Con Man interview-Matthew Cox
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Matthew Cox, a former con man from Tampa, Florida. Here’s a link to Matthew’s book: www.amazon.com/Shark-Housing-...
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If this guy was a politician he would absolutely get elected
Trump
Facts
@@Fred-zk3wv biden
Trump, bankrupt six times, cheats on his wife with a porn star then pays her off, draft dodger, starts a fake university, tax evasion, anything he does not like is fake news, yet his supporters trust him. His whole life has been a big scam.
@@mtadams2009 no politician is a good person man
The great thing about interviewing a person with a NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY is that they basically interview themselves.
Hey that is a salient observation
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😂 yep we do that
So fucking true!!
"You can't be a scumbag and then be upset when people do scumbag things to you!"
Best quote ever.
Fasho
apart from nobody did anything “scumbag” toward him lol
The entire law is fulfilled in a single decree: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” - Galatians 5:14
Or r*pe you in prison. 😊
there really is honour amoong thieves. lol
For a guy with a learning disability he was unstoppable as far as scamming financial institutions out of money.
I swear this guy calls me 5 times a month about my cars extended warranty
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bro i get those calls daily and its fuckin annoying
@@xaopyu4894 same
@Terri Wells come to think of it, my fuckin bike got stolen in January....I bet this muffucka is behind it too!
Omg that made me laugh 😂
this channel is basically the greyhound bus of UA-cam
hilarious!
I only went on greyhound once and I can confirm, it was insane, it was like encountering random event after random event
excellent observation
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@@yoda8104 I mean everything that happens is a random event
I have worked in Texas prison system x 10 years as medical provider and I can tell you everyone in prison is con man. He is super intelligent and affable.
I love how he is most upset that no one had a giggle at his names 😂😂 that's the best part of this entire story!!
Yeah I was crying laughing picturing his aliases being read out in front of a judge and he's kind of hoping for a chuckle and gets ice cold silence.
😂😂😂 cuz he thinks he's SO witty and everyone knows he's a thieving douche. He paid nothing. We paid for his fraud. Every tax payer. And he knows it. And he is still stealing ..just other people's stories. Makes me sick
Yeah and no remorse about all the money he stole, just wants people to recognize his sense of "humor" and fall on the floor laughing. Amazing! 😂
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For real
Had to check my bank account after watching this guy.
Haha haaaaaa. That made me laugh. 😁
Lol
Thid made me laugh!!
I just checked my purse 😆😆
LOL!
I bet the police didn't even need to question him, they just sat him down and he wouldn't stop talking for 5 hours
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Lmaooooo. Greatest line ever
DAMN GOOD comment..
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I most enjoyed this interview because it’s rare to witness a narcissist being able to look themselves in the mirror and truly see themselves for who they are. It’s intriguing and very encouraging.
Thank you for making these videos, Mark!
yes i had a friend that was sociopathic narc and he was not able to self reflect, like we would point out obvious character flaws and he would deflect instantly and try to change the subject. we eventually had to kick him from the group because he was driving everybody insane
I think the only reason he is admitting hes a scumbag is because he was caught. Now hes just using a different angle. Hes even convinced whom ever there is actually something good about this interview.
He’s not a narcissist he’s a cancer. He fucks over corporations not people.
@@jessicag3617yup guys like this never change, they just take a new approach to the same shady behavior
@@jessicag3617it’s also the spotlight. Being the center of attention is better than remaining insignificant.
This was a gold medal interview. Storytelling skills A+. Riveting. Great mannerisms, great expressions. Really good language skills. Toastmaster arcs, 5 minute anecdotes. Where'd you find this guy?! If this goes to TV...you get an Emmy award.
Yes he’s conning us
Catch Me If You Can is the movie I imagined 🤷🏾♂️
Yessssss!❤❤ He's got total charm!
Seems like he's just answering the questions
@@ethandumas6937 well, he's trying to keep a flow and answer questions.because he has serious talk style..it almost seems like he's acting.
Man people are really hating on him here. You guys know this channel focuses on interviewing people with problems? Matt admits that what he was doing was wrong, he admits that he’s a narcissist (which most narcissists would never do), and at the end of the day he encourages people to not go down the road he did. You people will tear anyone apart 🤦♂️
Hi. Non-narcissist sympathizer here. "Hating" is a term terribly over used. Hating (playa hating) comes from a place of deep seated envy and jealousy. And while _some_ people in the comments may be envious of this guy to _hate on him,_ my guess is most people are not.
