BK Shivani on Detachment: What Exactly Is The Art Of Detachment | Sister Shivani

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  • 'Detachment' is the feeling that you have of not being personally involved in something or of having no emotional interest in it. In this video, Sister Shivani shares the art of withdrawing desire from lesser things and letting them fall away to harness the power of human beings to reach great heights.
    Source: Brahma Kumaris
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  • @podcastfnw5262
    @podcastfnw5262 Рік тому +137

    I've come to the hypothesis that we first need to detach from our child trauma or parents emotional baggage... identify where is the wound and heal by accepting and letting go of it... cause we are basically repeating that same story but with new characters that represents that same feelings..I looked so deeply into this that I can identify who is representing who in my life and it's the same archetypes repeating ..until you let go

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 Рік тому +13

    Silencing myself is one thing but silencing others through my silence is something needed

  • @barshakar7200
    @barshakar7200 Рік тому +125

    "Attachment creates pain
    Detachment radiates power"

  • @shilpisaini1090
    @shilpisaini1090 Рік тому +119

    She is a Real life Angel

  • @TheProminentPost
    @TheProminentPost Рік тому +65

    Learning this detachment has bought me so much peace... and being attached to people and things that don't bring me joy was hell❤

    • @MsMumbaikar
      @MsMumbaikar 9 місяців тому

      Agree. It came to me at thr right time. In fact, on the right day.

  • @OhHapppyDaay
    @OhHapppyDaay Рік тому +24

    My daughter was in pain. She perceived me as the cause of her pain.
    I detached from her for her happiness. I Love her very much. I'm glad about detachment. I am free, as well. No more pain for either one.

    • @RiniHS96100
      @RiniHS96100 10 місяців тому +1

      I am in the same situation. Wish I had someone to talk to. It's very painful as a mother.

    • @amritaroy3888
      @amritaroy3888 4 місяці тому

      ​@@RiniHS96100yes , painful , I can understand ..

  • @joshicharan4968
    @joshicharan4968 Рік тому +47

    Detachment is 100% attachment to the moment you live oblivious of past and future.

    • @OhHapppyDaay
      @OhHapppyDaay Рік тому +3

      I had to read this post twice, but I understand now. Thank you for writing it.

    • @bhavanirrao2021
      @bhavanirrao2021 Рік тому

      ​@@OhHapppyDaaybut i didn't understand this comment. Can anyone explain this comment

    • @utsaharya5463
      @utsaharya5463 8 місяців тому

      It means living in the moment not concerned about past or future ​@@bhavanirrao2021

    • @Andrea-ed4hp
      @Andrea-ed4hp 5 місяців тому

      @@bhavanirrao2021it means live in the current moment without any expectations or anxiety about the past or future

  • @subramaniamnagasayi1044
    @subramaniamnagasayi1044 Рік тому +14

    Cannot thank her enough!! how my approach to life has changed just in last 3-4 weeks and practising her methods!!Om Shanthi

  • @shalinimahana6614
    @shalinimahana6614 Рік тому +12

    Purpose of detachment is so that if one is siting the other can stand,if one is in pain the other is calm,pain-free,peaceful...beautifully explained.

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 Рік тому +24

    On the beam. As always. This is true spirituality in its most practical aspect. Wish every single person in the world would listen to her. Daily.

  • @Heena-pb5us
    @Heena-pb5us Рік тому +4

    You saved me. I'm so glad I heard you today.

  • @peterhalstead7682
    @peterhalstead7682 Рік тому +6

    This way of teaching and the teachings needs to be in every school in the world.🧡🌲🐝

  • @chanilerner2107
    @chanilerner2107 2 роки тому +23

    When one falls down, the other can pull you out. Beautiful

  • @bmsharma3824
    @bmsharma3824 Рік тому +32

    Attachment creates pain. Detachment radiates power. 😮😮😮

  • @MargueriteSwatton
    @MargueriteSwatton Рік тому +3

    Practicing detachment is an art form! Keep up the practice until one perfects it.

  • @luckydesilva6733
    @luckydesilva6733 Рік тому +2

    With my love & respect . Gods blessings to you sister Shivani .

