*The depth of insight in this video is incredible. I loved the way it highlighted the importance of silence during moments of anger and suffering. The analogy of the two arrows was particularly powerful and has given me a new perspective on how to handle my emotions more constructively. Thank you for this thoughtful and inspiring content!*
You will discover through the course of your life that there are words or situations that can “trigger” you. There’s an old saying about when you’re angry count to 10 slowly. There’s a reason for that. It allows you to pause and not be so reactive to the situation. Also, the silence protects you from causing harm to yourself or others. So when you are “triggered“ think about why that is. What was the situation in your past that you never dealt with that now becomes a sore spot if someone, who may have no knowledge of that situation, says something that rubs you the wrong way. Maturity comes from your own control in a given situation. You have no control over what someone else does or says. However, you do have control over how you react to it.❤️
Much gratitude for this illuminating video! I am a speech and debate instructor trying to incorporate these important concepts into not only my own daily practice but also my students’. Many of our youths today need calm and quiet in their noisy, frenetic, fast-paced lives.
This story really sparks curiosity! It makes you reflect on how silence can be more powerful than words in certain situations. I wonder, what are the key moments when staying silent can lead to greater wisdom and inner peace? 🤔
Anger of loneliness anger of emptiness and being judged and rejected by the people na you trusted most. That’s why I detached myself sa lahat and nanahimik na ako. Kasi mag o overthink ka lang pag lagi mo sila iniisip.
They are most like lacking the capacity to engage or holding back stonewalling as a power move. It is up to you whether you want to keep dancing to this toxic connection..
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"Such a powerful reminder of the wisdom in silence. Sometimes, saying nothing speaks volumes. A beautiful lesson from Buddhist teachings!
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[5:10]: "This segment about compassion for oneself really hit home. Sometimes, we forget to treat ourselves with kindness."/...
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I didn’t even go to my sisters memorial because I was by her side while dying. In my eyes she was gone and I was devastated.
*The depth of insight in this video is incredible. I loved the way it highlighted the importance of silence during moments of anger and suffering. The analogy of the two arrows was particularly powerful and has given me a new perspective on how to handle my emotions more constructively. Thank you for this thoughtful and inspiring content!*
You will discover through the course of your life that there are words or situations that can “trigger” you.
There’s an old saying about when you’re angry count to 10 slowly. There’s a reason for that. It allows you to pause and not be so reactive to the situation. Also, the silence protects you from causing harm to yourself or others. So when you are “triggered“ think about why that is. What was the situation in your past that you never dealt with that now becomes a sore spot if someone, who may have no knowledge of that situation, says something that rubs you the wrong way. Maturity comes from your own control in a given situation. You have no control over what someone else does or says. However, you do have control over how you react to it.❤️
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Much gratitude for this illuminating video! I am a speech and debate instructor trying to incorporate these important concepts into not only my own daily practice but also my students’. Many of our youths today need calm and quiet in their noisy, frenetic, fast-paced lives.
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This story really sparks curiosity! It makes you reflect on how silence can be more powerful than words in certain situations. I wonder, what are the key moments when staying silent can lead to greater wisdom and inner peace? 🤔
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Anger of loneliness anger of emptiness and being judged and rejected by the people na you trusted most. That’s why I detached myself sa lahat and nanahimik na ako. Kasi mag o overthink ka lang pag lagi mo sila iniisip.
I’ve lost my mom at 67 suddenly and my sister from cancer at 38
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So basically shut the hell up when angry❤😅
WITHIN LIMITS ALL ARE GOOD.BIBLE
It feels like we are bottling it up though
You may consider counseling. You are probably housing lots of deep pain and loss from your trauma. It's a path to assisting your emotional healing. ❤
But how to be silent when someone abuses
Your choice to keep dancing in a "toxic tango "or shut it down and realize if you are interacting with a person incapable of a healthy conversation..
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What if one is seriously wanting to be empathetic and the partner isn’t on the same vibe
They are most like lacking the capacity to engage or holding back stonewalling as a power move. It is up to you whether you want to keep dancing to this toxic connection..
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