As for me, I dont see myself in this guy. I dont relate him on a personal level but my narci-radar is strong and I'm cognizant of these types. I would never defend this narc much less give him a pat on the back for doing what he's supposed to do in life which is admit his character defects. We all should be doing that. I wouldn't give a damn how "traumatic" and "extra hard" it was for him simply because he's a Cluster B traited personality. Poor baby.
Besides, I'm not at all convinced his introspection is genuine lol. I mean it could be, but I aint falling for it...
Plenty of narcissists learn to _"fess up"_ and admit to things as long as it will benefit them in the long run. It's part of the manipulation tactic. Gaslighting. Triangulation. Hovering. Love bombing. Virtue signaling etc etc etc... Just a tactic. Lol.
Is it possible he's being sincere? Sure. It's possible. But I'm leaning towards _not probable._
This guy is in an interview on a channel that boasts of over a million subscribers lol. And this video in particular has gained 247K views. Even if it was only a fraction of that, he's still he's being seen by a lot of people lol. But I'm sure he's _reformed_ and would never dream of using THAT to his advantage to con folks lol. I'm sure it never crossed his mind lol...
@@MadamTickTickBoom LMFAO relax, he's an interesting character. He's got much better interviews than this and he's been blowing up on YT, so of course this channel will grab him if possible, it benefits them bringing his fans in. You just went on a diatribe about why YOU dislike this video, yet you hate narcissism? Lmao too funny
@@jdaily2293 Wait. What? When did I say I disliked this video? When did I say I disliked or hated anything or anyone? Lol. I meannnnn, ok sure, sue me.... I'm not exactly fond of narcissists. Pathological narcissism, that is. Butter-um, I love this channel. And I enjoyed this video. And I wish the guy well actually.
So observing someone for what they are (narcissist and a conman by his own admission) and having an unflattering opinion about _narcs_ means what exactly? That I hate this video and I'm a narcissist? Lol. Amusing. I felt my comment was harmless. Offending you was not intentional. Be well.
He did not admit to anything. He just said what people want to hear. That is what con men do and he sure conned you.
You’ve allowed yourself to be finessed
Truly shocking that he’s not a politician. This level of confidence, gregarious story telling and ability to charmingly lie would have kept him in office.
Yep....
right...politicians do the exact same shit but its all legal
Or corporate CEO.
most likely only due to the learning disability & not being born into it. Otherwise 100%
No one aspires to be a politician.
What an amazing storyteller! A narcissist who realizes he's a narcissist, a conman and a scumbag?! That's rare. Great channel!
I DOUBT HE CARES THAT HE IS A NARC. HE IS TRYING TO FIND WAY TO MAKE MONEY.
This interview as a pleasant surprise. So glad I watched it. This guy’s self awareness blows me away. It got me thinking about a lot of things. Thank you.
Is he self aware, though?
Self-aware, but not remorseful. @poonamsvideoblogs
I can't think at all😮😂 I'm trying to work my anxiety down. It was very triggering for me.😢 I wish he would have welcomed more questions or comments from mark. If he was self aware then maybe he would care enough to have a back and forth conversation?!? . But ,a lot of disordered people have self awareness and don't care about a conversation . They care about adulation and praise etc.
Wait, isn’t reform and being an actual decent normal human is not doing wrong. And people are impressed by this?!? The bar is low for you lady
“Instead of doing the right thing, I decided to take it up a notch” 🤣🙏🏽 very insightful
go big or go home, no risk no reward
Lmfao
@@johndowe7003 big risk, big reward
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"You can't be a scumbag and then be upset when people do scumbag things to you", good line
Can’t bullshit a bullshitter.
He didn't mean it, take it with a pinch of salt. He doesn't think he is a scumbag at all, he adores himself whole heartedly, to the point he finds his crimes comical.
@@PringlesOriginal445 Exxxactly. Lol that was definitely not an introspective moment. He’s just saying all the “right things”.
I passed over this video many many times… finally chose to watch it and am definitely glad I did! Great communicator- makes sense since he talked his way out of many dicey situations. Great interview.
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"It would be difficult for you to write your own story, because the truth is you just don't see you as you really are"
Damn, that one was good...
