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  • These women slay all day with their short haircuts and show the world that there is more than one way to define beauty.
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    For anyone raised on Rapunzel or fairy princesses, long hair was likely the epitome of beauty and femininity. That aesthetic is also consistent with our culture, which usually equates short hair to masculinity. Although we’ve come a long way in terms of accommodating different types of femininity, long hair seems to still be the ultimate femme feature. So, for any woman who chooses to wear her hair short, it’s definitely a statement.
    Take, for example, Mila Myles who is a self-identified queer woman who wears her hair short. As an artist, she uses mediums like film and poetry to emulate her experience as a short-haired woman in the queer community.
    “When it comes to short hair and women, people only talk about androgyny and masculinity, but in the heteronormative way about feminine or straight women. And I feel like all the straight boys wear queer girl haircuts within a couple of months.” Myles joked.
    Artist Meredith Miotke was also met with different reactions when she decided to cut her hair, even though she said she felt excited and empowered by her decision.
    She explained. “A lot of people ask me why and sometimes it seems kinda confrontational it’s just - I cut off my hair, it’s not a big deal.”
    Whether you choose to keep your hair long or short, there isn’t one single way to express femininity - and more aesthetics are being embraced all the time.
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  • @mesha_girl5413
    @mesha_girl5413 5 років тому +280

    I wish they would have included black women with twa. More important women with 4c hair. I feel like are type of hair is always forgotten about when talking about natural hair

    • @My-lt2to
      @My-lt2to 5 років тому +51

      Mesha _girl I wish they would have included a Black woman who wasn’t “masculine presenting”. Lots of feminine women have short hair.

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds 5 років тому +36

      Mya I thought it was interesting how they pointed out how short hair has always been associated with masculinity then present the same stereotype.

    • @andramanda1331
      @andramanda1331 5 років тому

      Mesha _girl this is about short hair read the title 😂

    • @mutedearthvirgo
      @mutedearthvirgo 5 років тому +1

      facts

    • @mp71001
      @mp71001 5 років тому +1

      Invading Minds
      Exact FACTS 👏🏾 👏🏾

  • @madelinevlogs5898
    @madelinevlogs5898 5 років тому +54

    I got a pixie cut yesterday and I love it! I feel more feminine with short hair since it shows off my features

  • @bethanysandburg1623
    @bethanysandburg1623 5 років тому +148

    I only began to feel my femininity when I was bald🤷‍♀️ and growing it out made experimenting fun (and hard lol) with the different lengths

    • @DomBarber
      @DomBarber 5 років тому +1

      Have you grown your hair longer now ?

    • @georgie3593
      @georgie3593 4 роки тому +5

      Me too, having shaved my head, i have realised that my feminity come from other places, not just my hair, and it has helped me to cultivate that femininity.

  • @taraquinch1256
    @taraquinch1256 6 років тому +106

    I love myself with short hair. And people like short hair on me better which I find surprising at times. Like I look like I'm in drag or look old when I tried to wear long weave or long styles. I just can't pull it off

    • @itsfreerealestate884
      @itsfreerealestate884 3 роки тому +2

      We are the same, not gonna lie i look older with long hair. Short hair give me more fresh look

  • @Catherine.24
    @Catherine.24 2 роки тому +9

    It’s sad what society believes. I see men with some long locks and no one cares, but when a woman has short hair it’s like a crime.

    • @valentapaxman
      @valentapaxman 4 місяці тому

      The truth is, nobody really cares.

  • @darlenegattus8190
    @darlenegattus8190 3 роки тому +24

    I'm almost 50, loved long hair since a toddler. Well guess what? I'm so over long hair. Short for the rest of the ride.

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs 5 років тому +96

    Okay sis, but where'd you get your lip stick from?

  • @daniellefrank2572
    @daniellefrank2572 5 років тому +80

    I actually shave my head. Have for years and love it. But goodness the looks I get sometimes

    • @happyface3111
      @happyface3111 5 років тому +3

      Danielle Frank I know right!

