Coco Thoughts While in Solitude #18 Wedding in Spain

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  • @KobiNasso
    @KobiNasso 4 роки тому +40

    As a gay closeted man who lives in a country where being gay is criminalized, I have those dark thoughts all the time. But your story gives me some hope. Maybe one day...!

  • @ultraviolettp3446
    @ultraviolettp3446 4 роки тому +66

    ROFL, "We're homosexuals. Everything has to be fabulous!" You cracked me up!

    • @nocchi.9589
      @nocchi.9589 4 роки тому +5

      “Why wasn’t that the first option?!”

    • @stumack9755
      @stumack9755 4 роки тому +1

      "We didn't want to get our shoes dirty". lol!

    • @glenncordova4027
      @glenncordova4027 10 місяців тому

      You only get one life. Be, "Fabulous" 🤪

    • @lornadryden5650
      @lornadryden5650 7 місяців тому

      I wish I was at that wedding

  • @cass7502
    @cass7502 4 роки тому +26

    Getting married in a small Spanish seaside village sounds like a dream come true let alone in a castle

  • @christine8823
    @christine8823 4 роки тому +34

    Please Coco, don't miss a day of thoughts. They are the best part of my evening, and god knows, we need a good story. Thank you!

  • @serenasmuckers9310
    @serenasmuckers9310 4 роки тому +33

    "Everything is possible.... Even the impossible"
    ~ Mary Poppins Returns

    • @Thatbookishguy69
      @Thatbookishguy69 4 роки тому +1

      Serena Smuckers didn’t Aubrey Hepburn day nothing is impossible even the word itself say I’m possible

  • @UA_L
    @UA_L 4 роки тому +23

    Same here. Go to bed at 11:00, get up at 3:00. Go to bed, get up at 6:00, can’t go back to sleeping. Absolutely horrible anxiety!

    • @sheelfjohnson
      @sheelfjohnson 4 роки тому +4

      Me too! There is a whole lot of napping going on lately. 😩😪

    • @xtra4life3
      @xtra4life3 4 роки тому +3

      You me too !! I was wondering who else had the same crazy lockdown sleeping habits!! Stay safe ! ♥️

    • @zuzu457890
      @zuzu457890 4 роки тому +2

      Me too! My anxiety is making me miserable! 😢😞

  • @MichelLafleche
    @MichelLafleche 4 роки тому +17

    this is not a hideous statue....it stands for belonging, truth, justice, love and growth.

    • @stumack9755
      @stumack9755 4 роки тому +1

      looks like 2 boys on Confirmation day.

  • @Teofane
    @Teofane 4 роки тому +18

    Pastry and coffee with old ladies sounds lovely right now.

  • @mammahasspoken
    @mammahasspoken 4 роки тому +19

    Castle verses Town Hall, that's a no brainer. As for the cake topper, I think it's fabulous because it has a story.

  • @josephdadey
    @josephdadey 4 роки тому +10

    I too never believed I'd get married. My husband and I got married in Las Cruces New Mexico, because where we were living, it was not yet legal (Tucson AZ). Thanks for this story, it resonated with me quite a bit.

  • @2Beigatti
    @2Beigatti 4 роки тому +22

    I thought the same as a kid, that I’d be alone my entire life and would have to take my gay secrets to the grave. Now I’ve been with my partner for 7 years and life is better than I could have imagined. Love your wedding story, the little statue part made me tear up a bit. Beautiful.

  • @RIXRADvidz
    @RIXRADvidz 4 роки тому +11

    you can't find love, it finds you, only when you accept and love yourself. it took me 31 years from my first inkling that I wanted to be with men, even before my mother came out, when it did come to me, a man of integrity, compassion, unconditional love and my physical ideal said ''hello'' and 20 years later we're still as happy as the first date.

