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I enjoyed this video, but a couple of things I will add are that a lot of the times, people are not honest when you try to vet them. Of course, they will tell you that they are looking for a relationship because if they didn't disclose that, they pretty much know they wouldn't get past the first date with you. On top of that, Thais Gibson deals with attachment styles/issues and I think that is obviously what a lot of people have. I do agree though with Jonathon when he says that in order to find our forever person, we must first do the healing work on ourselves. I dated a man who was married for over 25 years then divorced and was nothing but a serial dater. I really can't even blame him for that because his ego was severely wounded, and he didn't have the greatest childhood either. Instead of working on himself, he just cycled from woman to woman and once the honeymoon phase was over, he bolted. I feel so bad for him because he is one of the kindest people I have ever met, but he should truly not be dating until he does the inner work on himself. We all have to find that out for ourselves, though.
I love, love, love this video after just breaking up with my boyfriend and first serious relationship since my husband passed away almost five years ago. Getting intentional with vetting questions to determine compatibility and not discarding my intuition will be my next steps in the future along with following your steps and wisdom.
My two ten year marriages were mostly transactional. My marriage No. 2 started with moving onto our 40ft sailboat and cruising the Carribean and Central America for 3 years. We were committed to ourselves, each other, the boat and to the total experience. It was nirvana.
I just want to thank you again for helping me realize that I have no idea what an actual relationship is, the way you describe it. It certainly wasn’t my two marriages.. except for the sailboat phase. And I do remember projecting my first marriage into an intellectual scene. He was a theater major, I was a design major - I imagined an intellectual life like the round table at the Algonquin. But then his first job was marketing for a beer brand.😖
Similar she has farm & house & side business enchanted animal farm also a nurse & 10 yrs younger he always wanted a farm now he can move into to hers keep his house we were together 10 yrs broke up end of Nov he met her Jan & practically moved into her house he is 58
I can relate to you enormously. I sincerely letting the Lord take the wheel and let it be His will. Not mines. Being patient and waiting to hear from Lord. 🙏🛐📖😊🕊️🩸🤍
Compatibility on many levels, plus chemistry, can lead to something amazing! I am blessed. But much relationship advice doesn't apply or doesn't work with us. You have to take the time to figure out what works for the two of you. You are unique individuals. Your relationship will be unique also.❤
All great information Jonathan! Life is too short to be with the wrong person (man) for me. Vetting and time shows us who the person really is. We need to ask those important questions so we can build and grow that beautiful relationship for the rest of our lives.
I notice same when my back acts up - started when I returned from visiting toxic family members recently. I must have known because I signed up for retreat 😊.
My sister dated a man for 2 yrs and he said she was the one but no marriage proposal ever materialized. One day she came home all his belongings were gone!😢. Poof, just like that. You think you know someone. We don't! She got a post card from him 6 weeks later saying he was marrying a woman in Malaysia. What?? All she got was a postcard? How cold to disappear without even a word. Jonathan are you going to delete the videos with Marie in them?
Jonathon I have refused to be in a relationship since I was in my twenties (a very long time ago) I think I may have found someone but I will have to wait.
I know one thing. It’s not any woman’s job to fix any male mentally. Let the one he wants marriage from listen to his endless BS talk. Most women don’t want multiple sex partners. We aren’t in it for a short term for someone else to get the ultimate commitment like marriage.
You said the overall issue with your relationship with Marie perfectly! She pursued YOU (she was operating out of her masculine energy) and i would assume you found this beautiful woman pursuing you to be ‘the answer’. It was obvious to me at least that you were never truly into her. Body language, live interactions, New Year’s Eve….(it’s always easier from someone outside to see these things). All of that doesn’t mean you both weren’t fond of each other or enjoyed each other’s company. I know you don’t buy into feminism and masculine energy, to me, it’s clear that was in play and what happened with Marie pursuing and then leaving. I identified with her and have had to consciously be aware of being in feminine energy-it’s way better for a woman.
I’m curious, mistaken about what? You said in this recording ‘for those that believe I forced Marie to move, it’s not true. She contacted me and a decided to move here.’ (Paraphrased) Sorry you’re not able to see that, wishing you the best as always!
It is my hope, and that of spiritual teachers, that we have evolved past ‘will he pick me?’ belief systems. This is the same using people and human grocery store (apps) mentality that prevents authentic connection. Pickmesha is no place for the dignified woman. Why are you comparing and waiting on a human to ‘pick you’? What a strange concept in the post modern age. Choose yourself if you need to regard people as products.