    • @nicolettekristie
      @nicolettekristie 5 років тому +16

      Right!!? Especially when it's from a man with the same length. Are you mad bc I'm rocking it better?

    • @happyface3111
      @happyface3111 5 років тому +6

      @@nicolettekristie it's crazy because men really judge so harshly when they barley understand how difficult it is to manage hair everyday before school or work . More women complement my buzz cut but when it's a guy they just stare in disbelief. Honestly I could care less what they think but its really annoying to have those stares when it's a personal choice

    • @yakigesher-zion7289
      @yakigesher-zion7289 4 роки тому +1

      100%, but like also style plays a major factor in looking like an Egyptian queen and looking homeless lol

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 3 роки тому +1

      When a you cut it off... Face is the Place!!

  • @krissy278
    @krissy278 3 роки тому +6

    Wear what makes you feel good. End story.

  • @andramanda1331
    @andramanda1331 5 років тому +38

    I cut my hair short then keep it for a while then enjoy the process of it growing and chop it again 😂👌🏼 and the annoyed men are a bonus ✌🏼

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      (for arguments sake) would you like it if your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail??

    • @FlexiAlexiLove
      @FlexiAlexiLove 5 років тому +11

      @@brockcharz2104 definitely

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@FlexiAlexiLove are you a woman?? and u would like it if your boyfriend or came home with a long pink ponytail??? are you being honest here?? and do you think most women would like that? please be honest because u know most women would hate it

    • @FlexiAlexiLove
      @FlexiAlexiLove 5 років тому +13

      @@brockcharz2104 assuming it's a good dye job, the correct shade and cut that suits him then yeah, I wouldn't mind. I think long hair looks good on everyone. Women in general do like long hair, but if the man himself is not confident in it, it shows and that's when it becomes unattractive. It's more attractive to do what you want with your hair than to copy what every other man is doing. Also if a woman is demanding that you change your hair because she doesn't like it, you should dump her. At the end of the day hair length is unisex, both men and women grow hair out of their scalps. Men should have more creative freedom when it comes to their appearance.

    • @GraduateJLN
      @GraduateJLN 4 роки тому +4

      @@brockcharz2104 I'm sure the men she's with knows that cutting her hair is her MO, plus you're comparing a normal short hairstyle to an unnatural colored ridiculous hairstyle

  • @thatianagibs
    @thatianagibs 5 років тому +91

    The phrase “big chop” has traditionally come to represent a milestone moment in the lives of black women who decide to fully embrace their natural hair by cutting off any/all remnants of chemically straightened hair. It is one in many ways that black women actively challenge the narrative in which we never measure up to dominant racist standards of beauty. As such, this video has co-opted and completely watered down the phrase.

    • @whychoooseausername4763
      @whychoooseausername4763 5 років тому +8

      1) Policing what black women can and can't say isn't particularly progressive.
      2) It don't think you can claim that as tradition, women have been defying gender expectations and racist standards with short hair way before most the natural hair movement became what it is today.

    • @chaelao.4321
      @chaelao.4321 5 років тому +4

      Yeah I agree. We say the big chop because it's a milestone for accepting ourselves and cutting off all of the hate towards our hair that we've been taught. It's like if someone tried to call every birthday they had a quinceanera. That's not a milestone that's linked to anything you just had a birthday like come on now.

    • @chaantheart
      @chaantheart 5 років тому +2

      @@chaelao.4321 I agree too because I don't think this is a matter of policing a black woman's words. It could be, but we have no idea who wrote the interview questions. The woman conducting the interview is not of a short-haired woman's experience, and there's the chance too she's performing from a pre-decided script. The video is about short hair and beauty, the video is not about loving your natural hair.

    • @Alex-st7nk
      @Alex-st7nk 5 років тому +1

      It literally just means chopping off a lot of hair ffs

    • @ytmeytme9522
      @ytmeytme9522 4 роки тому

      so no black women are lesbians? i’m sorry?

