Heres the thing about "relationships are hard work", is that yeah it's hard to try and build a life w another person, it's hard making big choices, you'll inevitably mess up and upset them and fixing that can be hard, but it should be EASY to decide to do the hard work. If you're with the right person, that hard work will be done without question. If someone uses it to say "you're asking too much of me" then they're not the right one. Point blank period. I've been with my partner for 7 years and yeah it can be hard in the sense I have another person to look out for and worry about, but I do it because I love them dearly. It's not a burden to do that hard work. Love you Maddie, have a safe trip home from Paris!!!
Nah man because some people do ask for too much. I don’t believe in loving someone so unconditionally that you just power through everything and constantly look past them upsetting you or making mistakes or making you unhappy. No one is worth sacrificing your boundaries and feelings for.
I feel like "relationships are hard work" is weaponized against people (often women) to stay in neglectful or abusive relationships. Like it's YOUR job to make it work, solely. Which clearly makes no sense but it comes down to manipulation, what are YOU doing to make it work, what ELSE are you doing to make it work -- it's never enough for some people and that's why it's important to know when to walk away, which often means recognizing your effort and care that went unreciprocated. That's painful to do, but ultimately better for everyone than just blaming yourself forever. Kind of a rant but I get so annoyed when people just dismiss things like that. Also I'm always so excited when you do fashion content
as someone, who's been traumatized by first relationship, when I was 20, and feeling like a piece of a chewed gum for literal years now, your videos are somehow the part of a healing process for me. thank you for putting out this kindness and love out there^^
I know it feels overwhelming to hear everyone abortion stories-but I think a lot of us that have had abortions didn’t feel that it was traumatic at all and that is why we share. You are saying everyone is needing to unearth their most terrible traumas to be cared for which may be true for some people but I also think it’s important not to perpetuate the narrative that an abortion is inherently traumatic. To remind people that it is not always horribly upsetting-but more just a standard medical procedure that can be done without feeling traumatized.
Oh that’s really not what I meant at all- I so agree with you that the procedure does not have to be traumatizing. I think it’s amazing when people share their stories and if they’re ready to do so and feel safe doing so then I always encourage it. I was specifically referencing a trend I saw on TikTok, one that I think pops up every time topics like this and others go everywhere on social, where people were talking about sexual assault, abortion, street harassment, etc. and sharing pretty deeply traumatizing stories. And I think the increase of posts of people crying on social while exposing these things always makes me feel worried that people think they have to be public about those stories in order to be seen as human. Like people see the news and want to help, don’t know how, and feel like all they can do is be public about their stories, regardless of if they’re ready or not. I’m not referencing the people that are ready or that want to, I’m expressing concern specifically for the people that aren’t but feel like they have to share in hopes the men that they know and that follow them might be moved enough to feel something. Because the trend made me feel that way! I sat there and was like, there’s so much going on and I have a platform too… should I be sharing my assault story? Should I be talking about the things that feel so deeply traumatic in my life publicly? I think it’s incredible and so brave, as I stated in the video, when people step forward and share their stories and I agree that the procedure itself does not have to be traumatizing. But the content I was referencing on social was all about people exposing trauma- sorry if that wasn’t clear. I agree with you!
@@MaddieDragsbaek Ahh ! I get what you’re saying. Makes me just a tiny bit glad I’m not on tik tok (31 and living under a rock) cus that does sound confusing and upsetting. Thanks for the clear and thoughtful response:)
I have seen both ends of that. I had a friend who was dealing with her abortion by talking about it, but she wasn’t being careful about WHO she was sharing with, and I witnessed her visibly upset several men and women as she just babbled very matter-of-factly about her choice. I get that she was dealing, and trying to make it seem like it wasn’t a big deal for HER….but she was hurting others by talking about something that ultimately is VERY PERSONAL. Personal things should be dealt with close to the heart, and the notion that everyone else just has to deal with such decisions is simply unfair.
