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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- To those who put women through this beauty test, Dove asks how much beauty is enough.
Dove urges you to look for the beauty, not the flaws!
Join the movement. Take the pledge. Together, let's stop the beauty test.
#StopTheBeautyTest
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I'm 16 years old and my brother is 24. My mother and Masi is looking a girl for my Masi's son. My brother heard them one or twice talking on phone about girls and how they judges those girls. One day my brother shouted so loud, he said "bas karo yaar mummy, aap log pagal ho kya. Kisi ladki ke baare me essa kaise bol sakte ho aap wo essi hai wo waisi hai. Mummy aapko bhi beti hai usko kisine sawla ya chhoti hai bola to?" He suddenly stopped, he thought that I might have got offended, he came and apologized to me. But I was not offended but proud.
Kudos to your brother.... i wish everyone starts thinking like your awesome bro 👏👏👏👏
Awesome 🙌👏👏👏👏👏
He is a gem ...lucky is the girl who is going to be his partner
Good initiative by your brother. We don't have any right to judge people and make joke of their appearance. Its high time that we decide where we are heading to, a more open minded, tolerant and more accepting world or a narrow minded and intolerant world where people just judge another one.
Really appreciate ur brother thoughts..wish kuch log aur ho aise soch wale bohot kuch badal jayega
So, the noticeable point in this ad is women are judged by women, not men.
I think a reason for that could be that dove is a "female related products" brand so that's why.. but it might be completely wrong
Yup, if we actually dig a little deeper, we women are more judgemental and unsupportive of each other. Time to take some accountabilty. Let's build each other up.
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Yes exactly
That's why we believe the beauty test stops with each one of us.
When ladies were making fun and laughing at the girl's height, and father hearing that was quite painful, that instant, I started crying.
Me tooo
Yess right me too
Ya bro
@@sonujain2348😔
Same 😔😭
THIS HITS HARD!! As a women with a head full of curly hair... totally relatable 👩🏼🦱
I die for them . I have absolute straight hairs.
Me too
Dude Mujhe ghunghrale baalon se pyaar hai! They're so beautiful!
The whole universe is beautiful , it's poor that they don't have eyes .
These are just philosophies which dont work in real world. There are just few traits related to physical appearance that appear as beautiful to us humans and not every physical trait. So fooling yourself by saying these words wont take you anywhere. It's better to accept harsh reality.
@@Legallegends10 But you see nobody understands your viewpoint maybe because it's not practical. I mean no offence to you but I am just trying to show you what according to me reality is.
@@Legallegends10 Yes of course, you have the right to express as long as you are respectful. But I was trying to give you reality check. But cant impose my opinion on you!
@@Legallegends10 😊
@@SS-lv1wn ☺
When her dad feel bad almost cried I felt really bad at that moment 😭
Even I cried at that part! The sadness on his face 😭
arvvot
@@preetidas9511 ll
What did she say at 1:02 i didn't get it😦
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The girl who called other girl's curly hair noodles is dying inside to have those ringlets.
😂 😂 😂 May be yeah
Yass!!
Yes.. You are right!😊
She has amazing curls..😍
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Please make this viral.. all the parents be proud of their daughters unconditionally.
Please do share the video to all you can, not just women. Because together we can make all the difference. ❤️
@@doveindia thank you dove. I literally had tears it's time to break this beauty standards
@@yrashid6108 We agree. It's time each one of us does our little bit. ❤️
@@yrashid6108 good
@@yrashid6108 Dil acha hona chahiye yeh important hai
This is nothing but woke capitalism, a marketing technique. Remember guys this is the company which used to make fair and lovely products. Don't fall for this nonsense.
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Finally found a sensible lady in comment section 👍
Absolutely, u said my heart out. These are ridiculous marketing gimmicks. None of this is a kami, they're all beautiful girls the way they are. Society is changing & accepting diversity. No point making such ads & pushing the society 10 years back again.
Well if ads convey the right message instead showing fairing skin message, there's no issue. Many will see this and understand the right thing. There is no harm in changing their fair lovely ads to something real and important. Its a great marketing technique. So its perfectly fine!!
I know that very well. Half the people in comments also judge the people they date equally harshly, then preach morality 😂 It's just a virtue game. Nothing more. They were the ones peddling fair skin products until last year. A company is no one's friend.
My eyes are filled with tears watching this.. An ad that literally expressed the feelings of women..Hats off to Dove.. Let people change their perspective watching this
To all the men who are commenting that “men are also judged” !! Guys I agree that men are judged too and that is equally wrong.. but something which is wrong can’t be a justification for doing another wrong !! For now , Let’s appreciate that a beauty product has come up with an advertisement that condemns the so called beauty standards in the society!! Neither men nor women should be judged or shamed in the society for anything specially physical standards!!
Exactly, you are correct
True , infact I feel great realising women care about men getting judged too. Instead of justifying a wrong with a wrong, it's better to understand both things are wrong and appreciate it when someone calls a wrong thing out.
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Most of time Men gets judged on basis of income, wealth, women gets judged on basis on skin color, basically physical.
Well i agree..; ...but adds are made emotional so they can trigger emotionally to buy their product ..
But this add ...there is something fishy in it ...like .if all beauty are equally important then why the hell they run this dove company ...🤦🏻♂️..
It's a trap ..these companies are triggering those girl who think themselves ugly and can buy their product ..
