Thank you all for the love and support and for sharing your stories on Lee. It's so important to speak out. Thank you all who have donated to Lee's Gofundme page which will go towards the prevention of cyber bullying and helping people who are suffering with their mental health. You can find the link here: www.gofundme.com/f/speakupforlee?+share-sheet&
Beautiful words guys. Like many I feel the loss of a close friend although we never met. As well as random acts of kindness I feel we all have a responsibility to not just ignore it when we see cyber bullying (something I am guilty of) , but to confront it head on. I will never turn a blind eye again, it’s time to show these cowards that their behaviour is not acceptable. Lee, you have made me a better person - this is part of your legacy.
Lee was so looking forward to that trip with you two in Custard the bus. It’s true what you’ve said... she was EASY to love deeply without even meeting her in person and yet I know that when you all did finally meet you’d have LOVED her even more. A true bright light. One in a million. Big hugs to you both for this beautiful tribute to Lee. She’s so proud of you for speaking up and continuing her work in ending the stigma that surround mental health. Wish we were closer to join you for those very healing swims. So much love 💛🌞🌻
Eamon&Bec im a big fan of yours i was intraduct to your chanel by my good friends at kinging it as meand Aimee are good friends i have had the plesher of meeting lee at one of your chaiwala pop ups. it wasn't a long talk but it was long enuf to meet her see that weather it is 5min10 or even 20+ years she was a loving caring person and let me tell you even though i never got the chance to meet you eamon& bec she did have such grate words for the both of you. so Id just like to say thank you for starting the chaiwala bizzness so that i had the plusher and gratefulness to meat a loving caring well spoken lady
Both my hands are on my heart for you two. Since I learned of Lee's passing, I've been sending out love, comfort and strength your way during my daily meditations.
My God!!! To hear that sweet, beautiful, and kind Lee endured cyber bullying makes me furious!!!! There was absolutely nothing wrong with Lee!!! She was a lovely and smart young lady!!!
One important thing you showed in this video Craig...men are alowed to cry too...most men still think they have to hide their tears to be strong but it is strong to show your feelings! P❤
This is one of many stigmas we want to squash. Our brilliant Lee affected the lives of both men and woman and it's not right that only woman should feel allowed to cry. ❤️
It’s unthinkable that Lee was bullied on line for advocating mental health. It breaks my heart. Thanks for the important message. It matters. And has impact on those whom struggle.
I’ve never met Lee, but followed her online for YEARS. The day I found out about her passing I was devastated. I know she’d want us to live our lives to the fullest, so after I wiped my tears, I bought a dress that I was too scared to wear because I was worried about what others would say. Life is short, so live it up ❤️
Absolutely right decision! Dress like a divine queen! Others stop thinking about your value, at the point you feel your truthfulness! Remember: Everything in the outside that triggers you, is a chance to heal. Love yourself first! ❤️
there have been lots of tears for Lee. The irony is she'd have been surprised and overwhelmed at the love, and also have rushed to help everyone who is devastated. Too cruel. take care :-)
LEE was full of life. Every time I see anybody talking about her makes me really emotional but at the same time I want to hear it out. Cant still digest she is gone. RIP you little angel.
This is a lovely tribute. Thank you for taking the time to make it. I'm so sorry for the loss everybody is feeling. Lee is so very loved by many across the world. I am sad that the hurting outpowered that for her that day. Sending love to you both. You wonderful thoughtful beings. The cold sea dip was beautiful.
Such beautiful words spoken from the heart. We never had the chance to meet Lee but messaged online - she was an amazing person and the world wont be the same without her. She did a wonderful post saying that just because she put's herself online doesn't give people the right to say what they want. There is a fine line between freedom of speech and hate speech. We all need to stand up again cyber bullying. As content creators we should not accept personal or hate speech, it is not ok !!! We need to all stick together. Hopefully UA-cam also does more to prevent videos that encourage cyber bullying. I am sure Lee would have loved your video and I am sure she would be heading your way for a rocking tour of Wales with you. Sending big virtual hugs - Chris & Marianne xxx
Hello guys. I discovered you literally a week ago, when I was little bit struggling with school and stress. It was nothing horrible, but I needed some kind of reminder that I rule my own world. After the first video I watched I laughed so hard I couldn't breathe. I immediately felt like I know you guys for years and you really helped me in just one week. I "met" Lee just few days ago and I have no right to say that I knew her, but it really feels like it, so I cried with you during the video. I am so sorry for your loss and so glad that you speak about this. One of my family members really struggled with mental health. Thanks god we managed to help her, but it was a tough journey. Mental health is nothing to be ashamed of and we all deserve to live the life we want. To rule our own world. Thank you that you remind us of this every day.
I know both of you have suffered mental health issues with stress etc., and knew this would affect your hearts. This was a beautiful tribute to Lee and I am so sorry she felt she couldn’t be here anymore. Cyber bullies have sad lives and need help in a different way.
Thank you for speaking up for Lee. If only she could have known how much we loved her. I'm proud to be Canadian and all of the Canadian vanlifers represent us well. She will be missed dearly. You both are an inspiration to me, your kindness and sincerity is something you should be proud of. I have loved your dynamic relationship together, from the first video of yours I watched. Sending you lots of love. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
She knew how much she was loved. Mental illness will take you even when those that love you most are there to catch you when you fall. It’s a suffering like no other and even though everyone’s journey is different. Those that also suffer can relate to the pain and emptiness. The weight can be just too heavy. The feeling of being a burden is constant even when the people in your life love you and want to be there for you.
I want to create a channel to honor her and all of the others who have been battling with mental health concerns. Actually just quit my job, and closing my business, and am planning to travel full time (traveling the 50 states) to spread awareness of depression and anxiety and living life to the fullest! ❤ Was completely devastated when I heard the news about Lee. She was one of the few younger travelers that I felt bonded and connected to. She was such a beautiful spirit! I didn't know her in person but she inspired me so much and was just a gorgeous girl to follow and enjoy ❤❤❤ I have battled with depression, C-PTSD and anxiety and childhood trauma and became suicidal again in December 2019 and onward through 2020. Instead of giving in to my depression and mental health concerns I plan to encourage others to get help and change their lives! ❤ Biggest hugs to you both. Thank you for creating this episode. 🙏🥰 Lee was such a gorgeous spirit with amazing energy! ❤
@@kingingit would LOVE to meet ya'll down the road one day!! My husband and I plan to boondock through Alaska all summer and will hit the lower 48 this fall 🥰 Thank you again! BTW... just recently found your channel and completely adore you two!! You two are fabulous 😘👏❤
Cyber bullying has to stop, no-one should be made to feel so bad that the only way to escape it, is to end your life, I didn’t know Lee but it really affected me listening to you talking about her, she sounds like she was an amazing woman. Something needs to be done to stop this, I suffer with mental health issues so I know how hard it can be to reach out but for anyone reading these comments who is struggling, please reach out, talk to someone, there is so many people who want to help you ❤️ RIP Lee Xxx
I want to understand this so much. Can you give an example of bullying? I haven't come across it. Makes me feel terrible that people are so mean. They need to be called out so they know that words hurt,
I'm new to the story of Lee, even though I've been watching her videos. I never knew she was cyber bullied. How can this be possible even? - that gorgeous gorgeous girl was so lovely. In fact she brought me to your channel. Lee was beautiful - I felt Lee was real. Btw, I love Wales and was there a few weeks ago with my grand daughter. Take care, stay safe and stay real, Oh and congratulations on your recent news.
Since I saw the news, Lee has just been in my thoughts so often! For me she was someone that was so beautiful and seemed to have the world at her fingertips and for her to just be gone is almost to much to comprehend, so I can’t even imagine how you all must feel 😢 Thank you for all the love, laughter and kindness you bring to the world ❤️
She is a free spirit now. Far away from the bully, free of going where ever she wants to go, with no pain, no need of the human drugs to try to stop a pain that cannot be seen or heard. She is free and if she feels the need, she can come back stronger and with a brighter light. 😌💗
It is so real, having suffered for many years myself, and slowly over coming,with Wim Hof breathing, grounding, and taking myself off the medications.. there are other treatments that work, like wim hof and gives you a sense of control back in your life.. and men speak about it, so many suffering in these crazy times.. love to you both and respect for making more aware of this very real condition..
