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I think the "naughtylisation" is in the caption - the idea that toddlers can be out on a "date", and "in love". It's the same as asking a small child whether they have a boy/girlfriend.
Yes, came looking for this
aaah that makes more sense. I was so confused how a lil fam photo was bad
It's sad that people can't just be friends in others' eyes, even as babies.
@@TheClicki have asked for a mango for my birthday, but my birthday is after mango is gone. I have no idea if i will get it. What should i do?
Ah yes the real questions in life
Obviously it's tongue in cheek. Like if a kid is playing with a chemistry set, posting a picture of that with the caption that they are hard at work curing cancer.
The irony of saying "He can't judge women for their looks" right after listing 'handsome' and 'fit' as dating requirements
She is apparently a LVF, based on that post.
Judging someone and wanting to date them are two different things.
Its a parody of an Incel post that used low value females first
To be fair, these things don't happen in a historical vacuum, so it is a little different.
You misunderstand. It's natural to judge men by their looks, but with women It's what's on the inside that counts. /sarcasm
Fun animal fact: Bat toes are specially designed to relax in a locked position. This means that when bats are clinging on to the roof of a cave or tree, they are actually relaxing their feet!
Fun animal fact: don’t trust anyone there’s a skinwalker in your house
Fun fact: Fun Fact
i think that's the same with birds
@@mikethenonexistent i live alone so I'm good
@MaxPChannel are YOU the skinwalker?
In my experience, people who try to gatekeep trauma are the type who mistreat others and try to justify hurting others with 'but I have trauma, you can't call me out!'
"No,i can and i will"
This one girl in my class used to talk about having trauma from past abusive relationships all the time, but then assaulted me multiple times because she was jealous I wasn't dating her 💀
Mamamax and Spencer behavior.
i gatekeep my own trauma unless my friends ask to have me vent about it so I don't trigger their own trauma responses or make them uncomfy (it's called having boundaries, it's very fun to have boundaries everybody)
The entire couch full of emotional support demons cracks me up every time.
Yessss
Yeah, I usually watch the video while doing something else and give a glance once in a while. It's the first time I notice it and it surprised me!
@@lou9635 that’s exactly what I do!
Fun fact about “only women being emotional” is that literally about 150-200 yrs ago women were described as “cold and incapable of true emotions” (source: Cesare Lombroso, ‘Criminal Woman…’)
It's interesting how far history changes and people take tends so seriously. Like ppl thought that pink was for boys and blue was for girls only decades ago 😂 people are always stupid
The thing is, now men aren't allowed to express feelings lmao
@@vaughnhaney7020 they are tho
@@suso.27 Not without backlash. It's not illegal but it's absolutely going to be punished
What really tickles me is to remind people who talk about women getting "too emotional" and blaming menses is that there IS a hormone in women that spikes to kick off menses...testosterone. PMS is caused by testosterone. Toss that fact in a man's face the next time he talks about "emotional women". 😂
I was just diagnosed with PTSD at 29 years old for something that happened when I was 8/9. Do you know why it took so long for me to even bring it up in therapy? Because I was comparing my symptoms to the well known ones. It wasn’t until I realized that I was having trauma responses that I actually let myself consider it.
Pain Olympics only delay people from getting the help they need.
For lack of knowing what will make you feel better, I offer hugs if that's ok 🫂
I remember this teenaged girl who was trying to "out trauma" me. While I was WORKING. At first it was just one of those conversations, mentioned a topic of trauma and I replied back amicably with my own experience because... that's just how it went. And she kept trying to ONE UP me in trauma!
I just kinda shut up because I was honestly stunned, walked away with the excuse of having to get back to work, and I sat there wondering how people could actually want to have that conversation. No one knows what the other went through, trauma is insane and unfortunate and a lot of people don't want to talk about it.
I had another woman I had to convince that it was okay to still grieve her deceased husband... after only 6 months. She kept saying "I should be over it," and I could tell that that's what other people told her. I am also a widower and I have been told "Should you have gotten over that by now?" and other variations. I had to convince this poor poor woman that no one can tell you how long to grieve or that you have to let go. We both had a good cry in the aisles of a grocery store and I hope I helped her after that day.
I also had someone compare the death of my husband to them getting a divorce.
"Cause it's basically the same thing." 😬
Also fun fact, in Victorian times wives were supposed to mourn for husbands for years. While husbands were supposed to mourn for a couple of days.
I actually dunno why I told you that, sorry
Trauma is trauma, nobody should be comparing trauma or saying they had a worse experience because it depends on your own experience, that's the whole point. Whoever she was needs to get a grip because that's honestly so disrespectful.
What deranged sociopath acts like divorce is just like being widowed?
In Judaism you are supposed to mourn someone once a year on the day of their death. Forever.
People in synagogue crying.
The main, official mourning periods are short, but that’s just when you get back to daily life.
You are allowed to feel bad.
That’s this idea that I think comes from Christianity that we should just accept it, or even be happy.
“They’re in a better place.” WELL, I’M NOT! I AM ALLOWED TO MISS MY FRIEND!
"Does not judge a woman by their weight or looks"
*judges men by weight and looks*
Sounds about right.
Makes total sense right?💀
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If men have to look good then do do women. If women can look terrible then so can men.
I will not fault someone for preferring pretty partners but I hate when people feel they deserve someone perfect without putting in any work for yourself
@@Nostripe361 Y e p
"He needs to be loyal, but I'm allowed to cheat." The hypocrisy is a badge of honour for people like her.
Polyamory is not the same as cheating, as long as everyone involved is in the know and gives informed consent. But I'm pretty sure that's *not* what that lady was after.
I would add that polyamory is fine as long as all people are equal. Trad plural wives, man has power, usually a ranking in the women for what power is left. Both people (or all as applicable) have equal right to find other partners, or not, as they choose within agreed rules (so like “ new sex partner must have recent clear STD panel and, like, not be on a sexual predator registry unless we all agree “they peed while homeless and seeking privacy,””or whatever, can be an equal limitation, “ps can go in many vs but vs only know one p” cannot be equal
@@jenniferbailey1580 Valid points. I'd file all those under informed consent, but maybe that's a me-thing.
Not trashing on polyamory here, just trashing on someone who clearly did not understand what that means.
I had an ex best friend who used polyamory as an excuse for cheating. Would have two, three partners, but still get with strangers and act like the victim when said partners would get upset and even leave them.
That's just one of the things they did. They were such a toxic human being.