So for 50 minutes he's been able to sit and talk about himself. He must be in heaven
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@paulbrown357 but he was only asked like 3 questions after the 1st 5 to 10 mins he just talked from there he really loves the spotlight, I can see him on joe rogan for a 6 hour podcast
@@amilyon553 probably edited questions
and you listened, who's the fool ?
Heaven on Earth baby !!!
He pretends like he knows he's a scumbag. The truth is he doesn't believe it for one second. He just wants you to think he does. He is not even low key about his narcissism.
He knows! He just don't care!
@@mostdontknow8769 Yes, I second this. I am VERY confident - without somehow being a God - that I'm reading him correctly, and he's being honest about being a scumbag and flat out could not possibly care less if he's a scumbag or not.
That man is fully conscious of what he is doing lol. He knows everything he's done would constitute him as a scumbag, but he knows its just a word.
@@Vincent_toia This is exactly how the wealthy 1% got to be the wealthy 1%, and they've intentionally set the system up to prevent anyone else from getting the same wealth or power. Big banks have screwed people over since they existed. Denied loans based on race, or idiotic crap like a month late payment in one year's time. They're not losing money because they've inflated the costs so much. It would be like if I spent 10 cents on a spoon and resold the spoon for 100,000 dollars. If the person defaults after 3 payments, I'm NOT out money. I've still made money. So yeah, I have a hard time feeling bad for banks and mortgage companies.
@@Vincent_toia so you co signing him snitching to get out of prison too?
These interviews really help me see the world from a different perspective. I appreciate that.
I was going to stop watching, but as it moved nearer conclusions and finding his wisdom , there's no question- great interview. I visited a very successful and powerful man on his last moments in a hospital bed and I thank him deeply for his lesson- He created his small fortune, legally, yet left his son ( my best friend ) in a turmoil throughout his life. Strive, succeed and all that, but "leave no bodies on the playing field to suffer ( figuratively speaking )."
Incredible. This guy's only mistake was pulling cons for himself instead of for the banking industry.
Nice!
Or government.
@@Toodle.Pipp001 Same thing at this point!
good point!
Truth!
Self Actualized Narcissist... He is the anomaly of narcissists, he accepts and embraces it. Phenomenal case study.
Indeed it is. Both narcissistic and sociopathic (one who studies others in order to know how to behave, how one should feel, how to respond).. this combination and being that aware, one diagnosis (sociopath) educating the other (narcissism) according to this interview, has been helpful for him. This did and could still go in several negative directions but there is something innately positive in his characteristics that lies on top of his being to where he has flourished in the worst of situations and has done very well for himself.. and others.
@@n1njatuber His grasping for unattainable love from his father was a huge catalyst in all his subsequent behaviors. The hole it created in his psyche, a vacuum that the self insulates itself to by removing any true empathy.
@@n1njatuber The only difference between him and a Tony Soprano are the methods employed
@@ElroyMunson bingo!....and that's how people end up with full blown NPD
@@n1njatuber Do we all have most of the characteristics of this man that we should be relating to? He’s trying to find the key to his insecurities. He absolutely owns and is trying to resolve his ill-behaviors to find peace. Discovering the “scumbag” in all of us that creates despair and anxiety. Struggling desperately to be objective about his need to protect his ego by accepting vulnerability. Trying to overcome his selfishness to appreciate the contentment derived from helping others in legitimate enterprises. Finding the true value of listening earnestly to others. Being blunt and truthful, no longer justifying greed. Is this a glimpse of our human conditions in exaggerated form? Are we all narcissists in varying degrees?
What an incredible interview. My favorite of all I've seen so far. "Catch me if you can" literally
This was fascinating! A peek into the mind of a narcissist. I appreciate his honesty about the code. There's no honour among thieves.
or women in his case
the fact that he admits to his narcissism and realizes what he does wrong almost leads me to think hes actually not one lmao
Therapy has been helping him to recognise his past wrongdoings 😅
@SV-gs2km he's definitely not npd
@@kgalanetAre you a psychiatrist?
I was reading wikipedia on him while listening and then realized he probably wrote his own wiki page.
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hahaaa
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Of course one of the longest videos on this channel is from a narcissist 😅
It makes sense lol
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better than some crackhead bum
One of the best videos tho
Bahahaha legendary comment
Laughed out loud frfr
I enjoyed listening to you, Matthew. I had a few narcissistic friendships that I "divorced". If they only had the awareness of their behavior, perhaps I would still have ties with them. It was difficult to let them go because: 1) I couldn't say to their face why everything had to be about them; 2) I enjoyed some of their qualities (outside of their narcissism)--like one friend who was a farmer and had a knack for growing anything. I was into gardening so we had a 'growing' connection, pardon the pun. But her narc tendencies were unsustainable in a long-term friendship (she was also from my native country). Sadly, I don't see her anymore but she taught me a lot.