I was deeply affected by Lee’s death. I had watched her videos and was inspired by her adventures. It’s amazing that someone like her can touch people all over the world. Bless you for your beautiful tribute to your dear friend Lee. Her memory will be a blessing to so many. peace to you.
This is so poignant right now. I just lost a childhood friend a little over a week ago who loved and lived life in a similar way as Lee. Thank you for sharing this. It's important to celebrate our loved ones
Clifton, my heart is grieving for you. May the memory of your friend bring sweetness and joy to your life. I hope that the sadness will lift to a place in memory that does not bring you down, but that it will lead you to recognize the gift that your friend gave, just by being. It is so hard to have a friend leave.
I can't remember feeling so heartbroken & crying over the passing of someone I had never met - that was Lee ... Bless her beautiful soul ~ she is free now and she'll soar forever and a day. Thank you for this touching and loving video - we must all #speakupforlee (and each other)! 💖
Sending so much love to everyone here. I still can’t wrap my head around Lee’s loss. She is and was precious. Thank you, loves, for this lovely tribute.
Thank you for posting this. Brave of you to step in front of the camera. I’m crying everyday for this beautiful girl I didn’t know. I’m just so sad she didn’t have have the strength to face another day. Shame on the bullies. This culture has to stop. Much love to you xx
Mental health, bullying, terrorizing is a world wide issue. Thank you for sharing this message. The people in power aren't doing much to help so it's up to us to make the changes. I didn't know Lee, clearly I missed out. It's a shame to lose a good person when the world send so full of bad ones. #SpeakupForLee
Rest in Power Lee. You were a such a light in this world. I met you through Eamon and Bec’s life and fell in love with you on the spot. Your light was so bright and drew people to you because of your kindness, honesty and love for people. You will be missed my love. Big love 🔆🧚🏼♂️✌🏽🌸🕊🪶🪔✨
Thank you so much for speaking up for Lee and Mental Health. It's real and mental health needs to be brought to the table.First and formost.Mental health is real let's help one another.!!! You both are beautiful people and Lee's hope of building a community is coming alive.❤❤ I am a 62 year young woman who believes that we all have a responsibility to be kind to one another. Be that , that you ask the universe for. Give back and be kind !! Namaste ❤
Lee was such a bright person, I was shocked to find out how she decided to exit this world. As someone who has survived both sides of this issue, I do get to toss a vote out there. As I learned, suicide is long term solution to a short term problem. It’s terrible to see that the brightest lights make the largest targets. Tender hearts break the easiest, you must know how dark her outlook was...I can’t believe that she meant to hurt the train’s crew who must live with the knowledge that they played an unwitting role. This is nature’s law of unintended consequences. She did not set out that day to make it one of the worst in that crew’s lives...but it happened...now, those of us who are still here have a roll to play in helping those in need. In my case, I received excellent mental health care at just the right time, and, I knew I would have no say so as to who would be the first to find me etc. if anyone ever wants to talk about what they are feeling, OR NOT FEELING, please reach out, even to me. Take care.
Such a dear sweet sincere girl ! I am so very sorry she stepped out of her life this way ! I never met her but binged on her video’s. Thank you for speaking up for her and for mental health in these difficult times. 💕🙏
Heartbreaking. From one vanlifer to another. Rest in peace Lee. It's really great you guys made this video, It will be so helpful for people out there feeling down to talk to someone about their feelings. Great job guys, and great job on the mental health podcast, keep it up.
Thank you for sharing your story of Lee. There’s no doubt you guys were kindred spirits 💛 I can just imagine the fun you all would have had in Custard and how excited she would have been to explore and run wild with you both. I know the grief is raw and painful right now. Take your time, we will all be here for you. Sending you both so much love from the three of us xxx 💜
I’m still heartbroken over Lee’s passing 💔🤍 This is a beautiful tribute to her. Lee, her words and videos, touched me so deeply, I will forever miss her
I never knew Lee for real, but I thought that she's such a sweet and caring person and had the prettiest soul ever- But bullying on the net is so easy- sitting anonymous behind the screen with some taken name. But actually it's quite simple, never say anything to anybody that you wouldn't say if you stand face to face with the person. As you probably know ny know, I'm a silly, but very friendly old man. I can always find something positive to say and never anything negative. Thanks for speaking out for Lee to make us all understand what an amazing person she was 🤗😍💐
Sorry for your loss. Very brave of you both to open your hearts. We can see how much this has affected you. I think this has touched many of us because of our own struggles. You are highlighting how wonderful she was but don’t underestimate how wonderful you guys are. Be kind to yourself. Sending love and hugs.
Mental health always carries a stigma unfortunately, the thing is no one should judge because it can happen to anyone it can creep up on you and then hits you like a ton of bricks. It’s so much easier for people to be nasty or become distant with you, because in their eyes you’re weak. A favourite saying I’ve heard is “give yourself a shake or get a grip” which really doesn’t help most people walk away only true friends stick around and give support, which can be as simple as making a cuppa and a chat. God bless Lee xx
My heart goes out to all who knew and loved Lee, so sorry for the loss you feel, she was obviously a very special lady. Craig and Amiee you are beautiful people inside and out you tell it like it is, love watching you both. Big hugs ❤️
What a wonderful emotional tribute to Lee. Too many shining lights have been lost. On another note, how can people with any moral compass give this vlog a thumbs down. Even here people just can't be nice.
Lee Max Occy was the first to view van life. I got my van in February getting it ready for the road and will share build and life. Lee was loved and will be missed. My love going out to Max and friends families, sorry for your lost. BE KIND
So sorry to hear the loss of your friend Lee. Having lost my son to suicide and struggled with mental health issues most of my life I know how important it is to speak up and equally important for people to try to reach out and listen which equally isn't always easy.
Thank you! This is such a beautiful tribute for Lee, I never met her and I was devastated by the news of her passing, she’s so powerful I felt like I lost a sister. She’s in my heart and I’m my mind daily, as well as her family, Max, Jordan & Eamon and Bec. She’ll always be remembered, May Lee Rest In Peace.
I recently lost my best friend, I know the physical pain of losing someone and never quite feeling whole. I watched a few videos of Eamon & Bec’s where Lee was staying with them and her dog in their tiny van.. she had an infectious smile and was so fun to watch. Sleep peacefully Lee ♥️🕊
am sorry to read of your grieving. losing good friends is horrid. I've lost more than I can count on one hand to cancer. When the time is right, Eamon & Bec, the VanWives and our lovely Kinging-It, and many others will carry Lee's torch forward. The outpouring of grief shows there are wonderful people in our global village, who want to do good and to share compassion. Lee is alive in all of us mourning her loss.
Depression was so hard to cope with when I had loving, supportive people around me but I can’t imagine what it would be like to read online negative comments from complete strangers. As you said, something needs to be done about that.😡Thank you for all that you are doing to spread the word that it’s okay to say “l’m not okay”. Mental health issues need to de-stigmatised and allow people to talk about how they feel. Sending Lee’s family and friends so much love ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. As someone who suffers greatly from anxiety and depression, I can’t put in to words the impact that her death has had on me or that you, and others like you, talking about it has had. We need more support and understanding. Please continue to advocate for us. Knowing that someone who suffers as I do, who struggles every day to over come the suffering, has taken her life is a hard blow. It makes me worry that I too am not strong enough to beat this battle. She had such an incredible support system, yet in the end she succumbed. We need more and I don’t want to be another statistic. I want to get myself through this and then I want to help others. Lee’s death has made me realize that I don’t want to keep suffering in silence. I want to be proactive and I don’t feel alone in this.