@@MaddieDragsbaek @Maddie Dragsbaek that's exactly how I feel about my traumatic childhood. I felt forced to talk about things just to get crumbs of sympathy because the things that I did want to share wasn't considered at least to the people whom I've shared it with_mental health professionals included, serious enough and thus I shouldn't be acting the way I was. Everytime I would say something I would be called brave I repress more and feel even more oppressed, I get showered with all this survivor resilience building myself from scratch and never giving up stuff that although true in some sense, it's as if I'm not allowed to feel and act like the person in pain that I am, they understand for a second, sympathize for a nanosecond and I just lose my shit and dissociate into oblivion, I was never ready to share anything and I wish I hadn't, I wish I was given grace and time to deal internally with my issues, it wasn't as If was burdening theses people. Sharing is helpful for alot of people but it's not for everyone, we all heal at different stages. I don't understand why details matter, we all know pain maybe not that specific pain but we can always imagine, it wouldn't be accurate but it'll be enough to hold someone when they need it without question.
I really never though of it that way. That we feel the need to bear our hearts and souls to people and bring up the worst traumas we have faced to make others have some sort of compassion. It really does hurt and it’s exhausting and I’ve never been able to put words to the feeling before. You’re so well spoken.
Maddie, I just wanted to say it makes me feel less alone when you talk about your problems with bad periods, I’m in the same boat with incessant spotting and lengthy periods and often I just get told by doctors to lose weight to fix it (I’m the same age and size as you and have PCOS) and I just really appreciate your content so much! Wishing you the best from the UK 🥰 Edit: fixed spelling error!
There was this hill by my house and my older brother called it “dead man’s hill” because they found dead bodies if you walked up the hill. My older brother was a pathological liar and that hill is now a residential building 😂
My most scarring childhood rumor was one from my elementary school. Kids said that the chocolate milk in the cafeteria was made from the brown cows on the hill behind the school and since there were mountain lions up there too there was blood in the chocolate milk from the cows being attacked… such a weird story whoever started it was a bit disturbed but I totally believed it and stopped drinking the milk 😭
I know this is an older video, but wow, did I need this today. Having a rough day and it helps to know I'm not alone. Also, the period struggle is real, my friends used to joke when I was younger about me having an "eternal period" bc my cycle was so irregular.
I loved when you talked about “hard work” in relationships !! It is so scary that people think that anything can be considered “hard work”- I justified really bad stuff in a relationship as “hard work” for so long and now I know that is not what that means and I don’t want anyone else to think that is okay!! 💛💛
As a younger human being I was blessed with an early onset period - got it at 11 years old. My period was always pretty regular and manageable until recently when I got the implant cause I couldn’t be fucked with taking the pill anymore after taking it for over 10 years. It’s a trade off and the urge to free bleed takes over me a lot. Ruining my underwear is a battle I am faced with constantly 😂 Sending my love from Melbourne, Australia
"relationships are hard work" is seemingly always said by people who *don't* want to put effort into the relationship--the "hard work" comes from the other person trying to improve the situation, but instead they're told/expected to put up with bad behavior. more often than not it feels like it's just a way to guilt people into staying in unhealthy relationships. seriously, it takes SO much effort to open up and be vulnerable about your struggles; if someone else hears that and says "well, relationships are hard" and nothing more, that's just deflection--it's zero effort.
birth control causes heavy periods, and some doctors have a complete disregard for this - it's the estrogen dominance that's to blame get off of the pill and you'll see how much better you feel girlie I'm rooting for ya!
I feel you when you mentioned your period problems (the pp’s) mine come every 2 months and I’m so irregular that I’m convinced my body is against me 24/7
you are so incredibly well spoken, talented, beautiful, and inspiring 💜 i’ve been binging your videos recently and it has initiated this self-empowering, unapologetic journey in myself and i can’t thank you enough
Sternum tattoos are so awesome. I’m going for my second tattoo tomorrow, another consultation a week from tomorrow for my 3rd, hoping to get some more in between!