NARCS ARE SOCIETY'S DREGS.
I really enjoyed this interview. One of the most interesting videos on this channel. I appreciate how direct he is about what he's done and what he's learned from it.
He has his own channel where you can hear more details about his life and other con man guests.
I'm not even halfway through this video and dude already convinced me that I can run a scheme and become a millionaire within a couple of years 😂😂😂
Literally clicked on this to take notes 📝
@@WeRNthisToGetHer The FBI is also taking notes on you now.
@@TheEyeball37 they already were lol
Join Amway. You'll do just fine 😂😂😂
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I blinked, 50 mins have gone by, ended up liking a narcissist who's probably conning me to like him, and left with a life lesson and a good story. well done Matthew cox
Haha me too
The best interview ever done on this channel. You gotta respect this guy's insane drive.
This is probably one of my favorite videos thus far. Thanks for posting.
Plot twist: this entire interview is a con, he's a homeless man who got his hands on nice shirt.
It's so perfect if you watch it again with that in mind!
In that case it wouldn't be a con.
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And pants
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"When I started writing the stories of my fellow inmates, and publishing books, and my life began to have a purpose that wasn't illegal, and I started accomplishing something that I loved, everything changed, and I sleep like a baby now". I think that's the message to take away here
Absolutely enthralling. What a story. He found his calling through the most unexpected, circuitous route. And is now happier because of it. Without harming individuals in the process. Not condoning the crimes, but if anyone deserved a reduced sentence, it was him.
You really think he didn't harm any individuals? Remember 2008 and how many lives were destroyed... that was all thanks to assholes like this guy getting rich.
yes, the clean cut white guy who shamlessly committed millions of dollars in fraud deserves a reduced sentence, not the many incarcerated men of color thrown into the system on trumped up charges. uh huh.
In an odd twist of 6 degrees of separation, I happened to be working in Tampa and Temple Hills, FL during that same time he was elevating Ybor city area (2000-2003). There were actually up and coming areas of Ybor city and I was actually staying in a Hilton Garden Inn right in the heart of that resurgence area. I was working in Tampa and Tempe hills during the week and and then flying back home to the northeast each weekend. So, when he says the homes he was inflating were crack houses, he is spot on. 85% of Ybor city was a bad slum at that time with only a small area of revitalization in progress. Amazing to me that my path and the backyard if his scams interconnected. It further makes me wonder if that resurgent area was due to prospective investments based on his false inflation of housing in the area making it appear as if the region was coming back.
That's interesting. All the homes in Ybor are going for $300,000 and up now. I was buying them for $50,000 to $75,000. Crazy!
legend is he's still explaining his story till this day...
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Chatting away STILL!
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@@timparker7062 lying the entire time
Gotta be one of the most engaging SWB videos.
Loved the line “I’m a narcissist but that makes me a GREAT storyteller”.
Lol.
Armand Hammer was EXACTLY a Senior version of this.
That was awesome! His level of awareness and accepting of himself is truly inspiring.
Oh yes, 'inspiring' it the word. Ted Bundy was the same!🙄
@anicklavoie
Agreed. 👍
@@helenamaria710Educational may be a better word. A lot was learned by interviewing Bundy too.
This was really interesting, enjoyable, comical at times, and enlightening. Thank you!!
He has a great YTube channel if you want to hear more.
He just talked for over 6 hours on the Lex Fridman podcast
This dude is the real life “ catch me if you can” character lol
The Catch Me if you Can Guy is a real life dude.
He's full of crap
@@michelevabeach his records are available if you search
Michele Chapman this is true, he also severely understated how much he stole but he prob doesn’t remember.
That was also a true story
I was actually in prison with this guy. I sat and talked to this fuckin guy for hours and hours all the time. This is 100% Matt Cox. I’m really glad to see him land on his feet. His paintings are awesome too!
So prisoners can sit and talk to each other "for hours and hours all the time." Sounds like a great place to be, actually. It's my dream. Good place to teach and learn philosophy.
@@anomietoponymie2140 I DOUBT THIS GUY WAS IN PRISON WITH MATT COX.
