresearch7218 10 місяців тому +884

    It is sheer desperation. If a man does not want you - LET GO. Let him go. And do not turn up to his engagement party.

    • @ingada
      @ingada 7 місяців тому +8

      Want to marry, and want you physically is different

    • @selvinortiz3962
      @selvinortiz3962 3 місяці тому +2

      HE invited her?????

    • @HeidiAtuafulMJ
      @HeidiAtuafulMJ 3 місяці тому +6

      He clearly does want her if he’s leaving his fiancé to go talk to her

    • @Winter0305
      @Winter0305 2 дні тому

      He invited her and she was just casually wanted to visit the venue..may be watch the whole ep

  • @ND-nx1nt
    @ND-nx1nt 11 місяців тому +587

    It's giving "pick me,choose me, love me"

  • @Mrs.Currie
    @Mrs.Currie 11 місяців тому +1228

    Very rude and hurtful of him to leave his fiance waiting in the car while he chats with his ex, and very rude of Carrie to seek out a chat with her ex when she knew his fiance was waiting in the car. At their engagement party. It probably ruined her day.

    • @dianakistaubaeva9321
      @dianakistaubaeva9321 9 місяців тому +128

      and the HAIR STREAK!!!! the audacity

    • @pearpo
      @pearpo 9 місяців тому +45

      People show you who they are though. If that was Mr. Big’s priority, it’s good Natasha saw it. And it will be clearer onward that he may not have his priorities aligned with her.

    • @TrueWalker88
      @TrueWalker88 9 місяців тому +34

      Both women knew full well what kind of guy they were getting involved with.

    • @Mrs.Currie
      @Mrs.Currie 9 місяців тому +56

      @@TrueWalker88 Carrie, yes, but Natasha, I'm not so sure. We didn't really see their relationship.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize 9 місяців тому +31

      When it came to dating and relationships Carrie's morals weren't the best. She did what she wanted without regard to how it would affect others. This the same Carrie that cheated on Aiden and began an affair with that woman's husband. So rude is an understatement.

  • @josefinebliss2801
    @josefinebliss2801 Рік тому +2769

    This here says it all. I think that Big really liked Carrie all along but she was too difficult. Carrie is the type of woman she'll never be satisfied, and Natasha she's more independant so she won't act needy with him. It's pretty simple. Then he got bored because deep down he craves drama too because he's not as stable of a person as he thinks he is. Needless to say Carrie and Big are a perfect match, but for all the wrong reasons. Really they both needed therapy instead of chasing relationships.

    • @cloudsurfer73
      @cloudsurfer73 Рік тому +191

      You’re speaking the truth. Seen this happen in real life with people who complain about crazy ex but then never realize it’s them that likes drama

    • @georginahollifield5669
      @georginahollifield5669 Рік тому +4

      Literally

    • @jessethepersiankitty2377
      @jessethepersiankitty2377 Рік тому +19

      If you'd seen the movie The Way We Were you would have got it.

    • @glorias.2930
      @glorias.2930 Рік тому +7

      Well said! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @calisha1889
      @calisha1889 Рік тому +11

      @@jessethepersiankitty2377I know that’s the reference but I feel like even if you haven’t seen it, this analysis isn’t wrong, right?

  • @sparkynutters690
    @sparkynutters690 3 роки тому +4481

    “I had no intention of going in but it was on my way home”...... naah I think you just wanted your daily drama fix 😅

    • @BriEntAnderson
      @BriEntAnderson 3 роки тому +159

      Well it wouldn’t be the first time she stalked him.

    • @liams4728
      @liams4728 3 роки тому +88

      It’s always got to be about Carrie or she just ain’t interested

    • @TheGo0nberg
      @TheGo0nberg 3 роки тому +96

      Then why she walking the other way when she finished talking to him 🤔

    • @Mexicobeanpole
      @Mexicobeanpole 3 роки тому +67

      Yep. It was a low class thing to do showing up there.

    • @CleopatraSelene11
      @CleopatraSelene11 3 роки тому +136

      The way she made eye contact with Natasha and then touched his face, she totally did it on purpose.

  • @piatmal49
    @piatmal49 3 роки тому +600

    THIS is an example of what a woman should NEVER do...

    • @KMnnA
      @KMnnA 4 місяці тому

      100%

    • @rg2265
      @rg2265 2 місяці тому

      😉

    • @ObservingtheMatrix
      @ObservingtheMatrix 25 днів тому

      Totally Disagree! Do the cringe thing. Have the awkward moment. Live with no regret because in the end it never mattered.

    • @Kate-lk6tw
      @Kate-lk6tw 18 днів тому

      Or a man

    • @Kate-lk6tw
      @Kate-lk6tw 18 днів тому +1

      @@ObservingtheMatrixI would regret this for ever.

  • @lisal7291
    @lisal7291 2 роки тому +2471

    If my man talked and was touched by a woman like that right after our engagement, the relationship would've over then and there🤣

    • @lindseyz8757
      @lindseyz8757 Рік тому +97

      I KNOW RIGHT

    • @susanparsons9365
      @susanparsons9365 Рік тому +27

      Why? He didn’t do anything.

