Joining The Military At An Older Age

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @HaedenBeck
    @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +1

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    • @moniquemckie4383
      @moniquemckie4383 8 місяців тому

      I download discord. How to fine you on there?

    • @7callmeking7
      @7callmeking7 3 місяці тому

      Says invalid

    • @jonmayo1658
      @jonmayo1658 Місяць тому

      @@HaedenBeck wasn’t available

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  Місяць тому

      @@jonmayo1658 Try now

    • @jonmayo1658
      @jonmayo1658 Місяць тому

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  • @MegaMongrol
    @MegaMongrol 8 місяців тому +17

    You're the Military version of reviewbrah. Keep it coming, you're putting out great stuff.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +2

      LMAO that's hilarious, thanks 😂

  • @James-hs1eq
    @James-hs1eq 7 місяців тому +2

    Im 20 and feeling old joining the Navy, because most of people I know are 18 and 19 joining. This video puts it into perspective and that 20 is still very young tbh. Plus having a year of college and 2-3 years of work experience already I feel more mature compared to when I was just 18. Although 18-20 we pretty much are still baby adults 😂. Good video!

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  7 місяців тому +4

      I was 25 when I joined, so 20 is early! Best of luck.

  • @FocaJDM
    @FocaJDM 8 місяців тому +13

    Really needed this. i'm 39, been regretting all my life. Why i didn't join the navy... but 2 weeks ago i told my self: is now or never😅 and here we go hopefully i go to bootcamp next month

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  7 місяців тому +2

      Yes! Awesome, I hope it works out!

    • @Foxracing401
      @Foxracing401 5 місяців тому +1

      Did you end up going

    • @EmeraldGhost-
      @EmeraldGhost- 2 місяці тому +1

      How was it!??

    • @FocaJDM
      @FocaJDM 2 місяці тому

      I didn't enjoy bootcamp at all but i made good friends, did lost 27 pounds,finish bootcamp and now i'm haft way at MA A school, is been way better around here, they been sending my division all over the world, some are going to Bahrain, Japan, italy, spain,Guam,cuba i got stateside Georgia

    • @EmeraldGhost-
      @EmeraldGhost- 2 місяці тому +1

      @@FocaJDMwow! That’s so cool I talked to my recruiter yesterday and we are starting the process 🙏 I definitely wanna do MA I have no clue what else if I can’t but glad to hear you made it man congratulations 🎈🎊🎉🍾 hard work pays off 🫡

  • @Jeremy-l7d
    @Jeremy-l7d 8 місяців тому +5

    Been following for a while now. I finally got my waivers approved and signed my contract. At 28, I’ll ship out on April 29th. Thanks for all your videos

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +1

      Awesome, best of luck!

  • @Adeptusmagos
    @Adeptusmagos 8 місяців тому +4

    This is really helpful and I may be 25 but I know it’s not late to join. Love the videos man keep it up

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +2

      I was 25 when I joined, don't let it be a false barrier. Best of luck!

  • @mlidie
    @mlidie 7 місяців тому +7

    Joined at max age. 41. Didn’t want to regret it. Life happened. Family health issues. Best shape of my life. Had my kids. Crushed ACFT. Never going to regret joining later. Been a federal employee for nearly 15 years too. VA Army National Guard. To all the oldies…. GET SOME!!!

    • @warlord562
      @warlord562 27 днів тому

      Hope you didn't go through stupid shit with the younger recruits at basic

  • @KYSIYT
    @KYSIYT 8 місяців тому +3

    32 with an age waiver for a SWCC contract. Originally chose MA. Never too late to learn something and better yourself. Good luck to everyone. Great videos brother. Thank you.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +2

      Good luck, you'll definitely need it. A friend of mine dropped SWCC training for a medical reason, after an injury his ribcage was slowly separating and opening up as he exercised, so he became an MA. I hope your career works out, glad you enjoy the videos!

    • @chrisnorman3421
      @chrisnorman3421 Місяць тому

      I’m 28 trying to be a SWCC!!!! Any advice for an outta shape guy like me?

