I felt "unattractive/ugly" in Nepal due to my dark skin tone. Moving to USA taught me to love myself

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2025

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  • @TishaShrestha
    @TishaShrestha 15 днів тому +8

    You are beautiful, strong, confident and smart ♥

  • @akvlog8390
    @akvlog8390 14 днів тому

    The pain behind the smile is very painful and powerful thank you for being so vocal about these things.

  • @jamesisaacson6414
    @jamesisaacson6414 13 днів тому +1

    ‘Mate value’; I read about the concept of mate value in the book ‘Evolution of Desire.’ Put simply its totality of what you bring to the table, and it changes as we progress through our career, as we age, and so on.
    ~
    As for 2/10 or 7/10, different people value different aspects of their partner, which in turn determines the “rating”. For instance, I value intelligence, kindness, and a positive outlook towards life above all else and that’s how I look at someone when I “evaluate” them. I am sure you were 7/10 for someone when you were back in Nepal.
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    I have very strong jaw lines but a bigger forehead. Someone might look at my forehead and call me ugly; on the other hand someone else might find my strong jawlines attractive.
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    There is no such thing as ugly or beautiful. It’s just a completely individual perception as we tend to view the work through the lens of what we value.
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    That's my two cents : )

  • @ShreyaGupta-l9g
    @ShreyaGupta-l9g 5 днів тому

    Yes ❤ my skin tone is same as you
    I can understand what you faced
    More power and strength to you all the best dear 🥰
    Btw you are pretty ❤️

  • @ankitdevkota6585
    @ankitdevkota6585 7 днів тому

    You are such a great inspiration di ❤.

  • @Suviiii69
    @Suviiii69 14 днів тому +1

    Fr when i was swimming i kinda got tanned and felt so ugly as if i needed to have a white skin idk society had imprinted it in my mind that if iam not fair iam not good looking , and iam generally skinny not much but kinda lost alot of wt and people commented so much on it ! I hate our nepalese society so much ! I love you youre beaut girl ! Dont ever forget that ❤❤❤ i personally love how gold stuffs looks soo good on somehwat brown or dark skin ! Muwah

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      tan skin lookss so good! rightt - gold+brown skin = EPIC COMBO

  • @anishagiri21m
    @anishagiri21m 9 днів тому

    only loved ones call me kali.. it means so much to me!! You are very beautiful!!

  • @amitghimire9931
    @amitghimire9931 14 днів тому

    People often judge based on looks-skin color, height, weight, or even preferences like sweet or bitter. But don’t let these opinions define you. You are who you are. Focus on what you can control, embrace your uniqueness, and strive for peace and mindfulness. Just as most people value peace over war, goodness is what truly matters.

  • @helloitsme3997
    @helloitsme3997 15 днів тому

    I too am a brown girl. I grew up in Singapore, so my brown skin, to me did not feel that big of an “issue” until I went to India to visit relatives. They all say “if only you were a bit lighter” , “why have you gotten so dark?” like it is a bad thing. No matter how many years it has been, the contrast never ceases to surprise me. Sending you lots of love ❤

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  15 днів тому

      thanks for sharing

  • @kreetykc
    @kreetykc 15 днів тому

    proud of you and you are BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @prasb711
    @prasb711 15 днів тому

    Love you tons!Please keep uploading ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Raj-yy3dw
    @Raj-yy3dw 13 днів тому

    Yo are really motivating us..
    Slowly this channel will boom for sure...

  • @puspasapkota5638
    @puspasapkota5638 15 днів тому

    You are gorgeous, when i saw you for the first time on toutube, i was like , wowwwwwww! what a beautiful confident and smiley girl...

  • @Amandhattarwalfans
    @Amandhattarwalfans 13 днів тому

    You are So beautiful. I'm Obsessed !

  • @pluviophileforever7754
    @pluviophileforever7754 14 днів тому

    When white people say they want to be tanned, it does not mean the the brown or black skin. It means the tanned white skin.

  • @kneeshahikes
    @kneeshahikes 14 днів тому

    We have learned to accept the Ill-manner and that has become a norm. Example: you aren't pretty, and you feel bad, but you must accept that comment because the person who said that is " Naive and uneducated or it's her habit, says things right at the face" I call that person mannerless. Everyone has a sense, everyone knows that could hurt people, but they want us to accept that comment as if nothing happened. They get away with it and this is an Unfortunate.

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      unfortunately a lot of people back home aren't aware of their actions/words. Sth we probably can't change by saying it just once (especially changing folks who are 40+ yo)
      i try my best to just not be around such people bc i honestly dont want to waste my energy to even fight back bc i know they are not going to change

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  14 днів тому

      but i feel ya!!

  • @SonuKumar-us7kn
    @SonuKumar-us7kn 13 днів тому

    You are most preety girl i've seen 😍😍 talent matter

  • @AdminDahal
    @AdminDahal 15 днів тому

    You are beautiful and smart. Love your videos❤

  • @Alphaaessence
    @Alphaaessence 6 днів тому

    You are beautiful sister

  • @rosekandel745
    @rosekandel745 15 днів тому

    yess girl i made so many videos on this as well!

    • @npmisans
      @npmisans  15 днів тому

      😊yes gotta share

  • @saintsupreme33
    @saintsupreme33 15 днів тому

    damn my parents really told me not to care about whatever people says and you keep moving forward but am really pretty I wouldn't have cared about people though because they are collecting some bad bad karma they will always be stuck in hellish realm😂😋

  • @SunayanPoudel
    @SunayanPoudel 15 днів тому

    💌

  • @bibekkhadka1470
    @bibekkhadka1470 15 днів тому

    You are amaizing Sanskriti.

  • @jhadhiraj147
    @jhadhiraj147 13 днів тому

    Hi cutie ❤ you were always beautiful

  • @unidurga0369
    @unidurga0369 15 днів тому

    you are one of the world amazing

  • @apekshagyawali2035
    @apekshagyawali2035 15 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @prasb711
    @prasb711 15 днів тому +1

    You are truly Gorgeous !
    Forget 7/10 , you are 10/10. That is what I have always felt like ever since I saw you for the first time on instagram. I was like oh my god , this girl is so pretty 😅😀
    It is crazy how Asian beauty standards are so toxic . It truly is so sad.

  • @yasminigyawali4868
    @yasminigyawali4868 10 днів тому

    10/10

  • @dead_cobra
    @dead_cobra 13 днів тому

    3

  • @NishchalMagar-ng2yv
    @NishchalMagar-ng2yv 15 днів тому

    You're 10

  • @riyaacharya07
    @riyaacharya07 15 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @laxmilamsal6002
    @laxmilamsal6002 15 днів тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @sabitachaulagain2538
    @sabitachaulagain2538 14 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @yasminigyawali4868
    @yasminigyawali4868 10 днів тому

    ❤❤