I hate loud noises especially when my social butterfly as i like to call it runs out but today my French teacher hit a book at a desk so some kids would stay quiet and when she saw me covering my ears she apologized to me . It was my first time that that happened i just can't explain the happiness i felt that moment 😁 (edit wait i am famous, no no i am kidding. I am happy tho that people relate because I want people to know that it is normal to be sensitive)
yo i actually had something similar happen, my social studies teacher slammed a textbook on the desk in front of mine (yk those four desks put together) not to get my attention but to be dramatic about what he was talking about, i was drawing and completely focused on that so i flinched, my classmates were startled so they asked why he did that and if i was okay, i got embarrassed that i got startled and that people were asking if i was okay so despite myself and his apology i started to tear up which was even more embarrassing LMAO but yeah no im right there with you pal
i totally feel that, my teachers always whistle really loudly to get our attention, it scares me half to death cause i have sensitive ears, actually one of my teachers used to hit the desk really loudly as a joke, i hated him cause it would scare me so bad, but I'm glad they apologized to u! :D
That feeling when you finally turn down your music and take off your earbuds just to see everyone else around you talking and having fun in their own little world while you sit there by yourself desperately trying to shut off the outside world and pondering your own loneliness. The worst is when everyone else knows you're a fucking loner, but you're such an absolute loser there's nothing you can do about it, so you just sit there and take it and move on with your boring day. Update 3/26/22: It got better guys, seems my days of solitude have come to an end :)
Honesty, especially in school, I prefer to be the loner. I am there to learn, not to do anything else. Sure, socializing is part of the concept so we don't get depressed and we adjust to the world after just fine-but school-friends feel even more inconstant than other friends and I can't even hold smalltalk, which seems quite popular among people.
I'm litearly the same as you, but I shut uff others because I'm also kind of afraid they wont like me as my own person, but the fact that I'm shooing them away probably makes them angry and hate me and I cant mentaly prepare for permanently escaping this world, so I temporrily escape it by laying in bed, swinging in a swing, whatever I'm doing alone and listening to music, its calming, no frustration, no anger, no sadness, just calm.
i literally remember one time i realized i was walking in the wrong direction, and i was so scared to turn around because i thought it would be embarrassing. so i took the longer way to class and was late, gotta love anxiety ✨
god i feel this so bad sometimes ill forget where a class is somehow and ill freak out and just pace in the empty hallways because everyones already at class and its awful 😭
At my school we have extra hours you have to choose everyday (kids come together from other classes in that hour to study 1 subject). One time I was early and I thought I was late because I saw all kids seated in the classroom. I sat down in that class and after 5 minutes everyone was suddenly let go. Turns out I just joined another class from the lesson before- (Like 30 kids I didn't know staring at me when I just randomy joined their lesson. I wanted to die when I saw the kids from the extra hours come in 💀). I still have flashbacks everytime I have to go to an extra hour... 😃
I'm going back to school today, having to face all my classmates again drives me up the wall. I just wanna be left alone and not bother anyone, that is what I do best. My parents are worried, I have been at this school for like 6 months and have made 0 friends. Just gotta hope that this year will be better.
I feel you. I hope You'll get a friend soon. If you had a bad day and wanna talk to someone just text for me: norman._.22194_ (my instagram). I know its so Hard for you. I want to help for peoples who have social anxiety or depression 'cause I feel what u feel and I think we can work out it together. ^^"
I honestly don’t know if I have social anxiety but I do know it’s a very for me to socialize with people. I’m constantly in a state of worry at school because I’m worried that if I do one wrong think everyone will hate me. I find it hard to understand feelings especially others feelings. But, I hope everyone reading this has a lovely day/night and know that you all are valid and loved.
my social problems arent that bad, but this playlist is how i feel when im alone i feel lonely even tho i have everyone i love in my life, i get genuine love but i want someone to love me more then they do
Damn, I completely understand you. I feel the same way and sadly, every time I tell my friends they just answer that they have more serious problems than mine and that there are people who are in worse situations and that I'm never satisfied and greedy... :ι
@@eggdi9753 I completely understand you, I was venting to my friend and I couldn’t stop because of a toxic friend and they said; “maybe your just overreacting.” And after that I’ve always thought that, nice to know someone else feels like I do.
I also understand that, I feel same way. I have bad social problems with talking but I get love from my family and I’ve got online friends cause online doesn’t scare me that much but still I want someone to love me more then they even do. It makes me think I’m greedy at this point :|
Bro... I feel the same way. Its hard to talk with ppl even when i know them. But, im dealing with this stupid habit and hope you can deal with it too. We can do this💪
!!short vent!! i genuinely hate how i'm incapable of maintaining friendships, i always think whenever i make friends that we'll fall apart and separate sooner or later. and let me tell you that the fact my friendships always end up horribly is my fault because i don't do anything about it until the other person does even though the fall of our relationship is most likely my fault :( hoping it gets better as i get older..
Same I feel alittle jealous when I hear people talk about how they've been friends with someone since kindergarten. I think I can't maintain friendships because I'm not good with conversations and I'm not near them in school because I feel anxious around them when they're with their other friends.
I can relate to this except even though every friendship I had has ended badly I don’t think it’s my fault it’s just everyone hates me saying I’m so mean because I’m a very blunt and honest person
At this point, I can pretty much tell I have social anxiety without having to be diagnosed, my few friends agree. I literally didn’t talk for the first two weeks of school, and I look down when I walk in public places. I don’t like talking to strangers, so group activities in school are torture for me :’).
It's been hard for me. I don't hang out with anybody in school, i really wanna try to but it's so hard and so afraid of rejection. Whenever i try I cant connect with people or they make fun of me. I'm grateful for online friends but i wish I had some real friends during school.
This is good I have social anxiety (diagnosed)and probably autism spectrum disorder(my mom, doctor, and therapist think I do and I've had an intake at some place so I may be getting diagnosed soon)anyway I always feel so lonely and like no one actually likes me and scared to talk to people till the point that my voice doesn't work sometimes and I need tone indicators because I can't tell how people are talking Sorry if this a vent-
This is literally me I know exactly how you feel. Just know that you're not alone and you'll eventually get through this! I believe you can do it and I believe I can too although it may take a long time you will make progress and it'll get better. Have an amazing day/night
I have social problems, people say they understand but get mad when I don’t want to go out. I love making friends with outcasts and people who don’t have other friends! I’m trying to get out of my comfort zone and it’s extremely draining but I don’t wanna live my life like this! Hope you can too!!
imagine just having a cocoon you can just summon and lock yourself inside of whenever you want instead of being afraid to open the front door of your house
I want to move forward, talk to people like before. I want to have friends, encounters and confidence again. I don't know what happened to me, I never had any disorders, but now my mom plans to take me to a psychiatrist soon because I just can't stop moving, talking or concentrating. I hate this, I want to go back.
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society builds up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy life. But in fact, that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way...I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such a beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this then please never forget to breathe and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug-like it's your last one.
