wait wait.. I just reviewed what the first girl said. when she was asked about an old but very rich guy, she says *as long as there is chemistry* gold is such a good chemistry hehe 😆😁
Yep. Well said. For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember: Women objectify men for their money. And always have. It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise. The internet has been invaluable in exposing this.
That would be a good one. I will say from what I've heard some couples do. As to how? Well it's probably they're less stressed and show greater appreciation for each other. It's easier to keep the romance alive when you're not exhausted and you feel like your spouse thinks you're great.
5 years ago I casually met a Japanese girl who is 30 years younger than me, I'm not rich, but a great love broke out between us anyway, I don't know how to explain it clearly, we're fine and that's it! I don't think that ultimately the age difference is overly important in relationships, as long as the older one is in at least presentable physical shape LOL
You girls continue doing a terrific job of interviewing. I think your channel is one of the best ones for giving insights into the mindset of Japanese women, which tends to be considerably different than that of Western women.
Sweet! I'm 27 on my way to becoming a Data Analyst with a dream of living/working in Japan one day. If I make it there, say when I'm 30~33, I won't be too old to get cute Japanese women! 😁
called a "yellow voice". They throw this shit out everytime they answer a phone, and then it's back to a baritone of "nani shiteriuno?!?!?!?" You're thinking you're with a yakuza.
Japanese women love younger guys. I've seen a 26 year old chase a 19 year old boy. However some want way older. I think the women in this video aren't telling the full story.
I find it strange that so many of these young women have only had boyfriends (exactly) their own age. I am a guy, but it doesn't change much, and the reason I find it so strange is that I don't think that I've ever dated a girl that was exactly my age. I've dated both younger and older and I think that most have actually been 1-2 years older than me and as for the extreme ends, it would be 5 or 6 years in either direction. So, still close to, and evenly distributed around my own age (which is to be expected because I would meet them through the circle of people I associate with, which would naturally be close to my age), but to only have had partners that were one's own age exactly, it would have to be a pretty big coincidence, or for the person to ever only associate with people of the same age, which is kind of strange.
I've a story to tell. My best friend is a bartender, we met ten years ago, I'm 11yrs her senior. She a new friend same age as her. Ok?. Miss P. So one day was talking about an older man she was dating. In fact, it was one of her dad's friends. She was going about how beautiful he made her feel respectful, made her feel like woman interests they shared. Description: Miss P is a bit chunky, pear shaped, cute, about 5'9" or 10". And I thought that is very cool and heartwarming and I smiled. He wanted to continue and not be a "fling". She decided no. ???(Me). She said she couldn't be seen in public because he was older and it would embarrass her to be seen with him. I looked at coldly after that looked at my best friend and said I'll be outside with a drink it's too smoky inside. I swear, if I didn't, id go off on her and call every name in the book applicable to someone of her temperament. I WAS PISSED!!! So, ladies never judge us by looks, by age. There's far too generalization on the mature man most of it way, way wrong. And FYI, there are, a good number of us, in fact, that LAUGH at Viagra.
These were very sensible young women being interviewed. However it doesn’t seem any of them understood what the term “older man” means- 2 to 4 years older is fairly normal (unless you live in Korea!). I’ve known Japanese women who were 20 years younger, not gold diggers, who were interested in dating, so it is possible in Japan.
Haha everywhere in the comments are grandpas hoping to find a young Japanese girl. Let me tell you that’s not realistic. If you’re not rich your chances are nill.
First girl : 10 years older is the limit for me Interviewer : What if he was way older and has money ? First girl : Age doesn't matter as long as there's chemistry Interviewer : Age isn't the most important to you First girl : That's right 🤨
Yep. Well said. For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember: Women objectify men for their money. And always have. It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise. The internet has been invaluable for exposing this.
age really doesn't matter. On July 27th 2007, my wife of 29.5 years died from a long illness. I was devastated. Who would want an old man of 67 is what I thought. On Aug 15, 2007 I met a Philippina who was 16 years younger than me. We were married on Oct 25, 2007. This year in 2024 we will be married for 17 years. I am not rich, but I do have a home. Chemistry is the most important thing along with communication in a marriage.