These fucking beauty product ..give you the idea of ugly and beauty ...& See their irony ..they are saying for stop judging..😂😂😂😂
I m a tall girl but when the lady said seedhi laga kar aapki baiti ko baat karna padega ....I felt so bad ....the look on her father's face was so heartbreaking......all the stories r so 💔 n sadly this is so true ....each n every one is experienced by Indian woman....can this please stop.....n the more saddening is that woman r doing this to woman
I swear! The expression on the father's face was heartbreaking!
I have also experienced since childhood.. Its really heart breaking💔.. Hope no one should ho through such racism., 😞
Yes, this can stop. If parents, siblings, future in laws and brides all speak up. Together, we can #StopTheBeautyTest.
@@doveindia Iam really happy that you pointed this issue , I think being fat being short being dark cannot justify a person . Literally respect to your team . I don't understand how can a person judge anyone . If a criminal is looking handsome or beautiful , will anyone marry him/her . It's the character of a person who makes him/her special not characteristics . I am taking a pledge today that I will respect each and every person and will not make anyone feel different . Love and regards from Krish jain ☺️
Bhai is level ke school jokes par koi WhatsApp par nahi hasta. This is exaggeration
The story tells every second women struggling.. the judgment, comments, thoughts of mind set i mean I'm one woman who face has every second . How many are...
No one born Ugly we are just living in Judgmental society😔😔
-namjoon
@@Gita_V he never said .stop making up things .
-kim NAMJOON 💜
Army 💜
By Namjoon, Armyy yayy
Forget about girls. The father's helpless look made me 😭
Let me Rephrase the tag line :-
“Kamiya nehi, wo khubiya hai ”
I don't know if this was good enough but what I meant to say, None of this physical traits are *kamiya* , they are what makes us different from each other and unique in our own ways 💖 #Spreadlove 💖
They can't say that only because of the obese lady. Health is important.
You're right about different kind of hair, skin tone etc.
But they have to be a brand promoting acceptance but definitely not promoting obesity.
So, they asked to see how even the obese lady has stunning skin.
They're showcasing smooth skin of all these women. (That's their product).
Like can you see what's amazing about her instead of looking at what's not great (in the eyes of the beholder).
That’s so true
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Don't marry or be with anyone who's with you just for your looks.. Be it a guy or a girl. You all are perfect the way you are.
Absolutely..
Right
@@anu.090 Ee
Right🤝🤝
There is ,color height discrimination, selling boy and taking dowry, and forcing two strangers to stay together and have sex without any internal connection, and forcing them to not take divorce If their marriage is not working,
There is everything wrong with arrange marriages still they say it's 'sanskari'and "bado se Kabhi galtiya nyi hoti bade Kuch Soch samjhkr hi faisala krte h"
I m 29 years old. I met a guy 4 months ago for marriage purpose. He rejected me with a reason that i m not beautiful... I accepted the reason then after 4 months his mother called my mother and asked my mom about my recent pictures and fixed a meeting. And then his mother rejected me again...then my parents asked the reason then her mother replied that your daughter is not beautiful and she has scars on her face. My mother gave her explanation that she had lot of pimples when she was 20-21 for 5 years then what his mother replied why didn't you stopped your daughter when she was scratching her face at that time. My parents were stunned and hurted
I just want to simply request to all the boys and his parents....please don't insult a girl and her parents on her looks. Respect her and her parents by simply saying no instead of commenting on her looks.
This is so cruel. Tbh before meeting guys and their parents I used to think that world is not that bad. One time I just get to know about meeting 2 hr before they came so I can't get ready, I had oil in my hairs so I just made braids. But the lady said I am not the one in the picture. The girl in pic is someone else and she don't want to get married because she had an affair and I was just a replacement. It was my birthday and she told all this to my parents and I was listening because I was standing just behind the curtain.
And one other time a guy family wants his whole joint family to see me. They already came 2 times and they wants to come again to judge me. It was humiliating.
I used to think karma is real but I guess it's not, because all those people are now happy without any guilt.
I will never do something like this with anyone (boy or girl).
Tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho samjhi
@@factsonly4930jayda giyan matde tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho
A girl born in india want to be only fit,. Fair, average height, no curly hair ,no skinny , no scares in face , is a perfect girl think by the people of india ,but I think the perfect girl, is who has more kindness, she is perfect girl.
And thin
@@Ayasha_Kasim mm yes I edit it
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@AR All In One yes that the truth
@@v.nagajothi9f295 yes kind and educated girls are perfect
Never discourage a Girl's family and their parents this is the only reason for society to praise to have a boy , it's wrong 😑
Perfection is just a state of mind. Such prejudices are killing the spirit of many girls everyday.
