I know some people would think that his mums reaction was a negative one but I believe a lot of people don’t realise how different the acceptance of gay people is in Asia, I know plenty of Asian parents that’d completely disown their children for this kind of thing and I think it was sweet that his mum reacted so acceptingly despite the image of gay people portrayed in Asian countries. ❤️
@Moonchild that’s very true, his mom reacted very well especially compared to my parents as a trans and bi person. His mom is more of the “I don’t agree with it and I don’t understand it, but I can’t change it and I love you” type and that’s very sweet of her.
I have some korean gay friends some of them were kick out of the family and some other can never tell their parents that they are gay because they know their parents wouldn’t accept it. That’s why I am actually so touched by this video and positive surprised by the reaction of his mother.
This made me upset so much. Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of or to blame anyone for it. Just because its not something that we are used to seeing it doesnt mean its wrong. I think its so wrong for parents to disown their child for them being gay. And i admire parents who accepts their child for being gay with open arms. I wish everyone was like that. I just really hope the world would get better in time and less cruel.
@@leftrighttoe but it seems like she does understand it, she says that she knows he is born that way and she can understand him, but in korea everyone is so close mided thats why its not good for everyone to know.
idk if I can say this since I am not Asian, but from what I've heard and what I've bee told "did you eat yet" is the Asian equivalent to "I love you" so it made me very happy when she asked him that
Bruh, when he said “I didn’t want to tell you because-“ and there was a huge pause, my brain filled in “because you might not love me anymore” and I cried.
I don’t know why UA-cam suggested this but I just want to let you know that I am so so proud of you and you are so so amazing and brave. It takes a lot to do this and I hope your family accepts you and you find happiness everyday of your life ❤️❤️
When she said "but you can still like girls right?" That broke my heart :((((((((( One day Korea will realize the situation and become more supportive to the community. For now, we love and support you here. Sending warm thoughts and hugs from Canada ❤🇨🇦🏳️🌈
foreign swagger session Muslims country too! You really don’t realize until you go to one and you see yourself how mistreated some of the community are 💙 ❤️ Islam need to take a step to the present,, I’m sorry if this has offended anyone :(
@@ummnaim5862 almost every religion tho, im muslim as well, i'm not hating on them bcus they are a LGBT. If it were others, i wont even be concern but i myself wont be a lgbt bcus of my religion. I'm not a prophet either to telling em to stop in the name of god. So, yeah people need to open their mind, try not to pick up a fight with those who different from them. Everything back to each persona.
That shit was fucked up. But that's not even that bad for Korean standards because she was still loving for the most part and I think that part was just from misunderstanding hopefully.
Your mom is such a lead for Korean moms everywhere with their own baby revealing such a big news. Mothers know, since she said she had a feeling back when. 😭 she then asks if you ate dinner...😭😭 such love.
No matter where the conversation starts but it always ends at food....that's mom's love. His mom is great, although it was hard accepting but she did accept it...
I think what she meant by it is not a good thing that people know about it she was referring to the closed minded people in South Korea and not everyone ok so please don’t be sad ❤️❤️❤️ I’m in support of him!!! He should be who he is and I’m not hating on his mum or anything I just wanted to clarify what she said x
armylovesbts/btslovesarmt none I don’t agree with you. She’s supporting him and I don’t think that’s wrong. Gay people exist and they deserve rights like everyone else. They deserve love like everyone else, whether you support them or not. On top of that, LGBTQ is a complicated topic in Islam that dates back to maaany many years ago. Ila gelti hra 7ram nat tch3ihch jatni chwiya fchichkel. Chkoun nti lit goula liha hd lhadra?
@@pacovl46 yes 아프다 can be translated in multiple ways :) (in this context to me, it came across as though she was saying "don't hurt yourself and make yourself sick because of who you are" so I chose to say dont feel bad because if you feel bad you will get sick and hurt.)
This is a big step in many people's lives to come out and it isn't easy. Hopefully one day Korea will change its ways and see these as something positive without judging.
핸나 off topic, but is your name spelt haenna? If so, thats really unique, carry on. If its spelt Hanna/hannah then your Hangul is wrong. I dont want to jump to conclusions, for all i know you could be fluent and its supposed to be that way but by chance i just wanted to let you know!
this makes me so happy. your mom made me cry so much. you too. this is such a brave and beautiful thing you did. tell you’re mom what a great mom she is. because she didn’t hate you or scold you or not love you anymore. i was scared for you when watching this. but i’m glad your not burdened by having to keep it a secret anymore. you did amazing, i hope you know that.
