The Power of Words: 'You Are' vs. 'You Are Being' - Why It Matters

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Good morning! Happy Monday! If you are being annoyed by someone’s behaviour and you feel the need to mention it, how do you do that? Do you say, “You are rude”, “You are lazy”, “You are jealous”, or “You are being rude”, “You are being lazy”, or “You are being jealous”? Is there even a difference? Yes, there is, and in today’s video, we'll explore these phrases and find out why they're not the same.
Let’s take the word “rude” as an example. You can say “You are rude” or “You are being rude”.
"You are rude": This means you think the person is generally not polite, like it's part of who they are. "You are being rude": This means the person is acting impolite right now, but it doesn't mean they're always like this. It's more about their behavior in the moment.
In the same, the phrase "You are lazy." suggests that laziness is a permanent part of who someone is. But, "You are being lazy." This one addresses a specific moment of laziness, not a constant trait.
Why does it matter? Let's see the effects of each phrase. "You are lazy" can be hurtful, damaging self-esteem, and making change seem impossible. On the other hand, "You are being lazy" can make someone recognize their laziness, encouraging them to improve.
So, next time you want to address laziness or anything else, remember the power of your words. Choose words that encourage understanding and positive change. Have a wonderful day and a great week!
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