I like listening to your videos while cleaning or getting to inbox zero because it feels like a bestie facetime. Halfway through reading a NYTimes newsletter I’m crying laughing about poop rumors omggg
You saying don’t diagnose me in the comments reminds me of my dad telling me I have PCOS everytime I talk about how my periods are all over the place cuz he thinks I’m obese
I was in such a bad mood today cuz of my period but seeing you not let that ruin your day really motivated me. I need to go out and I was really suffering to do so but you know what, I will dress super cute and buy myself a delicious lunch. Thank you Maddie 💜
Hey girl! Hope you're having a good time... I was thinking can you do a balletcore look book or I don't know, the famous "Maddie lecture" (I enjoy listening to your opinions BTW). The trend/aesthetic seems so you with all the pastels, pinks, purples, blacks etc etc. And also as a big girl, I'd definitely love your take on this, what is considered as one of "Skinny girl" fashion trend. Love you🤍🤍🤍🖤🖤🖤
You look SO GOOD in these outfits! Wrap tops are totally your thing. BTW you know when you stare at the same spot for super long it starts to look caleidoscope-y? As a kid I thought if I stared long enough it would lead me to another dimension lol. Guess I was reading too much kid fantasy back then.
I'm so sorry for the period thing I know what you are going through and it's hell since I was 9 years old and I'm now 41 and still having issues with hemraging and doctors suck don't know shit I'm so sorry honey you're in my prayers
IT'S MECURY RETROGRADE THING!! Sorry have to do it lol but seriously learning more about astrology has helped me better understand my mood fluctuations and it just feels better to blame the moon/stars instead of taking everything personally lol
As soon as you said $15/month it made me think of Tia Health Clinic which is by far the best experience I have ever HAD! I also have had horrendous periods since I was 13 and have diagnosed vaginismus and undiagnosed endometriosis ❤️ haven’t met any doctors until I went to Tia Health that have validated my feelings and needs. Hope your journey is going well ❤️
So I know you said not to do this and I’m not trying to diagnose you or piss you off, just anecdotal similarities. My cousin had extremely heavy and long periods all her life and she ended up having ovarian cancer. She was very young and had amazing doctors and she was an advocate for her health but since she was so young it wasn’t really on the doctor’s radar for a while. It could very well be something your doctors have already investigated in which case hell yeah!!! Sending you good and loving energy 💜
Subscribed. This vlog is great- How did you know about everything I'm going through right now? Roe v Wade, uncommunicative partners, the need for poop jokes as an adult? Keep being yourself, you're awesome. I love your openness and vulnerability! I feel seen by your channel- it's the girl talk I've been missing. It feels good to feel connected and know I'm not a total weirdo. My favorite poop joke as an adult is making heinous fart noises and people not knowing it's me, especially when there's a group and I'm like around the corner or something. They all think it was one of them lol. and you can still keep your grown up street cred unless you get caught.
I would just like to say that I have caused my fbi agent to have a mental breakdown today. I got alpha male "men like you and me" ads on this video and I feel so empowered (yet a little concerned tbh) that I tricked the algorithm hoes into sending me the wrong targeted ads. Honestly your vids are always like a breath of fresh air so getting those ads was like watching a Karen get humiliated by a manager (twas the cherry on top cuz i got a great laugh out of it)
Hi! I'm going to NY on a trip tomorrow, does anyone have any recommendations on where I should go for restaurants or places I should see that aren't very famous?
The biggest rumor that I heard of as a child was, that your dogs in nintendogs could get babys XD Oh and also the story, that a child tried to see if it really had a TV inside their tummy, because of the teletubbies.
omg yes to the nintendogs one! Also the rumor that those gooey alien toys in the eggs could have babies if you put the male and female one back to back overnight hahaha
By the way you are so beautiful and awesome thanks for being there for women like me you are so straight forward I wish everyone had your character never change thanks ❤️
Oh my gosh you were born in 1997? That's the year that I graduated high school. 🤦🏾♀️😂 It was definitely a vibe though. I will be checking out your playlist.