    • @naty_327
      @naty_327 Рік тому +9

      That part 😂💯

    • @EughhBrothereughh
      @EughhBrothereughh Рік тому

      @@susanparsons9365 then go marry someone who accepts that and doesnt do anything to stop a woman from touching him. You have low standards

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho Рік тому +8

      Period. ❤

  • @DarlingEbony
    @DarlingEbony 3 роки тому +3905

    This should have been the end. However, think of all of the times after this that he disrespected her, including leaving her high and dry on their wedding day. I always wanted her with Aidan because he was healthier and nicer. I think Hollywood does women a disservice by always pushing these "struggle love", "against all odds" romances that never work like this in real life. We are programmed to accept dysfunction from men.

    • @barboralitvanova5111
      @barboralitvanova5111 3 роки тому +100

      But Carrie didn’t love Aidan. She settled for him because she could not have Big at that moment. Would you rather the message was women should settle for the nice guy and hope to cheat with the guy they actually love and want to be with when they can but stick with the nice guy for security?

    • @DarlingEbony
      @DarlingEbony 3 роки тому +283

      @@barboralitvanova5111 I would have preferred the message be that healthy relationships can be beautiful and romantic versus a codependent relationship filled with narcissistic abuse.

    • @pinkunicornbeliever2007
      @pinkunicornbeliever2007 3 роки тому +14

      So true. I agree.

    • @barboralitvanova5111
      @barboralitvanova5111 3 роки тому +76

      @@DarlingEbony Dear god people need to stop overusing the term narcissist. Just because someone doesn’t do what you want from them doesn’t mean they are abusive.

    • @DarlingEbony
      @DarlingEbony 3 роки тому +36

      @@barboralitvanova5111 If you looked up the traits of a narcissist, you would see that Big fit the bill.

  • @zazilicious
    @zazilicious 3 роки тому +3531

    I must say that she looks stunning in that scene like wow 🤩🔥💯

  • @cazzalyric
    @cazzalyric 2 роки тому +511

    Can you imagine this happening to you on your engagement? She couldn't just let Natasha have her day...Who does that? They're both as bad as each other🙄

    • @cazzalyric
      @cazzalyric 2 роки тому +4

      @universal Oh yes..I forgot🤭 Same sentiment though. Thank-you

    • @cazzalyric
      @cazzalyric 2 роки тому +1

      @universal Corrected 🙂

    • @ChristieAdamsKangoo
      @ChristieAdamsKangoo 2 роки тому +74

      This just shows how toxic and selfish Carrie is. She shows up (in a white dress, no less) to his engagement party and demands to know why he didn't choose her? UGH

    • @cheriejones4782
      @cheriejones4782 Рік тому +4

      Speak now or forever hold your peace

    • @nnnnnnnnnnn7292
      @nnnnnnnnnnn7292 11 місяців тому +12

      Actually it was Natasha who didn't act right.
      She saw that Big and Carry had loooooooots of unfinished business between them.
      Carry was abused by Big for a long time. And got discarded after years of stringing on.
      She felt hurt, and naturally had a surge to find out why he did it.
      Big didn't cut their cord either. He damaged both Carrie and Natasha. Typical narcissistic triangulation.

  • @nschone7492
    @nschone7492 3 роки тому +1519

    Great writing on the show... all of her epiphanies about love were self centered, jealous, comparative, insecure. She tried hard to believe her own hype and to be strong. But really she was just a little girl and hoping this guy would love her back the same way. She became consumed with it because he didn't. Just like a real person in real life.

    • @MelisJoy
      @MelisJoy 3 роки тому +39

      Well said

    • @loveswintertrees
      @loveswintertrees 2 роки тому +22

      Beautifully said

    • @the1whereIwatch
      @the1whereIwatch Рік тому +57

      I agree! Carrie is such a well-written character. She’s completely rooted in reality.

    • @Devina210
      @Devina210 Рік тому +1

      Spot on!

    • @rebelraccoon9018
      @rebelraccoon9018 Рік тому +32

      Well Carrie's dad abandoned her when she was a child so it's understandable that she dealt with insecurity etc.

  • @mada7393
    @mada7393 3 роки тому +570

    Oh Carrie... he disrespected her SO many times!

    • @veganrunner5634
      @veganrunner5634 3 роки тому +76

      That is because she had no respect to herself she should have left him the first time he disrespected her. Women should never run after men.

    • @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife
      @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife 3 роки тому +45

      @@veganrunner5634 no one should run after anyone who doesn't show them respect.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 роки тому +2

      🙂 Mmmm. Not sure you think about that, when crazily obsessed with the MrB who flits through your life. In hindsight comes into play here..

    • @susanparsons9365
      @susanparsons9365 Рік тому +1

      I don’t think he disrespected here. She wanted more and pushed.

  • @floatingsara
    @floatingsara 11 місяців тому +177

    "He's just not THAT into you" ❤

  • @costaa5344
    @costaa5344 3 роки тому +536

    Interesting how she has a white dress on, kinda bridal looking. But at this point this should've been the end for these two

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish 3 роки тому +21

      yes.. usually it's Natasha who is in white (on purpose), but this time, it's Carrie..

    • @chriscyjimflores2326
      @chriscyjimflores2326 3 роки тому +20

      @@KishBish never thought of that, despite watching the series many times

    • @bettyrivers5503
      @bettyrivers5503 2 роки тому +12

      @@KishBish I noticed that too. Also Natasha appears to be wearing black when she always wore white.

