Are you feeling behind in life?
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2022
- It's easy to feel behind when we compare ourselves to our peers.
Some people around us seem like they have it all.
I've found that these people also have their own struggles. It's easy to see their wins, but it's harder to see their struggles.
The successful businessman you see might have a suffering marriage and be struggling to make payroll.
The "perfect" married couple you see might be struggling with work/life balance.
Another one - that "super fit" person you see might suffer a heart attack next week and take months to recover.
None of this is supposed to wish bad things on our peers and friends.
I'm a strong believer that other people winning doesn't mean you're losing.
However, I think we can reflect on this when we feel behind. We can take a deep breath and realize we're all at different places in different journeys. We might not actually be behind at all.
Your next fitness routine can be the one that gives you what you want.
Your next "yes" at a job interview could be the catalyst for your new career.
Your next date could be with your soul mate.
Focusing on others and panicking might distract us from doing what we need to do.
The anxiety of comparison can lead us astray when we're already on the right path.
Just some thoughts!
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It's easy to feel behind when we compare ourselves to our peers.
Some people around us seem like they have it all.
I've found that these people also have their own struggles. It's easy to see their wins, but it's harder to see their struggles.
The successful businessman you see might have a suffering marriage and be struggling to make payroll.
The "perfect" married couple you see might be struggling with work/life balance.
Another one - that "super fit" person you see might suffer a heart attack next week and take months to recover.
None of this is supposed to wish bad things on our peers and friends.
I'm a strong believer that other people winning doesn't mean you're losing.
However, I think we can reflect on this when we feel behind. We can take a deep breath and realize we're all at different places in different journeys. We might not actually be behind at all.
Your next fitness routine can be the one that gives you what you want.
Your next "yes" at a job interview could be the catalyst for your new career.
Your next date could be with your soul mate.
Focusing on others and panicking might distract us from doing what we need to do.
The anxiety of comparison can lead us astray when we're already on the right path.
Just some thoughts!
Excellent video, sir! Very true. I am about to turn 42, and am not married. Never even dated. Not for lack of trying, but so many girls you meet and get to know turn out to be worthless. Self-entitled "Princesses/Queens" who talk in a way that would make a sailor blush. I am looking for the Proverbs 31 woman, who is worth waiting for, and praying, asking God to make me everyday better for *her,* too.
"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" Romans 3:23
"But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8
"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." Romans 6:23
"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast." Ephesians 2:8-9
“Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God. Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.” Romans 3:19-20
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16
"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." Romans 10:9-10
You’re a great guy man I just want to say that
You know what Hampton? YOU have a beautiful day! See how you like it for a change, HA!
Well, the perfect couple could also have perfect lives in real life. Some people are just blessed by the universe. Or they’ve already done the hard work before they got the perfect lives they deserve. Assuming someone has it bad behind the door is not something that should be done to make yourself feel better. Instead, just focus on improving yourself and take those perfect couple as inspiration and motivation. Cheers 🥂
,,Whether you’re sad or happy rn, there’s someone on this planet that is your age, they might even look kinda like you, who was just given some bad fckn news, either they got a cancer diagnose, or their whole family has died. And if you were to sit there, trying to explain all your problems to them ,,But I’m depressed“ ,,Dating is also kinda hard“ ,,and don’t have much money“ they’d listen to all of that and say ,,Yeah no problem, I’ll swap“ There are people who would do *anything* to trade with you and have your problems, that’s what you need to understand. You can sit there all day watching yt videos and no one’s bombing your house“
-Andrew Tate
Was literally just pacing around my house thinking about how I'm behind in life, then this pops up. Thanks Hampton.
It's crazy how often I get these comments after I upload haha. Same brain.
Same here. My friend have graduated from college when i just started to study at college
@@HybridCalisthenics great minds think alike :D
@@criticallythinking0 fools seldom differ xD not that I think it applies here
@@MIhsan-ux8ot same bro I prepared for 4 years for a competitive exam and my friend got graduated in 4 years
I’m 26 and I feel like I wasted most of my time so far, especially my early 20s which according to everyone was suppose to be the best time of our lives. I had a terrible depression during college and as a result I barely did anything notable. Now I’m trying to think that is not too late and I can still enjoy my young years no matter how old I get, is hard to be positive about it, but I try everyday. Thanks for the video
You've already made the right first step
What did you do during 20s
You're doing beautifully, keep going!!♡
I've always thought if my 20s are my peak, why the heck would I stay around for the next 60 or so
I’ve always thought that if someone’s best time is in the past then they aren’t really living in the present. Your best days are yet to come 😊
"Everyone's suffering" - Hampton, Motivational Coach 😂
XD
If everyone suffers then no one suffers
🤣🤣
he's a motivational coach, not a liar!
