Struggling Men Are The Prize! 🎁
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- Struggling Men Are The Prize! 🎁
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A lot of women ignore the beauty of dating a struggling man because it's not ideal for them. they prefer to chase the status and money that a man who's "better off" can provide. They think that by obtaining this kind of lifestyle it will make all their troubles and worries disappear. This is mistake #1. Struggling Men Are The Prize!
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preach!! fam, you just preached a two minute sermon dropping bars
Yes I was about to say where has this Articulate, beautiful, gracious, intelligent, creature been….. Big ups to the supporters from 2015 and her day ones that perhaps helped encouraged her to continue on her UA-cam journey. Maybe just maybe with out you all, I would not have had the honor of seeing her speak on a topic that often has been over saturated with toxic ideologies and false realities. Thank you Olivia and thanks to all the viewers/ supporters.
How do I give this video a 💯 likes? Well said.
YESSSSS ✅ thank you, I was gonna say "Where you been?" On point tho...good to see you Sis, stay healthy 🙌🏽
I've long since gave up on trying to find the right woman. I just focus on my goals in my life. I mean if I find her along the way then cool. If not, it is what it is
Same mindset I have
Bruh, I've been there for years. Can't explain the joy I have not having to struggle with a false relationship.
Well said, I am in the same boat. Once I adopted that mindset, every aspect of my life has gotten better.
that's how you find her, stay focused on pure good short/long term goals, develop/improve all areas of your life, when it's time. then it is time. don't focus on the sense of loneliness/single. enjoy the freedom of life. many are in prison or dead.
Yup stay on your grind...in the end they leave with half your scratch so why bother.
Men, never let a woman into your life who rejected you once when you were broke. NEVER, you deserve better 🙏💖
I’ll never date a women who rejected me once, period.
heard.
Women, never let a man who made fun of your fat body into your life now that you're attractive. Never, you deserve better.
Be realistic now Pickmeisha. Men love women for their bodies and faces and they mock women who aren't their physical type, so women should love men for their money and what they're capable of accomplishing and if they can provide for her and make her not need a thing, and mock men who aren't masculine.
@@PatrickSchmalstig Her dad did right for his daughter. Yes you're salty, but when you have a daughter of your own you wouldn't want to see her with a bum who'll make her life more difficult.
Fax
Something my grandfather told me when I reached my teens: ”Boy, when you go on a first date with a girl, spend your charm, not your money because all men will have times in their life when money is tight but charm is free. And if your charm isn’t enough to make her like you, then your money never will be.”
Words of a wise man.
My only revenue source is my SS benefit, which pays my bills and let’s me eat out a couple few times a month.
So I can’t wine n dine a woman.
I hope to find a woman that appreciates that I appreciate her, and that that’s enough for her!
Yea I’m not holding my breath;)
Charm only works if your good looking so there but again is love really enough without money?...this is why I dont believe anymore
@@klopcodezno hypergamy will take over.
@@Sagefrakrobatik love has to be a Disney farytale because of it was real no one would ever be divorced see everything is temporary I don’t believing in the forever because you will meet the same woman who called you the best she ever has but also told her ex the same thing…it’s time to actually think for once
Hit nail right in the head. If I find a woman who is with me during my struggles, I will stick with her no matter what.
“Money will get you the woman you want.
Struggle will provide you the woman you need.”
LOL I never had a woman in struggle and even with having something I still don’t have the woman.. Guess that means the Lord is either cursing me or blessing me on that behalf..
Bernie Mac quote 💯
CORRECT!!
Well said!!
Game will get you the woman you want and need!😎
“A person will show you who they truly are when you have nothing to offer them.”
This really hit home
Preach ✊🏿✊🏿🫡👏🏾👏🏾
This exactly
This really hits home. Just dealt with with my last relationship.
amen
I met my wife in college, and she was in a different faculty. I lived in the university dormitory and she lived with her parents and had her own car. Crabs just wanted to destroy our relationship. Even hometown friends of mine (women and one douchebag) would tell her to leave me, because they thought she "deserved something better". One day in a party a young friend of mine, who didn't know what was happening, was dancing with her and told her to never leave me and that I was the best student at engineering faculty. This was the day she understood why all those snakes wanted to destroy our relationship and told me all the stuff. Two decades have gone, we fulfilled our academic goals, growing in our carriers and our kids will soon start going to college. Keep the black family strong!!
It's finally completed: ua-cam.com/video/ejkd7DI9JEs/v-deo.html
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You are absolutely right. I've been telling my friends this for years. I started out broke and now I'm not. As soon as a woman starts probing for my worth I know she's not right. Those women are on the quest you think they are. Their goal is your money, not you. They know they need to go through you to get it. Those women are guaranteed divorces.
that`s why marriage before the kids or without "marriage contract" it`s a BIIIIIIG NO my men
When u think u r a hunter look around and realise that u r the prey
can I ask you, how do you handle the first date "What do YOU do?" question?
@@danielgriff2659 dude/girl (not sure), if u have nothing to ask and nothing to tell on the date except "where u r working? (read as "how much money u get monthly")" than probably u r boring as fk person and u got no chance to get someones attention...
@@danielgriff2659 For a first date I dress casual. I always dress casual when I can, so I am actually being myself. I'll take her to one of the usual places I like to go for food which is also pretty casual. That is one more thing she has just learned about me. On the date women actually interested in you will ask a lot of questions about you. If you are truly interested in her then you should too. Now is the time. The key with women's questions is to step back and contemplate what kinds of questions she's asking you and her body language. Is she trying to get to know you on a personal level. Is she trying to make a personal connection. If her questions feel more like a job interview then a personal connect then I'm not feeling it. And also pay attention to the things she's not asking you about. The things she asks and the things she doesn't tell everything about what her interest in you is about. Your questions will tell her the same about you and she will be paying attention. Make your questions reflect your interest in her. Be genuine. If she shows little interest in your questions then she's likely not interested in letting you get to know her. Another red flag. If she shows little interest in the answers you give to her personal questions then she's using those as a distraction for the questions she really wants answers too. Red flag. You get the idea. Finally, after the date reflect on all the questions and answer given from both of you. If you remotely feel you don't have much in common and the connection wasn't at least 85% then don't bother seeing her again. A relationship with her won't last. Even if she pursues you don't get sucked in. She knows there is little connection and little in common so her motives are materialistic.