  • @NewWorldAstro
    @NewWorldAstro 4 роки тому +4

    In my mind it will always be a Pannetoni under that wedding topper. 🍰

  • @dixierae6063
    @dixierae6063 4 роки тому +33

    My dear Coco at first when you said you were reading all the comments I felt rather embarrassed because I know I'm being quite transparent in the comment section using it almost therapeutically. You're so comforting as are your stories that I truly feel as if I am sharing with a dear friend that I have not had since I lost my husband 13 years ago. Social isolation is not new to me as I've lived this way since he passed. There wasn't a lot I knew once he was gone but what I did know was that I would never date again nor would I ever remarry. The joy of everything left my life. I have often said it will have to take something absolutely earth-shattering just snap me out of this grief. Well the Earth isn't shattering but it is definitely shaking. When you told the story about being a young boy and not believing that you would ever beloved and you definitely would never marry this is how I have been feeling since John has been gone. Your story brought a glimmer of hope that maybe it's not too late for this old gal after all. Blessings to you and you're amazing husband Raphael he sounds so very special. Will see you soon. Bye for now.

  • @christychristina292
    @christychristina292 4 роки тому +2

    You don't have to check any 'Liked' boxes or give comments Coco.... just the fact that you are taking time to create these sweet vignettes daily for us is a big 'Like'. As my grandmother would have said, 'Jesus Christ what else do you want from me?!' Love you Coco. Your wedding statue is adorable and looks sort of like Siegfried & Roy, but that's what self isolation has done to my brain

  • @pacob4728
    @pacob4728 4 роки тому +10

    My husband keeps telling me that Coco is his Spirit animal! We love these, keep going! We wait every day! Love you!

  • @lesliekumke7418
    @lesliekumke7418 4 роки тому +5

    I will make my comment simple......you are beautiful❤🧡❤did'nt get a nights rest either coco.....the stories are something to look forward too...relieves my anxiety of the day.....

  • @blakeallen3429
    @blakeallen3429 4 роки тому +15

    Coco is such a class act! I remember watching her in Trick, years ago! Being a closeted homosexual myself, and looked up to her then. Anything is possible! I used to watch gay films, like Trick, as an escape. I used to think, I’ll never experience a “gay life.” Now, I listen to Coco, and have my FWB’s texting me! Long live Coco!

    • @xtra4life3
      @xtra4life3 4 роки тому +3

      Blake Allen ‘’it burnssss’’. ♥️

  • @bradtomlin7387
    @bradtomlin7387 4 роки тому +1

    Its not ugly its beautiful and so are you Coco.

  • @Atheenah
    @Atheenah 4 роки тому +1

    Our Coco is beautiful inside and out.

  • @patricklombardi96
    @patricklombardi96 4 роки тому +5

    Your such a good story teller, it’s like listening to a radio show. It’s incredibly peaceful to listen to you, especially with what’s going on now. Such a great break from the news!! Hope to see you on camera soon! Thank you again!!

  • @robertvaughan7509
    @robertvaughan7509 4 роки тому +1

    I adore you, Miss Coco Peru. Love hearing all of your personal stories, they are wonderfully from the heart peppered with your humor and self-deprecation. Fantastic!!! My daily nuggets.

  • @davidadams2395
    @davidadams2395 4 роки тому +8

    I think we all of a certain age felt as if love was unattainable, never mind marriage. That we fought for and secured the right to marry in our lifetimes is fabulous, and yours with Rafael seems to be full of the love you feared would never come.

  • @buna4190
    @buna4190 4 роки тому +3

    Oh Miss Coco this is why I love you. This makes me so happy & also I want to happy cry but my big black bitter hole inside won't let me. 💖🖤💔😭

  • @LadyFalcon17
    @LadyFalcon17 4 роки тому

    Omg, thinking of you as a child thinking no one would ever love you absolutely breaks my heart Coco!! So happy you’ve found love, and the freedom you deserve!

  • @MinotaurMan1
    @MinotaurMan1 4 роки тому

    Oh Coco, I'm only 4 minutes in but the way you tell a story just brings almost overwhelming joy and warmth to the heart. What a gift. So warm and that beautiful sound and accent and humanity. Thank You for being such a positive presence in this crazy world.

  • @michelleregis6181
    @michelleregis6181 4 роки тому +1

    Dear Coco, yes enjoy the little things.I enjoy your videos.

