Child Marriage in India

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @nahalanasrine.a2400
    @nahalanasrine.a2400 3 роки тому +13249

    I am the first girl in my family who is still unmarried and studying at the age of 19. Proud of my parents. They want me to get a job.

    • @MalluNextDoorG3
      @MalluNextDoorG3 3 роки тому +116

      Wow nyc

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 роки тому +183

      #MY.PARENTS.TOO! The Love Me To Bits, Even Though I Kinda Stupid
      I am 10 Years Old Though...
      In This World And This Time, You Would Think Everything Would Be Done Especially Arranged Marriages,
      It Just Hurts Me That I Live In Such A Big World, Yet Sexual Harassment And Arranged Marriages Are A Thing...
      I Am Also A 10 Year Old Girl Who Knows Why Too Much Of This World

    • @afeehaak3995
      @afeehaak3995 3 роки тому +100

      Go with ur dreams 🙌

    • @cutlet7127
      @cutlet7127 3 роки тому +121

      Shaadi tab karo jab aapki man kahe... May you find your destiny and, live a good life :)

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 роки тому +19

      @@afeehaak3995 Yass

  • @dorisadams4194
    @dorisadams4194 3 роки тому +10007

    When I was 13 my parents married me off to a 69 old man it was horrible I cried and pleased with them but they didn't care at all the man already had 8 wives I was the youngest everyone in my family told me that I should be happy that this is what women are meant for that we were meant to be under men we had no voice I hated it I hated everyone in my family I didn't want to end up like any of those women so at the age of 15 I ran away from my country it wasn't easy I was homeless in America but it was better than being a wife to a 69 years old man a woman saw me and adopted me I told her everything I went back to school and now I can call my self a mother of 4 and a successful designer with my lovely husband my real parents hate me and told me I have disgraced them and brought shame to their name but I don't care because I hate them I later put the man in jail I'm happy with my life and would never forces any of my children into marriage

    • @aaravrapelli4401
      @aaravrapelli4401 3 роки тому +400

      From which country you were from

    • @anaghapaul3987
      @anaghapaul3987 3 роки тому +389

      Proud of u
      👏🏻👏🏻

    • @luvsoobmin
      @luvsoobmin 3 роки тому +580

      You are really a powerful woman! Hats off from India 👏👏👏

    • @titikshaagrawal4333
      @titikshaagrawal4333 3 роки тому +268

      Wowww
      such an inspirational story

    • @keertikeerti7619
      @keertikeerti7619 3 роки тому +295

      Hats of you from India 🇮🇳 you are really great 👏👏

  • @tire.d743
    @tire.d743 3 роки тому +568

    I'm a 19 year old guy
    I have a little sister and I'm very protective of her
    I want her to be a fighter
    I wanted her to be
    Independent
    Loved
    Educated
    I want her to have the world, I can't imagine what those little girls in rural areas of India are going through and I dearly hope they won't stop fighting.
    No matter your skin color or gender Identity
    We are all human,we breathe the same air so don't think so highly of yourself and think about the people around you.

    • @yashvishah7414
      @yashvishah7414 3 роки тому +22

      True my big bother is like you only but will never let know this and he is of your age only

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 роки тому +28

      @@xombie0078 My sister is a powerful soul. She never gave up on her dreams, ever since she was 5 years old she wanted to be doctor to help people.
      She's only 16 but so mature and loving....
      But she isn't weakling, she stands up for the good in people...
      Both my parents have passed away, I've raised her myself ever since she was 10 under the care of my uncle.
      I didn't teach my sister to bow in the presence of neither man nor woman. I will support her till the day I die
      Because she is the only family that I'm left with-
      I don't care if a man didn't like her for her attitude, she's kind to people and if my sister is to marry a person she will marry someone who loves her for who she is.
      You have no right to speak to my dear sister that way...

    • @xombie0078
      @xombie0078 2 роки тому

      @@tire.d743 First off, I have EVERY RIGHT to speak my opinion, especially when it's based on common sense and logic. Secondly, I'm NOT speaking to your sister--I'm speaking to YOU, fool! It's YOU who said that you want your sister to be a FIGHTER, and you want to raise her that way. So I replied and told you that men (and women too for that matter) don't like people who are raised to be aggressive and confrontational, which is 100% true. But now you're CONTRADICTING yourself and saying that your sister is "kind" and apparently not the @sshole that you want to raise her to be. So again, it's you who don't know what the hell you're talking about, so you might as well just shut up!

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 роки тому +7

      @@xombie0078 in my first comment
      Did I ever even mention the fact that I want her to be aggressive?
      I literally said so many things about her being loved...
      How the hell do you think a person would be loved if they were ignorant and selfish shits?
      Isn't it YOU'RE problem for also taking the term "fighter" the wrong way? When I said I raised her to be a fighter, I didn't mean that she's some asshole who goes around picking fights with people...I meant she fights for what's right, she stays strong in the right times; when she needs to protect people and herself...
      A fighter that never gives up because they're always fighting for the good in people...
      I understand it's you're opinion, dear stranger
      But I too, have the right to say something back when you're speaking to me or my sister.

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 роки тому +7

      @@xombie0078 I'm 20, a literal adult and I have a job...
      I'm going to a prestigious university in Canada-
      Currently I'm doing my very first Major in Visual Arts as I support my sister in her studies....
      She does a part time job aswell.
      I'm living with my husband, we all lived in russia but russia isn't a LGBTQ+ friendly country so we married early and moved to Canada.