자식 둔 엄마는 잘나도 못나도 내자식입니다 그저 평범하면 좋겠지만 아니라도 자식이지요 엄마의 한숨소리와 침묵이 가슴에 스며듭니다ㅠㅠ 나 또한 아들 때문에 몇날밤을 울며지낸적이 있었던적이 생각나 눈물이 납니다(이제는 다 괜찮아졌어요) 어쩔수 없지요 그냥 열심히 사세요 그게 효도하는 길이겠지요
전화받으시는 어머니 목소리에서 아들에 대한 걱정과 사랑이 느껴지시네요... 어머니 본인도 대한민국 사회의 기성세대라 놀랍고 받아들이기 어렵지만.. 그럼에도 불구하고 아들을 아무 조건없이 받아주시고 보듬아주실분들은 가족분들이라고 생각해요... 가족의 힘으로 세상에 당당히 맞서고 진정한 free soul 펼치는 날이 꼭 올거에요. 너무너무너무 응원합니다
I love the fact that she totally changed the subject and talked about you eating well and sending her some pictures as if coming out was nothing of a big deal AND THAT’S WHAT WE WANT ❤️
This is probably the saddest video I've seen so far this year...because that's the way I cry too, and it made me sad so see how your voice got weak and your eyes closing for so long...it really made me want to hug you and tell you that everything is going to be fine...I'm happy that your Mom did not ended the call and kind of tried to understand you...😕 Love and support from Germany!!!❤
it’s the first video that i’m seeing of you and honestly i couldn’t be more proud of you for coming out to your korean mom regardless of the fact that many korean grown ups and elders don’t really support the lgbtq+ community, congratulations on the bravery, we’re here to continue supporting you 💕🏳️🌈
힘내 .. being different doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, all support for you And You’re brave !! Be proud of who you are .. and i wish you all the best 🙆🏻♀️
너무 수고 많았어요 영상 보면서 너무 공감되기도 하고 말하기 무서운 마음이 느껴져서 안쓰러웠어요 쉬운 일이 아니었다는 거 알지만 잘한 일이었다는 건 확실해요 그렇게 말을 꺼낸다는 것 자체가 너무 힘들었을 텐데 그 자체만으로도 고생 많았고 좋은 선택이었어요 우리나라 사람들이 성적 지향성에 상관없이 모두를 동등하게 보는 때가 어서 왔으면 좋겠어요 당신의 삶과 사랑을 항상 응원할게요❤️
Seeing you crying like that break my little heart. You did well, congrats for telling your mom ❤️ (I'm late for saying that but anyway ❤️) Support and love from France 🇫🇷 ❤️
Don't know why it's in my recommendations, but I want you to know that I'm proud of you, we're all proud of you, and you're loved and please keep smiling.
i came out to my mum on 27th June 2019 (yes, yesterday 😂). i was crying cause i was so afraid, cause my mum is a muslim and so fuxking religious. i thought she would scold me, but she just hug me tightly and say “you’re my daughter. and i love you no matter what. thank you for trusting me enough to tell me this. i love you.” 😢
mochi reading this makes me so happy bc my parents are muslim too & i honestly dont know if i’ll ever be able to come out to them, but hearing abt others with accepting parents makes my heart happy ♥️♥️ super proud of u!
제이슨님~!!! 꼭 성공하세요!! 고1 자녀를 키우고 있는 부모입니다. 제이슨 님께 이런 부모님이 계신건 축복입니다. 든든하시겠어요. 엄마 마음은 그런거죠. 무한하게 무조건으로 사랑하고 지지하는것. 제이슨님 꼭 성공하셔서 더 행복하게 좋은 영상 많이 올려 주세요! 타투리스트 정말 잘 어울립니다.. 이번 영상 마음이 찡합니다. 저도 눈시울이 붉어지네요. 응원할께요~ 엄마라는 존재는 참 위대한것 같아요. 저도 그런 엄마가 되고 싶습니다.
idk why her asking if u had eaten made me tear up the most in this video, just shows the true love she has for you even as she’s trying to adjust to this news u just gave her. so proud of u and i wish u the best ♥️
Your moms reaction made me cry.. considering that being gay isn’t as accepted there as other places, she reacted so lovely. And then seeing you cry like that broke my heart:(( I found this really brave of you! You did great^^❤️
Aww, this is a hard thing to do alone, but with asian parents, i have respect for you. My sister came out to my parents and risked getting disowned, they are more understanding now. I support you all the way!!! 사랑합니나
I hate seeing people cry but you did the right thing to come out to your mom, and to be honest if I were into girls since I'm a girl I know my parents would hate to see me since I come from a religious family, but I want you to know that you have my support!💕💕 keep smiling don't let others bring you down💕
밥먹었어......부모님들이 항상 하시는 말씀이죠 항상 무슨일이 있어도 저말은 꼭 하시는것 같습니다 뭔가 저말 한마디에는 수많은 감정이 들어가 있는듯해요ㅠㅠ자식들은 무심히 듣는 말이지만 다시 생각해보면 항상 자식 먼저 생각하시는 부모님의 마음이 느껴지는 말 한마디인거 같습니다...ㅠㅠ
I had stopped watching Coming Out videos for a while now till UA-cam suggested yours today. It’s your first video that I’m watching but I must say that you did well. I bet your mom is really proud of you. Coming from a conservative asian country and household, I had a good coming out experience with my sibling and friends too. A real bitter one with my aunt. So I hadn’t had the guts to do so with my parents. We each have our own journeys so take your own pace. Just got to say that you ain’t alone so hang in there.