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish 2 роки тому +1

      @@bettyrivers5503 yes!

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish 2 роки тому +2

      @@chriscyjimflores2326 I hadn't noticed either until I heard MPK's commentary on the DVD set.. I was like ahhhh okay.. they wanted her to appear "beige", like Big said..

  • @mimim6857
    @mimim6857 3 роки тому +551

    The more I watch this show the more I realize how toxic Big and Carrie’s relationship was.

    • @Oliveira.251
      @Oliveira.251 Рік тому +3

      Me too !

    • @lauraroman5186
      @lauraroman5186 Рік тому +13

      They are the worst 😂😅

    • @AnnaSpatar
      @AnnaSpatar Рік тому +25

      She had massive daddy issues and he called her ‘kid’

    • @Pinkranger87
      @Pinkranger87 Рік тому +3

      So were all of her relationships

    • @Alloniya
      @Alloniya Рік тому +4

      @@AnnaSpatarwe all have mammy or daddy issues

  • @amandabre
    @amandabre 2 роки тому +598

    I loved her look in season 2. Her long blonde curly hair always caught my eye everytime she was on screen lol. I remember how much I wanted that look. Still do.

    • @neshwhat702
      @neshwhat702 2 роки тому +19

      I permed my hair because of her. Boy, did I get the praise! People still talk about my curly hair.

    • @amandabre
      @amandabre 2 роки тому +10

      @@neshwhat702 I did too! 🤣🤣 I have really long black hair and it costed me 200 to perm it. But I loved every second of my big curly hair. I miss it alot haha

    • @neshwhat702
      @neshwhat702 2 роки тому +2

      @@amandabre me too.

    • @thewokeabout
      @thewokeabout Рік тому +1

      Didn't everyone

    • @Jimminityjabooboo
      @Jimminityjabooboo Рік тому +3

      Then go do it

  • @tiagarner8923
    @tiagarner8923 Рік тому +91

    No hate, but this scene is where Carrie LOOKED HER BEST. I’ve been enchanted by her in this scene since I was like 10. She’s fierce.

  • @jeets2052
    @jeets2052 Рік тому +62

    Big always thought Carrie was not enough for him, he never introduced her to his mum or friends.

    • @suzyyoung4693
      @suzyyoung4693 Місяць тому +2

      they are not from the same class, dating is fine, but never a marriage.

  • @kantik2118
    @kantik2118 Рік тому +103

    Such an awful moment for a woman: how Can you chase a man like this?
    You didn't choose me, ok! I would've change city or even planet and completely erase your name from my memories ! Who do you think you are ?
    Ladies, have self respect and always choose yourself over a man's attention.

    • @MargaretAnderson-ti1sw
      @MargaretAnderson-ti1sw 6 місяців тому +7

      I' wouldn't be caught dead crashing his engagement party to another woman. Makes her look desperate and needy.

    • @regaliaretailfashionmerch4314
      @regaliaretailfashionmerch4314 5 місяців тому +1

      It must've taken some guts though and strong will to even go there, couldn't have been easy, sometimes just keeping away would have been the easier choice, maybe
      My problem is that she ends up forgiving him later, that should've never happened

    • @subratanandy2142
      @subratanandy2142 4 місяці тому +3

      Why bother changing city or planet ?? Just living my life would've been enough .

  • @bw6148
    @bw6148 3 роки тому +296

    Wow the caress on his cheek after his fiancé was clearly watching from the car 😂

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 2 роки тому +83

      So disrespectful

    • @zoeevans6410
      @zoeevans6410 2 роки тому +56

      Such a (lame) power play.

    • @townsendagency6780
      @townsendagency6780 Рік тому +15

      its a reference to a movie from the 70s lighten up ppl

    • @drknow1997
      @drknow1997 Рік тому +6

      Carrie is a bad mind gal

    • @Chrisy0850
      @Chrisy0850 Рік тому +10

      ​@@townsendagency6780it's from the way we were with Barbra Streisand and Robert Redford, she called him Hubble

  • @brontiq
    @brontiq 3 роки тому +753

    Carrie was sooo kidding herself here. If he dumped this young hot chick he in fact chose over her and ask her to get back with him she would jump at him so fast he couldn't even blink. She simply created the explanation for herself so it wouldn't hurt that much

    • @RTCPhotoWork
      @RTCPhotoWork 2 роки тому +60

      That's exactly what a lot of people do. They either lie to themselves making the other the bad guy, wallow and read into everything to make themselves the bad guy, or have a healthy grieving process.

    • @luzmaya7787
      @luzmaya7787 2 роки тому +9

      This is literally the only episode I've watched of the show. (I was surfing channels and stayed because of the movie references) Yesterday I saw posts on how Carrie was upset about Big leaving his ex-wife a million dollars and my thoughts went back to this episode along with a rather scathing sentiment: Carrie Bradshaw must have been full of herself to believe that she was in the same league as Katie Morosky.
      Or course, perhaps it's an unfair feeling to have, I don't watch the show after all.

