How To Rebound After Failing The Availability Test
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I'm living with my mom and mother of my child of which I'm no longer dating and I've been saving money to move. I'm very overweight but still handsome. Some women give me choosing signals but I purposely ignore because of my life situation. Should I try to initiate contact or should I ignore all women until I get myself together and fulfill my purpose?
The key to her heart:
• Masculine frame
• Abundance Mindset
I'm guessing the seduction (aka: Having her mind) is apart of the masculine frame?
C J ...dude, we are soul hunters over here ...for heart matters go to Lovey-Dovey-Corey
won't a girl think a guy isn't interested in her if he keeps having limited time with her? Or would that make her want him more?
The key to a women heart is honesty
@@tacticalj5495 Only with an honest woman.
I failed you AMS. Went out with her Friday, she wanted to see me Sunday so I set up a date and she flaked. Forgive me sensai. Time to apply your teachings now to fix this mess I’ve made.
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Stop making comments like this. Forreal
YOU FAILD ME ANAKAIN !
😂😂😂
You missing the point ENTIRELY.
I wish I had a father like AMS I would of been a alpha at 10 years old
No. You must learn to walk before you run. An alpha father will teach you to listen and learn first.
You really need few slaps before you get alpha lessons,otherwise you wouldn't believe women are this twisted!!
Surething bruh
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@@raedbk7234 yes sirrr, you only think about self defense after getting hurt a few times
He is right..if a women really wants to see you..basically u will have to almost chase her away
Facts. Once a woman comes up with an excuse, she's meeting with the next guy. Just leave her.
I rebound so much they call me Wilt Chamberlain
Banger caption
Are you saying that, cause of how much women he slept with, or how many rebounds he had?
@@jonathannumba0ne3 It's just a methaphor so to speak... In this context it means his ability to rebound from his mess ups with women is just as good as Wilt's ability to actually rebound basketballs.. It could also has a double or triple meaning, based off what you get from it.
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@@shangtsung1362 and people still rate russel higher.
Yall better take notes, she wants a guy that’s a challenge for her.
Amen brother
This is so true. I've been ignoring woman for 3 months now, magically they the ones asking me out now. Act like you don't want them, they will want you badly.
The best advice I ever heard my entire life has come from AMS.
Hands down!!!
The accidental validation doesn’t hurt for long once you immediately realize and take action. Guys it’s a mindframe you must develop and perfect it ain’t easy but practice plus vision training works. I wasn’t able to go out and talk to women, so I’d mentally practice and when In public I’d take a breath then go for it. It worked always.
"Let's see if he a real man, I'ma test his value"😂😂had me crackin up
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ams staying on his purpose this year is the level I wanna be on
Man if any of y’all are doubting this Man strategy...YOU ARE DOING YOURSELF A DISSERVICE. Let me tell y’all AMS is on point. Especially on this topic. I’m currently in one of these situations. I’ll let y’all know how it works out. AMS keep it up 👊🏿👌🏿
BIG FACTS how did it work out big bro?
Damn same here! Lol hoping for the best but I won’t be mad if it don’t
So how did it work out?
@@whizkid235 I did not pursue. She came back and this time I flipped the game on her. I pulled back and made her do all the pursuing.
It works believe me.
@@connected901 I did not pursue. She came back and this time I flipped the game on her. I pulled back and made her do all the pursuing.
It works believe me. You do it and let me know your outcome.
Will you ever do meet ups? I just have to shake your hand and thank you for everything you’ve done for me
U know knowledge will come out as soon these hands rubbing
Birdman-rub
I'm 35..added a 21 year old to my Ho-tation last night..AMS is a dating Coach god
How did u do it bro I'm 17
@@zforde809 here's the deal..if you are in the gym .on your purpose..and being the best YOU.. You will have the confidence that will give you the true alpha attitude. When I first started listening to AMS..I'd get a girl's number.. And be sitting home.. Waiting a couple days to text..pretending to be on my purpose... The whole key to all this..is to really be focusing on making yourself better..so much that you don't have time to be chasing pussy.... Do that until you are not only talking the talk .but you walking it .. For real.. Then when you go out...the bitches will chase you.. I listen to AMS videos before I go to sleep..oMW to work..I drill this shit in my head so much that I eat- sleep -shit -and fuck these hos to sleep with the AMS mentality. And realize that this takes time.. There's no quick fix. When you are at your physical peak... Making a living off your purpose... And finally understand that bitches ain't shit.... You will have Zero issue creating and maintaining a Ho-tation.
