The VERY SAD Reality of Being a Sigma Male
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- Опубліковано 1 січ 2024
- The VERY SAD Reality of Being a Sigma Male. "What if I told you that the most intriguing of all males isn't the Alpha, but the elusive Sigma male?"
This isn't a riddle or a trick question.
It's a query that opens the door to an exploration of an often overlooked and misunderstood archetype within the male spectrum.
Sigma males are an alternative to the more commonly known Alpha and Beta males.
While Alphas are typically associated with leadership, dominance, and extroversion, and Betas with being supportive, agreeable, and somewhat introverted,
Sigma males carve out a unique space for themselves.
They are independent, introverted, and self-sufficient, often marching to the beat of their own drum.
They're the mavericks, the lone wolves, the ones who appear to sit on the sidelines, yet are quietly observant and deeply introspective.
They often choose solitude over social interaction.
This isn't because they're antisocial or lack social skills.
Quite the contrary, they're often quite capable of navigating social situations.
However, they prefer their own company, seeking solace in their solitude.
They thrive in their own space, where they can explore their thoughts, ideas, and interests without the distractions and influences of a group dynamic.
Sigma males are self-reliant, valuing their independence above all else.
They do not rely on others for validation or approval.
They are comfortable in their own skin, content with their own company, and confident in their abilities.
They do not seek to fit in or conform, but rather, they value their individuality and uniqueness.
Yet, this independence and self-sufficiency can sometimes come with a price.
Sigma males can often feel misunderstood or misjudged.
Their preference for solitude can sometimes be mistaken for aloofness or arrogance.
Their independence can sometimes be seen as a refusal to participate or cooperate.
Their self-sufficiency can sometimes be interpreted as a lack of empathy or compassion.
So, is being a Sigma male a blessing or a curse?
It's a complex question with no simple answer.
Each Sigma male's experience will be unique, shaped by their personality, circumstances, and choices.
But one thing is clear: being a Sigma male isn't all sunshine and roses.
It has its challenges, its drawbacks, and yes, its very sad realities.
Let's delve into the very sad reality of being a Sigma male.
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Being sigma may seem interesting.... but your constantly aware of your differences with others and it can seem isolating.... not lonely.... just isolating.
Being a Sigma does Not suck. It's just that we value solitude & personal space. We have no regrets choosing this kind of life. Quality over quantity.
I could not agree more.
I love being the way I am. I just live my life and to hell with everything that gets in the way
Claiming to have no regrets is childish. Every sane person has regrets.
sigma is a definition of going all through adversity having a hard life and conquer it all and now having an easy mode life after all the challenges
My all time favorite quote:
"If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery. It could mean isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it... and you'll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is."
- Charles Bukowski, Factotum.
❤
Thank you for this one! So many people seem to big up being a Sigma male, when the reality is a VERY different one. Its mentally exhausting.
An apple cannot be a mango bless
Agreed.
Its because society doesn't accept us or you dont accept yourself.....it needs immense courage to accept yourself....until you arent sigma.....Leave Sigma in the forest and he will be happier than living in society.
I don’t get it, there’s nothing sad being a sigma. Alphas are weak, betas weaker yet, sigmas are strong. I wouldn’t want it any other way … 😊
I'm with you, I'm happiest alone
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Pain is weakness leaving the body.
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I am mostly a Sigma with a bit of Alpha, and I like Sigma way of life.
I can and do give middle finger to many of society's way of things.
I enjoy the peace and tranquility.
I don't need external validation or approval, I have my own self worth and respect from within.
I don't worry about conforming or fitting in to society's system, I work at my own will, pace and standards.
I prefer quality not numbers.
I am good alone, although can do good in group too.
I am not afraid to reject and walk away from people who don't fit my requirements.
It's got its pros and cons, but works pretty good for me.
The ender core of every man is the messurevof one that is without question never stop until his resolve has been met coupled with relentlews pursuit in order to achieve excellence in his cart as thoe an obsession with calulated out come.
Ranger up!
