This Homeschool Mom Morning Routine WORKS | DITL SERIES Part 1 | HOMESCHOOL MOM CONFESSIONS
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- Join me for PART 1 in a homeschool mom ditl (day in the life of a homeschool mom of 6). Homeschool Mama Friends out there, I've read your comments and heard you, as requested this series will have more DETAILS. I couldn't fit everything in one video, so this is PART 1 and in it I share most of my (homeschool mom) morning routines. I have ADHD, a homeschooling ADHD teenager, and tween and so bit's of that are reflected here. This year I'm homeschooling two in high school, plus kids in 7th, 4th, 2nd grades and preschool/preK.
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In part 2 I'm sharing WHAT KEEPS ME GOING after 13 years of homeschooling and how I handle attitude problems (mine and the kids).
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If you would like to learn more about how I manage homeschool schedules and routines watch these next;
Homeschool Plan With Me (plan a semester + remaining years)
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Homestead Homeschool Plan With Me (managing life + homeschool)
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Back To Homeschool
• Video
ADHD Homeschooling playlist
• Homeschooling And ADHD
More DITL Video's
• Playlist
Our Big Move & Homesteading!
• Homesteading Lifestyle
PLANNING HOME HIGH SCHOOL
• Video
It's not possible for a homeschool mama to do it all, and therapists agree that kids need some age appropriate chores to help them learn teamwork & life skills. MY attractive CHORE CHART SYSTEM can help!
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Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:39 Updates & Confession Time
02:59 Morning Routine, Getting Kids Started, Chores & Chit Chat- things that work for us
05:34 Making Breakfast & Chit Chat-
12:30 Getting ready for school
13:58 Morning Meeting Time!
21:42 Prayer Time & Assignments
24:12 My Planner
24:36 Planning with my high schooler
25:02 Getting Started with the younger kids
Hello! I'm Shayla, a homesteading homeschool mom to 6 wildlings, & wife to one. We're a big, Jesus loving, God fearing family & we love to laugh!
Hubby & I are second generation homeschoolers, & have been homeschooling our children from the start-since around 2009. We were raised unconventionally, and our parents utilized homesteading before it was trendy, so it was a goal and dream of ours to do the same-but it's only been recently that we have been able to bring this dream to full potential. Recently the Heavenly Father brought to life our dream that we've had for over 25 years and enabled us to buy a mountain homestead fixer upper, so join us in the adventures and fun here at our new homeschool/homestead! Be sure to subscribe (I try to upload weekly).
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If you would like to learn more about how I manage homeschool schedules and routines watch these next;
Homeschool Plan With Me (plan a semester + remaining years)
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Homestead Homeschool Plan With Me (managing life + homeschool)
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8t2Z...
Back To Homeschool
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This has to be the most realistic UA-cam video I’ve seen yet….. This right here is REAL MOMMY LIFE!!!😂😂❤❤
Thank you, Serena!
Oh the sighs and all the mental load of preparing this and getting the kids to do work while you are doing something else. I see you. It's so much. Thank you for the real and lovely DITL.
You have no idea how much this video is helping me. The Lord has made it very clear that I am to homeschool all three of my children from now on. At first I was only homeschooling my eighth grader because of middle school nightmares but in the past month, he has told me to bring my first grader home and because I already had a preschooler. I am now home schooling an eighth grader, first grader and preschooler.
This morning in my prayer time, he said that I need to make home schooling a priority above all else so in my despair lol, I turned to UA-cam to find someone who is doing the same.
This video, the realness, the layout, hearing all the things that I hear on a daily basis, from my children come from yours is extremely settling. I know Youtubing and homeschooling may be extremely hard but please do not stop sharing your life on UA-cam. I know it’s helping many, many mommies ♥️ I pray for your strength, agility, and the abundance of grace, as I pray the same things for myself lol ❤
This comment brought me to tears. Thank you for your kind words, and your prayers. I'll pray for you as well. We're not alone! God bless you.
@@mountainhomesteadfamily 😌♥️ I voice texted the comment (it’s quicker), and now I noticed all of the errors! 😫😆 btw, I just purchased a few of the toys/manipulatives you suggested in another video from Amazon 👍🏾 I’m sure the kiddos will enjoy them.
@@FaeganAdams I use voice text too and it always gets me into trouble too, lol! Thank you so much for using the links! Believe it or not, we still have almost all the toys from that haul in working condition and the kids and their cousins and friends love them still to this day which is shocking to me. Usually the pieces or the appeal are lost with most toys after a week or two but not so with those ones.
I hope your littles enjoy them!
I needed this!! 😂 I felt your sigh when your little one was whining about handwriting. That’s me every day with my son over his handwriting!! 😂 seriously, thank you for being real and sharing your life!
Oh mama, the mixing up of the day old coffee then the new coffee being cold is so relatable 😂
It's so refreshing seeing a home that isn't pinterest perfect and the kiddos not immediately falling into line with what you say. Just so real
My little 3 year old joined in on your prayer 🙏
Oh, God bless your 3 year old, that's the sweetest thing ever ❤️!