I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is. Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUG YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you through my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it with such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such a mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning, and so on... You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course, you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self-care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone ask you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. I am sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they are :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words :) Until tomorrow, my friend :) (keep in mind, i didn't write this! please copy and paste this and send it on every video you watch. mwa mwa
Same here and it's hard for me to cope and I feel like no one cares about me n shit bc im not perfect and I wish I could be happy and I have hella bad anxiety and still no one came and checked on me I have panic attacks and my own boyfriend never checks on me :/
I cry any time i have to interact with people that arent my close friends and family (and my family also makes me cry a lot) and idk why. I've always cried like this since i remember and i've always been afraid of people for no reason. comfort playlist
this is what i listen too every breaktime and free period at school cause i don't have friends and i spend my time listening to music and drawing most of the time so i appreciate you making this
@@id10cyyMine usually allows them at lunch period, but certain days they don't. I usually ask for permission, but sometimes I will sneak my phone if they say no lol
its good knowing all of these songs. a broken poem only artists can read. one day you sit down and look at somebody and tell them you make art and only they undearstand the kind of art you carry on and with you because they are an artist themself
I think it’s so cool how a group of people who have the same problem and/or experiences feel so drawn to certain songs. I love all these songs dearly but have never really had all of them on one playlist and I just feel like this whole playlist expresses me. It expresses what I have problems expressing to others. It’s also very comforting. So thanks for putting this together
I haven't really been close or interacted/had friends in 4 years. Especially when Quarantine hit I had no one, I was actually alone. That went on for a while but I started getting used to it. I was started feeling alright with it because I thought that I only really needed myself anyway but then school started up again. It was alright, to be honest, I started interacting with people and even had long conversations. It was somewhat invigorating. However, this never lead to any close relations or friendships, just acquaintances and good mutuals. During lunch I watch everyone have fun, laugh, and just have friends. Of course, I don't necessarily mind it anymore since I've gotten so used to it but sometimes it bothers me not having anyone else I can fall back on or anyone to connect to. I get this overwhelming feeling of dread, anger and emptiness. I'm not a shy person or a recluse, I talk with others and I'm vocal when I need to be but I can never develop friendships or anything closer than a mutual. It's like there's a wall between me and everyone else. It can get quite exhausting but it's bearable for the most part, it's not like it's the end of the world if I have no friends anyway. Just recently someone came up to me during lunch asking if I wanted to walk with them since im always alone but I took that as pity. It seemed like they were looking down on me because they felt bad. I hate pity. It also made me question why they'd want to, I never really interacted with them much and I had nothing to offer so why?. I then thought they might've had some other ulterior motive so I told them no. I can't trust anyone and I'd rather keep everyone at surface level, the moment we get personal I push away. Its my own fault. I want friends and I want that bond with someone but I just don't know whats wrong with me so I just brush it off. I don't know what to do with myself, guess you could say I'm alienated lol. Though im unsure if this would count as a social problem since im a pretty upfront and assertive person. Im not scared to talk with people, I just suck at getting close with others so now im a loner or an outcast in societies view at least.
Wow, It's like i'm writing to myself, I understand how you feel, I also never seem to be able to make friends, the only reason I have people I talk with, "aquaintances", is because they approached me first, but apart from that I have absolutely no one, I'm also neither shy or insecure. I can approach people and I speak out when I have to, but I can't for the life of me develop a genuine friendship or bond, so I am also a complete loner. This has led to me becoming kind of depressed, or rather viewing the world as empty and grey, it's not the _worst_ thing ever, but it honestly really does suck. It's not complete misery though, there are few moments of happiness, not being able to share them with anyone is kind of a downer though so I just keep it to myself and celebrate them in my own mind, the masks have really helped with this. It's nice to meet someone who I can actually relate to for once, it seems we just have terrible social skills lol, but they say it gets better for people like us right? Edit 8/4/22: It got better :)
I just want to let you know that I have never been able to put this in words but you did such a great job. It feels comforting that I'm not the only one that feels like/goes through this I tell myself all the time that it's my fault and maybe it's just cause everyone talks to me out of pity since I sit by myself everywhere I go. The looking around and seeing all the people laughing and talking with their friends while I'm just sitting by myself because I'm no ones #1 that's what's comforting is that you were able to put how I feel every day into words so thank you
@lina nobody theres this thing called venting, and i'm not trying to be rude but i don't exactly get what u mean by ur text so if u don't mind you could have just scrolled and mind ur own business instead of leaving comments like this. It may come off as if ur not validating their feelings.
I hate loud noises, so my dad says i'm crazy or a psycho , and somehow this make me relax cuz it's calming and late at night right now, and i can't sleep, and this helps so much 🥰🥰 thank you very much!
the only way I made friends is because people went up and talked to me but I was still shy and barley talked. Since this whole covid thing started things got worse. I didn't talk or play with the friends I made at school and I didn't have anybody but that was when I started getting along with the people I met online and now their my only friends I have. I moved to a new school this year since the school I was going to didn't have online classes anymore and I didn't want to go to in person school because its been so long since I've seen my friends in person and I already got used to online classes so I'm still doing online classes. I get along with the kids in my class when we get partnered but then we just forget about each other. Seeing my online best friends have school friends makes me remember that I don't have any other friends expect them. I still get so nervous when people I don't know or people I barely talk to talk to me even people online.
me too! i wish i had more friends but i can't approach someone and start a conversation. everyone finds new friends so easily and i never talk to anyone. i'm scared after high school, when everyone will go to different directions, i will be alone
Thats so relatable i have a hard time talking with people due to me overthinking things and it's so hard to even make friends because im afraid of embarrassing myself or doing something wrong.
I litteraly love this playlist, I listen to it on the bus and just when I need a break overall, school is so tiring but for some reason I'm probably the happiest I ever am at school, I don't know why but school just is so stressful yet for some reason I'm so happy there. And after math I go home and I'm so exited to get home yet life isn't any better at home. It doesn't make sense
i like school because even if im alone, im still around people and getting to see other people talk and be happy which makes me happy. at home, im alone.
I needed it.. my problems aren't that bad but I'm starting feeling like everyone are looking at me and judging.. it makes me stay home like today even if it's a day at school where we will have fun. I just don't want to go there it's terrifying.. Thanks for reading that.. have a happy day/evening/night💜
I genuinely have very bad problems with loud machines and noises (the most I can handle is about a vacuum or large truck) and yet my school put me in woodworking even though I wrote on the sheet the reason I would not be able to handle it. (We don't have a choice, we can only say which one of the side courses we prefer and which ones we don't.) In the end, during that class I go to the library and read about the history of woodworking for a good mark
i relate to devil town on a spiritual level lmao btw good playlist, i'll definetly save it to listen to it more times (sorry if i got anything wrong, english is not my first language)
Hey you Yes you You beautiful person You are valid Your feelings are valid Your actions are valid You are so worthy of everything amazing that comes to you Drink some water But actually do it And remember- I LOVE YOU
Its hard for me to sociallize IRL not in game, its easier for me cause i can just ignore everything, but irl. You cant just, walk away. You have to face consequinces. Whenever i want to tell my parent something i get anxious, imscared theyd think different of me. Scared that theyd get mad, or, become abusive. I was so scared to ask if i could go to a therapist to make sure i dont have social anxiety. I still cant ask. It hurts to much, im just worried id either be abandoned, or abused. Also off topic but this playlist is poggers
as a person with both social and generalized anxiety (or so my doctor says), this playlist really helps me during episodes where i feel like im the problem and that i should just get over it. as i get older, it only gets worse, so i tend to stay by myself a lot to the point where it bothers me to even be around family. it sucks, but im really hoping it gets better. and i hope whoever else is going through this will be okay later on as well. it sucks going through this, but deep down, i believe that everyone can be strong enough to fight that voice in their head telling them that people dont like them, or that theyll never fit in... because what your brain tells you isnt true, i can guarantee that. and im sorry if all of this just jumbles together, im just saying what came into my head.