  • @Heheheeeeeeeeee
    @Heheheeeeeeeeee 3 роки тому +738

    I am a 12 year old girl and my sister is 21 year old
    And no one forced my sister to marry and no one will force me to marry
    Blessed to have such parents ❤️
    May all the children get better life
    Thank you for so many likes
    Never got so many before !!

  • @selinakhan9887
    @selinakhan9887 4 роки тому +4099

    My father always said me be so successful that you don't have to depend on someone's son to fulfill your dreams

    • @Haslinn
      @Haslinn 3 роки тому +14

      💯❤️

    • @rajiarafiah8245
      @rajiarafiah8245 3 роки тому +31

      my mother also say the same

    • @soniamallick1925
      @soniamallick1925 3 роки тому +12

      So true👏💯

    • @varshagowda5732
      @varshagowda5732 3 роки тому +9

      That's 100% trueee

    • @nayab6129
      @nayab6129 3 роки тому +2

      @Best way to get your time wasted Wait, somewhere in the comments you said " i'd slap my dad if he said that to me" I found that kinda rude. But thank God you are lucky get such amazing parents.

  • @manisharout6499
    @manisharout6499 4 роки тому +8951

    My parents are like " whose even gonna marry u ?"😆 they are hilarious ..proud to have such cute parents

  • @basundharathakur5357
    @basundharathakur5357 2 роки тому +191

    All - girls are born for marrige
    My parents - Girls are born to study and change peoples thinking

  • @justastupidhoomaan9824
    @justastupidhoomaan9824 Рік тому +119

    When my neighbour got to know about my age (I'm 20) and asked my mom if they were getting me married.😂 My neighbour said that her daughter's got married at the age of 18, but my mom said they will only get me married once I get independent and has a job. My neighbour was surprised and asked " wouldn't it take too much money and time?!, U can Marry her off easily. We get no benefits by teaching a girl" My father got furious when he heard that. He was like " who r they to decide my child's marriage? She will marry when she wanted! "😭I freaking luv my parents...

  • @shinchan359
    @shinchan359 4 роки тому +4851

    18 yrs is still small for a girl to get married. It should be atleast 21

  • @anjuthomas9744
    @anjuthomas9744 4 роки тому +1837

    When u educate a women you educate the whole family

  • @nicki_minajs_lost_wig934
    @nicki_minajs_lost_wig934 3 роки тому +892

    My mom if forcing me to get married with math books , paper and pencils, highlighters, curriculum books , sticky notes and more.

    • @sarakhan6248
      @sarakhan6248 3 роки тому +48

      🤣🤣🤣 same

    • @commander6921
      @commander6921 3 роки тому +56

      same not only my mother but also my father and i am glad that they want me to get education as much as i want.

    • @ariba5378
      @ariba5378 3 роки тому +6

      😂

    • @bindushree4105
      @bindushree4105 3 роки тому +5

      Same, 😂

    • @PoojaThakur-gx8jn
      @PoojaThakur-gx8jn 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @bhingabubacar9770
    @bhingabubacar9770 3 роки тому +1020

    We are Muslim from Philippines but our parents never pressure us to marry early. I married at the age of 28 after I got a job. I'm proud that they are like more open-minded than other parents.

    • @moongazer2607
      @moongazer2607 3 роки тому +20

      Hello sister and fellow Muslim may god protect you and keep you happy

    • @realityhometips5289
      @realityhometips5289 2 роки тому +6

      @@moongazer2607 thank you dear

    • @Saumya3020
      @Saumya3020 2 роки тому

      Mostly child marriage is prevalent in muslim faimly
      This is really horrible

    • @Shivkeyyy8809
      @Shivkeyyy8809 2 роки тому +17

      Good but religion doesn't matter

    • @user-ilhemdjaalab
      @user-ilhemdjaalab 2 роки тому +16

      Im a muslim, hijabi, from a conservative family, doing phd abroad, not yet married, my family would never force me to marry because they know that will go against the teaching ls of our religion. And there some people criticizing muslims and ignoring their own problems. Such a shame.

  • @ratnachatterjee3688
    @ratnachatterjee3688 3 роки тому +2378

    My dad said he'll get me married at 18.
    I was like: I'm not even sure if I'll marry at 28.

    • @sayalirokade6754
      @sayalirokade6754 3 роки тому +19

      @Bobby Bob Mee tooo✌️

    • @uzuma2115
      @uzuma2115 3 роки тому +107

      I'm not Indian, but I made joke about marriage and my dad said "no you'll get married when your 100 years old or older"🤣🤣🤣

    • @gauriseth8086
      @gauriseth8086 3 роки тому +51

      Same with me ......But I will raise my voice .....Because for me my dream meant alot ......I will be thinking after 30 or equivalent for marriage

    • @Ankur_TravelLife
      @Ankur_TravelLife 3 роки тому +11

      Bal suhagrat ka video banao

    • @dibaatt9901
      @dibaatt9901 3 роки тому +4

      Lah bapak saya juga nikah diumur 18

  • @Sakshi-mrs9tx
    @Sakshi-mrs9tx 5 років тому +4347

    I am even not interested in marriage😑😑😑

  • @Ntrsneaky
    @Ntrsneaky 3 роки тому +195

    Iam 14 years old. In 2020 my mom is no more. In 2021 my father get 2nd married. And my step mom want i get married but my father is nothing to say..when public and my relatives,know that my mom is no more they used to say why not she married after my ssc exam they want to i got married.. I hate this cheap mentality.. How cheap mentality they have...but my mom wanted iam in success in my life. At one time my father also wanted that i will be a doctor... My father also a doctor... Please pray for me guys i want to success in my life i want to fill my mom wish..which century we live in... Marriage isn't a better option in life why girl is a load..why always a girl can compromise????