I could listen to this guy tell stories all day long. Excellent interview. iMovie needs to be made about Matthew Cox.
Me too lol it’s just so incredibly interesting
Sitting here at the halfway point and really appreciating that he’s so open to look at himself and his actions more critically and objectively than he had before. To me, that shows a lot of growth and honestly with himself. What a story, a very interesting listen so far. Thanks for doing the interview Mark!!
Thats the easiest interview Mark has ever done in his life. "So, tell me a little about yourself"........... 3 hours later.....
What would you prefer he do? To be fair, 1. He knows why he’s there …to talk about his con.. 2. There is a whole conversation behind the scenes …i just find that comment interesting. Just most of these interviews are is like this… maybe this is one of the earlier ones
🤣life..🤦🌈
@@edna_m 😂
He knows about this issue and talks about it @38:00
LMAO!! 💯
I feel like Matthew McConaughey is going to play him in a movie someday soon and is going to study this video for the role.
Yes!!!
I’d watch it!
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I thought the series white collar was his life. Haha
Eric Roberts all day.
Iv been wanting to watch this interview for awhile now n I'm so glad I finally did! Fascinating!! I was hanging on every word 👏👏👏👏👏
I've seen a longer interview with him on another podcast. He's leaving out so many incredible details. I cannot believe Netflix hasn't optioned his life story.
Do you remember what channel that was on?
@@EdwardQGYes his own UA-cam channel.
Him being clean and well spoken doesn’t make him any less broken then the addicts on this channel.
Yep. People think looking put together means you are put together... HAH
@@Highlikeheaven89 Yeah but presentation is important
@@dullknifefactory you took the words out of my mouth
That’s kind of true to most people if a normal person saw him they would think he’s a normal person rather then a homeless person
Personally, I respect those that make stupidity profitable.
“The judge had no sense of humor at all, no sense of humor “ 😭😂😂😂
It's like he has completely blocked out the seriousness of what he's done lol. This guy...
I thought he was clever! 😂
“C. Montgomery Burns”😭😭😂
Great story teller. Wow that was pretty good interview. Thanks for introducing us to this man Matthew.
This is one of the best ones you’ve ever done!
Soft White Underbelly stories are gold, but this one is platinum. Probably my most enjoyable story so far.
Yes! I thought the same!
Very good one! Have you seen lad bible? There was one about a guy escaping from I think a Thai prison. Was insane dude. Check it out
Watch lil jungle boy George, that dude is unbelievable
If you enjoyed this one, you should also watch the corrupt cop interview. Also very good
are you fucken serious?
This guy is working his con every moment of his life...even in this interview.
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Yep.
NYC Entrepreneur 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly 💯
Absolutely
You dont ever want the sentence. "The company is doing well." And the sentence directly after it start with "so then the FBI..."
This is a dangerous person to the innocent, but also a very dangerous person to the guilty. After watching this interview I checked my bank accounts to make sure he didn’t distract me for the 50 minutes to hurt me financially. I believe him when he said he is not a happy person but in reality he sleeps like a baby. Scary dude.
The fact that he felt a type of way bc the justice system didnt think his jokes weren't funny is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂
LMAO ikr I am dead XDDD
Lolol the way he said noooooone thought is was funny.
I know he’s a narcissist and conman but his fake names were clever and the “C Montgomery Burns” had me laughing😭😂
😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that judge had no “sense of humor “ 💀🧑🏽⚖️
The audacity 🤣🤣🤣
I'm quite sure his career as a con artist is not over.
As long as there are gullable people out there, he will keep thriving. I feel sorry for the people that wind up involved with him.
Check out his channel or his Koncrete interviews... He's a legit writer now, he collected stories from inmates on the inside and now crafts their stories... The producers of the movie WAR DOGS stole his story, he was in prison with Jonah Hill's character...
@@willpowr416 thank I was waiting today see how long someone would mention his Koncrete interviews.
@@swavvye6168 the new one with him and John Boseak is so intriguing cuz one of them did it the old school way and the other did it all online
@@willpowr416 checking it rn brother man preciate the recommendation 🤙🏽
Thank You for doing these interviews.
Of all the people I have watched Mark interview, this guy is one of the scariest. I would be petrified to be within a mile of him.
He is telling us his crimes but yet is hard not to like him. Scary ability to charm.
He is soft but still intelligent, untapped
youre just weak
He'll run a megachurch next.