오늘 처음 본 사람인데 어머님 반응이 가장 현실적인 한국 어머니들의 반응이지 않을까 싶네요... 동성애를 이해한다고는 하지만 자기 자식은 아니였으면 하는 마음.. (사람들의 시선이 안좋을 것을 아니까) 하지만 아들의 커밍아웃에 분명 충격을 받으셨음에도 불구하고 자식을 사랑하는 마음이 더 커서 그걸 티내지 않고 응원해주려 하시는 모습이 감동이에요. 마지막에 “잘 있어 울애기” 에서 저까지 눈물이ㅠㅠ 제이슨님이 전화를 끊고 우신 것처럼 어머님도 담담한 척 끊으시고 홀로 울음을 삼키셨을 것 같은데 정말 가슴 아프네요..ㅠㅠ 그래도 정말 큰 용기 내셨습니다! 앞으로 좋은 일만 가득 하시길 응원할게요.
i really appreciate his mom's reaction and understand her concerns. korea is a country with a pretty close mentality, at least the biggest part of it cannot understand and share things such as homosexuality. what she showed, besides her worries, is the endless love of a mom. it warmed my heart up. hope understanding for what is considered as different will raise all over the world, but i'm afraid we are still far from that. sending you a lot of love, may you live happily
His mom probably burst into tears after they finished talking.All what she wants for her son is happiness and i hope her wish will come true in the near future!As ur mom said don’t get sick and be healthy!
2분부터 울면서 봤어요 ㅜㅜ 어머니도 넘 좋으신분같고 어머니 목소리 들으니 큰 사랑이 느껴져서 눈물나네요 시간은 좀 걸리겠지만 점점 좋아질꺼에요. 한국에도 아주아주 서서히 인식이 바뀌어가고 있는것 같아요 몇일전에 프라이드 퍼레이드 갔다가 엄마한테 사진 보여줬더니 사람이 사람을 좋아하는건 전혀 문제가 되지 않는거라고 엄마가 그러더라구요. 지금은 잘 안보이지만 서서히 좋은쪽으로 바뀌고 있는것 같아요 더 행복해지시길 그리고 항상 응원합니다.
용가내서 어머님한테 말한거 잘한거라고 칭찬해주고싶네요~ 어머님도 지금은 많이 놀라셨을거에요 ~시간이지나면서 이해하시고 누구보다도 많은 정신적 힘이 되어주실 분이에요 ~ 좋은어머님 이시네요 울지말고 앞으로 더욱힘내서 잘 살고있는 모습 보이시면 되요 용기에 박수보냅니다 세상의 편견신경쓰지말고 자신감 가지고 꿋꿋하게 사세요 본인이 행복하면 되는거에요 잘사는모습 꼭 보여주세요 화이팅👍👍👍
When you started crying, i started crying too. I think you’re very brave for coming out to your mom...my father is japanese and Christian, well my family is Christian and sometimes I get so confused whether I like girls or boys or even both even though I am not that young and in my early 20’s... and father is kinda homophobic so he would never understand the situation and prob throw me out of our house... you did well telling your mom. Mothers are going to be our best friends until the end of their lives... good job 💛
영상 속 분이 어머니께 힘들게 말하시는 과정에서 엄청 고민하시고 떠시고 불안해하시는게 보여서 넘 마음이 아파요 ㅠㅠㅠ이성을 좋아하던 동성을 좋아하던 문제될게 아닌데 사회적으로 이렇다보니까 영상 속 분처럼 고민하시는 분이 얼마나 많을지..잘못도 아닌데 이렇게 속앓이 하셔야된단 상황이 넘 마음이 아파요.
자식이 세상의 소수로 살아가는게 걱정되는 마음은 정말 백번 이해가 갑니다. 그렇지만 그렇게 타고난걸 바꿀 수 있는것도 아닌데...... 그렇다면 가족이라도 세상에서 가장 안전하고 든든한 지지자, 울타리가 되어주어야 한다고 생각해요. 용기있게 잘 말씀 하셨어요! 마음 고생 많으셨어요ㅜㅜ 어머니 말씀 뭉클...
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I know some people would think that his mums reaction was a negative one but I believe a lot of people don’t realise how different the acceptance of gay people is in Asia, I know plenty of Asian parents that’d completely disown their children for this kind of thing and I think it was sweet that his mum reacted so acceptingly despite the image of gay people portrayed in Asian countries. ❤️
@Moonchild
that’s very true, his mom reacted very well especially compared to my parents as a trans and bi person. His mom is more of the “I don’t agree with it and I don’t understand it, but I can’t change it and I love you” type and that’s very sweet of her.
I have some korean gay friends some of them were kick out of the family and some other can never tell their parents that they are gay because they know their parents wouldn’t accept it. That’s why I am actually so touched by this video and positive surprised by the reaction of his mother.
@최하늘
It’s so sad that stuff like this happens not only with Koreans but all over the world. I wish your friends the best of luck and happiness.
This made me upset so much. Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of or to blame anyone for it. Just because its not something that we are used to seeing it doesnt mean its wrong. I think its so wrong for parents to disown their child for them being gay. And i admire parents who accepts their child for being gay with open arms. I wish everyone was like that. I just really hope the world would get better in time and less cruel.
@@leftrighttoe but it seems like she does understand it, she says that she knows he is born that way and she can understand him, but in korea everyone is so close mided thats why its not good for everyone to know.
I knew when she asked if you had eaten everything would be alright, moms express their heart through their food. 🥰
Very true
This made me laugh so much i have no idea why 😂
True😭❤️
True.......
idk if I can say this since I am not Asian, but from what I've heard and what I've bee told "did you eat yet" is the Asian equivalent to "I love you" so it made me very happy when she asked him that
Bruh, when he said “I didn’t want to tell you because-“ and there was a huge pause, my brain filled in “because you might not love me anymore” and I cried.