I have a similar feeling when listening to podcasts when things like that happen. Because podcasting is work in communications I would assume that those who run them and host would be ya know good at communicating but they're also very popular now, so many more people have them, so now the average person has them, and the same percentage of the general population which is bad at communication has them. So when I hear podcasts hosts not really listening to each other or in the example you talked about here, shutting down a valuable conversation with a statement instead of building upon it in a productive way, Im rather surprised. Like why am I listening to this?
3 week long periods regularly?!?😵 Damn girl that sucks so much. I used to have very heavy painful periods and cysts so I tried a bunch of different birth controls and one gave me a light period that lasted 3 weeks once and I was ready to kill people. I can’t imagine going through that regularly. I hope you and your docs can get it figured out soon! I got so lucky that the Bc I landed on completely stops my periods and it’s awesome. ❤️ sometimes having a uterus sucks ass.
I'm looking for more creators that does emotionally leaning content/dares to be vulnerable. If anyone has any tips for me on people to check out besides Maddie I'd be very grateful
Hey Maddie, I really love your videos! You're attitude and spirit are so inspiring to me. It feels like you're the bigger sister I have never had. I wanted to ask you, if you could please make a video with "big girl hacks" or just "summer hacks for girls" (maybe give it a cooler title)? I have seen you wear shorts and strapless tops and I was wondering how you wear them, because I am struggling with chaffing and not finding a strapless bra that is comfortable enough to actually wear in my everyday life. Maybe you also have some other tips. I would be really grateful to you, if you shared your wisdom and hot girl vibes with us.♥️ Love you and I hope you have a great day!
there's also a house near me, that as a school aged child, my class/the whole community deemed it the creepiest house and thought that murders went down there lol Still there to this day... still no one knows who lives there
I want to meet her so bad and just have a conversation with her. I want to go on her trips but I’m broke 😭 I love u Maddie plz host another trip in like a year, I’m already saving 😂
Heres the thing about "relationships are hard work", is that yeah it's hard to try and build a life w another person, it's hard making big choices, you'll inevitably mess up and upset them and fixing that can be hard, but it should be EASY to decide to do the hard work. If you're with the right person, that hard work will be done without question. If someone uses it to say "you're asking too much of me" then they're not the right one. Point blank period. I've been with my partner for 7 years and yeah it can be hard in the sense I have another person to look out for and worry about, but I do it because I love them dearly. It's not a burden to do that hard work. Love you Maddie, have a safe trip home from Paris!!!
Totally agree, love this ❤️
I needed to hear this
Nah man because some people do ask for too much. I don’t believe in loving someone so unconditionally that you just power through everything and constantly look past them upsetting you or making mistakes or making you unhappy. No one is worth sacrificing your boundaries and feelings for.
I feel like "relationships are hard work" is weaponized against people (often women) to stay in neglectful or abusive relationships. Like it's YOUR job to make it work, solely. Which clearly makes no sense but it comes down to manipulation, what are YOU doing to make it work, what ELSE are you doing to make it work -- it's never enough for some people and that's why it's important to know when to walk away, which often means recognizing your effort and care that went unreciprocated. That's painful to do, but ultimately better for everyone than just blaming yourself forever.
Kind of a rant but I get so annoyed when people just dismiss things like that.
Also I'm always so excited when you do fashion content
Well said!
I burst out laughing at "hard work isn't teaching a grown man how to use his words"
as someone, who's been traumatized by first relationship, when I was 20, and feeling like a piece of a chewed gum for literal years now, your videos are somehow the part of a healing process for me. thank you for putting out this kindness and love out there^^
I love the colour green and color matching and the way the outfit matches the sofa just made my day 🌿
matcha-s if you will
I always appreciate how candidly you talk about everything❤️ you are a beautiful human inside and out babyyy!!
I know it feels overwhelming to hear everyone abortion stories-but I think a lot of us that have had abortions didn’t feel that it was traumatic at all and that is why we share. You are saying everyone is needing to unearth their most terrible traumas to be cared for which may be true for some people but I also think it’s important not to perpetuate the narrative that an abortion is inherently traumatic. To remind people that it is not always horribly upsetting-but more just a standard medical procedure that can be done without feeling traumatized.
