Absolutely! Communication and Respect is key, and experience can be a great guide in making informed decisions about love and relationships. thank you for sharing. William😊
Great video ! I think the ladies that save their self's until marriage are the cream of the crop and unlike most their beauty isn't just skin-deep there 'still things worth waiting for and beautiful ladies who are smart and beautiful 360 degrees and what a treasure their husbands are going to receive ! Stick to your values ladies !!!
My Pinay queen had been with two Filipino guys in past relationships when we married. She was in her mid-20s when we met. I had been with quite a few more ladies in my past and was in my early 40s. I would have had no interest in an LTR with a woman that was clearly "high mileage" as I think the baggage is monumental. They could be loads of fun if still single and looking for a short-term relationship, but not wife material. That might not be politically correct, but we all make our choices in life and they lead where they lead. One has to be realistic in expectations when it is common to find a 10 year, 20 year or even greater age gap in such relationships. Although not unheard of, there aren't very many virgin males nearing middle age that are looking for a Filapina abroad. It might not be fair or equitable, in a sense, but if both parties can accept it without issues than all should turn out fine.
Hello AlanAwesomeness, Thanks for sharing your experience! as long as both partners are on the same page and committed, it can work out well. please stay tuned for my next video🥰😉
Hi MrDoobie, Thanks for sharing your thoughts! A strong relationship often hinges on mutual respect and understanding. please stay tuned for my next video😉🥰
Hi Ladies, love comes sometimes when you least expect it but communication is important to a relationship.I can't claim that I am but I'm 66 and have been married with 3 kids but experience & knowledge is good to help you make a decision
Thanks for sharing your wisdom! . Love has its surprises, and it’s always valuable to learn from those who’ve walked the path. thank you for watching🥰😇
@@DearANNIE28 I have been on both sides of the mirror, I've been the observer & I've been the one creating what the observer is looking at and either one has a story to tell
Great interviews and I really liked the variety of answers from everyone. I loved the bonus at the end. Good to learn about the Muslim culture in the PH. Do many of them date foreigners?
At one time i would have agreed about saving yourself for marriage. But nowadays i think its more important to find out if you are completely 'compatible' before marriage. Especially in a country with no divorce. Sex is an important part of a relationship although shouldn't be the be all and end all.
thank you for sharing you thoughts Steve, I understand your perspective. Each couple needs to decide what works best for them based on their beliefs and circumstances.😉
so what is your acceptable limit for the men she runs through? 1, 10, 50, 100? if a girl shows desire for you before marriage such as very willingly French kissing then sex is not something that has to be tried before marriage. So you honestly would rather have a girl who has been with many vs the girl who saved herself?
@@puppyupper4565 did I say many? I mean with the man she is considering settling down with and if she has a moral compass that shouldn't be many. But what if she stayed a virgin, got married and then found out he was into butt plugs and gimp masks (for example). Too late to back out in the Philippines.
Virginity before marriage is important. And using the west as a standard for "best practice" is an absolute FAIL. Just look at how far into a hrllhole the west has fallen. And according to Christianity and Islam... we are supposed to be virgins when we marry. No sex before marriage.
Hi Annie, like with all cultural traditions and wishes of my partner i would respect her views accordingly. Makes no difference at my age long term to my feelings for the women in my life if she is virgin or single mother so long as the love ,respect and 100% contentment is there. I think if i was younger like in my 20's it would mean a lot more if honest but is nice to hear plenty still think to keep their virtue in this ever changing social challenges in dating.
Due to the biology involved you can think of a woman's ability to bond with her partner like a pizza. Every man she gets with has a piece of that pizza, so if she is a virgin when she meets her husband he gets the entire pizza. If like a western woman she has had 500 partners that means the same ability has been split up to 500 men. Each man has a tiny piece and she will always be remembering the good parts of each of those men. She will compare those good parts to the current man and not be able to settle down with him as he will be lacking. The odds of a successful marriage are next to non.
Hi Annie. A very interesting topic with some very interesting answers. I think it is up to the individual and if you are waiting till you get married you want to make sure you have the right one and you are totally compatable since here there is no divorce. At least not yet. It also seems to be an uncommon thing these days with so many single moms. Keep smiling and stay safe
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Brian, You're right, compatibility is key, especially with no divorce here in the ph. Appreciate your support stay tuned for my next video and stay safe too!