I like him.
I have a small time conman friend they always act repentant and self depreciating. Its part of the con.
This guy isn’t repentant in the least. He’s not even trying to pretend he his. So not sure what you are talking about.
Yeo because that's the hook
it’s not really always part of the con bruh, some people really do hate themselves and that’s why they act purposefully destructive
@@odi2412 these people live under a rock. They think a con man is a 1960s style movie con man who just come anyone he meets. He isn't that kind of con man, he only conned the people who he needed to to steal from the bank.
Thats a terrible con.
This guy seems like he'd be some slimy character in GTA you'd have to do missions for.
Stranger and Freak’s
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Devin Weston
I loved this, an insight into a topic I know nothing about! What a great interview!! Keep doing what ur doing Carter 😊
Nobody mentions the countless lives that have been devastated by this man, the old people savings, someone's insurance settlement..he shows absolutely no remorse, which is what is most appalling about this person
It's also what it takes to be a narcissist.
As other guy said . This is just exactly how a narcissist functions. It’s all about them and that’s it. There is no remorse, regret , etc. they know what it is, but are incapable of feeling it.
I'm Nigerian, and for all the notoriety about how we scam people, we got nothing on this guy! Lol
Lmao this fool is not done scamming! Lol 😂 he’s doing it now!
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LIIIIIIIIIES!!!
Yall go in tho
Lllololol
Dude fails miserably at taking off and being on the run. He’s addicted to grifting. He didn’t just do it for the money. He did it for the love of the con.
Every addiction of any kind chases the rush
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Sounds like his first manager showed him the way. No one is born a crook, they are taught.
Just such an easy way to make money. And if you get away with it once you'll think you can keep getting away with it. No amount of money is truly satisfactory. No doubt it's a rush but that's not the full story.
People are guilty of this on all levels. Folks get found because they always come back to a community of people they know bc they are lonely.
Happy New Year to you & your team!🙏🎉👋🐨🌏.Thank you for yet another informative and entertaining episode.I particularly enjoyed you explaining about the needle lengths.👌You are a wealth of knowledge that I appreciate.xx
A+! Terrific subject and interview Mark! Thank you for expanding your interviews and bringing in people from all walks of life.
Very engaging. Hugs from Alaska❤
"If you had honor you'd be working at walmart" that's a humbling and powerful statement. People always dream glory comes with honor, but in everyday life, it doesn't
Some dishonorable people work at Wal-Mart too. People say that to make those people feel good about not being able to measure up, either because of circumstances or lack of drive, to certain standards in society. Been in both worlds whether retail or corporate. Pieces of shit everywhere 😂😂😂
You’re right.
your idea of honor is flawed. the usage of “honor” in this situation is reduced to the boundaries of a society of crabs in a bucket. play your own game… not anyone else’s game.
THIS
@@INTJosh a. Greeter...jesus hed talk ya half to death...lol
I love how almost all of these interviews ask "Did you have a good childhood?" and most of them reply "Ummm......"
And a lot of them end with "otherwise, pretty normal", after describing pretty horrible abuse.
Him breaking down the snitching code is something everyone needs to hear.
He reminds me so much of my ex. I didn’t even realize he was a narcissist until we split up and we were together for over 30 years.
He was the most confident, successful, amazing person I ever knew. He could get anyone to do anything he wanted by being an incredibly likable. He oozed sincerity and compassion.
Jokingly I used to say if you were a bad person you could form a cult. Little did I realize that he had and I was in it.
He just disguised it as a company.
He even said “I am a benevolent king”. I didn’t take that seriously. But he was serious.
30 yrs?? 30 months?? Lady, you’re an accomplice! No judge would let you off, you’d be convicted right there along with him just for being 30yrs that stupid!! Omg, it’s hilarious how easily women just let manipulation and victimization roll of your tongues. 🤣🤣 You are a bad liar and you only fool the fool sweetie! Nothings ever your fault is it!?!? Bahahahaha 🫣🫣😂😂😂😉😉😉😉
HE HAD A CULT AND U WERE INIT LOL OMG ,,,,,,,,,WHAT MADE THE 2 OF U DIVORCE AFTER 30 YEARS???
This is great! Favorite line: “That judge had no sense of humor.”
Na...my favourite... "when you call your lawyer and she starts crying on the phone...you have an issue" .... classic stuff.