I personally hate the idea but if that's what people like it's not my place to stop them.
What if the person you're cheating with makes you feel heard and loved but your partner doesn't?
I hate how people make trauma into a sort of competition. TRAUMA IS TRAUMA. It doesn’t matter how big or small the event seems to you. Different things effect different people in different ways. What could be massively traumatic to someone else may seem like a normal Tuesday to you.
Also just because someone had it worse doesn't mean your pain is nothing.
Well, when your problems are repeatedly ignored and treated as if you're overreacting every single time it comes up, it's hard to not shove down your own suffering for the sake of not being treated like schmidt.
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What people call "trauma" is not all the same. There is a difference between trauma, ptsd, cptsd , and what some people call "a traumatic expierence". Like, some people (esp online) call every small bad thing traumatic. A small haircare or make-up mistake is not trauma. If you forgot the next day that it happened, and never expirience any long lastig problems from it, and you need zero psychologicial help for it, it is not trauma. But I agree that actual trauma is not a competition, and it can show up in many forms, and it there for all kinds of reasons.
I have a friend who thinks his trauma is valid, and mine isn’t, just because his was more scary, he thinks. And I will never try to invalidate that because I know it was horrible for him. I’m pretty young and in the beginning of 2023 I watched the first episode of Attack on Titan, and I have a hyperactive imagination. My heartbeat was always double its normal rate, and I found myself deadass afraid I was going to die everyday. Not even afraid,
I was certain. He keeps trying to invalidate that, and even the rest of my friends say my trauma is less valid. I’m just tired honestly. Thanks
@@zafe1ri As someone who's been through some pretty awful stuff, I always like to say "The worst thing you've ever been through is the worst thing you've been through, comparatively. It doesn't matter if that's a kidnapping, a war, or just a bad breakup, you have nothing else to put it in perspective - nobody can invalidate your worst moments because 'others have it worse'. By that logic you could never be happy because others have it better. Trauma is trauma and you should work through it in your own way at your own pace". The only person who can decide your feelings is you. Sometimes people put others down or play the trauma Olympics because they feel inadequate or invalidated, I've been there myself before I matured and learnt that I don't have to be the only person in the world suffering and I'm not special for having PTSD. Just know that you're not alone. I hope you find someone you can trust to talk to about it. I've also been traumatised by media and have gotten phobias from it, so you're not invalid ❤
I feel bad for the person who made those eeveelution coasters. It was probably meant to be an innocent recreation of the cat-butt coasters, but they forgot the internet exists 😅
As a trans girl, calling someone a roseboy or flower boy sounds way more like a slur than femboy. Like, what the hell are they talking about!?
I wager there are insecure eggs among the femboy community.
Someone who hands out flowers?
@Charlie Kahn it sounds like either a boy version of flowergirl, a job at a florist, or a slur. Meanwhile, femboy is simply "feminine boy". That's all. No transphobia detected.
THANK YOU. I'm a trans femboy and guess what? I don't like roses or flowers. I call myself a femboy because it lets me reclaim femininity without losing my man/boyhood. I know many other trans femboys who feel the same.
Will people sometimes call trans women femboys? Well yeah because they're transphobes and they're dumb. But it's like if people call me a tomboy (I present masc sometimes lol), it's not a slur, it's just being used incorrectly by stupid transphobes. The word's ACTUAL meaning is empowering, not discriminatory.
As someone who has been a flower Boy for an aunts wedding, I have no idea why that's a negative thing?
If we can have flower girls why not flower boys? You just walk and throw flower petals on the floor.
bartender:" so you used to be a producer?"
man:" yes....."
bartender:" so why did you quit?"
man:" I ran out of actors"
We have found the mirror-verse opposite of Stanley Kubrick.
he'll probably make a post in the future saying "Nobody wants to work nowadays."
“I’ll tell my 13 Facebook fowllers for exposure this is an unpaid position”
That "producer" guy reminded me of a story from uni. We were sitting in an English class and reading a text about some director. One of my groupmates read: "... ended up shooting at the actors who forgot their lines." She obviously just read "shooting" instead of "shouting", but the mental image is still with me, to this day, some 10+ years later 😁
@@vega_highwell Well, something like that _did_ happen once: Werner Herzog shot at Klaus Kinski...but just the once, and I believe Kinski was strangling one of the other actors...
We had a PETA protest in my city where they cosplayed packaged human meat products. Several counter protesters brought their grills to the protest sight and started grilling and handing out burgers.
Fun Fact: The sharing your battery with a friend via wireless charging thing already exists on newer Samsung phones. You can make the back of your friend's phone and your phone kiss and the fuller one charges the lower one. I don't know if any other manufacturers do it, but I know that Samsung does. It was even in some of their ads for (I think) the S21 around 2020 and 2021.
Edit: You actually need to turn on "Wireless Power Sharing" on the phone you want to use as a power source, and then I suppose it'll act as any other wireless charger for the other phone.
you have to turn on "Wireless Power Sharing" on the phone you want to use to charge the other phone, doesn't matter what their battery levels are (unless the charger phone is 0% lol)
@@MatingPress Ahhhh, that makes sense. Thanks, I just assumed lol.
I wonder if that's what she meant, that the feature should be enabled on iPhone. Obviously it would be pretty poor phrasing on her part but one can hope that's what she was thinking of lol
I love using this feature on my phone. Sometimes I use it to charge my ear buds. My Samsung laptop has a spot next to the track pad that will charge my phone/ earbuds wirelessly too. Samsung is the GOAT
@@KelseyBurr I would love a Samsung gaming laptop, but I don't think they've made one yet
It's funny how Andrew Tate claims to be this "alpha" or whatever, but he has to pay women to go anywhere near him. Or traffic them, that too.
Andres rate is such a loser
number one alpha pickup line? fuckin. kidnap minors and force them /s/ eugh
Ugh any mention of that fool automatically makes me cringe.
@@ferretqueen2908 He _is_ very cringey, isn't he? Like, "mate, you ain't special, you're just a sleezy pimp running an MLM."
"Men should never cry!!! Always treat the women like they should be treated, in the kitchen!!!!" Me? Personally? A male? Will never agree! Please pretty please give me a women that has very clear instructions on what she wants and maybe have her be a good cook (I once set a sandwhich on fire I need a teacher for the culinary arts) I will even be a stay at home father pretty pretty please!