  • @lurree1904
    @lurree1904 4 роки тому +1

    Married in a castle in Spain, wow. That’s a dream. To many more years of happiness for you and your husband 😁 what a lovely story. Thank you for sharing these little things. I’m so glad you’ve been uploading during this rough patch in all of our lives.

  • @CRIM479
    @CRIM479 4 роки тому +3

    Kind. Loving. Wise. Thoughtful. How have I lived without a daily dose of Coco all my life? I love you. Stay safe. Stay home.

  • @badwater
    @badwater 4 роки тому +2

    You made me cry again, Coco... damn you! :0)

  • @truthseeker3907
    @truthseeker3907 4 роки тому +1

    Thank You Miss Coco Peru For Thoughts While in Solitude #18!! :)
    Take Care All!
    Thumbs up.

  • @iangrice329
    @iangrice329 4 роки тому +1

    We all love you Coco

  • @robothestrange
    @robothestrange 4 роки тому +1

    Watching these is probably just as therapeutic for us as it is for you to record them. Thank you and hope to meet you again some day! ♡♡

  • @pjc1859
    @pjc1859 4 роки тому +2

    "the bitter black hole in my chest" too funny

  • @Stephen_A.
    @Stephen_A. 4 роки тому

    That little statue is beautiful and the meaning behind it and where you got it is even more beautiful.

  • @annagreen9229
    @annagreen9229 3 роки тому +1

    I love you completely. You give me smiles, laughter, and hope. That is a priceless talent. What's not to love?

  • @FPwLola
    @FPwLola 2 роки тому

    You have lived such a rich, beautiful life. Not without struggle or hardship, humans grow from that, but I absolutely adore you for your gratitude and willingness to share it with us. You are quite inspiring, lovely lady. 💗✨ Thank you!

  • @Stevebaby123
    @Stevebaby123 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the daily thoughts. On our wedding day people asked if it was what we imagined all our lives. We stated, “No. I mean this is an amazing wedding, but we never imagined it before as it simply was never a possibility.” But please know, dear Coco, we had a cake five times bigger than we needed! We served REAL size portions and it was the best freaking cake ever to behold! Cuz that’s how these gays roll.

  • @bolshoi1959
    @bolshoi1959 4 роки тому

    Loving these. Thank you for taking the time. I met the love of my life when I was 50 and he was 41. I thought it was just never going to happen for me. Neither of us ever settled for second best X

  • @williamrutledge9527
    @williamrutledge9527 4 роки тому +2

    Oh Coco, I just had a good cry when you described being on the couch thinking I won't be loved or able to be my true self. Took me back to the same situation for myself.

  • @carleu
    @carleu 4 роки тому

    My Dear Coco, everyone is having the same issues you do regarding sleeping patterns. You like me and many others are very sensitive and what is happening in the world that affects us tremendously. We need to get this time in solitude to connect with the divine, embracing the planet with Love, kindness, and generosity. The world today needs more and more of Ms. Coco. Blessings...

  • @franciscoinc2658
    @franciscoinc2658 4 роки тому +1

    This is week three working from home. Miss Coco, I just want to say thank you. I love you and am so grateful to have you in my life x

  • @ladonte1980
    @ladonte1980 4 роки тому

    Ms Peru. You make solitude so much nicer!

  • @dianaa5231
    @dianaa5231 4 роки тому

    Oh Coco, IT's not hideous, it's absolutely beautiful, just like you😍♥️

  • @NicaCore
    @NicaCore 4 роки тому

    There is nothing horrible about your cake topper. I’m no spring chicken, and I truly feel like I’ll never marry. It’s not in the cards for all of us. However, knowing that this little topper existed at the right time for you brings me pleasure. Thank you again for your daily bonne mottes, they spark a little joy in my life every day c

  • @wbtothey
    @wbtothey 4 роки тому +1

    Another lovely recollection 🥂

  • @reidsavard607
    @reidsavard607 4 роки тому

    It's always the small things that also surprise you where you find them........