I find it so beautiful when you pray❤ Maybe you should cosider going to Church to worship Jonathan plus the single ladies there are into good old traditional values 😅
But now, all I want to do is make art and I’d rather do that than anything. Definitely more than dating some bloke for entertainment. See? I’m just like the guys! I’m female, straight, but my brain is male.
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
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I enjoyed this video, but a couple of things I will add are that a lot of the times, people are not honest when you try to vet them. Of course, they will tell you that they are looking for a relationship because if they didn't disclose that, they pretty much know they wouldn't get past the first date with you. On top of that, Thais Gibson deals with attachment styles/issues and I think that is obviously what a lot of people have. I do agree though with Jonathon when he says that in order to find our forever person, we must first do the healing work on ourselves. I dated a man who was married for over 25 years then divorced and was nothing but a serial dater. I really can't even blame him for that because his ego was severely wounded, and he didn't have the greatest childhood either. Instead of working on himself, he just cycled from woman to woman and once the honeymoon phase was over, he bolted. I feel so bad for him because he is one of the kindest people I have ever met, but he should truly not be dating until he does the inner work on himself. We all have to find that out for ourselves, though.
I'm thinking that the reason he doesn't go all in with you is because he was never that into you to begin with but you are good company.
He may not be ready for all in-- committment or he may be incapable, lack the ability to commit to anyone. Transactional.
Maybe...
Why do some people get blessed with a 30 + year relationship and some of us have to go through several people? It doesn't seem fair
I love, love, love this video after just breaking up with my boyfriend and first serious relationship since my husband passed away almost five years ago. Getting intentional with vetting questions to determine compatibility and not discarding my intuition will be my next steps in the future along with following your steps and wisdom.
My two ten year marriages were mostly transactional. My marriage No. 2 started with moving onto our 40ft sailboat and cruising the Carribean and Central America for 3 years.
We were committed to ourselves, each other, the boat and to the total experience. It was nirvana.
I just want to thank you again for helping me realize that I have no idea what an actual relationship is, the way you describe it. It certainly wasn’t my two marriages.. except for the sailboat phase. And I do remember projecting my first marriage into an intellectual scene. He was a theater major, I was a design major - I imagined an intellectual life like the round table at the Algonquin. But then his first job was marketing for a beer brand.😖
I love the self health, I love enalegy, that's great, you are healing,bless you .
He was never ready to commit… he left me for someone that was rich.
Similar she has farm & house & side business enchanted animal farm also a nurse & 10 yrs younger he always wanted a farm now he can move into to hers keep his house we were together 10 yrs broke up end of Nov he met her Jan & practically moved into her house he is 58
I took a 13 year break. Now I am starting over again and it was done by God not me or him.
Spirit, yes...
When you are ready, the universe will bring them to you. Good work.❤
I can relate to you enormously. I sincerely letting the Lord take the wheel and let it be His will. Not mines. Being patient and waiting to hear from Lord. 🙏🛐📖😊🕊️🩸🤍
This man that wants to date me called me before I started watching your video. I really like Tim. Tim tells people he really likes me.
Compatibility on many levels, plus chemistry, can lead to something amazing! I am blessed. But much relationship advice doesn't apply or doesn't work with us. You have to take the time to figure out what works for the two of you. You are unique individuals. Your relationship will be unique also.❤
Exactly
Well said Tracey.
Jonathon is so awesome!! Thanks for the golden advice
All great information Jonathan! Life is too short to be with the wrong person (man) for me. Vetting and time shows us who the person really is. We need to ask those important questions so we can build and grow that beautiful relationship for the rest of our lives.
Exactly
I notice same when my back acts up - started when I returned from visiting toxic family members recently. I must have known because I signed up for retreat 😊.
Oh wow!
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Wow. Same thing happened to me when I went to visit a “toxic friend”. I had to come home and immediately go see the chiropractor.
Spiritually, the back is related to emotions.
Very, very true. Timing and asking a lot of questions.
I agree compatibility and chemistry exactly.
I was so out of control I couldn’t have a relationship
Am so sorry the relationship didn’t work out. Be strong 💪🏽
Yeah, I was sad to hear that the relationship ended
I couldn’t imagine a relationship without compatibility. Men will push for sex which is immature if they want to be in a healthy relationship.