I felt the family part, I love my family but I love being in my room in my own world of happiness and safety, I can’t wait to be living in my own space!
Looking at some of these comments makes me feel a bit better, It reminds me that I'm not the only one who has social anxiety and anger issues or anything else :) But I feel like the song Nobody is how I feel when someone tries to understand my social anxiety or my anger issues.
My voice teacher made us sing happy birthday for another person in my class without letting us know before, and we had to do it by ourselves. Everyone did something so unique, and I sang in a shaky voice, the normal happy birthday. I literally almost had a panic attack, it took all I had to not cry. I feel like a freaking baby.
Dude I could relate my English teacher made us read a poem in front of the whole class it was the worst experience ever anyway hope your doing better I like your pfp btw
I hate having social anxiety, it's those random moments that I truly realize how alone I am in a gaggle of students. I feel afraid of talking to anyone and I never feel accepted anywhere. It's funny cause I'm even lonely at home
i'm a middle schooler and i have to wait at my local high school for the bus and when like the seniors and juniors and stuff are just starring a me like i know they're not but it just makes me uncomfortable, cuz when i am at school i hate walking alone i have to walk with the same person which is my best friend(s) but like idk i asked my mom if i have social problems and she said no. but i hate being around guys cuz they look at you and like think about you in a bad way. thats it i had to vent thank you.❤
I've had a few terrible situations with my classmates ... that's why at the beginning I'm always shy and quiet when I meet someone. I went to high school this year and I thought everything was fine. suddenly people I thought were nice started to ignore me and only talk to me when they needed something. I found out that the only thing I have done wrong is that I am quiet and I have to get close to someone for the relationship to develop. I've had problems before and now every day at school is terrible. instead of focusing on my lessons, I blame myself all the time and started hurting myself physically again. I'm about to start taking the right medications soon. I'm sorry for writing this but I feel that the internet is the only place where people accept me
im really happy because everyone in the comments relates to me and ive been holding in these emotions for so long and evrything is so loud and it feels like everyones against me and when i read theese comments it reminds me in not alone
Its almost a whole new day. Woo. I was crying 3 minutes ago lmao. I need a hug lol. I need to vent ahaha. Lmfao imagine. L.O.L couldn't be me. I'm gonna cry, again XD When you dont have a personality so you make jokes left right and center about your problems
Just cry if you want. If you wanna talk to someone just text for me on instagram: norman._.22194_ I'll hear you and I think we can work out it together (I'm bad at English but I understand when I read). Virtual hug (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃
Omg you guys were so nice! Thank you!!! This was honestly just me in a depressive episode but I am getting help so thank you :) I'm gonna cry happy tears omg!!!
I have diagnosed social anxiety and adhd(combined presentation.) My ears are horribly sensitive, and I have to ask people to use tone indicators so I don’t misinterpret something. Listening to music is like escaping reality, into my own new world where everything is okay. My dad got me earplugs to help with the noise at school, and I always have my headphones on me. So stuff like this always helps me if I’m unsure what to listen to. Thanks for the calming playlist❤️❤️❤️
As someone who has had very severe social anxiety, I feel as if I'm slowly falling into this state again. This playlist has me reminded I'm anything but alone, but, I'm so scared.
weird thing about me: I can be the extrovert and social butterfly for like a week or longer but sometimes I wanna just be the introvertial person sitting alone in a corner eating and reading or drawing enjoying life's small moments. hopefully someone feels me cause it gets a little lonely sometimes 😞 (have a good day and to anyone reading this, know ur beautiful no matter what. took me a little to long for me to learn that and hopefully it was faster for u. enjoy life cus it's short and sometimes it's beautiful, like u 🤗)
I mean, I always feel myself choking back my words. Feeling watched all the time. Like everything I do is judged. Being paranoid over one look, one laugh. I hate when people shout. Overthinking everything. Exhausted of not showing myself.....because........ I'm too scared.
vent// anytime i try to express to my friends that i'm uncomfortable because of people or a place they brush it off and say "dude this is fine ur not even trying to get used to it" and all i wanna do is sink through the floor. i feel watched and judged all the time, i get warm and dizzy when im around alot of people, and think everyone hates me or has something against me. i remember everything someone has ever said about me and always see the negative in it. ive stayed home calling in "sick' because i feel like id throw up if i get around people. im not agoraphobic, but my room is the only place where i can recharge. its a save haven. and even in there i have to deal with sound restrictions, hearing my brother kick the walls and my mom yell. its too much. and idk for how much longer i can go witouth completely breaking down and shutting everything out.
I have bad social anxiety and just general anxiety and this...this is a work of art. This is exactly how I feel, sometimes I don't even want to talk to the people that are most important to me.
Yeah uhm I can talk to other people ig but well- I always feel like I have to impress people to be friends and they feel so superior to me. The only person I’m not nervous around is my enemy. I fucking hate her, she thinks we are friends. I talk to her sometimes because we are in most of the same classes.. but I would call her my “classmate” or “mutual” because I don’t really like too much. Other those things, on thing is that I’m terrified of adults and little children. I cant talk to either. If I didn’t have shyness around others, then I would be labeled as an asshole probably. Well whatever other people need this place to vent more than I do I’m just a sad little minor girl thanks for anybody who would even read this shit :)
as someone who struggles with many anxiety issues, social anxiety being the main, i relate hard. just walking with crowds through hallways, or even if it's just five people, i panic. speaking as someone who knows the feeling, thanks for making this playlist.
It sucks you know...Every time I show up to school there's always the groups of my class, I look at them and just think if they are thinking about me, if they talking about me, lord and then I I keep thinking about it, then the best part...imagine if I was in a friend group. It sucks....
TW: vent I'm really not a socialize person. I don't even know how to communicate in person or online. I'm having anxiety whenever I talk in Roblox voice chat. I even have a voice chat but, I'm not even using it even though I wanted to talk but I can't still use it yet. I really want to talk socially. I hate having anxiety shortness breathing whenever I started to talk. I really hate the feeling of stopping talking. I just really want to talk but, I can't stop stopping it. I'm an introvert and sometimes when I get extrovert, thinking that people getting sick of my random repeating stims. I just wanted to be cool. I want my life to be really good and full of sunshine. This playlist is really good and I love it!
Eu não tenho ansiedade social mas no momento estou me sentindo inferior em questão de desenhos e triste pois achei alguem melhor que eu em desenhar (o que acontece a todo momento)então as musicas ja ajudaram bastante:)
I feel the same. I mean I went a new school in 4th grade and everyone maked fun of me. My dad is left me when I was 4 and my Mom left me when I was in 4th grade. I have foster parents and in school everyone hurt me. But... When I drew, I can't hear the hurtful words. In 6th grade a girl came to my school and she has good Drawings and everyone love her and They said to her: "wow you have good drawing skills. I love your drawing. Let's be friends!" And now I make drawings at home but I can't go to the art grade at high school in the next school year.... jealous... And I'm angry 'cause she made me introvert and now I have social problems... Sorry for this I just saw your story and it' s similiar as mine and I want to tell..