  • @LogoFreak93
    @LogoFreak93 5 років тому +17

    I've had my hair in this style since I was a kid. People used to say I looked like a boy or call it an ugly rats nest on my head. But a few days ago a guy told me my hairstyle looked pretty. I think it's so cool that short hair can be seen as feminine and beautiful in its own right. I kind of keep my hair like this for convenience sake because I'm lazy, it's easy to take care of but I don't have to put much into maintaining it. It's just kind of a chick mullet.

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      (for arguments sake) would you like it if your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail??

    • @LogoFreak93
      @LogoFreak93 5 років тому +5

      @@brockcharz2104 I'd be 100% okay with it and I'd be happy for him if it made him happy.

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@LogoFreak93 but im asking your preference though? what your more attracted too, the long pink ponytail or his normal hair??? and can i ask, would you atleast agree that most women would hate it if their boyfriend got a long pink ponytail??

    • @LogoFreak93
      @LogoFreak93 5 років тому +3

      @@brockcharz2104 I don't really have a strong preference one way or another. I just care that he's a good person. I know that sounds like a cop-out "PC" answer but it's true. As for other girls' preferences? That's on them. I can't speak for anyone but myself.

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@LogoFreak93 'you cant speak for other girls' yep thats the answer i always get, thats the cop out, because come on be honest you know most girls would hate it

  • @ShannonsBibleStudy
    @ShannonsBibleStudy 5 років тому +11

    I've always liked short hair but now that mine is turning gray I want to try and grow it longer.

  • @dsole22
    @dsole22 5 років тому +27

    I love my short hair!! It just suits me.

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      (for arguments sake) would you like it if your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail??

    • @dsole22
      @dsole22 5 років тому +7

      His hair! if he wore a wig... his hair!Who am i to say what is acceptable. People are to wrapped up in what others think of them, just be you and be happy. My short hair or his long hair is definitely not hurting anyone and by the way, my husband loves my hair!!!

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@dsole22 no but for arguments sake, imagine your husband grows his hair long dyes it pink, and in a ponytail, would you like your husband with that look?? or would you prefer his normal hair??

    • @SS-ld5zq
      @SS-ld5zq 4 роки тому +3

      brock charz What’s the problem if he likes it? As long as he is happy, ill be happy!

    • @scxr2821
      @scxr2821 2 роки тому +1

      Same!

  • @hhah1810
    @hhah1810 5 років тому +9

    Straight up Maxine Shaw realness!!! Yassss

  • @linnilake
    @linnilake 5 років тому +7

    Wow I didn’t know short hair on women was controversial in any way anymore.
    Ever since I chopped my hair short I have only gotten positive reactions and quite a lot of compliments not only on my hair but just me in general after I cut it which I didn’t really get to much of before.
    The only one that said anything was my dad but now he thinks that short hair looks great on me and he doesn’t have a negative stigma towards short hair it’s just that I’ve had long hair all my life and the new hairstyle made me look different.
    But according to everyone I’ve met the different look suits me better.
    I’m currently growing it out to a bob and it’s a very short bob at the moment but I doubt I’ve ever grow it longer then to my shoulders ever again.

  • @jachimikedenis
    @jachimikedenis 6 років тому +26

    They look amazing!

  • @blessedandbeautiful8365
    @blessedandbeautiful8365 5 років тому +19

    Some cultures cut their hair off after a death of a loved one to signify a new beginning. I cut my hair off bc it refreshes me and tends to give me a new mindset into what will be next in my stage of life. I'm going to cut my hair soon to clear my mind and form a different perspective as I enter into a new stage of growth in life. Just something I've made up bc it sounds good and I like monitoring and experimenting growth within myself and on my head 😁

    • @crystal.diorrr
      @crystal.diorrr 2 роки тому +1

      Seen i knew i wasn't capping when i was telling myself that their something spiritual about cutting hair off

  • @stars.4960
    @stars.4960 5 років тому +18

    Snowy white had short hair

    • @3jdni
      @3jdni 5 років тому +14

      CurlyGirl The term "short" is subjective, but in this context it's referring to anything shorter than chin length :P

  • @markseare9274
    @markseare9274 4 роки тому +19

    I have always thought short hair on girls is cute. And why does our society always label people by outward appearances? We are such a judgemental society. We jump to conclusions without knowing the facts--knowing the person.