@@gjones398 and the congregation shall respond "Amen"!. Best preaching I don't heard in a long ass time!
@@gjones398 good shot bro I'm 32 n got me a 20 year old ever since I started listening to ams hes the truth!
Y'all fuckin children. I wouldn't share that with the class. Lmao
These ads of Tai Lopez are really frustrating man
matrixneo1990 thought I was the only one💀
I always get RDSmax ad ...still annoying ...never watched more than 5 sec tho.
If you need ads to sell yourself, you ain't authentic
@SlyPanther some promotion is ok. But he is overdoing it. Which is a big turn off
Better then these tik tok ads driving me mental
Easy sleazy monday crew checking in✊🏽✍🏾
I was so naive that once in a club there was a women who grabbed me from the hips and I didn't do anything because I was afraid that it might be a trap :(
😂😂😂 god damn man
It was a trap.
It was a MAN...lmao 😂😂😂nowadays gotta be careful out here!!! Lol
@@Progress24.7 Well 100 % i didn't drink more then 1 bear so i can assure you it was a girl
King shit
@@gabrielalbu608 god damn, you drink bears? AMS doing something right huh, he turned you straught into Jason Statham.
STILL ON THE SELF IMPROVEMENT
Finally realizing my mistake in my current relationship. I always tell my friends all of these tips to get women and I attract a good amount but I fell for my girl and she can tell. Now I’ve been dealing with shit tests for a month and now that I know I’m not gonna react or accommodate.
Leaving a girl on read works wonders
they hate hate HATE rejection.
Dude that's a nuclear bomb to them
mauricebs2006 yeah I don’t put any faith at all in these bitches I keep my roster full and my dick wet 🤣
mauricebs2006 big facts
Yes haha
Well for this to work she has to hit you up first. If you failed the availability test and you're the one still hitting her up, whether it's trying to set up future dates or simply swiping up on her stories, she's just going to become more distant honestly. The best thing you can do in this situation is simply forget about her, go no contact, and just live your life. Depending on how many times you interacted with her, there is a slight chance she will hit you up some time in the future after she sees that you're happily living your life without her. I've had girls swipe up on my stories months after our last interaction after initially falling for the availability trap
This hit me hard!!! Happened to me recently, i was thinking that this woman might be an exception. Validation = pullback. Slapped my forehead real hard when i found out i have been fooled. Had to reset, keep a tight guard, and just like that.. regained attraction and she became high interest.
how did you reset? Same happened to me like a few days ago...
@@NartaQNC Just do your own thing, put her far down in your priority list. Be calm, cool. Do not reach out to her, let her contact you. If you happen to see her often, at work etc. Dont give her any attention, just give short simple answers, keep it professional. Please keep it to max 1-2 dates per week, i would recommend 1 tbh. Do not fucking get emotionally attached to this type of women. You have to give her a chance to chase you. Women want to chase, become a challenge. Know your worth. You should never smother women, but if you find a woman who Only seeks your validation and does not take it for granted, IF. Then by all means do it, but theyre rare. Never put on red colored glasses, do not miss the flags. Theyre Good actors. And do not stop dating other women, you need options. That is why i was able to walk away so easily and mean it. That, and because i have other things that occupies my time. Fuck her, move on. I promise you, she Will come back crawling. And then you know what to do.
@@NartaQNC You should have things going on for you in your life, let them come to you.
Good luck buddy.
@@Spiritualwarriormindset Thanks bro. The thing is, at the beginning I handled the game perfectly. Like for real. She is the best girl at work. I wasn't validating or giving her any sign. She started to chase me. Asking me out and shit. We went out, it was good. She say come over we gonna work together and shit (coronavirus vibes lol, quarantine). I went to her place. Stayed after work. We kissed and I slept in her bed. Next day I leave her place, 2 hours later she sends me texts saying I'm obsessed about learning your language etc with heart emoji. I let my guard down a few days later I validated her big time, idk why I messed up like that, saying I really like her and shit. I tried to see her again she flaked twice. Shit. I expected that but still... But she still hitting me up first if I don't text her. Idk. I f*cked up big. I started damn well but now I feel like it's over. And tbh all the other girls at work are trash to my eyes lol but anyway I guess imma be alone
@@NartaQNC listen it is all Good. If she reaches out to you, let her set up a date, let her do everything. Dont even be happy that she texted. Keep it cool, short. Well dont be a cold asshole if youre interested, be cool like you dont care, because you shouldnt even care. No validation, none. Get in your masculine at work, tone, everything. Do your thing. She should be obsessed, just act cool.