Oh my word 😭 I’m so happy I’m not alone. Been feeling pretty helpless most days and leaning towards giving up homeschooling as well… 😭❤️🙏🏻
.. such a BEAUTIFUL day in the life.. helped me sort of find peace and grace in my own life and reset my mind to start a new homeschool routine. Thanks for the raw and unedited content and sharing the family meeting!! I struggle where In the world to start off in the morning and what classes to tackle! Really appreciate you!!!!
Ah, no Dear, you aren't alone. The devil just works overtime to make us think we are so we will give up because he knows we are making differences. Thank you for the feedback, Brittany, it's encouraging to me and I'm so glad this was helpful to you.
I’m subscribing right now! We are in a “learning obedience phase” and I’ve started asking them to respond with “Yes, Mommy”. And I also tend to skip breakfast and get cranky
I love the rawness of this. Stay blessed dear momma.
Thank you! You too!
Ow dang that deep huff of breathe when your telling her about the handwriting. I looked around puzzled like does she live this same life as me 😂 😅?!? Sooo relatable. Was so comforting to be able to
Relate!!! Thanks for sharing momma!!!
I considered editing that part out, but then I realized the Mama's out there that would not be able to relate to that would be far and few between! I left it so the majority would know they are not alone!
Oh my goodness this video is the most real video. It’s my favorite now to go back to for encouragement that I’m not alone. I literally had this same conversation with my kids this morning 😅
My husband found your account this morning while searching for some home remodeling/decorating ideas for our first home. And I'm SO glad he did!! I've only watched a handful of your videos but I've truly been blessed by them. I resonate so deeply with much of what I've heard you share and admire your heart to glorify God and make content for other Christian women. Further up and in, sister! Have a glorious Lord's Day!
Awe, I loved reading this comment! We must have been meant to "meet" here! Love it! Blessings to you ☺💛💛🙏
Haha you are a kindred spirit. It's like watching myself. Ive only been fully homeschooling 4 years as my oldest is 8 but we have also been moving since starting to have kids and are in the middle of building our house and homestead. Everything you said and did is the story of my life. Thank you for sharing.
You are welcome!! Thank you for being here!
I have adhd myself and my oldest son also has it. Some days I neeed to be outside!!! I cannot stand being indoors some days. For me being in nature reminds me how blessed we are that I am capable and most importantly it was MY dream to stay home and raise my own kids. Nature keeps me grounded especially since I do not have my family’s “approval” for staying home with my kids. They make fun of me, they interrupt lessons so I can do favors for them or simply cook for them. Its funny they know I love to cook and bake and they will randomly show up ON PURPOSE to get me behind on my schooling. Then they casually say “see you are not cut up for this”, or “you did not go to college for this”. It is so annoying. Homeschooling is not easy, very rewarding but with this kind of attitude from family it is very very hard. And yes I have spoken to them about their attitude towards my home, they do not care!
Hello Arwen, thank you for sharing! I have a couple videos that tell how to handle people like your family. Watch these, they will help you!!! What your family is doing sounds rather abusive, to be honest and you do not have to put up with that. I don't know if it's in this video, but what some of us homeshcool mom's eventually did (in addition to the tips in the videos) is get a sign for the door that says, "School in session, please come back later", and then do not answer the door. Dont' take the phone calls. Here's the first video;
ua-cam.com/video/AS-Q6nFLK_8/v-deo.html
Part way through this video I shared more about how to set boundaries too
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I hope these help you, Arewen. I know how challenging that is, especially with the ADHD factor!
Hey did you record a day in my life, because this just seems so relatable. Especially the please sit at the table to do your work and the, "I don't wanna". Then you explain why and they're like, "fine".😂
This was lovely. Thank you for bringing us along for some honesty and some inspiration! God bless!
You are welcome, thank you for your comment. 🥰
This was very good, it helps to know how to organize my days when the time comes. Your children know how to be responsible which is encouraging, thanks for the video!
I’m glad no voice over thank you Real the way it should be!
Hello Brenda, I do some voice overs, especially lately because of time constraints, but I always try to keep the real stuff so people know they are not the only ones, lol!
Eating is a must. I learned that the hard way today. its was after 4:00 and I am eating for the first time today. We did our first day of school and I was just so caught up with getting school going and helping everyone. That was not good. I love the prayer after the meeting. I loved the video, all of it. I enjoyed seeing the real time things. I am sure that it took you a lot of your time, but I am so thankful!! I would love to hear about how you end your school day and if you have any routines to started dinner, afternoon activities, and then also house work. I would love to know how you might connect with your preschooler in the afternoons too. By the way... loved the first, second, third, and even forth breakfast lol that is so very very very true here too.