  • @ayaden995
    @ayaden995 5 років тому +3

    Watch a couple of videos and just want to say I LOVE this host

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 5 років тому +24

    I love my TWA.
    Also Mila though.... 😍

  • @zombiish7
    @zombiish7 4 роки тому +19

    Idk why people care so much about short hair. Hair is just hair lol you can always grow it back

  • @Tonia682
    @Tonia682 4 роки тому +1

    When my hair was relaxed I LOVED my pixie cut ! The shorter, the better!

  • @Elubial
    @Elubial 5 років тому +9

    This video proves that maintaining short hair can be more expensive than maintaining long hair.

    • @DomBarber
      @DomBarber 5 років тому

      Interesting comment

    • @MachineGunKali
      @MachineGunKali 4 роки тому +2

      The haircuts, the designs. We still need hair products to maintain a healthy scalp. I wouldn’t say more expensive, but it definitely comes with a price tag depending on how a woman chooses to do it

    • @MA-iu5hu
      @MA-iu5hu 4 роки тому

      It definitely can, as someone who's had both, but it's very doable if you have the right style that doesn't require too much work or product

    • @charmaineespeut4627
      @charmaineespeut4627 2 роки тому +1

      Short is super high maintenance because our hair is constantly growing. It take alot to try to keep it at the short length they prefer. Imagine going to the barber every month. Say good bye to your Netflix lol

    • @Catherine.24
      @Catherine.24 2 роки тому

      Mine 100% is. But only bc I keep my back and sides really buzzed

  • @N.haya_
    @N.haya_ 5 років тому +1

    Her hair is too beautiful

  • @silvervixen007
    @silvervixen007 4 роки тому +2

    I had short hair for 5 years. Great memories 👻

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima 5 років тому +1

    I really want a mila style haircut!

  • @momiji4651
    @momiji4651 5 років тому +21

    I have a bob that goes to my cheekbones with an undercut. But I would say I'm feminine as I wear dresses every day.

    • @sanaibrown5375
      @sanaibrown5375 5 років тому +1

      That is exactly what I had earlier last year. My hair is growing out now (it is at my chin except for the back because of the undercut I had) but I'm glad I'm not the only one😄

    • @LogoFreak93
      @LogoFreak93 5 років тому +2

      I'm similar to you except I keep my hair in a permanently half-grown-out pixie cut (kind of a chick mullet I guess you could call it, I keep my hair short because it's easy to maintain) but I've always been a girly girl, I wear dresses and high heeled shoes as my casual wear (but I usually opt for wedges or chunky heel because I'm a klutz). In a lot of ways I'm even more feminine than most girls with long hair. I also love light floral scented perfumes. I love smelling pretty. Probably the only "tomboy" thing about me is that I love playing video games, especially Mario, Zelda, and Pokemon.

  • @mariadesir4569
    @mariadesir4569 5 років тому

    Got that right!

  • @gothtomato
    @gothtomato 3 роки тому +1

    Can we take a moment to appreciate milas beauty

  • @TheLadyKiel
    @TheLadyKiel 4 роки тому

    Definitely should make an episode on Bantu Knots

  • @lulu-ex2zg
    @lulu-ex2zg 5 років тому +8

    I have short hair as a girl and I’m not special at all lmao, I get complements all the time tho hehehe

  • @stonerwitch4629
    @stonerwitch4629 Рік тому

    been contemplating a pixie. especially hard as a latina bro lmao

  • @MY-rq1iq
    @MY-rq1iq 5 років тому +6

    Gonna cut my hair really short tommorow

  • @erikawright1510
    @erikawright1510 5 років тому

    I want Mila's shirt.

