Could you please ask Anghel to show us how he ties his shemagh? I thought I saw a video of him showing it a long time ago but now I can't find it. Thanks.
Everyone should read these books as well it will help you a lot. The book by Imam Ibn Qayyim "The Disease and the cure", and the "Purification of the Soul" by Jamaal Al Din Zarabozo.
"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultery common in the young generation" salahuddin al ayyubi Don't forget to do your daily dhikr.
I tried very hard to get rid of the addiction😭 the longest ive gone was like 3 months plus but im trying again these days. everything you guys said is true. it literally kills me
Don't publicize your sins. May Allah forgive us and make your hardship easy. Allah told us, Did you expect to believe and you wouldn't be tested? I can't recommend cold showers daily enough to keep the mind focused and nafs at bay.
I discovered this channel quite recently and I gotta say that you guys upload BANGERS. I've learned a hell lot from some of the recent podcasts and I've now decided to start watching from the first podcast and try to catch up lol. May Allah keep you guys firm on the truth and make your intentions for his sake alone.
Such a well rounded and grounded discussion on an important topic MashaAllah👌🏽May Allah keep our hearts firm, away from doing haram and help us keep our nafs in check ameen. P. S. The humour is appreciated 😂
@@WeEducateAndTutor JazakAllah may Allah also make it easy for you 😊 your intentions are there already! Sometimes it's just the overthinking and wasswassa stopping us, just dive into it InshaAllah 😄
*Timestamps:* 0:00 - The Athan App 0:42 - Introduction 1:11 - Dealing with Nafs (Desires) 3:10 - Why Single Men indulge in "Self Love"? 5:55 - Why Married Men indulge in "Self Love"? 10:12 - Unresolved childhood trauma as a factor 12:00 - Figuring out the Reason 12:37 - Building Good Habits through Routine 16:39 - Importance of Taqwa & Ihsan 22:35 - Avoiding the Haram by changing Routine 23:28 - Marriage not being an easy fix 23:52 - The Deception of P*rn 26:25 - Harmful Effects & Dangers of Self Love 31:07 - Role of Psychology in developement of S*xuality 33:07 - No Justification for doing Haram 33:44 - The Degeneration of Modern Societies 34:38 - The Punishment of indulging in Haram 35:55 - Making Progress in Life towards Allah ﷻ 37:21 - Benefits of NoFap 41:24 - Issue of Rationalising Sins 46:57 - Problems with Relapsing 47:35 - Being better off not knowing what it's like 48:34 - The Importance of Sincerity in Tawbah 50:29 - Closing Remarks: Addressing the viewers 53:12 - Wrapping Up 53:25 - Outro SubhanAllah ❤️🤍💖 Brilliant & Pertinent Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻 _May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._ 🤲🏻
this timestamp guys are different breed of humans, attention span like sun and moon. you need to watch the whole episode and write stamps man. huge respect to you.
53 days in and I can feel some of these benefits that you guys were talking about. The first couple of weeks was actually easier since I’ve started this journey, but this time around is the biggest struggle for me, but I’m fighting the battle harder than I’ve ever had before. Good podcast episode!
The stronger the Imaan (your faith, passionate worshipping to Allah, and dedication) the easier worshipping Allah becomes and the more uncomfortable it gets to sin and disgrace yourself in front of Allah. Your sense of accountability increases and the more of Allah’s mercy and support you seek. Study Islam consistently increases your Knowledge and do regular Zikr. Thanks for putting out informative and inspirational content. May Allah reward you 3 and your team enormously.