@@leslie..subete3238 sinto muito, seus desenhos devem ser muito bons, tudo é questão de evolução, se hoje você não é bom talvez outro dia você pode ser muito melhor ^^
I have really bad anxiety (diagnosed) and Im also not used to people, I never really go out much, and I always get scared when there is loud noises. this playlist fits me, I have always had bad social skills
Ever since my house got destroyed by somebody who i didn't even know.. it's hard to trust and talk to ppl, good thing my best friend is always there for me.
I was showering and this playlist came on. I know almost all these songs and I was like, "damn, this is pretty good" and when I stepped out of the shower and read the title I just felt 😁🔫
I stutter a lot so being social is a little hard and talking to someone I like is even harder when I stutter is when I’m nervous so it’s really hard talking in front of a big crowd or something like that
Thank you for this. I have social anxiety and I found this late at night. I was having a panic attack when I found this and it really helps. Thank you a lot💖
Thanks this really helped I'm on my tablet right now but when I'm in school I use my phone to listen to music so I don't start freaking out because of the noises and like I used this playlist today and it really helped at some point my social duck(what I call my my social anxiety) got to a 100% battery and I went to my friends and started talking to them I even made a new friend who also watches the dream smp :)
People generally confuse me, I have asd, and social anxiety (both diagnosed). I have absolutely no idea what is 'normal' when talking and interacting with people. I have very few friends because of this. I can't seem to understand if I'm making someone uncomfortable because they don't say anything. I feel really bad after someone tells me, and says it was obvious, but I have no understanding of what to look for
I'm not confirming anything about if I have social problems or anxiety, but whenever I was little and stuff, I would never ask my teacher at all if I needed help on a question. I would just do it on my own and get a bad grade, I was too scared to ask because it was either because I already asked or I just asked too much or I embarrassed myself in front of them. I would also practice speeches I had for a school program or event, and I couldn't speak it at all in front of people or just mess up on pronouncing words. I did it completely fine at home, but it was probably just me being scared. Then again it felt like I had "social" anxiety, but it was just a bit different for me. Well, at least I think so, I mean, it's different for all people. ( just a vent, please dont get mad abt it. )
Thankyou for making this Playlist. I have major social problems and I'm very awkward in public, my family loves me but my friends are out of the picture so I feel incredibly lonely all the time. I don't have any mental issues that I know about but thankyou so much for the Playlist. :)
The last time I had a good friend was four years ago. From that time I didn't talk to people with my mouth more then ''blabbering-about-neutral-stuff-conversations''. I don't look like and anxious person or like very shy one, but every time I face a human being everything inside me crumbles, twitches and trembles in anxiety. I'm aking impression of a confident calm person and nobody knows what I'm going through every time. I cannot raise up my eyes especially if I talk about something interesting or important to me. The cold winter, remote training and war in my country make me stay inside my house for the sake of safety and distances me more and more from society. I don't remember how to talk without hiccups or louder then stifled whispering. I can, I'm doing it, but it feels even physically painful. The scariest thing is now I feel myself too comfortable with myself to try to open up.
one time there was there really noisy teacher who would yell at a kid who only asked to go to the bathroom, and every time they yelled i would cover my ears and kinda cower. one day they noticed my "odd" behaviour when they yelled at a kid and noticed they came over and asked me why i was crying. i responded kinda tearfully "I dont like when there are loud noises." and they just responded with "well thats odd. this is the only time you have done it.. Faker" then the people around me said, "Ayo. no every time you yell at a kid [my name] would do this they cowered. YOUR just odd" i finally felt accepted by my class at that point-
I love this. I saw this on my recommendations and I clicked on it and I recommend this to anyone it's a very calm playlist. I am now going to listen to this every time I clean my room.☺
I hate loud noises especially when my social butterfly as i like to call it runs out but today my French teacher hit a book at a desk so some kids would stay quiet and when she saw me covering my ears she apologized to me . It was my first time that that happened i just can't explain the happiness i felt that moment 😁 (edit wait i am famous, no no i am kidding. I am happy tho that people relate because I want people to know that it is normal to be sensitive)
I feel u. its nice for people to acknowledge you and notice 😊
@@MAYJAlLOR yeah it is just great
Hm yeeees?
yo i actually had something similar happen, my social studies teacher slammed a textbook on the desk in front of mine (yk those four desks put together) not to get my attention but to be dramatic about what he was talking about, i was drawing and completely focused on that so i flinched, my classmates were startled so they asked why he did that and if i was okay, i got embarrassed that i got startled and that people were asking if i was okay so despite myself and his apology i started to tear up which was even more embarrassing LMAO but yeah no im right there with you pal
i totally feel that, my teachers always whistle really loudly to get our attention, it scares me half to death cause i have sensitive ears, actually one of my teachers used to hit the desk really loudly as a joke, i hated him cause it would scare me so bad, but I'm glad they apologized to u! :D
That feeling when you finally turn down your music and take off your earbuds just to see everyone else around you talking and having fun in their own little world while you sit there by yourself desperately trying to shut off the outside world and pondering your own loneliness.
The worst is when everyone else knows you're a fucking loner, but you're such an absolute loser there's nothing you can do about it, so you just sit there and take it and move on with your boring day.
Update 3/26/22: It got better guys, seems my days of solitude have come to an end :)
A little late, but I’m glad you got rid of your loneliness
that was oddly personal, but i'm happy you got better !! keep doing a good job, i know you can do it !!
Round of apposed for this random dude. 👏👏👏 yr a boss
Honesty, especially in school, I prefer to be the loner. I am there to learn, not to do anything else. Sure, socializing is part of the concept so we don't get depressed and we adjust to the world after just fine-but school-friends feel even more inconstant than other friends and I can't even hold smalltalk, which seems quite popular among people.
I'm litearly the same as you, but I shut uff others because I'm also kind of afraid they wont like me as my own person, but the fact that I'm shooing them away probably makes them angry and hate me and I cant mentaly prepare for permanently escaping this world, so I temporrily escape it by laying in bed, swinging in a swing, whatever I'm doing alone and listening to music, its calming, no frustration, no anger, no sadness, just calm.
Pov:Your heart craves the joy and happiness you had as a small child..... But it's drowning in poison......
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2 I feel this so badly :cc and i hope your doing okay
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Depression is being colorblind and constantly told how colorful the world is. -Atticus
0:00 Devil town
2:57 Brooklynbloodpop
5:21 nobody
8:31 Space song
13:45 Black out days
17:27 after dark
21:44 jealous
23:52 nightmare
29:46 Treehouse
YW!😊
thank you :)
i literally remember one time i realized i was walking in the wrong direction, and i was so scared to turn around because i thought it would be embarrassing. so i took the longer way to class and was late, gotta love anxiety ✨
That’s way too relatable.. I do that all the time at school, it’s so embarrassing yet I doubt anyone really notices.
god i feel this so bad sometimes ill forget where a class is somehow and ill freak out and just pace in the empty hallways because everyones already at class and its awful 😭
@mochi Yup :)
At my school we have extra hours you have to choose everyday (kids come together from other classes in that hour to study 1 subject). One time I was early and I thought I was late because I saw all kids seated in the classroom. I sat down in that class and after 5 minutes everyone was suddenly let go. Turns out I just joined another class from the lesson before- (Like 30 kids I didn't know staring at me when I just randomy joined their lesson. I wanted to die when I saw the kids from the extra hours come in 💀). I still have flashbacks everytime I have to go to an extra hour... 😃
I'm going back to school today, having to face all my classmates again drives me up the wall. I just wanna be left alone and not bother anyone, that is what I do best.