  • @seanrichards9957
    @seanrichards9957 Рік тому

    I love long hair over short hair any day

  • @QueenFreaq
    @QueenFreaq 21 день тому

    My hair is short for function and comfort to be honest. Im a woman of science (cybersecurity grad) i dont need hair in my face all the time. Also my hair is horrendously thick so during the warmer months if its long it collects all sorts of nastiness

  • @Me-by8qi
    @Me-by8qi 6 років тому +13

    Cool. Go for it. I think it can look good on some people, but it's like long hair on men. It just doesn't work for most, but on some it's super cool.

    • @linnilake
      @linnilake 5 років тому +3

      I personally think the majority of women suit short hair but it’s just personal preference.

    • @aliasanew3398
      @aliasanew3398 5 років тому +5

      lmfao who cares what u think works or not.

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@linnilake (for arguments sake) would you like it if your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail??

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@linnilake so basically you dont want to answer the question, and ur wrong if a girl goes from long feminine hair to a very short pixie that is a drastic change, ......come on be honest, the girl would look completely different, its no way the same as standard pierced ears, its more equivalent to crazy tattoos, ......so please answer, would you like it if your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail??

    • @brockcharz2104
      @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

      @@linnilake and girls also colour their pixies, so it is drastic change

  • @jessicab331
    @jessicab331 5 років тому +49

    This would’ve been better if the interview was centered around a heterosexual woman... this was kind of cliché.

    • @misskingstonjamcutie
      @misskingstonjamcutie 5 років тому +25

      Exactly! That was what I commented as well. Butch lesbians never wear their hair long because they want to appear more masculine. They also do not dress feminine. The white woman also did not seem very feminine either. This was dumb and made no sense. Why not focus on feminine women who dress and act feminines, are straight and still chose to challenge beauty norms and cut their hair short?

    • @terenarosa4790
      @terenarosa4790 5 років тому +7

      @@n.a.199 that's the point. It's challenging beauty norms by going against what men prefer. The title of this video made no sense paired with its content.

    • @Tweetypi16
      @Tweetypi16 5 років тому

      If you look on their season 2 they interview women with shaved or short hair

    • @sounsure9108
      @sounsure9108 5 років тому +5

      The white women was straight and they had shots of famous women all dressed up with short hair

    • @sounsure9108
      @sounsure9108 5 років тому +2

      Also the touch on the moment the women realize that short hair is more “ themselves “ for each

  • @terenarosa4790
    @terenarosa4790 5 років тому +3

    I want to shave my head because I want to look like Prudence from The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, but I doubt I could pull it off as well as her.

    • @imanimoss9978
      @imanimoss9978 5 років тому

      Terena Rosa do it!

    • @DomBarber
      @DomBarber 5 років тому

      Did Prudence shave her head bald or just have short hair ?

  • @valentapaxman
    @valentapaxman 4 місяці тому

    Short hair on women is no big deal, it never has been.

  • @FlexiAlexiLove
    @FlexiAlexiLove 5 років тому +8

    We really gonna act like short hair on women is taboo in America and other developed countries? For real? Nothing else to complain about? Ffs

  • @g.aloysie8439
    @g.aloysie8439 5 років тому +5

    Mila is gorgeous 😍😍😍, I'm straight but I would definitely date her

  • @Brynn332
    @Brynn332 5 років тому +5

    I dont have short hair to make a statement I have short hair because it breaks off and gets split ends at a certain langth.

  • @ferkat0390
    @ferkat0390 5 років тому +7

    Uh no short hair is elegant !

  • @pingu4238
    @pingu4238 6 років тому +23

    I won't tell you what hairstyle to wear and you won't tell me what to find attractive. Deal?

  • @trekadouble757
    @trekadouble757 5 років тому

    Come oooon there have been women with long hair since a long time now.

  • @laionemeihetahikoulakanate9515
    @laionemeihetahikoulakanate9515 5 років тому +1

    Dreadlocks only for Reggae and people that live in the jungle it a Bible Hebrews Israelite Culture.

  • @mikewilliams6025
    @mikewilliams6025 3 роки тому

    The obsession about this sort of reveals your true nature.