@@DearANNIE28 Dear Annie, thank you soo much for your very kind message, Hope you and all your family are well, i am fine, just back from a nice walk, Best regards from Austria, Jean
Although it is admirable that many of the women wanted to save themselves for their future husbands, it is somewhat disappointing that none of them said that they maintained their virginity because of their desire to obey God and Gods Biblical laws. Even the Muslim women seemed to relate that it was because of what was acceptable in Muslim culture. They never mentioned Allah or the Koran. Luke 6:46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?" 1 John 5:3 "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome." Matthew 7:13 "You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it." Matthew 7:22-24 " Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity."
Hello Ningayeti, thank you for sharing your thoughts, It's important to recognize that different individuals and cultures have various reasons for their choices, thank you for watching😉🥰
OK, Annie Annie, are you OK? Lol I’ve been watching your channel for a while. I like your content on this one. I’m I’m on the fence because you see what it’s done here in the west not waiting until marriage has caused an epidemic of divorce. The reason I say I’m on the fence is because, they put it bluntly. You wouldn’t buy a new car without test driving it would you?
There are key things needed for a lasting relationship. 1 be best friends with eachother 2 being able to have a meaningful conversation 3 having different things in common 4 being sexualy compatible. If you cant make all these things happen, the relationship wont last. I also feel sex should be reserved for the time both feel they want to get married. If the sex is not good, dont get married
@fastwheels195 good. But all the 3 big religion requires to abstain from sex before marriage ;) Sooo... Agreed on the list, with exception of the sex part. You do NOT need to practice sex before any marriage!. Evaluate if she is a warm person towards you! (Not everyone else). If she is warm, considerate, empathy, affectionate inclined towards you, etc... then she WILL be great at sex with you! Sex can be practiced together. Affection however can not be faked so much. So evaluate her love and warmness in her behaviours. If she is a cold personality... then find a better person to marry. And yes there is not even need for longterm dating. Dating is only for "getting to know the person... form of interview basicly;) In christianity and islam and hidaism there is no concept of dating. Not supposed to imvest emotions before marriage. Only supposed to evaluate compatibilities and what both wants. And that both have passion for building a marriage together. Have the mentality to WORK on the marriage. Life has ups and downs. You want a spouse who will put in the effort also in bad days. Iys all about mentality. A trully pravticing religious person will consider marriahe sacred! And therefor work on the marriage, to build a warm home together. So analyze her piousness. Or does she constantly make excusrs? Does she quarell? Or is she timid? Respectfull? Obedient to her parents? To God?
Sounds like filipina fall in love so fast that sex before marriage doesn't matter . She thinks we will get married anyway . Till the guy leaves before marriage. Then she is heart broken and pregnant . Because she didn't insist on protection . It's better to just wait for the wedding ring . You love that person you would wait anyway .
Good video Annie. Staying a virgin until marriage is a personal choice. But if you choose not to wait, please practice safe sex so you don't join the single mothers club
I appreciate that tradition still exists. With all the single mothers. It is a good practice (staying a virgin).
Absolutely! Communication and Respect is key, and experience can be a great guide in making informed decisions about love and relationships. thank you for sharing. William😊
We certainly must wait until marriage even though it’s tempting
oppss really! It's like holding out for the grand finale worth the wait! good to hear that Greg😋😉
No right or wrong answer...IMO...it's a personal choice...
that's TRUE. thanks for watching John😉
Great video ! I think the ladies that save their self's until marriage are the cream of the crop and unlike most their beauty isn't just skin-deep there 'still things worth waiting for and beautiful ladies who are smart and beautiful 360 degrees and what a treasure their husbands are going to receive ! Stick to your values ladies !!!
Thank you for the kind words! These ladies are indeed a treasure, inside and out! thank you for watching Jeff🥰😇
Another wonderful vlog Annie. Keep up the Great work.
Thanks Rickedelman🥰😉 please stay tuned for my next video.
To each into their own
Hey BillLloyd, you can visit my patreon channel for more about this topic "Filipina single moms"😉🤗
Interesting video, Annie. Thanks so much for sharing! Hope all is well. 🎉😊
Hello Ben, all is well, how are you!?🥰😉
Nice topic, Annie! 😊👍
Thanks Ben,
My Pinay queen had been with two Filipino guys in past relationships when we married. She was in her mid-20s when we met. I had been with quite a few more ladies in my past and was in my early 40s. I would have had no interest in an LTR with a woman that was clearly "high mileage" as I think the baggage is monumental. They could be loads of fun if still single and looking for a short-term relationship, but not wife material. That might not be politically correct, but we all make our choices in life and they lead where they lead.
One has to be realistic in expectations when it is common to find a 10 year, 20 year or even greater age gap in such relationships. Although not unheard of, there aren't very many virgin males nearing middle age that are looking for a Filapina abroad. It might not be fair or equitable, in a sense, but if both parties can accept it without issues than all should turn out fine.