Bro would hate me ngl
I feel bad for Click that he has to be so deep in the content mines that he knows that LVM stands for “low value males” I would have had to look it up 😭😭😭
exactly what I was thinking
he looked it up in previous videos actually so he probably just remembers it... it is even more sad, actually, i think... he often remembers this takes and posts... poor Clicky... that's why there is so much emotional support demons on the couch in the studio, i guess
I would've thought it stood For that one cult, but i think it's Missing a letter
For me it stand for Legend of Vox Machina
Are there LVFs as well?
4:06 the absolute disgust on her face is palpable. I absolutely agree with her reaction. It looks like she was just trying to enjoy a break at work (due to lanyard, prob work related) and that shit got onto her feed, so she immediately reacted to it so it was genuine. I like this lady.
FR! To any teen out there, if your parent is TRYING to be a MILF/DILF to your friends, don't bring your friends over anymore, that's awful.
Dude I would flat up tell her i'm gay rather then listen to her bro.. touch me once and im dipping like a tortia chip in salsa thank you!
It took me so long to realize the woman in the clip was the MOM and not one of her son's female friends she was creepily filming. I was all, "brave outfit for a teenager, maybe they're getting ready to go to a fun concert or something, WHY IS THIS BEING FILMED BY A PARENT AND WHY IS THE TONE SO CREEPY?" My outrage was all taken up by time Reaction Lady cleared it up for me, so I was just relieved... at least it's possible there were no actual kids present and it was just a crass tasteless joke 😅
14:05 PSA: reducing pay due to performance is ILLEGAL
Bruh if anyone tries to get into a PTSD competition with me it’s instant hands. I ain’t gonna let you bring those memories up just because you wanna feel superior.
Fr: trauma is trauma let’s not go into a “who has it worse” contest
@@laughatdarkness1286 Exactly. Traumatized people should work together to build each other up, not tear each other down.
@@laughatdarkness1286 Right? This kind of thing is nonsense. When did it become trendy to have PTSD? How can people just casually bring up trauma like its no big deal anyway? I feel like if people can just casually go on about that and try to make a competition out of it, i kinda think they aren't really suffering PTSD
That is a very sound policy. I too would rather remain in the safe bubble I have constructed above the yawning abyss of mental and emotional torment, than get into a pissing match with a moron.
@@raeishimura Agreed, I am actively avoiding my pain and trauma, because _I don't like feeling it_ for some odd reason. Huh, funny that.
I genuinely used to have trauma imposter syndrome. I have PTSD from an incident where my doctor made a terrible mistake and I almost died from massive blood loss after he completely severed my brachial artery during shoulder surgery. I then nearly died again from the massive infection they sent me home with because my surgeon wouldn't listen to me about how I was feeling and discharged me even though I knew something was wrong.
However, I went to a ptsd support group while waiting a year (!) for specialised trauma therapy. After hearing what some of the others had gone through, I felt pathetic for the flashbacks and panic attacks I was having, as what I'd experienced seemed so much less horrible compared to them. The trauma therapy helped me see past this mindset, but some of us with mental health issues already try to downplay our trauma and feel guilty that we couldn't cope with what we went through. We don't need help from other people to minimise our trauma, thanks.
Trauma is not a competition. No one wins.
Damn, that must of been extremely scary for you, at least you got therapy for that
This is a bit of a side rant, but this is one of the biggest problems with the internet: how mental health is taken on the internet
There are people who just decide to turn mental health into a joke (e.g. the PTSD contest) I hate people like this, all mental health NEEDS to be taken seriously
There are people who fake mental health for views (like that one person who faked Tourette's.) This is simply an insult to people who have been medically diagnosed with mental health issues.
Finally, there's the assholes who harass people with mental health issues, treating it likes it's no big deal, telling them to "get over it," etc. It seriously angers me to know someone like that exists
(Apologies if this sounds like a main character rant or smth like that, it's just I value mental health with pretty much the highest value I can give)
@@dedflatboi77 Don't worry about the rant. I feel really strongly about how mental health is sometimes portrayed, discussed, minimised or mocked on the Internet too.
I do believe there are some people on apps like Tik Tok and UA-cam who want to create open discussions and encourage support for one another. There is just so much mental health content out there, though, that it can be hard to wade through. For some people it might be hard to differentiate between the informative, supportive content and the ones giving either intentionally false or genuinely misguided information.
Being able to connect with others on the Internet and not feel alone in your mental health struggles can be really powerful. But, sadly, it's also a minefield that can be difficult to navigate safely. Particularly when someone is at their most vulnerable.
Medical trauma especially is so so hard to fully accept and get distance from and perspective on, and heal from. I have tons of it and am currently having more done to me at the moment.
@@NyoomMonster I'm really sorry to hear you're going through that. I wish you healing and recovery and I hope you have a good support system around you.
The surgeon is just not good, are you doing alright?
33:12 A less offensive alternative would have been “I could be picking flowers, but I’m picking you instead,” but the dude just had to bring race and slave labor into it… wtf
The weird trauma competition is not new, unfortunately. It's been a part of fringe/outcast culture for a long, long time. The more shit you've gone through, the more attention you are "owed" for it, but gods help anyone who decides they'd like to actually go to therapy to work on it. Then you're cast out fron said outcasts and it's really fucking lonely for a while until you fix your shit and realize you can have friends who don't use the severity of the abuse you suffered as a yardstick for your worth.
The “picnic is racist” thing has been around for a long time. I first heard it from a classmate at university in 1998 who was convinced that it came from “pick an [n word]”. And no amount of French etymology would convince her otherwise.
Picnic is a French word ? Im French and well pique means poke and nique means f*ck so it's either old French or I'm stupid
@@Lonely_Raven_666 It's old French apparently
Probably old French since it dates from the 17th century. Pique-nique was a style of dining where everyone brought a dish or a bottle.
It’s still used today written like that
I got this quote from an article, but before I do post it, I will say it’s not quite the word, but it’s the words usage. Kind of like how swastika was associated with Hinduism and its symbology of fortune but it was completely warped into something that is very bad because of the movement it was part of? “The word, picnic, carries with it the memory that there was a time when white folks gathered to eat outside, burning black flesh would be on the menu,” explained Treva Lindsey, an associate professor of women’s studies at Ohio State University.
reminder for those who need it: your trauma is enough, and i'm proud of you for getting through it! comparing trauma is a load of bs: if it hurt, it hurt.
Thanks, I appreciate the intent behind this.