Spoken like the Buddha
The second I hear Hampton talking I feel markedly more relaxed and calm, thanks for existing 😌
hmm
Relatable
Ikr. I just discovered this guy and idk what it is about him. I'm subbing
Exactly
Totally 👌🏽
“if you’re feeling behind in life” i started crying
Man I felt sad when I read that comment
Same bro but my reason is different it's bcz I didn't do well in my entrance exams and I'm going to cllg and I'm scared tht i will not do well and just look stupid in front of everyone who's in my class
Same bro but my reason is different it's bcz I didn't do well in my entrance exams and I'm going to cllg and I'm scared tht i will not do well and just look stupid in front of everyone who's in my class
@@meowmeow1270 it’ll be okay
Noooo
Being 29 and feeling like I only have one more year to do fun youthful things without being judged by others, has been a dread lately. With COVID basically wasting two of my 20s youthful years, I feel like I haven’t been able to enjoy my most of my youth.
I always wanted to eventually have a GF/wife and kids by the age of 30. I’m no where near that either. So I always felt behind.
So I felt like doing young things, but I’m getting older. I want to have a family and settle, but I feel like I’m behind. Such a frustrating conundrum.
I really needed this video. Thanks!
Bro, I am in the same place, I turn 29 this December all the woman I loved have either left me or rejected me. I have lost most of my hair and my hope. Luck has not been kind to me.
Since childhood all I wanted was to find love but now I have lost hope and feel life is meaningless.
As a 27 year old college student who has nothing else going for me in life, I needed this.
Hi just wanted to say you are not alone. We are in the same boat. And as sad as it is to feel this way it also calms me down to hear another student say this. Thank you 💗
i hope you guys are doing well 🫶 i'm only a first year and i'm also only 18 but feel as if i'm behind everyone right now, i might just actually be. my grades aren't so well but i hope i can start being better 🙏
I hope your doing well in college💞😊
It's incredible how this man can change your day and even your life with only a yt short. Thanks.
"When you're feeling gloomy
'cause people put you down,
Just be yourself, don't give an inch
Erase that little frown
They may have took me many things, but I'm still moving on
Be faithful of what is to come, and please keep living on"
What is this from? I love it
I don't know what this is from, but the cadence somehow resonates pretty well with the verses from "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" from Monty Python's _Life of Brian,_ so I'm definitely adopting this voluntary headcanon
@@ItsAsparageese thank you!
For both of you, this is from Or3o's series called "Clover", the line is taken from the song "Living On"
@@enigmatic3194 Thanks for the info! 😊
I feel completely behind. I am almost 40 and i still live with my mom in her house and i never had a girlfriend but i can do a bunch of push ups thanks to your "You can do push ups" video. I studied computer science but i had no clue finding a job in the IT world would be so difficult, everyone wants someone with years of experience (which i can somewhat understand) which i can't acquire because nobody chooses me which keeps me in this vicious cycle. I have no future prospects other than getting lucky someday and a company giving me a chance.
Hope you're doing okay sir 🙏
Keep trying bro, get into a trade it's never too late man !
OMG I’m not the same age as you but currently in the same cycle. Graduated and it’s been a mess trying to get a position and move up . Wishing you the best bud!!!
@@VylDZNagreed , get a trade,
it’s valuable for a job , and off the job, - I can fix a lot of my own things
You're not behind, your just having your own life.
Well, then I want a redo because this life fucking sucks.
Of all the pieces of advice you’ve mentioned, as helpful as they are, I think this one definitely hit home most. As a college student who’s stuck not knowing what he wants to pursue in life, seeing all my friends seemingly blow through internships after internships and receiving their degrees early really stacks that pressure on me. So this piece of advice really does really help wonders for me
If you were independantly wealthy/secure financially, what would you want to do wity your free time? Have you taken a good aptitude test?
Literally all my friends who are married and have kids rushed into it and are miserable and have financial issues like most who rush into it. So glad I work smart and am taking my sweet time and truly dgaf about what anyone else is doing.
Same
Definitely guilty of doing this all the time. It got to the point where I stopped being on social media, because all my peers are getting married and having kids posting about it whilst I'm stuck at university, still just waiting for the day I can at least get a job and start building something for myself. I'm in my early twenties, but I can feel it's as if life is passing me by sometimes, especially as I haven't really been in a long-term relationship. Sure, to some people early twenties is still super young, but when you're surrounded by people who've been in serious relationships and are taking it to the next level, it can feel as if I'm some sort of an abomination. I can totally see it how years pass by, things are still the same, but as I get older, people's reaction to me not being in a relationship change from "you're young what are you talking about, you'll find someone" to the well-meaning but ultimately implicitly pitying "its ok, relationships aren't for everyone". Anyway, I don't know why I shared all of that but point is, if anyone else is feeling the same way, you're not alone.