You guys are doing a great job bringing awareness to important issues that are particularly damaging to the Muslim youth who are impressionable. Thank you brothers and may Allah bless you
There's a lot of good advice here, including God Consciousness, having taqwa. But I think it's really important to keep in mind, with respect to the hadith, that it's talking about a very high level of consciousness that only those who have entered into the realm of Iman, from Islam, have. The average Muslim does not have this, and focusing on this will lead to failure because you're setting such a high standard for yourself. This is what plagues the broader secular spiritualist community, and also, the western Buddhist communities as well. They all talk about Enlightenment, setting up this lofty goal that few have ever achieved, but end up trying to practice what they think an Enlightened person is like/God Conscious person is like, but in that practice, because it does not reflect their inward state, are merely engaging in the suppression of their emotions, feelings, and psycho-physiological states that require a healthy output. Practice God Consciousness, but you really need to be putting in hours of meditation [muraqaba] and dhikr. Imam al-Ghazali says that when remembering God causes one to avoid certain actions and perform other actions, that constitutes as a type of knowledge that has become instantiated. So the key takeaway here is that every time you act on that awareness, even if its just a subtle awareness, it has an effect. Ultimately, you want to be able to feel the effects of spiritual expansion and healing so that you can contrast this with its opposite, which arises from committing certain haram acts. Once you see the difference, it becomes much easier to prefer the good to the bad, the healing to the wounding. The prior takes one closer to self-knowledge, and from the saying of the spiritual masters and the attributed hadith, "Whoever knows their own soul knows God." It's a whole process of upward cultivation. Because our God Consciousness is imperfect, if you rely solely on whether or not you're God Conscious, then you will fail because you're not perfect in your God Consciousness. I think the greatest challenge is for those who are unmarried. You guys make a good point when you talk about the overall neurological effect and what you see visually. It's not only leading to guys becoming entangled in the perverted desires of cuckoldry, but think about what happens when the brain is being aroused and stimulated while its perceiving male genitalia? You're basically being aroused by men engaged in a sexually dominating act. I would argue this is at the heart of the gender confusion debates that are happening today, especially since we are living in a social environment that for the past 50 years especially, has been socially shaped by the sex positivity movement, which basically reduces human beings down to their sexual impulses. So if people are being taught that, ontologically you are your sexual impulse, and if your sexual impulse is being shaped by pornography, then what are you? It's very Dajjalic. Another point to mention is that even if you pray for forgiveness, and Allah forgives you, the negative effects of your actions may still be there. It's a very complex subject that goes from the realm of physical to the metaphysical.
Wow. Alhamdulillah. This comment was extremeely eye opening for me and and is super well written. You are very wise my freind MashaAllah. You are absolutely right in your advice and the advice our 3 brothers give should try to inlcude Western Contexts within it- little Jimmy that practices "self-love" 3 times a day is not thinking about Allah. He hasn't built the imaan to do that. I have noticed the periods when I break from this horrible horrible addiction is when I follow my self-imrpovement habits combined with Dhikr. Meditation, distraction and a proper salah, self reflecting during sajdah and growing closer to Allah gives me my longest streaks of abstinence....Ramadaan is always a beautiful time. I pray to Allah I quit this addiction. Its destroyed my life. Its getting better now, generally 1 month period of abstinence inbetween but its a horrible feeling as the older I am getting and the more purified I want to become, the more dirty and disgraced I feel descending into that horrible horrible hole. May anyone reading this beat the addiction, and become better men. That's all I want to be. I just want to gain my innocence and purity back. For my imaan and relationship with Allah. For my future wife who deserves better. For my future children who deserves a better man. For myself and others surrounding me. Ameen.
May Allah bless you and protect you guys for this amazing content. We need to encourage more action against this plague in our society, and this certainly helps. Keep it going!
As a women I will say it right now for the sake of people knowing as a women I deal with this too imagine for me personally I didn’t learn it and I didn’t hear about it I just discovered it one day when I was like 7 or 8 I didn’t even know it was haram until I started to discover Islam on UA-cam school sucks it didn’t teach me that it is haram they just teach us about prayer and Quran but not explain it they don’t speak about things like this that are super important and I remember my mom caught me once but she just pretended she didn’t see anything like my mom failed as a mother when she didn’t tell me what I was doing was wrong because now I am 17 and I am still struggling literally the slightest bit of thinking about intimacy or anything like that my hormones rage and I can’t control it just like brother anghel said there is no takwa when you are in that stage I apologize to Allah and I do my thing it is crazy how people think us girls don’t even do it because we are “innocent” I feel like these people just want to be blind about it people don’t know because us girls are shy and we don’t speak about it when we should in a respectful manner for education purposes لا حياء في الدين there is no shyness in religion women came to the prophet peace be upon him and talked to him about things like this idk why it’s so taboo to talk about it
May Allah give you sisters the best form of Strength. Never give up on the mercy of Allah. Do your best. And even if it Happens (May Allah forbid) then repent sincerely and start a fresh new page. Its never too late to change as long as you're breathing. There is so much content on abstinence that serves as a reminder. Never give up salah, Dhikr and trying your utter best to remain busy. May Allah forgive and help us All.
The way I found out about this podcast was Anghel's NoFap video in 2015. Can y'all react to that video? What if you have IamLucid for him to discuss NoFap? Him & Anghel are the only two guys I remember talking about this 7 years ago. It's helping the brothers a lot. Not me of course, but the other brothers.