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Ngl I needed to hear this
I needed to hear this too. I have ptsd but my trauma is mainly social and I often fall into a trap of comparing it to other people's, who've been through more physical stuff
This is very important! I was at the mental hospital years ago, and my roommate would constantly shut everyone down at group therapy,,,, like bud,,, we're all hurtin 😭
Remember kids: "Who Has it Worse" is a game with no winners.
Your struggles are valid, no matter what other people are struggling with.
as a trans woman myself i have a message for the person who said femboy is a slur against us
sorry bestie but you're wrong. i have been referred to as a femboy by a transphobe but that doesnt make femboy a slur against trans women
Fr, I'm trans masc but could NOT get my head around feminine-presenting-male is too close to Trans Women or whatever. Like. Trans women are WOMEN. They're just two different points on the gender spectrum???
For the guy getting mad at actors for bloopers, he better have written that script perfectly on the first try and made that camera without messing up once. But something tells me he didn't do any of that
Bloopers are the best part!!! I'd love to see more! Where are all the horror film bloopers?????
I'll go a step further and think that he might never have done a movie. To me he seems to have no experience in film making with people.
@@FeedingTheDragons what was he doing filmmaking with then, goats? XP
@@Roadent1241 maybeh xD
@@Roadent1241When you can only make films in your head, you don't need people.
Props to this man for going through TikTok's rabbit hole for our entertainment, im impressed he didnt go insane, unless he's already insane
I think he is, but like functionally insane.
We all know he's insane
He's a furry
@@alolanvulpixruby3154 And we love that
@@a.4019 He needs to get fur suit
"there is no bad weather only bad clothes" I agree. A good pair of galoches, a rain hat and coat and you're golden. With heat, on the other hand... Linen. Yards of linen.
Ugh that mother made me nauseated...i had my son as a teenager so i was always younger than the other moms and he told me his friend called me "the hot mom" but it was probably just because i was clearly younger...that did NOT make me want to put on tight and revealing clothes and try to decide which of my sons friends was "hot"...so gross
Let's be real - the ultimate winner of the "PTSD contest" is going to be so traumatised and mentally broken that they have been reduced to a barely verbal, catatonic mess with no hope of recovery. Why would ANYONE want to have trauma THAT bad!?
My board of school directors are considering removing LGBTQ+ student anominity (i.e if you went by different pronounes at school the teachers would tell your parents)
I have been near a panic attack since it just started, because if it happens I will most likely be kicked out of my house/transfer away from my friends.
Thank you Click for helping me breathe a bit easier, even if its only for a little bit
Stay strong kiddo. The internet has your back.
Hang in there. Start squirreling away cash. Do not tell anyone where it’s stored. If you do end up homeless, at least you’ll have some money to help you out. If that doesn’t happen then you’ll have built up a safety net and can use it to get you out once you’re 18.
i really hope that the board doesn't remove it 🫂🫂🫂🫂❤
I am do unbelievably sorry, i Hope that you’ll be ok💛
My guy, that is terrifying. I highly advise you follow what the other person said, start saving up cash, hoarding supplies, the like.
I am so sorry for you, I hope you're OK, please stay safe.
The best part is when the couch comes into view and it's just FULL of emotional support demons.
I’m not sure about the whole argument with dragons that actually existed and all that, but I love the ideas that he came up with with how they would actually work if they were real.
Dragons are one of those things that I’m super interested in, and it’s really cool, because some of the earliest myth/legends of dragons were about 2700 BC where different Chinese and Indian stories talked about a horned serpent of sorts. My personal favorite dragon to show up in different artworks comes from the Ishtar gate in Babylon approximately 500 BC if you look it up, you can see a dragon type creature painted on the gate. Really fascinating stuff to be sure, but sadly, I don’t think they ever existed.
the so called TikTok "PTSD Constest" disgust me especially since i know people who actually has PTSD (post-tramatic stress disorder) and something like that should never be a challage or be faked for videos on social media because it is rude and can effect people who actually has it. PTSD is a serious issuse and should not be messed with for the wrong reasons especially for a challage thank you for coming to my ted talk.
Yeah this came out of nowhere to me. I kinda get romanticizing depression and stuff like that, it’s vague enough for people to do that, but PTSD was always in a way different, more strict group to me, kinda like schizophrenia or psychopathy (not saying they are similar, just the seriousness of public view of them is). Basically never could’ve imagined it being in the same category of faking it as general depressed feeling.
@@MisterIncog yeah i know beside i never thought this would happen but it has and appaerently some people are faking PTSD for a challenge and i can understand where you're coming from.
As said above. It's not a healthy coping mechanism but I still at least empathise with people that romanticise chronic depression. PTSD though?? Boggles my mind. I get some people are insecure about their trauma and don't get enough support, but this isn't regular resentment it's a spectacle.
Yeah I have ptsd and couldn't watch the full video because I know it wouldn't be good for my mental state. It's disgusting that people would fake something that impacts the life of so many people
yeah i second this ... i have C-ptsd and i can't fathom people being like "well my problems are worse than yours so stop whineing" its so fucking stupid and makes me pissed like if you invalidate others real experiences and thier pain to feel oh so special you should be gagged with a sock
I didn’t think TikTok could get worse but it seems like pain is just a motivator
It's competing with Twitter at this point.
Twitter vs TikTok, the final showdown
Get your popcorn ready y'all 🍿🥤
Nono, it's a different kind of stupid. Twitter is mostly political, conservative or toxic, catty stupid, TikTok is more like... Trivially stupid... In my experience (tho I only rarely use TikTok and never use Twitter)
IDK, they feel different to me when it comes to what kind of stupid
@@mikethegoo Twitter is adult cringe, TikTok is child cringe.
@@dustorm5012 Not exclusievely cringe, but yeah... A lot of it is
I can't imagine someone with any form of ptsd trying to complete with others. PTSD in all it forms sucks.
As someone who actually had that belief that my problems don't matter cause others had it worse. I can safely say that, that mindset is so self destructive in many ways. Not only do you hate yourself for not being able to handle "such minor things" but also you never speak up about it cause you think they are so dumb that no one would bother helping.
If anyone happens to feel the same way, let me be the first to say that they do matter, and you matter. talk to anyone, let people know how you feel. We don't just hurt from one major hit from trauma, we also can hurt from hundreds of little hit.
I love how that "director" thinks bloopers are a "modern, woke" concept rather than something that has existed for as long as the entertainment industry has.
Shit, there are movies that celebrate bloopers by having them run over the credits (special shout out to The Cannonball Run films and Liar Liar).
Jackie chan movies!