I don't think 10 year differences too big a deal. But it does depend on each others age and maturity level. Sure women in their early 20s look the best objectively. But many still are barely past the maturity of a teenager. (at least in the States) Age gap does matter because latter in life you don't want your partner to die while you still have at least a good solid 20 more years to go.
I'm 60 living in Japan for 23 years,I get hit on from mostly married women in their late 30s.some have kids some don't .I stay away from anyone under 30.But their many that want a relationship.
I don't think these girls really know what an older man is. 3 to 4 years is still in the same age group. Mature is at least 10-15 years older. Plus it seems like everything has to do with money. That's not a very good stereotype for a Japanese woman. women who only care about money is like having a dependent which is basically like having a child to take care of
4 years or 3 years older? That's adorable! 😂 That's actually pretty much your same age! 😉 My biggest age gap has been 17 years. I tend to date younger women but it's not really concious. We're attracted to who we're attracted to.
It's also more common and far more appropriate than what you are doing. It's like a daughter dating her dad. Absolutely ridiculous. Unfortunately you old farts won't stop your stupidity, but at least girls dating their own age is far more common.
Conclusion: It doesn't matter how old a guy is, how ugly he might be, what work he does, what habits he has, what interests him, etc. So long as his net worth is seven figures and above in US dollars, he'll have no shortage of female admirers who want him.
Yep. Well said. For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember: Women objectify men for their money. And always have. It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise. The internet has been invaluable for exposing this.
That works in the west. Looks is still looked for in Japan. As a guy that always work on my appearance, I appreciate that. But of course, personality trumps every quality.
The women interviewed dated mostly their own age group with the one exception of ten years age gap. Might be more interesting to interview women who have dated older men say 10~20 year age gap. That would make it more interesting perhaps.
Back in the days my ex JP gf was 20 I was 23. She said her ex bf was 40 😅 crazy gap. And now im 40! I also have a few girls friends that said they also dated guys in their 40 when they were in their 20s' but its more of a sugar daddy! Anyways, Now its the audiences to ask the interviewer the same questions. Would she date an older guy?
Thanks for the interviews; however, I have to laugh when all of the interviewees think that they are dating an "older" man when he is 2-4 years their senior. Rather odd.
A lot of Gen X and Millenial guys have more swag and youth (and usually more money) than Gen Z guys. Young women will date 20 years up if the guy is well maintained. Most of the Gen Z guys are short on T.
Idk where you are from but Genz dudes are far more youthful and well maintained while older generations. They are also far more aggressive when pursuing women than older guys.
@@alrose8870 More youthful they can be, but its not common. More maintained, that's more common because of the metrosexuality. But only so much in necessary. And older guys are less aggressive because they have game. They depend on charm not flex. (And that works much better.) I've been to multiple countries. The Gen Z difference is worldwide. It's even in places that are not so WWW connected. It's like it's an earth cycle or something.
@@oodo2908 by aggressive I'm mean game, or as the genz calls it, Rizz. The charm of the older men is not the issue, its that the younger guys are always there and generally, the gen Z girls prefer them because they are familiar. I don't blame them either. Older dudes had their opportunity when they were young. Why are they trying to swoop up the girls meant for the new generation? All it tells me is that y'all failed when you were young and attempting to make up for lost time. Metrosexuality is your excuse? A well maintained guy has a good body, and does Not have a face full of pimples. How far will your charm get you looking like a slob. And men embracing a little bit of their feminine side is valued by Asian girls. Ive been to Japan.... Their taste in men is far different from western women.
@@alrose8870 You're definitely young. Men always want young women, no matter what age or how successful. Leonardo di Caprio is a totally normal guy. There is competition and it will always be that way. Women aren't meant for anyone. They will give turns as they see fit. They will look past familiarity and age gaps and weigh the whole of a man. I wish you were right. East Asian women would be marrying and making babies if you were right. But you are very wrong. The birth rate is telling the story. And the suicide rate. It looks like the East Asian race will be extinct in 75 years. Where do you get this idea that older men are slovenly and full of pimples? That is more younger men than anything. In Japan they are called 'hikikomori', I believe. That's the Asmongold type in N. America and they are generally in their lower 30's or less. It's Asian women's taste in men that makes older men more attractive. Older men have a hard time in the West. Look how many older man - younger woman couples are all over Asia. It's waaaay more than Western countries. You've got so many things backwards, man.