38:45 I think you're downplaying how easy it is for people to lose that "control" and the ridiculous "logic" that one tells himself as to why the release is needed. "It'll help you sleep.. I promise" "oh it's the weekend..enjoy yourself" "I closed a deal today, you deserve it" "When else is no not at home.." All syaitans whispers, and people who do it even once will easily do more anytime
1 - Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168] 2 - whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One " [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67] 3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah) [the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213]
Scientifically, fapping is led by emotions. Men must never be led by emotion but pure mind & logic. I feel very weak everytime I give in to my emotions. Men think, women feel. It is how nature intended us to be and how Allah wanted us to act biologically. You will also notice that you as a man release stress readily by engaging in mental activities, women release stress by being emotional.
Al salaam Aleykum, This is a nice podcast it discusses many issues nicely, but there are two parts I wanted to talk about that were addressed wrong. 1. 47:00 instead of thinking 'oh it's done' think 'ok I have been clean for 20 days and tomorrow is going to be the 21' and keep on going with the cleaning phase this method really helps your psychological motivation, and If you think 'oh it's done this will bring less motivation and more sin. 2. 48:34 Always think that the mercy of Allah is greater than your sin, it's actually haram to think otherwise. Even if you are in the mid of sins you should not treat Allah like a human being, Allah put us here on earth for trial and a person may fail all their trials until the last one and Allah will reward them Jannah. Never ever think that Allah will not forgive you even if you are sinning every minute otherwise you can destroy your belief by the thought that 'oh I have been in this cycle sin repent sin repent ... Allah is not gonna forgive me. other than these two points this was a beautiful podcast thank you for helping the Muslim youth and may Allah reward you Jannah.
With regards to those who are married, the wife has a responsibility to be intimate with the husband regularly because otherwise he will be tempted to do haram (and the husband has a a similar responsibility towards the wife) but sometimes the addiction is towards haram even if they have a halal outlit in marriage
41:45 because we can't ignore the fact that you are doing it, doesn't matter the occasion or how frequent, *it's still going to impact you* because you're experiencing it (effects) from doing it (hub, self-love, drinking, smoking, greasy foods, diabetic drinks) 👽
45:00 I'm starting to love this guy bro (no homo lol) because of his logic, reasoning, I love all 3 of em 👽😌 *aww sound effect moment. *everyone liked that.
46:00 it doesn't matter the intensity, what matters is you're being affected by it and it needs to stop. It's like having the water on hot, doesn't matter how intense it is... it's still hot. Likewise, doesn't matter how far down the rabbit hole you are when it comes to addictions, etc, don't let that forget you that you're in the rabbit hole. 👽
I wouldn't say you're DONE after relapsing just once, but it is definetly detrimental and not worthwhile. Its just the inner addict and waswas craving its fix. One relapse is not as bad as two and two is not as bad as three. That doesn't make doing it once correct though. Just something to mention Insha'Allah if anyone was thrown off by that comment made by brother Faiyad. May Allah forgive him. We are not perfect and we all make mistakes. May Allah bless you all. To my nofappers, keep going and remember progression, not perfection. One relapse does not ruin all your progress. Turn back to Allah swt and just move forward in how you can improve and address the causes of relapse.
47:36 prevention is better than cure. You'd rather not experience it and not ask for a solution (I mean, why should you? when you're not being affected as you avoided the castrasophe altogether) as supposed to asking for a cure (yaknee you're in the catastrophe, experienced it and want out) you'd be the person who saw the danger and went around it as supposed to diving in head first and a thought came to u saying what you have done I shouldn't be here it's too dangerous for me the more I'm in the more danger it becomes for myself. 👽
27:20 wow that's crazy but at the same time it's unfortunate because it's reality and that just sounds realistic for someone to do... that's just sad bruh.
Nikola Tesla : "All manifestations, even in their most complex appearances - and man is a good example of this - even if they are complicated and impenetrable, are therefore only movements which must be governed by the same mechanical laws as those which govern movement. entire physical universe. When we speak of man, our conception must be that of humanity as a whole, and before applying scientific methods to analyze its movement, we must first accept it as a physical reality. But who would still doubt today that these millions of individuals, with their innumerable differences of type and character, form only one entity, one unit? Although free to think and act, we are bound together like the stars in the firmament, by bonds resistant to any test. These links, we cannot see them, but we can feel them. If I cut my finger, it will hurt; this finger is part of my body. If I see a friend suffer, I suffer too; my friend and I are one. And if I see an enemy being cut down, I'm sorry, even though he's just a clump of matter that I don't care about any more than any other clump of matter in the universe. Doesn't this prove that each of us is only part of a whole? This concept has been defended by the wisest religious doctrines for centuries, probably because not only can it guarantee peace and harmony among men, but it also embodies a well-founded truth. Buddhists express it one way, Christians another, although they both say the same thing: we are one." -------------------------------------------- “I never, above my signature, announced anything that I didn't prove first. That's why none of my statements have ever been contradicted, and I don't think they will be, because every time I post something, I review it first from experience and then from from experience I calculate, and when I meet theory and practice, I announce the results.” “We are One. Only egos, beliefs and fears separate us.” Nikola Tesla
I love the Athan App, but is there a bug on the 7 day trial when you sign in through apple. Meaning that i subscribed to the app but it says i'm not logged in and when i do it gives me an error when i sign in
Can you guys give me some advice. I want to really end this habit but whenever i avoid this for a while say say for like 20+ days i get acne on my face, back, chest. And get nightfall. And when i do this again then the acne disappears and nightfall stops. Plz can someone guide me for the sake of Allah S.W.T. I am so frustrated by this habit.