Endless sad... Such a beautiful soul. ❤️ If it’s sad for me, who never spoke to her and never met her, I know how hard it is for all of you, who felt her love and saw her lightning in reality. I always write more in the comments, but I delete it... I’m a depression survivor. It sucks the happiness out of us and there is nothing left but pain. Sending hugs and love to you and all others. ❤️
Hugs to you, Tamara. Stand proud of each and every day you have and always know, depression does lift. Love yourself through it All. (I’m 25 years past my partners suicide, yet these situations make me feel like it was just yesterday. I’ve learned self love and still learn more self love, because I belong on earth.) love to you, darling.
I too am a survivor of depression, and know that it can creep back in. My heart grieves that you are feeling this loss so keenly. The next time that you write in the comments...don't delete. Leave your message for the world to hear. You are a blessing to be blessed. Reaching out to you from Canada and praying you whole again. May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you be loved. May you be happy. May you live your life with ease. May it be so. AMEN
@@racheljoanfleming159 oh, you’re sweet! Thank you... I was restless on the day Lee left her material body. It was irritating because I’m okay. I am very empathetic and feel, see and hear very sensitive... When Eamon and Bec posted it on Instagram it hit me like a wrecking ball. And I dived deep in this pain, all her loved ones are feeling. And I always wanted to stand by all them, but in my head has been the voice, who’d said “It’s not necessary what you think”. I’m okay... Thank you! I am in love with myself since one year. That’s why I’m so sad... We are all seeking after the prescription for happiness. I know where the happiness is living... But I didn’t reach out... I’m 20 years older than Lee... But she had the knowledge which I have. She had all tools in her hands. But no idea how to deal with the pain. If anybody who’s in this situation is reading this: You have to go back to the pain, dive deep in it, feel it again, be brave, and then realise that you survived this situation, in which your ego told you this is the end. You have survived! Visualise your younger you and embrace her/him. Take her/him with you... Back in the here and now. Maybe you breathe out a bit more powerful. That’s the moment you let it go. And eat dark chocolate it’s uplifting. Everything with Lemons. Change vom hot to cold under the shower. Meditate. Walk in the forest. The green of the leaves is healing. There are much more things you can do to uplift your mood. Wearing the colour Magenta for example is one more example. It helps against depression. Sure it can’t wipe it away! But everything lifting is a support! One is all! All is one! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Everybody of us is a wonder because there have been so many sperms and we made it! Never forget! ❤️
Oh God... I hadnt heard.. She was such a kind person( from what I saw in my hermit hut). How could anyone bully someone like that!?! Absolute monsters. That poor soul...
Thank you for doing this video guys. I am sure it was so hard to film, but it is so gorgeous. Since I heard the news I have been in real shock and it has really affected me. I met Lee through E&B's channel and she seemd such a vibrant and real soul. Her legacy will live on through her friends and family.
A life that touches others goes on forever....I hate that some people feel 'safe' spouting god awful comments online, things they would never dream of saying face to face and things that would horrify their friends and family if they knew. Shame for themselves and empathy for others seems non existent. Bless you both for baring your pain and grief, hold on to each other and carry her with you always xxx
Prayers for lee. While I don't personally have mental health issues my husband does due to military deployments . I struggle with chronic illnesses and a lot of pain so thank you for making this video . 🐦
I am one of the many thousands of people that never meet or even spoke with Lee, but followed her and Max and then when she traveled with Eamon & Bec and when she started her own channel. So I do feel I did know her a little. Everything you said was so true, she wanted to help others even though she was going through a rough time herself. Being open and breaking down the barriers about mental health will help so many people.... its with such sadness that even with help and support of friends, family and professionals her demons were just too much to cope with and fright against. May you rest in peace Lee and be forever able to smile with no demons on your horizon. 🧡
@@petat13 he's uploaded a message to say they are doing ok. Just a matter of time when all these guys will feel its the right time for them to speak. So sad.
Like so many others, I only knew of Lee through the online world but her passing has hit me hard. It has also made sadly realize how low I have been feeling and that I should get some help. I’ve spent most of my life being ashamed of the thought of being depressed and not being able to deal with it on my own. Thank you again for this, a lovely tribute to a beautiful soul 💗
Just rewatched this sweet testimony. Y'all brought tears to my eyes yet again. Three years ago a course of TMS (Trans-cranial Magnetic Stimulation) helped me with my depression.
Thanks Guys 🙏 for sharing your hearts with us ❤️ the honesty sure does help to work towards healing together . That cold water swim was everything with all those beautiful people . Your Kindness after such a devastating loss goes a long way 🌸
Please know that by putting out your funny, endearing and quirky adventures vlogs for us, you are already helping your followers who may need a smile or laugh on a particularly hard day. You and your channel matters...and I thank you for that. ❤️
So heartbreaking about Lee ❤️ I have struggled with depression for a long time - especially since losing my husband unexpectedly last fall. Watching your videos is truly a bright spot in my life. So please know - you really are making a difference 😊
Guys. I didn't know of Lee until I heard of her passing from you both. I started looking for her various online platforms, watching her videos and looking at her photos. The first thing that hit me was how happy she looked and how many adventures she had been on, then I came across videos about her mental health. The truth that shone through is that it doesn't matter how popular you are on social media, or how many miles you've travelled across the world. Mental health will follow you everywhere and it has devastating effects. I fell in love with you both because you don't just show the positive and happy moments, but you show the raw downsides of everything too. Life isn't all roses and rainbows for the people who inspire us, they are normal people. Thankfully our lives are mostly neutral or happy, bad shit doesn't happen so often that it outweighs the good. You have both been through so much over the years, documenting it all for the world to see. You are both shining examples of true life and an inspiration to "Rule Your Own World", a mantra that I realised before I even began to follow your lives. It's not always easy, but we can do our best to help each other when we're up, and hope others will be there when we're down. Love you both, stay strong and take care❤
I really feel your pain, deep in my heart ❤️ I’ve had a depression for the last six years, and in June 2020 I was diagnosed with a personality disorder, anxiety and depression. I’ve never really talked about my mental problems, I always put on a mask, and just smile. It has always been difficult for me to speak about it, I don’t even talk with my family about it, even though they would do everything to help me. So Lee was the first person I’ve felt that I could relate to, since she has been struggling so much, and was open about it. She really inspired me to be open about it, and even own up to it, because it shouldn’t be a taboo, and you shouldn’t be judged because of it! So please, can we just be good to each other soon? Can we not go around and judge people and talk shit? Cause I’m really tired of it! Love to you guys! You’re the best, and really inspiring! Speak up for Lee ❤️
Thank you for sharing Maiken. Thank you for being bold with your truth. Thank you for speaking up even as you are trying to figure things out. Thank you for being you.
Thank you so much for sharing this, and I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though mental health is being talked about more now than ever, it's still not enough. I want you guys to know that you're one of the very few youtubers I actually love and really enjoy watching. You have had such an impact on my life, and I'm sure on others too, and you continuously inspire to really live my life the way I want to, or to put it into your words, rule my own world. You're always so willing to help and so supportive, I message you so much on instagram sometimes and you always find the time to reply and try to help me out/answer my questions, and I think that says a lot about you as people. Because barely any other influencers reply to their DMs. I just wanted you guys to know that you're amazing, incredibly strong, and have had a huge impact on my outlook on life. So thank you again, and I'm sending you guys all the love from Germany ❤️ Oh, and if anyone ever leaves a mean comment under your videos, they will have to catch these hands 🥊 . Seriously.
