Don't mistake overprotective for genuine care... At some point, jealousy is not cute again. I had that and we lived together. He tried to isolate me from my friends and family, I had to give up my hobbies he said my evening aqua zumba course I joined was inappropriate and that it is not good for a woman to be on the street when it's getting dark. Ihad to stay in the house. Even at home, I was not allowed to invite my friends while he was coming and going whenever he wanted and I was not supposed to ask. He controlled me, even stalked me when I went out, telling me he saw me in this and that shop while I had no clue he was even close to me.,so I ended up almost paranoid turning around on the street to see if he followed me. He accused me of cheating on him while I was faithful. Telling me "you have boyfriend I know" for no reason. He beat me, strangled me, tried to push me in front of a car, threatened me with a knife so that I threw his things out on the street and exchanged my door lock. Normally I don't like public scene or drama but I exposed him. I was shouting out loud on the street the he is a woman beater so he got embarrassed and everybody could hear it. That made him pick his stuff and never coming back again. He told me all the time that "this (beating) is husband and wife and what happens in marriage (while we were not married actually) stays in marriage. Anyway nobody is interested in other people's problems and I should just shut up." Don't! Seek help, expose them, and go to the police even you don't have evidence. that's the best thing you can do. I was too intimidated by that time to call the police on him.he made me believe that I don't have evidence and that I will never be able to feel safe again and it would be my fault if something bad happened to my daughter. My advice : if his jealousy or" protection" is making you feeling unsettling that is maybe your gut instinct trying to warn you. If you constantly have the feeling that he is overreacting I would sit down and talk to him. If he comes up with "you belong to me, you're mine or stuff like that... Run!
I know this is off topic to this video but I have a question regarding dating. So whenever I go on a date or a meeting with a new person I met online for the first time, conversation ends up going well and then all of a sudden at the end of the date she says she doesn’t feel any attraction to me emotionally or physically. It happens every time I meet someone online. Is it me? is it them? How do you know that you’re not attracted to someone physically or emotionally after only meeting them for the first time?
Physically should be simple; they don’t find you attractive or find that they have any chemistry with you off the bat. If this happens consistently, I would say take a look at what you’re bringing to those dates...are you dressing and presenting yourself in the best way possible? Are you being honest in the date but also engaging? If it happens all the time, it could very well be you. Perhaps try dating with more specific parameters like only going on dates with people who share an interest with you so that there’s common ground already.
@@wuzittooya well to answer your questions yes I am. But even with people I have common interests with I still see people with no interest in me at all. And when I at least initiate conversation with someone I’m interested in. I start the conversation by talking about a common interest that this person and I have but sadly no matter how hard I try I either don’t get a response at all, I get shut down because I’m too young for them or I go on a first meeting with them and they’re still not seeing what I have to offer no matter how much of a nice guy I am
Well, sometimes it is just that people are more open online because of anonymity and they spend so much time on the internet and it is a lot easier for them to communicate through messages and when you meet them in person they act differently and shy and the person rather falls for the image you created than for the real you . Had that also that the mutual interest was there online, but when you meet, you don't feel so connected. Sometimes people have different expectations when you meet. Had that à couple of times as well, that after a first date the interest was no longer there on both sides. When you say you are always the nice guy maybe you show your interest too much. Sometimes that creates a sort of emotional pressure on a girl to like you back on that same high interest level and it makes you withdraw. Just take it easy and try to make an easy-going conversation without too much expectations . It might be easier to find somebody online, but maybe it is better to go out and try to meet somebody in real life where there is mutual interest.
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Don't mistake overprotective for genuine care... At some point, jealousy is not cute again. I had that and we lived together. He tried to isolate me from my friends and family, I had to give up my hobbies he said my evening aqua zumba course I joined was inappropriate and that it is not good for a woman to be on the street when it's getting dark. Ihad to stay in the house. Even at home, I was not allowed to invite my friends while he was coming and going whenever he wanted and I was not supposed to ask. He controlled me, even stalked me when I went out, telling me he saw me in this and that shop while I had no clue he was even close to me.,so I ended up almost paranoid turning around on the street to see if he followed me. He accused me of cheating on him while I was faithful. Telling me "you have boyfriend I know" for no reason. He beat me, strangled me, tried to push me in front of a car, threatened me with a knife so that I threw his things out on the street and exchanged my door lock. Normally I don't like public scene or drama but I exposed him. I was shouting out loud on the street the he is a woman beater so he got embarrassed and everybody could hear it. That made him pick his stuff and never coming back again. He told me all the time that "this (beating) is husband and wife and what happens in marriage (while we were not married actually) stays in marriage. Anyway nobody is interested in other people's problems and I should just shut up." Don't! Seek help, expose them, and go to the police even you don't have evidence. that's the best thing you can do. I was too intimidated by that time to call the police on him.he made me believe that I don't have evidence and that I will never be able to feel safe again and it would be my fault if something bad happened to my daughter. My advice : if his jealousy or" protection" is making you feeling unsettling that is maybe your gut instinct trying to warn you. If you constantly have the feeling that he is overreacting I would sit down and talk to him. If he comes up with "you belong to me, you're mine or stuff like that... Run!
My boyfriend cheats on me. It hurts me more than it would other's because........I'm single 🤷♂️
That's called being controlled
That's what happens when you give him the cookie without the ring.
I know this is off topic to this video but I have a question regarding dating. So whenever I go on a date or a meeting with a new person I met online for the first time, conversation ends up going well and then all of a sudden at the end of the date she says she doesn’t feel any attraction to me emotionally or physically. It happens every time I meet someone online. Is it me? is it them? How do you know that you’re not attracted to someone physically or emotionally after only meeting them for the first time?
Physically should be simple; they don’t find you attractive or find that they have any chemistry with you off the bat. If this happens consistently, I would say take a look at what you’re bringing to those dates...are you dressing and presenting yourself in the best way possible? Are you being honest in the date but also engaging? If it happens all the time, it could very well be you. Perhaps try dating with more specific parameters like only going on dates with people who share an interest with you so that there’s common ground already.
@@wuzittooya well to answer your questions yes I am. But even with people I have common interests with I still see people with no interest in me at all. And when I at least initiate conversation with someone I’m interested in. I start the conversation by talking about a common interest that this person and I have but sadly no matter how hard I try I either don’t get a response at all, I get shut down because I’m too young for them or I go on a first meeting with them and they’re still not seeing what I have to offer no matter how much of a nice guy I am
Well, sometimes it is just that people are more open online because of anonymity and they spend so much time on the internet and it is a lot easier for them to communicate through messages and when you meet them in person they act differently and shy and the person rather falls for the image you created than for the real you . Had that also that the mutual interest was there online, but when you meet, you don't feel so connected. Sometimes people have different expectations when you meet. Had that à couple of times as well, that after a first date the interest was no longer there on both sides. When you say you are always the nice guy maybe you show your interest too much. Sometimes that creates a sort of emotional pressure on a girl to like you back on that same high interest level and it makes you withdraw. Just take it easy and try to make an easy-going conversation without too much expectations . It might be easier to find somebody online, but maybe it is better to go out and try to meet somebody in real life where there is mutual interest.