My parents are worried, I have been at this school for like 6 months and have made 0 friends. Just gotta hope that this year will be better.
I feel you. I hope You'll get a friend soon. If you had a bad day and wanna talk to someone just text for me: norman._.22194_ (my instagram). I know its so Hard for you. I want to help for peoples who have social anxiety or depression 'cause I feel what u feel and I think we can work out it together. ^^"
I'm sure you'll meet someone someday.
It took me a few years to find my friends aswell. :) *it's worth it though*
Same, but my friends left me :(
@@arandombisexual4890 Sorry to hear that
@@arandombisexual4890 I am so sorry
Doctor: a playlist cant hurt you
The playlist:
I honestly don’t know if I have social anxiety but I do know it’s a very for me to socialize with people. I’m constantly in a state of worry at school because I’m worried that if I do one wrong think everyone will hate me. I find it hard to understand feelings especially others feelings. But, I hope everyone reading this has a lovely day/night and know that you all are valid and loved.
Well i just cant feel altogether so.. (no but seriously i hope you get better too
I feel like that too
my social problems arent that bad, but this playlist is how i feel when im alone
i feel lonely even tho i have everyone i love in my life, i get genuine love but i want someone to love me more then they do
Damn, I completely understand you.
I feel the same way and sadly, every time I tell my friends they just answer that they have more serious problems than mine and that there are people who are in worse situations and that I'm never satisfied and greedy... :ι
@@eggdi9753 I completely understand you, I was venting to my friend and I couldn’t stop because of a toxic friend and they said; “maybe your just overreacting.” And after that I’ve always thought that, nice to know someone else feels like I do.
I also understand that, I feel same way. I have bad social problems with talking but I get love from my family and I’ve got online friends cause online doesn’t scare me that much but still I want someone to love me more then they even do. It makes me think I’m greedy at this point :|
Bro... I feel the same way. Its hard to talk with ppl even when i know them. But, im dealing with this stupid habit and hope you can deal with it too. We can do this💪
This is so relatable honestly but I also things get better you and good luck
!!short vent!! i genuinely hate how i'm incapable of maintaining friendships, i always think whenever i make friends that we'll fall apart and separate sooner or later. and let me tell you that the fact my friendships always end up horribly is my fault because i don't do anything about it until the other person does even though the fall of our relationship is most likely my fault :( hoping it gets better as i get older..
same
Same I feel alittle jealous when I hear people talk about how they've been friends with someone since kindergarten. I think I can't maintain friendships because I'm not good with conversations and I'm not near them in school because I feel anxious around them when they're with their other friends.
I can relate to this except even though every friendship I had has ended badly I don’t think it’s my fault it’s just everyone hates me saying I’m so mean because I’m a very blunt and honest person
same I don't know how they do it and it really pisses me off 💀
Lol was in a trio group and then i got into 2 fucking arguments with One of them and now its just a duo 👍
This is a good playlist because I have social anxiety, ADHD, Anger issues, and anxiety..
Yea I relate to that hope u feel better and remember to take care of yourself ^^
self-diagnose?
@@P3ili lol
@Elly Stuff okay? um did I ask tho
@@jerickjoson7281 You dont have to be rude about it though
At this point, I can pretty much tell I have social anxiety without having to be diagnosed, my few friends agree. I literally didn’t talk for the first two weeks of school, and I look down when I walk in public places. I don’t like talking to strangers, so group activities in school are torture for me :’).
I don't have social anxiety but this playlist is masterpiece.
same here 😃
yeah me too im actually pretty social but THIS
i do lol when i was in school i put in my earbuds and make my music so loud i made my ears bleed
@@just_let_toby_sleep I do that to much on the bus and at home
@@erokin7411 same lol
It's been hard for me. I don't hang out with anybody in school, i really wanna try to but it's so hard and so afraid of rejection. Whenever i try I cant connect with people or they make fun of me. I'm grateful for online friends but i wish I had some real friends during school.
This is good
I have social anxiety (diagnosed)and probably autism spectrum disorder(my mom, doctor, and therapist think I do and I've had an intake at some place so I may be getting diagnosed soon)anyway I always feel so lonely and like no one actually likes me and scared to talk to people till the point that my voice doesn't work sometimes and I need tone indicators because I can't tell how people are talking
Sorry if this a vent-
Whoooa so many likes:0/pos
I have diagnosed social anxiety and adhd(combined presentation)😅/gen
i have ADHD and many people make fun of me because of it sadly..
It’s okay to vent!❤️
This is literally me I know exactly how you feel. Just know that you're not alone and you'll eventually get through this! I believe you can do it and I believe I can too although it may take a long time you will make progress and it'll get better. Have an amazing day/night
Its weird how I'm very social online but in real life im the definition of social anxiety lol
I have social problems, people say they understand but get mad when I don’t want to go out. I love making friends with outcasts and people who don’t have other friends! I’m trying to get out of my comfort zone and it’s extremely draining but I don’t wanna live my life like this! Hope you can too!!
This playlist is perfect for me bc i have social anxiety
imagine just having a cocoon you can just summon and lock yourself inside of whenever you want instead of being afraid to open the front door of your house
I want to move forward, talk to people like before.
I want to have friends, encounters and confidence again.
I don't know what happened to me, I never had any disorders, but now my mom plans to take me to a psychiatrist soon because I just can't stop moving, talking or concentrating.
I hate this, I want to go back.
The moment it starts with Cavetown you know its gonna be awesome.
i have horrible anxiety although its not social anxiety this playlist is really nice ty for making it
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Your pfp is amazing
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Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society builds up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy life. But in fact, that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way...I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such a beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this then please never forget to breathe and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug-like it's your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is.
Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUG YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you through my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it with such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such a mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning, and so on... You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course, you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self-care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone ask you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
I am sorry you feel misunderstood.
But anyone who gets to be with you doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they are :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it.
And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you.
I hope you will remember my words :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
(keep in mind, i didn't write this! please copy and paste this and send it on every video you watch. mwa mwa
But it's so hard I wanna die people laugh at me I have really bad anxiety and I'm glad I have friends thx
i don’t know who are u, but thank you very much
u are sunbeam in this darkness
thank you
hope u r happy!
Thank you. Tbh I came here to Listen to music, not knowing that a comment can affect me like that. But still thanks
I love all of you guys in the replies
Thanks so much, I really needed that. I was getting bullied yesterday.
I have anger issues, social anxiety and adhd (all diagnosed some years ago) this playlist is perfect i love it
Same here and it's hard for me to cope and I feel like no one cares about me n shit bc im not perfect and I wish I could be happy and I have hella bad anxiety and still no one came and checked on me I have panic attacks and my own boyfriend never checks on me :/
@@chloeallaway2852 im so sorry i hope it all gets better some day love you
I THOUGHT THE TITLE OF THE VIDEO SAID "Pov: you have socialist problems" AND I WAS LIKE ???? WHAT DOES SOCIALISM HAVE TO DO WITH A YT PLAYLIST
LMFAO
THIS!!!