Oh that’s really not what I meant at all- I so agree with you that the procedure does not have to be traumatizing. I think it’s amazing when people share their stories and if they’re ready to do so and feel safe doing so then I always encourage it. I was specifically referencing a trend I saw on TikTok, one that I think pops up every time topics like this and others go everywhere on social, where people were talking about sexual assault, abortion, street harassment, etc. and sharing pretty deeply traumatizing stories. And I think the increase of posts of people crying on social while exposing these things always makes me feel worried that people think they have to be public about those stories in order to be seen as human. Like people see the news and want to help, don’t know how, and feel like all they can do is be public about their stories, regardless of if they’re ready or not. I’m not referencing the people that are ready or that want to, I’m expressing concern specifically for the people that aren’t but feel like they have to share in hopes the men that they know and that follow them might be moved enough to feel something. Because the trend made me feel that way! I sat there and was like, there’s so much going on and I have a platform too… should I be sharing my assault story? Should I be talking about the things that feel so deeply traumatic in my life publicly? I think it’s incredible and so brave, as I stated in the video, when people step forward and share their stories and I agree that the procedure itself does not have to be traumatizing. But the content I was referencing on social was all about people exposing trauma- sorry if that wasn’t clear. I agree with you!
@@MaddieDragsbaek Ahh ! I get what you’re saying. Makes me just a tiny bit glad I’m not on tik tok (31 and living under a rock) cus that does sound confusing and upsetting. Thanks for the clear and thoughtful response:)
I have seen both ends of that. I had a friend who was dealing with her abortion by talking about it, but she wasn’t being careful about WHO she was sharing with, and I witnessed her visibly upset several men and women as she just babbled very matter-of-factly about her choice. I get that she was dealing, and trying to make it seem like it wasn’t a big deal for HER….but she was hurting others by talking about something that ultimately is VERY PERSONAL. Personal things should be dealt with close to the heart, and the notion that everyone else just has to deal with such decisions is simply unfair.
@@MaddieDragsbaek @Maddie Dragsbaek that's exactly how I feel about my traumatic childhood. I felt forced to talk about things just to get crumbs of sympathy because the things that I did want to share wasn't considered at least to the people whom I've shared it with_mental health professionals included, serious enough and thus I shouldn't be acting the way I was. Everytime I would say something I would be called brave I repress more and feel even more oppressed, I get showered with all this survivor resilience building myself from scratch and never giving up stuff that although true in some sense, it's as if I'm not allowed to feel and act like the person in pain that I am, they understand for a second, sympathize for a nanosecond and I just lose my shit and dissociate into oblivion, I was never ready to share anything and I wish I hadn't, I wish I was given grace and time to deal internally with my issues, it wasn't as If was burdening theses people. Sharing is helpful for alot of people but it's not for everyone, we all heal at different stages. I don't understand why details matter, we all know pain maybe not that specific pain but we can always imagine, it wouldn't be accurate but it'll be enough to hold someone when they need it without question.
I saw this upload and audibly said “ugh, thank god”
If it makes you feel better Maddie the week has tested me too😂 I hope you start feeling better💛
I really never though of it that way. That we feel the need to bear our hearts and souls to people and bring up the worst traumas we have faced to make others have some sort of compassion. It really does hurt and it’s exhausting and I’ve never been able to put words to the feeling before. You’re so well spoken.
Maddie, I just wanted to say it makes me feel less alone when you talk about your problems with bad periods, I’m in the same boat with incessant spotting and lengthy periods and often I just get told by doctors to lose weight to fix it (I’m the same age and size as you and have PCOS) and I just really appreciate your content so much! Wishing you the best from the UK 🥰
Edit: fixed spelling error!