It is amazing how far-reaching Lee McMillan's legacy is spreading. Well, so it should. She is an amazing woman. I still cannot speak of her in the past tense. She is affecting the present world and I am so sure that she will also affect it far into the future. Thank you for making her a part of our lives as well. My heart is grieving for you and for her community of friends and followers. There should indeed be some way to stop the cyber bullying and to prosecute the offenders. It is no different that squaring off in the streets and beating someone down with a bat. They are the cowards, to hide behind a keyboard and strike out at others, especially the most vulnerable. God Bless you Lee. Your wisdom and sensitivity has been heard by many and is helping them. We will not let your message fade. There is an old Buddist blessing...May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you be happy. May you live your live with ease. Lee, May it be so. Rest in peace. AMEN #speakupforlee
Guys robinandjenn.vanlife here! I'm still having a hart time believe this is happend... I mean it's Lee, one of the most enthusiastic human soul there is with so much energy and all...! We believe Lee is now traveling with every travelers soul en making sure we are all OK. Lovely tribute to Lee guys
"If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" is how I was raised, along with "Do unto others as you would have done to you." May God Bless Lee and her community and may God help the bullies. Love you two.
Sending you guys so much love and so many hugs. Thank you for all you do and all you share. Your tribute to Lee is so lovely. 💛 sending big love friends!
Mental health is so overlooked, we all need to take care of ourselves. Have that support network, speak to someone when you're feeling overwhelmed, never feel ashamed or withdrawn. MHSRIP.
If you find that you have a day when you start to struggle again, don't be afraid to reach out. It is not a weakness to "not be cured by the therapy'. Therapy is a tool to help you cope with your version of life and to meet your challenges and your joys along the way. May there bequiet joys and fewer challenges to travel with you.
I'm so so proud proud of the comments that you have aired I'm genuinely feeling the grief that you are going through sending you guys all my love ❤❤💔 RIP Lee
Thank you so much for speaking for Lee & the love so many of us felt for her. I’ll go on loving her & the legacy of speaking truth that Lee left us. May God’s bless us all & at this sad time, especially those that were close to Lee in whatever manner. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Such a beautiful and loving tribute for Lee. Thank you for carrying the torch for Lee going forward. Take care of yourselves and hope you’re doing ok. 💕💕💕
Thank you for speaking up. I never met Lee either, but I've cried so much for her loss. Not just in my YT watching world, but in all of the vloggers that loved her too. For my own mental peace of mind, I've decided that she isn't gone, but is enjoying a white sand beach, clear blue water with perfect waves, smiling because she is free of all the pain. Take care of one another. Love you two too ;)
Massive hugs to you both. I bawled all the way through this beautiful tribute xxx My sincerest sympathies to all who knew her, I only saw her a few times with Eamon and Bec, I didn't realise she had her own channel. She seemed like a very beautiful hearted young woman with so much to give the world and share it with everyone. I have MH issues, have done for over 20 yrs, the written word is far more often hurtful than the spoken, and not always easy to speak out about. But I really sincerely hope people DO speak out, do NOT be ashamed of your mental health, or hide that you are being bullied, others WILL help !! For the first time in my long time being on youtube listening to music and more recently watching peoples lives through the van community or a few families who travel, I had to report a 2 day old channel for targeting one maliciously, it was revolting. There HAS to be consequences, keyboard warriors/cyber bullies whatever they are called, it's got to change, got to stop. Noone else should pass away because of this. :'( Breaks my heart. May she rest in eternal peace now. Again, massive hugs to you both and all those who are affected/knew Lee xxx
R.i.p lee was a star and didn't deserve any of the hate. If you have some money spare even if its a few quid please donate. Thoughts are with you guys and everyone effected. #speakupforlee
Thank you for your compassionate remarks about the passing of your friend Lee Macmillan.. I never met her myself. Your You Tube remarks helps to continue to carry the day for people who are mentally challenged.. You projected your sincerity straight to my heart. Thank you two for baring your sole so publicly for Lee. I was very touched. You're good people. My wife of 35 years succumbed to mental health issues. She passed 4 years and 2 months ago. I think about her every day. Like your friend Lee, she was full of adventure and vitality. I miss her deeply..
It’s no wonder you two shared an instant connection with Lee. You reflect the same light back. I’m so inspired by the brave work you are doing. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to her and with how you are feeling. Much love to you both.
So sweet. Just came here after your visit to Eamon and Bec. As a mental health professional, I would say that you are on the right path. Love and continuing success. Love from Vegas. RedPat ❤️💙💜💚💛
I adore you two. I have a huge mental health warrior and advocate. Its refreshing to see a beautiful couple showing their souls. Love you guys even more 🤍🤍🤍
You speak the truth, she was a very special person, unique, kind, silly, her energy was contagious. I was so drawn to her that I had to make the journey to Palos Verdes when she, Max & Occy hosted a meet up. She gave everyone there her full attention and I got to meet some amazing van life community people that day. When I shared with her that I had taken some photos that day, she shared with me her cellphone number so I could send them to her, so generous with her time and her heart. She will be missed by so many 💞
Truly....it says more about that person(bully) than it does about the one who puts their self out there. Thank you for putting it there, information on Cyber bullies, bullies in general and what we can do to help.
Please know that your vlog has helped my mental health. I have been on my own now for over a year and it has been gruelling but watching people have a laugh together, travel, build things, both yourselves and a few others has been my support. I had seen Lee with A&B and saw what a great woman she was and I'm so sorry for your loss. 😂😎
Great tribute to Lee.... RIP young angel. Mental health is definitely something that we will have to deal with more and more.. and while your video is for promoting this, there are 13 idiots who have voted down this video.. get a life.
Beautiful tribute to Lee you guys. Max & Lee were one of the first Van life travellers I followed. Lee was such a natural and made some stunning travel vlogs along with Max. I was really looking forward to see Lee and Max start their new separate channels. When I saw the news I was devastated. I just couldn’t believe it was true. I’m still in shock and feel so sorry for her family. She had so many friends in particular Eamon and Bec, the Van wives and of course Max who must be devastated . Lee I’m sure will be long remembered.♥️
It's great that people like you speak up against all the hate that is being spread on social media. We also make travel vlogs. It's hard making videos and putting them out there. But the comments people come up with... Whatever happened to: If you don't like it, just click away and do something else? Be kind, be compassionate and share some love.
Thank you all for the love and support and for sharing your stories on Lee. It's so important to speak out. Thank you all who have donated to Lee's Gofundme page which will go towards the prevention of cyber bullying and helping people who are suffering with their mental health. You can find the link here: www.gofundme.com/f/speakupforlee?+share-sheet&
This is a lovely tribute to a someone who had wonderful life ahead of her love to you both.
Thank you for this tribute to our daughter! ❤️ Thank you also for raising awareness about mental health and cyber bullying.
. @@wilmacmillan3685 So deeply sorry for your loss
@@wilmacmillan3685 So very sorry for your loss
Beautiful words guys. Like many I feel the loss of a close friend although we never met. As well as random acts of kindness I feel we all have a responsibility to not just ignore it when we see cyber bullying (something I am guilty of) , but to confront it head on. I will never turn a blind eye again, it’s time to show these cowards that their behaviour is not acceptable. Lee, you have made me a better person - this is part of your legacy.
Lee was so looking forward to that trip with you two in Custard the bus. It’s true what you’ve said... she was EASY to love deeply without even meeting her in person and yet I know that when you all did finally meet you’d have LOVED her even more. A true bright light. One in a million.
Big hugs to you both for this beautiful tribute to Lee. She’s so proud of you for speaking up and continuing her work in ending the stigma that surround mental health. Wish we were closer to join you for those very healing swims. So much love 💛🌞🌻
Thinking of you @eamonandbec...be well 🙏🏼❤️
Love to you guys tooxxx
My heart aches for all of you
Eamon&Bec im a big fan of yours i was intraduct to your chanel by my good friends at kinging it as meand Aimee are good friends i have had the plesher of meeting lee at one of your chaiwala pop ups. it wasn't a long talk but it was long enuf to meet her see that weather it is 5min10 or even 20+ years she was a loving caring person and let me tell you even though i never got the chance to meet you eamon& bec she did have such grate words for the both of you. so Id just like to say thank you for starting the chaiwala bizzness so that i had the plusher and gratefulness to meat a loving caring well spoken lady
Both my hands are on my heart for you two. Since I learned of Lee's passing, I've been sending out love, comfort and strength your way during my daily meditations.