    • @fayepatrice1672
      @fayepatrice1672 2 роки тому +53

      She has a point though. He dated Carrie, even when he had access to a thousand young hot women, so he had to be attracted to her. That was never the issue. It was more about conflicting personalities and goals. Carrie is saying that if she was more complacent and "easier" for him to deal with, he might have chosen her. Sounds plausible to me.

    • @potato-whiz
      @potato-whiz 2 роки тому +31

      @@fayepatrice1672 she was also needy and created drama all the time. They were a mess. He was distant, she pushed too hard and wouldn’t never let the little things go. This is just her convincing herself that she wasn’t the problem. “It wasn’t that Big couldn’t handle my bs anymore. It’s that I was too free and independent and cool for him to handle so he ran off to someone who was way more boring than me. I’m amazing and better and everyone knows it.”

    • @fhp9017
      @fhp9017 2 роки тому +10

      And she’s right

  • @bedtimestoriesforkids9755
    @bedtimestoriesforkids9755 Рік тому +212

    "Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed"... Seriously Carrie? You were hoping he would tame you, you were begging he tame you and when he didn't, you "accidentally" went to his wedding to catch him and ask why he didn't tame you when you were so ready to be tamed.
    This, my friends, is a perfect example for cognitive dissonance

    • @thuridpeine7616
      @thuridpeine7616 5 місяців тому +1

      It's a phantasie! An entertaining show for ladies, get a grip!

    • @Audio_Lu
      @Audio_Lu 4 місяці тому +4

      @user-os2gm6hv9lwell said. Very dismissive and if tables were turned, they would have cried FOUL… incessantly 😂

    • @sedakuday610
      @sedakuday610 4 місяці тому +2

      No, that's desperation.

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 10 місяців тому +85

    "Your girl is lovely, Hubble". She's saying the line from the end scene of "The Way We Were".

    • @DuckyB
      @DuckyB 4 місяці тому +5

      It was such a great line!

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 4 місяці тому +4

      @@DuckyB Similar scenery too. The marquee looks very similar to the one behind Hubble in the Way We Were. I wonder if they actually shot this scene from the same location!

    • @DuckyB
      @DuckyB 4 місяці тому +3

      @@Pacifica74 My favorite line was “He was like the country he lived in, everything came too easy for him. But at least he knew it”. Also “I’ve got pie”. Great movie!!!!

    • @ladykfirst
      @ladykfirst 3 місяці тому

      I never knew Hubble had another girl. Need to watch TWWW again

  • @blackirishrose4040
    @blackirishrose4040 3 роки тому +341

    She's toxic he's toxic they are complete match.

    • @lunadiary2930
      @lunadiary2930 2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @lunadiary2930
      @lunadiary2930 2 роки тому +1

      I do agree! 🤯😩

    • @xaositectz
      @xaositectz 2 місяці тому

      if you think this is toxic you have been living in a bubble

  • @swagatapathak
    @swagatapathak 2 роки тому +129

    She should have left him here forever. This scene was bold and good. All the things with him afterwards were mistakes and destroyed her inner peace

  • @surfergirljen
    @surfergirljen 3 роки тому +960

    What a scene. One of my favorites of the whole series.

    • @l.m.stewart
      @l.m.stewart 2 роки тому +3

      Jennifer, I had the exact same comment. Great minds think alike.

    • @naligo007
      @naligo007 Рік тому +1

      same ❤

    • @karenmonson9893
      @karenmonson9893 9 місяців тому +1

      I agree 💯💢💥!

  • @Amanda-pz1rr
    @Amanda-pz1rr 3 роки тому +800

    what they did in front of Big's wife is very disrespectful to her...

    • @MysticDivinerLJ
      @MysticDivinerLJ 3 роки тому +60

      YES! I just noticed that she did that right in front of her!

    • @cmlewis6447
      @cmlewis6447 3 роки тому +20

      RIGHT!

    • @christinavb355
      @christinavb355 3 роки тому +87

      Big was always disrespectful to carrie but nobody talks about that. People only blame her.

    • @Nirobiscloset10
      @Nirobiscloset10 3 роки тому +3

      Yup

    • @justamop9395
      @justamop9395 3 роки тому +10

      Well that is mostly his mistake for being confused and complicated with all his choices. And mainly confusing Carrie.

  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni 3 роки тому +1620

    He never really loved her until the final episode. It took him years to realise how good she was to him.

    • @theCatsitter878
      @theCatsitter878 3 роки тому +286

      @Psychology major yeah, also she became successful with books and Vogue so he wasn't embarassed anymore

    • @c4rmen.
      @c4rmen. 3 роки тому +260

      they are both terrible people, they deserve each other

    • @jacquiew.9165
      @jacquiew.9165 3 роки тому +19

      @Psychology major Considering she had left the country with another man...You're wrong.

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish 3 роки тому +70

      he definitely loved her years before.. he just didn't know how to show it.. and she wasn't ready to receive it back then anyway.. they both had to separate to grow..

    • @liams4728
      @liams4728 3 роки тому +9

      @@c4rmen. I’m glad other people see this too

  • @mariea82
    @mariea82 3 роки тому +417

    Mr big was an awful guy…Aiden was gorgeous and treated her well

    • @tariktokalija452
      @tariktokalija452 3 роки тому +24

      and that's what you get from treating people good, perfect example

    • @paranoidandroid1997
      @paranoidandroid1997 2 роки тому +62

      Carrie was awful to Aiden.