OMG PLS- LMFAO
These songs scream I did not get loved enough as a kid! 😀✋
I cry any time i have to interact with people that arent my close friends and family (and my family also makes me cry a lot) and idk why. I've always cried like this since i remember and i've always been afraid of people for no reason.
comfort playlist
ayo why is this so underrated 😭😭😭
When it’s isn’t even an POV anymore, cause of how much real is it, that influences your grades
this is what i listen too every breaktime and free period at school cause i don't have friends and i spend my time listening to music and drawing most of the time so i appreciate you making this
literally same here
i cant bc my school don’t allow phones 😍
Jesus.. Prime Prey... Christ why am I like this? I feel like a hunter.
@@id10cyyMine usually allows them at lunch period, but certain days they don't. I usually ask for permission, but sometimes I will sneak my phone if they say no lol
its good knowing all of these songs. a broken poem only artists can read. one day you sit down and look at somebody and tell them you make art and only they undearstand the kind of art you carry on and with you because they are an artist themself
Fr!!! I do art and I swear nobody gets the art i make 😭
I think it’s so cool how a group of people who have the same problem and/or experiences feel so drawn to certain songs. I love all these songs dearly but have never really had all of them on one playlist and I just feel like this whole playlist expresses me. It expresses what I have problems expressing to others. It’s also very comforting. So thanks for putting this together
I haven't really been close or interacted/had friends in 4 years. Especially when Quarantine hit I had no one, I was actually alone. That went on for a while but I started getting used to it. I was started feeling alright with it because I thought that I only really needed myself anyway but then school started up again. It was alright, to be honest, I started interacting with people and even had long conversations. It was somewhat invigorating. However, this never lead to any close relations or friendships, just acquaintances and good mutuals. During lunch I watch everyone have fun, laugh, and just have friends. Of course, I don't necessarily mind it anymore since I've gotten so used to it but sometimes it bothers me not having anyone else I can fall back on or anyone to connect to. I get this overwhelming feeling of dread, anger and emptiness. I'm not a shy person or a recluse, I talk with others and I'm vocal when I need to be but I can never develop friendships or anything closer than a mutual. It's like there's a wall between me and everyone else. It can get quite exhausting but it's bearable for the most part, it's not like it's the end of the world if I have no friends anyway. Just recently someone came up to me during lunch asking if I wanted to walk with them since im always alone but I took that as pity. It seemed like they were looking down on me because they felt bad. I hate pity. It also made me question why they'd want to, I never really interacted with them much and I had nothing to offer so why?. I then thought they might've had some other ulterior motive so I told them no. I can't trust anyone and I'd rather keep everyone at surface level, the moment we get personal I push away. Its my own fault. I want friends and I want that bond with someone but I just don't know whats wrong with me so I just brush it off. I don't know what to do with myself, guess you could say I'm alienated lol. Though im unsure if this would count as a social problem since im a pretty upfront and assertive person. Im not scared to talk with people, I just suck at getting close with others so now im a loner or an outcast in societies view at least.
Wow, It's like i'm writing to myself, I understand how you feel, I also never seem to be able to make friends, the only reason I have people I talk with, "aquaintances", is because they approached me first, but apart from that I have absolutely no one, I'm also neither shy or insecure. I can approach people and I speak out when I have to, but I can't for the life of me develop a genuine friendship or bond, so I am also a complete loner.
This has led to me becoming kind of depressed, or rather viewing the world as empty and grey, it's not the _worst_ thing ever, but it honestly really does suck. It's not complete misery though, there are few moments of happiness, not being able to share them with anyone is kind of a downer though so I just keep it to myself and celebrate them in my own mind, the masks have really helped with this.
It's nice to meet someone who I can actually relate to for once, it seems we just have terrible social skills lol, but they say it gets better for people like us right?
Edit 8/4/22: It got better :)
I just want to let you know that I have never been able to put this in words but you did such a great job. It feels comforting that I'm not the only one that feels like/goes through this I tell myself all the time that it's my fault and maybe it's just cause everyone talks to me out of pity since I sit by myself everywhere I go. The looking around and seeing all the people laughing and talking with their friends while I'm just sitting by myself because I'm no ones #1 that's what's comforting is that you were able to put how I feel every day into words so thank you
@lina nobody theres this thing called venting, and i'm not trying to be rude but i don't exactly get what u mean by ur text so if u don't mind you could have just scrolled and mind ur own business instead of leaving comments like this. It may come off as if ur not validating their feelings.
@@hyde1995 It look kinda rude even to you don't wanna be rude O-O
@@haiii3060 sorry, i didn't mean to be.
As an autistic person who struggles to communicate outside of things like phones and the internet, this playlist is a great help for me. Thank you :)
I hate loud noises, so my dad says i'm crazy or a psycho , and somehow this make me relax cuz it's calming and late at night right now, and i can't sleep, and this helps so much 🥰🥰 thank you very much!
the only way I made friends is because people went up and talked to me but I was still shy and barley talked. Since this whole covid thing started things got worse. I didn't talk or play with the friends I made at school and I didn't have anybody but that was when I started getting along with the people I met online and now their my only friends I have. I moved to a new school this year since the school I was going to didn't have online classes anymore and I didn't want to go to in person school because its been so long since I've seen my friends in person and I already got used to online classes so I'm still doing online classes. I get along with the kids in my class when we get partnered but then we just forget about each other. Seeing my online best friends have school friends makes me remember that I don't have any other friends expect them. I still get so nervous when people I don't know or people I barely talk to talk to me even people online.
me too! i wish i had more friends but i can't approach someone and start a conversation. everyone finds new friends so easily and i never talk to anyone. i'm scared after high school, when everyone will go to different directions, i will be alone
Thats so relatable i have a hard time talking with people due to me overthinking things and it's so hard to even make friends because im afraid of embarrassing myself or doing something wrong.
do not worry about it im sure u will sooner or later make tons of loyal friends!
This happend to me before and i hope you are ok now :)
i hope you gain friends soon. i struggle the same as u.
I’m listening as I’m sitting alone at lunch ;-;
I litteraly love this playlist, I listen to it on the bus and just when I need a break overall, school is so tiring but for some reason I'm probably the happiest I ever am at school, I don't know why but school just is so stressful yet for some reason I'm so happy there. And after math I go home and I'm so exited to get home yet life isn't any better at home. It doesn't make sense
Omg i Just feel Like this too!.
Same. It feels unnatural.
i like school because even if im alone, im still around people and getting to see other people talk and be happy which makes me happy. at home, im alone.
I needed it.. my problems aren't that bad but I'm starting feeling like everyone are looking at me and judging.. it makes me stay home like today even if it's a day at school where we will have fun. I just don't want to go there it's terrifying..