I think you Will be just fine, fuck her.
The Goat!! Thanks big Bro you changing our lives! AMS FOR LIFE
Sooner or later dealing with a female is going to be depressing and pointless. Damn if you do damn if you don't. I usually give them about 3wks and it's over from there.
This even goes for religious girls. I thought i had a girl i could validate qnd show interest, nope she turned out to be the same as the other women. This game is a religion too me now
100% even virgin girls pull this shit. Just got tripped up BAD. No recovering for me
damn i really failed hard. I stopped doing my game when she admitted that she had "feelings" for me. Started validating her and stopped working on my purpose too, then she pulled back. But it's aight tho lessons learned. I started working out too and had a greater drive to improve 1% daily and become the best version of myself.🙏
How you getting on now bruh?
A woman has to earn your time!
Also my s*** test is how strong can you stand when I'm weak every man wants to know that of his woman how strong she can be when he's weak if anything happens to him can she continue in his spirit so he can be at peace and when I'm courting I'm going to show her my flaws women need to understand men are not invincible and they need to stop expecting invincibility while at the same time they want to be accepted for all their weaknesses and we're both human
Man AMS I love your comedic side hahahaha
He should be the only person and channel on youtube ,
AMStube.
Stop...you going too far
Females got a spidey sense for validation, I swear for gawwd! 😂
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I made a lot of the mistakes you preach,and you're right 100%. You never give them what they "want". I did the opposite. You never drop friends or habits you had when she met you,for her. The only benefit was I stopped smoking weed
man you made my day Dad that i never had
This video scary spot on. Like, both these scenarios happened in the same night this past week god damn AMS know the game
almost fell for that test i just got home and i checked my messages and the girl said what you doing after class tomorrow at 12 and i clicked ams recent videos low and behold the video about availability popped up.. god bless lmaooo my heart sunk has i told her no maybe next week
Lucky bastard. If I saw this video a week ago shit would be wayyyyy different for me
Koalaism Unbound So how did that go?
First 2 mins is soooooo facts. Ik and move perfectly. Then you meet that *ONE* girl and of course she takes the openness/kindness for weakness. It’s almost like as men we can never be real about our emotions
Bruh facts, a submissive girl got me off my shit. I had to hit her with the nasty pullback of the century. Thanks to AMS for the refocus
Bro I didn’t have a brother, father or uncle to school me like u have been 💯 thank u big bro
Thank you for this, been fucking up my relationship for the past month. Its probably over but either way i needed to hear this so thank you AMS. I need to just focus on me.
He ain’t lying.. Young men, stay busy. Always put her on your schedule. Never give her a compliment until she becomes your girl. Even then, don’t say it often. Say I like you and always show different. Keep her wondering.
Once your start getting all the pieces together, it seems so simple and primal to understand women. Many dating coaches over complicate the game
FTHTS 2019 & STAYING ON PURPOSE 👏
AMS I discovered your page a few weeks back. My brother I wish this was available 20 yrs ago. Your insight is a true gift my bro.
Man, I've gone through your channel a couple of days ago. I can say no words to describe how valuable your content is.
This guy is a beast, i was looking for EXACTLY this, i mean this is unbelievable this guy know his shit.
I'd even go more alpha and NEVER give an excuse to why I'm not available. The answer is just "No, not available". Then give a time when you are available, whenever that is, and if she's not then oh well. It just wasn't meant to be.
I needed this so bad. He really be calling these exactly right. It’s like Romo calling the NFL
I just did this a few months ago 🤦♂️ Still kickin myself for that one.
man I flaked on her when she was flirting with other guys in front of me.
and she sent me like 21 snaps on Snapchat I pulled back for only 3days and then she asked me if I was free I passed the availability test I told her I was busy and won't be available anytime soon she then said I was a busy man then I told her I was free the next week on Friday night and that we could do something active she responded immediately with a yes then started texting me frequently I pulled back and gave her a backhanded compliment to a photo she sent me I was like I like how your not obsessed with how you look. responds immediately I took an hour but I think I offended her
who cares you did right overtime it just works
Stefstef Christophe 🎉😂😂😂
This video right on time
AMS I got abundance mindset and no validation pretty down, But I’m having a hard time holding a masculine frame, need more videos
Masculine frame mindset doesn't happen overnight keep working on it you'll be good bro.