  • @andrewschmitz9707
    @andrewschmitz9707 4 роки тому

    From all four chambers of my heart thank you for this story. I am in my heart married to my late husband Salvatore Perrone. It was not legal then ,and he was sadly killed later . It hurts that I shall never legally be his ,not that I need their approval but you and Rafael get it. I remember walking into a small shop in Albany ,New York with my Salvatore ,and I suddenly called for him. He was puzzled, and I said ,"Look Bear! We actually exist!". I had never experienced it before. I know the frozen thing well. Love you both!!! Andrew Perrone!!!!

  • @inthrutheoutdoor5849
    @inthrutheoutdoor5849 4 роки тому +4

    You are the only one that calms me down these horrible. days...thank you!

    • @stumack9755
      @stumack9755 4 роки тому

      Coco & Jack (Daniels) for me.

  • @Starrgazed
    @Starrgazed 4 роки тому +1

    So glad I met you years ago thank you thank you thank you Love you 💗

  • @Naahhhbro
    @Naahhhbro 4 роки тому +1

    These videos are so sweet and so nice to watch. Little videos with big meanings love them thank you

  • @rishibeauty8889
    @rishibeauty8889 4 роки тому +6

    Such a lovely story!! Thank you for making my day a little brighter!

  • @michellemendoza4118
    @michellemendoza4118 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, its a thrill to see you like a comment, but the thought of the cost of that being your joy robbed just isn't worth it. I'll always watch you and always love you, so you do what makes you happy. 😘 Thanks for the lovely distractions!

  • @lizzyinhawaii5713
    @lizzyinhawaii5713 4 роки тому +1

    Always living for Coco.Love ya

  • @tysona23
    @tysona23 4 роки тому +1

    I love all of your stories. You should write a book it would be a bestseller x

  • @dondevries1080
    @dondevries1080 4 роки тому +3

    Coco, that was beautiful! Thanks for sharing your Wedding Day Story.

  • @LB-xk6fk
    @LB-xk6fk 4 роки тому

    ❤️❤️ very special! Thank you for sharing! May we see a photo of Raphael in tomorrow’s video?!! You really are special!
    Much Love
    and admiration....

  • @jesaintlouis
    @jesaintlouis 4 роки тому +1

    truly your thoughts are so genuine and strike so close to my heart!

  • @cathrynharrison4734
    @cathrynharrison4734 4 роки тому

    Princesses get married in castles such a treat too listen xxxx

  • @kencampbell2359
    @kencampbell2359 4 роки тому

    Thank you thank you thank you. Every day. Thank you.

  • @belizeguy
    @belizeguy 4 роки тому

    My much beloved Niece brought Hubby and I a set of Katrina Figures popular here in Mexico of two guys that could be put on a cake. It is also one of our favorite things and they stay in the living room watching everything for us. So Sweet story. Thanks for sharing.

  • @jodislim4421
    @jodislim4421 4 роки тому

    Lol...at 'absolutely hideous...' you are so funny Miss Coco! You are an inspiration...💞

  • @travismaupin6617
    @travismaupin6617 4 роки тому

    Ms coco is the real VIP she keeps it classy, and I like classy. Love ya coco from Louisville ky

  • @Stephen_A.
    @Stephen_A. 4 роки тому

    LOL, you are so right. The castle should have been the first offering. :)

  • @virgenfj
    @virgenfj 4 роки тому +3

    "If there's things in your life you can't even picture. Well, there is a possibility still... that things can happen." 💖🎍🌈
    Keep these coming. Your Americans Aunty-uncle!!! Love you

  • @MarieLaveau56
    @MarieLaveau56 4 роки тому

    That “hideous” statue is very sweet!!

  • @briancouturier3702
    @briancouturier3702 4 роки тому

    Thank you Coco for sharing a great personal story that made an impact on your life. It made me smile! I’m hoping my partner and I of 13 years will have a great story ourselves, when we get married this year. That is of course once this Virus is eradicated! Much love from Columbus, OH! Muah!!!