There was this hill by my house and my older brother called it “dead man’s hill” because they found dead bodies if you walked up the hill. My older brother was a pathological liar and that hill is now a residential building 😂
LMFAOOOO
justice for poop jokes & here for the dragsbaek family lore. my sister and i still laugh about the mongo story you and your sister told
My most scarring childhood rumor was one from my elementary school. Kids said that the chocolate milk in the cafeteria was made from the brown cows on the hill behind the school and since there were mountain lions up there too there was blood in the chocolate milk from the cows being attacked… such a weird story whoever started it was a bit disturbed but I totally believed it and stopped drinking the milk 😭
you from Branson? cuz.... I'm pretty sure some story like that happened at that elementary school back in the day lol
I know this is an older video, but wow, did I need this today. Having a rough day and it helps to know I'm not alone. Also, the period struggle is real, my friends used to joke when I was younger about me having an "eternal period" bc my cycle was so irregular.
love the emotionally available diaries :)
It was great seeing your mood get better throughout the video. I'm glad making vids makes you as happy as your content makes us!
I loved when you talked about “hard work” in relationships !! It is so scary that people think that anything can be considered “hard work”- I justified really bad stuff in a relationship as “hard work” for so long and now I know that is not what that means and I don’t want anyone else to think that is okay!! 💛💛
bff GRINDING the content out for us.... truly getting fuckinj treated!!!!
thanks for leaving the sneeze in. like really thanks
As a younger human being I was blessed with an early onset period - got it at 11 years old. My period was always pretty regular and manageable until recently when I got the implant cause I couldn’t be fucked with taking the pill anymore after taking it for over 10 years. It’s a trade off and the urge to free bleed takes over me a lot. Ruining my underwear is a battle I am faced with constantly 😂
Sending my love from Melbourne, Australia
your videos always brighten my mood frfr
"relationships are hard work" is seemingly always said by people who *don't* want to put effort into the relationship--the "hard work" comes from the other person trying to improve the situation, but instead they're told/expected to put up with bad behavior. more often than not it feels like it's just a way to guilt people into staying in unhealthy relationships. seriously, it takes SO much effort to open up and be vulnerable about your struggles; if someone else hears that and says "well, relationships are hard" and nothing more, that's just deflection--it's zero effort.
Girl three weeks! The fact that no one has been murdered makes you a saint.
seeing this in my subscriptions made my day
birth control causes heavy periods, and some doctors have a complete disregard for this - it's the estrogen dominance that's to blame
get off of the pill and you'll see how much better you feel girlie I'm rooting for ya!
Loving allllll the green
I feel you when you mentioned your period problems (the pp’s) mine come every 2 months and I’m so irregular that I’m convinced my body is against me 24/7
you are so incredibly well spoken, talented, beautiful, and inspiring 💜 i’ve been binging your videos recently and it has initiated this self-empowering, unapologetic journey in myself and i can’t thank you enough
Sorry I’m high idk if this makes sense but the way you talk about different topics is what goes through my head everyday
i love you. you are a heart. thank you for being fair at speaking about the relationship topic
After Maddie posts
My day📈📈📈
internally screaming at how cute those tie tops are !!
Sternum tattoos are so awesome. I’m going for my second tattoo tomorrow, another consultation a week from tomorrow for my 3rd, hoping to get some more in between!
I love ur videos. I dont get it how ur so underrated. I am so glad u were born. Please keep making videos :,) .
8:33 preach queen😗😗
You are the coolest person online i have stumbled across by far
I like listening to your videos while cleaning or getting to inbox zero because it feels like a bestie facetime. Halfway through reading a NYTimes newsletter I’m crying laughing about poop rumors omggg
You saying don’t diagnose me in the comments reminds me of my dad telling me I have PCOS everytime I talk about how my periods are all over the place cuz he thinks I’m obese
I fell in love with you the second you tied that orange shirt 🥺😍🤯 the purple hair makes my jaw drop with those tattoos and colors 🥺
I was in such a bad mood today cuz of my period but seeing you not let that ruin your day really motivated me. I need to go out and I was really suffering to do so but you know what, I will dress super cute and buy myself a delicious lunch. Thank you Maddie 💜
you’ve really become one of my favorite people on here 💓✨ keep going, maddie!