I don’t even trust women who ask me about my wealth. I will keep the sweet talk until the end of the date, but in my head I have already decided
Yup... my wife gave me shelter and food when I was homeless and remained loyal and respectful to me through my struggle. A decade later I am now a pilot and investor and give her the world.
💯💯💯
So good to hear this
She’s a very valuable person brother what ever happens don’t let her go a woman like her today is a high high value woman
You are the Real mvp
Wow you were supposed to give her shelter and food. It's so backwards these days. Then men go around calling women masculine uh duh. We done had to role switch since y'all became the women of society.
This woman understands relationship dynamics completely, more women like this pls!
She don't know what she talking abt. She talking abt men who don't have alot of options.
hell yeah. men can get it.
@@CephlonMayngrum clearly you’re the one who doesn’t know what they’re talking
Absolutely. Too many women waiting at the finish line looking for a successful man, but then they want credit for the whole marathon.
Um... no.
@Proto Rhinocerator that is such an excellent analogy!!!! Very well said and unfortunately so true.
My wife would agree with you 100%. I was one of those struggling men when we met. I was working three jobs to make ends meet and I was always tired. I had no time to put on airs. She seen me for who I really was. That was thirty years ago, and since we have built a beautiful life together.
Excellent
How exactly are you working three jobs? I see people bragging about this so often, its pure bullshit
@@lkgpuanimho0349 I got up at 4am and delivered newspapers. I then went to my 8-5 job. When I got off from there I worked at dominoes pizza. It is possible but I understand it can be difficult to fit three jobs into a day.
@@lkgpuanimho0349One on your own time job and two part time jobs maybe? Its possible and if you got nothing but time and not being lazy to work it can be done. Tiring as hell but possible. All the hours behind distractions then its not possible
Damn... As struggling man with potential... I've made up my mind... If my life partner doesn't make it to me... I'll be contented. God will keep and carry me through 🙏🏾
Thank you for highlighting this 💯
Struggling- "striving to achieve or attain something in the face of difficulty or resistance"..... the word struggling is not a negative thing. It's extremely positive.
You nailed it Olivia. No-one wants to work for anything these days, and nothing of quality ever comes from easy. Quality men are walking away in droves, at least men who have self respect and who value themselves. Women need to work as well, it's not just about men working for a prize, women need to prove their value as well, only an equal exchange of value will create a balanced, healthy relationship.
A lot of ppl have issues with a copy of Websters and adjectives concepts that are lost upon them. Buddha said life is suffering, aka struggle. But the come up game is impeccable lol
Go ahead and preach about the overlooked value of blue collar men 🙌🏾
Sounds like a queen talking to me🤔
I love you. Your perception is very keen.
Gorgeous mind beautiful heart strong moral and values
I hope you have a happy life and with that mind set you probably already do
Struggling is not always positive, especially when you are being oppressed
Remember that always, so you won’t be.
Met my wife after I was basically homeless. And by homeless I mean finding a person who needed help paying the rent. She stood by me when I established my own apt. Even though it was in the hood.
We moved 3 times and the 3rd as they say was the charm. It was into our own house. We have 3 kids and I know I have a prize.
So you're not the prize? Lol
@GLOCKZTWURK a woman from a completely different culture and took all the ridicule and side eyes from her community. I know for a fact she is the prize. She just was that motivation that helped me see what was possible with a great woman.
@@33GLOCKthat’s a silly question if the answer is in the comment
@@33GLOCK you’re popular.
@@antwilsonwilson she means you’re always supposed to think of yourself as the prize.
Thank you. I've long thought that my parents' generation had so many lasting marriages because they began in a time of turmoil and struggle: the Depression, WWII, etc. An uncle once told me, "Find the person you most want to go through hard times with. Every couple is going to go through adversity and you need someone who is going to do what needs to be done."
Amen to that. Preach sister, preach! Not all us men have money but, we definitely show love and have manners on how to truly appreciate a women.
I was broke.... We built it together, now we are successful and I will NEVER LEAVE HER SIDE BECAUSE SHE BELIEVED IN ME!!! 12 YEARS GOING STRONG, ITS NOT ALL HAPPINESS WE DO HAVE OUR DISAGREEMENTS HERE AND THERE, BUT WE ALWAYS WORK IT OUT!!! STAY POSITIVE FOLKS✌️
💯💯💯
Not will you leave but will you cheat is the question facing most successful men.
@@DefSquadFan 2 Beautiful Children a very nice Home, na ill pass way too much to lose. THE KEY IS= I treat her like I would like to be treated, I wouldn't want her to cheat on me. People have it Twisted they assume being successful gives you some kind of "free pass" to do what you want. Remember the Beatles said it "Money cant buy me love" I stand firm on it I wouldn't cheat on my wife because 1 Reason I LOVE HER, and SHE LOVES ME.
i wish you guys happiness and strength to go through life together
@@212letliveonearth Thank you! I actually showed her what I posted, she got emotional and said "I feel the exact same way babe"
You just gave us struggling men a reason to stay in the struggle!😂💪
Nobody should want a reason to stay in the struggle. So you bout to stay in the struggle just for hopes of finding the right woman?
@@grimyk379 do not get brainwashed into believing life will be easy
😂😂😂😂
lol i was thinking the same thing, she acts like being succesful will only get you bad women...there is a point though, you have to remain disciplined as you succeed to avoid attracting low quality birds and becoming a simp who just gives everything to women...i couldnt be a simp in my 20s cause i was broke lol, and i got really nice women who valued me for who I was. I changed a little as I grew financially, so I had to and still have to keep checking myself...sometimes we change gradually without realizing it
Ehh Im good on the struggle its better to get out of it and find a good woman
This woman is proof that there are still good women out there. Thank God for you, Beautiful.