    • @anaghapaul3987
      @anaghapaul3987 3 роки тому +12

      I feel so sad for you...even though idk u
      I will pray for you dear🙂😇

    • @asmisamaze1234
      @asmisamaze1234 3 роки тому +21

      Listen
      Secretly record your stepmothers cruel behaviour to you and show it to police

    • @gadisha5398
      @gadisha5398 3 роки тому +6

      Come on dear only u can stop ur problem.talk with ur father .bless u dear

    • @ishanisarmah554
      @ishanisarmah554 3 роки тому +5

      Any updates?

    • @srishtigupta8698
      @srishtigupta8698 3 роки тому +8

      Don't worry Apra... We all are with you ♥️
      I'm also 14 years old if you any problem please reply me here I'll talk with you...
      Atleast main toh tumhari mushkil samajh paungi 😃

  • @SAKSHI-gm1tk
    @SAKSHI-gm1tk 2 роки тому +86

    My grandma married when she was 9 years old...when she told me this....I can't beleive my eyes, ears , from my whole body 😭😭😭❤️...my mom got married at 17 when she was in 12th....😭
    When I listened it I couldn't believe what I read in childhood about child marriage was right it was in my family but no one told me and I was soo immature I never tried to ask them ...now when I am in 12th I asked them and my mom said I married at your age...and now here in this age I can't even know how to cook...??
    I am only girl child my mom fought in my joint family to go in town to let me and my brother study ..❤️I am proud of my mom..now all who were stopping my mom back then have children and came here in city for study ....I am proud of my mom and dad....❤️😭

  • @anittamariammathew1477
    @anittamariammathew1477 3 роки тому +3950

    Dude why is no one talking about that child acting !!! ITS DAMNNNN GOOOOOOOOOD !!!!

  • @Brojuststfuuuuuuuu
    @Brojuststfuuuuuuuu 5 років тому +5542

    My dad says that u won't get married until u become a successful person in ur life😊❤
    Edit: thankyou so much everyone and all the very best for your future ahead. May you all rise and shine. 💜

  • @sadles-girl3560
    @sadles-girl3560 3 роки тому +342

    Bro I'm 23 years and my parents didn't even talk about marriage to the point I thought they forgot about it lol

  • @rajbirsingh5231
    @rajbirsingh5231 3 роки тому +44

    I can't understand when husband dies in the day of marriage everyone blame wife. Child marriage should be stoped. I am very lucky to have best parents in the world.

    • @ae0lian5284
      @ae0lian5284 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah, they mostly blame the bride of it BC according to their beliefs, if a groom dies, it means the girl has brought unluckiness to the family. Its sad😔

  • @jefreepatrickstarr98
    @jefreepatrickstarr98 5 років тому +931

    "God did not create society but man did." damn so accurate

    • @aanchal-annaleedeprince5525
      @aanchal-annaleedeprince5525 3 роки тому +4

      Oh yes

    • @creeperYT9824
      @creeperYT9824 3 роки тому

      Wait did a man create it or a woman

    • @sathish5470
      @sathish5470 2 роки тому +18

      @@creeperYT9824 Humans

    • @Lisamanoban1997
      @Lisamanoban1997 2 роки тому +8

      O wow,I never knew that boys could give birth🙄I know what you mean. But the major part of the roll is played by our mom. She keeps us in our stomach for 270 days (9 months.) And then with lots of pain she brings us to the world.

    • @ok-kc3cy
      @ok-kc3cy 2 роки тому +2

      @@Lisamanoban1997 without men world not run

  • @ragaveeanantharajah6468
    @ragaveeanantharajah6468 6 років тому +3326

    Child marriage should be a crime. I felt bad for her at the beginning. Luckily now she has a freedom to do anything she wants.

    • @areejikram1041
      @areejikram1041 6 років тому +7

      Ragavee Anantharajah omg I love your proflie pic

    • @aeri2512
      @aeri2512 6 років тому +37

      Ragavee Anantharajah
      it is a crime

    • @chimmieee2859
      @chimmieee2859 6 років тому +2

      Ragavee Anantharajah I just love your profile pic 😍

    • @balangangadaran2904
      @balangangadaran2904 6 років тому +2

      Uta Masks

    • @iteadorixx676
      @iteadorixx676 6 років тому +17

      amayvikrana narayan it’s not a crime in India..the kids still have to marry as young as 12...it pretty much cruel to the females children

  • @thetroublemaker3481
    @thetroublemaker3481 2 роки тому +20

    ചിറകുകൾ അരിഞ്ഞു വീഴ്ത്തപ്പെടാനുള്ളതല്ല. ഉയർന്നു പറക്കുവാനുള്ളതാണ്❤‍🔥

  • @artandstories2351
    @artandstories2351 2 роки тому +37

    Just because of this my parents shifted to City from village and now I'm 24 still living independent and Happy life without being pressured for marriage.. I think I'm the luckiest girl to have parents like my parents ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Loveyourself-bs1md
    @Loveyourself-bs1md 4 роки тому +3039

    Those 4k people who disliked this video should get the worst punishment as possible 😡😠

  • @pushpakiri9755
    @pushpakiri9755 6 років тому +387

    A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts the world has to give............😭

    • @Anastas1ios
      @Anastas1ios 6 років тому +3

      Nisha What is a son then? Hm?