My God!!! To hear that sweet, beautiful, and kind Lee endured cyber bullying makes me furious!!!! There was absolutely nothing wrong with Lee!!! She was a lovely and smart young lady!!!
One important thing you showed in this video Craig...men are alowed to cry too...most men still think they have to hide their tears to be strong but it is strong to show your feelings! P❤
This is one of many stigmas we want to squash.
Our brilliant Lee affected the lives of both men and woman and it's not right that only woman should feel allowed to cry. ❤️
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Yes!
It’s unthinkable that Lee was bullied on line for advocating mental health. It breaks my heart. Thanks for the important message. It matters. And has impact on those whom struggle.
Beautiful words right from the heart 😭💛 You two are like no other, this will help so many 💛💛 #speakupforlee
We love you guys, we hope we get to meet and travel with you soon, just like Lee, you're our kinda gals ❤️ ❤️ Sending love! ❤️
sending you love & light as well, and hopes that you're doing ok xx I know it will have hit you very hard xx
RIP Lee. Build people up, don't break people down. Be kind.
I’ve never met Lee, but followed her online for YEARS. The day I found out about her passing I was devastated. I know she’d want us to live our lives to the fullest, so after I wiped my tears, I bought a dress that I was too scared to wear because I was worried about what others would say. Life is short, so live it up ❤️
Good for you girl. Dance like nobody’s watching and love like you’ve never been hurt.
Absolutely right decision! Dress like a divine queen! Others stop thinking about your value, at the point you feel your truthfulness! Remember: Everything in the outside that triggers you, is a chance to heal. Love yourself first! ❤️
there have been lots of tears for Lee. The irony is she'd have been surprised and overwhelmed at the love, and also have rushed to help everyone who is devastated. Too cruel. take care :-)
LEE was full of life. Every time I see anybody talking about her makes me really emotional but at the same time I want to hear it out. Cant still digest she is gone. RIP you little angel.
Sending love to you Prayag ❤️
This is a lovely tribute. Thank you for taking the time to make it. I'm so sorry for the loss everybody is feeling. Lee is so very loved by many across the world. I am sad that the hurting outpowered that for her that day.
Sending love to you both. You wonderful thoughtful beings. The cold sea dip was beautiful.
Thank you ❤️ much love to you 🌸🌸
Such beautiful words spoken from the heart. We never had the chance to meet Lee but messaged online - she was an amazing person and the world wont be the same without her. She did a wonderful post saying that just because she put's herself online doesn't give people the right to say what they want. There is a fine line between freedom of speech and hate speech. We all need to stand up again cyber bullying. As content creators we should not accept personal or hate speech, it is not ok !!! We need to all stick together. Hopefully UA-cam also does more to prevent videos that encourage cyber bullying. I am sure Lee would have loved your video and I am sure she would be heading your way for a rocking tour of Wales with you. Sending big virtual hugs - Chris & Marianne xxx
Hello guys. I discovered you literally a week ago, when I was little bit struggling with school and stress. It was nothing horrible, but I needed some kind of reminder that I rule my own world. After the first video I watched I laughed so hard I couldn't breathe. I immediately felt like I know you guys for years and you really helped me in just one week. I "met" Lee just few days ago and I have no right to say that I knew her, but it really feels like it, so I cried with you during the video. I am so sorry for your loss and so glad that you speak about this. One of my family members really struggled with mental health. Thanks god we managed to help her, but it was a tough journey. Mental health is nothing to be ashamed of and we all deserve to live the life we want. To rule our own world. Thank you that you remind us of this every day.
I know both of you have suffered mental health issues with stress etc., and knew this would affect your hearts. This was a beautiful tribute to Lee and I am so sorry she felt she couldn’t be here anymore.
Cyber bullies have sad lives and need help in a different way.
Thank you for speaking up for Lee. If only she could have known how much we loved her. I'm proud to be Canadian and all of the Canadian vanlifers represent us well. She will be missed dearly.
You both are an inspiration to me, your kindness and sincerity is something you should be proud of. I have loved your dynamic relationship together, from the first video of yours I watched. Sending you lots of love. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
She knew how much she was loved. Mental illness will take you even when those that love you most are there to catch you when you fall. It’s a suffering like no other and even though everyone’s journey is different. Those that also suffer can relate to the pain and emptiness. The weight can be just too heavy. The feeling of being a burden is constant even when the people in your life love you and want to be there for you.
I want to create a channel to honor her and all of the others who have been battling with mental health concerns.
Actually just quit my job, and closing my business, and am planning to travel full time (traveling the 50 states) to spread awareness of depression and anxiety and living life to the fullest! ❤
Was completely devastated when I heard the news about Lee. She was one of the few younger travelers that I felt bonded and connected to. She was such a beautiful spirit! I didn't know her in person but she inspired me so much and was just a gorgeous girl to follow and enjoy ❤❤❤
I have battled with depression, C-PTSD and anxiety and childhood trauma and became suicidal again in December 2019 and onward through 2020.
Instead of giving in to my depression and mental health concerns I plan to encourage others to get help and change their lives! ❤
Biggest hugs to you both. Thank you for creating this episode. 🙏🥰
Lee was such a gorgeous spirit with amazing energy! ❤
You shining star ❤️
We wish you all the best on your adventures 🌸
Maybe we'll see you on the road 🚌
I am looking forward to seeing all of your travel experiences. Please share them with the world.
@@kingingit would LOVE to meet ya'll down the road one day!!
My husband and I plan to boondock through Alaska all summer and will hit the lower 48 this fall 🥰
Thank you again!
BTW... just recently found your channel and completely adore you two!! You two are fabulous 😘👏❤
@@MeetTheMetcalfs thank you so much!! 🤗❤
@@lizame65 I plan to 🙏❤🥰
Cyber bullying has to stop, no-one should be made to feel so bad that the only way to escape it, is to end your life, I didn’t know Lee but it really affected me listening to you talking about her, she sounds like she was an amazing woman. Something needs to be done to stop this, I suffer with mental health issues so I know how hard it can be to reach out but for anyone reading these comments who is struggling, please reach out, talk to someone, there is so many people who want to help you ❤️ RIP Lee Xxx
I want to understand this so much. Can you give an example of bullying? I haven't come across it. Makes me feel terrible that people are so mean. They need to be called out so they know that words hurt,
I'm new to the story of Lee, even though I've been watching her videos. I never knew she was cyber bullied. How can this be possible even? - that gorgeous gorgeous girl was so lovely.
In fact she brought me to your channel. Lee was beautiful - I felt Lee was real.
Btw, I love Wales and was there a few weeks ago with my grand daughter. Take care, stay safe and stay real, Oh and congratulations on your recent news.
Since I saw the news, Lee has just been in my thoughts so often! For me she was someone that was so beautiful and seemed to have the world at her fingertips and for her to just be gone is almost to much to comprehend, so I can’t even imagine how you all must feel 😢
Thank you for all the love, laughter and kindness you bring to the world ❤️
She is a free spirit now. Far away from the bully, free of going where ever she wants to go, with no pain, no need of the human drugs to try to stop a pain that cannot be seen or heard. She is free and if she feels the need, she can come back stronger and with a brighter light. 😌💗
It is so real, having suffered for many years myself, and slowly over coming,with Wim Hof breathing, grounding, and taking myself off the medications.. there are other treatments that work, like wim hof and gives you a sense of control back in your life.. and men speak about it, so many suffering in these crazy times.. love to you both and respect for making more aware of this very real condition..
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I was deeply affected by Lee’s death. I had watched her videos and was inspired by her adventures. It’s amazing that someone like her can touch people all over the world. Bless you for your beautiful tribute to your dear friend Lee. Her memory will be a blessing to so many. peace to you.