The thing I've learned is that the happier you seem living your day to day not worrying about being single, the more desirable you are to women. Everything is perspective. In the work place or in church or in public when women see you single and happy they are puzzled and wanna get a piece of that.
Your value as a woman is determined by how you treat a man who can't give you anything, not by how he struggles to get you.
This is Sad.
Could you imagine if we spent our time trying to explain something we don't care to understand?
@@jowho9992 how is this question related to my comment?
I'm just curious, as a man, do you feel the same way toward women? If a woman can't give you anything, how do you treat her? I ask because what men expect from women is different than what women expect from men, but men seem a lot more conditional in the love they give. Men often expect women to do the greater share of housework and childcare, whether or not the woman also works. When a woman gets seriously ill, a man is six times more likely to leave her than she is to leave him if he had fallen ill. That's because what men want from women is a maid they can have sex with. If a woman can't give sex and unpaid labor, even temporarily (like with a curable cancer), the man is so likely to leave that they train medical staff in how to deal with that specific situation.
Anyway... I'm just curious how the men in the comments think they'd treat a woman that can't give them anything.
@@elhammo7478
The study consisted of
2,701 couples.
6% or 162 of those ended in divorce.
Then the article states there was more men leaving than women but doesn't give a percentage. Which could be a
2.9% to 3.1% split.
Do you have a better example?
Definitely sounds like something you’ve experienced. They were wrong for that, that’s no way to love a person. I hope those bad experiences don’t ruin your journey to find a man who genuinely cares about your soul and well being. I personally don’t gain anything from dating. I’m usually not gaining or demanding anything in particular (which might be a problem) to be honest. For the most part I find myself in situations where I’m making sure she’s good. It’s a part of who I am as a person though.
I had a terrible accident 10 yrs ago, barely survived, which left me partly disabled. Met my wife after rehab, she didn't care about my health problems at all. At that time other women wouldn't even notice me. Now that my health and business is (doing) great, women look at me differently but it's all shallow, pathetic. So I fully agree with this video. I'll tell my two daughters the exact same things and remind them of their mother's example. The best things in life start in certain times of weakness. Relationships especially.
God bless you and your family, my man! I'm glad you made a full recovery. If not full, at the very least you still made yourself into something. You're a hardcore dude. Keep it up!
let them keep looking and you keep doing you, they dont matter at all...there jus interested in using you
Spoil her bro. (Not like you're not already)
youre back to old strwenght ?
AMEN. Hallelujah. Hallel YAHWEH. Thank you JESUS CHRIST. Glory to GOD. Overcome, by Power of your testimony. Not every Man finds"that good thing and obtains LORD'S FAVOUR". Most the male commenters know not of single man favor n married man favor from MOST HIGH. I thank n praise n glorify... because HIS FAITHFULNESS is your reality. Thank you for proclaiming it.🙏✌️💯
People should be together and stay together because they, care, respect and love each other, that's it. If you are with a person for other reasons, then you have already lost and are there for the wrong reasons. Being in a relationship is not about getting "stuff" weather that is right away or much later on, being in a relationship is about sharing your life with someone and getting the same in return, money, status and monetary things should never be a consideration!
Thank you, lady! I have been struggling for over a decade. I just recently met a wealthy woman and was honest about my situation. She's willing to build me back up from my lowest without giving me any handouts, but by being there for support and professional advice. What you said about a struggling man finding other ways to show love and appreciation is so true. We usually wear our hearts on our sleeves for those kind of women. A woman who needs materialistic stuff will never see the true heart of a man
I got married in my early 20s when I had not even two nickels to rub together and we are still married after 23 years. Since then, I’ve seen the highest of financial highs and the lowest of financial lows, but we’ve stayed together. Can’t say that I am currently a millionaire, but the benefits and joys of our relationship far surpass all of the wealth in the world.
Well good for you not all of us are lucky I am currently 21 and still not married
That's real wealth. You're rich in love and most rich ppl can't buy that. You have everything a rich person craves outside unlimited money. Big ups and congratulations
Thanks for sharing that!! Needed to hear that!
Not everyone gets that 😢😢
Your story is my husband and mines❤.
That woman deserves the man of her dreams and a great life.
#Respect
There are a lot of struggling men ready in line to date her.
She's probably already got a man
@@TheLoruy I hope so.
@@flman1478 a single woman doesnt exist in nature. if shes single , something is very wrong with her
Great video Olivia. I was a rising star, got married to an opportunist, and then she left me at the first apparent setback. Then later, a good woman with high character came into my life who I met as I was overcoming the struggle, and we got married and built a life and a family together. Now we both have a great life that we share with her extended family and our children.
So many women wait for a man until the race is won (by him), and pick a winner at the finish line, only to discover that they have taken a short-sighted shortcut, and have lost the true prize of being that winner's partner. A woman who picks (and supports) the right fighter will do far better than a woman who picks an apparent winner and relegates herself to that winner's shadow for whatever their years are together. And....competition at the finish line is fierce, there are far fewer still-single winners than there are opportunistic women, thus so many of the women who wait at the finish line will end up with neither a winner nor a partner. As for me, I'm so very glad to have jettisoned the opportunist and to have found a supportive wife and partner along our shared path to winning.
I once told a woman "I have nothing to offer you except my heart" -lasted about 3 months.
She was there when I had 300 a week, 500 a week, 800 a week, to 1,400 a week. By next year I'll be at 2,000 a week and I'm thankful she helped me get to that point in my life. No one can compare to her patience and continuous love and belief in me. We continue to grow together and it's a great feeling to share that deep bond, these days if she doesn't look her best ill tell her she's beautiful. When she is struggling with her job or studies I'll tell listen to her, and tell her she can do it and I believe in her. The financial support is not what she was ever looking for. It was the appreciation and emotional connection, which is worth more than monetary value. I hope many men can find what I found, and not let the shallow women of the past prevent you from finding a deep connection with a woman in the future.