Hello AlanAwesomeness, Thanks for sharing your experience! as long as both partners are on the same page and committed, it can work out well. please stay tuned for my next video🥰😉
Tamsak ❤️🌹👋🌹❤️
I have a degree in math and orange is my favorite color, so I just fell in love with a math teacher.
ha ha let's get it on😆😉
it is the power of the woman and the gift for her husband. men will do it but they will not want the one who is run through by lots of men
Hi MrDoobie, Thanks for sharing your thoughts! A strong relationship often hinges on mutual respect and understanding. please stay tuned for my next video😉🥰
Hi Ladies, love comes sometimes when you least expect it but communication is important to a relationship.I can't claim that I am but I'm 66 and have been married with 3 kids but experience & knowledge is good to help you make a decision
Thanks for sharing your wisdom! . Love has its surprises, and it’s always valuable to learn from those who’ve walked the path. thank you for watching🥰😇
@@DearANNIE28 I have been on both sides of the mirror, I've been the observer & I've been the one creating what the observer is looking at and either one has a story to tell
Awesome topic Annie! Having never been with a virgin, I don't really mind if she isn't, but appreciate the ladies who wait.
thank you for watching Edsteward😉
Your very well spoken
THANK YOU! James 🥰😇
Great interviews and I really liked the variety of answers from everyone. I loved the bonus at the end. Good to learn about the Muslim culture in the PH. Do many of them date foreigners?
Thank you! Brad! I'm glad you enjoyed the interviews. nope as i know foreigners don't date Muslim woman.
Nice video. Glad the Judeo/Christian values are still holding up in the Philippines.
Hello Emanuel, Thank you for the super thanks!🥰😇 and Yes we are still going strong here. thank you so much for watching.
Annie i was looking for You today ! a nice surprise to see You
Hey Rory, I'm doing fine. thank you for watching🥰😇
At one time i would have agreed about saving yourself for marriage. But nowadays i think its more important to find out if you are completely 'compatible' before marriage. Especially in a country with no divorce. Sex is an important part of a relationship although shouldn't be the be all and end all.
thank you for sharing you thoughts Steve, I understand your perspective. Each couple needs to decide what works best for them based on their beliefs and circumstances.😉
so what is your acceptable limit for the men she runs through? 1, 10, 50, 100? if a girl shows desire for you before marriage such as very willingly French kissing then sex is not something that has to be tried before marriage. So you honestly would rather have a girl who has been with many vs the girl who saved herself?
@@puppyupper4565 did I say many? I mean with the man she is considering settling down with and if she has a moral compass that shouldn't be many. But what if she stayed a virgin, got married and then found out he was into butt plugs and gimp masks (for example). Too late to back out in the Philippines.
Virginity before marriage is important.
And using the west as a standard for "best practice" is an absolute FAIL.
Just look at how far into a hrllhole the west has fallen.
And according to Christianity and Islam... we are supposed to be virgins when we marry. No sex before marriage.
Hi Annie, like with all cultural traditions and wishes of my partner i would respect her views accordingly. Makes no difference at my age long term to my feelings for the women in my life if she is virgin or single mother so long as the love ,respect and 100% contentment is there. I think if i was younger like in my 20's it would mean a lot more if honest but is nice to hear plenty still think to keep their virtue in this ever changing social challenges in dating.
Hi Mrmadborg! That's a very mature and understanding perspective. i love it, It's refreshing to see some girls value what truly counts!
I hope your summer is going well👍
hello JTOCIII, how are you! I'm having fun thank you for watching🥰😇
@@DearANNIE28 I'm doing well I' am glad you're doing good and you're welcome👍
Really need to move to PH. Love the christian values. Beats the western women mindset
@@HunkyMan777
You mean… Barefoot, Pregnant and ignorant!
Due to the biology involved you can think of a woman's ability to bond with her partner like a pizza.
Every man she gets with has a piece of that pizza, so if she is a virgin when she meets her husband he gets the entire pizza.
If like a western woman she has had 500 partners that means the same ability has been split up to 500 men.
Each man has a tiny piece and she will always be remembering the good parts of each of those men.
She will compare those good parts to the current man and not be able to settle down with him as he will be lacking.
The odds of a successful marriage are next to non.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Fantasynovel every person and relationship is unique. stay tuned for my next video😋😉
Hi Annie. A very interesting topic with some very interesting answers. I think it is up to the individual and if you are waiting till you get married you want to make sure you have the right one and you are totally compatable since here there is no divorce. At least not yet. It also seems to be an uncommon thing these days with so many single moms. Keep smiling and stay safe
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Brian, You're right, compatibility is key, especially with no divorce here in the ph. Appreciate your support stay tuned for my next video and stay safe too!