Tr
So true
exactly EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY & EXACTLY I WROTE THE SAME THING
HERE:
rightly #stopthebeautytest
_i tell you get rid of the _*_"perfect"_*_ definition you have..it'll bring you pain_
_no khamiyaan at all_
we are born in a judgmental society
-we all know who said it correctly
kim namjoon it is
right and we all are born in a body just to mark our existence nothing else. we do what we want and live in a DEMOCRATIC country.. let's be happy and proud of ourselves.. let's get rid of the small things
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Brother... The same goes for boys... Who in the name of fitness are first brought down for their body and then by the so called the other gender
Dove...u meant having a dusky skin is a kami in a woman? having a curly hair is a kami? being fat is a kami? being short is a kami? what khoobiyaan should we find in these women then?.... that fat one is at least fair? that dusky one is at least slim? that short one has at least straight hair? and the curly hair one is tall enough?
rasta theek pakda tha....end mein gobad kar dala saara dove..huf....we have a long way to go still!! ufff
agreed..in the start..i was like someone is doing real good work..but then the end tagline..really made it stupid
finally find a girl who understands the real mindset of dove behind this.....i just commented and girls came out of nowhere and tagged me misogynistic , element of patriarchal society and all 😂😂😂 they just can't understand that this add is just for promotion of a beauty product nothing more than that
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Mam don't you know any overweight or dusky skin girl who is happily married?? Don't go by what's shown in news reports and mass media. Think logically from your personal experience . Don't we have such "Not so good looking" friends who are happily married or in a happy relationship?? Majority of Indian society never discriminate or judge based on outward appearance. I personally know so many good looking boys earning handsomely getting married to so called "Not so good looking" girls and treating them like Queens. And those minority who judge outward appearance judge both genders. Don't good looking girls judge boys??Will any good looking girl get married to someone who looks like Rajpal Yadav? These people just love to generalise and divide people. That's it. If good looks are the only criteria for a Happy marriage or relationship, 90% India will die unmarried, single and virgin
I have always noticed that dove brand never uses the terms "whitening" or "lightning" In their ads and thats why i always preferred dove products.Now,with this initiative,u have proved me right.kudos to your effort in breaking the so called beauty standards of our society and also for providing amazing products with stellar quality
Fair and lovely is from same company as dove
Have you readen the ingredients list of these products
I literally didn't skipped this ad. It was a best decision.
1:07 feel so sad
Unke papa ke face pr kitna pain h 😣😣
Stop this
Kb tk chlega ye sb Jaise koi saman kharid rahe ho wo bhi dahej leke 😏😏😏
Not to belittle the intention but it's time that we stop seeing fat/dark/short etc etc as "khaamiyaan". The whole motive of the video falls flat when these factors are refered as FLAWS. It comes across as though being fair/thin etc etc are considered to be beautiful??? Sounds like am whining but just saying. What needs to be changed is our perspective of seeing things. The flaw lies right there.
Exactly!
No your point is relevant.
Well said !!!
Correct
exactly EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY & EXACTLY I WROTE THE SAME THING
HERE:
rightly #stopthebeautytest
_i tell you get rid of the _*_"perfect"_*_ definition you have..it'll bring you pain_
_no khamiyaan at all_
we are born in a judgmental society
-we all know who said it correctly
kim namjoon it is
right and we all are born in a body just to mark our existence nothing else. we do what we want and live in a DEMOCRATIC country.. let's be happy and proud of ourselves.. let's get rid of the small things
This bought tears in my eyes...
While the male in comment section be like "men are also judged on the basis of their salary so its ok to judge the girls on the basis of looks."
They are doing a great job by marketing the story with the times.. ultimately the end goal is to sell products and keep the customer base happy with these stories.
@@yshmishra1 of course! After all, it's business. But atleast the ad is thoughtful and opposes the beauty standards instead of some dumb ones
@@melodyofmusic9575 which were made by themselves...
But ur Salary depends upon ur hard work but ur color is not determined by hard work or talent
Salary is something that depends on your hardwork bro..looks are what you are naturally gifted you can't do anything for it, it'snot that we are southkoreans to go for plastic surgry for little flaws....better salary means the man is hardworking...not everyone can do that.
Love this video, it conveys a really powerful message to our orthodox community
Yes. I've always pointed in every discussion why do people say "saaf/safa" for fairer skin.
(As if the darker are dirty?)
I'm sure they're clean.
Few shades darker yes, but if people don't stop uttering these words to define complexion, nothing can change.
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Whenever any of my relatives[male] get married my parents and my aunt make fun of them, calling them ''Moti ladki, kaali ladki, aged ladki, batsoorat ladki.....'' etc. And the most hurting thing is that it's women who are more interested in making fun of other women.
0:45 the irony is the man is dark himself but said no to the dark girl.
Concluded the advertisement with "KHAMIYAN" nahi khubiyan dekhe.... These are not the KHAMIYAN....
I hate when brands like these created market out of women's insecurities..... and now came up with an advertisement.... Well Dove has been little kind as compared to other beauty brands ... Like pond's, fair n lovely, Garnier....
Stop choosing men on the basis of their financial health and then expect them to chose you not on the basis of beauty. When we will start talking about men too?
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Financial status is something which u can build by ur own and everyone can do it.. good studies n den good job and focus on career..so choosin boys on basisi of financial status isn't as bad as choosing gals based on der looks.. bec gals have no control over der looks..it's all natural.. god gifted.bt career is within our hands..so pls get d difference.
@@irfathsaba2078 that is true as well
Due to my short height I am almost rejected by 12-13 arrange marriage.
Every time my father got angry on me due to my short height.
How did you cope up with that?? Because this shit hurts very much. People break your confidence to the limit that it is impossible to breathe.
Same here .....
Tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho 😢😢😢
@@rupali2632hello ji
But this true...even I was facing this and everytime I wish I couldn't be born...being ugly is a sin for girl in my opinion. Society judges so easily.they won't think about feelings they just judge their own way.... But I think when a girl is born she should be beautiful otherwise her life will be like hell.when a girl is beautiful her life will be heaven.