I needed this more that you will even know ESPECIALLY today. Thank you so much.
Thanks I needed to hear this
i'll keep going, hampton. thanks, i really needed it
I love this guy lol. You really show people the context… it’s so hard when you feel negatively about yourself and your life because you pigeonhole yourself into a single perspective. The reality is much more complex…
This guy is so underrated, most people should really be like this, let's make him viral.
Thank you! I really appreciated this, its something thats been on my mind a lot recently. Its easy to think that its kind of normal due to the stage of life Im in, but still. Its nice to hear it from others, as extra certainty. Please, have a wonderful day, everyone! We can only ask for our best try, so as long as we want better, thats good enough of a reason to keep trying.
Life isn’t linear, it’s a long winding road that will take you in all sorts of directions you didn’t anticipate. It’s not a race, so you shouldn’t feel behind because of where you are compared to others!
@@Smorccc Thank you! Yeah, I personally just cant help but feel like theres some entity and/or the world is looking down upon me sometimes for not having everything together once Ive hit "the proper time" (e.g. adulthood). But ultimately...theres no right way to live life. All life really demands is for you to keep living, be happy, and not hurt others. Life not being linear is the best way to put it. Truly, thank you so much!
Hi fellow bi :-)
@@TheToneBender This is late, sorry! But hello~! Cheers to us for doing our funky little thing~!
Thanks for this. Over the last few days I’ve felt less and less “caught up” in life and I can feel the stress rising in my throat. It was boiler pot full and so I UA-cam’d “I don’t feel like myself” and this video came up. I’m taking a deep breath and maybe everything’s not so bad. Thank you so much 😊
Entire year I’ve been feeling like this because of what’s been going on in my life but I’ve been trying to get better; also thank you!
The past decade I've felt like this. Hope it doesn't last that long for you.
This guy is awesome! I’m glad I found this channel.
This has been on my mind for a few weeks randomly. Just what I needed to hear!
Thank you. I'm about a month away from turning 19 and I already feel like I've wasted so much time. I needed this, thank you =)
It's been sitting on my mind lately how I'm behind several aspects of my life. I really needed to hear this. Thank you 😊
“You’re always exactly where you need to be”
This made me tear up. Was literally spiraling down. This video popped up at the right time. Thanks man.
This has been nagging me lately. Great timing and thanks for the talk!
Thank you Hampton for existing, it really just means so much every video and the fact that he does this is who i wish to be one day
Beautiful message! 🌻
I can’t express how much I needed to hear this. Thank you my friend ❤️
I started my journey 4 months ago. I fell behind and lost most of my progress due to my schedule. I’m slowly trying to get back my gains.
Dudes at 42 it feels like I am totally starting over. Divorce, rehab, mortgage, no one is behind. Focus on yourself and when you can help someone up do it. Starting over isn’t too bad. Took a year to say that. Good luck.
Logically, I have know this to be true for a little while. But it sure helps and is exactly what I needed to hear right now. God bless you and your wife.
thank you, i appreciate this
It's never too late to work on accomplishing your goals, the pursuit of attaining them IS the reward.
I am constantly having to remind myself that I am where I’m meant to be right now, that my path is my own, and to not compare myself to others. So thank you for the external reminder today
I really needed this, thank you.
Man I really needed to hear this, thank you very much! Perfect timing
Although this philosophy holds true, you shouldn't base it on the potential failure, but rather on your own potential for success.
For now, just focus, and keep on living.
A hard truth is that patience is not always rewarded, so rather become your own reward, and learn from your experiences.
Be it in fitness, relationships, or even life, most often it will cost you less to take things slower than to make a mistake.
You got this!
"You're not behind at all, you're ON TIME. It's just... You're looking at the wrong clock".
Thank you so very much…do know that you’re appreciated. I love your channel
Thank you, I needed to hear this.
I was the smart, bright, confident girl in college and our entire friend group was the "smart one" often at odds with the "cool kids" for pushing the class average higher. I got a high pressure job with little downtime and I took it because I didn't want to sit around and wait for the perfect job to present itself, I was single handedly managing the human resource for an organization of 170 employees. I quit the job after finishing a big project and have been diverting from one interest to the other for four years now. All my other smart friends are doing amazing and I feel like a failure among them
I was feeling behind and like i'm wasting all my time. Thanks for the reminder.