Hello Alesha! It is so hard to remember to eat when there are important things going on! Some of the answers to the things you would like to see will be in part 2. I might end up making a part three though to answer the rest! Thank you!
I love the realness of this video! I can so relate except that I have 3 with adhd and 2 of those have learning difficulties so it makes things a little crazy for sure. I also have a 3 yr old that constantly interrupts, talks sings, and just causes a ruckus whenever she can lol.
I know the struggle! I'm glad this has helped you, it's an answer to prayer to help others. Blessings to you!
I just loved this video. I hope you do make more when convenient. You are amazing!
Thank you, I will!!
I enjoyed this ditl video! I also like your new kitchen stove and white cabinets!
Thank you!!❤️ There are two more parts coming in this series!
love and appreciate your content!! than you for sharing your life with us
You are so welcome!
Thank you! I love authenticity, and this was authentically truthful and beautiful!❤
We love the Hawaiian Dude! 😂😂😂❤. Your doing such a good job
Thank you 💛!
Good Morning ♡ Excited for this video !
I hope you enjoyed it 🥰
We have been wanting to buy a land and home but have been held back by any life circumstances such as budget and becoming caretakers of medically fragile family members. This means we are stuck in a rental that I feel I can’t make a home. We have a very small garden and a few chickens which helps. But we are a family of 5 in a very small 2 bedroom mobile home which isn’t in the best condition. It makes me feel unmotivated because I can’t even put too much money into making them home the way we want because we’re trying so hard to save to move. It’s very stressful.
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Sounds like my mornings! Lol
Hey Shayla!!! I adore your channel! Thank you for sharing so much with us. I was wondering if you are planning on posting your gluten free sourdough instructions? I also have Hashimoto’s and hypothyroidism (I was diagnosed in 2nd grade!) and am just now realizing that I have been in pretty much a state of constant flare up for years. My doctors have been denying the fact that food affects how I feel 🤦🏻♀️ Anyways. Would love to see how you do your gluten free sourdough ❤️✨ Have a good day!
Hello Granny Wilder! I have written it down to incorporate gf sourdough into future content! You are not the only one wanting this. Thank for letting me know you are interested in this!
This is great, thank you! I'm wondering for the kids that can read through the day's plans and independently do their work, do you check on their work, or have any tips how to make that smooth? One of my kids can work independently for cognition but in the bookwork, she does the absolute minimal work. Hard to know how to set them on cruise control while they might be not doing what they're supposed to do. Any ideas? Thx so much 🙂
Hello Erin, I'm sorry it took so long to respond, I've had an influx of comments flood in lately! Yes, I do check their work and to make sure they are doing more than just the bare minimum I make them set a time and work for a specific amount of time.
One way that is hard for them at first but is very, very good for them is to ask them to narrate back to you what it was they learned. If they can explain what they learned, then they really did learn it fairly well. As I said, it is one of the harder ways for them-it's harder for example then a written test, but it's a better way to see if they truly learned it.
Hello! 🙂 I'm so thankful to have found your videos! I'm curious, you'd mentioned it's so critical for both parents to be involved when there's neurodivergent kiddos, and now i know your husband is a great contractor :-), so I'm wondering how do you balance things together? My husband is a sub-contractor (painting, handyman, etc) and is often so tired at night so I do feel bad to ask for his help. But ya wondering how you do homeschooling with your husband? Thank you!
Hello Erin, I'm working on a homeschool day in the life right now, I'll share how we go about this in that video!
@@mountainhomesteadfamily thank you!☺
Would you consider please doing a voice over instead of some of the music? I like your videos a lot, learn so much from you. But I listen to it as I go about my house work and not actually watching, missing a lot😁
Hello! I get it! Have you seen that I have a podcast here for people like you that prefer this? If you go to my channel you should shee the podcast Playlist.
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ps I'm wondering if you have any tips in the area of kids pushing back on what they need to do? All 3 of my kids are strong-willed and although that can be a good thing maybe at times, it's so exhausting to have them fight me on nearly everything. I so don't know what to do... (do you hear my crying?? Lol)
Hello! I just filmed a DITL and it will answer some of these questions for you! I hope to publish it soon. ☺️
@@mountainhomesteadfamily awesome, thank you!💜👍 God bless your homeschool day!
When the kids were babies how did you do it? I’m finding it difficult bc my baby needs so much of my time. I baby wear to do lessons or do them as soon as she wakes up when she is the most pleasant and independent. I do attachment parenting so that’s probably why it’s a little more challenging. She contact naps. The kids are 7 years apart. The older one will not do homeschool work independently unless it’s Science. I suspect she had adhd. I believe hubby and I do as well.
Jennifer, this is a good question. It is hard! Especially if there is ADHD in the mix. I had a video on this that I did around 3 or 4 years back, but it needs to be re made. It's been on my list of videos to redo for about a month. I am hoping to get to that for you and others in January.
@@mountainhomesteadfamily oh that sounds great! I’m looking forward to it!