I have a question; what if a guy's family is not helping him get married and he knows no one and no women or friends or sisters that wants to help finding a woman for him; WHat can such a person do? Can he go and talk to women to get to know them ?
Why are shy for saying masturbation to self love n porn to p when you are speaking about something that give someone knowledge and guidance then there is no shame to use this type of word....parsaa
Teenagers need to be teach about semen retention and transmutation how different the world will be when men are more responsible of not spilling their seed all over for few seconds of pleasure
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Could you please ask Anghel to show us how he ties his shemagh? I thought I saw a video of him showing it a long time ago but now I can't find it. Thanks.
Fix yourself for marriage, don't try to let marriage fix you.
Definitely 👍 ❤
Even if u try marriage won't fix your addiction it will just make it worse
Everyone should read these books as well it will help you a lot. The book by Imam Ibn Qayyim "The Disease and the cure", and the "Purification of the Soul" by Jamaal Al Din Zarabozo.
Thanks! Currently reading The Disease and the Cure. I will be adding the other one to my queue inshaAllah.
@@WeEducateAndTutor Excellent.
@@MuhammadAli-mz4pq BarakAllah feek
I don't think the book will help you with addiction necessarily as the book concentrates on an obsession with a particular person and how to cure that
@@AM-bm9rs The books talk how to heal the heart from spiritual diseases.
"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultery common in the young generation" salahuddin al ayyubi
Don't forget to do your daily dhikr.
@Tom Ben lol
We as young generation is lost and destroyed
Absolutely correct brother
I tried very hard to get rid of the addiction😭 the longest ive gone was like 3 months plus but im trying again these days. everything you guys said is true. it literally kills me
May Allah make it easy for you🤲
Ask Allah for help... Don't give up ever and in sha Allah u will get there...
don't expose your sins
@@Yasmine-wn4wy Allah knows that this man regrets his sin. He is looking for support we should not reject him.
Don't publicize your sins. May Allah forgive us and make your hardship easy.
Allah told us, Did you expect to believe and you wouldn't be tested?
I can't recommend cold showers daily enough to keep the mind focused and nafs at bay.
I discovered this channel quite recently and I gotta say that you guys upload BANGERS. I've learned a hell lot from some of the recent podcasts and I've now decided to start watching from the first podcast and try to catch up lol. May Allah keep you guys firm on the truth and make your intentions for his sake alone.
Ameen habibi
Aameen
Christian here. Been struggling with sexual immorality and watching this video is giving me the strength to go on. Thank you, brother.
Read kalma become muslim
@@Haseeb10008 I prefer to stay Christian, but I respect you brother
@@Haseeb10008if you are muslim is ok, but dont try make everyone muslim like it must be bad being christian
Such a well rounded and grounded discussion on an important topic MashaAllah👌🏽May Allah keep our hearts firm, away from doing haram and help us keep our nafs in check ameen.
P. S. The humour is appreciated 😂
Aameen
Love how you wear your Hijab❤️ I hope to one day inshaAllah wear it as properly as you do. BarakAllah feek.
@@WeEducateAndTutor JazakAllah may Allah also make it easy for you 😊 your intentions are there already! Sometimes it's just the overthinking and wasswassa stopping us, just dive into it InshaAllah 😄
*Timestamps:*
0:00 - The Athan App
0:42 - Introduction
1:11 - Dealing with Nafs (Desires)
3:10 - Why Single Men indulge in "Self Love"?
5:55 - Why Married Men indulge in "Self Love"?