“You need to think about that” 😂
#FTH2S
Focus on your purpose and keep a rotation. PURPOSE & RECRUIT
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Once again AMS speaking the truth. I've hooked up with different women working on their Ph.D, full time job and busy with family stuff But they still made plans to see me. She working 16-18 hrs a day an still asking me out, planning trips or just saying she wanna "see" me. I'm hook up with one right now who lives 5 hrs away. She stay asking when can she make a weekend trip..... And she has class every other weekend. Her interest is high. I know another woman who has lower interest and now she "busy" helping her dad move something from storage or she doesn't feel well 15 before our date. WTH? ok I'll pull back and focus on my rotation. plus I just joined a fraternity so yeah I'll be busy
0:50 just happened to me even though I’ve watched this video 3 times . But I’m sure I will never make this mistake again cuz sometimes you have to make the mistake to learn . As AMS says it is what it is .
General question for the audience: are there any quality, decent, mature women in the world where we can just be ourselves, have a nice time, and not have to employ all of these games/strategies/tricks that AMS discusses?
Do unicorns exist?
That’s a fantasy. Wish it was different too bro. Red pill is reality. All the other spectations we have is deep generational blue pill conditioning
Yes yes yes but u must go to a third world country most of those females r decent n don’t need much work n sum r 9-10s n don’t need that much work but u have to act broke so she don’t use for a visa or money
the reality is that some of them require more/higher levels of AMS to be applied, whereas some don't. I've validated girls and still smashed the shit out of them, still had them give me top. But I've also had some pull away a bit and show less interest after being validated over text. There is no perfect formula to use.
Wow man. You read the comments and see how all use are agree Nd helping out each other. It beautiful,, we a family!!
Yo ams I’ve been watching you for about a 2 month now and already I have learnt so much from you. I am 18 years old and the next 3 months will be the hardest months of my life. I will be taking my exams and the end of these 3 months so I’m going to study a lot and I’ll also be working a part time job whilst also going to the gym 6 days a week. Let me tell you have inspired me so much to get on my purpose. I already went to the gym since last year August so I’ve been at it for a while but only recently have I got a job and this week I will be getting my mock results (which are tests you take which sort of predict your final grade but don’t actually have a affect on your real grade) let me tell you I will be filling my bank making these knowledgeable and muscle gains and when I do achieve the bank figure I desire and the body I want I will be FTBTS all day and night but my fucking purpose comes before any hoe. So yh anyway i just want to thank you for it.
(Sorry for the mistakes I should be sleep but I’m still up watching you which isn’t really good but yh)
His villain act was mad funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hand rub was on point today AMS
That evil girl laugh funny as hell
Sometimes you pass the road of no return
Thanks man, actually needed this advice last week before I messed up. Will be better in the future.
Thank you AMS. I now know EXACTLY what to say to convey value and potentially save myself from an attention seeker.
So essentially, marring a woman is the highest validation you can give a woman?
Marrying early
definitely not! Highest validation in society? yes!
Of course it is. You're basically telling her that she's the best you could do out of all of the women that you had in your life.
Dark Magician yes and no. There’s a difference between selecting women to date and marry out of scarcity and abundance
@@versatilelord8893 But she won't know that. She'll just assume what Dark Magician said
I needed this after spending the weekend at my girl.. made her pay for a 100 dollar date tho
Bruh, I gave this bitch my whole Friday and ain't got no ass. That bitch ain't getting No texts from me, for sure no calls. Gotta lower my availability. Got a date set up but might cancel that shit. I heard you supposed cancel every 3 to 4 dates too, we'll see
Sleezeball reporting for duty , or whatever the case may be.
…and that’s the case with that guys
Damn AMS this exact thing happened to me and i was confused what happened because initially her interest was high then it just all changed. These games are so petty and stupid but you are spot on!
Finally got my ass back to work and got a girl. Thanks for the tips. Even though I consume your videos, I still have the urge to go full beta mode with this chick.