Let see I'm 40 years old, I'm 5'11, I'm bald and I suffer from mental disabilities would I have a chance at finding a gf in Japan? MMmmmm NOPE they wouldn't want me and its sad for me
I feel like you would get way better answers asking "What if the much older guy is a really successful person" instead of "have a lot of money". Almost all Japanese girls (western girls are a bit different...) would answer that money doesn't matter because they do not want to look like they care too much about money.
but it's still a lie isn't it? I don't really care about money actually 'as a guy' as long there is love on both sides and you show to each other, but I can just talk about myself. There are heart types out there (also romantic) and hard realists. I prefer to have dreams than just talking about money... A lot of people find out that you can't really buy 'luck' or true love. You can buy a lot of unimportant bs and waste your time, or gonna go for a walk in nature, explore the world around you, finding good friends and mature talks. I prefer intelligence more than look on a women. Thx for reading.
Do you see the double standards we have in society!? If a woman ask another woman how old is she there's no taboo. But if a Man was to ask the same question soon is rude and it's a taboo. That's not fair and is BS. If you agree hit like
I guess it's universal around the world.... 5-10 years older is acceptable to date but as soon as they hear "really really rich" then age is just a number, lol
An old, poor man is an old man.
An old, rich man is a rich man.
wait wait.. I just reviewed what the first girl said.
when she was asked about an old but very rich guy, she says *as long as there is chemistry*
gold is such a good chemistry hehe 😆😁
Yeah,still think we're "all in it together???" We're not. That's all anyone is looking for. Someone else's bank account to land in...GET LOST.
@@SuperFlanders123 what do you mean by all in it together ?
@@dandanvers-kc9is One world,One love,acceptance of all. Never going to happen,simple as that.
Yep. Well said.
For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember:
Women objectify men for their money. And always have.
It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise.
The internet has been invaluable in exposing this.
Future topic for Japanese married women: Can a strong sexual relationship be maintained with their spouse AFTER their children are born?
That would be a good one. I will say from what I've heard some couples do. As to how? Well it's probably they're less stressed and show greater appreciation for each other. It's easier to keep the romance alive when you're not exhausted and you feel like your spouse thinks you're great.
Japanese women hate sex!!!!!
No, it's imposible
5 years ago I casually met a Japanese girl who is 30 years younger than me, I'm not rich, but a great love broke out between us anyway,
I don't know how to explain it clearly, we're fine and that's it!
I don't think that ultimately the age difference is overly important in relationships, as long as the older one is in at least presentable physical shape LOL
You two still together? If not, than that so called love wasn't so great.
I’m 53 and only dating young girls in Japan . Nothing to do with money just charm and a brain
How young we talking here?
you must be on God mode
Damn right. And the Gen Z girls are very mature for their age. It doesn't feel weird.
Japanese ladies are the best
You girls continue doing a terrific job of interviewing. I think your channel is one of the best ones for giving insights into the mindset of Japanese women, which tends to be considerably different than that of Western women.
Nice video, funny girl!
Interesting… I’m 43… I have dated Japanese women older… and younger… usually once they find out my Job as an engineer… they are more interested.. 🤔
Same same $$$$$
Sweet! I'm 27 on my way to becoming a Data Analyst with a dream of living/working in Japan one day. If I make it there, say when I'm 30~33, I won't be too old to get cute Japanese women! 😁
Same here, financial security seems to be an international desired quality.
@@planetz-976 pathetic
@@MarbleCat. How so ? When I'm quite a bit younger than most of these guys here, who are going for 20 year olds.
called a "yellow voice". They throw this shit out everytime they answer a phone, and then it's back to a baritone of "nani shiteriuno?!?!?!?" You're thinking you're with a yakuza.