  • @Txshrimp
    @Txshrimp 8 місяців тому +3

    Turned 28 last November ship out April 4 for the navy it’s never to late for a life reset

  • @JohnDoe-xc3im
    @JohnDoe-xc3im 8 місяців тому +2

    I met this guy irl and he is so nice!!!!! We traded patches and had a drink together. He told me all about what he does when he's at work and I think I'm going to have to cross rate over to MA because that sounds like the perfect job in the Navy!

  • @Foxracing401
    @Foxracing401 5 місяців тому +2

    I wanted to join in my early 20s but i ended up with a daughter and wanted to be there for her as a child, now she's older and I'm 35 I want to join the army

  • @reginaldjordan2026
    @reginaldjordan2026 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for this. I'm shipping out on Apr 9th to Navy boot camp at the age of 34

  • @whenhen
    @whenhen 8 місяців тому +1

    I joined at 29 and am currently in A school. I definitely relate to the fraternization thing. It’s frustrating to me that most of the people who are within 5 years of my age are off limits in terms of hanging out with, due to them being fleet returnees or staff. That being said, I ended up being much more social in the Navy than before due to the ease of meeting people versus post school civilian life.
    I joined the reserves so fortunately I don’t have to deal with housing outside of A school and while on a ship, if deployed, but I’d imagine I’d go crazy if I were forced to live in the barracks. The rules absolutely treat us like juveniles and the asinine inspections are hard to deal with after having lived on my own and with a spouse for so many years.
    That being said the Navy has already given me amazing opportunities. Plus if you’re looking for a career reset it’s a great option. But being lower enlisted means you get treated like an immature 18 year old, who deserves to be punished, no matter how true that is in actuality.

  • @militarycollectiblesshop
    @militarycollectiblesshop 8 місяців тому +2

    You are wise beyond your years my friend!

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому

      Oh hey, thanks Jerry!

  • @famicommike9014
    @famicommike9014 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm joining at 36 and glad I found your channel so I can get an idea of how things are Navy wise still

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  6 місяців тому +1

      best of luck!

    • @saulbeiza7303
      @saulbeiza7303 4 місяці тому

      Did you end up going?

    • @famicommike9014
      @famicommike9014 4 місяці тому +1

      @@saulbeiza7303 just met with MEPS a few days ago and they're processing everything still. There were also like 5 other people there that were joining and were 41 so I wasn't the oldest one.

    • @saulbeiza7303
      @saulbeiza7303 4 місяці тому

      @@famicommike9014 ok I’m next

  • @pihermit7724
    @pihermit7724 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this. It helped to calm my mind. Back when I was in high school, the military recruiters visited and I was drawn towards the Navy. I was thinking about joining after high school, but I was too scared to make that commitment at 17 years old, so I just decided to go to college instead. Over a decade later, I am now almost 29 years old and I am currently working as a civil engineer after getting my degree in civil engineering. I love my job and want to continue doing what I do now for the rest of my life, but I still had that lingering regret in the back of my mind about never joining the Navy. I am currently overweight and out of shape, but I have been making progress on my weight loss, diet, and health overall over the course of the past year. Once I get into better shape and a healthier weight, I am thinking of having a serious conversation with my local recruiter.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 місяців тому

      I wish you the best of luck

  • @moniquemckie4383
    @moniquemckie4383 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. I enjoyed your videos 🤗. I’m in my 30’s and going to join Navy. That’s one of my goals to work on my retirement.
    It’s very important to work on retirement from your 20’/30’s 👍🏾 it comes back to you IF you plan correctly.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому

      The earlier we start on our retirements the better, but the last thing most 18 year olds or even 30 year olds think about is retirement. It feels like it's 500 years away or that you'll never get old. Probably the same how people never plan their will or funeral, people don't want to face the fact we get old or the fact that we'll die and what happens when we do. Best of luck, you're ahead of many people already.