Thanks for reading that.. have a happy day/evening/night💜
I genuinely have very bad problems with loud machines and noises (the most I can handle is about a vacuum or large truck) and yet my school put me in woodworking even though I wrote on the sheet the reason I would not be able to handle it. (We don't have a choice, we can only say which one of the side courses we prefer and which ones we don't.) In the end, during that class I go to the library and read about the history of woodworking for a good mark
everytime I try to socialize and make friends like any normal person, I embarrass myself. it's more easy to just not talk at all.
the fact that I already listen to these songs everyday is...
concerning... ? /hj
i relate to devil town on a spiritual level lmao
btw good playlist, i'll definetly save it to listen to it more times
(sorry if i got anything wrong, english is not my first language)
Hey you
Yes you
You beautiful person
You are valid
Your feelings are valid
Your actions are valid
You are so worthy of everything amazing that comes to you
Drink some water
But actually do it
And remember-
I LOVE YOU
1 year late but I've came to say ty
Its hard for me to sociallize IRL not in game, its easier for me cause i can just ignore everything, but irl. You cant just, walk away. You have to face consequinces. Whenever i want to tell my parent something i get anxious, imscared theyd think different of me. Scared that theyd get mad, or, become abusive. I was so scared to ask if i could go to a therapist to make sure i dont have social anxiety. I still cant ask. It hurts to much, im just worried id either be abandoned, or abused. Also off topic but this playlist is poggers
the emotions I feel listening to space song holy shit it’s just so good and such a vibe
as a person with both social and generalized anxiety (or so my doctor says), this playlist really helps me during episodes where i feel like im the problem and that i should just get over it. as i get older, it only gets worse, so i tend to stay by myself a lot to the point where it bothers me to even be around family. it sucks, but im really hoping it gets better. and i hope whoever else is going through this will be okay later on as well. it sucks going through this, but deep down, i believe that everyone can be strong enough to fight that voice in their head telling them that people dont like them, or that theyll never fit in... because what your brain tells you isnt true, i can guarantee that. and im sorry if all of this just jumbles together, im just saying what came into my head.
You're not alone, trust. I sincerely and genuinely hope it gets better for you, you desvere the very best!
I felt the family part, I love my family but I love being in my room in my own world of happiness and safety, I can’t wait to be living in my own space!
Let's all start a freakin discord or zoom whatever skype, and be there for each other seriously. You're not alone
I am literally suffering as a human being rn, this playlist is amazing
Looking at some of these comments makes me feel a bit better, It reminds me that I'm not the only one who has social anxiety and anger issues or anything else :) But I feel like the song Nobody is how I feel when someone tries to understand my social anxiety or my anger issues.
My voice teacher made us sing happy birthday for another person in my class without letting us know before, and we had to do it by ourselves. Everyone did something so unique, and I sang in a shaky voice, the normal happy birthday. I literally almost had a panic attack, it took all I had to not cry. I feel like a freaking baby.
Dude I could relate my English teacher made us read a poem in front of the whole class it was the worst experience ever anyway hope your doing better I like your pfp btw
I hate having social anxiety, it's those random moments that I truly realize how alone I am in a gaggle of students. I feel afraid of talking to anyone and I never feel accepted anywhere. It's funny cause I'm even lonely at home
social anxiety sucks,principally when im in school im scared to go back
POV “the playlist are starting to portray your life”
me and my social anxiety love this playlist
Pov UA-cam's getting a little too accurate
i'm a middle schooler and i have to wait at my local high school for the bus and when like the seniors and juniors and stuff are just starring a me like i know they're not but it just makes me uncomfortable, cuz when i am at school i hate walking alone i have to walk with the same person which is my best friend(s) but like idk i asked my mom if i have social problems and she said no. but i hate being around guys cuz they look at you and like think about you in a bad way. thats it i had to vent thank you.❤
this playlist is really nice to listen to when I'm oversitmulated and I need to be by myself for a bit :)
I've had a few terrible situations with my classmates ... that's why at the beginning I'm always shy and quiet when I meet someone. I went to high school this year and I thought everything was fine. suddenly people I thought were nice started to ignore me and only talk to me when they needed something. I found out that the only thing I have done wrong is that I am quiet and I have to get close to someone for the relationship to develop. I've had problems before and now every day at school is terrible.
instead of focusing on my lessons, I blame myself all the time and started hurting myself physically again. I'm about to start taking the right medications soon.
I'm sorry for writing this but I feel that the internet is the only place where people accept me
im really happy because everyone in the comments relates to me and ive been holding in these emotions for so long and evrything is so loud and it feels like everyones against me and when i read theese comments it reminds me in not alone
Its almost a whole new day. Woo. I was crying 3 minutes ago lmao. I need a hug lol. I need to vent ahaha. Lmfao imagine. L.O.L couldn't be me. I'm gonna cry, again XD
When you dont have a personality so you make jokes left right and center about your problems
Just cry if you want. If you wanna talk to someone just text for me on instagram: norman._.22194_
I'll hear you and I think we can work out it together (I'm bad at English but I understand when I read).
Virtual hug (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃
Omg you guys were so nice! Thank you!!! This was honestly just me in a depressive episode but I am getting help so thank you :) I'm gonna cry happy tears omg!!!
@@leslie..subete3238 virtual hug :]
I have diagnosed social anxiety and adhd(combined presentation.) My ears are horribly sensitive, and I have to ask people to use tone indicators so I don’t misinterpret something. Listening to music is like escaping reality, into my own new world where everything is okay. My dad got me earplugs to help with the noise at school, and I always have my headphones on me. So stuff like this always helps me if I’m unsure what to listen to. Thanks for the calming playlist❤️❤️❤️
As someone who has had very severe social anxiety, I feel as if I'm slowly falling into this state again. This playlist has me reminded I'm anything but alone, but, I'm so scared.
imagine having anxiety even calling your grandparents - but at the same time feeling guilty that you didn't
And it doesn't help that i don't like them.
I can barely do anything anymore that involves other people (over all) without feeling the urge to cry or faint
same i went out today with my friends and i almost had a sensory overload ( i don't have autism but may have ADHD)
weird thing about me: I can be the extrovert and social butterfly for like a week or longer but sometimes I wanna just be the introvertial person sitting alone in a corner eating and reading or drawing enjoying life's small moments. hopefully someone feels me cause it gets a little lonely sometimes 😞 (have a good day and to anyone reading this, know ur beautiful no matter what. took me a little to long for me to learn that and hopefully it was faster for u. enjoy life cus it's short and sometimes it's beautiful, like u 🤗)
I mean, I always feel myself choking back my words. Feeling watched all the time. Like everything I do is judged. Being paranoid over one look, one laugh. I hate when people shout. Overthinking everything. Exhausted of not showing myself.....because........ I'm too scared.
vent//
anytime i try to express to my friends that i'm uncomfortable because of people or a place they brush it off and say "dude this is fine ur not even trying to get used to it" and all i wanna do is sink through the floor. i feel watched and judged all the time, i get warm and dizzy when im around alot of people, and think everyone hates me or has something against me. i remember everything someone has ever said about me and always see the negative in it. ive stayed home calling in "sick' because i feel like id throw up if i get around people. im not agoraphobic, but my room is the only place where i can recharge. its a save haven. and even in there i have to deal with sound restrictions, hearing my brother kick the walls and my mom yell. its too much. and idk for how much longer i can go witouth completely breaking down and shutting everything out.
I have bad social anxiety and just general anxiety and this...this is a work of art. This is exactly how I feel, sometimes I don't even want to talk to the people that are most important to me.
This playlist is perfect. I'll save this for the time when I'm sitting in class, almost throwing up because there's too much going on.
The way I love every single one of these songs...