Anchorman had so many different improvised takes that they made a whole extra movie out of them
17:56 As a furry, uh, no, we're just people who like anthropomorphic animals and occasionally cosplay as them. It's not some weird religion. It's not "furrism" it's just an interest
I love the mental image of someone looking at a bright pink fox with thigh highs and thinking "CULTISM!!!"
I was losing it at someone trying to say that furries are similar to berserkers and the like.
Like, knowing how sweet and fun furries are, my brain supplied a picture of someone donning a fursuit head and arms before going into a super serious battle, but then UwUing and Glomping during the whole thing, I can't 😂
I cracked up at the "wise shamans with greater knowledge" 😂
As another furry, its true. I do like the idea of a furry cult though, where we all just have a meeting once in a while and discuss cool things.
oh wait.
It’s just a hobby, that’s it
4:35 Props for you for realizing that the account is a troll account! A lot of people don't realize it is, surprisingly-
12:48
Yes, we do.
The girl in the last clip was chill tho. She wasn't taking his nonsense and when she realized that all he is doing is rage baiting she just got up and left. That's all you can really do in these situation, you either make them feel stupid an/or leave.
He may never "be gay," but he'll always be a pathetic manchild. "Oh no, I'll be gay..." if he's that worried, he might already be gay.
yeah, for the better, you could see his ass donkey face, so XDDDD
I don't understand the problem. The question was set up to piss somebody off. If he had picked the trans woman, I'm sure someone would be upset that he didn't pick the old woman because of her age.
@@chatboulon743 but it's obvious they did it to heat the place and ruin the mood
I agree
Had a friend that actually judged if someone is "entitled" to suffer from PTSD, based on her best friends live experience and how her trauma manifested.
She even told me that I don't have depression, because she has depression and she behaves differently.
I have been diagnosed with both in 2021. Not pandemic related.
We don't talk much, these days.
And it's good. Not being her personal emotional waste bin is good.
I guess, all I want to say with this:
Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't suffering, because someone else's suffering is more visible.
If you suffer, seek help. Cut ties with this kind of "friends".
It only gets better from that point on. You are worth it. ❤
Glad you got away from her. She sounds like a garbage bin
Geez, if I knew somebody like that I'd chew them out for sure. Nobody has the right to decide what affects other people, not even if they have that in a more severe case. That's honestly despicable. Especially when it's related to depression or PTSD.
It’s like when someone else tries to tell you that you don’t need help with your anxiety or depression because
“It’s not that bad”.
As if they know what you’re experiencing better than you do, as if they can assess how you’re feeling on the inside based on what you display on the outside, and as if they get to decide when you feel shitty enough to deserve/warrant seeking out help.
The fcking nerve of some people 🙄😠
9:06 You can see Click's act break for a second as he loses hope in humanity. A truly remarkable sighting.
29:59 radfems who think like this are disgusting... they say shitlike this on the internet, but im sure if they met a young boy who had been abused in real life they wouldnt say "its okay bc you cant feel anything" to their face. i mean, from their point of view, they might as well, bc men cant feel pain from those words anyways, right?
absolutely horrible... they think that by making men into innately evil monsters theyre going to fix anything, when in reality it just takes the responsibility off of men who DO act horribly. "its in their nature," "they couldnt help it", etc. its just making gender roles and stereotypes again but in a different way
"There is no bad weather, only bad clothing." - They also tell that to people here in germany. Beside things like: "We´re not made of sugar."
I love how twitter has managed to gather the very worst of humanity in one place. It makes them easier to identify and laugh at.
This is really funny and then I realise I use twitter
Tiktok is the new generation's Version of that, and much, much worse.
@@Terracatlegend i do too, but only For furry porn because that's the only value of twitter
Guys like The Click do the social media mining for us to laugh at them, so we don't rage-destroy our internet devices by finding them ourselves, so we can laugh at them. Max kudos for The Click.
11:48: I hate that argument. Yes, animals don't feel *exactly* the same things and exactly in the same way as humans do. But that doesn't mean they're only food motivated and don't feel anything at all. They're much more complex than that, and that doesn't only apply to the usual dog and cat pet mammals, but to birds, hell, even reptiles! I've seen videos of tegus and monitor lizards showing a degree of affection without food or comfort being involved, and I've been the owner of numerous turtles (sliders, terrapins, etc), and trust me, it's not as evident as with a dog, but they do show to actually enjoy your presence in their life (again, even when no food is involved.) Those pseudo-zoologists on Twitter need to actually deal with a real animal before they try to sound cool and level-headed.
I would like to introduce that one person who posted about bloopers in movies to Stanley Kubrick. A director who was known for taking multiple takes in a movie even when like take 2 was perfect. Also, saying that bloopers are a modern thing is ignoring multiple movies that were around in the 1970s and 80s that showed them in the end credits, and that's just the ones that were shown. So many movies have multiple takes and not just because the actor made a mistake. Changes to the weather, an effect not working right or just not looking right, something happening in the background, equipment failure, etc. Basically, making a movie is hard work and saying that an actor should not receive pay because they messed up is nonsense. Good luck to them to find anyone who is willing to act in their movies after learning that they won't pay them if they have to redo a scene
Apparently, there were haters going around destroying the Mr beast displays at stores. That's why he asked people to clean them up if they see a mess. He didn't want the employees to have to do it because of some edge lord who thought it was so cool to make a mess.
I'm glad people have become more comfortable being their awful selves telling them apart from nontoxic people is so much easier
This is so true
Not for me as someone with autism. It is still difficult for me to tell sometimes
@@cats9994 I get that; I also have Autism and it took a long time for me to figure people out. However, comparing their actions to their words and setting strict standards/ boundaries helps.
Ok weird af story but, and this really happened, I remember these girls were being kind of flirty around me, and after a while they used “you look like Jeffery dahmer” as a compliment and reason they thought I was attractive😑 33:50. Ok if you said I look like that actor, that’s a compliment “you look like someone who is known for being attractive” but “you look like someone who repeatedly murdered and ate people” doesn’t have the same ring to it.
8:33 We bathe with water, and do you know what is also water, the rain!
I'm going to do one worse and say that the NSFW-discord is for pictures of dangerous work-situations, like buildings with no fire exits, construction sites with people not wearing hardhats and fishermen with no lifewests.
ha
if you know what NSFW actually stands for as an acronym it's great
I really hate how people online always try to "expose" people for faking a mental illness in a way that is sure to send tons of harassment their way. If you think that somebody is lying about that sort of thing, confront them directly, at least thats fair. Not to mention that most people who do this do not know anything about this stuff, but still want to act like experts. Great video as always, thank you for being the Click we all love.
