Fi’s Fight Back - accepting some more help
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- Sometimes the bravest thing to do is accept a little more help. And it is okay to do so.
A little update too.
Just got to keep putting one foot in front of the other.
#edrecovery #inpatient #anorexiarecovery #dayinthelife #eatingdisorderrecovery #recovery #recoveryispossible
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Your friends do you a world of good, your whole demeanor was just so much more positive. Even the words and how you were saying them were just smilies 🙂 So proud of you Fi
I am so glad that you reached out for help. That was so incredibly wise and brave!! You are a gift!! Please keep fighting! You are NOT alone!
Your not letting anyone down, you are showing and going through a process. It will have its ups and downs and your showing others its okay to have those ups and downs, its completely part of recovery. Sending love 💜🙏
The thing about “rock bottom” is there’s nowhere to go but up! Time to soar, lovely one!!!
Still here supporting you, just one breath at a time. The fact you have reached out for help and talked things through is a major step. Keep going you are loved and needed xxx
I am INFINITELY proud of you for taking this step!! Letting people in when you are feeling so low is so very hard, and you did it. I'm also extremely proud that despite you feeling this low, YOU KEPT GOING!! THAT'S PHENOMENAL! You had nothing left to give (direct quote), and you still dug in and pushed forward and that's absolutely amazing. I'm so so proud of you.
I’m hoping my little Llama inspired gift found it’s way to you. So brave and the wisest thing to,asking for help
Oh my goodness your friend really went to town treating you ! ,, soo many lovely items , no expense spared bless her heart … I’m so glad you have some lovley gifts you deserve it
The pure joy in your face by the end is miraculous 😘
I hate this cliche but remember once you hit rock bottom you can only go up. I think Hannah brought you so many of what we call NSV (non-scale victories). Maybe you can plan and focus and treating yourself weekly to remind yourself that Fi IS worthy!!!! You most definitely loved. Even from those of us who don't physically know you.
It's okay if you need help! Just do your best! You are worth it 💜
You deserve all the help you need 💝, keep on fighting
I know this is from a week ago but just wanted to say that your hair looks so beautiful out! And well done for keeping on going even when it’s hard. ❤️❤️
Well done for keeping going despite feeling so depressed and stuck.Dont be so hard n yourself for where you're at and needing a bit of extra support ❤️ aww amazing gift box from your friend. You are very loved by a lot of people in real life and in the recovery community. Keep fighting Fi and keep the goal of getting to the beach In mind as a short term goal. Keep reaching out and talking to people allow them to support you ❤️ plus I'm a Northerner and I call the long floats a woggle too!?l lol xx
Fi, you are such a blessing to the world!! Please don't give up. You are needed. By sharing your life you help so many people. ❤
Not everything goes to plan unfortunately that’s life and it’s great you’ve excepted the help and staying on plan ❤️
you are incredible Fi, keep fighting!! 💙💙
Asking for help is HUGE. Congratulations for making that step!
I think it is a great idea accepting help with preparing meals and snacks. that is one of the main things i struggle with as well. I understand how strong the voice is, and i get very confused, and filled with guilt over everything i put in my mouth. It is very exausting,and crippling. You are doing a great job, you should feel proud of yourself. You are always a huge inspiration to me. I enjoy watching your videos. I feel better knowing Im not alone!! Love, Loren
You can do this! It's ok to accept help. People love you and want to help 🤗🤗 If a friend of mine was struggling, I'd want to be there for them&support them xx
You are such a clever person to work out such a difficult illness. Thankyou for sharing you are helping so many others. ❤
You have such incredible family and friends around you, all those lovely gifts you received made me cry, keep fighting fi you can do it ❤️
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Relapsing is part of recovery. No relapses = no recovery. You're doing great! I'm Super douper proud of how you're doing and managing anything! And much love to your parents! They're amazing! I'm happy for you to have them! Go on! I believe in you❣️
Been thinking about you. Even though you can't see it you have grown. Struggling and continuing your meal plan and being honest with your family and team is HUGE growth. We like to believe that recovery is a straight line but what's hard to comprehend is it is normal to have all sorts of dips, curves and valleys in order to get to the finish line. I'm not going to share what helped me, we all have to find our own way, but you are doing it. You will get through this! You will figure out how to quiet that monster in your head. It gets so loud, but you will figure out how to be louder! I believe in you! Cheering you on from the US. ❤️❤️❤️
You’ve got the most beautiful energy, Fi ❤️ You’ve got this. ❤️
I'm so proud of you for reaching out to people you knew you could trust, even though it was hard for you!