Cool conversation. I hope you ask older women if they would date younger men in the future.
Of course they will. Depends on your age. But i dated 10’years older than me
But i am 36
Why? Wo ke isn't a thing in Japan. It's great
@AnAussieinNorway Has nothing to do with being woke tho. If that's your takeaway sit this one out slick.
Japanese women love younger guys. I've seen a 26 year old chase a 19 year old boy. However some want way older. I think the women in this video aren't telling the full story.
I find it strange that so many of these young women have only had boyfriends (exactly) their own age. I am a guy, but it doesn't change much, and the reason I find it so strange is that I don't think that I've ever dated a girl that was exactly my age.
I've dated both younger and older and I think that most have actually been 1-2 years older than me and as for the extreme ends, it would be 5 or 6 years in either direction. So, still close to, and evenly distributed around my own age (which is to be expected because I would meet them through the circle of people I associate with, which would naturally be close to my age), but to only have had partners that were one's own age exactly, it would have to be a pretty big coincidence, or for the person to ever only associate with people of the same age, which is kind of strange.
They are lying
I've a story to tell. My best friend is a bartender, we met ten years ago, I'm 11yrs her senior. She a new friend same age as her. Ok?. Miss P. So one day was talking about an older man she was dating. In fact, it was one of her dad's friends. She was going about how beautiful he made her feel respectful, made her feel like woman interests they shared. Description: Miss P is a bit chunky, pear shaped, cute, about 5'9" or 10". And I thought that is very cool and heartwarming and I smiled. He wanted to continue and not be a "fling". She decided no. ???(Me). She said she couldn't be seen in public because he was older and it would embarrass her to be seen with him. I looked at coldly after that looked at my best friend and said I'll be outside with a drink it's too smoky inside. I swear, if I didn't, id go off on her and call every name in the book applicable to someone of her temperament. I WAS PISSED!!! So, ladies never judge us by looks, by age. There's far too generalization on the mature man most of it way, way wrong. And FYI, there are, a good number of us, in fact, that LAUGH at Viagra.
These were very sensible young women being interviewed. However it doesn’t seem any of them understood what the term “older man” means- 2 to 4 years older is fairly normal (unless you live in Korea!). I’ve known Japanese women who were 20 years younger, not gold diggers, who were interested in dating, so it is possible in Japan.
Haha everywhere in the comments are grandpas hoping to find a young Japanese girl. Let me tell you that’s not realistic. If you’re not rich your chances are nill.
Your voice sounds a bit like Uchida Maaya :D
First girl : 10 years older is the limit for me
Interviewer : What if he was way older and has money ?
First girl : Age doesn't matter as long as there's chemistry
Interviewer : Age isn't the most important to you
First girl : That's right
🤨
Money talks 🤭
Yep. Well said.
For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember:
Women objectify men for their money. And always have.
It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise.
The internet has been invaluable for exposing this.
How about interviewing men and asking the same questions? This should be interesting.
Japanese man in 50-60yo looks
Like very fun and interesting, I’m in my 28yo feels like dead inside 😂
age really doesn't matter. On July 27th 2007, my wife of 29.5 years died from a long illness. I was devastated. Who would want an old man of 67 is what I thought. On Aug 15, 2007 I met a Philippina who was 16 years younger than me. We were married on Oct 25, 2007. This year in 2024 we will be married for 17 years. I am not rich, but I do have a home. Chemistry is the most important thing along with communication in a marriage.
You certainly didn't wait around
Lets have this same question asked to women who are in age range from 35 to 50. I would love to hear what they have to say
Answer is yes
I've talked to Japanese women that were 35 who I thought were 20. Bless melanin.
I don't think 10 year differences too big a deal. But it does depend on each others age and maturity level. Sure women in their early 20s look the best objectively. But many still are barely past the maturity of a teenager. (at least in the States) Age gap does matter because latter in life you don't want your partner to die while you still have at least a good solid 20 more years to go.
面白いインタビューですね！50代の自分が若く見えて、若い方と良く居るので若い女性が好きです！いい彼女出来る希望が増えました！気に入ったのでフォローさせて下さい！
But if I was Macleod, 4 centuries older, could I have just one small hope before loosing my head with a Japanese princess?
