Ask Nick - Caught Cheating in 4k | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall
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- Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we start our new intro segment: Who’s Home. Leah from the household shares her thoughts on cheating.
Our first caller caught her ex cheating on her through her security cameras and is having a hard time moving on. She’s been cheated on before but liked this guy for his charming nature. Our second caller is having wedding troubles, as her fiance doesn't want her brother at their wedding. Her brother is a pastor and does not agree with her fiance's proposal before he was a Christian. Our final caller was seeing a guy who wouldn’t text her back, but constantly posting on Snapchat. She's wondering if he merely lost interest, or if she did something wrong.
“When you do meet someone worth your time, you're gonna run the risk of pushing the good ones away, because you're so used to dealing with the bad ones”
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Amazing convo with the Christian woman! Go Nick!
Agreed! Nick navigated so well!
Nick killed that convo!! I don’t think she expected that at all. And no offense the brother was right! She is not to be unequally yoked.
I don’t think that girl was expecting nicks answer about her brother 😂
“you’re not that picky” lol
LOL the caller checking his snapchat score... Girl.. Save your energy
Nick: "YAH, but duh!" I'm dead. 😂😂😂 I love you Nick. You say what we all think. Last caller was not the smartest.😊
My favorite part of Monday
I love when Nick clocks the Christians lolololol
Wow, Nick is putting these people in check! ❤ love to see it ! 📝
This episode has perhaps hit an all time high if irritating callers- by the end he was USING that stress ball talking to the snapchat girl
@@allysonreillyhaha I know! 😮
57:36 this girl is really selling some lies to herself. Girl, I’m Christian and I can honestly say y’all are letting Satan have free pickings in your family over some petty stuff. Let it go. Show your brother what forgiveness and grace looks like. Don’t hold it over his head. Don’t rub it in how you decided to turn the other cheek. Respect his point of view but invite him to the wedding. You never know the beautiful relationship and memories that can be made by bridging this gap. You’re 22. I’m assuming you guys will be having children. This pettiness will drive a bigger wedge. Why let the enemy take hold. You’re actively choosing to let Satan in where you should be letting Christ in. If you aren’t able to change your heart ask God to change your heart if you are wrong. It’s a simple prayer. “God, if my heart is being hardened please change it. Please make your will mine. Please help me to forgive my brother.” You say it’s not unforgiveness, but it’s exactly that. This is a petty tit for tat.
YESSSS!!!! AMEN!!! IMA CHRISTIAN AS WELL AND I thought the same thing!! BUT im one to talk lmao smh! im dealing wit a narcississtic baby dad and his new gf he met off tinder smh lol GOD PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!
@@BeautyXXBrittany ah. That’s a bigger one for sure. Prayers up for you and your situation.
@@BeautyXXBrittanyRemind urself that they feed off of your emotions, don't give him shit and hopefully his new gf is a good person deep down and doesn't add to the problem. If she does, hold both of them accountable just as you would hold yourself. You fuckin got this mama!!
I'm not sure why the Christian woman called in if she was just going to push back on and disagree with everything Nick said...
She an immature holier than thou 22 year old who was expecting Nick to agree with her.
Yep! She called up just to have him tell her what a badass she is.@@allysonreilly
ugh yes this is spot on! @@allysonreilly
the last caller was so frustrating, feels like she doesn’t listen to the show lol all the bad behavior
big yikes @leah lol
I agree lmao
I loveee the “I just got more friend vibes” line
1:30 "Well yeah but... duh?" lol
Love this podcast :) Always makes my day go by quicker at work!
leah you know damn well.....
Awesome advice Nick! 10/10!
caller with snapchat guy is clingy af - im on his side. She needs to chill out with the tracking snapchat stuff
Great advice with the Christian woman Nick! Sometimes a hard truth is necessary!
Caller with the pastor's brother is precisely why so many are turned off to religion. Nick gave good advice, but really hard to follow through
Last caller got real….getting drunk on Christmas was only foreshadowing the ending…wish her all the best
Christians conditional love BS…you are treating your brother the way he treated you. Invite him to the wedding but just KNOW what he really is like. KNOW that he will NOT be there for you if you ever decide to not be Christian bc his love is conditional. I have people like this in my family... Their love is conditional and I know that. I know that deep down but I still put my best self out there, bc I still have my morals and they can’t take that away from me.
