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  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +43

    Hey Fam! This video took a turn and a pretty raw conversation took place. We didn’t expect it. But we left it in because this is real life! We learned some things about each other and it hurt a little. But praise God we get to work through these things and come out on the other end stronger! 💜 Drop a comment if you want to see a part two. Who knows where this could go! Lol
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    • @humblejoy3564
      @humblejoy3564 Рік тому +1

      you have no reason to feel ashamed or embarrassed. you deserve some praise for the honesty ❤️🙏

    • @honeycoco341
      @honeycoco341 7 місяців тому

      💜

    • @honeycoco341
      @honeycoco341 7 місяців тому

      @@humblejoy3564 facts

  • @psyckoda
    @psyckoda Рік тому +74

    Genuine question... what is the thinking behind having sex when you're mad at each other? Why not work through it verbally until you're not mad at each other anymore? Is it because the sex is on a schedule and you're due to do it and should keep to it regardless?

  • @openlybookish
    @openlybookish Рік тому +94

    There are other valid reasons aside from immorality. If a spouse is abusive and dangerous physically, psychologically, etc that's 100% a valid reason.

    • @lucamackenzie9229
      @lucamackenzie9229 Рік тому +3

      They're saying what's in the bible and the bible gives this reason. They never said, that you'd have to stay in an abusive relationship.

    • @openlybookish
      @openlybookish Рік тому +6

      @@lucamackenzie9229 Morgan acted like the only main reason for divorce is adultery.

    • @thewhisperedword2222
      @thewhisperedword2222 Рік тому +4

      Morgan very specifically mentioned other “intense situations” which would justify or call for divorce which she specified they would not be discussing during the video - clearly alluding to abusive situations. They didn’t need to discuss those situations because they were discussing their own marriage, and since they hold to a biblical worldview the only reason they would divorce in the absence of abuse is adultery in their marriage. They’re not talking about other peoples’ marriages here, they’re talking about their own. She even said that so that people wouldn’t have to make comments claiming that they are overlooking abuse victims, which they are not.

    • @lucamackenzie9229
      @lucamackenzie9229 Рік тому

      @@elibaker8849 but then you can and should at least sepereate.

  • @camilleesposito4206
    @camilleesposito4206 Рік тому +49

    Guys, I gotta say, all my friends and I who have dated our SOs for a long time and lived together…we’ve never considered divorce. We’ve never had portions of our marriages that we describe as SO HARD. These don’t strike me as normal behaviors in a happy marriage. 👀 Anyway, just providing another perspective. I hope you find happiness.

    • @brennendehexe7934
      @brennendehexe7934 5 місяців тому +1

      She is considering cheating on him bc he is a bad kisser. And insecure when it comes to sex. A turn off for most women. Still she guilt trips him for having considered divorce in return. And keeps on giggling to hide her true feelings. The fact that she was crying was just bc she feels guilty. There is no true love/compassion here. Only fingerpointing and shame. She will leave him sooner or later i reckon

  • @christinafedderke3751
    @christinafedderke3751 Рік тому +18

    This was 😬😬😬. You two should not be giving marriage advice. Y'all need therapy.

  • @SomewhereInTheMaidenverse
    @SomewhereInTheMaidenverse Рік тому +122

    Imagine being married to a man who won’t let you wear your hair up in the summer because he doesn’t like it.

    • @joanabug4479
      @joanabug4479 Рік тому +1

      The middle-east was turning into a desert/dry area waaay before the year 0. Everyone must've been wearing head coverings that have since then turned into tradition for many christians (here in Europe you wear them before entering a church). I guess that's her last resort to protect herself, unless "mr. compassionate husband" dislikes that for some reason as well

    • @honeycoco341
      @honeycoco341 7 місяців тому +1

      Please stop talking like he locks her arms up or something. He just has his tastes and preferences like any other human being

    • @YUNGXR1ST
      @YUNGXR1ST 6 місяців тому +5

      @@honeycoco341ur blind. That’s a lot stronger than “preference” that’s straight up controlling. A massive 🚩

    • @kellevichy
      @kellevichy Місяць тому

      @@honeycoco341 It's summer and she's HOT. IN SUMMER. So she should be uncomfortable for 'his preferences'? Sod off. Seriously.

  • @jaclynmichelle7936
    @jaclynmichelle7936 Рік тому +53

    How is adultery the only grounds for divorce when people deal with physical and emotional abuse? I feel like the constant laughing is a trauma response to disassociate from painful emotions. The power dynamic seems So unbalanced. Humiliation is a control tactic.

    • @rachele932
      @rachele932 Рік тому

      You can seperate in those awful situtions but not get an actual divorce.