Lol 😂
@@tearitloosetearitloose4670 lol
“it’s a bad day” lmao I honestly can’t help but like this guy, Probably why he got away with so many scams, he is charismatic.
This guy would make great laywer ceo or something.. power of charisma is incredible..
that's how someone like this reels people in. then they use you for everything
Really? He was instantly dislikable & off-putting to me.
I hope he goes on the Joe Rogan podcast, I like his story telling
@@alexwest2573 yeah, joe won't even have to talk
What a story. Thanks for posting, Mark.
I learn a lot about people seeing this videos... So happy that i've found SWU.
Scares me that this guy is no different than 70 percent of “successful” people in America. We breed , encourage and reward that sort of thing.
Lol just cuz your broke doesn’t mean successful people are frauds. You sound like a narcissist
@@ngpdreamteam2k4 you sound like a douche
@@flintliddon Haha fr. You tell him
@@ngpdreamteam2k4 🥴
with 27 years in prison???
This dude is an amazing storyteller...I actually legit listened to him for 50 minutes. I guess that’s why he made a great conman 😂😂😂
Same. I couldn't stop listening. Lol
He was also on the podcast KONCRETE. He has his story but he also now writes about other criminals. He just helped co-host an interview he wrote about another con-artist that blows Matt out of the water. It’s called Miami’s Darklord of Credit card scams. That was a really good one too. Y’all should check it out on here on YT.
You've gotta read some of his books..
He co-authored a book about the main character in the War Dogs movie also. www.miaminewtimes.com/news/war-dogs-efraim-diveroli-sues-mortgage-fraud-king-matthew-cox-over-memoir-9964443
I'm the opposite, can't listen to him past 11 minutes and not from any judgment or disgust. Just making me wanna fall asleep tbh
Yep
Awesome interview mark. Mathew I'm glad you got your life together, and hv found real happiness you're a good one you deserve that second shot and you're making the most of it. Rock on brotha! 👍✌️
"Nobody is a friend..." so deep
"I had a learning disability which I struggled with, so as a result my father was an alcoholic."
It starts.
ha, yeah. I caught that... gave him the benefit of the doubt but, uh. Flag one.
The sentence right before that was about his mother that's what he was referring too
Maybe he faked his learning disability the whole time? You can’t be held accountable or expected to do the “right thing” if you have “disability”. Plus, there’s many “perks” when you have a disability tag, regarding to your government aid/schooling.
He probably enjoyed bossing around the “other” disabled kids at school, while pretending to be one of them.
@@k.e.m4731 he’s probably dyslexic, it’s a learning disability but you can also have genius intelligence at the same time like Einstein he was dyslexic.
Lol. I thought that was fuckin weird too
This would be a great movie.
Google him, he's got a lot in the works.
Watch his other interviews
Yes!
For sure!!
"Better Call Saul"
This was extraordinary, this was great!
Sadly, he is more typical of corporate America than many people know. Consciousless. Shameless. Sadly, a victim of childhood trauma. Great interview.
WHITE COLLAR CRIME CRIMINALS. PRIDE.
I recently bought 6 paintings from Matt for my new apartment I moved into a few months ago after seeing his work on his UA-cam channel. We chatted for about a half an hour on the phone and I have to say, thank goodness he’s no longer into defrauding people because dude is such a likable guy that he probably could’ve talked me into emptying my life savings for a single one of his paintings, lol!
On a side note, he’s a VERY talented painter!
I like your name; cool you bought some paintings.
@@timparker7062 Both of us make a Spiderman
@captain scentsible39 Me, too.
I wouldn't be sure if he actually painted those paintings but I would still buy one and probably have a beer with him to lol
STOP FCKNG LYING, IT DNT MAKE UR TEETH ANY WHITER
There is something so dang endearing about this guy! He is so likeable!.....wait a second......yep, I’ve been conned, haven’t I 😆💁🏻♀️
The eyes are the windows to the soul. He talks the talk but there’s nothing genuine about him
Ok I was totally thinking the same thing- is he any diff though from the powerful?? If only this talent could be put to use against capitalism!!
Yep
Same thing I said, like I could keep listening to this guy. LOL.
Lmboooo
Best interview on here that I've seen 👏🏾
I come back to this interview every few months. I could listen to Matt talk all day...this dude is wildly interesting and an outstanding story teller.
When I seen con man I thought it was gonna be a guy scamming other people. This dude was scamming the government and the system.
What a legend.