    • @SwimmerPrince
      @SwimmerPrince 2 роки тому +21

      Aiden just doesn't have that spark

    • @GGggG-yz2uk
      @GGggG-yz2uk 2 роки тому +3

      upper tier 9’s and 10’s dont want nice guys. Once I learned that, my dating life went from zero to hero status.

    • @kim_fd8938
      @kim_fd8938 2 роки тому +17

      The heart wants what the heart wants

  • @grgn7786
    @grgn7786 10 місяців тому +26

    I think the answer is that Big was never really into Carrie. She was his friends with benefits thing, a fling. There were many signs early on that he was not into her, but she ignored them all. For example, when he took her to a Chinese restaurant, where not so many people would see him with her, or the fact that he did not stop dating other women, after starting seeing her.

    • @MissTia777
      @MissTia777 9 місяців тому

      They married

    • @grgn7786
      @grgn7786 9 місяців тому +15

      @@MissTia777 Their marriage is a pure fantasy. That is why their relationship is criticized by the critics as it shows an unrealistic scenario and projects unrealistic expectations for viewers. It is that women will think that a man, who does not value them, will magically change their behavior and marry them. They just need to wait long enough (actually for years) and forgive a man everything. In real life, Carrie and Big would have never ended up together.

    • @MissTia777
      @MissTia777 9 місяців тому

      @@grgn7786 The whole show is fantasy. But it with all the roller coaster episodes between them, they still got married!

    • @grgn7786
      @grgn7786 9 місяців тому +9

      @@MissTia777 I understand your point. The thing is that in the first seasons the writers showed quite realistic character dynamics and struggles in their relationship, while the happy ending was forced and unnatural. There were no back story or character development done to make their marriage look less unrealistic and believable.

  • @user-qz7yq7bq6e
    @user-qz7yq7bq6e 3 роки тому +593

    He never really loved her and she was too much into him, also they r from different social levels, for some ppl that means a lot. So it's nothing about being wild, what's wild in Carry? She's always forgiving, waiting him, ready to run as soon as he gives a sign and say "wanna have fun, I'm single again". She's also not complicated character, maybe a bit too dramatic😅, but nothing extra, so it's not like he couldn't understand her, he just didn't want to. But that's not nice truth, so she's choosing to believe in different ideas, kind of psychological protection. That's just not meant to be, no love, no good connection, only romance mostly in her imagination, and immature behaviour. He never thought about her serious and she created whole story in her head. But for series romantic line this dialog is much more matching, of course 😀 just not trustworthy for me.

    • @qvdohaus7531
      @qvdohaus7531 3 роки тому +55

      omg yes that's the truth. big was just not into carrie.

    • @jacquiew.9165
      @jacquiew.9165 3 роки тому +27

      @@qvdohaus7531 He was so not into her that he traveled to Paris to get her. Yep. That's not being into someone. Lol!

    • @SanFranDentist94301
      @SanFranDentist94301 3 роки тому +46

      A guy that was "into" would have NEVER taken so many chances at losing her to 1, 2, 3 other eligible men.
      Lets not count the flings between Aiden, Aiden, Berger, and The Russian.

    • @loveswintertrees
      @loveswintertrees 3 роки тому +15

      Are you a therapist? You probably should be

    • @WacoBeautyQueen
      @WacoBeautyQueen 3 роки тому +38

      @@jacquiew.9165 lol he wasn’t into her he was just trynna get his working mule back, the only woman who would stand his bull for years.

  • @Introvertsan
    @Introvertsan 3 роки тому +64

    I was never into them Carrie did too much to Bigg and Bigg always got up and ran away like a magical elusive princess. She always was more into him than he was into her.

  • @Elizabeth-tk2fx
    @Elizabeth-tk2fx Місяць тому +5

    “your girl is lovely Hubbell” she though she nailed that and it was so cringe. Even Big was like ‘???’

    • @alexanderguerrero347
      @alexanderguerrero347 3 дні тому

      Right like they talk about the movie. But she does it perfectly but big has no idea of the reference.

  • @red515ify
    @red515ify Рік тому +32

    Well that was embarrassing… never let a man tell you 2x he doesn’t want you

  • @liluhaas
    @liluhaas 3 роки тому +114

    her body is popping bruh

    • @amelieb1013
      @amelieb1013 6 місяців тому +10

      and yet her rationality is floppin

  • @avalangrin4904
    @avalangrin4904 3 роки тому +230

    I was on Carrie’s side until she cheated on Aiden with Big. It was at that point that I didn’t buy all her “I’m looking for love.” BS. SITC really promoted toxic unstable relationships. It was an entertaining series for many reasons, but those female characters were not good examples of women looking for mature stable relationships.

    • @Natalia-pc7fm
      @Natalia-pc7fm 2 роки тому +9

      I agree full on! I think some mistakes I made had to do with watching SITC.

    • @rebelraccoon9018
      @rebelraccoon9018 2 роки тому +9

      @@Natalia-pc7fm who takes advice from a fictional show?

    • @Natalia-pc7fm
      @Natalia-pc7fm 2 роки тому +21

      @@rebelraccoon9018 Oh, we've all been young and foolish at one point or another...