Expose videos in general honestly, way more than half of them just make up lies about the person they are "exposing" or at least warp things out of context with editing.
@@kempolar9768That's true, some people just like to mess with other peoples lives, I guess. You have a cute kitten btw.
@@epicgameregg713 Cleo says hi :3
I don't think it's quite that clear cut. People who actually *do* falsely claim to have a mental illness can cause a lot of problems for those who really have them. They spread dangerous misinformation and disregard the hardships that people go through.
I've seen people claim that self-diagnosis is more valid than a doctor's diagnosis. That's just not true. If you think you might have an illness, the proper thing to do is to see a doctor, and telling someone otherwise would be actively harming them.
It's not something you can just decide on for yourself, but that's something people encourage by falsely claiming to have a disease.
If I just looked at the DSM and diagnosed myself with whatever I feel fits, I'd have dozens of mental illnesses, some of which would literally be mutually exclusive with each other.
Now, that's not to say we should go on witch-hunts. Targeting everyone you *think* is lying is likely to catch people who are genuinely suffering, and there's also people who really do have a mental illness, but not the one(s) they think.
However, we should push back by encouraging people to seek professional help, and not listening to random people on TikTok and other social media.
I fucking hate arm chair doctors. People think they know shit about people without knowing them in real life and it pisses me off.
I was diagnosed with PTSD at 11, and NO ONE with PTSD should compare their symptoms, the things that have happen, or HOW it happen.
11:35 when you reaad that persons post about how pets cant love you is so insanely wrong cause my dog has loved me since we first met loll
I haven't seen that episode of Proud Family myself but in their defense, Penny (the main Proud) is obviously trying to guide her friends away from this thinking. Having grown up with the show, I expect it to end with some sort of lesson/message as a takeaway. IDK how Velma handled it, maybe they handled it the same way but the old IP made people react poorly to it, but even in that scene, the Proud Family made it clear that that thinking was wrong. And the show is about a bunch of girls of color navigating teenagehood. I'm gonna try to find the episode when I get the chance and see how it ended.
i heard not great things about that episode
@@alphahunterdyou should probably check it out yourself
Penny was really vouching for zoe and that made me so happy, zoe didn't know that about noah. it turned out to be true unfortunately, but they were still so mean to her for no reason and penny didn't want to fight all her friends over just one of them. And the one mixed native character came to a party dressed as Pocahontas claiming it's his heritage. Sure, proud to be native too king, but thousands of natives in canada and the us have asked people to stop with the Pocahontas stuff, Matoka deserves better then disney using a false version of her for profit all the time...
Zoey ends up confronting Noah if he only dates white girls and he said he does. Zoey then ended up having to end the relationship with him because she cared more about her friends after they berated her for going out with then. Fun thing is that they were all initially upset with Noah at first when he picked Zoey despite them all already having boyfriends. Zoey later finds another guy to go out with at the end of the episode. From what I've seen it represents the important messages of the world in the wrong way.
@alphahunterd ...Then why propagate the opinion of the episode being bad if you are admitting that you've never seen the show and have no interest in the show?
It's like talking shit about someone only to admit "actually I've never met them and don't actually know why people say they're bad, and don't care enough to meet them. I just want to influence opinions against them for the drama."
The mental health thing you talked about reminded me of something I had to explain to my husband when he was feeling overwhelmed but not wanting to come to me about it.
The way I see it, everyone has a cup. Some people have big cups some people have little cups, everyone has one. As such some cups can hold more liquid than others, but if you keep filling your cup it doesn't matter if you have a big one or a little one, it WILL overflow. It's okay if it over flows. That's why it's important to find someone who is willing to share their cup with you, so they can help keep you from overflowing.
I remember me explaining this to him and him immediately dragging me into a hug and sobbing. He told me anything and everything on his mind while I held him. Since then he has never held back opening up to me. I would give the world to that man if I could.
can i hold your hands in a platonic way you're such a good partner... i will remember these words so i can say it to my fiancee :(((
I think you did give the world to him in that moment hun
That's such a great analogy, and you're an amazing partner for supporting your husband 💛
26:40 the fact that Azdarchyds existed is so much more terrifying than dragons to me.
6:48
They had American concentration camps for Japanese during WWII
"femboy is a slur please don't use it" *suggests actual slurs*
7:55 I just imagined MrBeast going around with a laser, pointing it at the eyes of people recognising him and after they can't see anymore just snatching their phones, cutting every wire he finds and then running away with their belongings 💀
💀💀💀
Damn- Why can I picture that?
I like how that transphobic guy at the end thinks he really did something. Like, they always respond like this, don't they? I've gotten into situations like this and I always feel bad and like I'm the dumb one because of how they respond. This helps me realize I wasn't.
28:15 i use to do this to myself with the "others have it worse" thought process, and met a therapist said that comparing trauma diminishes what you're going through and even though someone else might have it worse you're still struggling with your problem, and what are you gonna do to fix people who have it worses problems? might as well make the head you're stuck in better for yourself Unfortunately everyone handles things differently. And when a person deals with a lot of bullshit, your tolerance for how much you can handle goes up and you will tolerate so much more before you're affected. But even if it's for a divorce someone could handle that with the same emotions as losing both parents if they don't have a comparison.
6:53 __ "People of Color" is a term I've heard used to mean "anyone who's not considered 'white'." Racism doesn't require a connection to chattel slavery. And the entire concept of "race" isn't based on biology, it's based _solely_ on appearance and culture, which is then used to group people so that they can be "othered." This is why the more accurate term, "Racialized Groups," has come into being to replace, "Race."
Nice summary 👍
I've seen that language articulated as "racialized X" in relation to people raised under the premise of being a certain race, kinda like being socialized within a binary.
Its so stupid considering Asian people suffer from systematic racism, negative racial stereotypes, and even colorism, The US literally has history of putting Asian people (well more specifically the Japanese) in literal c0ncentration camps which is pretty comparable to slavery to me
The very concept of there being human races is racist. (In a way) why can't we consider anybody just human
There's a phenomenon recently of shows trying to appeal to a audience that is increasingly becoming more accepting of others, and generally cares a lot more about social issues. Which is great, however they don't actually do research on the issues and end up completely fucking them up or only discussing them on a surface level without actually integrating them into the world better, which is not so good.