  • @meenabhatt6401
    @meenabhatt6401 Рік тому +5

    Om Shanti ... Sister Shivani ... 🌹❤🌷

  • @Panirchelvam-yr6xv
    @Panirchelvam-yr6xv Рік тому +1

    BK sister Shivani after listening to your messages, all my unnecessary thinkings disappeared and I am having a stress free life

  • @yourhealingjourney9824
    @yourhealingjourney9824 Рік тому +2

    Detachment has made me stronger, way more focused and loving towards others. Attachment has always been a disservice

  • @richagarg990
    @richagarg990 Рік тому +13

    Such a beautiful explanation why detachment & taking care of self is necessary. Being kind is essence of life 🌸. Om Shanti 🌸🙏

  • @shashichopra1341
    @shashichopra1341 Рік тому +1

    Om Shanti thanks divine angel 🙏

  • @tsivappiragasam1428
    @tsivappiragasam1428 Рік тому +1

    Great teachings by this sister is gift of God

  • @jkd6969
    @jkd6969 Рік тому +2

    Thank for this clarity. Unfortunately we are so conditioned from childhood with such attachment that pulls us down! These twisted ways cause us so much pain and never empower us nor those we are attached to!

  • @nehapallavi8652
    @nehapallavi8652 Рік тому

    She has invisible magic wands which magically removes our worries because she knows the value of sprituality she is connected with our supreme lord shiv baba 🎉our shivani behan god bless you om shanti !!

  • @akshitapathak2998
    @akshitapathak2998 10 місяців тому +1

    I feel so blessed that I have got to listen her powerful words. Love her sessions, truly effective to the core. Thanks with all my heart

  • @shivanimashruwala5821
    @shivanimashruwala5821 7 місяців тому

    It shatters me to the core where I have been that strong support for all the ppl all the time around me. God has always been kind to me and there have been rare occasions I have been put through in miserable conditions. Forget support in any other way none of those are even around to ask how are doing or you will be fine. The thing that has weakened me is not the hard time, its behavior of ppl who I considered mine, helped them in all possible way going above and beyond. None of them are around just to ask one simple question how are you doing or coping up with this. It is really heart breaking and killing me. I am losing my faith from kindness. I am very sure about it that what I am expecting is bare minimum and wont cost a penny.

  • @raninaidoo3279
    @raninaidoo3279 Рік тому +7

    Thank you really appreciate your time & wisdom on our journey. This is mind opening & mindshift for me to practice. Stay blessed - Om Snanti. Indrani Naidoo - South Africa ❤

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw2670 Рік тому +1

    Soooooo good ly explained!!!!❤❤❤❤❤. She is so strong!

  • @sunilm1299
    @sunilm1299 9 місяців тому +1

    Easy to listen ! Difficult to imbibe & practice unless there is utmost resolve & sincere commitment!

  • @urmila16
    @urmila16 Рік тому +3

    Glass example is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. Focus on our mind not stress what is wrong or others' faults.

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 Рік тому +1

    Namaste 🙏Sister Shivani, you are my spiritual sister. 🙏Thank you for the teachings and guidance. I had learned a lot from you. 🙏

  • @stevenfernandes9402
    @stevenfernandes9402 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful teaching. Thank you

  • @BURHediTz
    @BURHediTz Місяць тому

    Thank you mam....for a good guidance

  • @DebdulalK
    @DebdulalK Рік тому +2

    She is an incredible leader to spread loving compassion.

  • @mixer16ph
    @mixer16ph Рік тому

    Thank you Sister and Brahma Kumaris. ❤❤❤

  • @gururajkulkarni343
    @gururajkulkarni343 Рік тому +2

    how very true, THANKS Sister for enlightening us!! God bless you...

  • @balajisidd2902
    @balajisidd2902 Рік тому +4

    Thank you madam. I understand real meaning as how to live as an human being and be kind to all

  • @HermioneIl
    @HermioneIl 7 місяців тому

    My gurudeva! ❤from Greece!