Amen to that brother. Thank you
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Unfortunately we might not be as lucky as you were
I hope by now she has a ring on her finger
Even if I get to that point, the girl will still say "that sounds good, unless I find a better option"
I've got a good friend who was severely struggling after a divorce and lost everything but was left with custody of his three young sons! He was prideful and didn't say a word to anyone at first and continued to struggle barely having enough to eat most days...He met a young lady who was beautiful with no children who loved his personality and eventually fell in love with him....She happened to be a doctor who decided to help him and his kids because she knew he was a good man although he was barely making ends meet...Today they own several properties and have made some very highly profitable investments as a team...Even better they are madly in love with each other...Moral of the story: "Give a diamond in the rough a chance!"
Love this
Very nice story. But sadly most women will not do this
Beautiful story amen 🙏
That's IF you so happen to find that diamond
Most women want their man pre-assembled with his castle already built for her to come in and decorate. 🤷🏾
Me and my partner have been friends for about 10 years and we held each other up while we both struggled in other relationships. Now we are building a life together. I'm a mature woman (and he's older too), and this is the best, most valuable relationship I've ever been in. We are average people but the love and admiration we have for each other simply because of who we are is beyond awesome!
She is enlightened. Someone protect this beautiful child at all cost.
I like what she said. And when she said a "struggling man", she doesn't mean an all out broke man that can't do anything for a woman. She means a man who may not have a lot of money, but with the money he has, he's gonna treat that woman like she's special. And maybe he'll be motivated to improve his situation so he can make more money.
You were on the right track until you're last sentence. This is where you derailed your train when you said: "And maybe he'll be motivated to improve his situation so he can make more money." You are suggesting that this man is not motivated (or lazy) and that's why he has little money. You have men that are highly motivated and still not making much money. For some people, life may be more challenging at a certain point in their life than others. It just takes time, effort and opportunity to get to that better place; financially.
@@h2oC2 Not at all.
@@soulfulman1971 if "not at all" then you used the wrong choice of words.
That’s facts I’m there right now
All Facts!
This woman understands the dynamics of interaction and is better than a therapist or psychologist. Profound description of what goes on daily
Wow leave it to a Latin sista to get the damn thang right lol you go girl
Definitely a keeper video so I can show a female when I needs to, lol.
Kevin would have been proud of you right about now 👍
@@wl6279 WHat she was saying is very common within the Latin culture. They don't care about height and status as much as can the man provide shelter and food. So a hard working man is desireable regardless the income.
@@chillycharles910 duh dude
She is just using male talking points. I guarantee she doesn’t even follow what she is saying.
@@John-bq9bj chameleon activate.
It never fails to amaze me how I can watch someone become so attractive right in front of me, just by them talking...
Protect this woman at all costs.
Nah fr she laid it out perfectly... hope people take this into account
You simp
Will soon be banned and blocked
I hate those "protect at all costs" comments. No she won't be protected at all costs, most people ever will be.
she will dump you and take your children and all your stuff just like any other woman will when it benefits her when she gets bored of you
Takes a mature woman to understand. I once heard a woman say, “Don’t ever give up on a struggling man, just cause he don’t have it now doesn’t mean he won’t”.
No one here is a child.
If he doesn't have it it usually points to some character flaw.
Usually not always.
@@SanFranDentist94301 must be a doctor
I dated that man. Supported, encouraged, planned, pushed, cried, pushed, stayed up late nights, pushed, his attempted suicides, pushed etc We finally arrived at a place where things started looking up for him. Positive mindset, financial freedom, etc. That man put me out and moved in another woman the next day. 6 years gone just like that. He realised what he had done I suppose and wanted to come back telling me someone else was enjoying the fruits of my labour. Not too long after, he passed away. I do believe in supporting a struggling man but now I just sit and watch from the sidelines🥱
And just bc he haven’t reached his goals don’t mean he won’t u can have focus on goals and have a woman at the same time ppl just close minded I’m glad I have a good woman we both gonna build each other up I work at a beauty supply store but I have goals I wanna accomplish I haven’t accomplished all or even start on accomplishing some but it don’t mean I won’t achieve my goals and it don’t mean I don’t deserve a good woman if anyone thinks I don’t then u ain’t shit
@brunhildefischer7768 very true. Once you help them find themselves, they will leave you or cheat on you. Men are only loyal to their mothers and their friends
True Story..about a decade ago I was struggling to find work..finally found a little part time gig..busted my hump to be one of the best workers there..found a full time gig elsewhere after that..met a girl at the new place..thought maybe I found someone I could build with..found a new job that paid almost double..kept my promise to bring her with me if I found something better..she got mixed up with another dude at the new job, and got pregnant..this was the last decade of my life..moral of the story..focus on you kings..these chicks ain't loyal, and will switch up soon as an option they think is better comes along.
I feel like the struggle of life is where our complexities of individuality really come through, which is why with "easy come easy go" it may leave you feeling like you're not special, or are "replaceable"; whereas in reality you are far from it, and the depth of your personality has simply been overlooked due to the inability of opportunities that would surface what defines it
Agree. Me and my wife started in the mud grinding. Dating since college, graduated, paycheck to paycheck, even went back to living with parents for a bit together, dreaming and plotting of a better life, took years to get into our field of occupation but fast forward 5 years later married one child and a house. Never been happier. We look back now and still talk about how far we came and what we still have left to accomplish.
🎉🎉🎉 congratulations to you all.
Happy for you brotha life is a journey
That’s actually a beautiful story! 💪🏾😮💨
W Family
Congrats
As a struggling man, I thank you for your considerate words. God bless you and everyone reading this.
Why are you thanking her.
Her message is to defeated gold diggers who have been used and tossed by rich men.