    • @TaylorSenoire
      @TaylorSenoire 5 років тому +3

      Its TheGreek what do u want her to say, more important?

    • @inzaynklainer5910
      @inzaynklainer5910 5 років тому +14

      Its TheGreek she did not say a daughter is the most beautiful gift, she said a daughter is ONE OF THE most beautiful gift.

    • @alekhyamandaloju03
      @alekhyamandaloju03 2 роки тому +1

      Don't cry pushpa bish-

  • @priyanshigautam7949
    @priyanshigautam7949 11 місяців тому +21

    Being a single daughter , I am proud to have a parents that thinks about my financial independence and not to marrige

  • @ilodamushroom8302
    @ilodamushroom8302 3 роки тому +103

    "we could not save him"
    everyone starts crying
    she cry's
    secretly laughs in her head
    Realizes the pity she will get
    "shit-"

    • @LadyVineXIII
      @LadyVineXIII 3 роки тому +15

      Pity nothing. In India, widows are labelled as cursed and outcast. They wind up living in the gutter or worse. I am hoping that in at least some parts of India, that is changing though.

    • @ARYA-vq1fi
      @ARYA-vq1fi 3 роки тому +6

      Not proud to be an indian girl 🇮🇳🚫

  • @sruthisathish5567
    @sruthisathish5567 3 роки тому +504

    I love my parents. As soon as I said that I wanted to play cricket they made me join a coaching centre for cricket. I feel lucky.😍

    • @bhavyakumari2377
      @bhavyakumari2377 3 роки тому +10

      Literallyy u r veryy lucky. Even my parents disagreed😔😔

    • @whos.aishaaa
      @whos.aishaaa 3 роки тому +11

      Ur super lucky, when I was 5 I said I wanna be an artist but my parents just laughed at my dreams-

    • @cocolives
      @cocolives 2 роки тому +5

      @@whos.aishaaa girl you just need to practice! The world is full of opportunities. There is someone out there who will hear you out!

    • @pravikasingh7320
      @pravikasingh7320 2 роки тому +2

      Very good
      I hope u achieve ur dream

    • @karansingh5905
      @karansingh5905 2 роки тому

      My parents too

  • @igot7armytaekook308
    @igot7armytaekook308 4 роки тому +915

    Now that I saw this video, I feel lucky that my mom said she would chop me into pieces if I get a boyfriend before entering college.

  • @shreenjandutta
    @shreenjandutta 2 роки тому +28

    Who else had goosebumps when the girl said, " I can do anything."
    Damn that was so powerful

  • @manasyaasharmahazarika5128
    @manasyaasharmahazarika5128 3 роки тому +59

    My great maternal grandmother who is 85 years and still alive was married in 10 years of age. I feel bad for her
    My maternal grandmother who is 66 years old and still alive was married before she could even pass class 10. She has been a widow for like 26 years. I feel really bad for her.
    My mom who is 40 years old is married in 26 years old.
    My mom told me that she would kill me if I have a boyfriend before 21 years...
    I'm proud of my mom

    • @pallabbiswas947
      @pallabbiswas947 2 роки тому

      But will she allow you to marry as per your choice after you are 21?

  • @hafxsae8527
    @hafxsae8527 5 років тому +800

    Damnn these parents must go to jail 😠
    Edit: u guys are still replying to my comment which I made when I was like 10 or 11 yrs old? Its kinda cringe but thx for the likes I appreciate it

    • @divinity924
      @divinity924 3 роки тому +8

      Ikr so mean

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly

    • @mamtamallick5309
      @mamtamallick5309 3 роки тому +10

      ye abhi bhi village me hota hai baal vivah 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @isha1905
      @isha1905 3 роки тому +7

      @@mamtamallick5309 yeah!!! it's not right....... it means people do illegal works yet ....

    • @mamtamallick5309
      @mamtamallick5309 3 роки тому +3

      @@isha1905 yes didi

  • @surekhapowar9171
    @surekhapowar9171 5 років тому +2194

    🤗😚I am so proud that my parents support me 🤗😊
    But l fill bad for girls who didn't get support from their family 😔😔

    • @gogreennatureluver2066
      @gogreennatureluver2066 5 років тому +6

      OMG! My name is also sureka

    • @hoorainhareem1890
      @hoorainhareem1890 5 років тому +5

      Zabardast story ☺️

    • @rekharex3767
      @rekharex3767 4 роки тому +2

      My name rekha

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 роки тому +5

      Surekha powar Although there's family support even some girls like me get married at an early age due to the things happening in society like rape,love etc...
      I mean to say some girls are not so perfect and they fail to choose a perfect pair for them and that may leads to many consequences in these days like selling etc...so the parents are very afraid of their children and it leads to child marriage

    • @mitadas5902
      @mitadas5902 3 роки тому +1

      Yes i give that dream equal than boy have ti do in future i those who marrige so earky donot think about theut hobbie👨‍👩‍👧🕉😍😘😋🥰😤😐😑😶🙄😏😣😥😮🤐😯😪😫😴😌😛😒🤤😓😔😕☹️🙁😖😞😟😤😢😭🤯😩😨😬😰😱🥵🥶😳🤪😡😠😵😷🤒🤕🤢🤮🤧

  • @artie6190
    @artie6190 3 роки тому +34

    What I just can't understand is that how parents force their daughters to be married early, Knowing that her married life wouldn't be happy as they think

    • @rainbowgirlism
      @rainbowgirlism 3 роки тому +2

      Financial burden off their hands, sadly.

