Relationships Should NOT Be 50/50

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @EssKayJi
    @EssKayJi 9 років тому +19

    You can never love anyone until you're 100% yourself (and being 100% involves not having those irrational 50/50 expectations), often people forget that.
    Fantastic video, you're such a romeo.

  • @manthansofty7829
    @manthansofty7829 9 років тому +13

    A relationship with yourself is the best one!!

    • @xMisty16
      @xMisty16 9 років тому

      I definitely agree :) ✌💕

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +2

      Manthan Softy YESSR

  • @humblethepoet
    @humblethepoet  9 років тому +32

    Thanks for watching, please leave a comment & reply to the comments of others, let's build a community. This is all based on my book #UnLearn, get a copy (book or audio) at unlearn101.com =)

    • @aranniya2104
      @aranniya2104 9 років тому

      Love the message!!! :)

    • @Jesslovely1992
      @Jesslovely1992 9 років тому

      Humble The Poet Finally just bought your book. Been wanting to get it for some time now. Can't freaking wait to read it!

    • @hidetoratoujo6015
      @hidetoratoujo6015 9 років тому

      Humble thanks for your vids you help me alot and just a request humble can you do a video on how to overcome the lost of a family member if you can and thank you humble :)

    • @jimjames5558
      @jimjames5558 9 років тому

      Humble The Poet Saw you last night at google. they introduced me to you with a link on the invite. great posts. this one in particular. very insightful.

  • @nehalyshahpatel7854
    @nehalyshahpatel7854 9 років тому

    You always have such powerful words, but you said something in this video that really stood out to me: "When you learn how to love yourself, you're going to have so much love in your life that your only choice is to spread it around." This is something I aspire to do every day of my life.

  • @shymahabeeb5517
    @shymahabeeb5517 9 років тому +1

    True true true. Well said Humble. It is sad to see that almost all relationships are now on the 'give and take' equation. A balance is essential, but not to the point where you sit with a scorecard recording who does it better. In short, if you are in a relationship where you can’t give the person what you would want for yourself, or you can't love the person the way you would want to be loved, then that ain't gonna work and you need a reality check. This, by the way, came to my mind only because of your video. So thanks and keep up the good work Humble. Hoping you hit the mark, and much much more, before July 12th.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      Shaymah H great insights Shaymah... and I appreciate the support =)

  • @chefkendranguyen
    @chefkendranguyen 9 років тому

    The way you lay ish out tho...always super clear.

  • @nikkitakumar7990
    @nikkitakumar7990 9 років тому +8

    Humble, I hope one day I can meet you. It's a bit uncanny to be honest. Whenever I have a problem or feel down, I check my phone and there it is, a notification that you've uploaded a new video. And surprisingly when I watch that video it pertains to what I'm experiencing and helps me out :) Humble, you truly are an inspiration to me and one of my many role models. I hope that one day I can become someone as well versed, kind and insightful as you are. :D Thank you for the advice. Sincerely, the Texan from down below XD

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +8

      Nikkita Kumar that's because I live in your mind Nikkita.. you should feel creep'd our =P
      I'm kidding... I appreciate the kind words =)

    • @nikkitakumar7990
      @nikkitakumar7990 9 років тому +2

      Hahaha, I don't get creeped out that easily xD But seriously, thank you for making life a bit easier. As a college student it becomes very easy to get lost. On this journey of self-discovery we sometimes lose sight of ourselves and what really matters, and having something to keep you grounded and someone remind you of who you are helps tremendously. Just remember that you are truly making a difference in people's lives :) Haha, I hope you have a book signing in the DFW area sometime! XD

  • @Gillmojo
    @Gillmojo 9 років тому

    Loving yourself is often hard as we are all taught a kind of self-deprecation - it's arrogant and egotistical to love yourself so turn away compliments and make yourself out to be less than you are - which doesn't allow us to love ourselves freely and without reservation. Appreciate yourself and this allows you to learn how to appreciate others in whatever situation. I may not always get it right, not yet, but I am learning every day.
    I love how much I learn from your videos, Humble; you are an absolute inspiration!

  • @biebersshawtiee24
    @biebersshawtiee24 9 років тому +10

    You're the realest humble❤️

  • @EverybodysSister2023
    @EverybodysSister2023 9 років тому

    These words have been so timely for me right now in my life. I feel very let down by several people but your perspective has helped me to dissolve the bitterness of disappointment and instead recollect the joy of who I was in these relationships/friendships/brother and sisterhoods; and to let go of those that just don't give of themselves, even from their hearts in love or words or prayers.

  • @user-ot1hb9hf8k
    @user-ot1hb9hf8k 9 років тому

    Yes! I think the best thing I ever heard was, "love is about appreciation, not possession."
    Also, finally you post a new video, 😛

  • @hamzahalzayed745
    @hamzahalzayed745 9 років тому

    I wish everyone has your mentality....this world would be such a better place...you're my role model humble.