10:12 - Unresolved childhood trauma as a factor
12:00 - Figuring out the Reason
12:37 - Building Good Habits through Routine
16:39 - Importance of Taqwa & Ihsan
22:35 - Avoiding the Haram by changing Routine
23:28 - Marriage not being an easy fix
23:52 - The Deception of P*rn
26:25 - Harmful Effects & Dangers of Self Love
31:07 - Role of Psychology in developement of S*xuality
33:07 - No Justification for doing Haram
33:44 - The Degeneration of Modern Societies
34:38 - The Punishment of indulging in Haram
35:55 - Making Progress in Life towards Allah ﷻ
37:21 - Benefits of NoFap
41:24 - Issue of Rationalising Sins
46:57 - Problems with Relapsing
47:35 - Being better off not knowing what it's like
48:34 - The Importance of Sincerity in Tawbah
50:29 - Closing Remarks: Addressing the viewers
53:12 - Wrapping Up
53:25 - Outro
SubhanAllah ❤️🤍💖
Brilliant & Pertinent Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻
_May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._ 🤲🏻
this timestamp guys are different breed of humans, attention span like sun and moon. you need to watch the whole episode and write stamps man. huge respect to you.
@@shariarshuvo بارك اللٰه فيك أخي ❤️
Aameen
I loved this episode cant wait for part 2, this is exactly what teenagers in this day and age need. keep up the great work!
53 days in and I can feel some of these benefits that you guys were talking about. The first couple of weeks was actually easier since I’ve started this journey, but this time around is the biggest struggle for me, but I’m fighting the battle harder than I’ve ever had before. Good podcast episode!
The stronger the Imaan (your faith, passionate worshipping to Allah, and dedication) the easier worshipping Allah becomes and the more uncomfortable it gets to sin and disgrace yourself in front of Allah. Your sense of accountability increases and the more of Allah’s mercy and support you seek.
Study Islam consistently increases your Knowledge and do regular Zikr.
Thanks for putting out informative and inspirational content.
May Allah reward you 3 and your team enormously.
Aameen
Your comment is so good and so true MashaAllah. BarakAllah feek.
Thanks
This is helpful
I remember aanghel talking about this few years ago before joining the3muslims
i really wish to sit down with brother aanghel some day and discuss life n all with him. he has a great perspective towards life.
Brother in the middle absolutely nailed it about married men and having more wives
You guys are doing a great job bringing awareness to important issues that are particularly damaging to the Muslim youth who are impressionable. Thank you brothers and may Allah bless you
that athan app ad was so smooth!!! Allahuma barik! Anghel looking crispy!
roe jogan had me hahah. nice episode brothers. something i struggle with. but im motivated than never before. thanks
We need more awareness about this InshAllah, thank you for speaking about this. This issue is so prevalent but no one wants to speak out about it
This is the topic ive been waiting for
My favourite so far boyzzzz
Keep it up!!
There's a lot of good advice here, including God Consciousness, having taqwa. But I think it's really important to keep in mind, with respect to the hadith, that it's talking about a very high level of consciousness that only those who have entered into the realm of Iman, from Islam, have. The average Muslim does not have this, and focusing on this will lead to failure because you're setting such a high standard for yourself. This is what plagues the broader secular spiritualist community, and also, the western Buddhist communities as well. They all talk about Enlightenment, setting up this lofty goal that few have ever achieved, but end up trying to practice what they think an Enlightened person is like/God Conscious person is like, but in that practice, because it does not reflect their inward state, are merely engaging in the suppression of their emotions, feelings, and psycho-physiological states that require a healthy output.
Practice God Consciousness, but you really need to be putting in hours of meditation [muraqaba] and dhikr. Imam al-Ghazali says that when remembering God causes one to avoid certain actions and perform other actions, that constitutes as a type of knowledge that has become instantiated. So the key takeaway here is that every time you act on that awareness, even if its just a subtle awareness, it has an effect. Ultimately, you want to be able to feel the effects of spiritual expansion and healing so that you can contrast this with its opposite, which arises from committing certain haram acts. Once you see the difference, it becomes much easier to prefer the good to the bad, the healing to the wounding. The prior takes one closer to self-knowledge, and from the saying of the spiritual masters and the attributed hadith, "Whoever knows their own soul knows God."
It's a whole process of upward cultivation. Because our God Consciousness is imperfect, if you rely solely on whether or not you're God Conscious, then you will fail because you're not perfect in your God Consciousness.
I think the greatest challenge is for those who are unmarried.
You guys make a good point when you talk about the overall neurological effect and what you see visually. It's not only leading to guys becoming entangled in the perverted desires of cuckoldry, but think about what happens when the brain is being aroused and stimulated while its perceiving male genitalia? You're basically being aroused by men engaged in a sexually dominating act. I would argue this is at the heart of the gender confusion debates that are happening today, especially since we are living in a social environment that for the past 50 years especially, has been socially shaped by the sex positivity movement, which basically reduces human beings down to their sexual impulses. So if people are being taught that, ontologically you are your sexual impulse, and if your sexual impulse is being shaped by pornography, then what are you? It's very Dajjalic.