When you live and do like you are the only person to rely on, very little sadness, close to zero. You aren't sad about what you don't need. That is the reality.
It's life. No matter who you are, there's always ups & down. Find your spiritual path, you will become the strongest sigma. Good luck
When I meet a high value woman I like enough to share myself with, the only response I really look for is..."I am not intimidated" by your life....sigh, what a relief to hear....High achieving women often have difficulty with the concept of our freedom. Especially if they are looking for a Mustang to tame....it takes a special lady...just sayin'
Women dont want to tame a Mustang. They want to be riden by one. They only "tame" the sick and woundet Mustangs. There is a difference.
I agree . The mother of our children is just that woman.
Being a sigma isn't a sad existence but a blessed gift from God.
I think of a boulder in a river, unmoving and uncaring of the flow yet affects that very flow with the stoicism of its own nature. That nature in turn is slowly shaped over time by the wear of the flow: connected and affected but confident and sound
Excellent video, as a Sigma male you hit the nail right on the proverbial head. It can be difficult at times but the pros far out weigh the cons, I feel blessed being a Sigma.
This might be one of the better explanations of sigma I have heard. All other videos left me guessing. This video has answered a lot of questions. I’m not one who normally depends on UA-cam information. I like to look at several sources and make a determination. This video is the closest interpretation I’ve had to the one i’m gathering. All my life I’ve been told I’m an alpha male I only lead when I have to. It’s not that I’m incapable. I just do what I have to do to survive And to navigate. I’ve also found the dating world to be very difficult. I don’t think women are as attracted to sigmas as most sources claim. On the contrary, I think we are more adaptable, less willing to give into the game. I am 60 years old now and accepting my Sigma status. It’s been a long road discovering me and I’m much better for it now.
I've noticed a lot of commentators seem to have missed the introspection part. That is the part that matters the most.
We are treated like we are weak but we are not we are in our own circles so we try to keep peace for people and for us we have good hearts but we are weak we are misunderstood ❤
We are not weak we are misunderstood ❤
Acceptance is vital for the inner sigma. We different.
I have watched more videos on Sigma males than I can remember. This is the best one.
Listening to this vid first 3 mins is enough, it goes into circles stating the same points.
Sigma Males (& females) are made special... No sadness in that!!!
The sad reality is this, more often we die alone no matter our tentativeness. 😊
People have thought me weak because I'm quiet. That only lasts until I shut them down. When i was young it was physical, when I became oler it became psychological. I am who I am and that's that. If it's a row i give no quarter. I don't consider this to be sad. In this world we the most sensible people around.
mirror, mirror...
It's not like you get to choose being a sigma, you can choose to ignore it I guess lol. A rather large portion of my life would have been far easier had I known what I was but instead I tried to fit in, regardless, I figured it out.
I realized I was a lonewolf maybe some 10-15 years ago, that made my life a little easier. But I wished that I would have known this about Sigma males earlier. I also struggle with ADHD, and possibly autism and bi-polar. But I realize now that those lattersymptoms might even be traits of the Sigma.
refreshing...
Yeah I can see how someone who isn't a sigma would think that being one could suck... much like someone who doesn't like doing a certain kind of work would think it sucks... but if you are sigma it doesn't suck... certainly no "very sad realities" there are just realities. I don't like "being part of the mob" so I'm not and that is not equal to being alone or lonely. I'm still not sure I consider myself a sigma but I certainly understand this trait of sigmas
This video could have been about 3 minutes without all the repetitive info
If you don’t have contentment, you can never achieve true happiness. Seek contentment
It's very hard to find meaningful relationships as Sigma male.
Contradictions are not inside the Sigma, it's the difference between them and the rest in values and ideologies that create these paradoxes, most are oblivios and live life on autopilot, that is irresponsible, reckles and impractical, the Sigma sees these imperfections and criticize the lack of effort put by others into changeng them, while most live for dopamine, Sigmas live for discovery and understanding, nit accepting, it is as difficult as fulfilling to be one and interactions are difficult because human beings empathise with familiarity, especially in an era of seemingly infinite options, now even less efforts are put in to discovering something different and takes a long time to make sense of the world since not even a Sigma's parents are prepared ad equipped to explain these things to a growing child with this personality type, so it is both a blessing and a curse.