Hey girl! Hope you're having a good time... I was thinking can you do a balletcore look book or I don't know, the famous "Maddie lecture" (I enjoy listening to your opinions BTW). The trend/aesthetic seems so you with all the pastels, pinks, purples, blacks etc etc. And also as a big girl, I'd definitely love your take on this, what is considered as one of "Skinny girl" fashion trend.
Love you🤍🤍🤍🖤🖤🖤
You look SO GOOD in these outfits! Wrap tops are totally your thing. BTW you know when you stare at the same spot for super long it starts to look caleidoscope-y? As a kid I thought if I stared long enough it would lead me to another dimension lol. Guess I was reading too much kid fantasy back then.
Your videos always just lift my mood and my soul, literally 💜
girl bring back your podcast 😔 i loved it
I love the tie top!
jaw dropped at the white top / orange skirt combo. a slay!
I'm so sorry for the period thing I know what you are going through and it's hell since I was 9 years old and I'm now 41 and still having issues with hemraging and doctors suck don't know shit I'm so sorry honey you're in my prayers
I LOVE your content SO much. It’s so therapeutic & wonderful. Thank you thank you for creating for us
i just wanna be besties with maddie I feel like we both speak English but words coming out of her mouth just scream wisdom
Family lore stories sounds like a great podcast episode!
The white top and the orange skirt are a cute combo!
Girls I feel you. My period will be on some psycho shit too.
Hmm adding elastic to the top would be a small alteration, maybe part two of altering your own clothing time?? As always, a wonderful video.
That romper looks amazing on you!
Omg! I also went to school in Mass and that spongebob rumor went around my school too 😅
I’ve been on birth control for 12 yrs. Now doctors told me I have high risk of breast cancer because of that. It’s confusing
Where did you get those green pants I need it’s so perfect🍄🍄🍄🍄🥰
IT'S MECURY RETROGRADE THING!!
Sorry have to do it lol but seriously learning more about astrology has helped me better understand my mood fluctuations and it just feels better to blame the moon/stars instead of taking everything personally lol
i love how you edit your videos so much
As soon as you said $15/month it made me think of Tia Health Clinic which is by far the best experience I have ever HAD! I also have had horrendous periods since I was 13 and have diagnosed vaginismus and undiagnosed endometriosis ❤️ haven’t met any doctors until I went to Tia Health that have validated my feelings and needs. Hope your journey is going well ❤️
They’re the best ❤️
Your videos are like meditation to me
that first top you tried on 😩💗
so gorgeous!
Yesss this is the side on the internet I wanna be on 🙏🙏
SPRINTED.
I love your energy trying on clothes!!!!
you are my hero!
Repeat after me everyone
“Imagine ME ~ *drinking on a beach* ~
aye ~ *drinking on a beach* ~
whoo! ~ *DRINKING ON A BEACH* ~
So I know you said not to do this and I’m not trying to diagnose you or piss you off, just anecdotal similarities. My cousin had extremely heavy and long periods all her life and she ended up having ovarian cancer. She was very young and had amazing doctors and she was an advocate for her health but since she was so young it wasn’t really on the doctor’s radar for a while. It could very well be something your doctors have already investigated in which case hell yeah!!! Sending you good and loving energy 💜
Subscribed. This vlog is great- How did you know about everything I'm going through right now? Roe v Wade, uncommunicative partners, the need for poop jokes as an adult? Keep being yourself, you're awesome. I love your openness and vulnerability! I feel seen by your channel- it's the girl talk I've been missing. It feels good to feel connected and know I'm not a total weirdo.
My favorite poop joke as an adult is making heinous fart noises and people not knowing it's me, especially when there's a group and I'm like around the corner or something. They all think it was one of them lol. and you can still keep your grown up street cred unless you get caught.
I really love poop rumors 😂😂😂😂😂 f-ing hilarious. Poop humor for the win
Favor is fantastic!
i love u so much ur videos make my day
I would just like to say that I have caused my fbi agent to have a mental breakdown today. I got alpha male "men like you and me" ads on this video and I feel so empowered (yet a little concerned tbh) that I tricked the algorithm hoes into sending me the wrong targeted ads.