Another point to mention is that even if you pray for forgiveness, and Allah forgives you, the negative effects of your actions may still be there. It's a very complex subject that goes from the realm of physical to the metaphysical.
Wow. Alhamdulillah. This comment was extremeely eye opening for me and and is super well written. You are very wise my freind MashaAllah. You are absolutely right in your advice and the advice our 3 brothers give should try to inlcude Western Contexts within it- little Jimmy that practices "self-love" 3 times a day is not thinking about Allah.
He hasn't built the imaan to do that.
I have noticed the periods when I break from this horrible horrible addiction is when I follow my self-imrpovement habits combined with Dhikr. Meditation, distraction and a proper salah, self reflecting during sajdah and growing closer to Allah gives me my longest streaks of abstinence....Ramadaan is always a beautiful time.
I pray to Allah I quit this addiction. Its destroyed my life. Its getting better now, generally 1 month period of abstinence inbetween but its a horrible feeling as the older I am getting and the more purified I want to become, the more dirty and disgraced I feel descending into that horrible horrible hole. May anyone reading this beat the addiction, and become better men. That's all I want to be. I just want to gain my innocence and purity back. For my imaan and relationship with Allah. For my future wife who deserves better. For my future children who deserves a better man. For myself and others surrounding me. Ameen.
Please guide me out!?? Can I connect with you on Telegram or LinkedIn???
I'm muslim and wanted to discuss few things!
Wowwwwwww
Amazing episode !!!
Oh Allah, bless me in my Iman and wealth. Ya Kareem (the Generous One), make me very generous towards others.
Aameen
May Allah bless you and protect you guys for this amazing content. We need to encourage more action against this plague in our society, and this certainly helps. Keep it going!
Aameen
I'm not Muslim but I respect these young men having this important conversation.
Another podcast, let's go brothers ❤️
1789 days hard mode Nofap- extremely high level- soon will be on 1800 days!
What period is the hardest?
How plese help
The best channel on youtube❤❤ full of wisdom. Barak Allah feekom ❤
MashAllah, yall are hilarious and admirable. May Allah accept all your good deeds, and accept you into jannah. 😊
Masha Allah very beneficial. May Allah bless you And reward you brothers ameen
Aameen
Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah... Ya Akhi you were on the point 👉 May Allah Suhbanahu wa ta'aala bless you and your family... Ameen Rabbe'Alimeen...!!!
This episode was a banger 🔥! Can’t wait for part 2! Jazakallah khair brothers.
I really appreciate you guys ! Thx for the great work! Much love from Vienna
As a women I will say it right now for the sake of people knowing as a women I deal with this too imagine for me personally I didn’t learn it and I didn’t hear about it I just discovered it one day when I was like 7 or 8 I didn’t even know it was haram until I started to discover Islam on UA-cam school sucks it didn’t teach me that it is haram they just teach us about prayer and Quran but not explain it they don’t speak about things like this that are super important and I remember my mom caught me once but she just pretended she didn’t see anything like my mom failed as a mother when she didn’t tell me what I was doing was wrong because now I am 17 and I am still struggling literally the slightest bit of thinking about intimacy or anything like that my hormones rage and I can’t control it just like brother anghel said there is no takwa when you are in that stage I apologize to Allah and I do my thing it is crazy how people think us girls don’t even do it because we are “innocent” I feel like these people just want to be blind about it people don’t know because us girls are shy and we don’t speak about it when we should in a respectful manner for education purposes لا حياء في الدين there is no shyness in religion women came to the prophet peace be upon him and talked to him about things like this idk why it’s so taboo to talk about it
May Allah give you sisters the best form of Strength. Never give up on the mercy of Allah. Do your best. And even if it Happens (May Allah forbid) then repent sincerely and start a fresh new page. Its never too late to change as long as you're breathing. There is so much content on abstinence that serves as a reminder. Never give up salah, Dhikr and trying your utter best to remain busy.
May Allah forgive and help us All.
Best Podcast in The Dunya 💯
Mash'aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for this beneficial episode! Looking forward to the next episodes insh'aAllah!
The way I found out about this podcast was Anghel's NoFap video in 2015. Can y'all react to that video? What if you have IamLucid for him to discuss NoFap? Him & Anghel are the only two guys I remember talking about this 7 years ago. It's helping the brothers a lot. Not me of course, but the other brothers.