    • @cameliamihaila222
      @cameliamihaila222 Рік тому +1

      Big was the love of her life .

    • @Oshiiiiiiiiiiii
      @Oshiiiiiiiiiiii Рік тому +6

      ​@@rebelraccoon9018 why be rude??

  • @jordanlake471
    @jordanlake471 3 роки тому +79

    This is one of my favorite Carrie looks

  • @eylulayberk
    @eylulayberk 3 роки тому +211

    That would have been great if their realionship had ended after this scene.

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 2 роки тому +2

      In the real story, it did end like this.

  • @StephanieProulxLangenheim
    @StephanieProulxLangenheim Місяць тому +3

    She made a fool of herself with that Hubble comment. 😂

  • @micheleking3160
    @micheleking3160 3 роки тому +171

    Mr. Big was a snob. Carrie wasn’t pretty enough for him and didn’t come from his type of people.

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 3 роки тому +59

      I always thought the same. To Big, Carrie was a "good-time girl" but not wife material. I remember that episode where he didn't even want to introduce her to his friends

    • @Honeybees1005
      @Honeybees1005 3 роки тому +17

      @@vegasgirl3538 or his mother. She had to stalk him at her church

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 3 роки тому +5

      @@Honeybees1005 Oh, wow, I'd forgotten about that one. And didn't he introduce her as a "friend" or something like that? He gave no indication that they were dating.

    • @mariadoloresmartinezmembri1089
      @mariadoloresmartinezmembri1089 2 роки тому +2

      I agree with you

    • @GinaSigillito
      @GinaSigillito 2 роки тому +9

      This is really the truth. The series rewrote the ending to make it otherwise, but he even hesitated on their wedding day.

  • @aann7132
    @aann7132 3 роки тому +42

    Carrie was SO desperate. Men flee from desperation every time.

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo 3 місяці тому

      Women too... I just realized how much Carrie is like my ex..... And nooo that's not an attractive thing..... 😅

  • @likeit2nerdymusigirl
    @likeit2nerdymusigirl 3 роки тому +80

    This dress, mama mia!!

  • @gypsydoratarot8441
    @gypsydoratarot8441 3 роки тому +157

    This scene really stuck with me.

    • @azaar2386
      @azaar2386 3 роки тому +1

      Can we talking sweetheart

  • @ketop
    @ketop 3 роки тому +85

    “I don’t get it”
    “And you never did” 💀💀

  • @chai848
    @chai848 2 роки тому +280

    The original series was so artfully written. High brow art. Nothing like AJLT.

  • @wanted0307
    @wanted0307 Рік тому +42

    I don’t know how she managed saying it without crying hysterically. 😅

  • @kath1193
    @kath1193 2 роки тому +31

    This scene gives me major "pick me" vibes from Carrie

  • @requiemoftruth
    @requiemoftruth 2 роки тому +159

    The HD remaster is amazing. Watching the original three seasons in widescreen HD is such a trip. It’s like a brand new old show.

    • @marvinlagamia4046
      @marvinlagamia4046 2 роки тому +2

      Can you tell me where I can watch the remastered version? 😊

    • @janellcharm
      @janellcharm 2 роки тому

      @@marvinlagamia4046 hbo max

    • @NidaKazmi
      @NidaKazmi Рік тому +2

      Where can you watch it?

    • @msyxoxo
      @msyxoxo Рік тому +2

      On hbo I think

  • @emilyjane5797
    @emilyjane5797 2 роки тому +25

    Carrie is absolutely stunning here

  • @auremybenamor
    @auremybenamor 2 роки тому +59

    Only death could set Big free from Carrie.
    And that's exactly what happened in "And just like that"

  • @alemscbcr
    @alemscbcr 2 роки тому +31

    Carrie looking "empowered and liberated", and she ends up marrying him 🙄🙄🙄

  • @verakukic243
    @verakukic243 2 роки тому +50

    I just now realised how incredibly creepy Carrie is. She is wearing a white dress. I mean, I remembered it already, but I didn't think about the meaning. We don't make gala engagement celebrations in my country, but I've seen a lot of wedding portals, all suggesting that the future bride should be wearing a white cocktail dress. Someone as fashion-aware as Carrie, was very aware not only of the symbolism, but also of the fact Natasha might be wearing the exact same dress. And while Natasha is shown waiting in the car, Carrie is touching him! I mean, how creepy would it be if the genders were reversed! If the bride's ex boyfriend showed up uninvited to her engagement party, asking her questions about their relationship, touching her... her fiance would probably hit him in the next scene! And here we are supposed to root for Carrie!

    • @mystaminacantakethis
      @mystaminacantakethis 2 роки тому +6

      You know that the character doesn’t choose the symbolism but the writers? They chose to portray her as the jilted bride, to drive the message home to the viewer. It was subtle enough, she didn’t show up in a long gown and a veil lol.

    • @someoneyoudontknow7705
      @someoneyoudontknow7705 Рік тому

      @@mystaminacantakethis No 💩😒. Your comment doesn’t change anything.

  • @_PURAVIDA
    @_PURAVIDA 2 роки тому +63

    My all time favorite episode. The essence of SATC :clever, funny and real emotions

  • @watsongr1363
    @watsongr1363 2 роки тому +24

    The only time Carrie didn't take a taxi to go home.

