How we were disciplined as children and what it taught us as parents | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- Опубліковано 10 сер 2023
- Today we are talking about discipline. So many of you sent in these questions: How were we disciplined as children? How do we discipline our children? How has our parenting style changed as we had more children? Lets get into it!
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Tab dropped a few knowledge bars… “parents need discipline too” had me shouting…. “you fail when you don’t make an adjustment” 🙌🏾….. “you can still be gentle while applying pressure” come-on Tab!!
My parents taught me you deal with your children how they are and each one is different. So yes you adapt and evolve to be able to give each child what they need! This was great!
I feel so many children today do not understand there are “consequences” for their actions and behaviors, because there has been no discipline from their parents. This was a great topic. Thank you to those who requested the topic.
I’m a single parent of 9. When you said your youngest son has the better version of you resonated so much! My oldest is 31 and my youngest is 13 and I always say my younger children has the better version of me, because I was always in survival mode with my older children and my stress levels were off the charts!! It’s a real challenge raising them and dealing with 9 different personalities but I wouldn’t change it for the world!! I Absolutely Love Y’all Please Keep This Going ❤
Chance, I like how you explained a whooopin’ vs abuse. That’s what my brother & I got. When I became an adult, I told my mother “Thank you”. We are nonviolent, loving, respectful, responsible & independent adults. That form of discipline worked for us❤️
As a child, I was called nappy headed, stupid, dumb, and dense amongs other things. I could never imagine saying those things to my children no matter what they do 😢
I agree with Chance... You should discipline children at the toddler age. How the old saying goes ...you can bend a sap while it's a sap, but when it becomes a tree you cannot bend a tree! I believe since being in the schools as a Teacher and seeing how some children are not being disciplined is the result of what's going on in the world right now.
If u were 2 ask my son (only child) he probably would tell u I was like Chance's mom (I'm the 5'2 tornado) when I was raising him 😂😂 bt I'm THANKFUL & BLESSED that we have a great relationship & he's a good man 💙💙
All Facts. Discipline is not just for the child; we, as parents, must be disciplined in our parenting.
My parents said something similar to me, the way they dealt with me isn’t the way they could deal with my younger brother. He was more sensitive, quieter spirit, slightly fragile. Each child is different
I almost shouted when Chance said displine should start early..I so agree,this brought back memories..thus was wonderful segment..I am just full.Good job!
I tried spanking my son and he went to daycare the next day and hit the babysitter. She told me it was out of character for him and asked me what changed. I never spanked him again. Also, it's very important to teach our kids Karate. Karate teaches you when to talk away and how to protect yourself if you ever need to.
I loved this episode ❤, I’m 20 with no kids lol but a college student studying psychology. What I’ve learned from my parents and taking care of my nephew is how influential our actions/behaviors are. Most ppl think kids don’t know things but they do. They see everything, they hear things. For example, a child who sees their parent(s) with good mannerism will follow that, just like seeing both parents cooperate, love and respect each other. It’s scary but empowering.
Life changes from Birth to Death, and as we go through life, change with the times. I have two Sons, one was an easy going Child and was goal oriented in his teenage years, didn’t get into trouble, etc. The youngest Son was much more challenging, he was sick at birth and he was spoiled, and at the time I didn’t know that I should have treated him like I treated his brother, instead I was a little more lenient in discipline, because of his illness situation!! There’s no manual on raising children. Take it one child at a time. Have Faith, God, and a lot of prayers 🙏🏽❤️
Tab said Never Would Have Made It, Oh I was rolling laughing, that's hilarious 😂😂😂 bc that's literally how it feels/felt😂
I’m a single mother of 3 ages 18, 16, & 3 years old. I definitely parent/discipline my 3 year old son differently than I did with my girls. They always complain about that too. Haha! But I remind them that I’ve evolved since then 🤷🏾♀️ I don’t do things the same way & that’s ok.
My Dad never punished by spanking or physically. He would always ground me for 2 weeks.
The Story about Quest was beautiful and inspiring and I myself have to break generational curses within my
TAB & CHANCE need their own show so real and down to earth ..This Podcast is the Best❤
I love how Tab says "deh-dee" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Them southern accents tickle me every time! 🤣