    • @pallabbiswas947
      @pallabbiswas947 2 роки тому

      @@rainbowgirlism But why do in-laws accept little girls as daughters-in-law?

    • @rainbowgirlism
      @rainbowgirlism 2 роки тому

      @@pallabbiswas947 Good question!!!

  • @cutlet7127
    @cutlet7127 3 роки тому +102

    When the concept "SOCIETY'S THINKING' dies, humanity will rise to become Gods!

  • @iamjo8672
    @iamjo8672 4 роки тому +175

    Sister, you have given birth to my dreams😭😭😭😭😭
    That is the most beautiful sentence i have heard

  • @jumanalohawala2811
    @jumanalohawala2811 6 років тому +606

    child marriage is a crime by law
    but many people don't understand
    every girl should be educated and given importance as they hold an important standard in the progress of country
    hit the like button if u agree and if you are a girl

    • @ashaseetaram8052
      @ashaseetaram8052 5 років тому

      I feel like it's a tradition in some places of india

    • @yafitya
      @yafitya 5 років тому +1

      Sorry to break it off to you but in some counries they cant adjust it into the head

    • @princessyasm1n
      @princessyasm1n 5 років тому

      actually, it's not. in america at least. i don't know about other countries but in all 50 states you can get married at any age.

    • @chibilious115
      @chibilious115 5 років тому +1

      But you are not a girl...

    • @claireann2129
      @claireann2129 5 років тому

      The whole world doesn’t follow one country’s laws

  • @sadaftanweer6392
    @sadaftanweer6392 2 роки тому +14

    My parents too never forced me for marriage am still 18 and studing to achieve my goals.... I am proud of my parents 😌😌😌

  • @kpopspop4291
    @kpopspop4291 3 роки тому +85

    I'm really blessed to have my parents!!😭😭😭

  • @blahblahblahblah3408
    @blahblahblahblah3408 6 років тому +501

    I feel so bad for those kids forced to do something they don't want

  • @noorieabq8171
    @noorieabq8171 4 роки тому +71

    I had gone through it got married at 14 and got divorced in 15 and then somewhat I studied and got married again in 18 luckely I got good caring loving husband so I continued mystudies again and became a teacher last year and I have 2 kids and leading a beautiful happy life .....the important thing is that I got a understand husband thank God he blessed me that

  • @shashuwat6594
    @shashuwat6594 2 роки тому +8

    I am just 18yo my parents forced me to get married to a person who I don't like when I give this them to watch this video they Stop to force me thank you for making this🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sushma1453
    @sushma1453 3 роки тому +8

    I am 26 year old i am still unmarried my parents support me in my life and in my studies i am proud of my parents itnii chotii larkii kasa managé kragyii itnii sarii life ki struggle but now we all are Lucky Child married banned but my parents always support me .

  • @Stereo6400
    @Stereo6400 5 років тому +431

    I almost cried when they had to hold her down, And she was crying during the wedding.
    She deserves to become the queen of India, not just the prime minister. She can become anything.

    • @sukritikatewinslet204
      @sukritikatewinslet204 5 років тому +10

      Yes this video makes me cry when Meethi told that she can achieve anything , she can achieve anything to her new mother

  • @dilflover07
    @dilflover07 4 роки тому +170

    I want to get married after I graduate college, get my job, and settle into a house

    • @Ankur_TravelLife
      @Ankur_TravelLife 3 роки тому +2

      Bal suhagrat ka video banao

    • @sicassa_latte9
      @sicassa_latte9 3 роки тому +3

      @@Ankur_TravelLife HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! OMG I CANT STOP LAUGHING!

  • @ayunihana1754
    @ayunihana1754 3 роки тому +15

    YOU cant FORCE SOMEONE to marry if they are not willing to

  • @charitha2513
    @charitha2513 Рік тому +10

    My parents are the most innocent ones. They can do anything for me. I am very thankful to them for being so much supportive and caring 🥺 love you amma appa❤️

  • @marylouaris935
    @marylouaris935 5 років тому +481

    Im crying after watching this video i was arrange marriage too at the age of 16 now thanks God we are seperated and he has a new family right now so he cannot ruin my life ever so happy😊

  • @shahsaika2201
    @shahsaika2201 5 років тому +1027

    o God plz save all girls

  • @SiimplyBasic
    @SiimplyBasic 2 роки тому +24

    My grandma got married at 14 and she has my dad at 16 years old, my grandpa was 30 when he married my grandma, my grandma swore that she would never do that to her children, she had two boys my dad and my uncle, I am so glad she raised them right and I’m greatful for her sacrifices and NOBODY should ever have to go through that

  • @eeshathakoor646
    @eeshathakoor646 3 роки тому +12

    My parents just say to me, be so successful that you will never need a man in your life as support...

  • @carmelitagood3384
    @carmelitagood3384 5 років тому +612

    My husband and I would gladly accept a widowed girl as our daughter.

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 роки тому +28

      She isn't even widowed, how is that even accepted as a marriage?

    • @loveleonk
      @loveleonk 4 роки тому +8

      @@ahlinad1221 she married. He died a wife without a husband is called a widow.