Same
Same
Same here
Awhhh same!!
Omg same now I'm fkn crying
I don’t know why UA-cam suggested this but I just want to let you know that I am so so proud of you and you are so so amazing and brave. It takes a lot to do this and I hope your family accepts you and you find happiness everyday of your life ❤️❤️
Same!!!!
Same!!
Same!!!
@@치킨레그 actually it doesn't
@@multifandomcrackheaduwu8066 so Bible says homosexuality is completely ok?
When she said "but you can still like girls right?" That broke my heart :(((((((((
One day Korea will realize the situation and become more supportive to the community. For now, we love and support you here.
Sending warm thoughts and hugs from Canada ❤🇨🇦🏳️🌈
foreign swagger session Muslims country too! You really don’t realize until you go to one and you see yourself how mistreated some of the community are 💙 ❤️ Islam need to take a step to the present,, I’m sorry if this has offended anyone :(
Greqt uhm its almost all religions
@@ummnaim5862 almost every religion tho, im muslim as well, i'm not hating on them bcus they are a LGBT. If it were others, i wont even be concern but i myself wont be a lgbt bcus of my religion. I'm not a prophet either to telling em to stop in the name of god. So, yeah people need to open their mind, try not to pick up a fight with those who different from them. Everything back to each persona.
That shit was fucked up. But that's not even that bad for Korean standards because she was still loving for the most part and I think that part was just from misunderstanding hopefully.
Aaaa
저런어머니정도나되시니깐 고백을할수나있지 진짜 훌륭하신어머니네요
Ur mum is the sweetest ❤️ wish more people were as brave as u here in Korea 👏 sending lots of love 🥰
Grazie di darli conforto Marco, sei il migliore❣️
@SeoulMafia È bello vedere il tuo supporto ....grazie ♥️
MARCOOO ♡♡♡ Sei stato carinissimo come sempre cwc ♡
Bello leggere il commento di marco ❤️🌺
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열심히만 살어..아프지말구..
밥먹었어??
진짜 엄마다...
이영상 볼때마다 눈물 나왕..😥😥😥 제이슨 형아 기운내세요~~
10:22 when his mom said “cheer up” and he smiled... that melted my heart
Your mom is such a lead for Korean moms everywhere with their own baby revealing such a big news. Mothers know, since she said she had a feeling back when. 😭 she then asks if you ate dinner...😭😭 such love.
I hope you find true love and happy pride month love from the uk 🇬🇧 🏳️🌈
Zakia Duale i like your profile picture of Jonghyun
No matter where the conversation starts but it always ends at food....that's mom's love. His mom is great, although it was hard accepting but she did accept it...
He's lucky to have a mom like her...
I think what she meant by it is not a good thing that people know about it she was referring to the closed minded people in South Korea and not everyone ok so please don’t be sad ❤️❤️❤️ I’m in support of him!!! He should be who he is and I’m not hating on his mum or anything I just wanted to clarify what she said x
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armylovesbts/btslovesarmt none I don’t agree with you. She’s supporting him and I don’t think that’s wrong. Gay people exist and they deserve rights like everyone else. They deserve love like everyone else, whether you support them or not. On top of that, LGBTQ is a complicated topic in Islam that dates back to maaany many years ago. Ila gelti hra 7ram nat tch3ihch jatni chwiya fchichkel. Chkoun nti lit goula liha hd lhadra?
@@Jasminelastnameless woah wait what language is that
wtm I don’t even know whattttt??? HAHAHAHA
wtm Moroccan dialect 😂😂
I couldnt hold it any longer when his mom's voice started cracking...
His mom was so accepting for their culture, I feel so happy for him! Proud of Both him and his mom. we love supportive parents!
엄마가 다 알고 계셨네
그러게요~~엄마이기때문에받아들일수밖에 없다는걸 엄마도알고 자식도아는거겟죠 그래서 자식입장에서 더죄송스러운마음일꺼구요~~ 자식입장만두고보자면이기적일수도잇지만 어쩌겟어요~~ 본인도그래야살것같은대 엄마말씀처럼딴생각말고 건강잘챙기고 앞으로효도많이하세요~~^^
"Just do your best and dont feel bad" "it's not something I can change" "did you eat dinner?"
Actually it was “just do your best and don’t get sick!”
@@pacovl46 yes 아프다 can be translated in multiple ways :) (in this context to me, it came across as though she was saying "don't hurt yourself and make yourself sick because of who you are" so I chose to say dont feel bad because if you feel bad you will get sick and hurt.)
Jae Kr I see. Thanks for clearing that up! 🙂
I remember Pete's mom here.
I hope Korea will Change their opinion about homosexuality,and Accept it!! They need to lern,that it isn't a Bad thing!!
Kpop multifandom Jikook 공감해요 .......
@@루메-p7h I can't read korean,I'm sorry
It means "I agree you"
@@뽀로로-c2p thank you!! And that's good 💖
EXACTLY
Love is love
Human are human
You're not" different " you're just human
Be happy
Love u.
어머니반응이 담담하셔서 더 뭔가 슬프네요 ㅠㅠ 근데진짜 이해심 깊으시고 좋으신 분이네요 ㅠㅠ 누구의 잘못도아니에요!!울지마세요오!!