  • @parishah7494
    @parishah7494 6 місяців тому

    Thank you sister Shivani

  • @ramaramachandra6270
    @ramaramachandra6270 7 місяців тому

    Now iam practicing. Thanks Sister ❤❤

  • @shivanisrivastava1567
    @shivanisrivastava1567 Рік тому

    Om shnti ❤

  • @reemaislam8748
    @reemaislam8748 Рік тому

    Wow! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love and Blessings always ...❤❤

  • @Andrea-ed4hp
    @Andrea-ed4hp 5 місяців тому

    wow. this really resonates with me. Love the way this is explained

  • @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671
    @aishwaryavaijapurkar9671 Рік тому +1

    Being detached is so peaceful n calm feeling ❤❤❤,

  • @lazitazen6882
    @lazitazen6882 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much ❤ I have no words to express my gratitude to this video ❤ It helped me so much, so much ❤ God bless you

  • @supriyadutta1821
    @supriyadutta1821 10 місяців тому

    Detachment is never leaving your family and doing whatever you feel like. Detached people give respect and more space to their loved ones without detecting or judging them to change

  • @sasharenee7348
    @sasharenee7348 Рік тому +2

    Thank You So Much for this subject arena I was seeking for today & the last 3 years since Covid hit!! Was at the edge due to Always carrying family members & latching on to their energies (including the worry, fretting part) & needed my sisters advice today on what to do since I live with my parents caring for one of my parents.
    She immediately sent me this message & said listen & this was what I needed!!!!
    THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISE WORDS Regarding Attachment & Detachment!!
    These words were specifically meant for me
    &
    I am Eternally Grateful for You
    Blessing’s,
    Sasha Rene’e

  • @DrArjunGrover
    @DrArjunGrover Рік тому

    OM SHANTI....😇😇😇😇

  • @bandanamakal
    @bandanamakal 6 місяців тому

    I really like to listen to sister shivani ❤❤❤❤ she is Angel

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 Рік тому

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @mervijaakola1749
    @mervijaakola1749 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for the great wisdom 🙏 yes, self-caring is crucial 💯

  • @lakshimil3933
    @lakshimil3933 Рік тому

    Nice peaceful satsangvwith you is a blessed feeling love Shivani

  • @waulau8
    @waulau8 Рік тому

    A power soul is the one that do not create waste thoughts.
    A power soul is the one who had the power to put an end to the waste thoughts of the other person. That brought my mind to Bhavan Sri Ramana Maharshi. 🙏

  • @StunningIpsita
    @StunningIpsita Рік тому +11

    I must say she is a living God in this world

  • @sasisasi-l4k
    @sasisasi-l4k Рік тому

    Thanks very much. Especially hearing today. I was in trouble in meaningless attachment. Thanks.

  • @meidasken3508
    @meidasken3508 Рік тому

    My favorite pod, thank you.

  • @rajinilata2243
    @rajinilata2243 Рік тому +2

    Om shanti sister, awesome sharing.😮

  • @lingarajkashyap9681
    @lingarajkashyap9681 Рік тому +17

    OM NAMAH SHIVAY. ATTACHMENT MEANS INVITATION TO DANGER OR DISASTERS AND DETACHMENT MEANS TO INVITE PLEASURES AND FEEE FROM ANY BURDENS.

  • @donnafernandes3091
    @donnafernandes3091 3 роки тому +24

    Good stuff right here

  • @janiverster6162
    @janiverster6162 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this powerful metaphor. I will remember the glass today ❤

  • @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730
    @rajeshwarisrinivasan1730 7 місяців тому

    Great spiritual insight !!

  • @25phyll
    @25phyll 2 роки тому +8

    This is seriously good stuff

  • @sadiaarman363
    @sadiaarman363 Рік тому +6

    The first step to staying calm is, Protect yourself from the energy of the.situation and the people. Be a detached observer. Powerful soul is one who does not create waste thoughts. Powerful soul is one who can put an.end to the waste thoughts of others also

  • @diah7980
    @diah7980 9 місяців тому

    🌻Detatchment radiates Power .
    🌻Attachment creates pain.
    Inside to Outside.
    For that I need to take care of myself.
    When Iam calm and untouched by the people around us. When Iam calm , Iam automatically kind to someone in pain . Radiates blessings . Earn blessings daily .
    No questioning or judging them .

  • @ThebeastStandalone
    @ThebeastStandalone Рік тому

    thank you so much didi i love you

  • @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377
    @fiorentinarizkiramadhana5377 Рік тому +1

    this is gold

  • @KindyLemmon
    @KindyLemmon Рік тому

    Life changing. ❤

  • @akhileshprasad5644
    @akhileshprasad5644 Рік тому

    All good evening everyone om Santi jai jai

  • @nuryanti7624
    @nuryanti7624 Рік тому

    Now i understand more about relationship, thanks to her

  • @Drsyed-y3g
    @Drsyed-y3g 6 місяців тому

    Detachment is positive.