This ad really touched me.. I was in tears watching this reminded me of my struggles.. I'm being judged for chasing my career going against parents n society .. But today I'm successful in my career n all r happy🌸 believe in Urself 🌸 u r really stronger then u think 🌼🌼
*_Everyone:-talking about men's comments_*
_Me trying to find out where are the comments_
Edit:-thankyou for the likes guys
And also it's just a joke (but I srsly didn't find any comments)
I am also wondering about that.... 😂
Lmaooo thats me
Look at you...you are discriminating in indian boys vs korean boys ...!
Men need justice too ...😑 ! 🔥🔥
Bro same😂
@@thespiritextremous2992 koreans are transgender they dont have bear lol
Dove India really like the concept of the video. It is the false concept of beauty we've been conditioned to believe in the name of the our culture. I am sure men too faces issue's but lets not compare thing's and try to hide the meaning of the video. But yes i would definitely want to point out something. It is for the very first time I've seen someone mentioning my state of Assam which is usually ignored because we fall amongst the north eastern India. Thanks for including us. But the thing which has been showed here is not entirely true. In our culture we do not have such traditions. Its very low in comparison to what the rest of India portrays. But again I understand the reason behind showing it. And I would like to request you to first do your research a little on our culture before showcasing it in public. Thank you.
It is in the disclaimer that these are real stories. So it obviously happened and that's why its being shown here. Theses are real people and not actors. So.... If they say it happened then we have trust that it did.
Amaging aaj tak ka sabse saaf or sundar add 2021 ka...best...🙏🙏👍👍👍
" No one is born ugly , we just live in a judgemental society."
- kim Namjoon
Yes no one is born millionaire
We just live in society full of money hungry girls 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
- Anonymous
Yeah joon said right no one is born ugly we just live in a judgemental society 💜 borahe army
@@pranachaudhary9988 borahae💜💜
Borahae!💜💜💜💜
And this is the same Namjoon who listed out "fair girls with long hair and soo much more "as his priority list. No colored girls were presented in their fan themed MV. Stop it please. Men are men.
lmfao the men in this comment section being salty over an ad. where's my popcorn bwahaha
Hello fellow blink
i'mma join ya with my popcorn 🍿
Would you like some coke as well
Hahahaha
I need my caramel popcorn here with some coke!!!
Nice concept but there is a high probability that the makers of this #Empowering Ad themselves would have judged girls the same way for their respective Sons.
Also while casting for the same ad
The whole concept of arrange marriages revolves around choice and hence we are presented with these facts
Its high time now the concept of arrange marriage should be abolished and it should be a fundamental right of an individual to choose his/her life partner. #noarrangemarriage
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You think these things don't happen in love marriages? The only difference you're seeing here is in arranged marriages, someone might actually say it to your face why you're rejected. In love marriages, they just subconsciously know why they're rejecting you but they won't tell you.
Arranged marriages don't take away the choice of a person. You can still decline if you don't want to get married to someone. Tell your parents they're trash for wanting you to marry someone against their will. Half these problems come from the fact that the parents are controlling and abusive, then it is the parent fault for being this way.
Never expected a beauty brand talking about these problems....Great initiative dove
People even judge on the basis of what we wear and how we keep our hairs. If I kept braids then I am bhenji type girl, but girls with open hairs are modern. This is also one of the scale to judge others.
True! but I don't care :P I like my braided hair so much! :D
The idea is amazing. Kudos to the sensitivity and aware minds behind it. But I don't agree with the tagline "khaamiya" is being dark, short, curly haired a "khaami" then that means being fair, tall or slim is a "khoobi" . Please change the tagline if you can #dove
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With the tagline they are reflecting this judgemental society's standers, it's not like that it's their opinion on beauty standards. I have curly hair, I do get bad compliments from society, I hated my hair once,Back then I thought they are my "khamia" but now I know that they are actually my "khoobia" we need your love ourselves, love who you are, and what you have. We need to be confident about yourself. Maybe I'm not on point, but j hope you can understand..
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Stop forcing a social message just to sell your product. Both dove and axe body spray are owned by Unilever. Dove ad preaches beauty in all forms while axe as shows stereotypically "hot" women. Stop this hypocrisy and stick to talking about the actual product in the ad
To generate a mass customer base ,you have to connect the stories with the insecurity of people. The product fills those insecurities and their pockets
So many men have issue with this advertisement, hence concluded.
None have any issue lol..its just that both men and women are judged in the worst of ways..and that is equally wrong
Saying men are judged doesn't mean denying the fact that women are judged.
It's just that we are easily offended by people not even realising what they want to say.
And men who are judged based on their looks and income have the greatest empathy for women who are judged on their looks.
@@shashwatsharma4420 did i deny that women are judged?and nobody is getting offended lol..its just that men should get to see their hardships showcased too that's all.And dove is the same brand showcasing models for their promotions..don't u think this is hypocrisy on their part?
@@priyabrataghosh4491 Bruh that comment was not for you , I was replying to her.
Anyways, I know the vicious tricks corporates use to sell their products, and I know most of their models are fair and slim.Handful of ads they make with fat or black girls are just to solve the purpose.
And again, I was not saying you are offended, but many people in this comment section are.
@@shashwatsharma4420 o sorry for the misunderstanding..anyways u were right tho
Every company is doing advertisement for it's profit but ur story is very heart touching & u HV shown d reality . This is what happening in our society & The most shameful fact is that "One Female judges another Female on the basis of colour , height etc . " .Even my colour is dark & since childhood , so many people commented on my dark colour . So ,,, I can feel that pain . & The worst part is that ,,, when Parents feels bad .