감사합니다 😘
This is a big step in many people's lives to come out and it isn't easy. Hopefully one day Korea will change its ways and see these as something positive without judging.
Uh is that N on your profile Pic?
this is not positive , nor negative
this is just what it is
"건강하기만 하면 돼"
엄마말씀이 가슴을 울립니다.
😭😭💛
말하는 중간중간 있는 쉼표에서 느껴지는 감정들이 너무... 너무너무다
Proud of you for coming out. Your mom seems very sweet and understanding, just worried about how you will be treated by others.
핸나 off topic, but is your name spelt haenna? If so, thats really unique, carry on. If its spelt Hanna/hannah then your Hangul is wrong. I dont want to jump to conclusions, for all i know you could be fluent and its supposed to be that way but by chance i just wanted to let you know!
uwu ngi a korean friend I do language exchange with gave me the name.
핸나 ah okay. If it was hanna/hannah itd be 한나 so I had to ask
한국인??
jjk 쩨이쩨이케이 kkawaii 카와이잉
미국인 이지만 한국어 공부해요
this makes me so happy. your mom made me cry so much. you too. this is such a brave and beautiful thing you did. tell you’re mom what a great mom she is. because she didn’t hate you or scold you or not love you anymore. i was scared for you when watching this. but i’m glad your not burdened by having to keep it a secret anymore. you did amazing, i hope you know that.
자식 둔 엄마는
잘나도 못나도 내자식입니다
그저 평범하면 좋겠지만
아니라도 자식이지요
엄마의 한숨소리와 침묵이
가슴에 스며듭니다ㅠㅠ
나 또한
아들 때문에 몇날밤을 울며지낸적이
있었던적이 생각나
눈물이 납니다(이제는 다 괜찮아졌어요)
어쩔수 없지요
그냥 열심히 사세요
그게 효도하는 길이겠지요
your mom should see this video. I think she will understand better if she sees all the emotions you went through
Sushi Mar 404 error
the number of likes and it just went thru my mind ok I’m sorry.
전화받으시는 어머니 목소리에서 아들에 대한 걱정과 사랑이 느껴지시네요... 어머니 본인도 대한민국 사회의 기성세대라 놀랍고 받아들이기 어렵지만.. 그럼에도 불구하고 아들을 아무 조건없이 받아주시고 보듬아주실분들은 가족분들이라고 생각해요... 가족의 힘으로 세상에 당당히 맞서고 진정한 free soul 펼치는 날이 꼭 올거에요.
너무너무너무 응원합니다
따뜻한 말씀 감사해요 ㅠㅠ
I love the fact that she totally changed the subject and talked about you eating well and sending her some pictures as if coming out was nothing of a big deal AND THAT’S WHAT WE WANT ❤️
This is probably the saddest video I've seen so far this year...because that's the way I cry too, and it made me sad so see how your voice got weak and your eyes closing for so long...it really made me want to hug you and tell you that everything is going to be fine...I'm happy that your Mom did not ended the call and kind of tried to understand you...😕
Love and support from Germany!!!❤
Heyy ich bin auch deutsch 😂
Ja hallo ich auch 😂
Deutschland squad
@@reyyan8133 Ich auch :D
@@Mxka22 wow sogar gleiches Profil Bild ;D
it’s the first video that i’m seeing of you and honestly i couldn’t be more proud of you for coming out to your korean mom regardless of the fact that many korean grown ups and elders don’t really support the lgbtq+ community, congratulations on the bravery, we’re here to continue supporting you 💕🏳️🌈
"[Liking girls again] is not going to happen, Mom." That was powerful to me. I hope you're all ok.
전화끊고 엄마 우셨을꺼 같아요.
저도 눈물이 났습니다.힘내요
엄마는 강하죠. 자식을 제일 사랑하구요♡
친구보다 부모가 자식에대해 더 많이 알아야된다고 말씀하시는 거...진짜 좋은 어머니 두신 거 같아요 너무 부럽...
헐... 뭐야 진짜ㅜㅜㅠㅠㅠ 같은 성서수자로서 너무.... 허어..... 이번에 구독했습니다ㅜㅠ 영상 올리는것도 어려우셨을텐데 수고하셨고 앞으로는 꽃길만 걸으세요ㅜㅠㅠ..
우리 모두 꽃길만 걷길 ㅎㅎ
커핑아웃 생각하셨다는 자체가 용감하다는 생각이 들어요..혼자서 얼마나 고민이 들고 힘들었어요.. 너무 용감해요 진짜 커밍아웃하시느라 고생하셨어요 ㅜㅜ !!
지인이야 안보거나 쌩까면 그만이지만
나였으면 진짜 엄마한테 말 못했을듯..
대단...
🙏
엄마가 너무 착한 사람이에요 ~~~ 우우, 아빠 한태 말하는 거는 걱정하지 마세요!!! 응원해요. 엄마 사랑 빠개 없어요 ㅋㅋ
엄마는 엄마다.
Someone please translate this. Wondering why this comment got many likes. Tq
Kay Jay “a mom is a mom”
@@amyrich2008 tq sis
Jason fighting,we support you here^_^
엄마가 엄청 현명하시고 이해심이 많으시네요.
힘내 ..
being different doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, all support for you
And You’re brave !!