  • @lowkatherine
    @lowkatherine 7 місяців тому

    Detachment is freedom

  • @bhargavib707
    @bhargavib707 Рік тому

    Loved it ❤

  • @hiteshe_e9368
    @hiteshe_e9368 10 місяців тому

    Attachments creates pain detachments heals them , gives power. I m peaceful soul. I have to be happy to heal myself. I have to radiate positive energy ❤ .when I m calm I m automatically kind.blessings is some I have to earn myself every single day . Being calm radiates kindness, being kind radiates blessings. My inner has no connection with outer world. 😊. My inside world which radiates to my outside world .

  • @makomborerochivanga1318
    @makomborerochivanga1318 8 місяців тому

    Attachment create s pain, detachment radiates power!

  • @MjF809
    @MjF809 Рік тому +1

    This is the ROOT of dysfunction
    We are taught this from birth from family yet its 100 percent curable!

  • @papapapa3399
    @papapapa3399 Рік тому +1

    Detachment is beautiful

  • @ashsuva
    @ashsuva 3 роки тому +6

    So true, Om Shanti 🙏

  • @HaharuRecords
    @HaharuRecords Рік тому +3

    I want buy this women..
    Edit: look how gently she blinks her eyes...Thats a sign of purity

  • @ingernordin3343
    @ingernordin3343 Рік тому

    I love this ❤

  • @nkarthikeya8113
    @nkarthikeya8113 Рік тому

    Mera pyara baba ❤❤❤

  • @andreamurillo09
    @andreamurillo09 2 роки тому +6

    Mastering this, would really be amazing.

  • @trueman5948
    @trueman5948 Рік тому

    All these things are intellectually stimulating........
    Madum we need practicle things that can bring behavioural changes in us....
    Pls guide us

  • @chronicdiseases6274
    @chronicdiseases6274 Рік тому

    I love you and your truth

  • @ElenaRoud
    @ElenaRoud Рік тому +1

    I am ready

  • @CreativeChristianContent
    @CreativeChristianContent Рік тому +1

    You have to create a happy warming loving environment for your depressed loved ones ❤

  • @kusumsingh1683
    @kusumsingh1683 Рік тому +2

    Bless you didi, request you to speak on how to deal with narsissitic relationship and take care of children i such situations

  • @debasishsarkar5573
    @debasishsarkar5573 11 місяців тому

    Every people is attached to someone in the world but we must not entgled ourselves with anything.

  • @gayatrisibransingh4157
    @gayatrisibransingh4157 Рік тому +1

    Yah Sach hai dhanyabad ❤

  • @bringarttogether
    @bringarttogether 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you.

  • @LovelifewithGlory
    @LovelifewithGlory 11 місяців тому

    Namasthe! While I understand everything you said about taking care of ourselves and radiating that power around us, without saying a word, How does someone understand if I'm showing them kindness or not? they might feel even more bitter thinking that I am not acknowledging their pain or it might appear to them that im being insensitive to their grief? idk if I put it across in a proper way, if anyone can help me understand this, I would appreciate it.

  • @hiteshmishra471
    @hiteshmishra471 Рік тому +2

    Om Shanti

  • @Selflovexpedition
    @Selflovexpedition Рік тому +3

    Sirf breakups wale he jante hain how much painful 😢 Attachment is

  • @shakirbaloch9505
    @shakirbaloch9505 Рік тому +3

    Million dollars practical steps to adopt permanently. Thanks
    Shakir Baloch Islamabad Pakistan

  • @unblinkable_e
    @unblinkable_e 5 місяців тому

    💙💫

  • @sharadhajayaraman2092
    @sharadhajayaraman2092 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing explanation Sister

  • @dishau7541
    @dishau7541 Рік тому

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @bkshivshakti3529
    @bkshivshakti3529 Рік тому

    Om shanti

  • @das_krishnamachhi
    @das_krishnamachhi 11 місяців тому

    I one such bad mom everyday I give my child only curse because I very much worry for him...but now onwards I only give him blessings by remaining detached from him..please God help me to remain detached 😢

  • @bspraveen9364
    @bspraveen9364 Рік тому +2

    Great words

  • @The_Life_Coach_999
    @The_Life_Coach_999 Рік тому

    Awesome