Your kind is all that's left.
It's common sense.
I strongly agree. Every woman need to hear this and learn...
Nigg call himself "a struggling man" not "a working man" 😅😅😅 LMAO the world is done
@@j.rewing635 What kind are you? Let me guess you got it all on lock huh 😂
@@SamSquatch80 ...
After you were done guessing, how much money did it add to your account? If you have one.
This woman deserves Nobel Peace Prize 😂🙏🏾
First time I have seen your posts. God, you really hit the nail on the head. What you are saying was even true 50 years ago when I was in graduate school; but, it is much worse today. While people tell me I am quite handsome, once a woman found out I didn’t have a job; it was all over. I was completely
Invisible. As you said, I was busting my butt until I finished graduate school with a Ph.D from Columbia university. In today’s terms, I am 6’2, made well over 6 figures, 6” below he belt and had a 6 pack. My net worth is in the millions. I retired at 54. Fortunately, I did find a wonderful woman to marry. We just celebrated our 46th wedding anniversary and are living quite the life.
I gave up trying. I prefer being alone these days. You spoke the truth
Focus on yourself. Work hard and make the best version of yourself, then all other things will come. This is the solution whether you’re looking for love or not. When you improve and get closer to that best version of yourself women will be attracted to you by law of nature.
@@xXTedwarriorXx Mybe he's 50,60 or something and maybe they haven't got the energy you have, maybe you are only 30?
40 year old virgin here. same story.
Reject for life. F women. Cant wait for a good quality robot to be available for sale.
@@northwestrepair 😅😅😅😅
@@northwestrepair let me know when you get a good deal brother. I'm in the boat and age range as you. would be nice to have a good model to do things for you.
"A person will show who they are when you have nothing to offer them"
💯 Facts!
or when u do a mistake for once even friendhips, I've encountered that smh
They
Good message. A lot of women confuse a man whose unmotivated with a motivated struggling man. They don't see that one is lazy and the other is not.
A man who is willing to struggle for you when things get bad, is the one you want by your side when life is at its worse. You want a partner like that in life, not one that can easily replace you and leave you when you need them the most. It goes both ways for either men or women.
Struggling men we don’t buy love we earn it and that’s priceless
Girls want the money .but then again who doesn't want money
That's factz
Real women stand behind their men through thick and thin. They get through the challenges together. My wife and I had hardships but we are still together after 20+years
What you just said is the voice we needed. When a man reaches his full potential they will avoid every woman that is attracted to their lifestyle.
As a grown black man that's a "struggling" fulltime student with a full-time job and just launched his first LLC. That also supports his children.... Thank you...
Service or Sales? What's your business model?
Respect man
There are far to many of us Men that fall in this category that never get recognized. Well said! And these are the messages that should go Viral!💯👑
Respect my brother
The color of your skin has nothing to do with being a manbruh
If only more women woke up to love and respect average men again…great video 👍🏽
Make women great again
I need this woman in this video
its rough man, its like 3 percent of these woman exist its a rare breed. these types of woman need to start making crazy videos like this like ALOT OF THEM to bring out the good ones. i think the good woman are too scared to come out. like COME OUT WE GOT YOU. lol
Many women do but, obviously, men aren't.
I'm just still shocked people use all these terms. High quality man, average man, low quality man... are you guys fucking smoking? My financial wealth is not measurable by quality. If anything you could judge my personality by that but I'm a human and not a fucking product. Get over this quality bullshit, I would never call a rich woman high quality nor would I call a homeless woman low quality. These are all people, I can't be the only one whose blood is boiling over this.
In my mind you're either cool or not. Has nothing to do with anyone's finances lol
Why are we not hearing enough of this? Say it again for the people in the back, Olivia - thank you!
of all the languages in the world this woman decides to speak FACTS
My wife married me when I had nothing, I had a job, but I didn't have a whole lot of wealth, so she was precious to me. Even while she was on her death bed, she was nurturing me, I will never forget it. Even though she couldn't do anything for me, she was constantly asking the nurse, could you do this or that for my husband. I will never forget her caring heart, even though she was the one who needed the constant care, not me.
I salute king 🤴. Honorable
Wow....... Just woah
God bless.
I loved reading this. This is what I want and will do anything for such a woman
My condolences may your wife rest easy, I'm sorry for your loss please keep your head up brother we are all in this together things will get better... keep your head up.
Money and material items can be lost overnight, but not the skills and determination that earned all those things. Listen to this woman, very refreshing.
Amen!
Yes, sir!
Yes
😂😂😂. If a man got money invested in assets you think he can lose it over night! You don’t have more than one life, you can lose that overnight
@@jmar385 *FTX enters the scene*
True
man i really love this woman ... she is a true queen of this earth in my opinion ... just like livia said, they only purchase you to play with for a while and lack everywhere that matters.
My dad raised me right. I was made to earn everything I ever had so that I would appreciate it more. Bought my first used car in 1995 with my own money at 21 years old and never trashed the inside or let the body get dirty. Hell, Pop even made me appreciate my freedom when I got locked up for a DUI and simple possession charge two years after buying the car and was given 90 days incarceration having did 45 if those for good behavior. Dad visited me at the jail my first week there and I mentioned that the bail was only $150, and he said he didn't care if it was ten cents. He looked me dead in the eye and said, "You do the crime, you do the time". Made me a better man for it.
Yup I did 3 weeks with a hundred dollar cash or surety 😂😂😂 looking back at it that three weeks of hell made me a better man. Remember men Ls will happen no matter what. That L means lesson learned. 🙏 🙏 🙏
I'm a 25 year old black web developer living in the Philippines. It is the cultural standard for women over here to value
a man who has good moral character with an honest career. My Filipina wife is not only a god tier programmer, but she has my back, hits the gym, and cooks the best soul food I've ever eaten. Be careful, guys if you leave the USA and experience women abroad you're not going to want to come back.