    • @moniquemckie4383
      @moniquemckie4383 8 місяців тому

      @@HaedenBeck thank you I agree. 👍🏾. Can I ask you. Does a Navy reverse receive a decent pension after serving full 20 years ?

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому

      @@moniquemckie4383 Yes they do, there are a few different options to take the pension.

  • @delgande
    @delgande Місяць тому

    You're convincing me to join as an MA. My life sucks and I need stability
    Only hurdle is that I am overweight from sitting around for so long and struggle with doing pushups and pullups due to that weight

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  Місяць тому

      I'd suggest working with a dietician to drop the weight, and then from there exercise to get in shape, maybe with a trainer? I did it all myself tho.

  • @ErikRamBull
    @ErikRamBull 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this, I’m an older guy 35yo. Not joining when I was 18 is my only regret in life. I’m finally getting the discipline to actually lose the weight that prevented me from joining in the first place. 😅 I haven’t talked to a recruiter yet still exploring which branch and job I would be most interested in.

  • @BrandonBurton-k8l
    @BrandonBurton-k8l 8 місяців тому

    Your messages and support are really appreciated.

  • @rodolfomorenoiii135
    @rodolfomorenoiii135 Місяць тому

    I join at 35 was going to join the Navy, but got discourage with some things i heard on the internet. So I join the Coast Guard, it was difficult for me having to be treated like a child, I would also get intimidated by the company commanders. A lot of general knowledge needed to be learned and memorized in a short time, so I got an administrative discharge. I probably regret not joining navy, but who knows feel bad for not being able to manage it.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  Місяць тому

      At least you can say you tried.

    • @rodolfomorenoiii135
      @rodolfomorenoiii135 Місяць тому

      @@HaedenBeck
      Since I quit bootcamp and ended up getting an administrative discharge, do you think that will affect my employment opportunity or to apply to a federal job in the future?

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  Місяць тому

      @@rodolfomorenoiii135 I don't think so, dishonorable discharges are the ones that mess your life up.

    • @rodolfomorenoiii135
      @rodolfomorenoiii135 Місяць тому

      @@HaedenBeck
      Since I quit coast guard bootcamp couldn't delt with the stress and pressure and most importantly the general knowledge needed to be learned and memorize. You don't recommend me to try out the Navy right? I may not be military material

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  Місяць тому

      @@rodolfomorenoiii135 I never found any of it to be extremely difficult. If you didn't struggle during high school I'd say you should be fine with the academic sections of navy boot camp.

  • @strangebrew1231
    @strangebrew1231 6 місяців тому

    I'm enlisting at 29. I could feel my opportunities as a civilian start to plateau. I partied too much in college and lost the funding for it. Since then I've just been working minimum wage

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  6 місяців тому

      Well congrats, you've found at least an option to get out. The option I took. Hope it works out for you.

  • @Astronomical1
    @Astronomical1 8 місяців тому

    I lucked out and joined after my first year of college in the reserves...my GPA may or may not have had something to do with it ..😂

  • @e815usa
    @e815usa 2 місяці тому

    Been following you for a short while now and love your channel! Question: did you attend college before joining? And if so, did you consider attending Navy Officer Candidate School (OCS)? Just wondering if it was a path that you had considered or had been offered during recruitment. Thanks!

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  2 місяці тому

      Nope, when my dad died the door for me to go to college slammed shut.

  • @CoachRena
    @CoachRena 8 місяців тому

    I’m 34 & shipping out on April 30th. I’m ready!!!

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому +1

      Hooyah good luck!

    • @CoachRena
      @CoachRena 8 місяців тому

      @@HaedenBeck thanks a million

  • @TannuWannu
    @TannuWannu 5 місяців тому

    joining at twenty-five soon. i missed out on a lot in life.. time to catch up.