    • @alicja7580
      @alicja7580 Рік тому +3

      I think she meant for them personally. She mentioned there are other complex situations where divorce could happen. But for their relationship, sexual immorality would be the only ground for divorce. At least that’s what I understood:)

  • @shadowmoon1982
    @shadowmoon1982 Рік тому +144

    Imma be honest, if I was in Morgan's position in the divorce question, I wouldnt feel secure or as close in the marriage anymore no matter what Paul said. Im very surprised it was Paul that considered divorce tbh. Especially with his views on reasons for divorce, I wonder what would cause him to consider it.

    • @karaa7595
      @karaa7595 Рік тому +34

      He said it was a thought and he didn't entertain it.

    • @geoffreymacneill2329
      @geoffreymacneill2329 Рік тому +32

      That’s ridiculous. Paul is a God fearing, honest man, and vulnerable in sharing his hidden thoughts. Everyone deals with challenges, and in that process struggles with heavy thoughts, it’s normal. The important thing is how one deals with those thoughts that come. And as you can heard, he dealt with them well. His love for Morgan is so evident in his videos, she should feel very secure in that.

    • @lornatw
      @lornatw Рік тому +10

      Well Paul would have had a certain image in his head of what marriage would be like whilst Morgan would have a wider view with more value on what she didn't want after a bad experience. Do one may have gone into it with higher expectations and struggled to know what to expect and one may have gone into it with less ideals. I'm saying 'may have' because I have no clue, I don't know them but just thought to add one alternative perspective I've seen with someone in my life. Xx

    • @DannyD-lr5yg
      @DannyD-lr5yg Рік тому

      @@lornatw Wait, after a “bad experience”? Was Morgan previously married?

    • @ourladyofsorrowsxx
      @ourladyofsorrowsxx Рік тому

      He’s a loser that’s why

  • @ashleyhall6098
    @ashleyhall6098 10 місяців тому +32

    The fact that the "first few years" of your marriage were so rough is not something every couple goes through, in case you thought it was. It comes from marrying someone you barely know and finding out you have a lot less in common than you thought. Now that you guys know that, a good thing to do would be maybe advocating for longer relationships before rushing into a marriage that made you puke because your body and mind knew how wrong it was.

    • @globetrotter3956
      @globetrotter3956 8 місяців тому +2

      I agree. I had been with now husband for 5 years when we got married last year. This first year marriage has been amazing. I don’t understand when people talk about how difficult and what a trying time it can be.

    • @ashleyhall6098
      @ashleyhall6098 8 місяців тому +4

      @globetrotter3956 I've been married 17 years and the hardest times are when something major happens that puts you both to the test. I could absolutely see them having issues with her difficult and traumatic birth, but before that? There's no strife there, you're supposed to be enjoying your life. If they got to know one another before rushing to marriage, they might have realized they're not compatible and they wouldn't be so damn miserable right now. It's very obvious they don't like one another at all.

  • @rileysmileyriley
    @rileysmileyriley Рік тому +58

    Morgan: I’m gonna cry
    Paul: Awww she’s crying!
    NO SHIT SHE’S CRYING WHAT 😵

    • @honeycoco341
      @honeycoco341 7 місяців тому

      Oh please! Cut him some slacks. Living with someone who struggled with depression isn’t easy. Also, they struggled with inferty and had to navigate it TOGETHER. God gave them the strength to overcome it but that doesn’t mean it was easy. Christians need to BE REAL. Stop living in a fantasy land.

    • @denys2787
      @denys2787 6 місяців тому +2

      @@honeycoco341no one's living in a fantasy land lol the husband seems to be a little insensitive with her and it's very evident it many of their videos together (such as this one)

    • @honeycoco341
      @honeycoco341 6 місяців тому

      @@denys2787 that could be true, but is there a possibility that Morgan is overly sensitive/ takes thing to heart?

    • @kellevichy
      @kellevichy Місяць тому

      @@honeycoco341 Living with a husband who doesn't care about you isn't easy either and yet where is Morgan's slack? I'd be depressed with a 'husband' like that.

    • @kellevichy
      @kellevichy Місяць тому

      @@honeycoco341 lmao, of course, it's the woman who's the problem for being 'too sensetive'. She should just never have feelings ever, right? God forbid a woman be human. Gotta baby the man-child though :)

  • @TheGuitarchickadee
    @TheGuitarchickadee 10 місяців тому +8

    Making videos like this in public without a previous discussion is a really bad idea. You can be transparent with your audience you two need to be on the same page before you get in front of an audience. I think this type of crap needs to stop if you want to have a decent marriage. throwing serious stuff at each other on the fly for hte sake of YOutube is a horrible idea.