Your hair is very pretty! You are awesome, helping people everywhere understand the problem. Keep going forward, I respect you.
Your strength is inspiring, Fi! Sending you so much love, sweetie xxxxxxx
This was a wonderful update, Fi. You're being true to your feelings and your hardships, but you're also choosing to lean into the positive things. Also, your hair looks fab in this video. Sending love this week!
You are amazing. You inspire me.keep going I’m praying for you.
your doing amazing, don’t doubt yourself lovely xxxxx
Sending lots of love and glad you are reaching out for extra help.
Sometimes recovery looks/feels like "going through the motions." It is a legitimate part of recovery and something that doesn't get talked about enough. You are working so effing hard and it shows. I don't personally view this stage as a setback (although my opinion doesn't matter, only that of you and your team ofc!!), but rather one of the many stepping stones towards recovery.
I’m rooting for you, Fi!
up in the proper north we call it a "woddle". but you are doing amazing, im so proud of you
You are sooooo very loved and I’m so glad ur friend brought you those gifts, she’s a keeper :) You are getting through these extremely tough times, your strength is amazing, even if you don’t feel like it is! Be kind to yourself, Fi deserves it! ❤
You deserve to have some woggles to help you along the way and well done for reaching out and accepting help. To be able to help someone is a good feeling so you are doing a good thing for yourself and others too. At the end of the day you are Captain of the recovery ship but every ship needs a good crew to sail to victory! Woggles for the win! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Go gently lovely lady xxxxx
Yay! Good job!
Down south we call it a noodle too 😅. You can absolutely get through Fi. One hardship at a time. Use your armbands a buoyancy aids, thats what these amazing humans are there for....to help you back to your happiest, healthiest self where you can be Fi without second guessing and feeling guilt for everything you do xxx
Maybe you can make a video where you only talk about and focus on what you want for your future once you're managing on your own and you're back to your old self❤️ What are your future goals/what do you want for your life?
Well done for taking this one day at a time, you can do it!
We call it a noodle here in the states!! Lol
1:08 this shirt colour complements your eyes so much!
Fiona, you are strong, brave and CAN do hard things. We are all rooting for you! One of the most difficult things to do is ask for and accept help and YOU did it brave Fi! 🤟🏼🤗 Keep going brave Fiona!
(I'm sorry this is going to be a long one but I am posting it despite my anxiety of imposing here)
Dear Fi, I hope you are really proud of yourself for letting others in and letting them help you in this crisis! I know I am! That's a very hard and scary thing to do when one has spend so long shutting the world out instead.
Let them be your woggles! 😄 Because learning to swim is hard and dangerous and getting help with it gives one techniques with which to actually swim instead of treading water and simply not drown.
Also, from the outside perspective it's much harder to see a loved one struggle and _not_ be allowed to help. (always with the caveat that it has to be actual help and not being overbearing or expecting everything to suddenly be well after having helped, etc - though your friends and family seem really good at that actual kind of help) And being let in and allowed to do something (even if it's something as simple as a hug) eases one's own anxieties and worries.
You had mentioned that you felt you needed "a day off" for months but always insisted on that being impossible and having to push through and keep challenging yourself - and I kept nodding along because while it was obviously exhausting you, I had no idea how you could get that day off. But maybe the pace of change was too much and the amount of responsibility you (and others?) felt you had to shoulder was, too? I mean, I can see where it was all coming from but it also obviously wasn't good for you mentally? Maybe going forward you can find a way with your team and parents to make changes at a more bearable (and thus more doable and sustainable?) for you pace.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed and you in my thoughts 💚
Yayy, have sound. 😁
Fi....it sounds like you have alot of "woggles" around you ❤
Hi Fi. Can you please share what book the quote at 3:40 is from?
I didn't know you had a sister. Is she younger or older?
No sound?
There definitely is, I just checked :)
@@Finding_Fi Thank you, I'll try again! I put the volume up full!
Hi Fi!! Do you have a P.O. Box?
I don't mean this to be disrespectful at all, so I apologise if it comes across this way, but why don't you do counselling or some sort of therapy?