  • @l.m.stewart
    @l.m.stewart 2 роки тому +41

    That was one of my favorite scenes in that entire series.

    • @chai848
      @chai848 2 роки тому +2

      Me too!! Masterful and seem less metaphor!

  • @Alex22.22
    @Alex22.22 24 дні тому +1

    Carries best look, best hair and best line of the whole series.

  • @luisagreen9394
    @luisagreen9394 3 роки тому +51

    I loved that show. Didn't get into it till later..some people have had a mr BIG in their lives.

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 Рік тому +116

    The way Carrie looked at the fiancée and made sure she was looking when she caressed Bug’s face was savage!!!

    • @champagnexoxo1198
      @champagnexoxo1198 Рік тому +79

      More like ridiculous

    • @Lavender_dazed
      @Lavender_dazed Рік тому +8

      ​@@champagnexoxo1198 yep, ridiculous

    • @mariafortino3450
      @mariafortino3450 Рік тому +21

      more like weird and gross

    • @hayaglamazonluxe
      @hayaglamazonluxe Рік тому +37

      Not savage, more like desperate and stalkerish.

    • @bessieinoti9381
      @bessieinoti9381 8 місяців тому +9

      No, it just showed how crazy and desperate she was. It achieved nothing. Fiancee went on and lived her life and din't give a hoot.

  • @Chrstne81
    @Chrstne81 2 роки тому +51

    I can relate to how Carrie feels in this scene.

  • @digitallyshelby
    @digitallyshelby 3 роки тому +21

    Loved her hair like this

  • @gwynnielsen5081
    @gwynnielsen5081 11 місяців тому +62

    Even though it is derivative, this is still a classic moment on the screen. They tell you they want easy, but they always return to the tough ones.

    • @CC-2020
      @CC-2020 9 місяців тому +1

      Can you elaborate further please

    • @gwynnielsen5081
      @gwynnielsen5081 9 місяців тому +8

      @@CC-2020 Men will tell you they want women who are "trouble free," but they tend to keep returning to women who are "trouble." "The trouble with trouble is that it starts out as fun." Men keep remembering the "fun" and not the "trouble," so they stick out the relationship, living for the fun moments no matter how brief they are.

    • @gwynnielsen5081
      @gwynnielsen5081 4 місяці тому

      @user-os2gm6hv9l Yes, I have been through therapy and even dated a therapist who was a big help, but he had his own issues. Don't we all? My music (on UA-cam) is therapy for me. Best I've ever had. Take care!

    • @subratanandy2142
      @subratanandy2142 4 місяці тому

      That's wrong. They marry the good ones and cheat on those poor women with the dramatic ones . And that stems from not truly accepting themselves , and their troubled past . They need therapy.😊😊

  • @tehilovely
    @tehilovely 3 роки тому +148

    Men like mr. Big are so dangereouse

  • @shabrinaz9877
    @shabrinaz9877 2 роки тому +250

    "Maybe He couldnt tame ME" 🤣
    is the biggest lie ever come out of Carrie's little hypocrite's mouth.
    Stalked him to his mother's church, stalked his ex wife, stalked another of his wife, cheated on her boyfriend with him and humiliated his ex wife!
    Yea! Totally Youre so NOT wanna be tamed hahahah

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 2 роки тому +13

      He had plenty of issues too not just her

    • @townsendagency6780
      @townsendagency6780 Рік тому +8

      tamed doesnt always mean monogomy or straighten up...carrie is crazy and he couldnt keep up with her thats all so he married someone more tame is what shes trying to say

    • @SandraLopez-ll2ob
      @SandraLopez-ll2ob Рік тому +1

      I mean that’s someone who needs to be tamed. She was “too much”

    • @SandraLopez-ll2ob
      @SandraLopez-ll2ob Рік тому +3

      @@townsendagency6780 Yeah they didn’t mean tamed as in settling down, but tamed in her needy, desperate and crazy ways

  • @publicidadout
    @publicidadout 2 роки тому +105

    20 years later and I'm still crying with that scene, and the phrase at the end

    • @thinkmirror8507
      @thinkmirror8507 10 місяців тому

      That’s it I was reading the comments yes that’s it!

  • @lizze490
    @lizze490 2 роки тому +121

    "I don't know, it just got so hard"- understatement of the year. She just HAD to stop & stare and he just HAD to go over to her, probably afraid that she would create a scene. And then Carrie has to get up in his face while Natasha watches her fixing his hair while staring into his eyes. Oh yeah she's a real prize, that one.

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee 3 роки тому +118

    you were chasing him and were available. that turns rich men off. they want to 'buy' a girl

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 3 роки тому +4

      Always control ✍🏻🍷👑🤑

    • @huntsman145
      @huntsman145 3 роки тому +5

      Lol, maybe in India... Good luck gold digging you two 😂

  • @JustCallMeAnnie
    @JustCallMeAnnie 2 роки тому +18

    That was such an iconic scene and phase.

  • @lizkozlowski9358
    @lizkozlowski9358 3 роки тому +58

    That poor horse has sores all over her neck they should have gave her a break from that holster let her heal

    • @sleepybubbi9638
      @sleepybubbi9638 3 роки тому +16

      I agree- this is the saddest thing about the whole scene by a long shot!!! 😞

    • @EB-tr2ly
      @EB-tr2ly 2 роки тому +1

      That horse is already dead

    • @cabooseabs6864
      @cabooseabs6864 2 роки тому +3

      @@EB-tr2ly I think we would have heard if Sarah Jessica Parker had died.