  • @hannahjenee
    @hannahjenee Рік тому +21

    You have to include abuse as Biblical grounds for divorce- ALL types of abuse. Research shows that emotional and psychological abuse cause more long-term trauma than physical abuse. When a spouse vows to love, honor, cherish, and protect their spouse but then ABUSES them, they have broken all of those vows. For clarification, abuse is categorized by repetitive patterns of behavior. I am not referring to a one-time “mistake” of being disrespectful. Please research emotional and psychological abuse to learn about it.
    Also, I suggest studying the Old Testament where God divorces Israel (in Jeremiah)… obviously not due to sexual immorality… He divorced Israel due to their metaphorical adultery of worshiping other gods and forsaking their covenant. This ties back to the issue of abuse- when a spouse forsakes their covenant and worships the false god of their own selfishness.

    • @kamarwashington
      @kamarwashington Рік тому +1

      Check out the video mike winger did on divorce and remarriage. He goes through everything in depth. It’s a long video if I recall, so be ready to break it up or binge

  • @archiapplee6901
    @archiapplee6901 Рік тому +40

    I've been watching you two for years but seeing Morgan cry about Paul's thoughts of divorce was hard. I appreciate you all being vulnerable but I feel that some of these should be private discussions. That is totally just my opinion though! At the end of the day, it's up to two what you post.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +12

      Appreciate you sharing. We hope that someone might see it and be encouraged for their own situation to push through and rebuke those thoughts🙏

    • @archiapplee6901
      @archiapplee6901 Рік тому +3

      @@PaulandMorgan That is a good point 🤍 love you guys!

    • @kellevichy
      @kellevichy Місяць тому

      @@PaulandMorgan 'We' you mean just you Paul?

  • @tarynthompson4141
    @tarynthompson4141 Рік тому +28

    I believe that physical abuse and violence in a marriage should also be grounds for divorce. I know a few people who divorced for this reason and their lives and their kids lives were at risk. Other than that and sexual immorality there is no basis for divorce in my life either just thought I would mention it

    • @chloemsmithh
      @chloemsmithh Рік тому +1

      This!!!

    • @Iou655
      @Iou655 Рік тому +29

      All types of abuse should be grounds for divorce..

    • @johannastromberg1224
      @johannastromberg1224 Рік тому +4

      I'm pretty sure abandonment is grounds for biblical divorce.

    • @Goat.Cheese
      @Goat.Cheese Рік тому +4

      Any abuse of any kind is grounds for divorce. You can't change an abuser, you can only protect yourself and pray that they get psychological help to change.

  • @YUNGXR1ST
    @YUNGXR1ST 6 місяців тому +6

    I haven’t seen too much of their stuff, but coming from a Christian myself, I get strong vibes that he is highly controlling and just not a great guy overall.

  • @margiejcupcakeprincess4711
    @margiejcupcakeprincess4711 Рік тому +28

    Morgan was the smart one to pack and go stay at her family’s place, a cool off for a few days can help

  • @colonelquakers
    @colonelquakers Рік тому +201

    Paul gives major “dish it but can’t take it” energy. I can’t tell if he’s just playing it up for the camera though lol

    • @jaz2832
      @jaz2832 Рік тому +52

      Because he’s awful

    • @Th3_ArCh0n
      @Th3_ArCh0n Рік тому +16

      ​@@jaz2832 I can confirm, he's not

    • @jaz2832
      @jaz2832 Рік тому +21

      @@Th3_ArCh0n haha whatever you say.

    • @GodsSilliestChuuyaEnjoyer
      @GodsSilliestChuuyaEnjoyer Рік тому +24

      ​@@thisisnotforyou5 *sees couple on the internet a few times* "I just know it's abusive because I don't like them!!" Mad silly behavior

    • @scottjontos
      @scottjontos Рік тому +14

      @@jaz2832 haha whatever you say, you haven’t got a clue what Paul is like. All you have to go on is the videos you watch and your personal opinion of what you see and hear. You only believe he’s awful based on what you don’t like based on your unconscious biases and no real life knowledge of him personally. Do you always form such shallow and baseless judgements of people you do not really know?

  • @zv3375
    @zv3375 Рік тому +10

    Both me and my husband have considered divorce in the first 1 year and we as well have gone through things that should’ve shattered us, but God’s Grace has been over us and all the glory be to him !
    Thank you for being real

  • @Goblue373
    @Goblue373 Рік тому +18

    Paul is so cringy and seems so full of myself ! Also what does her period have to do with anything ! That was an uncalled for comment. He was probably mad she didnt agree with him !

  • @ML-hx5mq
    @ML-hx5mq 11 місяців тому +7

    cannot imagine more awkward couple... are you guys actually together even

  • @hayleyjones4466
    @hayleyjones4466 10 місяців тому +4

    Feels like the TMI gag only applies when Paul is divulging potentially embarrassing details about Morgan.
    I couldn’t think of a better way to disrespect and humiliate my wife than get her on a public platform, reject her, blindside her, THEN score-keep about how SHE was the WORSE ONE, because SHE was the one who packed her bags THAT ONE TIME.
    Repulsive.
    Also. Do whatever you want in the privacy of your own bedroom, but don’t ram your hyper-sexualised heteronormative agenda down my throat.