Be proud of who you are ..
and i wish you all the best 🙆🏻♀️
i am honestly so proud of you, keep smiling :)
너무 수고 많았어요 영상 보면서 너무 공감되기도 하고 말하기 무서운 마음이 느껴져서 안쓰러웠어요 쉬운 일이 아니었다는 거 알지만 잘한 일이었다는 건 확실해요 그렇게 말을 꺼낸다는 것 자체가 너무 힘들었을 텐데 그 자체만으로도 고생 많았고 좋은 선택이었어요 우리나라 사람들이 성적 지향성에 상관없이 모두를 동등하게 보는 때가 어서 왔으면 좋겠어요 당신의 삶과 사랑을 항상 응원할게요❤️
진심으로 감사해요❤
Seeing you crying like that break my little heart.
You did well, congrats for telling your mom ❤️ (I'm late for saying that but anyway ❤️)
Support and love from France 🇫🇷 ❤️
Yaaas France is supporting ! ♡
Yup i need to come out too but damn it's hard even in France thought we are more accepting
Awww she was really worried about his dad not wanting to see him anymore. 😢😢
엄마눈에는 그냥 애기여 ㅠㅠ
이해주시는게 감사하죠
don't cry please, you're perfect the way u are, sending love from italy🌈❤
Don't know why it's in my recommendations, but I want you to know that I'm proud of you, we're all proud of you, and you're loved and please keep smiling.
i came out to my mum on 27th June 2019 (yes, yesterday 😂). i was crying cause i was so afraid, cause my mum is a muslim and so fuxking religious. i thought she would scold me, but she just hug me tightly and say “you’re my daughter. and i love you no matter what. thank you for trusting me enough to tell me this. i love you.” 😢
OH MY GOD THIS MADE ME CRYYYY KAKASKKS
Oh my god I’m so happy for you
Awwww congratulations and you came out on my birthday asdffghhjjkkkk😂😂💜💜💜💜
Wow! That’s how it should always go!
mochi reading this makes me so happy bc my parents are muslim too & i honestly dont know if i’ll ever be able to come out to them, but hearing abt others with accepting parents makes my heart happy ♥️♥️ super proud of u!
I live for these koreans now coming out more easily
I can feel his mom`s dilemma and I really appreciate Jason for opening up.
This is so heartbreaking, I could never imagine coming out to my parents if I was gay
coming out takes a lot of bravery especially when it comes to parents.
i am so proud of u💗
엄마 다 알고 계셨구나...
어머니가너무멋잇으셔요..힘내세요
Hearing your mom that she would like to change you kinda beaks my heart
But aye she's also understanding about it
You were so brave yaay💖
I don’t think that she meant it like that though
I think she meant it as, if he also liked girls it would soften the blow for his father?
I think it was a protective thought but she herself was very willing to accept it.. but I don’t know
제이슨~ 울지말아요.
어머니 말씀대로 그렇게 타고난거니 그대 잘못이 아니예요. 넘 속상해하지도 말고, 자책도 말기를~~ 시간이 모든 걸 해결해줄거예요.
네 시간이 걸리겠지만 괜찮아 지리라 믿어요..
제이슨님~!!! 꼭 성공하세요!! 고1 자녀를 키우고 있는 부모입니다. 제이슨 님께 이런 부모님이 계신건 축복입니다. 든든하시겠어요. 엄마 마음은 그런거죠. 무한하게 무조건으로 사랑하고 지지하는것. 제이슨님 꼭 성공하셔서 더 행복하게 좋은 영상 많이 올려 주세요! 타투리스트 정말 잘 어울립니다.. 이번 영상 마음이 찡합니다. 저도 눈시울이 붉어지네요. 응원할께요~ 엄마라는 존재는 참 위대한것 같아요. 저도 그런 엄마가 되고 싶습니다.
목소리 떨림이 느껴져서 긴장하면서 봤어요
어머님이 어느정도 눈치챘지만
제이슨이 말해주길 기다려셨을것 같아요
어머님 말씀처럼 좋은거든 나쁜거든 다 알고싶다고 하시는 말에 울컥 했어요 제이슨 용감한 선택이였고 어머님도 받아들이기 힘드시겠지만 이제부턴 비밀없는 모자 사이가 된거 같아서 다행이예요 응원해요♡
응원 감사해요! ㅎㅎ
마음으루 안되는걸 어떻게해
....
아 어머님 얘기 듣는데 너무 눈물난다
정말 좋은 어머님을 두셨네요
앞으로도 꼭 더 행복하시길 거에요
감사합니다 🙋♂️
You’re really brave for sharing something so intimate on the internet. I’m really proud of you for having the courage to come out.
idk why her asking if u had eaten made me tear up the most in this video, just shows the true love she has for you even as she’s trying to adjust to this news u just gave her. so proud of u and i wish u the best ♥️
감동이다~
엄마 정~말대단한엄마네요
아들모습에서 사랑을 듬뿍받고 살아온오습이
그대로보이네요
힘네세요!! 이젼세상이달라져서
다양한 삶이 있잔아요
멋지게 살아보세요!!