Wow this 22 year old getting married is not comprehending any of this so silly the advice nick gave was HEAD ON and she was so immature to get it 🤦🏼♀️
Writer inner- like ally said face time first. But don’t give the guys second chances that you have more attraction to, but the guys you vibe more with, have more conversation and similar values and desires. Physical attraction can grow, but the emotional piece is most likely not to grow.
Best advice ever to the Christian woman from Nick!!! Looking forward to you getting your licence to be a therapist!!!
Bahhh! At 2:55 mark, hmm, I feel the show causes a lot of people to judge from what I read from the comments
33:23 ladies ladies ladies. Change the way you play the game. It won’t protect you from any hurt, but it will reduce the chances. Step one, stop having sex with people you don’t know and who haven’t committed to you. Sex = clouded judgment. Also, why don’t we think it’s weird to let someone have such personal and private access to us who doesn’t even know us. I mean really know us. Step two, stop getting sucked in by flattery, compliments, and nice dates. That tells you nothing except what you want to hear. Start looking at how they are…consistently. You’re only going to see who someone is consistently over time in different situations. You’re looking for character. If you notice a red flag pay attention. Don’t ask a question right away, just give it time and space to breathe. It might be nothing or more red flags might appear and give you your answer. Just learn to play the game differently. Nick was a bit too hard on this one. I don’t think she’s seeing or getting how she’s dating is hurting her. Because she’s not really doing anything 99% of single women aren’t doing.
I DONT GET THIS GENERATION or todays world girls or guys in general who just sleep and have sex with whoever whenever!?!??!? IM 34 and i was with someone for 14 years hes the father of my kids, were no longer together BUT we met when he was 22 and i was 19 and we were both STILL VIRGINS!!!! The ppl or girls in todays world see a guy looking at them and go bang them that night!! SMH IVE NEVER HAD a 1 night stand and IVE NEVER slept wit ANYONE unless we were together for longer than 6 months!!!! EVER!!! AND I NEVER WILL either!!!!! GIRLS AND GUYS NEED TO HAVE MORALS AND RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES!!!!! THATS DIGUSTING!!!!! AND IVE only been wit 4 guys my entire life AND AGAIN IM 34!!!!! SOOO GIRLS, women DO BETTER!!! MEN DO BETTER AS WELL!!!!!! SMH
Wow like seriously screen shooting this cuz I needed to read this!
Hahah.. Nick don’t play around! Calling people out left and right. WWND
That paster brother sounds like a narcissist. He is trying to ruin his sister’s big day over religion? Sounds like a predictable Christian to me. No hate like Christian love.
Where's Amanda? ❤
Also coming here to ask about her 🥺
She left, I believe she’s at barstool
@@allysonreillyi think genevieve went to barstool and amanda left and started her own podcast with tom sandavol’s ex assistant
@@kyylamarie woah you’re right! It’s called “We signed an NDA”
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The Christian was annoying as fuck
Where is Natalie? That’s the only girl we need
Where did Amanda go???
When we first meet , this young new couple. Than when you get married, it is disappointing. Unless two people go to work! Than again , if that person is looking around , he or she will cheat on you . Whether you are married or not. Should your work, interfere with your marriage ? The constant pain of him telling me , you don't bring money home! The indications of a marriage is falling apart. Than he was shocked when I let go of him. The healthy decision , makes your life easier! He or she is just a convenient mate.
Put the Christian girl in CHECK. Religion should not be a reason to be spiteful. Sadly a lot of people use it as one.
Nick handling the religious zealot😂
Yes that's NOT being a Christian. Jesus hung out with sinners. NOT christians
Jesus was the alleged son of god, the rest would be sinners by the bible's definition. Whether they are practicing the religion or not.
Jesus helped everyone. He is the literal sun. He gives life to the earth. If humans continue letting the earth heat up, the sun of god will burn us all without even intending to
Plus I’m sure this guys congregation isn’t going to judge him because he goes to his sister’s wedding. They probably wouldn’t even know that her husband wasn’t or isn’t a believer.
Christian girl was insufferable. Trying to find any excuse to justify her pettiness
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Christian caller absolutely should have a right to be spiteful and not invite her bother. He’s the hateful one who wouldn’t go to his own sisters wedding because of his own ego. Ask reddit next time, he’s 100% the asshole
you missed the point that they are vailing their shity actions with "Christianity" -both the caller and her brother. typical "holier than thou" attitude