EXHAUSTED... This is the way.
True. There are the benefits and the consequences. 🎉
This is one of the better interpretations of my existence.
Sigma are independent individuals...not seeking attention but get it any way
Yeah... It's not an easy life at all... It's just the way it is. I refuse to be manipulated and exploited by society for the illusion of power and gain or woman.
Unique personality type
sigma shit. it makes me feel like someone is spying on me.
With respect and gratitude to all of these different insights and explanations of the Sigma Male personality type, I know that every now and then people will be watching a video about the Sigma type for the first time, I find it is so over played by all of the little publishers 50% of each posting is the same old repetitive words with such clichéd buzz words and phrases such as "Lone Wolf" and "marches to the beat of their own Drum".
I am here to say.
I wish the creators would raise the bar and move forward with a bit of ingenuity and originality, because the quality of the content just rehashed and regurgitated is as boring as F*ck.
Seems to be a lot of UA-cams rehashing vids with different titles . Just trying to make a few bucks on the side i guess.,
I just came across these vids recently and I'm glad I did. I've always anylized everything but many other traits took me a while to aquire. Life experience I guess. I m not good at staying calm in certain situations especial with mean people not to mention all the corruption and injustices that plague this planet.
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The trees stand in one spots for a hundred years and is able to accomplish it's devine duties effortlessly every creation is necessarily specificated all natural with an equally natural perpous cause duty and responsibility may God continue to bless us all seven and a half billion of us existing in this dimension Amen and Amen
How can u be lonely when u love ur own company? Lol this video is misleading... Sigma may need woman but they are not that needy that's why women crave sigmas
I love being sigma
Man if it wasn't for some little twerp stealing my id I would have never came up with this plan. Now I can get free housing , insurance food and steady money. More so then a really good job seeing I don't pay for anything. Plus I don't have to work anymore
it's people's problem with what they think of sigma.. sigma just don't care they envy sigmas bcoz they are not that strong as sigmas
It's a Sigma Male without job
😂
So i am sigma male then. Thats fine.
At least i dont get tricked into Marriage with childs that are not mine. Paying Alimony and loosing everything i build vor myself. Neither chase i after worthless women that are imaginary 10's.
with an unhealthy body count.
A sigma male can turn into Alpas and betas at any time they want, for as long its needet.
I dont see the sad part of that. where is the sad part?
Serious. Where is the sad part of beeing capable to control the 2 Wolfen in my chest?
An alpha male will always be an alpha. An beta will always stay an beta.
But an sigma. A sigma can control both these Wolfes. Let them out and call them back when ever needet.
Let me tell you a Story my son.
One evening around the campfire, an old Cherokee Indian told his grandson about a battle that rages within everyone.
He said: “My son, the battle is fought by two wolves that dwell within each of us.
One is evil. He is the anger, the envy, the jealousy, the worry, the pain, the greed, the arrogance, the self-pity, the guilt, the prejudice, the feelings of inferiority, the lies, the false pride and the ego.
The other one is good. He is joy, peace, love, hope, cheerfulness, humility, kindness, benevolence, affection, generosity, sincerity, compassion and faith.”
The grandson thought about his grandfather's words for some time, and then asked: "Which of the two wolves will win?"
Old Cherokee replied, “The one you feed.”
Real sigmas don't have any problems. I don't have money problems I don't have women problems I don't have relationship problems.
Irfan khan character in rog movie(2005).
truth
This ain't sigma
Fun fact: majority of people are Alphas here
Came to hear bad about
sigma😂😅
The creator of this video aint sigma😮
#PplLikeYouExist
I dont have emotions and i cant be sad now the question is am i sigma or psychopath thats something i think about alot well at least for the past few years when i found out sigma male concept before that i just knew there is something different about me.
I don't think there is a single real SIGMA in these comments sections. You guys are hilarious. 😃