  • @tytiannap
    @tytiannap 9 років тому

    Hey Humble. I agree with you wholeheartedly. There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship unless both parties are putting in 100 percent. This is the only time a relationship will work. I hope you are having a wonderful day. Thank you for being alive and for doing what you do: inspiring people through your actions as well as your words. Stay Golden. One love.

  • @xavictg
    @xavictg 9 років тому

    humble the poet,at night when m so helpless about my life, your posts give me the strength tht I WILL TRY AGAIN TOMORROW no matter wht.

  • @akshaydhobale7197
    @akshaydhobale7197 9 років тому

    I just had the fight with the person l love most .
    but now after watching ur video , I'm gonna call her nd talk nd say sorry about my behaviour. .
    Thank you bro . For ur lovely words .Thanks a lot .

  • @abizalchendler8642
    @abizalchendler8642 9 років тому +3

    Humble you are the best. So many people need to watch this.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +5

      Abi Zalchendler start spreading it then =)

  • @mitalieshah7101
    @mitalieshah7101 9 років тому +1

    You are so inspiring and your words seem so real. Its so hard to hear such reality from people these days. Its like we know what's good for us but then we still end up doing things that are not right for us. I am glad people like you are there to guide other people back to reality. Thank you for keeping it real and staying true to your roots. Keep up the good work!!

  • @Ielusivemusei
    @Ielusivemusei 9 років тому

    Know how you love best... And improve at every opportunity.

  • @ayobooka
    @ayobooka 9 років тому +5

    every video gets better, keep it up man!

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +2

      AYOBOOKA thanks man... hopefully they keep improving =)

  • @ellasimone15
    @ellasimone15 9 років тому +1

    You teach me so much, every time I click on a video. Thank you for that.

  • @shamsiyanoorulquloob281
    @shamsiyanoorulquloob281 9 років тому +2

    We need more people like you!
    Keep Preaching.
    Definitely going to purchase your book.
    Thank you Brother Humble :)

  • @sharmilanair1391
    @sharmilanair1391 9 років тому

    You should consider having your own world tour Humble The Poet Make Malaysia one of your stop!! 💜💜

  • @vmnmusic94
    @vmnmusic94 9 років тому

    you are the answer of all my unasked ques. waheguru bless you

  • @sanginiaparanti3745
    @sanginiaparanti3745 9 років тому +4

    Every video man... I'm learning so much from you...

  • @kelseyallen7917
    @kelseyallen7917 9 років тому

    The honesty is amazing and so many people need to hear this

  • @MsHersheys96
    @MsHersheys96 9 років тому +1

    Loved the message and that background! 😄

  • @nehamittal906
    @nehamittal906 9 років тому +1

    Thank you for all of your inspiring videos that have helped so much with life problems of myself and many others.

  • @mukesshs6781
    @mukesshs6781 9 років тому

    Right after 47 second , I couldn't resist , I had to click that like button ! Great vids brother!

  • @sujothedork
    @sujothedork 9 років тому

    Answered all my questions at the exact moment i had the questions. Thanks Humble.

  • @xxfallenangelxx3102
    @xxfallenangelxx3102 9 років тому

    Everyday your videos inspire me more and more I may be young but I still learn from your videos.

  • @TheBeautyNeuron
    @TheBeautyNeuron 9 років тому +9

    I think finding your "other half" is the dumbest thing we've been told, if you get into a relationship as a half you're probably going to get out of it as a 1/4. Nobody is going to perfectly complete you but yourself & it's when you're finally a complete person that relationships go from "parasitism" to "enrichment".

  • @SlammingSquid
    @SlammingSquid 9 років тому

    Humble the Poet is life

  • @M0NSTERG1RL
    @M0NSTERG1RL 9 років тому +1

    Humble you are phenomenal. Carry on with your previous activities.

  • @karuneshmatadin377
    @karuneshmatadin377 9 років тому

    The knowledge guru has done it again. .

  • @MarthaMourray123
    @MarthaMourray123 9 років тому +1

    PREACH !

  • @narmilasheenalopez4172
    @narmilasheenalopez4172 9 років тому

    You always hit the spot and you keep things real, youve taught me more than i expected. . Keep it up, youre doing great. Hands down

  • @lilafani
    @lilafani 9 років тому

    I'm totally gonna buy your book and offer it to all the people I know, really thank you !

  • @ManLikeMatts
    @ManLikeMatts 9 років тому +1

    needed this, man! thanks !