姫様
Loosing? Loosening perhaps. Or losing? I think if you're referring to Highlander, it would be "losing".
@@shizuokaBLUES yes you are right, but I wanted to put emphasis .. looosing the head for a princess.
I'm 60 living in Japan for 23 years,I get hit on from mostly married women in their late 30s.some have kids some don't .I stay away from anyone under 30.But their many that want a relationship.
I don't think these girls really know what an older man is. 3 to 4 years is still in the same age group. Mature is at least 10-15 years older. Plus it seems like everything has to do with money. That's not a very good stereotype for a Japanese woman. women who only care about money is like having a dependent which is basically like having a child to take care of
4 years or 3 years older? That's adorable! 😂
That's actually pretty much your same age! 😉
My biggest age gap has been 17 years. I tend to date younger women but it's not really concious. We're attracted to who we're attracted to.
It's also more common and far more appropriate than what you are doing. It's like a daughter dating her dad. Absolutely ridiculous.
Unfortunately you old farts won't stop your stupidity, but at least girls dating their own age is far more common.
They would be shocked by me - I’m 54, and my girlfriend is 34 😊
日本に行きたいなー
What about masayoshi son level of rich?😂
Matters most in my opinion
Conclusion: It doesn't matter how old a guy is, how ugly he might be, what work he does, what habits he has, what interests him, etc. So long as his net worth is seven figures and above in US dollars, he'll have no shortage of female admirers who want him.
Yep. Well said.
For all men have been demonised for years for "objectifying" women for their looks, remember:
Women objectify men for their money. And always have.
It's every bit as dehumanising (and even more exhausting as it hints at all the sh!t they want from you). Don't let any woman tell you otherwise.
The internet has been invaluable for exposing this.
That works in the west. Looks is still looked for in Japan. As a guy that always work on my appearance, I appreciate that. But of course, personality trumps every quality.
The women interviewed dated mostly their own age group with the one exception of ten years age gap. Might be more interesting to interview women who have dated older men say 10~20 year age gap. That would make it more interesting perhaps.
I don't think age matters as long as you are age appropriate when i was 44 i dated a 25 year old Japanese young lady we were cool it
Back in the days my ex JP gf was 20 I was 23. She said her ex bf was 40 😅 crazy gap. And now im 40! I also have a few girls friends that said they also dated guys in their 40 when they were in their 20s' but its more of a sugar daddy!
Anyways, Now its the audiences to ask the interviewer the same questions. Would she date an older guy?
You must interview a few gorgeous (kirei) japanese girls.... you'll find different opinions!!
It would be great if Honami answered these questions as well.
she literally did. did you watch the whole video bro?
I'm 69 dating a 61 yr old chinese lady who looks 48.
Yes, my wife is Chinese. They age better in the main.
Lies
Congrats 😆
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What is your job at the current moment? What is your dream job if no barriers are present?
私は45歳、イタリア人のエンジニアです。 25歳か30歳のかわいい日本人の女の子が私のガールフレンドになって結婚の可能性があると思いますか?? [..I speak English too...]
Why you don’t want 40yo woman? Japanese girl looks young in 40yo
Thanks for the interviews; however, I have to laugh when all of the interviewees think that they are dating an "older" man when he is 2-4 years their senior. Rather odd.
Oh pls, it all depends
Could you ask older women if they'd date younger guys?
I'd like to see this repeated with women 35-50 years of age.
Virginity required no one over 25
Narita Japan....
😂😂
Walking with my unicorn along the Mikasa River
Would be better to see more variation in the interviewees. Why not interview 30 and 40 year olds?
simply harder to find im guessing
4 years older is... barely older lol wtf
Why not if you are happy to be with that person.
A lot of Gen X and Millenial guys have more swag and youth (and usually more money) than Gen Z guys. Young women will date 20 years up if the guy is well maintained. Most of the Gen Z guys are short on T.
Idk where you are from but Genz dudes are far more youthful and well maintained while older generations. They are also far more aggressive when pursuing women than older guys.