  • @GraduateJLN
    @GraduateJLN 4 роки тому +12

    so they were trying to show that women can be feminine with short haircuts and they got an androgynous woman and a tom-boy to display that message...okayyy

    • @percabethisawesome1163
      @percabethisawesome1163 3 роки тому +2

      imo femininity is a construct & it can be whatever you feel it is, like a cis man can look like a guy and feel feminine in the same way a cis woman in a dress can (eg. a lot of drag queens). people of any gender looking however way can ‘be feminine’ on the inside but just not express it as a personal preference. so as a cis girl i can wear a tie & suit & feel feminine but maybe not come across that way to others in my social environment, but it doesn’t change how i feel inside

    • @GraduateJLN
      @GraduateJLN 3 роки тому +2

      @@percabethisawesome1163 Y’all really need to stop labeling things that are normal/regular/ the standard. You’re just a woman not a “cis” women. Feminine/masculine are established words with meanings and you can’t change that.

    • @charmaineespeut4627
      @charmaineespeut4627 2 роки тому

      Short hair can look feminine but those women weren't great examples.

  • @TheLMMCProgram
    @TheLMMCProgram 5 років тому +3

    Lesbians.

  • @CesarGarcia-nd5xz
    @CesarGarcia-nd5xz 3 роки тому +1

    You guys know there´s nothing new in women's with short hair right? They have existed since the Stone Age.

  • @iamsunflower2011
    @iamsunflower2011 5 років тому +6

    Bye. This didn't represent women

  • @willrobs7713
    @willrobs7713 3 роки тому

    Beauty standards aren't changing. Short haired women signal disagreeableness and thus are assumed to be poor mothers.

    • @charmaineespeut4627
      @charmaineespeut4627 2 роки тому +5

      Lol you assume all of that based off a haircut?

    • @sunlightcove7683
      @sunlightcove7683 2 роки тому +1

      Boomer why can't u go knit instead of spewing rubbish ? :)

    • @chicks_before_dicks
      @chicks_before_dicks Рік тому +2

      All the mothers I know cut their hair short after having kids. It's far more practical because it requires less upkeep and toddlers don't pull on it. Short hair doesn't signal disagreeableness, but a willingness to put vanity aside to better care for those around them, and if that doesn't describe a good mother, I don't know what does.

  • @beesnees3070
    @beesnees3070 5 років тому +6

    I’m confused is that a man trying to be a woman or woman trying to to a man

    • @3jdni
      @3jdni 5 років тому +21

      She's a person being herself. Not someone *trying* to be anything...

    • @trekadouble757
      @trekadouble757 5 років тому +4

      @@3jdni don't patronize people who are trying to learn and understand new things. Be respectulf towards people's efforts.

    • @rebecca4829
      @rebecca4829 5 років тому

      @@3jdni
      Oh relax smh.

    • @3jdni
      @3jdni 5 років тому +9

      I'm guessing you both assumed I was being all triggered SJW and I actually find that hilarious...
      They asked if the person was a woman trying to be a man or a man trying to be a woman. The video tells us who they are so my response stands; she's not a woman or man trying to be the other gender, she is a person being herself.

    • @sunlightcove7683
      @sunlightcove7683 2 роки тому

      @@rebecca4829 u relax , honey :)

  • @brockcharz2104
    @brockcharz2104 5 років тому

    let me tell you why most guys dont like short hair, can you imagine (for arguments sake) your boyfriend or husband just came home one day, with a long pink ponytail, i know most women would absolutely hate it and tell their boyfriend to change it back, so its a complete double standard,

    • @shanab1298
      @shanab1298 3 роки тому +7

      Men can have long hair too. You threw in "pink" to the imaginary love interest scenario. But for example, my husband grew a beard. He can grow it or shave it. Not everyone loves it. But HE does. And that's his choice. My son has hair down to his shoulders. He's handsome that way. If he wants to cut it, he will do it for himself. And any partner that dates him will love him for being himself. That's what this boils down to. It's not about fitting in with what society tells you to do it's about being true to yourself. And authenticity is the most beautiful thing a person can offer the world. If you're offended by women with short hair maybe you need to take a look at yourself and why you have such narrow-minded ideals