I am an international student in USA from Nepal and want to move back home but its hard

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  • @MusicMafia999
    @MusicMafia999 16 днів тому +6

    I am a 12th passed student and I am trying to come to US for undergrad. In next video, can you share your experiences of your first year in US? How's it? What we shouldn't do? What should we do? All these stuffs.

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  15 днів тому

      sure! i'll make it

    • @TheLama7000
      @TheLama7000 13 днів тому

      If you’re smart do not come to US not even try to come. विदेश it all about illusion no things like Nepal. सेफ पनि छैन रंगवेद छान immigrant लाई सजीलों पनि chhaina safety pani chhaina gun violence crimes उच्च छ कमाईले भाड़ा तीर्णालाई धौ धौ hunchha। ख़ाना pugdaina. कामाईन्छ २०००/ २५०० टैक्स कटाएर १६/१७ सया hunnchba कोठा भाड़ा sosto ख़त्म area तिर ७/८ सया dollar अलि राम्रो सुरक्षित ठाऊ तिर २५०० देखी ५ हज़ार १०/१५ हज़ार dallar पर्छ तलब २/३ हज़ार rent चाय ४/५ हज़ारको लिनू मिलेन doggy area तिर बन्दूकले हन्ला भन्ने डर। घर भाड़ा तीर्णेकी grocery कीन्ने की फी तीर्णेकी insurance तीर्णेकी utility tirne ki phone ko bill tirne ki. Khane. Canada तिर नेपाली student हरु homeless भएर सड़कमा सूत्छनरे -८ डिग्री Celsius ma फेरि काम पनि पाउदैनन। बस्नलाई ठाऊ पनि पाउदैनरे।

  • @sauryapaudelfr
    @sauryapaudelfr 14 днів тому

    Good to hear genuine thoughts from you!!

  • @utsavmaharjan2310
    @utsavmaharjan2310 13 днів тому

    You'll be fine.

  • @JiaanBishalRegmi
    @JiaanBishalRegmi 12 днів тому

    You are not alone, it needs a courage but it’s definitely worth doing, probably its one time life and there is no life here.

  • @sonamsherpa3523
    @sonamsherpa3523 14 днів тому

    Nah ! Girl you are strong one..!!
    Don't let your thought consume you like that..!! Don't be afraid of chaos, there is beauty in it.!

  • @shrawanupreti1727
    @shrawanupreti1727 16 днів тому +1

    First time seeing you and your video, also using comment section first time.
    I am from Nepal and I will be coming USA this fall for undergraduate study.
    Sister, Do what you are thinking and don’t let others opinions make negative impact in your life because at last it’s your life.
    I know how people in Nepal are and the mentality ( not all but many) and how you are feeling.
    Coming back to Nepal for business might need a-lot8(cannot be imagined with starting) effort and how it work is completely different from USA.
    Staying USA and pursuing ones life is completely ok, visit Nepal when you wish .
    I remembered saying to my mother that a girl(22) is getting married(more the parents are getting her married) and the girls family is well to do and she is only child of her parents. She is well educated( staff nurse) and wants to pursue career as a nurse Abroad . My mother remarked, If I were her, educated and young,she would travel world enjoy and become financially independent herself; its modern world , the age is now no more a problem for daughters marriage(To mention my mother is very happy in her marriage and family life but She thought putting herself in the girl’s place)
    Please stop overthinking. Be
    Be strong and independent,take care, have fun ..

  • @movieexplained5903
    @movieexplained5903 14 днів тому +2

    In my opinion Nepal is far batter than USA... In USA man judge woman more than.... Nepalese man judge woman in nepal..... There is more cases or UA-cam videos you can find If you search in USA. .. Where it's mentioned that woman above 30 is damaged or woman's value is determined by her beauty and age, and there is lots of hate towards professional woman in USA whose age is 30 plus and not married calling them damaged products or other things.... Also USA dating coach on UA-cam advice man to treat woman bad, dominate them or other things... So there is more man in USA who believe woman's value is determined by her beauty and age than her work or accomplishments..... I believe Nepal is better in its own way than USA if you have peace inside and some money to support Yourself financially you will have Good life .. If you don't have peace inside, don't become knowledgeable day by day and don't have some financial stability you won't be happy wherever you go 😂

  • @roshankarki1041
    @roshankarki1041 14 днів тому

    I feel you very well from all those aspects you talking about and yeah definitely there are pros and cons you will encounter in your every life experiences and its great to seek for the best for yourself but as you go on whatever comes in your life ,just embrace what works for you ,there is always something missing in everyone life and unfortunately we can't have it all so the ideal way too navigate this life from now onwards is to stop worrying about the circumstances, you have already spent your huge amount of your life preparing yourself ,so from now live life unapologetically rather than figuring out ,rest will be the history. lastly keep sharing what you feel and also recommendation for you to watch yeh jawaani hai deewani movie, if you have already watched its a great movie but rewatch at this point of your life ,its quite fulfilling movie ,watching your video in class break from seattle ,good luck.