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 місяців тому +1

      You catch up quick, I felt like I was living someone else's life for a while

    • @TannuWannu
      @TannuWannu 5 місяців тому

      @@HaedenBeck thank you for the replies, you are a saint and a role model. sorry to bother ya' more but i was just wondering how long it took you personally to go to MEPS after you spoke to the recruiter the first time. i have one waiver in the works right now but besides that is it true that the process can take as long as the recruiter wants it to take?

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 місяців тому +1

      @@TannuWannu I don't remember but the whole process was pretty fast, the recruiter has nothing to benefit with slowing you down, they want you in quick as possible

  • @7callmeking7
    @7callmeking7 3 місяці тому

    I'm working with my recruiter right now at 30 so I'm joining way late in the game lol

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  3 місяці тому +1

      Changing jobs can happen at any age, you're not too late. The max age is too late. :) Best of luck!

  • @Coinz8
    @Coinz8 8 місяців тому

    I am 32, 1 child, wife, work as a library assistant (pretty good job). Not sure if I want to go reserves or active. The recruiter said if I go active, I'd lose my previous job. If go reserve I could keep it. I don't want reserves because I hear the pay isn't great and you have to do a lot of paperwork on your own. But I could keep my civilian job...idk what to do. I've been waiting to join since I was 25...any advice?

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  8 місяців тому

      I'm afraid that's a personal decision, if you wanna clear the slate, active duty is right for you, if you wanna have a balance with your previous life, reserves might be for you.

  • @kyfrm318
    @kyfrm318 2 місяці тому

    I’m 19 and I kinda feel old I ship out November 4th CTR rating lets gooooooo 🎉

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  2 місяці тому +2

      19 is old LMAO just wait I'm 28

    • @kyfrm318
      @kyfrm318 2 місяці тому

      @@HaedenBeckLmao Ima be 23 when I get out idk if Ima stay longer yet, I might go try and be an officer

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  2 місяці тому +1

      @@kyfrm318 You can go to the military, get out at 23 (which is younger than before I even joined) and go to college for free, and then go back to the military. Debt free.

    • @kyfrm318
      @kyfrm318 2 місяці тому

      @@HaedenBeck hell yeah that sounds like a great plan I might do that it just depends on if I want to stay, but my dad was in the navy too I joined because of him

  • @1234booky
    @1234booky 8 місяців тому +1

    Joining at 34 CTT

  • @JoesLife89
    @JoesLife89 5 місяців тому

    I love this video as a 35 yo man working in a warehouse, divorced, no kids, lost in life

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 місяців тому

      Hey you can turn it all around. This might be the ticket you're looking for, but there are other options.

  • @karinabarbaud1546
    @karinabarbaud1546 5 місяців тому

    My hubby joined at 28, I have no idea why I’m so worried about his age😂

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 місяців тому +1

      It shouldn't be a problem at all. He possibly made the second best decision, the first being marrying you? 😁

  • @Frankote916
    @Frankote916 8 місяців тому

    Good videos

  • @saulbeiza7303
    @saulbeiza7303 4 місяці тому

    Thinking about joining at 37

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  3 місяці тому

      It might be what you were looking for

  • @otakoman0056
    @otakoman0056 6 місяців тому

    Do you plan on doing 20 ?

  • @jonmayo1658
    @jonmayo1658 2 місяці тому

    I’m 35 in joining the Navy

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  2 місяці тому

      This could be the golden ticket you were looking for.

    • @jonmayo1658
      @jonmayo1658 Місяць тому

      @@HaedenBeck awesome 😎 thanks 🙏🏻

  • @josemillan4976
    @josemillan4976 17 годин тому

    i just enlisted in the us army as an 88k ... im 41 i leave to basic training february 11 i turn 42 december 28 ,,, soo i just enlisted at 41 but ill start my journey being 42 !!! im as exited as if i was 20 !!! it's never too late ... age its just a number 🫡

    • @HaedenBeck
      @HaedenBeck  5 годин тому

      Absolutely right! I'd rather have a motivated 40 year old than a 20 year old that doesn't care. Best of luck.

  • @1234booky
    @1234booky 8 місяців тому

    Joining at 34 CTT