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 роки тому +24

      @@loveleonk I know, but a marriage without mutual consent is not a marriage at all.

    • @loveleonk
      @loveleonk 4 роки тому +6

      @@ahlinad1221 as long as it has a certificate, is legal, two people, and two rings. It is a marriage even if one did not give consent it is still marriage. It's sad but many countries allow it

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 роки тому +9

      @@loveleonk You can go to jail for forcing marriage. It is illegal, so even if 2 people have it signed in the registration papers, if one of them complains that they were threatened or forced, the marriage will not be legal. And the people forcing him/her will be jailed.

  • @blackcarnage9619
    @blackcarnage9619 3 роки тому +236

    Let girls see and prove their dreams. Hope from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰💝

  • @kiaram9355
    @kiaram9355 3 роки тому +27

    Conversation in my family last week:
    mom: learn to do some household work otherwise no one will marry you
    me : Great! I don't want to marry anyone either. I'm not interested in handing someone the reigns to ruin my life. I'll ruin it on my own terms.
    my dad: Who the hell do you think will want to marry you ?? you're so arrogant and proud
    me : Ik
    *walks away blasting music through my air pods to go work on my assignments for law school*

  • @rakanishut
    @rakanishut 3 роки тому +24

    I praise the Lord every day, for that me and my kids I live in a country where child marriages are forbidden! My dear parents raised me to become a independant woman:)

    • @Saumya3020
      @Saumya3020 2 роки тому

      In foreign country there was no freedom for even voting
      So this is ridiculous

  • @themithegangsta09
    @themithegangsta09 4 роки тому +3534

    “You have a big mouth at your age”
    *Hah, you should see me.*

  • @jayeetachatterjee5188
    @jayeetachatterjee5188 3 роки тому +237

    I won't marry until I get a proper job and high income. I want to be the girl who pays her own bills and does not depend on anyone. I also thank god that I've got supportive parents who won't get me married before I'm atleast 30 years old. Actually my parents have said that it's my choice whether I want to marry or not and they will never forcefully arrange a marriage for me🙂🙂.

    • @Ethereal_0777
      @Ethereal_0777 3 роки тому +3

      OMG! THAT'S REALLY GREAT!!!😲😲

    • @snaik9141
      @snaik9141 3 роки тому +1

      ❤️

    • @roopkathachaudhury1353
      @roopkathachaudhury1353 3 роки тому +1

      Good luck!

    • @tabasumiman8552
      @tabasumiman8552 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @xombie0078
      @xombie0078 2 роки тому

      That's great. And when you see that all of your female friends and colleagues are married (because men want women when they are pretty and fertile), you'll be begging for ANY man to come calling while you're in your 30's! 🤣🤣

  • @prajoshmaniyillath1103
    @prajoshmaniyillath1103 3 роки тому +34

    Any malayali girls here🙋

  • @anetanra
    @anetanra 3 роки тому +7

    Thank God that a lovely family took her in and gave her such love. You go, girl!

  • @lpsclumz7198
    @lpsclumz7198 6 років тому +2176

    While my dad is like
    Ur not getting married till ur 89

  • @sreejithapc7564
    @sreejithapc7564 5 років тому +63

    I am from kerala ,here there is no such discrimination and kids live here happily.

  • @kookie2656
    @kookie2656 2 роки тому +3

    My Sister is First girl in my family .. But She is doing Job at hospital and she is nurse in Age Of 20 ... My parents Are proud of her ...
    My parents Dream is she can go out of country ...
    And I am also a girl ..
    Girls are Strong than boys...
    👇

  • @arunimawankhade3430
    @arunimawankhade3430 3 роки тому +10

    My parents say even if I don't get married it's ok... Because I'm already their lfy❤️❤️

  • @boragirl...4400
    @boragirl...4400 4 роки тому +62

    My father says when u become a big girl, ur wish when u want marriage, if u don't want to marriage u don't marriage!!

    • @creeperYT9824
      @creeperYT9824 3 роки тому

      @Best way to get your time wasted grammar nazi

  • @lamishaa.c5877
    @lamishaa.c5877 6 років тому +400

    The girl didn't deserve it
    She didn't deserve to get married at such a young age

  • @blue.malachite7740
    @blue.malachite7740 3 роки тому +5

    It really broke my heart to see the girl getting married with out knowing what is actually marriage is about

  • @mehakgoyal437
    @mehakgoyal437 Рік тому +3

    My parents said to stand on ur feet first we will think about matriage later. I m so lucky to have parents like them

  • @HenaShahasad
    @HenaShahasad 5 років тому +297

    I’m proud to be a girl 💪🏻💪🏻 thanks for such a good short film

  • @nanduram9896
    @nanduram9896 4 роки тому +89

    I got married at 13.. I am from Andhra Pradesh.. my husband takes care of me and supports me and respect my dreams so I continued my studies now I am 12th standard but so it's very heartbroken heart touching video

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 роки тому +4

      @27-Rishika prakash-7D
      Hi rishika prakash I am still continuing my studies. Thanks for the support. I was going to attempt C.A foundation Nov 2020 That's only because of my husband and my parents support.