감사합니다!👼👍
인상이참좋아요
엄마 입장에선 자식이
아픈것보다 훨씬 낫다고
생각하실거예요
요즘세상은 너무험해서
그래도 다행이라고
위안을하실거니깐 너무
힘들어하지마시고
행복하시길 바랄게요~~~
^^
Your moms reaction made me cry.. considering that being gay isn’t as accepted there as other places, she reacted so lovely. And then seeing you cry like that broke my heart:((
I found this really brave of you! You did great^^❤️
엄마가 얼마나 마음이 아프고 무너지는지
느껴져요 ㅠㅠ
짐이라고 생각하지마세요ㅠㅠ 죄가 아니니깐요 흔하지 않다고해서 나쁜게 아니잖아요 그런 식으로 생각하지 않으셨으면 좋겠네요 힘내시구요 ㅎㅎ 앞으로 좋은 모습 기대할게요!! 😊
대견하다진짜...
용케 용기를 낸거 엄청 존경스럽습니다
눈물 흘리시는걸 보고 울컥했어요 ㅠ
힘내세요 응원합니다!
Aww, this is a hard thing to do alone, but with asian parents, i have respect for you. My sister came out to my parents and risked getting disowned, they are more understanding now.
I support you all the way!!! 사랑합니나
I hate seeing people cry but you did the right thing to come out to your mom, and to be honest if I were into girls since I'm a girl I know my parents would hate to see me since I come from a religious family, but I want you to know that you have my support!💕💕 keep smiling don't let others bring you down💕
엄마는
영상 처음부터 끝까지 아들걱정으로 시작해서 아들걱정으로 끝나네요.
잘했어요. 제이슨
어머니 말씀대로
잘 살면 됩니다
꼭 잘살게요!
밥먹었어......부모님들이 항상 하시는 말씀이죠 항상 무슨일이 있어도 저말은 꼭 하시는것 같습니다 뭔가 저말 한마디에는 수많은 감정이 들어가 있는듯해요ㅠㅠ자식들은 무심히 듣는 말이지만 다시 생각해보면 항상 자식 먼저 생각하시는 부모님의 마음이 느껴지는 말 한마디인거 같습니다...ㅠㅠ
커밍아웃할때 다들 우네요..ㅠㅠ 그 마음이 너무 안쓰러워요 지금도 행복하시고 내일도 행복하세요!!
성 정체성에 대해서 말한다는건 대단한 용기다. 그리고 커밍 아웃을 해도, 더 행복하게 살아간다면 그것만큼 훌륭한 삶이지 않을까. 요즘 정신병 인간들 많은데
용기를 낸 당신은 최고 입니다.
사랑받고 축복 받는 삶을 응원합니다.
제이슨님. 너무 좋으신분을 어머님으로 두셨네요.
타고난 성향이라는걸 이해하시면서도 여자를 좋아하게 될수도 있지않은지 말씀하실때 맘이 아팠어요.
님을 너무 사랑하시고 동시에 아버님 걱정까지.
어머님 말씀처럼 열씨미 살고 건강 잘 챙기시길
더욱 더 열심히 살아야겟어요!
말하기 힘드셨을텐데.. 진짜 용기있는 커밍아웃이었어요! 응원합니다!!!!!!
I had stopped watching Coming Out videos for a while now till UA-cam suggested yours today. It’s your first video that I’m watching but I must say that you did well. I bet your mom is really proud of you.
Coming from a conservative asian country and household, I had a good coming out experience with my sibling and friends too. A real bitter one with my aunt. So I hadn’t had the guts to do so with my parents. We each have our own journeys so take your own pace. Just got to say that you ain’t alone so hang in there.
영상보면서 같이 많이 울었어요.. 저도 딸아이 둔 엄마라서, 제이슨어머니입장에서 보게됐는데.. 확실히 느낀건..부모라는 존재는 무조건.. 자식을 사랑해요..좋은 부모님을 두신것같고.. 제이슨님도 늘 응원합니다..^^ 어렵고 귀한 영상 감사해요
응원감사해요 ㅠㅠ 열심히 살아야해요! ㅎ
오늘 처음 본 사람인데 어머님 반응이 가장 현실적인 한국 어머니들의 반응이지 않을까 싶네요... 동성애를 이해한다고는 하지만 자기 자식은 아니였으면 하는 마음.. (사람들의 시선이 안좋을 것을 아니까) 하지만 아들의 커밍아웃에 분명 충격을 받으셨음에도 불구하고 자식을 사랑하는 마음이 더 커서 그걸 티내지 않고 응원해주려 하시는 모습이 감동이에요. 마지막에 “잘 있어 울애기” 에서 저까지 눈물이ㅠㅠ 제이슨님이 전화를 끊고 우신 것처럼 어머님도 담담한 척 끊으시고 홀로 울음을 삼키셨을 것 같은데 정말 가슴 아프네요..ㅠㅠ 그래도 정말 큰 용기 내셨습니다! 앞으로 좋은 일만 가득 하시길 응원할게요.
i really appreciate his mom's reaction and understand her concerns. korea is a country with a pretty close mentality, at least the biggest part of it cannot understand and share things such as homosexuality. what she showed, besides her worries, is the endless love of a mom. it warmed my heart up. hope understanding for what is considered as different will raise all over the world, but i'm afraid we are still far from that. sending you a lot of love, may you live happily
His mom probably burst into tears after they finished talking.All what she wants for her son is happiness and i hope her wish will come true in the near future!As ur mom said don’t get sick and be healthy!