My sister dated a man for 2 yrs and he said she was the one but no marriage proposal ever materialized. One day she came home all his belongings were gone!😢. Poof, just like that. You think you know someone. We don't! She got a post card from him 6 weeks later saying he was marrying a woman in Malaysia. What?? All she got was a postcard? How cold to disappear without even a word. Jonathan are you going to delete the videos with Marie in them?
Thinking about he is choosing someone else over you , that means he isn't just dating you and what does that say about you putting up with things ?
Maybe
I doubt that they will let you know but if they do and that doesn't fit your way of dating , break it off and don't wast your time .
Jonathon I have refused to be in a relationship since I was in my twenties (a very long time ago) I think I may have found someone but I will have to wait.
I've missed you! How are you? That was a great session!
Hey, thanks!
This made me think deeper about what comparability would be for me. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Good stuff Jonathan. You are so right about romance needing to be in relationships
Beautiful and wise video...thanks a lot!!
So nice of you
This was very, very good. Thank you 🤔I can relate. Good things to put into practice
Thank you 😊
It's OK to go all in
Exactly
Yes many nagatives over few weeks upset ..sometimes give them enough time to sort them self
This is difficult when so many people are immature
I want the emotional support not the sex or not right off any way
I understand
Clear ..in .past.. few months..love of my life ..1 year six months...berging of pattens ..but burden of sturbon has many stories...
Thank God some men are not clueless
You're right!
Yes you are right about this archaic reasoning by men.
I know one thing. It’s not any woman’s job to fix any male mentally. Let the one he wants marriage from listen to his endless BS talk. Most women don’t want multiple sex partners. We aren’t in it for a short term for someone else to get the ultimate commitment like marriage.
Humans are fickle creatures
@@renette0506 fickle
Jonathon is right. Humans are fickle creatures.
@@renette0506 Good luck on your relocation!
@@sherriflemming3218 , thank you
Thank you for the advice Btw found you on 🐝 🐝 🐝 🐝 🐝
Awesome! Thank you!
I’d like to see you do an interview with Schahrzad Morgan. She is on UA-cam and extremely candid about love and sex.
Maybe next year...
Coming back isn't colour . Commitment journey has power
He was picking my brain to see what a woman like me wants from a man. 🤔 Plausible. That's my plausible interpretation of the facts.
You said the overall issue with your relationship with Marie perfectly! She pursued YOU (she was operating out of her masculine energy) and i would assume you found this beautiful woman pursuing you to be ‘the answer’. It was obvious to me at least that you were never truly into her. Body language, live interactions, New Year’s Eve….(it’s always easier from someone outside to see these things). All of that doesn’t mean you both weren’t fond of each other or enjoyed each other’s company. I know you don’t buy into feminism and masculine energy, to me, it’s clear that was in play and what happened with Marie pursuing and then leaving. I identified with her and have had to consciously be aware of being in feminine energy-it’s way better for a woman.
You are mistaken...
Telling other people how they supposedly feel according to YOU and what their internal motivations are according to YOU is incredibly rude.
I’m curious, mistaken about what? You said in this recording ‘for those that believe I forced Marie to move, it’s not true. She contacted me and a decided to move here.’ (Paraphrased) Sorry you’re not able to see that, wishing you the best as always!
Listened to you again after the live. Definitely missed a lot and am glad I hit the replay loop. Well done, Jonathon! 👍🙏💙
Awesome! Thank you!
@@JonathonAslay You're welcome! 🥰
Thank you Jonathan,
I trust your back is recovering… great teaching 🌺
You are very welcome
I'm sorry your relationship didn't work out.
It is my hope, and that of spiritual teachers, that we have evolved past ‘will he pick me?’ belief systems. This is the same using people and human grocery store (apps) mentality that prevents authentic connection. Pickmesha is no place for the dignified woman. Why are you comparing and waiting on a human to ‘pick you’? What a strange concept in the post modern age. Choose yourself if you need to regard people as products.
I get it
I find it so beautiful when you pray❤
Maybe you should cosider going to Church to worship Jonathan plus the single ladies there are into good old traditional values 😅
Good idea
I am learning Greek it and I love languages ❤
Good morning 🎉
👋
Sorry, I lost my connection.i miss your answer to my last question
😮 I will try again another time as it's time to go to Church ❤
What was the question?
GOOD
But now, all I want to do is make art and I’d rather do that than anything. Definitely more than dating some bloke for entertainment. See? I’m just like the guys! I’m female, straight, but my brain is male.
Chosen by god
Yes... Spirit
Interesting thing about your back
❤
🙏
Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
Commitments .continues
Casel . commitments matters