This is because some of them are designed by marketing teams, and others are personal "satirical" projects by individuals such as Mindy Kaling, resulting in her project being reskinned into a Scooby show.
@@VelaiciaCreator Kaling being an awful, toxic person makes any project she does toxic, which is kind of sad. Like...she's "naughtily" assaulted fellow actors, mocked them in public, and then there's Velma. Which is basically Mindy Kaling hating everyone for multiple half-hour episodes.
Fun animal facts: To assert dominance, whales can grow muscular legs, sprinting toward an unsuspecting land creature.
I literally have severe s*xual ptsd, where words (b*lls, c*ck with an o, p*nties, cl*t, etc) songs, sounds, movie scenes, etc, trigger anxiety and panic attacks. I even just had a video of yours trigger me due to b*lls being said. I don't get why people fight over it, though, like it's a competition. Mine ruins my life and affects me everyday. I can't enjoy simple things. I can't enjoy a bunch of songs, shows and movies...ones I'd love to watch, but can't. There are different levels of otsd and how it affects each individual is different. If you have it, then you have it. You aren't invalid just because something may be "worse," and that doesn't make that person better either.
I once saw someone arguing that “picnic” came from the saying “pick a [slur]”, but this is the first I’ve heard of cannibalism being involved 👀 Thanks for including the fact check!
I'm 100% sure these morons grew up watching Yogi Bear and his dramatic pronunciation of "pic-a-nic basket" then went off the deep end into conspiracy.
Ohhh I remember when that was going around the internet!
This whole thing is like one of those slow news days on summer vacation when they make up things to discuss about
About mental health: i still remember one year my bicycle flat tired 5 times in two months, last time both tires at the same time. All my energy just fell out the window and I almost cried.
And I felt so bad for feeling so sad, when I literally have a brother-in-law who grew up during pol pot regime in Cambodia, where two of his brothers died in child labour camp ... Oh. And he and his family experienced starvation as well.
Not to mention people who are raped, victims of human trafficking, mental or physical abuse, robberies, war, traumatizing accidents...
But it helped a lot when my brother said that of course I'm allowed to feel sad for something like a flat tire. I can only really compare with my own experiences, and for me that was a bad day. There will always be someone out there who've had it worse, but that doesnt mean your experiences aren't real or valid. Stay strong people❤️
Best wishes to you and your brother. He's so right. Everyone struggles. All the better motivation to love and support one another imo. 🤍❤️🩹🤍
Even as someone who has had worse days than having a flat bike tire, something comparatively smaller can still be just as upsetting sometimes, depending on what it is. Like, if I go to a restaurant with people and there's only one thing I like there, and they don't have it, I'm ruined. On the other side of the coin, finding out my doctor didn't send the referrals for the tests I needed to get in to see a spinal surgeon to get several years of debilitating and painful back problems fixed has also broken me.
Even as someone with bigger problems, "smaller" things can still make you really upset, especially if they manage to tip over the carefully stacked life issues and ruin your Jenga tower.
For the guy looking for a Japanese woman... try the "special" teahouses. Because, honestly, those "tea girls" are the best you can hope for thinking like that.
I love that British lady calling out mom’s in sexy clothes around their kids lolol
There is a reason Stacy’s Mom exists 😂
Acting is hard, and mistakes happen all the time. I’ve screwed up in the middle of a performance before, it’s quite common actually, and if you do the most important thing is that you do your best to continue the scene. Plus bloopers are often used as extra content!
Word. For example Breaking Bad has hilarious and unfitting bloopers for every main character but Saul (Bob Odenkirk is a darn statue)
I love blooper reels. It shows you how incredibly hard acting is, especially in a comedy or something, when the scene is too funny for someone or the actors go off-scrip and adlib their own lines.
8:47 In Finland we say "ei meitä oo sokerista tehty", which translates to "We aren't made out of sugar" a.k.a. a little rain won't hurt. The kindergarten teachers would say that to us if anyone complained about it being wet outside when it was outside playtime lol
That's a good one. For some reason, I feel like I was told something similar as a child.
In germany we have both sayings. "Es gibt kein schlechtes Wetter, nur schlechte Kleidung" and "du bist nicht aus Zucker!".
Im taking that for when my teen whines about the rain (which in Australia is a freaking blessing that helps hold bushfires at bay unless at the wrong time for harvest)
@@lwolfstar7618 I feel you. Some wildfires were starting in my area, but we got a nice spell of rain today.
We have the same in Czechia "Nejsi z cukru" and also way shorter "To uschne" - it gonna dry out
I've been through a rough life myself. But, having a trauma competition?
Something I heard years and years ago, and always try to keep in mind, it's that pain can't be measured in a straight line. What may hurt one person, may kill another. So, it's important to never compare pain. All people hurt. The best thing you can do is spread love to others, and be supportive. And find those who will love and support you.
« Asian poeple weren’t taken from their homes and enslaved » *Canadian pacific railway*
*Mass incarceration of Japanese Americans during World War II*
31:45 Fun fact: Fully grown adults whose height starts with a 5 in the metric system are extremely rare. I'm pretty sure there has never been a human at least 5 m tall or smaller than 6 cm. So the only people whose height started with a 5 were close to being a world record "smallest person ever", which is 54.6cm according to Guinness World Records.
Someone who does acting as a hobby here, I can confirm I'm generally perfect, never make mistakes, I also do not laugh. Ever.
Seriously tho, if anybody of the people in my acting group had to work with that person, all of our pay would be zero-
Before or after you punch him squarely in the nose for being a perfectionist asshole?
I really doubt that guy has ever written anything in his life.
5:31 Etymology os the study of how language evolves and where words come from, hence they're arguing over where the word picnic originates. Not the first time I've seen our Swedish friend trip on the word etymologically.
25:25I am from Mexico, as much as I would love to think that Quetzacoatl was really a feathered dragon/serpent with the power to fly and control the riches of the earth, historians have come to the conclusion that they were talking about a bird called Quetzal , and it has a very long tail, so it looks like a flying snake when the bird is in the air.
Not to mention that Quetzaoatl is also presented as a white man, not as a reptile, by other Mesoamerican cultures .3.
"Do you like to collect things?" *pans over to actual mountain of emotional support demons*
“Congrats on the raw dogging” made me laugh so hard I hacked up some nasty phlegm that was very deep inside my lungs.
if i understand this correctly then congratulations! i actually understand, happen to me too... Click could mark this video as a medical support lol
As I'm currently fighting with sinus gremlins and the resulting drainage, I want to say "congrats!", but not sure that's the right response lol
Thanks, I just cackled and gagged at the same time.