2분부터 울면서 봤어요 ㅜㅜ 어머니도 넘 좋으신분같고 어머니 목소리 들으니 큰 사랑이 느껴져서 눈물나네요 시간은 좀 걸리겠지만 점점 좋아질꺼에요. 한국에도 아주아주 서서히 인식이 바뀌어가고 있는것 같아요 몇일전에 프라이드 퍼레이드 갔다가 엄마한테 사진 보여줬더니 사람이 사람을 좋아하는건 전혀 문제가 되지 않는거라고 엄마가 그러더라구요. 지금은 잘 안보이지만 서서히 좋은쪽으로 바뀌고 있는것 같아요 더 행복해지시길 그리고 항상 응원합니다.
😘😘😘😘😘
토닥토닥.전 11살 딸이 있어요.엄마맘으로 봤어요..제이슨이 건강하고 자기일 잘해내고 산다면 엄마는 그걸로 됬다 하실거에요.지금처럼요..엄마한테 안미안해지려면 제이슨이 행복하면되요!!건승하세요!! 영어공부유튜브 보다가 영어공부팁올린 호주워홀러들 영상보다가 어찌어찌해서 여기까지 오게되서 구독눌렀어요.혼자 요리도 잘하고 영어도 잘하시네요 지금처럼 밝게 사심됩니다! 제이슨 겉도 속도 멋진분같아요.화이팅!
속 깊은 말씀 감사해요 ㅠㅠ
어머니가 참 좋으신 분 같아요
이미 알고 계셔서 다행이에요
엄마는 다 느낌이 있죠..
그래도 부모님체면보단 자식을 많이 사랑하시는 게 느껴져요
앞으로도 지금처럼 살갑게 부모님과 행복하게 사세요
맞아요 감사할뿐이죠 ㅠ
잘생겼네요. 용기가 대단합니다. 뭘해도 잘하실듯 합니다.
용가내서 어머님한테 말한거 잘한거라고 칭찬해주고싶네요~ 어머님도 지금은 많이 놀라셨을거에요 ~시간이지나면서 이해하시고 누구보다도 많은 정신적 힘이 되어주실 분이에요 ~ 좋은어머님 이시네요 울지말고 앞으로 더욱힘내서 잘 살고있는 모습 보이시면 되요 용기에 박수보냅니다 세상의 편견신경쓰지말고 자신감 가지고 꿋꿋하게 사세요 본인이 행복하면 되는거에요 잘사는모습 꼭 보여주세요 화이팅👍👍👍
꼭 보여드릴게요! 지켜봐주세요!ㅎ
어머님도 생각보다 덤덤하게 얘기하시는데.... 왜 내가 Jason이랑 같이 엉엉 울고있냐구...ㅠㅠ 엄마한테 더 자주 연락드리고 하셔요!!!! 시간이 지나면 언젠간 같이 웃을 날이 올거에요!!!!
믿어요!!
When you started crying, i started crying too. I think you’re very brave for coming out to your mom...my father is japanese and Christian, well my family is Christian and sometimes I get so confused whether I like girls or boys or even both even though I am not that young and in my early 20’s... and father is kinda homophobic so he would never understand the situation and prob throw me out of our house... you did well telling your mom. Mothers are going to be our best friends until the end of their lives... good job 💛
Well done Jason. I am very impressed. You actually record this and share with us. 눈물난다
appreciated you share this.
thank you.
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all I can say is, Congratulations for being brave!!! I wish you the best!
your profile picture is me right now after watching this video
어머니가 반응이 놀랍네ㅐ요/// 이해하고 응원해주다니 ㄷㄷ 행운아입니다
I'm proud of you! And I'm happy she is acceptive of you, even though it's very hard for her. ❤
I wish to jump over the screen and give you a hug,everything will be ok .
영상 속 분이 어머니께 힘들게 말하시는 과정에서 엄청 고민하시고 떠시고 불안해하시는게 보여서 넘 마음이 아파요 ㅠㅠㅠ이성을 좋아하던 동성을 좋아하던 문제될게 아닌데 사회적으로 이렇다보니까 영상 속 분처럼 고민하시는 분이 얼마나 많을지..잘못도 아닌데 이렇게 속앓이 하셔야된단 상황이 넘 마음이 아파요.
I want to hug him soo badly, so he is going to feel better 😭❤
You can be proud of you. Fighting!💪🏼
자식이 세상의 소수로 살아가는게 걱정되는 마음은 정말 백번 이해가 갑니다. 그렇지만 그렇게 타고난걸 바꿀 수 있는것도 아닌데...... 그렇다면 가족이라도 세상에서 가장 안전하고 든든한 지지자, 울타리가 되어주어야 한다고 생각해요.
용기있게 잘 말씀 하셨어요! 마음 고생 많으셨어요ㅜㅜ 어머니 말씀 뭉클...
슬퍼하면...엄마는 말도 못할정도로 아프실거에요...잘 사는 모습 보여드리면되요...울지마요...사람이 사람좋아하는거 나쁜거 아니고 이상한거 아니에요..단지 성별이 다를뿐이지...익숙하지 않는거니까...시간이 약이에요 그 용기에 박수쳐드리구 싶어요
감사합니다
엄마도 엄마가 처음이니까 , 혹시나 서운하게 들을 말들 너무 가슴에 담지마시길바래요 화이팅!
😭😭💛