  • @lisarose7138
    @lisarose7138 4 роки тому

    I think the cake topper is adorable I love 💕 it

  • @dianamary6170
    @dianamary6170 4 роки тому

    Inspiring story Coco. I would love to see a picture of your fabulous wedding. 🌹

  • @pamelanred5053
    @pamelanred5053 4 роки тому

    Yes, Coco, I am also having trouble sleeping. These are scary times. I love your cake topper. I think it’s a wonderful keepsake.

  • @CathyS_Bx
    @CathyS_Bx 4 роки тому +3

    I love the way you remember certain things that people have told you over the years. Many people just don't remember but you do and I do -- I think it's because we are impressed, literally im-pressed, by others. We hear them and feel what they feel. Empaths!

  • @LadyFalcon17
    @LadyFalcon17 4 роки тому +1

    I feel like you’re really good with liking the comments! At least on Facebook you definitely are!! You get so many comments, it would be impossible for you to answer every one!

  • @roniealfa
    @roniealfa 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you coco 😃

  • @Cold_S0up
    @Cold_S0up 4 роки тому +2

    Well thanks a whole f-ing lot for making me cry

  • @deano1018
    @deano1018 4 роки тому

    You are a beautiful person, inside and out. I’m happy for you darling!

  • @findingthesimilarity
    @findingthesimilarity 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your stories! They are a complete breathe of fresh air.

  • @mmitchell4578
    @mmitchell4578 4 роки тому

    These videos give me so much hope and laughter every day. Thank you Miss Coco. In these times it means *so* much. Best wishes to you and every other Coco Puff like me!

  • @Wild1995
    @Wild1995 4 роки тому

    So happy for your Coco. We love you

  • @kenac64
    @kenac64 4 роки тому +1

    what a beautiful story. thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @erikwick
    @erikwick 4 роки тому

    I feel HIGHLY privileged that you've liked TWO of my comments on Insta. 💋💞

  • @christianbernardsinger1216
    @christianbernardsinger1216 4 роки тому

    Moving, beautiful and inspiring ! You are so fabulous !!

  • @elenawinellcomposer
    @elenawinellcomposer 4 роки тому +2

    Love you, Coco!

    • @themisscocoperu
      @themisscocoperu  4 роки тому +1

      Love you too! xoxoxo

    • @paultidd
      @paultidd 4 роки тому +1

      Such a wonderful story. As gay men we really do deserve to have everything be fabulous for us. We've been through enough.

  • @Dtillma228
    @Dtillma228 4 роки тому

    I didn’t think it could possibly get any better than your last video on To Wong Foo (which I watched yesterday and LOVED!!) but now you’ve completely proved me wrong. This touched my heart and inspires me. Thank you, Coco!

  • @Lizzy_H
    @Lizzy_H 4 роки тому

    Oh no this made me really emotional in the loveliest way!!

  • @K_B_H_
    @K_B_H_ 4 роки тому

    My sleep has become awful. Toss turn and strange dreams finally last night I took some melatonin. It helped, but still crappyish. Sorry you felt like that as a child.

  • @rkipphorn
    @rkipphorn 4 роки тому

    Oy. This damn quarantine, along with the media persistently blitzing my senses with up to the second coverage or all things Corona virus, it's got me half mashugana. Plus, I'm a night shift nurse! My life is so dysregulated right now I'm not even sure what day it is? LOLOL!!! But this series of videos has been like manna from heaven! Thank you...just, thank you!

  • @jimmypes3111
    @jimmypes3111 4 роки тому

    Hi Ms Coco- my boyfriend and I are thoroughly enjoying these videos. Thank you! We really want to see your show in person. We hope you are going to tour when this mess is over. Please!

  • @pinky567
    @pinky567 4 роки тому

    You are such a joy, I am so glad I found your channel about 2 years ago. I wish you and your hubby a very good and deep rest tonight I think we’re all turned around right now. I hope your all stocked up on Tension tamer tea. And by the way your my tension tamer tea.