By the way, it's only just $150 to live in the Philippines every 6 months when you renew the VISA. No background checks, no bank statements, just walk in, and wait for your passport to be released.
Congratulations to you. So you are living in the Philippines. I was there back in the early 80s when I was in the USA navy. It's called Subic bay. The culture in Asia is totally different. Here in the USA the women look down on us even when I was in uniform as a young man.
congrats bro speaking facts right there
God woman you got there brother
Should be top comment...game for free right here!
On my way... older white musician with savings, abs and war hammer lol 😆
From losing my job getting behind on bills and owing people money my girlfriend has been there through all of it supporting me and giving me words of encouragement I'm only 23 but I'm realizing finding a relationship like that is hard to come by especially in this generation I'm doing a lot better for myself now and the love and care is still genuine
I hope things get better for you bruh! Dont give up and your girl is a good women much respect!
I hope you not paying all the bills if y'all living together man
Same here man! 22 & my lady is a jewel
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@@anthonybacon2581 LOL Why not? That attitude of "I gotta get mine" is why relationships struggle. It comes from a place of selfishness. My wife to me is no different than my child, or my mother. I demand nothing in return for everything I have. I've been married almost 30 years and my wife stopped working years ago. The take home message is this. I'm very happy. More happy than I was when she used to work. She's very happy, living her best, unstressed life. Why would I compromise that happiness by thinking in terms of 50/50 relationships?
I'm 37 and a struggling guy. Never had a girlfriend and I kinda gave up to be honest. Plus 2 months ago I was fired after working 10+ years at this one place so at the moment I'm even a lesser party than I was. But I appreciate the video so good luck to the other struggling guys!
It’s rare to see women like her nowadays to come up and stay this, she speaking nothing but facts and I hope it through to some of these women, she understands it, bless up queen💯
its very rare, that's why i love her so much ... i dont even know her but i love her.
@@MrOntorius same here
I’m struggling, and most woman like you said look men like me like they don’t care about us. I’m very resilient and I don’t ever give up or quit. My life will light year sky rocket successfull. It’s ok I accept the reality of how woman operate but I will succeed no matter what because God is with me.
Keep going!
Don’t quit, brother!
You will be successful!!
Amén brother!!
As an average 22 year old guy who has never been on a date in his life, this resonates with me so deeply and I wish more women could see this.
Bro I'm 23 and all I can say is don't rush it. Work on yourself and grind. I'm dealing with this chick who friend zoned me. Cut all ties off if she's not for you. Remember be yourself at heart and the right 1 will come along 💯👍🏾
Get a passport, learn credit and travel immediately! Women are different outside the grid lines of American/ Anglo-British colonies. Go where the apps aren't, where Myspace is still being used lol for real tho the loves still real. Have a bliss journey
they wont. keep grinding
@@TexasBread i like you all think its ant different outside the US😂😂 but dont let me stop you from finding your dreams
Bra… I truly hope you don’t believe what you heard in this video. She’s clearly pandering to men. You think she would deal with a man who was making 40k a year? 😂cmon now 💯
I guess that's why my parents are still happily married cause my father had nothing when he got married but he's now so much successful and my mother never insisted for jobs or all that bullshit of independent women she just focused on her 3 children including me and she raised is with such love and kindness our family is a full of happiness I'm not saying that our family is perfect or we don't have any problems there are problems but we all know that every problem in this world always have solutions to them and nothings impossible so ❤
Finally!!
A woman with common sense and see why most have passion and grind hard to make their dreams come true.
What ever lucky man has you good sister as a partner is in heaven
Please dear God make more women like this ❤
I’m a woman who agrees with you & I understand your message!!
Pls stay away from men go to your chad he will make you happy
It's a good message that said not all wealthy men are playboys, some are first generation wealth and have spent a lot of time putting in the work to build themselves up to where they are now. It's our duty as men to build the foundation for a relationship by consistently striving to set goals and achieve them. Doing that builds a mindset of growth and a relationship built on growth is more likely to succeed when times get rough. Also it helps to build self respect which is important for both partners to have going into the relationship.
@@deutsch-turke8614 😆
@Brie Lax - I'm a guy and I understand her message too..
It's a reciprocal superficial relationship these days. Women love the status, attn, fame.... Men will try to buy good looking women. Modern society devalued thoughtfulness and caring
I’ve noticed if a man feels loved and confident, he will want to explore his dreams and build you an empire. The problem begins with expecting. We need to stop expecting people to do things. Who likes doing something for someone because they feel like it’s expected. When you expect, you give the other person only one option.
I’ve actually had a guy who barely made anything, loved spend what little he had on me just because he valued that i never asked for anything.
This the comment I was looking for amazing !! 😊
Why didn’t it work out with you and that guy
I think expectations r important but unreal expectations is what ruined relationships that did
Cause if I knew a girl to be quite and reserved and sweet that’s what imma expect her to be if we date lol now if I expect her to be a character I saw on tv cause they have the same characteristics that’s a recipe for disaster imo
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I really am happy to hear someone speak in this way, I have always felt it hard to find myself in a relationship because I'm one of those who struggles to make it in life. Thanks for your wonderful message.
When they speak of smart, powerful, capable women, Olivia is the type
And us men, we gotta protect these Gems at all cost
Definite truth! What’s even more beautiful is when the same two people whom struggled together are the same two people whom remain together for shared success.
🎖️🎤
I am a struggling man.. and I support this message 🎯
Yes sir me too brother
💯💯💯
Why are struggling men even trying to date?
@@paul453 she just explained it in this video 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤣
@@paul453 why are broke women trying to date?
My fortune has changed a number of times over the years and either a man has an unlimited number of women begging for attention or they have absolutely none. Sometimes the difference is just the perception of wealth rather than any difference in reality. It is a bizarre world out there.
9 times out of 10 the wealthy guy was once the struggling guy who got shi*ed on in his relationship.its a vicious cycle
I don't know. Real wealth is for few, and usually because of your parents. People need to stop being so money obsessed and focus on having a good living with reasonable amounts of money.