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 роки тому +4

      @27-Rishika prakash-7D At the time of marriage I was in same situation as like meethi and there's no one to stop that marriage. and last year ending on 27th Dec my husband met with an accident with a seviour headinjury leg and hand fractures at that time there is no one to support except my parents who gave financial support for us as he was bedridden for 4 months. Early marriages or child marriages are not good for a girl and there's more mental stress and it's very difficult to study with that mind. So, please try to save a girl child from getting a forced marriage

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 роки тому +1

      @27-Rishika prakash-7Doh! I have completed my ssc in Mumbai (wadala) in AESHSchool

    • @khaniawan790
      @khaniawan790 3 роки тому +2

      You are lucky dear ❤️☺️

    • @avanipatel2037
      @avanipatel2037 2 роки тому +1

      Good luck for your future

  • @Krshnaaa_1
    @Krshnaaa_1 3 роки тому +4

    My parents often says that "u have to study hard, get a job, be a successful person and one more thing, *We will not pay anything for ur marriage* 😂 u have to make it by ur own" they're so cute and this is what inspires me to study even hard

  • @zainabpatel8778
    @zainabpatel8778 3 роки тому +1

    I m first girl in my family n i m 23 years old but still unmarried i have studied pharmacy n now i m pharmacist in india n now i m going to uk for my further studies i must thank my parents who trusted me n motivated me to fulfill my dreams

  • @prakashanpm9317
    @prakashanpm9317 3 роки тому +42

    I think its good that Meethi became a widow. Through it she got a wing to fly to the sky.❤

  • @alinameher8489
    @alinameher8489 6 років тому +308

    Very Bad....
    Childhood is not a Motherhood....

  • @DontCareL0L
    @DontCareL0L 11 місяців тому +1

    My great-grandma got married at 13 and had her first child at 14. She went on to have a total of 19 children.

  • @mitaligupta8596
    @mitaligupta8596 2 роки тому +2

    I am only 14 years old when I get married but I do not want happen again with my daughter but today she is successful pilot 👨‍✈️️👨‍✈️️and my son is success buisness man I really proud of her 💜💜thanks God you give such a lovely husband and daughter and son ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rynriss
    @rynriss 3 роки тому +60

    I came from a documentary of illegal child marriages in India. This is so upsetting, I hope those who are living in this situation are able to stay strong and keep fighting for your rights. Sending my love from Australia.

  • @sanchitabhattacharya8598
    @sanchitabhattacharya8598 6 років тому +276

    I am proud to be a girl

  • @RoseyVamp
    @RoseyVamp 3 роки тому +15

    The dramatization tho! Glad their spreading awareness! Child marriage is a heartless and cruel act! No culture should normalize this

  • @getsetfour8040
    @getsetfour8040 3 роки тому +10

    i would rather be an orphan than with parents like that

  • @aaryashicutipie4575
    @aaryashicutipie4575 5 років тому +302

    Girls power
    Super power

  • @muralitalari2415
    @muralitalari2415 5 років тому +87

    I'm so lucky to have like that parents to me. I proud to have them, my parents support me in every thing 🤗I LOVE MY PARENTS❤💕

  • @kushal3899
    @kushal3899 3 роки тому +5

    I am crying after watching this video. Many girls really faces these problem in their life .❤️❤️ but many parents can't understand these situation.

  • @The_shining_tara
    @The_shining_tara Рік тому +1

    My maa told me when i was 13 years old she got married my father at that time my father was 25 years old also at that time my maa didn't know what is marriage even my mother's maa got married my grandpa when she was at the age of 16 and my grandpa was 68 also my 2 sis got married when they were at the age of 18 but my maa my granny my sis have a cute family and they want me to get a job and my maa also tell me that son don't worry about marriage if u will not agree then don't get married but get a job also i want to be a IPS and my so lucky that my family treat me like a boy not like a girl and my body colour is dark some of my family mmbr tell me u r the only child who is dark but my parents and my sis tell me u r the colour of krishna and dark chocolate who are the most fav of people I feel proud that i have my family thanku bholenath 🙏

  • @michaeljacksonfan3219
    @michaeljacksonfan3219 6 років тому +227

    This is sad. Just sad. These type of parents should be very ashamed

    • @stargazejk
      @stargazejk 6 років тому +4

      Jimin stole my hearteu I LUV BTS .. True mate.. My grandparents were victims of child marriage.. It really hurts hearing the story

    • @abhijiths1803
      @abhijiths1803 6 років тому +3

      Not feminism, 'EQUALITY ' naan!! !

    • @inzaynklainer5910
      @inzaynklainer5910 5 років тому +5

      ABHIJITH S feminism means equality.

    • @klara8246
      @klara8246 5 років тому

      Heyyy family member😂❤❤

  • @revathysujitha7570
    @revathysujitha7570 3 роки тому +165

    My ambition is to become a lawyer and I want to study a lot but I got married in 16 my life fully spoiled and know I have child 😭😭😭😭😭😭my life totally damaged

    • @rinynr1820
      @rinynr1820 3 роки тому +38

      Your marriage should not be the barrier for your studies. Be bold. You can do it..you can study even after your marriage. Fight with your family until they agree to make you study and fulfill your dreams.. your life is in your hands..no one should let you down..there are many applications in playstore which provide free education which can aid your preparation and achieve your dreams.. be confident🥰🥰.. fight fight fight until your family provide you with school education..fight without violence in a healthy and friendly way..be brave and clever to please them to provide you with good education. You will be a good mom and a role model for your kid if you fight for your education

    • @rinynr1820
      @rinynr1820 3 роки тому +10

      @@mb-news-7966 what you said right. But what if she loves her husband and her family??...some people are really attached to their loved ones...Maybe her husband and her family loves her so much...and she might also be loving them..maybe that might be the reason she is not demanding for her education even after marriage. What if her husband allows her to study, if she demands for it??..so fighting for your rights won't cause anything bad I guess..but it will help you gain more respect from your family members.. for example if you fell in love with a guy...but your parents are not allowing your marriage with that guy..will you all of a sudden get away from your home?? You won't right?? That is because you love your parents...so similarly there is love in between every relationship... Breaking a bond is easy...but building a strong loving bond is hard...that is bitter but truth😶🥰🥰

    • @prushtisharma5896
      @prushtisharma5896 3 роки тому +1

      Omg how old are right now ??