@@alrose8870 More youthful they can be, but its not common. More maintained, that's more common because of the metrosexuality. But only so much in necessary. And older guys are less aggressive because they have game. They depend on charm not flex. (And that works much better.)
I've been to multiple countries. The Gen Z difference is worldwide. It's even in places that are not so WWW connected. It's like it's an earth cycle or something.
@@oodo2908 by aggressive I'm mean game, or as the genz calls it, Rizz. The charm of the older men is not the issue, its that the younger guys are always there and generally, the gen Z girls prefer them because they are familiar. I don't blame them either. Older dudes had their opportunity when they were young. Why are they trying to swoop up the girls meant for the new generation? All it tells me is that y'all failed when you were young and attempting to make up for lost time.
Metrosexuality is your excuse? A well maintained guy has a good body, and does Not have a face full of pimples. How far will your charm get you looking like a slob. And men embracing a little bit of their feminine side is valued by Asian girls. Ive been to Japan.... Their taste in men is far different from western women.
@@alrose8870 You're definitely young. Men always want young women, no matter what age or how successful. Leonardo di Caprio is a totally normal guy. There is competition and it will always be that way. Women aren't meant for anyone. They will give turns as they see fit. They will look past familiarity and age gaps and weigh the whole of a man.
I wish you were right. East Asian women would be marrying and making babies if you were right. But you are very wrong. The birth rate is telling the story. And the suicide rate. It looks like the East Asian race will be extinct in 75 years.
Where do you get this idea that older men are slovenly and full of pimples? That is more younger men than anything. In Japan they are called 'hikikomori', I believe. That's the Asmongold type in N. America and they are generally in their lower 30's or less.
It's Asian women's taste in men that makes older men more attractive. Older men have a hard time in the West. Look how many older man - younger woman couples are all over Asia. It's waaaay more than Western countries. You've got so many things backwards, man.
Let see I'm 40 years old, I'm 5'11, I'm bald and I suffer from mental disabilities would I have a chance at finding a gf in Japan?
MMmmmm NOPE they wouldn't want me
and its sad for me
Maybe you should ask the street girls i think you have a name for those young girls which ran away from home & just hang out in the streets...
I feel like you would get way better answers asking "What if the much older guy is a really successful person" instead of "have a lot of money". Almost all Japanese girls (western girls are a bit different...) would answer that money doesn't matter because they do not want to look like they care too much about money.
but it's still a lie isn't it? I don't really care about money actually 'as a guy' as long there is love on both sides and you show to each other, but I can just talk about myself. There are heart types out there (also romantic) and hard realists. I prefer to have dreams than just talking about money... A lot of people find out that you can't really buy 'luck' or true love. You can buy a lot of unimportant bs and waste your time, or gonna go for a walk in nature, explore the world around you, finding good friends and mature talks. I prefer intelligence more than look on a women. Thx for reading.
Women don’t give a shit about a “successful person”. They care about money only.
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Well you talking just a few years older, maybe you should have asked them about movie star who is decades older.
Well for you older gentlemen in their late 30’s early 40’s you guys can always come to Thailand. I’m dating a girl 18 years younger than me.
That is disgusting.
Based.
@@etvowlove is love
@@etvow "disgusting" only according to woke, modern, neo-liberal standards (e.g. feminism), but perfectly normal historically, and biblically.
@@sigmareaver680 Leave the young girls for young boys to have. Don't try to eat your daughter's friend. You had your share 20 years ago.
Do you see the double standards we have in society!? If a woman ask another woman how old is she there's no taboo. But if a Man was to ask the same question soon is rude and it's a taboo. That's not fair and is BS. If you agree hit like
The last woman had the best attitude towards age and financial situations of men.
Funny enough, she wasn't the best looking. To me, the girl right before her was stunning and she had a more strict outlook.
🎉🎉
I guess it's universal around the world.... 5-10 years older is acceptable to date but as soon as they hear "really really rich" then age is just a number, lol
Who cares?
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They all over
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if I meet the first girl I believe we would have chemistry, she's very beautiful