It's about race.
@@aronhighgrove4100 nah bruh gotta get this bread man we got big dreams
FACTS!
100 percent.
As a guy who struggled all his life, you appreciate everything you have.
I was told never get an advice from women. But this girl is different. She is full of wisdom.
Objects recognize Money and Real Queens recognize Real Kings !
Huge facts! I'm one of the men ! I'm highly unappreciated and I work 50 hours a week as a cook with not one woman batting a eye at me! I'm loyal, consistent, determined, hard working and willing to do what it takes but no woman sees that!!! Thank you for recognizing men like me 💯💯💯
Stay strong bro. I'm going through the same.. God and time
She's not recognizing men like you, she's placating to men of your social class for financial gain. Women date up; not down. You're single because you have not yet become the best version of yourself "as yet".
Same here.
Keep your head up Brother. You are doing what GOD created us to do and that's being a provider and a hunter and a gatherer. It's how we men are wired! Good thing for you and the rest of us, like a fine wine, we get better with time. Keep perfecting your craft and your trade. Never stop your education and move up the ladder! Things will fall right into place as you keep your focus on GOD and on your self improvement. Peace.
Most women are in a fogged out state of mind bro.
“If There is No Struggle, There is No Progress.”
-Fredrick Douglass
“Those who profess to favor freedom, yet deprecate agitation, are men who wants crops without plowing the ground”
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He wasn't talking about dating and that can apply to far less shallow things than money. We 100% can progress without struggling financially. And we can avoid struggle with better choices.
@@ebonyeverything2751 anyone can be brought, we know money buys sex but not love so when the first thing women talk about is finances it's a red flag, real house wives got every woman thinking that that's the way lol, if you chase the bag don't complain about the man is the lesson lol. Objects are brought, people too, but then you're just an accessory and have no say
A lot of men that struggled got wise after being rejected; they learned human nature. They know what women to choose when they have accomplished their goals: deserving women.
This makes me appreciate my exes more. I've never had much money or material things to my name(and often none at all). My past relationships might have ended for a reason, but at least I know they liked me for who I am, not just because I could offer them material things or an extravagant lifestyle. It's the one thing I don't envy about rich guys, they have to constantly question whether their girlfriend is just a gold digger, or else they just have to not care about having a real relationship, like she was describing.
I'm 38, I've been single since I was 25, not saying I haven't had an interest in anyone, and have been shot down quite a few times, but ultimately I'm not upset by it, because watching what some of my friends and family have gone through in toxic relationships has taught me a lot.
More power to you I didn't understand how to be at peace until this year. Most my life I been in relationships and now they tire me at 36 because most are the same.
seems like a lot of relationships are superficial these days anyways and its too easy for women to jump from guy to guy...I was dating on and off until I hit 33. Then I realized most women aren't worth the trouble and rarely bring anything to the relationship (sex doesn't count)
Damn i only been single for 7 years from 19 to 26 thats rough man
I been going to Thailand and Mexico also filipines since i been 18. Yes i hit the gym 5x a week. I tried dating in the states but I'm good. They always asking for money. Pretty much a transaction like a h##ker. Last girl i was with. I bought her a perfume already cost like 140 for her birthday. Then she was also like can I have 300 for shopping. I'm like I'm good i rather drive down to Mexico and have fun with that 300 lol
Preach Ian Smith. You realize in the Bible days men didnt get married til they were in their late 40s early 50s man! Dont rush bruh. Having a woman is *HEAVY RESPONSIBILITY!*
Totally agree
I met my wife during the pandemic
I was making 40k.
My wife supported to the fullest and to that I said she deserves better. So I started sending in resumes to jobs.
Over the next months
I was Repeatedly told I wasn’t good enough from job after Job.
My wife stuck by my side and kept my hopes up.
We later got married
I WAS STILL MAKING 40K
I finally got a job that pays REALLY WELL. Easily over 100,000k. I came home with the news and my wife said couldn’t believe it.
Fellas don’t be discouraged if you are not finding the right woman at YOUR time.
Just relax and keep focusing on you. The Universe sees it. Just don’t pick hoe over the woman that’s CLEARLY good for you.
This video is absolutely correct
Now my wife is number 1 and NO ONE CAN OR EVER WILL TAKE HER PLACE!!!
That’s real after you find a good woman. I say, never lose her!!!!!!
Is this... a poem?
@@razoblicavanje4231 nawwww just my life lol
Dope my man!!
More than doubled your income in about a year. Are you working in the same field and or industry
The one who is the help mate is the prize. And a blessing .❤
I have been a Struggling man my Entire life. But I have not been able to find my prize. A woman like you would be THE GRAND PRIZE
"Growing up, Men are taught how to treat a woman, but not what to expect from her. Growing up, Women are taught what to expect from a man, but not how to treat him." - Unknown
Perfect summation.
First off you are one of a kind and god bless you.. second.. your message is one of such rarity.. but the last 2 minutes of my life and hearing a beautiful woman talk with such strength abt a hard working man picks me back up and puts me back in the game.. I couldn’t give you a million dollars right now.. but can promise you a man who will worship the ground at your every step.. while making sure you never fall. Thank you for being real and recognizing real.. Charleston, SC
Well said. And a man who struggles will be happy to share everything he has with a woman who stands by him, no matter what. Now and in the future.
Every man has a deep need to step up and take on a big challenge. And having a woman who believes in him gives that man the encouragement to work that much harder toward his goals. And if he's a humble man, he passes the accolades to her.
It's funny tho cus every girl literally everyone of them in my 20s was rocking with me till they get mad then call my business plans BS and never gonna make it.... now I'm 29 and the last year everything changed for me in a blink of a eye. I went viral on my first YT channel and now I'm at 370k there and on this channel at 130k... which made my merch just fly off my stock everytime I release a collection... I seen how way different females and even my Baby Mother treats me. It's so phony fr... like I can call them any word I want and they look the other way but before they ready to fight me or get they man to... money really shows the fake in everyone around me they treating me like I'm Lebron or something this whole year. I just stay to myself now I dnt trust females anymore
Motivation and encouragement are uneeded luxuries; that's why the successful stay successful and the rest stay the rest.
