Why Women Cancel Dates and How to Handle It
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I had one flake, that shit still hurts somehow after years...
Most of these broads already got a man. They just not telling you and that's why they flake.
what are they doing then are they waiting for him to fuck up? Or waiting for the perfect moment or maybe just keeping the strong in the water incase they go south?
Most women get their shit in order before they jump off one man to another.
Got a man and other side niggas
ON GOD I THINK THIS IS MY CASE. SHE COULD JUST TELL THE TRUTH CAUSE I COULD CARE LESS LOL
Pharaoh The Black God facts
If she cancels twice (specially in a row), you have to be done with her. It's no longer about being a macho man about it. She isn't respecting your time!!! The more she flakes on you, the more your value goes down in her eyes.
Look guys, I have a female friend and she's been telling me she trying to get rid of this dude that's too nice. These words literally came out of her mouth, " He asked me for dinner at 6 o'clock, i said Sure. At 5:30, I made something up and had him reschedule for 8, he agreed. At 8 I was not feeling like going out so I just canceled all together." She said this laughing!!! Women get off on dicking guys around!!!!
That's because it's comical for how dumb some guys are...
Repent and Believe nah it’s so wrong what HE ALLOWED HER TO DO TO HIM WITH HIS PERMISSION.
What a bitch.
Clay Allison these bitches deserve it
@@moe9587 yep. you have the right attitude. an abundance attitude and being respectful to the woman when cutting her off is key when dealing with flakey women
The key to all of this fellas: ALWAYS MAINTAIN CONTROL!
boy u hit da nail on da head....dats all i do....
yup
Never argue or call out women....just be chill and move them
along....guys that freak out are done
Whar about women? My younger sister flakes every time we set a day to hang out
The Realist Guy on UA-cam! I salute brother
TRUE!!!
I agree!
I've been flaked on so many times by women that now I EXPECT her to flake on me. I used to get mad on the first ones, but after so many times, I just don't care anymore. At this point, I can either take her or leave her. Now, I'm living a life of peace, quiet, and freedom.
That’s facts
No. You need to improve as a man. Then everything starts falling into place and less cancellations, more submissive, etc. We must keep improving ourselves
I honestly feel for you young men now days!! Im old but have a daughter in her late twenties and we know several girls that are awful! No ambition to succeed or work. It's just terrible, from what I see out there you men don't have it easy these days! It's sad. You're giving good advice, keep up the good work, and BE PICKY about who you date. I know all of us women aren't like that but I see it more often than not. It's sad.
Sandy Howell yep
Sandy Howell Real talk from a real woman! Much appreciated. 👌
Sandy Howell forreal. Before I wouldn’t of minded being with one person long as she’s for me only but nowadays like you said pretty much it’s rare to find so I’m good by myself. And much respect from you being a woman but seeing the truth face value
Women these days have no ambition to succeed and work because of simps who would cater to them and do whatever they want. I blame them for enabling. Why should they make their own worth when she can have one guy always taking her out, another paying her bills, and perhaps another helping with housework. Social media and online dating have amplified this. Weak men make everyone else’s lives harder and don’t even realize it
Ma’am, you think it’s just your daughter’s friends who are “awful?” No, birds of a feather flock together. Also your daughter is not an exception to this treatment. No matter how nice you think she is the guys that your daughter meet are on this same website using these same manipulation tactics to fuck her brains out & break her heart. You being sympathetic to these men is not going to save her. You can help your daughter by showing her these videos so that she can instantly know when someone is trying to manipulate her. She can know how to respond to them and who to avoid. Most of all tell her that she keeps all the power if she doesn’t have sex with them. Remember, he said that sex is their only goal so tell her to masturbate or get a vibrator (it’s better than these guys anyway). These videos are the answers to their malicious mind games. Share it with her so she can know.
This is great advice. Especially the part about the girl having some other dude. When a girl flakes, 90% of the time, it's because there is a BETTER option that came up (some other dude) so she flakes on you using some lame excuse like "work" or "illness".
The idea of inviting them over is also tried and true! If she likes you, she will come over. Maybe not that night, but I've had girls text me weeks later asking if they can still come over. If she is not that into you then you will save time.
P.S. I can feel this dude has strong game.
What can i do if im in collegue and i dont have my place?
@@joshforeman1723 bring em over anyway fuck it you got nothing to lose
Depends: most females other than fri/sat dont have plans, and are not with other dudes. Thats a myth. If she bails on a fri, possibly. Under 35 chics are a different breed, create their own rules, and are highly immature. Avoid.