Whelp, at least it's out now
So deep- 😩
14:14 now, I know you said multiple takes, but there have been movies shot in one continuous shoot, 1917 is a great example of this, cinematic masterpiece, and I would recommend watching it.
10:32 He never specifies gender in the requirements 😂
What always got to me while working retail was how people would take things from hooks and couldn’t be bothered to hang them back up. I don’t approve of telling customers to clean up after other people, but they could straighten up what they themselves mess up. Of course, I once watched a woman give her 12 year old a lecture on respecting other people while walking down a newly straightened aisle, moving items around she had no intention of buying. I was blown away by the utter lack of self awareness. So much I was actually amused by what might have annoyed me. Especially as it was like 15 minutes before closing.
Pretty much 70% of my job as a retail worker is fixing what others have messed up and answering the exact same question with the same obvious answer.
@@kempolar9768 This just confirmed my belief that if I have a question and I‘m not sure if it sounds stupid, I should keep it to myself. Lol. My social anxiety is going great.
@@teallineart8805 Fellow retail worker here. Even if the question may seem stupid to the person you're asking, you still need to ask it. I'd much rather help someone find the can of beans right beside them than watch them wander around that aisle for 20 minutes and leave empty-handed.
@@animeartist888 yeah you got it, sometimes there just genuinely is something that you don't know and so need to ask. Most of the time people ask something stupid it's not like that, stupid questions are like "hey didn't you sell this one particular item like 6 years ago (with a very vague description)?".
Here in Argentina that happens with many anglospeaking tourists. It's also a stereotype that Porteños do it with ponchos, as well
8:48 "Du bist ja nicht aus Zucker." "You're not made of sugar." is a classic response from German parents when you're supposed to go out in the rain :,)
How can this be changed to say, I am not... "Ich bist nicht ja aus Zucker"? Or did I miss some grammar
I’m from Ireland and teachers say that a lot as well (obviously in English not German but still the same phrase)
Here in the Netherlands too, 'je bent toch niet van suiker gemaakt'
Onko sinut tehty sokerista? Finnish for "are you made out of sugar?" And then kicked out into the rain.. Byeeee.. 🌧️😅🌧️🌧️
@@elishaforrester1150 #
Sorry, but I am not quite sure what you wanted to say.
If you are looking for the phrase: "I am not made from sugar" that would be:
"Ich bin ja nicht aus Zucker gemacht!"
4:02 yeah, I’m with the 2nd woman 100%
The double standards in this regard are real
“No word starts with ‘O’ and ends with ‘O’”
Ok..then what happened to Oregano, Oreo, Orlando, etc?
[Tw: ptsd and war talk]
Thing about ptsd is that people who have it tend to compare themselves to other traumatized people, they will always feel like the less traumatized one. For example I come from Ukraine, I've been diagnosed with ptsd here in Germany, but I don't feel like I'm that messed up, even though I was incredibly close to losing my dad (worked at airport when it was bombed first time), and was incredibly close to meeting the soldiers face to face with the path of escaping the city we chose. Because oh boy, I was only present during two or three bombings, of course I am not worthy of being cared for as the people who spent longer in the city!
I've stopped feeling that only after ptsd related stresses lead to a potentially permanent nerve damage, I got put into the hospital for a week and there and now have to take an epilepsy med just not to be in constant pain all the time....
Lesson of the day, trust your therapist and your pain god damn. It's no competition, ptsd is a reaction to an experience, it doesn't matter where it comes from, the reaction in itself is dangerous for you
greetings from a fellow ukrainian!
i'm incredibly sorry you have to deal with all of that. and of course stuff could've been worse for both of us, but it doesn't mean our actual pain is not valid. trauma is not a competition
I totally agree with you.
We all handle trauma differently, someone who had more exposure may end up with fewer/less severe symptoms and someone with less exposure may end up with more/more severe symptoms and that's ok, it just means that some people are better at shutting out the bad memories than others.
And we don't all have the same traumatic experience, we don't all have the same triggers and we don't all have the same responses to being triggered, all that makes it hard to compare severity, and really what good does it do us.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
I may be from North America, but:
До біса Путіна іржава щука! Слава україні!
Same, i went through sexual, physical, emotional, and verbal abuse all throughout my childhood and I'll think, whelp, this person had it worse so i can't have ptsd. That girl belittling her boyfriend's trauma is fucked up
The panic when he said “do I smell cringe?”
I may need to change my gamer tag
Omg, you're that cringe person everyone is talking about?! Omg, nice to meet you!
"alarm clocks are racist"
could you imagine your alarm clock using research, to make sure you get exactly just not enough sleep, and it wakes you by screaming racial slurs at you
26:20 they dug up some dino skeletons perhaps. Just imagine you never saw an elephant and are now stunned by the fact that you’ve found a femur larger than you. What could this mighty creature be and should we become friends or fight it? 😂
" men cant endure trauma or be hurt or feel emotions " i am livid . my friend told me for years it was told to stifle when it was in pain . told it was being dramatic , and felt ostracized from spaces outside of masculinity for safety reasons , but it also felt distant from its friends who were raised and socialized as men and wanted to connect with other people bc its friends didnt know how to be vulnerable or how to fucking interact half the time . if you want people to be better human beings : if you want people to emotionally aware and able to healthily regulate their emotions : dont teach them theyre not allowed to feel emotions , if you want ppl to self examine and be able to make judgements on whats kind and what can impact people : dont teach them they can never be vulnerable or be impacted because what theyre going through isnt bad enough - how abuse works is that theres a good chance that given that frame of reference : not ok things they do will probably feel normal and okay bc they havent been able to unlearn anything . youre fueling the thing you hate which is cycles of abuse , trauma , and oppressive gender norms - not the * living beings * who are systematically brainwashed into specific worldviews , beliefs , maladaptive unhealthy ways of coping , and taught they have to exist in a specific way because heaven forbid if people dont color within the lines : people start trying to hurt us .
In my opinion, anyone who says any child can't experience THAT abuse is just looking for a way to excuse their own repulsive desires.
"Hippity Hoppity, let's have a child as property" Yup, too many parents do treat them that way instead of actually parenting. That's a great way to point out the mindset of children not being individuals but "symbols" of love or an "experience or ego-booster" for the parents, not actual people, children who need care and nurturing.
8:41 when I walk in the rain I pretend im jet skiing because I don't get the chance up here in Wisconsin that often.