    • @hei9856
      @hei9856 2 роки тому +4

      @@cabooseabs6864 just wanted to say that this comment made me laugh out loud after a horrible day. thanks stranger

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh 2 роки тому

      Comment is rude

  • @jennifergilder-farooq9540
    @jennifergilder-farooq9540 2 роки тому +57

    This is so touching and moving the music plus the acting. Love it think a lot of us can relate to this scene and Carrie looks beautiful her dress and her hair are stunning

  • @averydifferentperson3765
    @averydifferentperson3765 3 роки тому +27

    why wasn't it me? What a hard question to ask ourselves about it if we weren't chosen.. By the way she looks amazing!

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Рік тому +17

    This is so pathetic it hurts to watch.
    And the fact she did this in front of his new fiancée. She’s disgusting

  • @nnnnnnnnnnn7292
    @nnnnnnnnnnn7292 11 місяців тому +9

    It was Natasha who didn't act right.
    She saw that Big and Carrie had loooooooots of unfinished business between them.
    Carry was abused by Big for a long time. And got discarded after years of stringing on.
    She felt hurt, and naturally had a surge to find out why he did it.
    Big didn't cut their cord either. He damaged both Carrie and Natasha. Typical narcissistic triangulation.

  • @georginalewis837
    @georginalewis837 3 роки тому +40

    Deep down Big preferred Carrie but he married Natasha cause she is more model looking and therefore a "status symbol" for him. I live in Kensington in London and the same thing goes on even today - rich men marry model looking, tall and skinny women because they are seen as the ultimate accessory - and then often cheat on them behind their backs - exactly like Big did!!!

    • @franz3810
      @franz3810 2 роки тому +3

      you should write a book

  • @Thepriestessdeath
    @Thepriestessdeath 2 роки тому +24

    I think it’s interesting how Natasha is always seen wearing white but in this scene carrie is wearing white and Natasha is wearing black…wonder if they were trying to say something with that…

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 3 роки тому +19

    Carrie looks so beautiful here.

  • @janellemichel2324
    @janellemichel2324 9 місяців тому +2

    “& you never did *smirk*” she thought she ate that?!?!

  • @kurlykaitlyn
    @kurlykaitlyn 3 роки тому +30

    I love the way he walks away. I feel him kind of loving her and how she is

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 2 роки тому +12

      He was fond of her, but he wasn’t in love with her at this point

  • @kalliopipapadatou1244
    @kalliopipapadatou1244 3 роки тому +15

    The last scene of “the way we were”

  • @abigail1023
    @abigail1023 Рік тому +12

    Oh, yeah - Carrie is so wild and independent, acting like a fool, clinging to BIg like a limpet, always crying and nagging and trying to force him to pledge undying love. Actually, they deserved each other.

  • @Qwertzuioyxcv
    @Qwertzuioyxcv 3 роки тому +73

    This scene is TOO dramatic...just for Carrie. To Big, this scene is strange

  • @jasmindragneva6500
    @jasmindragneva6500 3 роки тому +20

    this scene makes me want to be a single

  • @cris_here
    @cris_here 2 роки тому +7

    That Dior dress is everything

  • @blackirishrose4040
    @blackirishrose4040 3 роки тому +13

    Casper the friendly Ghost who appears and disappears....yup.
    That's Big

  • @sagqueen1984
    @sagqueen1984 10 місяців тому +6

    This one scene was better than both seasons of And Just Like That.

  • @lovestruckcow
    @lovestruckcow Рік тому +2

    This particular moment was the essence of the show for me.

  • @catsrule1343
    @catsrule1343 2 роки тому +10

    This hits different now

  • @AnnaKhKem
    @AnnaKhKem Рік тому +5

    "It was on my way home". And then she turns and goes the opposite way.

  • @geotyr3868
    @geotyr3868 Рік тому

    such serendipity literally brought tears in my eyes :p

  • @Duma39
    @Duma39 2 роки тому +66

    I love this scene. But the one before it makes me wanna cry. The scene in the pub where they start singing together- that’s the real love story.

  • @bovasj161
    @bovasj161 Рік тому +8

    Classic scene, I love the Barbara Streisand reference in the episode. The show is eternal...

  • @michaelgeorge1737
    @michaelgeorge1737 3 роки тому +13

    We need the Blu Ray collection in 16:9 asap! I already own the DVD box set but just so you know, there are people ready to buy a remastered collection.

  • @CarrieV9
    @CarrieV9 3 роки тому +26

    Brilliant. One of my favorite scenes from the show.

  • @batgurrl
    @batgurrl 3 роки тому +33

    I LOVED that The Way We Were homage❤️

  • @daynagonmechi
    @daynagonmechi Рік тому +6

    Only of my favorite scenes in the entire series ❤

  • @sarahaldosari4430
    @sarahaldosari4430 2 роки тому +6

    One of my favorite scenes 😍

  • @joannakoen7349
    @joannakoen7349 2 роки тому +5

    If you ever feel like stalker..this bit is for you🤣