Great Video. Thank you for the knowledge.
The only reason I’m considering second wife is to protect myself from Haram. You guys put my feelings perfectly. Love the podcast.
Go ahead if you can handle. Look at your vast responsibilities not only money but also support emotional and all types.
Just discovered this channel, love the videos. Going to be sticking around a lot more! Barakallah feekom.
I love your videos so much, interesting discussions. I came across the channel recently and since then am hooked. May Allah reward y'all
Finally someone sponsered this app i love it too
Can’t believe I just found this podcast . ❤
Such fire podcast man. Love y’all Inshallah Allah protects you all 🙏🏽
Very constructive chat guys , well done
Also when someone dealing with this issue, literally by passing time most of habits or maybe hobbies that you're talented in, will be vanished
38:45 I think you're downplaying how easy it is for people to lose that "control" and the ridiculous "logic" that one tells himself as to why the release is needed.
"It'll help you sleep.. I promise"
"oh it's the weekend..enjoy yourself"
"I closed a deal today, you deserve it"
"When else is no not at home.."
All syaitans whispers, and people who do it even once will easily do more anytime
Salam Alaikum, jazak Allah kharin, I downloaded the Ahdan app here in UAE
1 - Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168]
2 - whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme)
Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One " [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67]
3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah)
[the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213]
JazakAllah khair for the reminder
LOLOL im dying at how the guy in grey shirt couldn’t contain himself when he said I want to take it from two different angles😂
Amazing 🔥
Thank you I learnt alot from this podcast
Scientifically, fapping is led by emotions. Men must never be led by emotion but pure mind & logic. I feel very weak everytime I give in to my emotions. Men think, women feel. It is how nature intended us to be and how Allah wanted us to act biologically. You will also notice that you as a man release stress readily by engaging in mental activities, women release stress by being emotional.
May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless you brothers fi dunya wa fil akhira.
Very beneficial video may Allah bless you brothers
Mashallah beautiful advice and pointers
Al salaam Aleykum, This is a nice podcast it discusses many issues nicely, but there are two parts I wanted to talk about that were addressed wrong.
1. 47:00 instead of thinking 'oh it's done' think 'ok I have been clean for 20 days and tomorrow is going to be the 21' and keep on going with the cleaning phase this method really helps your psychological motivation, and If you think 'oh it's done this will bring less motivation and more sin.
2. 48:34 Always think that the mercy of Allah is greater than your sin, it's actually haram to think otherwise. Even if you are in the mid of sins you should not treat Allah like a human being, Allah put us here on earth for trial and a person may fail all their trials until the last one and Allah will reward them Jannah. Never ever think that Allah will not forgive you even if you are sinning every minute otherwise you can destroy your belief by the thought that 'oh I have been in this cycle sin repent sin repent ... Allah is not gonna forgive me.
other than these two points this was a beautiful podcast thank you for helping the Muslim youth and may Allah reward you Jannah.
Maddest title yet
may Allah guide us to what he likes and not punish us for our stupidness and ignorance
good conversation...
بارك الله فيكم تملون العين و ترضون الخاطر
With regards to those who are married, the wife has a responsibility to be intimate with the husband regularly because otherwise he will be tempted to do haram (and the husband has a a similar responsibility towards the wife) but sometimes the addiction is towards haram even if they have a halal outlit in marriage
Blocker Hero, or any other strong porn blocking app. If you properly change the settings it's really affective.
Tbh I think such topics should be left to the scholars, they’re experts in discussing these things appropriately.
they arent giving any fatawa, there is no problem in them discussing this topic
41:45 because we can't ignore the fact that you are doing it, doesn't matter the occasion or how frequent, *it's still going to impact you* because you're experiencing it (effects) from doing it (hub, self-love, drinking, smoking, greasy foods, diabetic drinks) 👽
45:00 I'm starting to love this guy bro (no homo lol) because of his logic, reasoning, I love all 3 of em 👽😌 *aww sound effect moment. *everyone liked that.
I think the no fap is the truth and I will begin my journey
More like Self-Abuse than Self-Love
Barak Allahu feekum
34:40 *pause* I laughed out loud 🤣🤣🤣
The problem is that I'm watching you guys right now and Ads are showing embarrassing things, Astaghfiro Allah
will this be available afterwards ? i can't attend live chat . please tell me urgent. thanks.
Yes
The apps should provide the shuruk and solat dhuha time too..