Honestly your vids are always like a breath of fresh air so getting those ads was like watching a Karen get humiliated by a manager (twas the cherry on top cuz i got a great laugh out of it)
Hi! I'm going to NY on a trip tomorrow, does anyone have any recommendations on where I should go for restaurants or places I should see that aren't very famous?
The biggest rumor that I heard of as a child was, that your dogs in nintendogs could get babys XD
Oh and also the story, that a child tried to see if it really had a TV inside their tummy, because of the teletubbies.
omg yes to the nintendogs one! Also the rumor that those gooey alien toys in the eggs could have babies if you put the male and female one back to back overnight hahaha
By the way you are so beautiful and awesome thanks for being there for women like me you are so straight forward I wish everyone had your character never change thanks ❤️
Oh my gosh you were born in 1997? That's the year that I graduated high school. 🤦🏾♀️😂
It was definitely a vibe though. I will be checking out your playlist.
🐢Tuuuurtleee soup, how could they do that to the poooor turtlezzz🐢🐢gave me such mid-noughties Jennifer Coolidge energy it was incredible ✨
I have a similar feeling when listening to podcasts when things like that happen. Because podcasting is work in communications I would assume that those who run them and host would be ya know good at communicating but they're also very popular now, so many more people have them, so now the average person has them, and the same percentage of the general population which is bad at communication has them. So when I hear podcasts hosts not really listening to each other or in the example you talked about here, shutting down a valuable conversation with a statement instead of building upon it in a productive way, Im rather surprised. Like why am I listening to this?
3 week long periods regularly?!?😵 Damn girl that sucks so much. I used to have very heavy painful periods and cysts so I tried a bunch of different birth controls and one gave me a light period that lasted 3 weeks once and I was ready to kill people. I can’t imagine going through that regularly. I hope you and your docs can get it figured out soon! I got so lucky that the Bc I landed on completely stops my periods and it’s awesome. ❤️ sometimes having a uterus sucks ass.
Where r everyone getting cool pants from omg
Are your nails acrylic, or are they press on nails? I always love your nail designs so much😍😍
the turtle soup would've scared all of us as children. Don't even argue with me on this.
I'm looking for more creators that does emotionally leaning content/dares to be vulnerable. If anyone has any tips for me on people to check out besides Maddie I'd be very grateful
Bea Caruso, Purple Palace, Damon Dominique, Leena Norms
also can’t sign up for birth control bc i have an iud but loooove this sponsorship choice :)
Looove the h3 podcast too
The spongebob cancel story made it to the small town in Germany where i grew up lmao
“Imaa-ginnnnee me drinknnn on a beach, drinkin on a beach” - summer vibes musically verbalized by Maddie Dragsbaek.
whats that orange drink 😗
aperol spritz!
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Thank you for posting on Mondays and making them less poopy than your poop jokes.
I'm mad about you Maddie ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
Hey Maddie, I really love your videos! You're attitude and spirit are so inspiring to me. It feels like you're the bigger sister I have never had. I wanted to ask you, if you could please make a video with "big girl hacks" or just "summer hacks for girls" (maybe give it a cooler title)? I have seen you wear shorts and strapless tops and I was wondering how you wear them, because I am struggling with chaffing and not finding a strapless bra that is comfortable enough to actually wear in my everyday life. Maybe you also have some other tips. I would be really grateful to you, if you shared your wisdom and hot girl vibes with us.♥️ Love you and I hope you have a great day!
Omg I've had a really long period aswell! Gone on for ages very weird.. 😂
Legit question: How do you pee in the yellow romper? Like it's cute but ...HOW
yall pieces and ur turtle soup poop joke humor, why is it that my best friend has made these exact jokes
Okay, I need to know where those green swirly pants are from!!!
I do the poop joke with my bf and it hits every time
there's also a house near me, that as a school aged child, my class/the whole community deemed it the creepiest house and thought that murders went down there lol Still there to this day... still no one knows who lives there
I want to meet her so bad and just have a conversation with her. I want to go on her trips but I’m broke 😭 I love u Maddie plz host another trip in like a year, I’m already saving 😂