  • @pervench2035
    @pervench2035 9 років тому

    Omg I love u so Mich! You inspire me to do good things and I'm like begging my mom 4 ur book!!! 😝😳

  • @nazihahtabrez905
    @nazihahtabrez905 9 років тому

    You're actually the best this is so true

  • @Coffeewrld
    @Coffeewrld 9 років тому

    I remember when humble used to have 50k. Almost at 100k lol more filming time so MORE VIDEOS!!😂😂😋 can't wait for him to real his goal. 100k before his birthday. That should be out gift to him guys

  • @CashAndSpanglish
    @CashAndSpanglish 9 років тому

    Love your videos, so much wisdom and honesty packed in a couple of minutes.

  • @DF-ud7yh
    @DF-ud7yh 9 років тому +1

    I understand Humble! Thanks! :)

  • @nerdyninjaaa7933
    @nerdyninjaaa7933 9 років тому

    I can totally relate to what you've just said. I was looking for answers or at least hints, THANK YOU for putting this up, this gave me hope. :') #MadRespect

  • @wonderwoman7977
    @wonderwoman7977 9 років тому

    HumbleThe Poet True words humble, thanks you!!!

  • @arundhatimenon1785
    @arundhatimenon1785 9 років тому

    Thank you so much for that@humble the poet . you must know how much closure this gives me or anyone else out there. your incredibly talented and inspirational . your going places man , i know it! much love from chennai.

  • @gloana1688
    @gloana1688 9 років тому

    Thank you, your wisdom helps me learn myself and gives me strength to keep going.

  • @michellebrenda351
    @michellebrenda351 9 років тому

    Humble the poet you are the best...and your book is a masterpiece....love all the way from malaysia.

  • @alyssasantos6632
    @alyssasantos6632 9 років тому

    Ilysm Humble I hope to meet you one day you should go on a book tour:)

  • @One_moor_for_luck
    @One_moor_for_luck 9 років тому

    Preach it Humble

  • @TheChaiShai
    @TheChaiShai 9 років тому

    damn boy you just explained everything ive been thinking about lately

  • @AlZiaaa
    @AlZiaaa 9 років тому

    YASSS HUMBLE KEEPIN IT REAL

  • @shubhamsaharan8418
    @shubhamsaharan8418 9 років тому

    Wow Humble, this was really eye-opening!! Thank you :)

  • @miasanders9167
    @miasanders9167 9 років тому

    This is more than true and lovely :)

  • @threasaarangamparambil502
    @threasaarangamparambil502 9 років тому

    Good one Mr.Humble I truly appreciate it and I took away more than what you think on this video it may not be important to you but I truly love your videos they are so insightful =)😘😘😃

  • @crunchycurley
    @crunchycurley 9 років тому

    just ordered your book! i can't wait for it to come in. thanks humble. you're amazing!!

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      crunchycurley lemme know what you think once you're done =)

    • @crunchycurley
      @crunchycurley 9 років тому

      OMG! OMG! you replied! thank you!!! i sure will !! thank you!!!

    • @crunchycurley
      @crunchycurley 9 років тому

      woot! woot!! so happy :) happy dance. yess...

  • @TheAimeElle
    @TheAimeElle 9 років тому

    Humble... You are the best!!❤️

  • @AarinnTaylorr
    @AarinnTaylorr 9 років тому

    Love your collabs w/ Lilly & Esskayji

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      AarinnTaylorr the one with fouseyTUBE is one of my favs too, just because I literally met him 5 mins before he jumped on camera

  • @ItsThatGirlTaaj
    @ItsThatGirlTaaj 9 років тому

    This really just helped me alot, its exactly what i needed to hear. thanks

  • @nicholemathew6832
    @nicholemathew6832 9 років тому

    Aww humble I love you and your videos! Keep doing what you're doing ❤️

  • @bristy4
    @bristy4 9 років тому

    Thank you so much Humble for always sharing your wise knowledge. I really appreciate it. Keep inspiring people. :) Love the video.

  • @itsvidhyak
    @itsvidhyak 9 років тому

    So many people in my life def need this video! Good one Humble :)

  • @nteli2201
    @nteli2201 9 років тому +1

    Brilliant!

  • @tsmstsms123
    @tsmstsms123 9 років тому

    Humble best video yet 😻😻

  • @jignabalsara9597
    @jignabalsara9597 9 років тому

    Very inspirational! Thanks Humble :) x

  • @payammm4330
    @payammm4330 9 років тому

    so meaningful and true, thanks humble :)

  • @arianatapiasalas
    @arianatapiasalas 9 років тому

    OMG I love your videos so much! It makes me see the life as the most beautiful thing in the universeee❤
    You inspire me a lot, thank you

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +2

      Ariana Tapia Salas life is a beautiful thing.. we just have to open ourselves to seeing it.. Thanks Ariana =)

  • @nobodycares5525
    @nobodycares5525 9 років тому

    i really needed to hear this. this helped me a lot, thank you humble!