Best thing to do is worry about YOU. Get money, hit the gym and do things you enjoy. You are guaranteed to meet a woman that will chase you. No point of going after women who think they are the prize. YOU are the prize
Word
Man I could have used this a couple months ago. I took different approach but this is solid. Keep the truth going
I had one flake, that shit still hurts somehow after years...
@@housevibez8828 one flake? I envy you. I hate women at this point
One thing I learned as a young kid in elementary school was never trust something thats got 4 lips and bleeds for 7 days 😂😂
All of them are the same. Havent met any nice girls. All of them are mean and heartless. Its time that men become like them
Chris Dimas ; bruv 😂 😂
I'm 58 and even if it isn't bleeding,still be careful
50 Cent - Straight to The Bank haha
“Don’t none of y’all get more ass than me so listen up”
*listens up
Don Chello 😅😅😅😅
Everything AMS said about how to handle a flake is right, but he just failed to mention that 80-90% of the time these women are not going to initiate contact with you. So it's like a needle in a haystack when you find one that does & wants to try again.
So mentally you have to move on.
SLICENSLASH they initiate contact with him because he is a "tyrone" on looks and financially solvent. For an average guy they will never initiate contact or 1 out 80 will, this is what he fails to realise.
True
@@everettfanor1989 Women are children. U dont rely on children to come through and do the right thing.
Scarcity mindset
nah don't offer to bring her anything lol that's putting her on a pedestal lol 9 time out of ten she is testing (not actually sick/called into work/ family dinner etc) and seeing how you respond, all you say is "no problem let me know when you sort your schedule out get better soon" and you walk away and don't contact her she will contact you for sure and if she doesn't you know how she feels about you and it's her loss lol, you give her the impression that you have a give it or leave it type of attitude
Ronsonson_Ron This has always been my response. I remained cool and calm with a nonchalant attitude. This always raised their interest because they’re used to guys getting mad but I show I indifference also I just call other women up that exact day and make back up plans. That’s benefit of having a rotation of women.
so if you say that, then she replies days later..you aint gonna set up a date or let her come to your place? You're just gonna delete her number?
You never delete a woman’s number ...Drought season is always around the corner
@@russianspy-sleazeball7317 I be mad as fuck on the inside but on the outside we playing chess. Show that you are unphased even though you are lol. Once you know the shit test you will win. Most men will get upset and angry and it will show thru the messages. THey got hundreds of dudes lined up already trust me
Listen to a hardcore dating coach or the guy playing a cars game and recording it 🤔 decisions decisions
That’s great advice Alpha, maturity and credibility shown. Blocking and anger means u resort into child mode (anger) and she will be glad she didn’t turn up anyway! 👍 Show adult mode and you become high value
Ash Sara so true but this women ask me a stupid question asking me if I was a virgin that what hit the blood vessels I kindly said no then she push it farther
i would of laughed said yes i am a 40 year old virgin i also lied about my birthday because today is my birthday.
Was her flaking showing adult mode? So women can be childish but men have to be handle every situation as an adult? Gtfo of here.
Logic783 think you need to read my comment again buddy. It’s about being high value and he was displaying that which is what I think is good. Child mode no good for anyone... except a child 👶
@@ashsara9233 Then you need to call out females for flaking childish before you call out a man for being angry at having his time wasted. Females, one sided as hell.
I literally got flaked minutes ago, this is life saving, it's going to help my decision
What happened?
Me too, it’s okay
Bitch told me her apartment burned down🤣
Tell her to initiate and pay for the next date
@@jcenlightened1248 😂😂😂
If you tell a girl to hit you up when she has more time, you may as well just kiss her goodbye. This NEVER works.
Worked for me..
Watch his pursue vs chase video. It’s all about having an Abundant mindset. when you tell her to hit u up, if she’s interested she will come back. And it don’t make you look desperate.
@@iceyjf127 how long can it take?
T984e37 S depends on if she finds someone or not or if she is attracted to u or not. Or maybe it was a shit test. Either way by u telling her to hit her up after asking her out a second time/after she flake, ur done with her.
Abundance mind set is u moving on and not giving af. Knowing u can meet other women and ur not worried about her. Once u tell her to hit u up, u are done pursuing her. Period. Basically saying fuck her and move on.
T984e37 S so there is no time could be tomorrow, maybe 3 years from now. Point being move on
It's about playing your game the way that you want to play it. It doesn't matter what the opposition does. You stick to the game plan.