  • @kristenintech
    @kristenintech Рік тому +18

    Paul, you do realize PMS symptoms/hormone change occurs BEFORE a women’s period not during right??

    • @morgianasartre6709
      @morgianasartre6709 Рік тому

      Not quite plus it very much depends on the person but generally symptoms disappear within 4 days after the start of menstruation.

    • @-uz4xq
      @-uz4xq Рік тому +9

      He’s uneducated, we are all aware😂

    • @Phoebe907
      @Phoebe907 Рік тому +12

      Totally inappropriate to use this against her and then bring it up for the world to hear. Disrespectful to Morgan IMO.

    • @EKL-qu7ih
      @EKL-qu7ih Місяць тому

      @@morgianasartre6709 the symptoms exist mainly before, hence the PRE part. He was homeschooled though so his education is likely questionable.

  • @kellyhiller3977
    @kellyhiller3977 Рік тому +6

    I wish folks were more private with their private lives. JS🤦‍♀️

  • @alyssarosalez2
    @alyssarosalez2 Рік тому +13

    Ouch, I know those last two questions would hurt me as a wife. Thank you for sharing the realness and honesty of Marriage. Sending prayers and love

  • @openlybookish
    @openlybookish Рік тому +10

    I can sense the tension between you two. Must have been a doozy that morning.

  • @kamarwashington
    @kamarwashington Рік тому +52

    The divorce one was brutal to watch. The reaction that Morgan had seemed to be very raw and real. Hearing that your spouse has had the thought of divorce will always be heartbreaking even if you know that they would never do such a thing (barring sexual immorality). It’s odd having that sense of security, while also feeling very real emotions that even a thought could evoke.
    My wife and I have had a similar conversation, so this kind of hits close to home. The thought can cross the mind, but it’s up to us to decide what we do with our thoughts. We can entertain them or rebuke them. We can give them validity, or we can see the falsity that lies behind them.
    It’s also hard to be Paul in this situation because being honest can potentially hurt your partner. This sort of vulnerability is what can make true love complex. Would you want to see your partner potentially cry, or would you rather lie to them? Long term, telling the truth through the hurt is the best option.
    1 Corinthians 13

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +4

      Appreciate you weighing in🙏

    • @johannastromberg1224
      @johannastromberg1224 Рік тому +10

      This was a good comment

    • @MaritaCovarrubias01
      @MaritaCovarrubias01 Рік тому +6

      Is it tho? He basically said he thought about it, but it wasn’t a viable option bc of their belief system. That’s actually worse!

    • @kamarwashington
      @kamarwashington Рік тому +2

      @@MaritaCovarrubias01 That’s called commitment to your values

    • @MaritaCovarrubias01
      @MaritaCovarrubias01 Рік тому +2

      @@kamarwashington If commitment to values is the only thing keeping people from being the worst versions of themselves, then Lord help us all. How about being a decent human being, keeping a commitment to your wife because you love and care about her, helping those in need not because you have to but because you want to?

  • @YoungSavedAfricanz
    @YoungSavedAfricanz Рік тому +7

    Morgan really loves Paul man ,it's really sad to see her cry like that ,but am glad Paul and Morgan are both following the Lord and know how to deal with things in a Godly manner

  • @BP83100
    @BP83100 Рік тому +8

    I actually don’t think this is a good game for a married couple 😬😅

  • @zenowens577
    @zenowens577 Рік тому +6

    Morgan “I ain’t never had to rebuke the devil” 😂😂😂 that was too good

  • @eskylent7962
    @eskylent7962 Рік тому +7

    Cringe 🤢

  • @Emilyredeemed
    @Emilyredeemed Рік тому +33

    I've had thoughts before of like "what if I could divorce my husband???" in the middle of an argument. It doesn't mean I actually want to. In the heat of those moments, sometimes those things can pop up. Sometimes thoughts are just thoughts. They aren't always facts, and sometimes they lie.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +2

      🙏❤️

    • @calliecarter1645
      @calliecarter1645 Рік тому +1

      yesss i know a lot of people have those passive thoughts about divorce during high emotional moments with anger! it doesnt mean anything, but you def have to weigh on God during that to keep those thoughts from happening, because the devil will do anything he can to try to break you apart.

  • @KonamiKonami
    @KonamiKonami Рік тому +13

    I also mix grape juice with water, otherwise it is way too strong!

  • @Joh316BeBlessed
    @Joh316BeBlessed Рік тому +6

    Woww.. God take away my judging spirit towards Paul cuz ooh how I would let my flesh rage at him….