  • @L0Wmusics
    @L0Wmusics 9 років тому

    very nice humble, you definitely have wisdom friend.

  • @soxale
    @soxale 9 років тому

    I love this so much. Love you Humble!

  • @francesca6261
    @francesca6261 9 років тому

    Well said!

  • @SaloniNahar
    @SaloniNahar 9 років тому

    Wow this is great advice... thanks for sharing :)

  • @RushGotStax
    @RushGotStax 9 років тому

    Yes! Found a new video of Humbles :)

  • @xMisty16
    @xMisty16 9 років тому

    *My brain thanks you*😊✌💕
    btw cool bookmark.

  • @anishaluintel1401
    @anishaluintel1401 8 років тому

    dat true? it sounds true. needed to hear this. thanks. :')

  • @juliasbrainrot
    @juliasbrainrot 9 років тому

    Humble I absolutely love your videos. They give me so much inspiration!

  • @niniLici0us13
    @niniLici0us13 9 років тому

    You are amazing!

  • @nicoleramos6072
    @nicoleramos6072 9 років тому

    Amen to that! 🙏

  • @calirose1025
    @calirose1025 9 років тому

    Why hasnt this guy hit 100,000 suscribers?!

  • @shivanim9624
    @shivanim9624 9 років тому

    Great video..you always keep it real :)

  • @arrccellia9095
    @arrccellia9095 9 років тому

    Love your vids humble. You're doing great 👍

  • @HarjotSandhu619
    @HarjotSandhu619 7 років тому

    True words

  • @elliotclarke1311
    @elliotclarke1311 9 років тому

    No dislikes..? Really??
    Wow!! This must have been great!!!

  • @halaalbaloshi4379
    @halaalbaloshi4379 9 років тому

    Really like it

  • @MrWiiFanatic
    @MrWiiFanatic 9 років тому

    Almost to 100K subscribers! :')

  • @kavyashivhare7540
    @kavyashivhare7540 9 років тому

    Humble where can i get a hard copy of this book?
    Thank-you for always motivating me. ☺

  • @carpediem8752
    @carpediem8752 9 років тому

    This is beautiful!!! I loved it
    You sir are a special human being with a beautiful soul. The type of soul that doesnt exist anymore.
    Whoever marry you will be a lucky superwoman... oops i mean woman! Hahaha blessings

    • @carpediem8752
      @carpediem8752 9 років тому

      Ohhh i forgot to mention how much i love your videos... they are PERFECT.

  • @harnoordhaliwal6955
    @harnoordhaliwal6955 9 років тому

    Yay
    80000 subscribers

  • @balrajandlaurie6969
    @balrajandlaurie6969 9 років тому

    20,000 SUBS LEFT WE CAN DO THIS :)!!

  • @iisherlockhomesii1071
    @iisherlockhomesii1071 9 років тому

    Hi ! I have a crush on a boy but it looks like he likes another girl. But then another boy in my class tells me he loves me.

  • @aglash10
    @aglash10 9 років тому

    Silly question but how do I learn to love myself and develop confidence? I want to become more selfless and give love but I can't find it within me to give and I feel selfish sometimes

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      aglash10 check out my #UnLearn playlist.. I have a video on Confidence, as well as a video on Feeling Selfish, and I have a video with Superwoman about Loving Yourself =)

  • @kyaarnold8957
    @kyaarnold8957 9 років тому

    Live your life to the fullest right?

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      Kya Lee we won't be here for long... let's live it up while we can =)

  • @Cassie23_
    @Cassie23_ 9 років тому

    ❤️

  • @abhiraj2001
    @abhiraj2001 9 років тому

    I love your videos, they are very meaningful and help me a lot.
    Sorry… but please change your background….. its so distracting

  • @MrDefibulator
    @MrDefibulator 9 років тому

    Better than any tumblr quote.

  • @paularamirez01
    @paularamirez01 9 років тому

    Where did you get your wisdom?

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +2

      PAULA Ramirez from all my mistakes... and corny Tumblr quotes =)

  • @naavneetaulakh4821
    @naavneetaulakh4821 9 років тому

    👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @remembarie
    @remembarie 9 років тому +1

    But Mr. Poet.... I like getting love :(... Ok Ok I'll try this giving love thing lolz #mindcrush #beardcrush
    PS. I need you to smile more in your videos.. #withdrawal

  • @Taruney
    @Taruney 9 років тому

    Humble The Poet why not bring in ***** or ***** to do one of your unlearn videos despite how funny and sarcastic they are they do have a lot of teach us by interperating your book Unlearn
    If you like that suggestion why not hope on to my channel

  • @amity5389
    @amity5389 9 років тому

    ...And first view