If she cancels once, never talk to her again. Nothing "came up." She's just a flake who changed her mind like women do every other minute. Moreover, she didn't even call. She hid behind a text. She is already establishing that she is insincere and unreliable. How it begins is how it goes. Don't respond. Never contact her again. Like I said, she's fullacrap. Two very important supporting pieces of evidence I want to offer:
#1 Let's say you had a date with a girl. You would keep it. You honor your commitments. You do the right thing. Period. It's called integrity. But let's say something came up that you just couldn't refuse. Not some made up, BS excuse like this girl offered. I'm talking you win a free ticket to the sole Led Zeppelin reunion concert, which happens to fall on the night of your date. You would CALL her (not text) and apologize profusely. You would sincerely tell her, "it's not about you, I still want to see you." Then you would say, "how bout we get together tomorrow night? I am SO going to make this up to you." Does that sound about right? Exactly. There was nothing anywhere close to that with her.
#2 I think we would all acknowledge that women do this crap all the time. They are unreliable. They cancel, which is quite rude by the way. Now let me ask you, when does one of your buddies ever cancel on you? When's the last time you had plans to grab a beer or watch the game with the guys and they texted you with some BS excuse about how "something came up"? Rarely, if ever, right? Exactly. In short, men virtually never cancel, women do it all the time. Amazing the coincidence (eye roll).
100% correct brother. Flaking shows a lack of respect and priority
@@mikemill3033 ,thanks Mike. And again, when have you ever canceled on one of the guys? when has one of your friends ever canceled on you? Virtually never, right? Amazing how cancelitis only afflicts the female gender.
I agree on once
This exact thing happened to me, i did exactly what you said and havent received a text since i ask if she need anything. She aint hit me up but i ran into her at the mall like a week later while i was with another chick and she was looking terrible without her makeup. I aint even recognize her and she spoke to me first, gave her a couple seconds of small talk and dipped on her ass lol
Roman Phillips she had low interest. She did you a favor
Exactly, i knew she had a good amount a makeup on the date but aint think she would look that terrible without it...she really did do me a favor lol
Im already knowing, and thats what i expect, but she looked worst than i anticipated lol smh
Roman Phillips ur a lucky man/kid/teen
Most women dont look good without makeup.
If a girl cancels a date my response is “ok, thanks for letting me know, I wish you the best” and I’m out.
i jus say ight. fuc all dat wish u the best shi
Nah, just don't reply.
@@LincPickedIt 🅿️
@@LincPickedIt real nigga 😂💯
@@handsomesquidward5160 nah reply it gives a better cover of being unbothered if you don’t respond she sees that as a win even if it’s a dry “ight thas a bet” she gon see that shi and be like damn he not even gonna ask why I can’t come 🤣 they get mad mad
This video shows me you know what you're talking about on this channel. Good shit
It’s not about making her feel bad cause u not talking to her. It’s about having the self respect for yourself not to chase somebody who doesn’t desire you.
She flaked out on date and wanted to reschedule for the next week because " she wanted to go to a party of her best friend who is going away " Thats perfectly ok . I just politely declined the offer . She asked again if we can meet next weekend , i had to work so it wouldnt work . She asked again well how about the weekend after ? I just said " sorry im not talking to girl for a month before a meet up " She said " so you will stop talking to me ? " I said yes . No point of talking and texting for that long with out meeting , i dont do that " --- She was at my house 3 days later . Girls do this shit to see if they can establish control , once they establish control - you are out ! ..... Show no emotion , be polite , straight to the point and stick to your principle . My principle is that i dont accept reschedulling requests . If she is really into me and want to meet , she will make it happen . Just keep in mind when they first accept to meet you , they are free for that day and time or otherwise they wouldnt agree to meet. Yes , shit can happen , but dont take generic exuses like " my best friend is having going away party " :)
Very well done , I would still either not take her seriously or pump and dump. Girls that flake , it's pump and dump for me
Similar story happened to me minus a flake and reschedule. I was talking to this one chick and I asked to take her out on a date. She said her schedule was busy for the next week or two and would have to get back to me on that but wanted to chat in the meantime. I told her “Ok, seems like you got a lot going on. Hit me up when you’ll be available”. She said if we weren’t going to chat in the meantime then she was not going to hit me up at all. I told her that I wasn’t going to chat for weeks or nearly a month without a meet up. I personally think it’s a waste of time when there are other options I got. Then she said “lol sorry that I have a life” and removed me from her matches. I have a life too and I’m busy but I can tell you what days I have available like AMS said. I can only laugh at this. I wonder if I dodged a bullet there and handled it correctly
“So you might wanna listen up” 😂 subbed man
Had to use this technique today the same day i watched it. I've came so far with your help and I'm on Alpha Male Strategies till i get Alpha Male results ✊💯 keep doing ya thing AMS
I’m glad I found your channel.... I remember a girl flaked on me and I was furious.