"Time to look for a foreigner" the desperation of my kababayans. 😂
Haha, the international dating scene does get interesting! Sometimes, it's less about desperation and more about expanding horizons! 😄
but why are soo many single moms there, when they are soo conservative??
Political views have nothing to do with wanting to have sex before marriage
Catholic against contraceptives. Phils has no dowry tradition.
check on my patreon channel for more about this topic, thank you for watching Jeandupont🥰😇
@@DearANNIE28 Dear Annie, thank you soo much for your very kind message,
Hope you and all your family are well, i am fine, just back from a nice walk, Best regards from Austria, Jean
Although it is admirable that many of the women wanted to save themselves for their future husbands, it is somewhat disappointing that none of them said that they maintained their virginity because of their desire to obey God and Gods Biblical laws. Even the Muslim women seemed to relate that it was because of what was acceptable in Muslim culture. They never mentioned Allah or the Koran.
Luke 6:46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?"
1 John 5:3 "For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome."
Matthew 7:13 "You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way.
But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it."
Matthew 7:22-24 " Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils?
and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity."
Hello Ningayeti, thank you for sharing your thoughts, It's important to recognize that different individuals and cultures have various reasons for their choices, thank you for watching😉🥰
God bless the girls who want to save sex for marriage. It is the will of God. I hope to find a Filipina who wants to honor God.
Hi puppyupper, Amen to that! Wishing you the best in finding someone who shares those values and honors God together. thank you for watching😋😉
OK, Annie Annie, are you OK? Lol I’ve been watching your channel for a while. I like your content on this one. I’m I’m on the fence because you see what it’s done here in the west not waiting until marriage has caused an epidemic of divorce. The reason I say I’m on the fence is because, they put it bluntly. You wouldn’t buy a new car without test driving it would you?
Hi there! thank you for sharing, finding that balance is key. And hey, everyone’s test drive looks different! thank you for watching🥰😇😉
There are key things needed for a lasting relationship.
1 be best friends with eachother
2 being able to have a meaningful conversation
3 having different things in common
4 being sexualy compatible.
If you cant make all these things happen, the relationship wont last.
I also feel sex should be reserved for the time both feel they want to get married. If the sex is not good, dont get married
One more thing, you both need to be of the same religion
@fastwheels195 good. But all the 3 big religion requires to abstain from sex before marriage ;)
Sooo...
Agreed on the list, with exception of the sex part.
You do NOT need to practice sex before any marriage!.
Evaluate if she is a warm person towards you! (Not everyone else).
If she is warm, considerate, empathy, affectionate inclined towards you, etc... then she WILL be great at sex with you!
Sex can be practiced together. Affection however can not be faked so much.
So evaluate her love and warmness in her behaviours.
If she is a cold personality... then find a better person to marry.
And yes there is not even need for longterm dating.
Dating is only for "getting to know the person... form of interview basicly;)
In christianity and islam and hidaism there is no concept of dating.
Not supposed to imvest emotions before marriage.
Only supposed to evaluate compatibilities and what both wants. And that both have passion for building a marriage together.
Have the mentality to WORK on the marriage. Life has ups and downs.
You want a spouse who will put in the effort also in bad days.
Iys all about mentality.
A trully pravticing religious person will consider marriahe sacred! And therefor work on the marriage, to build a warm home together.
So analyze her piousness.
Or does she constantly make excusrs?
Does she quarell?
Or is she timid?
Respectfull?
Obedient to her parents? To God?
Remember... "words are cheap"!!! Analyze her ACTIONS. And how dhe interacts with othets!.
Does it match her words?
Sounds like filipina fall in love so fast that sex before marriage doesn't matter . She thinks we will get married anyway . Till the guy leaves before marriage. Then she is heart broken and pregnant . Because she didn't insist on protection . It's better to just wait for the wedding ring . You love that person you would wait anyway .
True love is worth the wait! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Tom😋😉
Good video Annie. Staying a virgin until marriage is a personal choice. But if you choose not to wait, please practice safe sex so you don't join the single mothers club
Thanks! And absolutely safety first! No one wants an unplanned membership to the single mothers club! 😄
You're welcome
👍🤿😎🇵🇭! Wow didn’t expect this but it only just reminds all to have respect for one’s own personal beliefs and values!👍
Absolutely! Respecting each other's beliefs and values is so important. Thanks for watching Joseph!🥰😇