Yeah uhm I can talk to other people ig but well- I always feel like I have to impress people to be friends and they feel so superior to me. The only person I’m not nervous around is my enemy. I fucking hate her, she thinks we are friends. I talk to her sometimes because we are in most of the same classes.. but I would call her my “classmate” or “mutual” because I don’t really like too much. Other those things, on thing is that I’m terrified of adults and little children. I cant talk to either. If I didn’t have shyness around others, then I would be labeled as an asshole probably. Well whatever other people need this place to vent more than I do I’m just a sad little minor girl thanks for anybody who would even read this shit :)
Honestly was me for awhile
@@BubblegumKoi oof sorry about that
POV: u already listen to these songs and know u have social problems💀🖤 lovely isn't it
as someone who struggles with many anxiety issues, social anxiety being the main, i relate hard.
just walking with crowds through hallways, or even if it's just five people, i panic. speaking as someone who knows the feeling, thanks for making this playlist.
I have anxiety and social anxiety, this really helps ❤️❤️❤️
It sucks you know...Every time I show up to school there's always the groups of my class, I look at them and just think if they are thinking about me, if they talking about me, lord and then I I keep thinking about it, then the best part...imagine if I was in a friend group.
It sucks....
I have social anxiety
and it's really bad
I can't take it anymore
I'm so tired
I don't want to be here
TW: vent
I'm really not a socialize person. I don't even know how to communicate in person or online. I'm having anxiety whenever I talk in Roblox voice chat. I even have a voice chat but, I'm not even using it even though I wanted to talk but I can't still use it yet. I really want to talk socially. I hate having anxiety shortness breathing whenever I started to talk. I really hate the feeling of stopping talking. I just really want to talk but, I can't stop stopping it. I'm an introvert and sometimes when I get extrovert, thinking that people getting sick of my random repeating stims. I just wanted to be cool. I want my life to be really good and full of sunshine.
This playlist is really good and I love it!
Eu não tenho ansiedade social mas no momento estou me sentindo inferior em questão de desenhos e triste pois achei alguem melhor que eu em desenhar (o que acontece a todo momento)então as musicas ja ajudaram bastante:)
I feel the same. I mean I went a new school in 4th grade and everyone maked fun of me. My dad is left me when I was 4 and my Mom left me when I was in 4th grade. I have foster parents and in school everyone hurt me. But... When I drew, I can't hear the hurtful words. In 6th grade a girl came to my school and she has good Drawings and everyone love her and They said to her: "wow you have good drawing skills. I love your drawing. Let's be friends!"
And now I make drawings at home but I can't go to the art grade at high school in the next school year.... jealous... And I'm angry 'cause she made me introvert and now I have social problems... Sorry for this I just saw your story and it' s similiar as mine and I want to tell..
@@leslie..subete3238 sinto muito, seus desenhos devem ser muito bons, tudo é questão de evolução, se hoje você não é bom talvez outro dia você pode ser muito melhor ^^
I have really bad anxiety (diagnosed) and Im also not used to people, I never really go out much, and I always get scared when there is loud noises. this playlist fits me, I have always had bad social skills
Just had to leave my "friends" and I'm trying to overcome it until I go back to them. Thank you.
Ever since my house got destroyed by somebody who i didn't even know.. it's hard to trust and talk to ppl, good thing my best friend is always there for me.
I was showering and this playlist came on. I know almost all these songs and I was like, "damn, this is pretty good" and when I stepped out of the shower and read the title I just felt 😁🔫
Haha i can relate to that:))
I stutter a lot so being social is a little hard and talking to someone I like is even harder when I stutter is when I’m nervous so it’s really hard talking in front of a big crowd or something like that
this song and " isolation by The Impures " are whats keeping me going during these hard times, stay safe everyone out there, n i love music []
Thank you for this. I have social anxiety and I found this late at night. I was having a panic attack when I found this and it really helps. Thank you a lot💖
Thanks this really helped I'm on my tablet right now but when I'm in school I use my phone to listen to music so I don't start freaking out because of the noises and like I used this playlist today and it really helped at some point my social duck(what I call my my social anxiety) got to a 100% battery and I went to my friends and started talking to them I even made a new friend who also watches the dream smp :)
POV: You finally understand why you're so afraid of judgement.
People generally confuse me, I have asd, and social anxiety (both diagnosed). I have absolutely no idea what is 'normal' when talking and interacting with people. I have very few friends because of this. I can't seem to understand if I'm making someone uncomfortable because they don't say anything. I feel really bad after someone tells me, and says it was obvious, but I have no understanding of what to look for
Eu não sei porque mas estou começando a gostar a ver esse tipo de vídeo em preto e branco acho que eu não iria sentir falta das outras cores
The title is not lying.
I'm not confirming anything about if I have social problems or anxiety, but whenever I was little and stuff, I would never ask my teacher at all if I needed help on a question. I would just do it on my own and get a bad grade, I was too scared to ask because it was either because I already asked or I just asked too much or I embarrassed myself in front of them. I would also practice speeches I had for a school program or event, and I couldn't speak it at all in front of people or just mess up on pronouncing words. I did it completely fine at home, but it was probably just me being scared. Then again it felt like I had "social" anxiety, but it was just a bit different for me. Well, at least I think so, I mean, it's different for all people.
( just a vent, please dont get mad abt it. )
Thankyou for making this Playlist. I have major social problems and I'm very awkward in public, my family loves me but my friends are out of the picture so I feel incredibly lonely all the time. I don't have any mental issues that I know about but thankyou so much for the Playlist. :)
The last time I had a good friend was four years ago. From that time I didn't talk to people with my mouth more then ''blabbering-about-neutral-stuff-conversations''. I don't look like and anxious person or like very shy one, but every time I face a human being everything inside me crumbles, twitches and trembles in anxiety. I'm aking impression of a confident calm person and nobody knows what I'm going through every time. I cannot raise up my eyes especially if I talk about something interesting or important to me. The cold winter, remote training and war in my country make me stay inside my house for the sake of safety and distances me more and more from society. I don't remember how to talk without hiccups or louder then stifled whispering. I can, I'm doing it, but it feels even physically painful.
The scariest thing is now I feel myself too comfortable with myself to try to open up.
This playlist is so poggers, tysm for making it!:)
Yall i was listening to this when skiing ❤️
one time there was there really noisy teacher who would yell at a kid who only asked to go to the bathroom, and every time they yelled i would cover my ears and kinda cower. one day they noticed my "odd" behaviour when they yelled at a kid and noticed they came over and asked me why i was crying. i responded kinda tearfully "I dont like when there are loud noises." and they just responded with "well thats odd. this is the only time you have done it.. Faker" then the people around me said, "Ayo. no every time you yell at a kid [my name] would do this they cowered. YOUR just odd" i finally felt accepted by my class at that point-
i think they got fired a couple months later too. i'm not sure though
@@Z3r0e_ Good they deserved to be fired. Your class sounds really sweet for doing that. I hope you're doing well now :)
IM SORRY BUT THIS PLAYLIST IS MY LIFE I LISTEN TO IT 24/7
HELP
I love this. I saw this on my recommendations and I clicked on it and I recommend this to anyone it's a very calm playlist. I am now going to listen to this every time I clean my room.☺
this playlist is very comforting for me so tysm