Yea sometimes my mind wants to do that what can i do?? Coz i wanna advance with this girl but dont know how, she seems to like me, she giveS me a certain look, is very feminine with me she talks a lot with me, i let her talk
I Got a masculine vibe but what hell i do we got same classes in collegue tuesdays
just don't
trust everyone out there beta simps mode is no sex mode ^^
@@rkv3731 its college so don't worry about a girlfriend....
You don't want to put in too much energy and accidentally get emotionally invested.
Just invite her out to something, hold frame, and have fun. Don't let her eat up all your nonsexual attention... so when you're out of class you have to be doing something.
If nothing comes from it, don't act butthurt (even if you are) and try again with another chick...... (preferably in the same class 😈)
My man getting more and more specific with each video, better use this game wisely. 😎
I watched this a week too late she responded back to me almost all the time throughout the day now maybe 2 times a day at most
I'm sorry for the late sleazeball gang
Another great lesson from the Goat...
Man I wish I would have watched this video 24 hours earlier😪
Thoughts on risky purposes like say someone loves real estate but the market could crash
Only invest what you’re willing or able to lose
What does that mean anyway “risky purpose”. There’s always some risk associated to everything. You sound like the “I told you so” kinda person. You place value in being able to tell some look I was right. The market regardless of which industry can always crash or have slow & down times. That’s regular shit & goes without saying. Just be supportive & let whomever find out on there own. Trust me a 50k hit will have your reconsidering a lot lol... or not
She asked me to hang twice. I get down there the first time, she says oh I’m goin to eat with so an so, but I’ll be available later. I turned the car around and said, heading home. She hits me up again, asks to hang out, then says the ex wasn’t there on time to pickup her kids. I dialed it back bigtime. She’s contacted me but she’s also being more distant. This is the perfect video for that.
So then, whoever validates the woman or leaves his purpose for one in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord AMS.
Corinthians 27:11
Scrolls of AMS, Volume 3
Lol lol lol this should legit be in a man bible
You'll burn in hell for this
This man AMS ain’t letting up! The facts don’t stop keep it up!
(11:30) "if you went out with a woman Saturday, and you're available Sunday, and she ask you, and you free the whole weekend. ... ugh, that don't look too good guys"... ha
I fucked up gotta pull back
@@blackpill3824 Dawg, AMS be bringing it straight forward... lol
@@blackpill3824 I made this exact mistake sometimes you can slip up and get too comfortable from time to time....especially if she can cook and you in her guts. Youll find yo self asking her to come over the 4 weekend in a row and won't even realize it until she pull back😂
love your channel … already recommended you to 2/3 buddies. GREAT advice! THANK YOU
AMS the big brother I never had. Appreciate the advice my g
Just bought a copy of your book AMS now im not really into reading as much as i should be but watching your videos and knowing what being a HVM is all about if i take time to read any book im trying read AMS
This man is a wizard ! Good lookin out FAMILY ! PUTTIN ME ON TOP OF GAME !
Yep guys keep at it, the right woman is out there waiting for you. Just have faith 😏
Some women call me Mr. Busy because I don’t text them back fast enough! I can tell when they lose interest so get non available until they go out of their way to talk to me, make them work hard to get my attention again! They seem to love the challenge.
How is your timing so incredible? Exactly what I needed
@AMS The man with humorously serious quality content always!
@ 9.25 that analysis there is what sets AMS apart
A lil tip for u playa. You might want to use different background fonts and colors for the thumbnail. It’s hard to read on a mobile. That background with red letters is not doing it. And you may lose views when people scroll by your content when they are looking for something. Anyway keep up the good work bro
Big bro got us moving righteously
God bless u brotha...long live AMS
YOG
Definitely did that🤦🏾♂️ thought she was different i knew i shouldn't of did that dumb shit
This is awesome, one of the more entertaining and informative videos in the arsenal. 5 stars ⭐️
Wish I had found your channel like 3 years ago lmao
Changed up my skrategies real fuckin quick
AMS you are really changing the dating game and coaching. All those other dating coaches were just pretenders and on some bs.
YOG
Had to quit my purpose to watch this
im watching the first minute and thirty seconds and my heart is sinking lmfao... damn man
This is true. A chick dm'd me and I curbed her quick. After a couple of months I finally found a hole in my schedule for her. Let's just say the encounter was unforgettable...
Damn this came at the perfect time. Thank You!