Yeah man. Those who arrested , prosecuted and locked him up have done more to hurt actual citizens I’m sure.
Uh no he scammed homeowners
Nah it was banks
@Carlos Fuentes Carlos, temporarily artificially inflating nearby home prices by fraud isn't really good for anyone. Maybe it's good if you happened to sell at that time, but that means it's obviously bad if you're a buying the home, and paying the inflated price. It's bad even if own the property and don't buy/sell. The lenders got burned the worst, and I could care less about them, but Cox destroyed people's lives.
Two minutes skimming on google:
"Cox's victims have been forced to pay tens of thousands of dollars to lawyers to save their property from foreclosure on unpaid fraudulent loans. They have had to clean up ruined credit. "It's been so stressful, both financially and psychologically," says Bridget Brown."
There are dozens of quotes like this. It appears several people were evicted based on fraudulent foreclosure proceedings. He did not make home owners richer. That's bullshit.
This was a good one. You've found some very interesting people to interview. The gambler, hacker, and now this guy are my favorites
Then you will really love the mob boss one, Michael Franzese, his interview is amazing
Agreed. Gummo the hacker's interview was fascinating.
@@tThisNThat bah. Goodfellas was more interesting.
@@Jessica-js6dz What, the movie?
@@Jessica-js6dz Lol, they mention Michael Franzese by name in Goodfellows. The movie is based on the actual life he was living first-hand. He is listed as one of Time magazines "Top 25 Mob Bosses" (ahead of Gotti) - and is the only one still alive. Only Al Capone made money similar to what he made as a Mafia Capo.
I will always respect a person who takes responsibility for his / her actions.
Or claims they take responsibility for their misbehavior.
Amazing story. Thank you for sharing.
It's a pretty interesting contrast listening to this guys life "struggles" after hearing from the Appalachian people.
Did you see "Clarence" doing Party Town USA ?
The fact that dude recognizes (allegedly) he’s a sociopath, is pretty impressive.
Although, this apparent ability to self-reflect and, therefore, exhibit some level of honesty and candidness is part of the con.
Those of you who are familiar with this sort of tactic know exactly what I’m talking about.
Agreed 100% !
As he said in the interview... he don't give a fuck what you think.
Probably most psycho/sociopaths know what they are
Exactly! Once you see this in a person, you can't un-see it. It's a gift to understand and experience this level of manipulation. Can't un-see it meaning you forever spot it in others quickly. There really is just one simple way to figure out who is who among people. Always look at their motivation. You can easily spot the personality disorders this way and protect yourself. A narcissists motivation is elevate what people think of them and gain attention. In this video you see how he uses honesty to elevate your opinion of him and doing this video gains him the spotlight. He CAN say he is a narcissist honestly. And understand that he is. But, he doesn't care that he is!!!!!
A true hustler keeps their mouth shut. Let your narcissism lose at the bar.
I am literally blown away. This guy gives new meaning to ‘high functioning’. The world is this man’s plaything. His brilliance has rendered me speechless. I’m not in denial though. He is a good looking narcissist who has charmed, manipulated, robbed , etc which, I’m sure , has caused different degrees of devastation to a lot of people . He will never comprehend the varying levels of lasting trauma he has inflicted others nor would he probably ever give it courtesy. Socio/psychopaths , as a whole, are dangerous predators. Of course there is a spectrum to it.
Having said all that there is one characteristic he has the shines through. It is rarely if ever seen. He is free. It is a kind of free that can’t be described but it is SO palpable . I’m glad this came to me. I feel enriched and privileged to have heard his story told by him. Thank you❤
I learned something from this guy.He didn't know who he was until someone else told him.And he took it a step further by calling himself a scumbag (and arrogant). I've been called arrogant by a few people in my life but I couldn't see it because you're all in your own head. I don't con but have a quick,quirky and odd sense of humor and by at least one person in every crowd laughing at me I was validated in my behavior. Laughing's good---right? I didn't realize that at work people are intellectually incapable of appreciating clever humor and must have seen it as a defect. I thought they'd enjoy the lightness and attempt at morale-boosting. You made my day, I'd hear. Some people saw me as a witty companion but appreciation is lacking among the average worker. I still think they just don't understand, but I've learned to cut back and painfully endure the dull small-talk they practice. I walk at the first sign of banality. Do I want to see pictures of your remodeled bathroom floor? Are you kidding? I think I'll pass. Is that arrogant?