Good vibes Hampton, on a down swing but I'm hanging in there. Hope things are stellar on your end brother!
The suffering of a friend always makes me feel better... nah, jokes, I get what you're saying
Living in the now and being happy in the now is extremely difficult for a lot of people when it feels like you are just waiting for good things instead of enjoying the goods things you have . I may not have everything I want now but what I do have is youth and beauty so I’m enjoying that .
People my age have been married & divorced at least twice while I'm still single. I count myself pretty blessed.
I am living this, I'm 25 and all my highschool friends are graduating rn, I changed mayor's 3 and a half years into a 6 year program because I was unmotivated and unhappy, now I'm in the second year of physical therapy and I love it and many of my friends that have graduated in the last couple of years are regretting what they studied or are miserable on their jobs, so what I have to say is that you are not late, you are always on time!
You don't realize you really need to hear this until somebody actually says it to you. Thank you
Thank you, as a dude who just finished his sophomore year of high school this helps a lot, all my friends seem to be doing great things and all I've been doing is swimming, studying and playing video games. Thanks for reminding me this.
And don’t forget to have a good point of view which is being grateful with what you can work with)😊
Yeah really good advice. No one’s really “behind” because you should never compare yourself to what other people have. The only person you should be comparing yourself too is the person you was yesterday. There’s no such thing as being behind in life there’s just your life.
This could not have been better timing for me thank you so much for saying this it changed my day around
Everything worked out for everyone in my family except for me. Even the ones who had addiction problems which I managed to avoid. I went back and studied IT only to find you don't get jobs without experience and knowing the right people. Now I am long term unemployed and no one expects anything of me. There is no career guidance for anyone beyond their 30s all I get is advice in how to work in supermarkets.
It helps to assume they are not as happy but that is not always true
I needed to hear this more than I can ever express! I've been feeling behind really bad. Especially since I've always wanted kids and a good husband. I'm seeing all these ppl I graduated with getting married and engaged and family members. Thank you for this!💙
Just started crying because I didn't know I needed this so badly. Thank you so much.
I always feel this way bc I'm chronically ill and haven't been able to do much of anything in life. I went on a mission and taught people about Christ which I feel very blessed about! But other than that I always feel like I've just done nothing bc my health keeps me stuck at home and unable to do schooling or even work from home. Then my little sister told me how much she feels I contribute to family needs by being at home so much and pointed out that had my life been different I wouldn't have been around to save her life, my other sister's life and take care of our brother's health needs (cause sadly we have neglectful parents and I have to push them to get my brothers care sometimes 🥺). I haven't done the usual things in life that normal, healthy people do, but all the things I have done turned out to be really significant in other ways. Sometimes we have different things to do in life than we expect, but they're still important and God puts us where He needs us. 😭💛🙏
My man, keep pouring your wisdom into the world, we need it ❤
I find it hard to see my schoolbullies back in the day, are moving forward in life and seem happy. If you ever got badly bullied in school, you know I wish they would suffer like I did in their hands. This video helped a lot I try to focus on my life more and realize what I actually want.
i have seen so many videos about these kind of things but i will say you don’t know how much this video changed things around for me! thank you!
I needed this so bad man. Today's stress has been more then anything I've ever felt before
Also be grateful for what you have at the moment
31 years old that lost 10 years because of mental burnout. Still not fully recovered. Never had a job. Been studying at most. A school failed me recently too, as they did not provide good enough education to actually help with anything.. 🤷 No stable relationship either. Woop woop ✨
man... I've been wondering about this for the past couple weeks... Good to know I'm not alone...
Thanks, man
Can’t even begin to explain how badly I needed this. Thank you Hampton :)
Definitely felt as if you were speaking directly to me. I am 31 single but dream of marriage and having kids one day. Everyone I grew up with has been married for a while now and most already have at least 2 kids by now.
Comparison can be deadly. When I find myself getting sucked down that pit I remind myself that during my formative years (mid to late 20’s) I was a full time caregiver for my grandmother who was on at home hospice. So while a lot of my friend were socializing, dating, and finding themselves I was going through my own journey. A different one then I could have imagined but one that taught me more than most individuals that age.
My time will come but I’m the meantime like you suggest I will keep working on myself and just keep moving forward. For everyone on the comment section the world is going through a really rough patch but we are in this together.
The true competition is with self; to recognize mistakes, successes, and patterns (whether helpful or unhelpful), and try to be better than what you were. We all slide backward now and then, but the goal is an overall progression and sense of peace.