  • @jemimahmataka9711
    @jemimahmataka9711 Рік тому +13

    This TMI😭

  • @margiejcupcakeprincess4711
    @margiejcupcakeprincess4711 Рік тому +6

    Oh no what a horrible question about divorce it made my heart hurt

  • @swedish9319
    @swedish9319 Рік тому +3

    We don't need to know all this go to a therapist like bruuuuuh💀

  • @seekingtruthandcompassion1707
    @seekingtruthandcompassion1707 Рік тому +11

    Would love a video answering difficult marriage questions biblically. Something I have struggled with biblically is people saying if your physically or sexually assaulted by your spouse you cannot divorce I personally think this is just horrible thoughts on this and other marriage situations

    • @Goat.Cheese
      @Goat.Cheese Рік тому +9

      If you are sexually assaulted by a partner I strongly recommend getting help, leaving the situation permanently, and make a legal report if that feels safe for you to do. Get out asap!

    • @MB-gb2zp
      @MB-gb2zp Рік тому

      Your talking to the wrong couple lol Morgan and Paul belive that it's wrong to refuse sex. They think it's ok to rape your partner if your married

    • @arozeisarozie
      @arozeisarozie Рік тому +4

      Bible is very male-leaning as it was written by males. A fresh perspective is most definitely needed.

    • @emmadasilva1794
      @emmadasilva1794 Рік тому +1

      At the very least, even if people think they aren't allowed to divorce their spouse, I think it's obvious that you can and should leave. And also get your spouse in jail. It's literally illegal to physically abuse someone, let alone morally wrong. (Plus, and I say this again later with more details, if sexual immorality is grounds for divorce, sexual abuse would be a ground for divorce.) Separation is absolutely allowed, especially if your spouse is in jail for the terrible, awful things they did to you.
      I personally believe that since the reasoning for divorce, as laid out in the old testament, was to protect women who were abandoned by their husbands (basically, if the husband wanted to get rid of his wife, he HAD to give her a certificate of divorce so that she could legally go be married again so that she could be taken care of. It was common practice for men to just dump a woman and then she couldn't prove she was allowed to remarry). If abandonment was a reason even in the old testament, then surely abuse is a valid reason.
      Additionally, just because Jesus laid out one exception does not logically mean it is the only exception. He didn't say that sexual immorality was the only exception, anyways. This point stands when you realize Paul gives an additional reason (if your unbelieving spouse wants to divorce you, let them leave), which means Jesus couldn't have just meant there was ONE exception, which ALSO means there could be more (Paul never said the exception he laid out was the only exception, either. It was simply topical to something else he was talking about). Plus, sexual assault would be sexual immorality, so voila, grounds for divorce. Most of the time a physically abusive spouse IS also sexually abusive. The trouble is the women trapped in that situation often don't realize that the pressure and the intimidation count as being FORCED to have sex. If your partner forces you to have sex, that's sexual abuse, even if they didn't physically grab you or anything.

    • @celesteessel4500
      @celesteessel4500 Рік тому +3

      @@arozeisarozie The Bible is very fair. Many women are respected and are symbols of nobility/grace/honor/ . Of course, when bad things happen, it is also recorded in the Bible because it is history. You might think its anti-women because there are talks of rape etc but God had those stories included because 1) its real life 2) He demonstrated how He hated that wickedness. 3) No one can escape judgement -- bad things happen because God gave us free will. He wants us to choose Him, but unfortunately many people choose evil. God couldve made us robots , but that love wouldn’t be real. It isn’t male leaning, but maybe male leading,… and i dont see the issue with that. If men followed after God, they WOULd make good leaders … since they would reflect Jesus

  • @dotysshow5560
    @dotysshow5560 Рік тому +10

    I really appreciate your rawness guys! And the fact that you enjoy each other and laugh together 😊

  • @purelightapologetics4930
    @purelightapologetics4930 Рік тому +3

    I think that the impact of seeing negative things more clearly on/around that time of the month is actually a benefit that God gives women because sometimes we can just let things that are negatively impacting us (or others) slide when they need to be addressed. Women are naturally generally more agreeable in temperament and we are more likely to sacrifice for the sake of avoiding confrontation. Our monthly cycle can help is to see things that need to be addressed and motivate us to address them. I don’t think the issues brought to light by hormonal changes are any less real than anything else. I don’t really appreciate when people invalidate a woman’s opinion because of her cycle.

  • @chloemsmithh
    @chloemsmithh Рік тому +16

    I definitely agree that divorce should never be something done lightly. But I do think there should be one more condition added (in addition to sexual immorality). I think divorce is acceptable if there is physical abuse happening.