@@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo that first sentence, you're right but also wrong.
I remember my X on the phone with her nosy bestie and she told her I would move a mountain for her if it stood in her way.
Made me proud to hear for the rest of the day..
Sometimes you might bust your ass and it’s still not good enough
Well said, and to prove your point. When I met my wife I too was a “struggling man”. She reaped all of the benefits you spoke of because I didn’t have the finances. Men are forced to be creative when the financials are not quite in place. Transparency became the focal point in our relationship. Over time, things began to change financially, and I am very much able to offer her “the dream”. She was there when others turned their noses, and I will never forget that. You are on point my friend! Continue to share with those less informed.
Great handle... ☝🏾
Doubt you're faithful, but ok
I met my wife after I had been in the hospital for 40 days, lost the ability to walk from auto immune disease and was in recovery. Unable to work or drive I wasn't expecting a woman to give me the time of day. She didn't care about those things and saw the other qualities I brought to the table. I have healed and gotten my strength back over the years. We are now married and when people ask how did I know she was the right one, I simply reflect and say she saw more in me then I saw in myself while not letting my restrictions dictate how to treat me. She was willing to deal with me when I literally had nothing and was rebuilding my life. It made it easy to know where she was at mentally with me and what she valued in me. I'm forever grateful for having her in my life.
That's a really cute story. You're both lucky to have each other.
I met a girl in the park the other day. I purposely told her I'd take her on a coffee date and she got wound up saying she hates it when guys take her on coffee dates. She did end up giving me her number and we setup a date to meet. She asked me where and what we will be doing because "it is important for her to know" and I told her that we will grab a pastry and watch the sunset and get to know one another... it is a first date after all.. we don't know one another so sitting and talking while watching the sunset is not only kinda romantic but probably a good idea... .You guessed it... she ghosted me and I saved myself a lot of time and headaches. Gents.. if this happen to you... take it as a blessing in disguise and don't feel bad about it.
This is very true. My fiancé was struggling and living with his mom when I met him. However he was working and always ambitious. He always provided in some way even when we were broke. He never sat around and he was always working lol he literally can never sit still. Anyways 6 years later we are getting married and we got our own everything. He provides everything for me and I never worry or want for anything. I loved him because of who he is not what he can buy me. Till this day I’m so proud of how far he has come and I know I’m blessed to be marrying him.❤
You a real lady and ridah congratulations to yaw look up the hebrew Israelites together
I couldn't be dating if i'm 'struggling', when I was in taht state, I turned down dates, and any advances from women. I focused on myself so I can be choosy when i got where I am now. I don't need a "well you wasn't SH* when i met you'🤣🤣
@@neoreign well I’d never tell my man that and that’s why we still together now.🤣
The 15 dislikes are from women who want rich men to have the mindset this woman described.
Precisely facts🎯✅
You can see the dislikes lol ?
Bro, how do you see dislikes ? 🤨
How can you see dislikes tf?
Yup. Now the 18 dislikes are from women who want rich men!
You see, it's beautiful, wise women like you, rooting for the heart of the struggler, that make me want to get up and fight a ****ing BALROG. Words from a woman like you do not fail to kindle hope in a man's heart who is facing darkness and a lot of really awful and TRULY evil shit. The kind where you wake up genuinely surprised you're still alive. Thanks for having the "Galadriel effect" on my struggling-warrior-nerd heart. If men know what's good for them, they'll compete in tournaments for the favor of m'lady. God bless.😄✌
So true, when you have money there is NO SHORTAGE of women to help you spend it. When you are down and building and saving there are VERY FEW women that are down to work along side you…but plenty of women will HAPPILY help you spend it once you got it. The solid foundation is built from building together.
I love this woman already. She’s a real woman and she understands. I hope she receives all the good that life has to offer. 💯💪🏿
There is nothing hotter than a woman who appreciates a man’s struggle
@@FunnyDolphin782Well said, this comment needs a prize
I married at 21, worked hard, but didn't make a lot of money. I was loyal, giving, and even kept my cool when she cheated. Our problems stemmed from me not making what she felt I should provide financially. Lasted 10 years and I had enough. Second wife had struggled just like I had. We both appreciate what we do for each other and what we have. Still not much, but after 24 years, I know she has my back, and our relationship is better than ever.
I just separated from a woman who didn't appreciate sincerity, loyalty, and hard work because I am working class and her father made over $100k/yr before he passed. Really unfortunate to find out her character after spending so much time together.
This is the realest thing I’ve saw
You lost me at the “when she cheated” part lol brody move on
Nice
@@rollsrollie3480 fr that shit scared me
Thank you for this video, it's very much appreciated. Sadly, in this world there are so many people including men who are superficial. Majority of them (not all which is rare), only care about living a lavish life. I get it, we all want to feel safe and never have to work a day in our life ever again. Not everyone has a rich lifestyle, however, those who are poor are rich at heart. You also get a perspective and learn quite a bit from circumstances in your life. You get glance of how people treat you in variety of situations and how they are. I've come to realize that as a poor guy who has scraped by most of my life, it's really, really rare to find a woman who is pure, kind, loving and has waited for the right guy. Don't get me wrong though, so many wonderful women out there, but only one will stand out from the crowd. To keep this short, I wouldn't want to be a "last resort". That is the worst feeling to know that a woman has been in different relations and I was her last choice. Not every guy feels like I do, we're all different, but I've noticed and seen so many things that have made me think this way. Today, this world is driven by impure desires and immoralities, thus, producing inappropriate relationships. Sorry to be blunt, but I like to be honest and speak my mind. Hope everyone out there finds true love and happiness and a partner they can share the rest of their life with. God bless you all!