46:00 it doesn't matter the intensity, what matters is you're being affected by it and it needs to stop. It's like having the water on hot, doesn't matter how intense it is... it's still hot. Likewise, doesn't matter how far down the rabbit hole you are when it comes to addictions, etc, don't let that forget you that you're in the rabbit hole. 👽
I wouldn't say you're DONE after relapsing just once, but it is definetly detrimental and not worthwhile. Its just the inner addict and waswas craving its fix. One relapse is not as bad as two and two is not as bad as three. That doesn't make doing it once correct though. Just something to mention Insha'Allah if anyone was thrown off by that comment made by brother Faiyad. May Allah forgive him. We are not perfect and we all make mistakes. May Allah bless you all. To my nofappers, keep going and remember progression, not perfection. One relapse does not ruin all your progress. Turn back to Allah swt and just move forward in how you can improve and address the causes of relapse.
43:22 bro that 👽🤣
may allah bless you all.
I'm on a nop fap day 5 🤣. But won’t stop in sha Allah
47:36 prevention is better than cure. You'd rather not experience it and not ask for a solution (I mean, why should you? when you're not being affected as you avoided the castrasophe altogether) as supposed to asking for a cure (yaknee you're in the catastrophe, experienced it and want out) you'd be the person who saw the danger and went around it as supposed to diving in head first and a thought came to u saying what you have done I shouldn't be here it's too dangerous for me the more I'm in the more danger it becomes for myself. 👽
Brothers why is there an ad literally every 5 minutes?
27:20 wow that's crazy but at the same time it's unfortunate because it's reality and that just sounds realistic for someone to do... that's just sad bruh.
Nikola Tesla :
"All manifestations, even in their most complex appearances - and man is a good example of this - even if they are complicated and impenetrable, are therefore only movements which must be governed by the same mechanical laws as those which govern movement. entire physical universe.
When we speak of man, our conception must be that of humanity as a whole, and before applying scientific methods to analyze its movement, we must first accept it as a physical reality.
But who would still doubt today that these millions of individuals, with their innumerable differences of type and character, form only one entity, one unit?
Although free to think and act, we are bound together like the stars in the firmament, by bonds resistant to any test.
These links, we cannot see them, but we can feel them.
If I cut my finger, it will hurt; this finger is part of my body.
If I see a friend suffer, I suffer too; my friend and I are one.
And if I see an enemy being cut down, I'm sorry, even though he's just a clump of matter that I don't care about any more than any other clump of matter in the universe.
Doesn't this prove that each of us is only part of a whole?
This concept has been defended by the wisest religious doctrines for centuries, probably because not only can it guarantee peace and harmony among men, but it also embodies a well-founded truth.
Buddhists express it one way, Christians another, although they both say the same thing: we are one."
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“I never, above my signature, announced anything that I didn't prove first.
That's why none of my statements have ever been contradicted, and I don't think they will be, because every time I post something, I review it first from experience and then from from experience I calculate, and when I meet theory and practice, I announce the results.”
“We are One. Only egos, beliefs and fears separate us.”
Nikola Tesla
Nofap and semen retention is the only reality for success.....
Anghel🐻❤
You guys need to speak up abit more and mumble less. Great podcasts tho, very interesting and insightful. Bless you all 🙏
I love the Athan App, but is there a bug on the 7 day trial when you sign in through apple. Meaning that i subscribed to the app but it says i'm not logged in and when i do it gives me an error when i sign in
42:00 you only know how far you were when you stop doing it 👽
Non Muslims need to watch this too.
47:45 One of the reasons why we shouldn't shame male virgins.
Can you guys give me some advice. I want to really end this habit but whenever i avoid this for a while say say for like 20+ days i get acne on my face, back, chest. And get nightfall. And when i do this again then the acne disappears and nightfall stops. Plz can someone guide me for the sake of Allah S.W.T. I am so frustrated by this habit.
46:08 as a muslim I believe that there are no coincidences... I'm actually eating sum 👽🤣
44:22 how u know that faiayad *we under attack faiyad caught us, take cover!* 👽😳🤣
I have a question; what if a guy's family is not helping him get married and he knows no one and no women or friends or sisters that wants to help finding a woman for him; WHat can such a person do? Can he go and talk to women to get to know them ?
Self love is important for your mental health. There’s nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself. It is a normal human need.
Why are shy for saying masturbation to self love n porn to p when you are speaking about something that give someone knowledge and guidance then there is no shame to use this type of word....parsaa
Brothers. I have problem in the Gym where I go or where I look there are women with tight address. I don't know how to deal with it. Subhan Allah.
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ADAN apps don't know your local mosque
Teenagers need to be teach about semen retention and transmutation how different the world will be when men are more responsible of not spilling their seed all over for few seconds of pleasure