    • @Iou655
      @Iou655 Рік тому +20

      Any abuse. Physiological and emotional are just as bad. Maybe worse because it’s invisible to outsiders.

    • @aidylweiss.
      @aidylweiss. Рік тому +2

      It definitely helps to understand God's heart behind giving the divorce law. He created marriage for flawed human beings, so then also had to create a way of escape if need be (1 Cor 10:13). Sometimes, as the Lord Jesus said in Matt 19:8, one spouse will harden their heart against the other. Because God is love, He provided a way of escape, so that there may be healing and a fresh start. Hardening of the heart includes anything that violates love or results in someone's injury (physical, mental, or emotional). It's also interesting to note what Paul said in 1 Cor 7:15: If someone is married to an unbeliever who wants a divorce, let them go, for "God has called you to peace." This indicates that the unbeliever hardened their heart. Food for thought!

  • @dragameafata2413
    @dragameafata2413 Рік тому +5

    We are humans. Thoughts cross our minds. He chose to fight for marriage. This is seen through his actions. We have to guard our hearts, clearly! From now on, Paul will be more attentive, I am sure. However, actions speak louder cause they show the final decision your mind has taken. You are so beautiful! You know how to love each other. With the help of God, with correction from our Heavenly Father, you will cultivate endless love.

  • @GoldenGlam95
    @GoldenGlam95 Рік тому +5

    I don’t always agree with your stance but most of the times I do. Also I DO LOVE and APPRECIATE you alls honesty. You guys seem fun. I love that you all can laugh together, even if issues aren’t all the way resolved.

  • @seekingtruthandcompassion1707
    @seekingtruthandcompassion1707 Рік тому +9

    I thought you were at least having a glass of wine for the intensity 😅😂

  • @silviavidales3825
    @silviavidales3825 Рік тому +8

    That wine glass would've been empty by the time the game ended

  • @thatiowan3581
    @thatiowan3581 Рік тому +7

    "Let dying dogs die" should be on a t-shirt 😂

  • @larevival4074
    @larevival4074 Рік тому +20

    So glad you worked through those first bumpy years! And we all appreciate your vulnerability and transparency.

  • @amyroby9526
    @amyroby9526 Рік тому +5

    “see the negative more clearly” 😂

  • @jasminelaury736
    @jasminelaury736 8 місяців тому +1

    Prayers for our pastor and his family: His wife has been battling brain cancer for 13-14 years. She lost her battle of cancer and went to be with Jesus.

  • @nicolestrickland90
    @nicolestrickland90 Рік тому +10

    Having sex when mad is still icky as hell. Just saying.

    • @lucamackenzie9229
      @lucamackenzie9229 Рік тому

      So you want to tell them what to do in their marriage? You do you and they do theirs. And OF COURSE when something works for your relationship then you're happy to give this advise to others too. 😅 So no, it's not icky.

    • @kellevichy
      @kellevichy Місяць тому

      @@lucamackenzie9229 Yeah, it is icky. It's sex through corrosion and there is a four letter word that beings with R for that because I can assure it's not Morgan's idea.

  • @AlexB-bz8lx
    @AlexB-bz8lx Рік тому +12

    Thanks for being vulnerable guys. Having a thought is different then entertaining and meditating on the thought without communicating anything.

  • @JamieTreetalker
    @JamieTreetalker Рік тому +2

    So, I'm just wondering when Paul here is going to tell Morgan that he's gay. If she doesn't know, she hasn't been paying attention.

  • @benjamintobias9055
    @benjamintobias9055 Рік тому +2

    Years later, I am still fascinated by your relationship. It's not perfect but you are trying to perfect it. It has real ups and downs. God Bless both of you for sharing.

  • @purelightapologetics4930
    @purelightapologetics4930 Рік тому +4

    I don’t think it was wise for Paul and Morgan to do this kind of video when they’re already in an emotionally vulnerable place and not 100% resolved with each other. UA-cam is not as important as your marriage. You think your marriage is strong and can handle it; maybe it is, but a lit of things like this are not healthy. Why couldn’t you do a different video when you’re still working through emotional disagreements?

  • @SunshineBloom777
    @SunshineBloom777 Рік тому +20

    I really really really value you all sticking it out those first few years of marriage! You guys have something just beautiful together and I love watching you both together, such a blessing! Always appreciate the honesty too! God bless

  • @AaronShu
    @AaronShu Рік тому +12

    This is different and refreshing! I thoroughly enjoyed it.

  • @iainmcclain
    @iainmcclain Рік тому +1

    Do a part 2. Y'all were real and you are both amazing. Thank you. This was wonderful.

