Feminism misses the point
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
- The ancient conception of femininity and the role of women... This is how feminism misses the point, and perpetuates more masculinity.
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There are obviously behavioural differences between men and women, however much of what you are saying is just a part of culture and what we have been conditioned to think. People are complex and multifaceted, and no one is 100% anything. I agree that modern feminism misses in many aspects, but being strong and independent doesn't automatically mean "I dont need anyone". It can be great for men and for women. Human adults should be (emotionally) strong and independent and these are great virtues. Regardless, I respect your opinion and enjoy your videos.
Great video. Without balance between the two, there would be none.
Alot of the guys in the so called "manospere" would crap their pants if they heard this😂😂😂. Great stuff brotha!
Why would they?
Great video! 👊
This video makes a lot of claims around why men and women should be a certain way and uses historical instances to support it instead of actually addressing the issue. It relies on "The ancient conception of femininity and the role of women" (from video description) as true but never questions why it should be true.
An easy example is: Our ancestors never brushed their teeth which had benefits like saving time and not needing toothbrushes, therefore we shouldn't brush our teeth. Obviously this is wrong but that's basically what the video is also arguing. A more serious example is (this is true): Spartan men would take underage boys under their tutelage and teach them how to fight but also have sexual relationships with them. Therefore, if we want to learn how to fight like Spartan men, we should do that too... I'm guessing you probably don't want that or agree with that.
This video is not a bad discussion piece but it needs far more depth "Why should women be feminine?", "Why should men be masculine?", "What do feminine and masculine even mean and why is it important?", "Why are all the examples that you listed in history even good? Could they have been better otherwise?"
Masculinity and femininity are deeply rooted psychologically and biologically in humanity. Every aspect of every human society shows this. You can see it in the archetypal structures that recur throughout history.
The masculine is the projecting, the pushing outward and upward. Great towering structures built by men. Phallic symbols. Power, order, driving force.
The feminine is the receiving, absorbing and chaotic force of nature. The womb, the forest, the storm. The feminine is divine and is to be an idol that attracts all, especially the masculine. The beauty and chaos of nature.
We all have both aspects in us, but generally one is stronger usually based on your sex. This isn’t always the case obviously but for the majority it is. When you defy your nature you end up with a broken existence full of confusion and lack of desire.
If things repeat over and over again throughout vastly different cultures ideologies for thousands of years there’s a good reason for it. Why are we suddenly the exception? Our culture has detached itself from the divine and from the creative. Our left brain dominated society only values science and what can be proven. Humanity is far more than science and always has been. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that our society lacking spiritual significance is failing.
You miss the point. Men and women are not the same. This video dismantles your worldview.
@@rebelmnk2382 You don't understand my comment, please read it again.
Perfect anylisis! The objective of feminism seems to be "make a lion out of a cat".
Hit the nail on the head! I think men need some type of rite of initiation to manhood once again. Science has shown that men (as well as people in general) nowadays are confused about what makes a man masculine. Many feel like they serve no purpose in the world. Having a sense of purpose appears to be extremely important to men especially when it comes to feeling useful and masculine. Some type of rite of initiation could probably do wonders for modern men to actually _feel_ like men once again. It worked in the past after all, and it'd be unwise not to learn from the past. It wasn't until quite recently that these types of rites have disappeared from many modern societies (not all though, and I'd bet money that there aren't nearly as many problems with understanding masculinity and femininity in those societies). And I reckon that that's when many of the current problems with masculinity and femininity started. So why not take it a few steps back and reintroduce some form of this tradition that was so common across all kinds of cultures in the past especially. This could help make young men feel like proper men, leading to a boost in confidence and sense of purpose. This could in turn increase masculinity and overall quality of life for many men, causing women to feel safe enough to depend on men again for all the right reasons. Thus leading to the return of femininity as well.
Yes speak it! Absolutely. I have a video on Initiation into masculinity as well
@@iamKristianBell Thanks for letting me know! I'll check it out.
We need more videos on true femininity.This was a great take. I as a lady enjoy your videos on true masculinity ☺️
Im with you and then it sort of goes off the rails with women as societies oracles and saying Lilith is “Biblical”. That narrative is rejected in majority cannon.
I think the word comes from the Book of Isaiah. In the later Latin version it's Lamia.
This inspired me, thank you 💗
I love you bro ❤
As a female, I couldn’t agree more.
Brilliant and great commentary
This video deserves more views well said
Very well articulated!
that's one of the greatest video about femininity I have ever seen. many thanks for it
This video will earn a couple of haters ;)
Great video
You are amazing ❤️
Strong and independent are not always good qualities. They are double edge swords.