Same
This is so poignant right now. I just lost a childhood friend a little over a week ago who loved and lived life in a similar way as Lee. Thank you for sharing this. It's important to celebrate our loved ones
I’m terribly sorry for your loss. There are no words for a loss like that. ❤️
Clifton, my heart is grieving for you. May the memory of your friend bring sweetness and joy to your life. I hope that the sadness will lift to a place in memory that does not bring you down, but that it will lead you to recognize the gift that your friend gave, just by being. It is so hard to have a friend leave.
I can't remember feeling so heartbroken & crying over the passing of someone I had never met - that was Lee ... Bless her beautiful soul ~ she is free now and she'll soar forever and a day. Thank you for this touching and loving video - we must all #speakupforlee (and each other)! 💖
This is so incredibly tough to accept. Thank you for giving us a way forward with the 2 words: "More kindness"
Sending so much love to everyone here. I still can’t wrap my head around Lee’s loss. She is and was precious. Thank you, loves, for this lovely tribute.
Thank you for posting this. Brave of you to step in front of the camera. I’m crying everyday for this beautiful girl I didn’t know. I’m just so sad she didn’t have have the strength to face another day. Shame on the bullies. This culture has to stop. Much love to you xx
Mental health, bullying, terrorizing is a world wide issue. Thank you for sharing this message. The people in power aren't doing much to help so it's up to us to make the changes. I didn't know Lee, clearly I missed out. It's a shame to lose a good person when the world send so full of bad ones. #SpeakupForLee
Those bullys have just received their KARMA, they will have to live with their decision every day for the rest of their lives.
Rest in Power Lee. You were a such a light in this world. I met you through Eamon and Bec’s life and fell in love with you on the spot. Your light was so bright and drew people to you because of your kindness, honesty and love for people. You will be missed my love. Big love 🔆🧚🏼♂️✌🏽🌸🕊🪶🪔✨
Thank you so much for speaking up for Lee and Mental Health. It's real and mental health needs to be brought to the table.First and formost.Mental health is real let's help one another.!!!
You both are beautiful people and Lee's hope of building a community is coming alive.❤❤
I am a 62 year young woman who believes that we all have a responsibility to be kind to one another. Be that , that you ask the universe for. Give back and be kind !!
Namaste ❤
Lee was such a bright person, I was shocked to find out how she decided to exit this world. As someone who has survived both sides of this issue, I do get to toss a vote out there. As I learned, suicide is long term solution to a short term problem. It’s terrible to see that the brightest lights make the largest targets. Tender hearts break the easiest, you must know how dark her outlook was...I can’t believe that she meant to hurt the train’s crew who must live with the knowledge that they played an unwitting role. This is nature’s law of unintended consequences. She did not set out that day to make it one of the worst in that crew’s lives...but it happened...now, those of us who are still here have a roll to play in helping those in need. In my case, I received excellent mental health care at just the right time, and, I knew I would have no say so as to who would be the first to find me etc. if anyone ever wants to talk about what they are feeling, OR NOT FEELING, please reach out, even to me. Take care.
Such a dear sweet sincere girl ! I am so very sorry she stepped out of her life this way ! I never met her but binged on her video’s. Thank you for speaking up for her and for mental health in these difficult times. 💕🙏
Rest in peace Lee, what a beautiful soul 🤗💕
Heartbreaking. From one vanlifer to another. Rest in peace Lee.
It's really great you guys made this video, It will be so helpful for people out there feeling down to talk to someone about their feelings. Great job guys, and great job on the mental health podcast, keep it up.
Thank you for sharing your story of Lee. There’s no doubt you guys were kindred spirits 💛 I can just imagine the fun you all would have had in Custard and how excited she would have been to explore and run wild with you both. I know the grief is raw and painful right now. Take your time, we will all be here for you. Sending you both so much love from the three of us xxx 💜
You made me cry and I don't even know her.... Beautiful tribute to who I now know is a huge loss to this crazy planet... Sleep well angel x
I’m still heartbroken over Lee’s passing 💔🤍 This is a beautiful tribute to her. Lee, her words and videos, touched me so deeply, I will forever miss her
I never knew Lee for real, but I thought that she's such a sweet and caring person and had the prettiest soul ever- But bullying on the net is so easy- sitting anonymous behind the screen with some taken name. But actually it's quite simple, never say anything to anybody that you wouldn't say if you stand face to face with the person. As you probably know ny know, I'm a silly, but very friendly old man. I can always find something positive to say and never anything negative. Thanks for speaking out for Lee to make us all understand what an amazing person she was 🤗😍💐
Sorry for your loss. Very brave of you both to open your hearts. We can see how much this has affected you. I think this has touched many of us because of our own struggles. You are highlighting how wonderful she was but don’t underestimate how wonderful you guys are. Be kind to yourself. Sending love and hugs.
Mental health always carries a stigma unfortunately, the thing is no one should judge because it can happen to anyone it can creep up on you and then hits you like a ton of bricks. It’s so much easier for people to be nasty or become distant with you, because in their eyes you’re weak. A favourite saying I’ve heard is “give yourself a shake or get a grip” which really doesn’t help most people walk away only true friends stick around and give support, which can be as simple as making a cuppa and a chat. God bless Lee xx
My heart goes out to all who knew and loved Lee, so sorry for the loss you feel, she was obviously a very special lady. Craig and Amiee you are beautiful people inside and out you tell it like it is, love watching you both. Big hugs ❤️
What a wonderful emotional tribute to Lee.
Too many shining lights have been lost.
On another note, how can people with any moral compass give this vlog a thumbs down. Even here people just can't be nice.
Lee Max Occy was the first to view van life. I got my van in February getting it ready for the road and will share build and life. Lee was loved and will be missed. My love going out to Max and friends families, sorry for your lost. BE KIND
So sorry to hear the loss of your friend Lee. Having lost my son to suicide and struggled with mental health issues most of my life I know how important it is to speak up and equally important for people to try to reach out and listen which equally isn't always easy.
Thank you! This is such a beautiful tribute for Lee, I never met her and I was devastated by the news of her passing, she’s so powerful I felt like I lost a sister. She’s in my heart and I’m my mind daily, as well as her family, Max, Jordan & Eamon and Bec. She’ll always be remembered, May Lee Rest In Peace.
I recently lost my best friend, I know the physical pain of losing someone and never quite feeling whole. I watched a few videos of Eamon & Bec’s where Lee was staying with them and her dog in their tiny van.. she had an infectious smile and was so fun to watch.
Sleep peacefully Lee ♥️🕊
am sorry to read of your grieving. losing good friends is horrid. I've lost more than I can count on one hand to cancer. When the time is right, Eamon & Bec, the VanWives and our lovely Kinging-It, and many others will carry Lee's torch forward. The outpouring of grief shows there are wonderful people in our global village, who want to do good and to share compassion. Lee is alive in all of us mourning her loss.
@@sammic974 ♥️ 🕊
Depression was so hard to cope with when I had loving, supportive people around me but I can’t imagine what it would be like to read online negative comments from complete strangers. As you said, something needs to be done about that.😡Thank you for all that you are doing to spread the word that it’s okay to say “l’m not okay”. Mental health issues need to de-stigmatised and allow people to talk about how they feel. Sending Lee’s family and friends so much love ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. As someone who suffers greatly from anxiety and depression, I can’t put in to words the impact that her death has had on me or that you, and others like you, talking about it has had. We need more support and understanding. Please continue to advocate for us. Knowing that someone who suffers as I do, who struggles every day to over come the suffering, has taken her life is a hard blow. It makes me worry that I too am not strong enough to beat this battle. She had such an incredible support system, yet in the end she succumbed. We need more and I don’t want to be another statistic. I want to get myself through this and then I want to help others.
Lee’s death has made me realize that I don’t want to keep suffering in silence. I want to be proactive and I don’t feel alone in this.
Endless sad... Such a beautiful soul. ❤️
If it’s sad for me, who never spoke to her and never met her, I know how hard it is for all of you, who felt her love and saw her lightning in reality.