  • @megalopolis2015
    @megalopolis2015 Рік тому +5

    Seriously Morgan, an hour is too long? Gadzooks, girlie. :0)
    One benefit of knowing my beloved for a long time before marriage is that we could become equally yoked, as well as work out a lot of the kinks. When we say our vows, we will both know how much we really mean them, because we have already lived it to a fair degree. It continues even now, because I went to take care of my mother long-term the day after he proposed. He has been amazing. Every relationship and person is different, but this has been our lives and challenges as we struggle to eventually become one.
    I'm grateful that things are so much better for you guys now. Much Love and many blessings.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +1

      ❤️

    • @morgianasartre6709
      @morgianasartre6709 Рік тому +3

      For real, I thought she would say something like 3-4 hours, one hour is like the norm in my mind lol

  • @zareakirby7991
    @zareakirby7991 Рік тому +10

    The juicy question starts at 14:05

  • @megan7506
    @megan7506 Рік тому +19

    At first glance, I thought that you guys were drinking wine! Out of curiosity, do you two ever drink or have a glass of wine? Not that it matters either way - to each their own!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  Рік тому +18

      Paul will have a glass occasionally 😊 I don’t like the way alcohol makes me feel lol.

    • @nia5128
      @nia5128 Рік тому +1

      I was thinking that too lol

  • @teairraweiss4195
    @teairraweiss4195 11 місяців тому +2

    My parents stayed together through infidelity. I was a product of an affair from my dad & his wife stayed by his side and raised me like her own flesh & blood ❤️

    • @noone-jw7nd
      @noone-jw7nd 10 місяців тому

      I hope your birth mum is ok too xx

  • @genasseeceline
    @genasseeceline Рік тому +7

    Oh my heck this was great 😂😅😂 so many emotions 😳😕😂

  • @GenesisSincere1
    @GenesisSincere1 Рік тому +26

    Another thing. That laughter was really a loud cry. I felt it. The body language. Paul looks at her knowing how his wife is feeling he immediately grabs her hands and kiss her to reassure that emotional connection or hey I love you response. Wow! like they said keep it real and raw. I love how he quickly responded to his wife. Sorry people I can't help it. I'm very observant.

  • @BrierKristin
    @BrierKristin Рік тому +30

    I have encountered ungrounded thoughts of divorce in my early years of marriage while my husband legitimately never has. . . I think this may have something to do with personality/temperament and not so much with overall love and commitment. Thank you guys for your sweet and vulnerable videos.

  • @thejess121205
    @thejess121205 Рік тому +17

    When Morgan teared up...I teared up!! I am so glad for the honesty but sometimes the honest truth hurts.

  • @openlybookish
    @openlybookish Рік тому +2

    This is a spicer round than Matt and Abbey's was. 😳

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime Рік тому +1

    In this season, with 3 busy kids, I have that “first time” complaint sometimes. Because I’m tired! I understand wanting to savor it and enjoy it… but I need 8 hours of sleep too so….

  • @swedish9319
    @swedish9319 Рік тому +1

    Bruh really brought up her period like it matters and it's a youtube video wtf is wrong with him?!?💀

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 Рік тому +2

    FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING
    JOHN 3:16

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability 🙏

  • @hoc1992
    @hoc1992 Рік тому +4

    thanks for the real and the truth. Great video you two

  • @2011blueman
    @2011blueman Рік тому +2

    Creepy cult-like video.

  • @maryjmama46
    @maryjmama46 Рік тому +2

    15:02 my heart broke 💔😢

  • @dliz325
    @dliz325 Рік тому +2

    You guys aren’t really my style but major props for getting vulnerable and real

  • @Nessa.Chavez
    @Nessa.Chavez 4 місяці тому +1

    Ew these comments suck 😭 people, calm down. You don’t know their personal struggles. Thank God they’re committed.

  • @KAyLA_K
    @KAyLA_K Рік тому +4

    Love y’all’s honestly!!❤️

  • @waluiginumberone4962
    @waluiginumberone4962 Рік тому +2

    Wow

  • @Phoenix_7568
    @Phoenix_7568 Рік тому +3

    Oh my god her response to the divorce card 😢

    • @KonamiKonami
      @KonamiKonami Рік тому +3

      Do not take the Lord's name in vain.

  • @sarahsingsforchrist
    @sarahsingsforchrist Рік тому +1

    Is the word "rehash" what you were looking for, halfway through the vid at the "sex when mad" question?

  • @johannastromberg1224
    @johannastromberg1224 Рік тому +1

    This reminds me a little bit of the game Michael Knowls plays with his guests.

  • @chelseatomlan363
    @chelseatomlan363 Рік тому

    Definitely some laughter here, love the realness 😆🙏🏻.

  • @Grace-tg4oy
    @Grace-tg4oy Рік тому +5

    "I thought about divorce." I mean yeah you have the least amount of chemistry I have ever seen.