You all r talking about society but think if ur parents themselves say, if i consider myself a product just to make u understand then my father says "my product is not good how do i face society becoz of u i'm not able to find a guy for u to marry". Now think what would i be feeling aftr hearing this😔😔😔
But i think its not my father's fault its tha other person who comes to see me nd says so.......
It's as much a father's fault (to accept the saying) as it is of the naysayer.
@@chittrarthverma may be u're right but i don't want to accept this truth
My father also say same words 😥
@@anjalisingh5022 don't worry wo tnsn me h isliye aisa khte h
These are the people who will tell you to use their beauty products to make your skin ''fair''
Show me a Dove ad about fair skin?
Dove doesn't tell that.
tagline of dove is smooth and clear skin what does it mean
@@ZaranDesai dove has a few ads but they've changed a lot ...and I think she said that for the actors who were being rude not for the brand
@@ZaranDesai so all the white skinned dove models are only in my imagination ???!!!!
Harsh reality of our society..Dusron ki ladki ko apne ghar laate waqt upsc jaisa difficult test, or apni beti dete waqt sirf Khuda ko yaad karna..Khuda ka khauf khau or dusron ki beti ko apni beti ki jagah rakh kar dekhna shuru karo..Har koi khubshurat hai apne alag andaz me..uski khamiya dhundhna band karo..Inshallah bahut jald hi hum iss burre system ki janzeer se bhi azad ho jaynge..
Why we prove ourself in front of anyone? Girls should make their own identity and she should live independently also. Girl don't need society but society need the support of women.
Exactly 👍
Many men and boys will agree to your statement, but no sooner they get married to an independent woman, they'll ask her or even force her to stay at home and take care of house lol.so I urge girls not to be fooled by them online or offline
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I have stopped counting the number of times I have failed in this so called "beauty test", and surprisingly, the masters of this test, who failed (rejected) me are themselves mothers of a daughter. How can a person be so much double standard...!!!
Khud ki beti flawless, par samne wale ki beti... :(
Kisi ne sach hi kaha hai... Ek aurat hi aurat ki dushman hoti hai... And by portraying such standards, these mothers are themselves paving ways for their own daughters to face this "beauty test", rather than bringing a change in the social norms...!!!
All I can say to such mothers is "All the best... Aapka time aayega... :)"
Who said that fair is beautiful or that only fair is powerful?? People have beautiful features in dark skin tone too! A dark person can have beautiful face cut, beautiful eyes, beautiful lips, gorgeous hair, glowing and healthy skin which might not have looked prettier on a fairer skin instead. A person can be beautiful in any skin tone. In my perspective, one who is confident is beautiful. However what majorly matters is the inner beauty-the beauty of your soul. Your perspective must be beautiful. Let's not abide by the illogical rules of beauty, the beauty standards set by the society. Let your own authentic selves shine❣️☺️
"We're not born ugly, we're born in a judgemental society."
~Kim Nam-joon(BTS)
Army 💜💜 and yes rightly said .... Many western people get Tan and want to get darker and here we are neglecting such natural beauty for light skin and everyone is beautiful the way they are..
Products like these started defining beauty based on the fairness and color and now they are the one who is trying to teach the lesson .... Hypocrite
They are changing with the times. As should everyone else
Marketing ka yahi kaam toh hai.. ultimately product bikna chahiye..Story koi bhi ho
Been watching this kind of nonsense happening in society even in 21st century. Wish education come with more of common sense to people to judge others.
I hope, you will not Judge your future Husband if he has a small height, or black in color, or both.
Let's see the height of Nonsense & Hypocrisy
@@noorsabashaikh2597 well girl.. I already have one 😊 and his family nd he accepted my with all my flaws and so did I. But in process of me getting married I faced people like you who judge a girl thinking that their son is a handsome hero. Admit it that there are people like that. I'm lucky I didn't got one tho. Good luck for you
@@noorsabashaikh2597 why so rude
@@dikshagoyal_20 nice reply 😉
Being educated doesn't mean we need to leave our desires.
Highly appreciated to bring out this biggest hidden and not so hidden menace in our society's thinking ! A girl or a boy is silently butchered with these stereotypes. I am glad Dove brought this up. I was using its products. Now I have a reason why I do. Thanks Dove❤️
And these "beauty standards" were endorsed by dove a few years ago :)
This is all a gimmick to increase their customer base.
@@aishasaiyed2195 iiuer drew
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My mother did the same, she said the other day that my cousins wife is not at all pretty, idk i tried to contradict really bad and she was like "jo bhi ho ladki sundar toh honi hi Chahiye", honestly i lost all the respect for her that very moment! But nothing much can be done bout this fkin cringe mentality! Just do the best on your part! I wish luck to all the girls who have dealt with this sorta fate! We all are pretty by heart and this is all what matters!
Peace✌️
Also dove : here's your Whiting cream
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Shampoo and conditioner
I mean *HYPOCRITES*
@Maths Qwerty AYYY
The concept of Beauty : Men want women to be pretty and men invented make up !!
The Corset were must for ladies which was made mandatory by men..
Chinese foot binding or girls covering their head are all different kind of male chauvinism.!!
Now, women are under constant pressure to wear make up inorder to look appealing... !! Why should their looks matter more than what they are capable of ??!!! I don't like painting my face !! But sometimes I feel like I should do and I hate making me look appealing... I mean for what !!!
