Why You Aren't Consistent | THE CONSISTENCY PARADOX

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @TheVintageAcademic
    @TheVintageAcademic День тому +1

    I love this perspective! I would also add that black & white thinking (esp for us ND folks) can be a big block. “I have to do it x way or it’s not right/doesn’t count/isn’t good enough” - being able to challenge this thought process and develop more flexible thinking has been a huge help for me! But I often only manage that with help from my friends 🥰

  • @helencooper286
    @helencooper286 14 днів тому +9

    Thank you for this, and especially for the disclaimers about the impact of illness/disability and your realistic discussion about your own physical and mental battles. It’s refreshing to be reminded that we don’t simply need to ‘try harder’ or have ‘grit’ to keep doing too much!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 15 днів тому +8

    People making our lives making harder in new and interesting ways. Also, I know the hard way that time waits for no one.

  • @heraddledbrain
    @heraddledbrain 14 днів тому +3

    LOVED this video, Kaelyn! It's been great to watch you grow in your productivity journey and this is such a balanced, wise approach. I hope as a society we will get to a point where this approach comes before burning ourselves out instead of after. I'm sure the work you're doing Productivity Lab will support that shift as well!

    • @KaelynGraceApple
      @KaelynGraceApple  14 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much!! I hope the conversation can evolve in this direction also

  • @smileart37
    @smileart37 15 днів тому +5

    Such a great video to enter a season in gratitude as we finish out the year - we can still make moves and start now - and allow it to look different for each person! 🙌🏽

  • @hananebouslahi1433
    @hananebouslahi1433 15 днів тому +2

    Thank youu, I agree with "doing it alone" That is why I watch your videos, they help me to stay in the PhD mindset.

  • @jacksonebendick9592
    @jacksonebendick9592 15 днів тому +5

    I'm glad I discovered your channel

  • @LiuZia-b3e
    @LiuZia-b3e 14 днів тому

    Thanks for this video!! It is really helpful

  • @racheldebasitis8184
    @racheldebasitis8184 15 днів тому

    This is such a great video, Kaelyn! The advice you give can apply to anyone, in any stage of their lives. Having spent time in Silicon Valley, my mind became so entrenched in the 'power through it' mentality, it actually did me physical harm. Now that I'm retired, my days are calmer, but I still want to accomplish things and feel productive., but not burn myself out. I can see how asking myself the questions you've provided will be a great tool for balancing things out. Thank you!

  • @emi62507
    @emi62507 15 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this advice. I’ve been struggling with consistency for a very long time. I used to be so consistent in 2020 and really had a good routine overall, but since 2021 I just couldn’t figure out how to get back to that 2020 groove. I now see that I need to let that go and create something new based on where I am now. I’ll use the advice you gave to help me instead of being stuck in the past. I’ll try to be more in the moment and focus less on the result.

  • @the_real_andresjorgeortiz
    @the_real_andresjorgeortiz 14 днів тому

    Thank you for giving advices! I enjoyed watching your video.

  • @danielaheinrich1405
    @danielaheinrich1405 14 днів тому

    Thank you for this, I didn't know I needed this. Especially the part about community had me go "yeeeeaaahhhh!", so this is me, vowing to actually make use of my Accepted Society Membership and join a session this week and finishing up my assignment 💪🏻

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 15 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing.
    Have an amazing wonderful day girl ❤❤❤

  • @MahikaJoshi-p6t
    @MahikaJoshi-p6t 15 днів тому +1

    Very informative video. Thank you

  • @bianca4829
    @bianca4829 11 днів тому

    This is totally unrelated, but your hair color is stunning ❤

  • @erykahsundance2807
    @erykahsundance2807 10 днів тому

    2.30 ... and most of all consider that these tips land differently if you have kids!