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      @@roshankarki1041 hehe yes! Just thinking out loud ❤️

  • @bikashshrestha1472
    @bikashshrestha1472 13 днів тому

    After food smell video ( usa culture shock 3 yrs ago) yt recommended this video to me, first of all your English language and confidence level seems drastically improved, & about coming to Nepal, you seems to have thought of very detailed, if I should add some, I would say be financially independent & expect low..

  • @prasb711
    @prasb711 14 днів тому

    You have such a peaceful aura❤️❤️❤️❤️.

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      @@prasb711 means a lot 🥰

  •  10 днів тому

    u r happy but not from inside because your root is here in nepal

  • @aayamrajshakya
    @aayamrajshakya 18 днів тому +1

    hi, I was looking for your 'my CS degree in 10 mins' video. Did you remove it by any chance?

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  18 днів тому +1

      hmm i think that was in old channel that got deleted because it was associated with my university email :( could never recover

    • @aayamrajshakya
      @aayamrajshakya 18 днів тому

      ​@@npmisans oh, that's sad. I'd been looking for that video for at least 2 weeks☹

  • @unidurga0369
    @unidurga0369 18 днів тому

    Wow❤❤❤too good.

  • @MandipKarki-uv7xh
    @MandipKarki-uv7xh 18 днів тому

    Wowww

  • @bibekchaudhary1688
    @bibekchaudhary1688 16 днів тому

    Hey i see you are really in good position in computer science field and I am currently in the beginning of this field it would be really helpful for freshers like me if you tell what kind of projects i make so that i will be able to get job or internship and which tech stack is better one more i currently going abroad for master in which would be better?
    Thank you....

  • @ankitpoudel2184
    @ankitpoudel2184 14 днів тому

    Which university did you studied? did you transfer your college while in undergrad?

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      @@ankitpoudel2184 no and uni of Mississippi

  • @taakyaavibes
    @taakyaavibes 18 днів тому +1

    btw, how are you?

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  18 днів тому +1

      i am good! ty for asking

  • @sumanphuyal2089
    @sumanphuyal2089 18 днів тому

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  18 днів тому +1

      first comment hello!

    • @sumanphuyal2089
      @sumanphuyal2089 18 днів тому

      @@npmisanshello! I love the way you analyze the things on Nepali community.

  • @laxmilamsal6002
    @laxmilamsal6002 18 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @abhisanghimire
    @abhisanghimire 18 днів тому

    👍

  • @myspace2000w
    @myspace2000w 16 днів тому

    Is software engineer is too hard sis?

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  16 днів тому +1

      @@myspace2000w for me - it was hard for 6 months of starting but the more you practice more you get better :)

  • @ayrtlamrin2264
    @ayrtlamrin2264 18 днів тому

    what's with the music

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  18 днів тому

      Lol is it too noisy? I think i will have to tone it down a bit in other videos or not have music altogether

  • @ChessTraining-fe5jc
    @ChessTraining-fe5jc 15 днів тому +1

    Nepal ma surviving is hard. I am doing job in Mustang that pays 37k only as karar engineer. Only upside is ppl are generally nice and helpful, and u have family and all other stuffs. Judgemental society ta aaile ni xa, manager haru le power dekhaihalxa motivate garnu ko satto testai ho.. tara tei ho sathi vai sanga belka aago tapera guff garda chahi maja aauxa.. ani sky looks so beautiful here full of stars.. if only badi pay vako vaye kaile xodne soch aaudaina thiyo tara aba ma sanga ni choice hunna hola kei samaya paxi.. my only hope is that everything works out future ma... i m 2 yr junior than u so teti dherai exp ta xaina ma sanga.. i know how hard is it for girls to return and i completely understand ur perspective too. I wish u all the best..

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  15 днів тому

      thanks for sharing

  • @smritilamsal7424
    @smritilamsal7424 16 днів тому

    ❤️❤️🫶🫶

  • @m3ss16
    @m3ss16 15 днів тому

    Pain in your eyes ,it speaks alot.

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  15 днів тому

      Haha ghar se door

  • @potassiumbromate3734
    @potassiumbromate3734 17 днів тому

    I completely understand you. In the US you have freedom , freewill , work and enough money but in Nepal you had the most fond memories and your family is there. If you go back youll lose your freedom and have to succum to societal constructs and the old way of thinking. I believe you just need that someone that gets you with you all the time so you will get the opportunity to have fun again and not think of working all the time. Or you could work from home in Nepal , that could work. 😅 Well what the hell do i know..

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  16 днів тому

      Haha yes you put in a really good way. I have made peace with the fact that both place has its benefits and its what i need to prioritize - there will always be sth I’ll miss either way. Rn the priority is financial independence 😭