Yeah you are right. This gender expectations suck. For both and men and women. For women it is hard to not get judged for there appearance and for men the same. For men if you're not hot and cute enough, you aint gonna survive your youth same goes to women. No one wants a partner Who is not good in appearance and who is a straight minded career guy/girl. Infact i got judged by my appearance and my economical issue. You know if a men don't have a strong economical status hes doomed.
@@dracomessierrr1977 @DracoMessierrr My case, I was so confident till my 12 or 13 years of age... But then i started getting all these comments about my skin color and constant comparison with my fair skinned siblings, my confidence really levelled down ... I gave more focuse to my looks than my capabilities !! And I am done with it... The most important thing is don't treat anyone or judge anyone the way you have been judged !
Very true .and people blindly foloow Kardashian And their makeup.and its worst even when light colour foundations are more demanding and ...thousands of women jave to hide their natural skin problems from world😕
Most of these facts are plain untrue
Corset was invented by a woman named Roxy Caplin. They stayed in trend for about 20 years, by which time they started declining in popularity. It was never a must but definitely a beauty standard back then.
Make up was invented by ancient Egyptians. Queens, yes queens such as Cleopatra, the one who conquered Egypt and married Julius Caesar was one of the first ones who started colouring their lips and face to appear more glamorous. She didn't do it for any man. She was the most powerful woman in Egypt. Men bowed to her. Caesar traveled to her to make an alliance. Besides which, make up isn't exclusive to women. A lot of men, especially Rockstars and film actors use it. It's a part of societal beauty standards and men alone don't make up those standards. For instance, the perception of buff, slim males being seen as highly attractive and preferable mates isn't something men invented. It was chosen by the society to be an ideal male figure and it still is to this day. Fat men are never or rarely ever accepted as heroes in movies and hosts in TV shows for this very reason.
The only ones pressuring women to wear make up is other women. Men don't care as long as you take a shower every day and keep yourself hygienic, fit and healthy. I can't even tell you the first thing about make-up as a man. I don't know anything. Don't give in to peer pressure and cut off contact with everyone, guy or girl who pressures you into putting on make-up.
Chinese foot binding was definitely an atrocious thing to do. And I will concur it was imposed by men.
Girls covering their head has different reasons in different religions. In Hinduism, north Indian women started covering their heads during the Mughal invasion so as to not get abducted by rapists. In Islam, the Quran dictates women to cover their head/body in public. I don't know much about Islam but my friend tells me it is the word of God and their God told women as well as men to dress modestly. So women were to aspire to wear hijabs/burkha in public and were to be accompanied by a man of the family whenever they had to go out.
Firstly, it's ironic because the color of your soap is white. Secondly, most Indian women already know the stigma that comes with weddings and marriage and will be hurt by this simply because we know it, no one does anything about it, so....what's the point showing this when all you are asking to make them do is make a pledge. what will that solve? Instead, show what's actually happening today, a woman decides if she wants to be on Tinder, Bumble, or get married, the way she wants, who she wants to, because her partner loves her, irrespective of how he or she is. The power as a Modern Indian woman is in her, don't let some lame advertising tell you a generation-old story or otherwise.
Sorry sir there are still many women out there who have to face these things!
Not everyone enjoys the liberty to breathe in the mordern air!
@@muskaansayed3553 Sir probably lives in a big city...
@@shonashelar78 exactly!
Exactly. Well said. These brands are just selling women insecurities namak mirch lagake.
Ladkiyon ki power aur independence ni dikhayenge, kachra dikhana h
There will always be people who point fingers , it's wired into our brain to enjoy humiliating others .
No point in objecting them, it's only like you pluck one weed and the next day another springs up.( I learned the hard way)
Only solution is that.
We have to love our selves and force it on other.
I m short heighted since childhood I m facing such kind of humiliation by my friends n relative .i can understand how does it feel when people jugde you by your Appreance not by your qualities. I really admire this video and thank you dove for bringing such kind of evil mentality in notice.
I also face this type of humiliation
Girls also judge men for wedding
Black skin , hight body , money 🤐
All the pressed men in the comment section... Ask Gillette to make such ads for you no? This product and this ad is not for you... Please have some common sense. Even when men have nothing they have the audacity
I think these are the men who use ladies product LOL
No hate, just a friendly joke
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They make fun of us to just ignore them i would rather dont like to stay with them
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Fragile male ego making lot of noise huh😁funny
it is a fact that both men and women are judged, and there is nothing as “fragile male ego” everyone has feelings, if women don’t want to be judged on the basis of their skin, body and height, men too want the same. Just be a little polite with your words :)
The best way to face these beauty biases is to go and attend those family functions....you'll surely see 1 Or 2 people specially auntijies who r eagerly waiting to offend you by commenting on your looks.... #abtobaskro🙏
You are absolutely right.
Ab toh ye aunitya ladko ko bhi nhi bakshti.
Except for dove,all other HUL brands like lux,glow and lovely,lakme,sunsilk,tresemme,lever-ayush,pears etc have celebrities(paid in crores for endorsement) loaded with makeup and artificial lighting promoting them.Heights of hypocrisy.If HUL wants to be genuine,they should drop all celebrities from their endorsements.That would be a good place to begin with.
I believe some day our Indian society move out from these prejudice of judging women's.. I hate this..