Staying behind is alright.. You can learn whatever the infront person is doing or mistake to avoid... But the problem when you're the one in front to be first hand to deal the problem....
You don't understand how perfectly timed this video is for me to view, appreciate you helping me broaden my view
Hampton, your channel is one of THE best on UA-cam. Reassuring, kind, witty, comforting, informative. These things are rare. I hope you are well, and thank you 🙏🏽💐❤️☕️
literally alone in my apartment whilst my partner and my mates are all at work today, feeling lost and behind, then I see this. Thank you
I love your messages. Thank you for this gentle reminder that we’re okay going at a different pace from others.
Much love to you Hampton you've made a difference with this. Thank you 🤗
Have a beautiful day 🤗
I have literally been thinking about how behind I am in sports and stuff, and then this pops up
This hit me hard, everything you said was me right now, thanks Hampton. You’re such an amazing person for helping all your viewers.
you’re just the f**king man, it’s that simple. Keep grinding bro you’re an inspiration 🙂
Was literally thinking this today, and it's not even from browsing social media where people only show their best. Just self reflecting thinking I can do more but I'm taking it 1 day at a time. I'm in no rush and still young, I keep that thought close at all times
Getting ready to "Cultivate" a new journey at 47. This reminds me it's not to late, just my time. Thank you.
I honestly cannot believe the timing of this video…. Wow… just thank you
Thank you so much... This just popped at right time for me... Always remember you'll get whatever you want when it's the right time for you... Trust in the process
Thank you. I've been attending therapy after being a bum for years. I hope I can turn a new leaf at the age of 21 and start getting my life together like the rest of my friends.
I relate a lot to what you said :) I was sick for 5 years in need of a transplant & 3 years after finally got back in the world. So I really felt behind. But my father told me the same things you said, that some people who are ahead may not like their jobs or who they are with. He sai, since I had time to slow down I got the chance to know what I really wanted in life & go in the right direction this time. I still, don't know what I want in life but I really don't feel the urgency I had when I was younger to find the exact right path & soon. Today I feel like I just need something to help me live & that pays well & take one day at a time :) I wanted to share because you are really on point with what you said & I thank you for your encouragement always :)
Always great to see more of your positivity. Thanks for all the work you do and please keep it us, I sorted out my fitness and my coffee addiction thanks to some of your videos, I now ENJOY one or two coffees a day instead of glugging down 5 before 10 am 😅
I never felt behind because I was 7 when I realized that this life is my own journey and I decide when I feel ready to do something or if I want some things that are considered mandatory at all in this life. Life is not linear line is the first thing kids should be thought.
Whenever I watch the videos of this guy, I start feeling better, more energised and even happier. I was blessed to have his video pop out once and then followed the channel.
Literally was thinking about this today so thank you for pushing. I’m behind in fitness and business skills. Recently made a plan on how to get more momentum but it’s gonna take a bit. And in the larger picture, it’s part of imposter syndrome and I just want to get more and it’s only the past couple years I’ve been starting so it’s always a journey forward I guess
Hampton: Have a beautiful day!
Me watching after midnight: Done
I felt the same way sometimes I still feel like that now all I wanted in life was to get into a relationship and have kids because I was jealous of my cousin who has a boyfriend and a baby but what you said really resonates with me thank you man.😁
With all the pressure from society to hit specific mile stones at specific times, it doesn't help either. It wasn't until I figured out that, 20s are literally all just building skills (which can be anytime) and no one really expects a ton out of you because you are just at the start of figuring things out, helped a lot. It gave me permission to slow down and learn to take care of myself and address my personal needs
I needed this, growing up as the smart one, burning out before college and needing to start later made me feel really bad because my family just kept saying how lazy I am but hearing that taking time out to think about my next few choices was a good decision really helps
I was ready to spiral, then that deep breath really grounded things. Thank you for the kind dose of reality
You too, have a beautiful day!!
Freakin afore this dude. So humble and kind 😊
I like your channel because you teach us how to train our minds not only to workout but how to deal with our emotions as well. You're a good teacher because you to teach us how to live a better life.
I love this guy he's so POSITIVE, GENUINE, & his aura is felt through the screen he's simply AMAZING I ❤️HIM....Thanks for sharing all your great ideas 🙏❤️🙌
I love your wise advice. You are so precious!
That is one of the most sound, awakening and healing perspectives I have ever heard. We each have our destiny, our path and our roadmap. Each step must come from within in its own time, not compared or imposed from outside. It can be an unnecessary source of anxiety when we look back over our life as a whole. And today is always a fresh opportunity seize the day. God bless you for your simple kindness, generosity and inspiration.