I always write more in the comments, but I delete it... I’m a depression survivor.
It sucks the happiness out of us and there is nothing left but pain.
Sending hugs and love to you and all others. ❤️
Hugs to you, Tamara. Stand proud of each and every day you have and always know, depression does lift. Love yourself through it All. (I’m 25 years past my partners suicide, yet these situations make me feel like it was just yesterday. I’ve learned self love and still learn more self love, because I belong on earth.) love to you, darling.
@@donnamass9576 thank you! Hugs to you too! Oh, so sad... Feel hugged! ❤️
I too am a survivor of depression, and know that it can creep back in. My heart grieves that you are feeling this loss so keenly. The next time that you write in the comments...don't delete. Leave your message for the world to hear. You are a blessing to be blessed. Reaching out to you from Canada and praying you whole again. May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you be loved. May you be happy. May you live your life with ease. May it be so. AMEN
@@racheljoanfleming159 oh, you’re sweet! Thank you...
I was restless on the day Lee left her material body. It was irritating because I’m okay. I am very empathetic and feel, see and hear very sensitive... When Eamon and Bec posted it on Instagram it hit me like a wrecking ball. And I dived deep in this pain, all her loved ones are feeling. And I always wanted to stand by all them, but in my head has been the voice, who’d said “It’s not necessary what you think”.
I’m okay... Thank you! I am in love with myself since one year. That’s why I’m so sad... We are all seeking after the prescription for happiness. I know where the happiness is living... But I didn’t reach out... I’m 20 years older than Lee... But she had the knowledge which I have. She had all tools in her hands. But no idea how to deal with the pain.
If anybody who’s in this situation is reading this:
You have to go back to the pain, dive deep in it, feel it again, be brave, and then realise that you survived this situation, in which your ego told you this is the end. You have survived! Visualise your younger you and embrace her/him. Take her/him with you... Back in the here and now. Maybe you breathe out a bit more powerful. That’s the moment you let it go.
And eat dark chocolate it’s uplifting. Everything with Lemons. Change vom hot to cold under the shower. Meditate. Walk in the forest. The green of the leaves is healing. There are much more things you can do to uplift your mood. Wearing the colour Magenta for example is one more example. It helps against depression.
Sure it can’t wipe it away! But everything lifting is a support!
One is all! All is one!
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Everybody of us is a wonder because there have been so many sperms and we made it! Never forget! ❤️
Stay strong. Sending hugs and positive vibes to you to keep on going. We do care. 💕
Oh God... I hadnt heard..
She was such a kind person( from what I saw in my hermit hut). How could anyone bully someone like that!?! Absolute monsters.
That poor soul...
Thank you for doing this video guys. I am sure it was so hard to film, but it is so gorgeous. Since I heard the news I have been in real shock and it has really affected me. I met Lee through E&B's channel and she seemd such a vibrant and real soul. Her legacy will live on through her friends and family.
A life that touches others goes on forever....I hate that some people feel 'safe' spouting god awful comments online, things they would never dream of saying face to face and things that would horrify their friends and family if they knew. Shame for themselves and empathy for others seems non existent. Bless you both for baring your pain and grief, hold on to each other and carry her with you always xxx
Thanks so much for your compassion and kindness. You are so genuine and such great spokespeople for Lee. Such a tragic loss.
Prayers for lee. While I don't personally have mental health issues my husband does due to military deployments . I struggle with chronic illnesses and a lot of pain so thank you for making this video . 🐦
Every one of these videos makes me cry. I wish I could go back in time and give her a hug.
So sorry for your loss 💔 sharing is so important.
I am one of the many thousands of people that never meet or even spoke with Lee, but followed her and Max and then when she traveled with Eamon & Bec and when she started her own channel. So I do feel I did know her a little. Everything you said was so true, she wanted to help others even though she was going through a rough time herself. Being open and breaking down the barriers about mental health will help so many people.... its with such sadness that even with help and support of friends, family and professionals her demons were just too much to cope with and fright against. May you rest in peace Lee and be forever able to smile with no demons on your horizon. 🧡
I do wonder how Max and Occy are. Their channel has been quiet since the news broke of Lee’s death.
@@petat13 he's uploaded a message to say they are doing ok. Just a matter of time when all these guys will feel its the right time for them to speak. So sad.
@@debh-h6821 💜💜💜
Like so many others, I only knew of Lee through the online world but her passing has hit me hard. It has also made sadly realize how low I have been feeling and that I should get some help. I’ve spent most of my life being ashamed of the thought of being depressed and not being able to deal with it on my own.
Thank you again for this, a lovely tribute to a beautiful soul 💗
Sending you and anyone else hurting SO much love ❤️ a beautiful soul gone way too soon 💔
Thank you both ❤️
Just rewatched this sweet testimony. Y'all brought tears to my eyes yet again. Three years ago a course of TMS (Trans-cranial Magnetic Stimulation) helped me with my depression.
All my love guys! Seeing Lee in Eamon and Becs videos she oozed a beautiful energy and you can feel how special she is. ✨
Aw she really is Han ❤️
A beautiful tribute friends, and your podcast is a work of love 💛🌻💛
It should be made into a law, Lee’s Law to protect people from cyber bullying!
Cried all the way through. Missing her and just love you two . Thank you 💕💕💔💕💕
Thanks Guys 🙏 for sharing your hearts with us ❤️ the honesty sure does help to work towards healing together . That cold water swim was everything with all those beautiful people . Your Kindness after such a devastating loss goes a long way 🌸
Please know that by putting out your funny, endearing and quirky adventures vlogs for us, you are already helping your followers who may need a smile or laugh on a particularly hard day. You and your channel matters...and I thank you for that. ❤️
So heartbreaking about Lee ❤️ I have struggled with depression for a long time - especially since losing my husband unexpectedly last fall. Watching your videos is truly a bright spot in my life. So please know - you really are making a difference 😊
Sending love and strength your way 💕
Guys. I didn't know of Lee until I heard of her passing from you both. I started looking for her various online platforms, watching her videos and looking at her photos. The first thing that hit me was how happy she looked and how many adventures she had been on, then I came across videos about her mental health. The truth that shone through is that it doesn't matter how popular you are on social media, or how many miles you've travelled across the world. Mental health will follow you everywhere and it has devastating effects.
I fell in love with you both because you don't just show the positive and happy moments, but you show the raw downsides of everything too. Life isn't all roses and rainbows for the people who inspire us, they are normal people.
Thankfully our lives are mostly neutral or happy, bad shit doesn't happen so often that it outweighs the good. You have both been through so much over the years, documenting it all for the world to see. You are both shining examples of true life and an inspiration to "Rule Your Own World", a mantra that I realised before I even began to follow your lives.
It's not always easy, but we can do our best to help each other when we're up, and hope others will be there when we're down.
Love you both, stay strong and take care❤
She had such an incredible impact on so many of us who never met her. She is with us everyday, i feel that so deeply. Love you guys xxx
I really feel your pain, deep in my heart ❤️
I’ve had a depression for the last six years, and in June 2020 I was diagnosed with a personality disorder, anxiety and depression.
I’ve never really talked about my mental problems, I always put on a mask, and just smile.
It has always been difficult for me to speak about it, I don’t even talk with my family about it, even though they would do everything to help me.
So Lee was the first person I’ve felt that I could relate to, since she has been struggling so much, and was open about it. She really inspired me to be open about it, and even own up to it, because it shouldn’t be a taboo, and you shouldn’t be judged because of it!
So please, can we just be good to each other soon?
Can we not go around and judge people and talk shit? Cause I’m really tired of it!
Love to you guys! You’re the best, and really inspiring!
Speak up for Lee ❤️
Thank you for sharing Maiken. Thank you for being bold with your truth. Thank you for speaking up even as you are trying to figure things out. Thank you for being you.
Thank you so much for sharing this, and I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though mental health is being talked about more now than ever, it's still not enough.