I'm short and I was made fun of it by mum and uncle when I was a teenager and it didn't affect me then. I'm 20 now and saw tall girls in my college and even taller girls all over media. I have grown extremely insecure now because of my height. I know there are a lot of short girls too but on me, I hate it. I can't take a 'shortie' joke. I don't go out or interact because I'm not confident at all. Maybe yoga will help. :\
I am 4'11 .. And fat ..
I used to hate myself too. It took me years to get confident and face the world.
Dont hate it.. Short girls are damn cute.
Just so you know once , one of my boy bestfriend said boy like short girls . Others are just Insecure and jealous of you . Love yourself
Same problem sirf height km complexion fair chehra sunder lmbe straight baal nature bhut achha sb chijo m talented pr ek kmi height km I don't know why.??
Khubiya khud btate h log muje lekin last m bolte h ek height ki kmi reh gyi vrna to tum lakho m ek ho
Yhi ek kmi confidence nhi ane deti
@@rohinimandepula8906 I'm 4'11 too🥂.....and skinny... people constantly says, girl...eat something get some flesh atleast 🥴 it did bothered me back then but not anymore cause fuck'em😏
@@do.you. my girl right there
A brand which has openly promoted white skin in their old advertisement is now talking about change in the society how hypocritical and ironic and we as a nation fall for this stupid campaigns.
Really... this is what we call a judgemental society...if one does a good deed we would just ignore it and when it does something bad just brag about it.....even out of product campaign and hypocrisy they actually spread a really good msg... can't u just appreciate that...
@@jannatjuneja6173 hypocrisy needs to be called out and at the end of the day they are here for making money not to change society otherwise they would have started this kind of campaigns a long and not have promoted white skin so openly.
@@Seriouslyayushman but they're still doing the good work out of selfish reason though....no one actually does any good deed without a good reason..... it's a selfish society..,..but still they spread a good msg...
Learn to appreciate
@@jannatjuneja6173 wow they have done a great job 🎉🎉🎉 now happy.
@@Seriouslyayushman ohh... being sarcastic won't bring u any good....I don't know about dove...but I don't think that there really can be a hypocrite like uh.. It's not like u go on social media and shout out....'Oh!! Our society is judgemental and unfair' but when someone does, even though it's out of their profit...u come & be like 'Oh!! How hypocrite they are...'
If you can't stand for the right thing it's fine...but if someone does ,just shut up and let others take their stand... rather calling them hypocrite..and showing ur fake righteous self..
Learn to respect & appreciate..
As per your opinion, you feel that women are not judging the men with all the reasons u mentioned in the video!!!...wat a pity... don't showcase a sensitive issue for ur fake worthy promotions...earlier u made ads on fairness and now opposing it
Haven't seen a better add! Just to see this..i come here usually
No one is born UGLY... we are born in a judgmental society....
-Kim Namjoon
A boy lives in the house next door to me( I'm 13 only) he's a year younger than me. One day as I was going to school I heard some girls talking about him and here's what they said: have you seen the boy who lives next to to Isha? He's never gonna get taller is he? He's been the same height since 2018. He looks so short infront of my brother who is a year younger than him. And then her bf said: why do you have to say anything like that about him can't you mind your own business? And then they had a huge fight and then they broke up. This tells us that men are supportive to men but women they are not supportive to each other at all. Women are discriminated by women themselves.
It's time to change. We need to change. Something big starts with something small. If we'd be supportive to each other then there would be lesser casses of depression, sucide, etc. I'm not saying that men are not supportive to women I'm saying that women are not supportive to women. Guys I'm saying it again we need to change, the world needs to change.
@kbcoool kkkcool yea
Only brand I hve seen portraying all types of women beautifully.
I am so proud of you ❤️
Mannnn this video! We really need more videos like this video! Great initiative!❤️👐🏼
Our education, talent, hardwork, character nothing matters when it comes to arrange marriage at the end of the day all they want is beautiful and flawless girl that they can flaunt in front of society. #personalbadexperience
its same thing with happens with boys, u should also show boys point of view who feel they not looking good and fair skin, bcose many girls also rejected these boys ,,,so plz present a story of boys, and tell us how to join ur stop beauty test campaiging ..thnku Dove india
1:07 I can't stop my eyes being teary at that moment..
Not only by looks women are always judged by every aspects from the beginning... Society has successfully created some bizarre standards for women and women are always getting judged by those.... How it impacted this their pshycological health emtional health their confidence i dnt think that society ever concerned a bit....
Did you observe it was only women who spoke in this ad ?
Well said Pratiksha! You raised a good point here. 💯☘️
"BEAUTY COMES IN ALL SHAPES, COLOR AND SIZE"
Either a boy or a girl, everyone is judged on the basis of skin color,their body,height,weight and their clothing style.
Can we just STOP and make others stop too!
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It should be the eye opening ad for the Indian society. Every girls should be judge with their talents not with their beauty. Beauty will declined with time but talents stay. So girls be proud and strong to yourself 😊
im very dusky and my sisters are white as milk...my grandma keeps saying malai lagaya karo...my dad says we dont judge u with colour and proceeds to say aaj tum gori lag rahi ho..it hurts to be in such a family sometimes...there was this guy who was hitting on me and when i said my bestfriend is that white skinned pretty girl he just said "oh set me up with her" this is what makes us insecure....BUT IM A STRONG WOMAN, IVE FOCUSED ON MYSELF, AND ILL NEVER LOSE MY SELF ESTEEM, THANKYOU DOVE FOR THIS AD
Superb ad.