  • @victoriabauer1059
    @victoriabauer1059 4 роки тому +2

    This touched my heart so very much, and made my all but snuffed out little light brighter than it has been for years. You will never know how positively this has impacted me.
    Thank You Coco ❤️🔥💯💋

  • @caragibson
    @caragibson 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this very uplifting story and this probably reaches out to a lot of people who have this fear deep rooted in their minds that they won’t be able to live their life the way that makes them happy! I love this positivity, it’s infectious (even though that word bothers me at this moment!) Also the full moon could be affecting your sleep pattern too. It’s strange like that! Lots of love from Norfolk England Miss Coco 🌸

  • @wsmith2401
    @wsmith2401 4 роки тому

    this is such a sweet story and i love the way you told it, so romantic and earnest. you're such a fabulous person i want to say you deserve a documentary but i think the form of this series accomplishes the same thing better since you have all the creative control and i don't know if i'd trust a director to do your stories justice. i've really been loving this :)

  • @Olivia-lj7qn
    @Olivia-lj7qn 4 роки тому

    This video series really is getting me through isolation, thank you Coco x

  • @homeric29
    @homeric29 4 роки тому

    Hi Miss Coco - first time commenter but long time (well not that too long) channel subscriber here. Just wanted to say how lovely this post was and how happy it made me feel - you see me and my love have been together in a long distance relationship for 16 years already (he's in NYC and I'm in the Philippines). Despite the doubters, we've managed to have what we have throughout this time and I can't see the future without him beside me. The distance may make it look impossible at the moment but hope sustains dreams.

  • @poidog61
    @poidog61 4 роки тому

    Been enjoying all your Coco Thoughts everyday. For some reason I missed this one when it got posted. That final quote which you said so perfectly. "That the Impossible.....sometimes possible. If that is not the perfect saying now for these crazy times. So full of positive emotions and possibilities that it can keep anyone going just when you think you cant. Thanks Coco. I adore you so much!!!!!

  • @BrownsBacker
    @BrownsBacker 4 роки тому +8

    Me too!!! Worst night sleep last night with a conscious nightmare that I KNEW was a nightmare and finally told myself to wake the hell up! Weird....I think the world events and isolation have imprinted onto our psyches and are playing games with us during this time.

    • @themisscocoperu
      @themisscocoperu  4 роки тому +5

      I agree. xoxooxo

    • @darkstarcrochet
      @darkstarcrochet 4 роки тому +3

      I suffer from terrible anxiety and insomnia. I recently purchased CBD Oil Gummy Bears and they have work like a dream. So much better than my usual Klonopin or Xanax and without the morning haze. I totally recommend trying them for yourself.

  • @tylerwllr
    @tylerwllr 4 роки тому +2

    The gay community in my small town is quiet and tiny, so I feel very disconnected to that part of my life. It means a lot to hear from adult LGBT people that are happy and proud. Graduating and coming out of school has me worrying about my place in the world a lot extra lately, and stories from people who have made it out the other side are very comforting. Thank you for sharing these videos

    • @wethewitches3322
      @wethewitches3322 4 роки тому +1

      I am in college as well and we have a club called GSA. Gender Sexuality Alliance. We use this club to connect to people in our community who are LGBT but also to people outside of the community and educate them. You can always propose this type of thing to your college and always create that community that you find yourself missing

    • @tylerwllr
      @tylerwllr 4 роки тому

      We The Witches yeah! I was the president of our GSA in high school and we raised a lot of money for charities :) . I even created a presentation and got to teach all the health classes the gender/sexuality unit because my teacher was homophobic and I complained to the school. Still there was only 4 people in the club. The college that I’m going to has a whole housing section for gay ppl called “purple pride” which seemed weird so I didn’t join.

  • @ericshayhoward
    @ericshayhoward 4 роки тому

    Oh, right. Castles. **adds castles to things to do after the quarantine is over**

  • @cityducky
    @cityducky 4 роки тому +5

    I’ve been doing these but taking photos and putting them on my Facebook

  • @JoyKeaton
    @JoyKeaton 4 роки тому

    Coco you are such a ray of light. Thank you for doing these videos. You always manage to make me cry and then laugh out loud. xoxo

  • @moicecibon4768
    @moicecibon4768 4 роки тому

    Miss coco love your wedding 🎩 topper