I want you guys to know that you're one of the very few youtubers I actually love and really enjoy watching. You have had such an impact on my life, and I'm sure on others too, and you continuously inspire to really live my life the way I want to, or to put it into your words, rule my own world. You're always so willing to help and so supportive, I message you so much on instagram sometimes and you always find the time to reply and try to help me out/answer my questions, and I think that says a lot about you as people. Because barely any other influencers reply to their DMs. I just wanted you guys to know that you're amazing, incredibly strong, and have had a huge impact on my outlook on life. So thank you again, and I'm sending you guys all the love from Germany ❤️
Oh, and if anyone ever leaves a mean comment under your videos, they will have to catch these hands 🥊 . Seriously.
It is amazing how far-reaching Lee McMillan's legacy is spreading. Well, so it should. She is an amazing woman. I still cannot speak of her in the past tense. She is affecting the present world and I am so sure that she will also affect it far into the future. Thank you for making her a part of our lives as well. My heart is grieving for you and for her community of friends and followers. There should indeed be some way to stop the cyber bullying and to prosecute the offenders. It is no different that squaring off in the streets and beating someone down with a bat. They are the cowards, to hide behind a keyboard and strike out at others, especially the most vulnerable.
God Bless you Lee. Your wisdom and sensitivity has been heard by many and is helping them. We will not let your message fade. There is an old Buddist blessing...May you be safe. May you be healthy. May you be happy. May you live your live with ease. Lee, May it be so. Rest in peace. AMEN #speakupforlee
Guys robinandjenn.vanlife here! I'm still having a hart time believe this is happend... I mean it's Lee, one of the most enthusiastic human soul there is with so much energy and all...! We believe Lee is now traveling with every travelers soul en making sure we are all OK.
Lovely tribute to Lee guys
"If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all" is how I was raised, along with "Do unto others as you would have done to you." May God Bless Lee and her community and may God help the bullies. Love you two.
Love you two! 🤍🤍🤍🤍 Take care of yourselves.
Sending you guys so much love and so many hugs. Thank you for all you do and all you share. Your tribute to Lee is so lovely. 💛 sending big love friends!
It seems we're both missing someone special in our lives. We miss you guys so much ❤️ sending love! x
I'm so sorry to hear this 😞🥰 love to all her friends and family xxx
Mental health is so overlooked, we all need to take care of ourselves. Have that support network, speak to someone when you're feeling overwhelmed, never feel ashamed or withdrawn. MHSRIP.
Amen 🙏
Thank you for being honest about mental health concerns. I am just at the end of my own therapy. Good-bye Lee.
If you find that you have a day when you start to struggle again, don't be afraid to reach out. It is not a weakness to "not be cured by the therapy'. Therapy is a tool to help you cope with your version of life and to meet your challenges and your joys along the way. May there bequiet joys and fewer challenges to travel with you.
I'm so so proud proud of the comments that you have aired I'm genuinely feeling the grief that you are going through sending you guys all my love ❤❤💔 RIP Lee
Thank you so much for speaking for Lee & the love so many of us felt for her. I’ll go on loving her & the legacy of speaking truth that Lee left us. May God’s bless us all & at this sad time, especially those that were close to Lee in whatever manner. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Such a beautiful and loving tribute for Lee. Thank you for carrying the torch for Lee going forward. Take care of yourselves and hope you’re doing ok. 💕💕💕
Love to you guys. I'll watch this later, so I can cry in peace. 😚💙✌️
Thank you for speaking up. I never met Lee either, but I've cried so much for her loss. Not just in my YT watching world, but in all of the vloggers that loved her too. For my own mental peace of mind, I've decided that she isn't gone, but is enjoying a white sand beach, clear blue water with perfect waves, smiling because she is free of all the pain. Take care of one another. Love you two too ;)
Massive hugs to you both. I bawled all the way through this beautiful tribute xxx My sincerest sympathies to all who knew her, I only saw her a few times with Eamon and Bec, I didn't realise she had her own channel. She seemed like a very beautiful hearted young woman with so much to give the world and share it with everyone.
I have MH issues, have done for over 20 yrs, the written word is far more often hurtful than the spoken, and not always easy to speak out about. But I really sincerely hope people DO speak out, do NOT be ashamed of your mental health, or hide that you are being bullied, others WILL help !! For the first time in my long time being on youtube listening to music and more recently watching peoples lives through the van community or a few families who travel, I had to report a 2 day old channel for targeting one maliciously, it was revolting. There HAS to be consequences, keyboard warriors/cyber bullies whatever they are called, it's got to change, got to stop. Noone else should pass away because of this. :'( Breaks my heart. May she rest in eternal peace now. Again, massive hugs to you both and all those who are affected/knew Lee xxx
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R.i.p lee was a star and didn't deserve any of the hate. If you have some money spare even if its a few quid please donate. Thoughts are with you guys and everyone effected. #speakupforlee
Thank you for your compassionate remarks about the passing of your friend Lee Macmillan.. I never met her myself. Your You Tube remarks helps to continue to carry the day for people who are mentally challenged.. You projected your sincerity straight to my heart. Thank you two for baring your sole so publicly for Lee. I was very touched. You're good people.
My wife of 35 years succumbed to mental health issues. She passed 4 years and 2 months ago. I think about her every day. Like your friend Lee, she was full of adventure and vitality. I miss her deeply..
It’s no wonder you two shared an instant connection with Lee. You reflect the same light back. I’m so inspired by the brave work you are doing. Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute to her and with how you are feeling. Much love to you both.
So sweet. Just came here after your visit to Eamon and Bec. As a mental health professional, I would say that you are on the right path. Love and continuing success. Love from Vegas. RedPat ❤️💙💜💚💛
A wonderful tribute to Lee. She was a very special soul. Kia kaha from New Zealand ❤️
So sorry to hear this, sending you hugs and healing vibes 🙏💛
side by side or miles apart friends will always be connected by their hearts and cherish memories. be kind to one another. R.I.P LEE
I adore you two. I have a huge mental health warrior and advocate. Its refreshing to see a beautiful couple showing their souls. Love you guys even more 🤍🤍🤍
You speak the truth, she was a very special person, unique, kind, silly, her energy was contagious. I was so drawn to her that I had to make the journey to Palos Verdes when she, Max & Occy hosted a meet up. She gave everyone there her full attention and I got to meet some amazing van life community people that day. When I shared with her that I had taken some photos that day, she shared with me her cellphone number so I could send them to her, so generous with her time and her heart. She will be missed by so many 💞
Thank you so much for sharing guys 🙏
Truly....it says more about that person(bully) than it does about the one who puts their self out there.
Thank you for putting it there, information on Cyber bullies, bullies in general and what we can do to help.
Please know that your vlog has helped my mental health. I have been on my own now for over a year and it has been gruelling but watching people have a laugh together, travel, build things, both yourselves and a few others has been my support. I had seen Lee with A&B and saw what a great woman she was and I'm so sorry for your loss. 😂😎
Great tribute to Lee.... RIP young angel. Mental health is definitely something that we will have to deal with more and more.. and while your video is for promoting this, there are 13 idiots who have voted down this video.. get a life.
Beautiful tribute to Lee you guys. Max & Lee were one of the first Van life travellers I followed. Lee was such a natural and made some stunning travel vlogs along with Max. I was really looking forward to see Lee and Max start their new separate channels. When I saw the news I was devastated. I just couldn’t believe it was true. I’m still in shock and feel so sorry for her family. She had so many friends in particular Eamon and Bec, the Van wives and of course Max who must be devastated . Lee I’m sure will be long remembered.♥️
Good to see someone else who has concerns for Max.
@@TheHoipoloi they had a wonderful time together and I’m positive they both still respected each other. Max will be totally heartbroken
It's great that people like you speak up against all the hate that is being spread on social media. We also make travel vlogs. It's hard making videos and putting them out there. But the comments people come up with... Whatever happened to: If you don't like it, just click away and do something else?
Be kind, be compassionate and share some love.