But I have to point out one thing.The girl with dark complexion,short height was perfectly shown as it is not in our hand. It is natural.And it is not at all a problem.But the girl who was overweight,she can get fit.I'm not telling just for the outer beauty or she will look good,but being obese is not good for health also.And I'm not only pointing girls out here,boys also should look after their health.Because obesity leads to many health problems which may get severe. It was just my opinion. I'm seeing this ad on tv frequently and that's why I wrote this comment.
Appreciation and criticism are welcomed. :):):)
Damn relatable. Such women shaming young girls are reflection & reinforced of their own insecurities. They were too coward , at their times to take a stand for themselves. Such nosy relative women deserve special place in hell 😠😠😡
Iam really happy that you pointed this issue , I think being fat being short being dark cannot justify a person . Literally respect to your team . I don't understand how can a person judge anyone . If a criminal is looking handsome or beautiful , will anyone marry him/her . It's the character of a person who makes him/her special not characteristics . I am taking a pledge today that I will respect each and every person and will not make anyone feel different . Love and regards from Krish jain ☺️
I watched this video as an ad and specifically searched it on UA-cam to give it a Like as it deserves to get one .
N to all the females out there , stop it , stop judging yourself on your looks cuz that perfect look will never be there and it won't remain always , what ultimately remain is actually our love for ourselves n for others around. Stop making yourself the clay to be molded by and for the patriarchy . Ultimately don't judge yourself and also the other females at least on the basis of looks
This is the most beautiful add I have ever seen in my life!!!
I believe that same stigma and stereotype are faced by men also. Fat, Height, slim, short and what not ? One question to the Dove company 🤔, then why your company ads only have slim, beautiful and model type girls tested for Dove challenge? Why don't you also take not so model type girls, as they don't serve your advertising purposes ??
Stop the hypocrisy 😒😤.
True bro
They def. should...tomm if they release a same ad showing all d probs guys face it b fun to re read the comments of guys who r salty right now
@@shonashelar78 Haha right, instead of being salty , saying they acknowledge girls are being judged and tell the problems guys face is much much better.
Marketing gimmick.... What ever is the trend they will use that to target audience....😂😂
The only advertisement that I've shared with my all contacts and, watching it again and again but still hating damn!! I can't give like more than 1...
And, please do advertise it on TV at least twice on every interval...
U are right Doer this ad is need to be on television because every one should be aware and need change because I AM ALSO A GIRL
The height one hits hard , i have been told it so many times that its a joke now and i also laugh but inside it does hurt but i also joke about myself sometimes because im use to it
Many many thanks to Dove for making such a touching AD.
I'm so related to Rajeshwari and Deeksha.. I'm 18 but my height is 4.9ft and I have a mark on my face... My some family members, friends and some relatives laughing at me.. It's hurts me lot.. And sometime I was cry.. I know I'm ugly but this is not my fault.. I'm not perfect but I have not this type of mind.. I never hurt anyone just for theirs looks..
Dnt feel bad...u r bful in ur own way❤️
@@nitikasaggar2459 yes u r r8.. Everyone is born beautiful 🙂❤❤
Really like this advertisement. I have been judged many times that definately makes us lose our self-confidence. No one should be judged by there appearance. ❤️
I am not pointing out anyone but Often what happens and I personally feel is that women only criticise a women! when a women will stand for a woman na then no man, actually no man can dare do this! Everyone is beautiful and perfect in their own way.Not only that particular person has to appreciate that but we ( society )also should accept them with all their imperfections and yes, as shown in the video, whatever we do with someone else's daughter can happen with our own daughters as well as what goes around comes around in unexpected ways!
Don't know about others but yes its my promise to me : neither will let any such thing happen to me nor with anyone around me!
and Yes thank you Dove for sharing such a lovely message!
Only a girl can understand this pain💔💔💔💔
This is so common in arrange marriages in India. Instead of asking "How is the girl like? What is her family like? What are her qualifications?" the FIRST question, as far as I've personally observed, is ALWAYS "What does she look like? Is she pretty?"
Having certain preferences is alright, there's no issue in that, but making that the top priority while searching for a marriage partner is what the issue is.
Ok fine, let's just say there's nothing bad in having the visual appearance as the top priority while looking for a marriage partner. Nothing bad till here. BUT, what DEFINITELY would be wrong is subtly mocking their visuals and making them feel insecure about it. THAT'S where EVERYTHING wrong lies.
Have preferences? Absolutely fine
Visual appearance is top priority? Ok good nothing wrong with that
Being passive aggressive and subtly mocking their visuals because they don't fit your preferences? GET OUT COZ THAT'S *NOT* RIGHT AND *NOT* OK *AT ALL*
I was also rejected by someone who had an affair and rejected me commenting on my looks ,joblessness and smone told me that he was saying that my sister was better ........today dis is a trend boys openly talk about their breakups ,their dreams ,their faith etc and r simultaneously having affairs,still come to "see"a girl as if she is a product......ugly trend of our society and the shameful part is that mostly the so called "SHARIF" women have to pass this phase for they are conditioned with the thought that this is the perfect way .......I really cannot stop my tears watching this ad.WOW DOVE TEAM WHAT A DEEP THOUGHT.👏
Hypocrisy is that a beauty products company is saying this ... 🤔
Theyre lroduct is for soft and good skinduh