  • @natebredeweg5351
    @natebredeweg5351 Рік тому +17

    Haven’t caught up with yalls content in years. Honestly both seem so much more mature. Paul especially want to commend you for listening to your wife well and encouraging her! 🎉❤ love the content!

  • @emulove777
    @emulove777 Рік тому +5

    I love this video, it shows how much you guys truthfully trusting each other. Plus I love how you both are relying on Jesus and thinking about him in these questions. Me being single wanting a good healthy Christian marriage. Then you guys have to have that evil question about divorce. I just don’t like that word because it feels like you’re giving up on each other. Marriage should be a blessing but Satan wants you to give up. This is why it’s so important to read your Bible and grow a relationship with Jesus Christ so he could help you With your life and your marriage. Paul and Morgan are great examples to watch because they lean on Jesus not on themselves.

  • @priscillaahlers
    @priscillaahlers Рік тому +1

    I love y’all so much! Which I could’ve met y’all in Florida this past weekend❤ Also, love this video! Definitely made me laugh!

  • @hansmuller9010
    @hansmuller9010 Рік тому +1

    Please make a part 2

  • @michaelramsey2006
    @michaelramsey2006 Рік тому +11

    Love you guys, I almost cried with you, Morgan. Glad you guys got it all worked out🤣

  • @trevsedgwick3324
    @trevsedgwick3324 Рік тому +1

    Hi guys I’ve been divorced from my wife for almost 3 years she has BPD and we have a small child! I desperately want to write her a letter telling her my thoughts on why our marriage ended and how it was almost destined to end! But mostly to tell her how I miss her and still care for her, first is this a good idea and how the hell do I start and put together such a letter? Any advice from you would be welcome.

  • @karaa7595
    @karaa7595 Рік тому +10

    LOTS of amazing couples have the D word cross their mind in anger. Heck my hubs and I have thought about life if one of us were to die first LOL. But we're crazy in love and these times have only made us fall more in love. ❤️

  • @solochristo65
    @solochristo65 Рік тому +1

    How can any guy think of divorcing this woman? I'm not saying she's perfect........

  • @1912mrberns
    @1912mrberns Рік тому +1

    The divorce answer shocked me cause divorce has never been an option for us.

    • @morgianasartre6709
      @morgianasartre6709 Рік тому +2

      They clearly said it was never an option for them either, just having a thought is not the same as heavily entertaining it.

  • @sophialyle7593
    @sophialyle7593 Рік тому +2

    Morgan looks so pretty in this omg

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime Рік тому

    I appreciate the honesty about considering divorce-marriage is a dying to self.

  • @geena160
    @geena160 Рік тому +1

    Thanks guys for the fun content! 😅

  • @cottagecorebakery
    @cottagecorebakery Рік тому +2

    😟

  • @sheworkssmart
    @sheworkssmart 6 місяців тому

    I really appreciate your honesty for everything. We need more christians like you! 🙌

  • @ohbillytv179
    @ohbillytv179 Рік тому +10

    DO a part 2. This is very helpful to a lot of people including me. I enjoy seeing how real things are and raw.

  • @famswagg
    @famswagg Рік тому +1

    Great video on marriage and being honest! People in the comments are a little too opinionated...

  • @GenesisSincere1
    @GenesisSincere1 Рік тому +7

    Wow this is amazing! Sorry I'm kind of commenting as I'm watching. Sign of stress or being tense is hands touching the face a lot(Paul) or not being able to seat still(Morgan). Notice Morgan's laughter as she says yeah rough few yrs of marriage as she touches her face wipe her tears immediately goes to serious mode. And the look she gave Paul before she started talking. Like man this hurts! but in the end she knows there doing it for a bigger cause. Praise God! Love it. That's it I'm done lol.

  • @tearosegumaer3067
    @tearosegumaer3067 Рік тому +10

    I have NEVER and will NEVER, consider divorce. It brings me to tears for anyone who has gone threw it. And I have seen it first hand and it will always brake my heart even year later. The brake down of a marriage is my biggest fear and the saddest thing to happen. I’m literally heart broken for any one who’s gone threw that because I fell the grief The Lord dose. I also would never in a million year kick my husband out of bed. People joke about it when we are messing around and they say “ oh your sleeping on the couch” yea never because no matter what regardless of how we feel I will ALWAYS need and want to go to bed with my husband. ❤

  • @solarjudgement4575
    @solarjudgement4575 Рік тому

    Can you go into a little bit more detail on the intentional dating in terms of key things you should ask, what exactly should you look for and why when it comes to experiences like spending time with family, friends, etc? I've seen a couple videos you guess made addressing briefly some of these things about some basic questions you can ask in the beginning. But in order to know if the person is someone you want to marry, what boxes need to be checked aside from mutual love and submission to God and mutual attraction and basic chemistry?