    • @studyingandcraftingwithtuk8964
      @studyingandcraftingwithtuk8964 3 роки тому +2

      Oh god. So sad.😪😭.
      See my name. You are prakash, i am prakash. We both are prakash. Twins.

    • @theuniqueperson2227
      @theuniqueperson2227 3 роки тому

      lol i am sry

  • @darpanpatel3303
    @darpanpatel3303 11 місяців тому +5

    As a girl of two, loving parents, I'm actually an Indian. I know what it's like when us children aren't given a voice to be heard about our ideas and beliefs, we are always overshadowed by the adults. Sometimes, what we believe in is always destroyed by those who are older just because they are "smarter" and more experienced

  • @hamasm8525
    @hamasm8525 3 роки тому +10

    Alhamdulilah I'm still under age I'm 16 years old I'm studying I'm the last girl In my family I have 3 elder sister's and 2 elder brother 1 younger brother I'm proud of my parents they educated us equal all of my elder sister's are finished high school and graduated university we equal to our parents
    And my father use to say as a girl if you study 2mrrow you're gonna do whatever you wanna with man
    And my mom she use to tell us to focus on our dreams not to skip our careers . "If you focus on you're dreams and goals nothing will not block you " married is just by luck don't hurry to marry you have to choose your future kids good father and yourself to choose good husband you have to think twice before you get marry .

  • @ames2148
    @ames2148 4 роки тому +47

    Meanwhile
    My parents- Hunny, you ain't gonna date till youre 30

  • @rekhaantony2304
    @rekhaantony2304 4 роки тому +144

    വിദ്യാഭ്യാസo ഒരിക്കലും കൈവിട്ടു കളയരുത്

    • @annawilsonxi-a4681
      @annawilsonxi-a4681 3 роки тому +4

      Athaannn

    • @Samah_kb
      @Samah_kb 3 роки тому +19

      ഇവിടെ വന്നിട്ട് മലയാളിയുടെ കമന്റ് കണ്ടപ്പോൾ സന്തോഷം

    • @Insertregret
      @Insertregret 3 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @Poornimaaaaaa344
      @Poornimaaaaaa344 3 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @mgA757
      @mgA757 3 роки тому +1

      👍

  • @krishnachouhan8314
    @krishnachouhan8314 11 місяців тому +1

    I am also a girl how complete 20 years and still i am single mera mummy papa ma bola jb laga ki tum capable hoo
    Mature hoo jb shadi krna
    I proud my parents both love me sooo much ❤

  • @naimashukri3447
    @naimashukri3447 3 роки тому +1

    I am married in 17 years old today am 20 years old I have one girl am so proud that my daughter call me mom

  • @unicorngonepink9453
    @unicorngonepink9453 6 років тому +65

    Thank you for saving her life!

  • @Shagufta26
    @Shagufta26 5 років тому +119

    I can't understand why people dislike this video😔😔😔......

    • @polo02playful
      @polo02playful 5 років тому +8

      They're child marriage supporters

    • @snehasbuddhi1911
      @snehasbuddhi1911 4 роки тому +7

      Because they are those jerks who support this stupidity

    • @user-oo8zc5ny8e
      @user-oo8zc5ny8e 4 роки тому +4

      Nah this is just pure cringe. I get it it's child marriages people should show more respect, but with all due respect this is pure cringe

    • @snehaviswanathan.c1894
      @snehaviswanathan.c1894 4 роки тому +3

      Stop child marriage

    • @Prakash-rr5kc
      @Prakash-rr5kc 3 роки тому

      Dislike because situation has changed

  • @njerimaina5966
    @njerimaina5966 3 роки тому +2

    THIS STORY MAKE ME CRY I LOVE THE WAY YOU DID TO HER I AM WATCHING FROM KENYA AFRICA

  • @humojyotimoran4302
    @humojyotimoran4302 2 роки тому +6

    Hats off to the person who created this video....and i wish every educated women take responsibility to help a young female from uneducated backgrounds. Their backgrounds will drag them down

  • @ponokin2532
    @ponokin2532 6 років тому +534

    Mom: you ain’t getting married till you 89.
    *shows her this video*
    Mom: you’re never getting married.

  • @sharaa8735
    @sharaa8735 5 років тому +42

    Girl can do everything that's nobody can't do... We can fight for anyone... We can never give up... ❤️

    • @zoefang4563
      @zoefang4563 Рік тому +1

      That's the spirit Shara!!! You GO GIRL

  • @sadafsami3696
    @sadafsami3696 Рік тому +5

    She is mishri sindoor ki kimat 😅 so cute

  • @shristytamang4996
    @shristytamang4996 2 роки тому +1

    I'm proud of my dad he always told me don't go anywhere you r my daughter u can be with me always