I didn’t say a word to her... I instantly blocked her on all social media and her phone number.
You sounded like you were speaking about me..... “this bitch wants to flake on me and disrespect me?!”
Now I can try a different approach.
Hommiesyco lmao me too bro
Me too man so bummed about it
If you get flaked on one time tell her to contact you when she'll want to meet up. *If she flakes again* tell her "i dont think this is gonna work out, i like a girl who is excited to be around me or at least puts in the effort and youre not showing me that", she might start chasing you after you have made these boundries clear, if she doesnt then move on
אני רואה את ams שנים תמיד עניין אותי אם עוד ישראלים מכירים אותו
😂
Woman's that flakes out on a date. Is going with.A dude She really likes
Right on bro. Basically you were backup. Since guy #1 worked out she can now ditch you. However, I got flaked and ditched... The other guy was a weak beta male bitch so she came back :-) haha
She *
@@timothygibney159 Women nowadays are beta male chasers. They have to work hard to maintain for alphas because we can up and leave at anytime. We cant be controlled or manipulated.
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I do exactly what you say here, while i'm texting other girls. I don't have time to wait around for a single chick.
One of the few times I heavily disagree with a.m.s. If she flakes on u the 1st time and she dosent give u a legitimate excuse or hit u up 1st with her legitimate excuse drop her immediately. That whole schtick that ams did saying to tell her "well hey hit me up nxt time whenever u r free" thing wnt work and it's a good 90 percent chance she will flake again. If she didnt want to see u the 1st time and had low interest well this time her interest is very low. U r essentially allowing urself to get flaked on a 2nd time. A good 90 percent of women arent gonna change their mind.
You didnt listen, we do that because it puts the ball in her court, if she's interested she'll hit you back, if shes not, move on. If she does hit you up, you're telling her to come over, not a single dollar is spent. WIN WIN, if she falkes again, then you tell her off and move the fuck on
@@ericlee3468 oh I listened well. You should have enough dignity not to even do that to yourself especially after the 1st time. Dnt devalue yourself twice. If she flakes once the probability of her being uninterested again is extremely high. Trust me I been in the field 5 years I know.
This is true. Because if her low interest made her flake on you the first time, what on God's green earth is going to raise it so much the 2nd time around to where she finally gets the willingness to see you? Is she going to have a divine revelation?
The majority of girls who flake on you the 1st time will never meet you if you just go about with your life, but some will definitely want to see you in the future.
@@SFab-xv2tt yep very true. Im telling people this because I have tried first hand numerous of times to play it cool and try link again. They either went completely ghost or dragged the process out even longer and still never met 😆
Trust me get rid after first flake. Any girl that has flaked, I have never recovered
I disagree with this strategy of showing compassion and empathy towards her flake move. Think about it for a second: she straight up lied to you to get out of a date and she knows that you're not stupid and probably figured out her game. My advice is to be nice and courteous, but don't act like a weakling by giving her a pass and asking her to hit you up "when she feels better". If you're a good looking, confident guy then move on and don't waste your time with women who disrespect you because there are women galore out there who are ready to get busy.
Lol I also disagree. Cut her off but be calm.
I get what you are saying. His point is that you need to act like you don't give a shit and you have so many other options to choose from. That gives an impression of high value. You then get to have some fun with her and she may not flake on you again and if she does then pull the plug.
Hands down. The best advice on the internet!
“Don’t nobody get more ass than me so y’all better listen up” I’m laughin my ass off
This is NO 🧢🎓!!!! I had a chick flake YESTERDAY. She texted me to reschedule, so I said hit me when you free. She hit me the NEXT DAY wanting to link up, so I invited her to MY HOUSE..... Did I smash????? Yes. Yes I did. AMS, I approve this message. 💯✋🏾🚫🎓🧢
dayuummmmm invite her over for the first date. never even crossed my mind. damn you playaaaaaaa
I used to take girls out and now I'm doing this. Even had a girl invite me to her place for the first date. Sounds crazy but it works.
Man brah, you're like the Darth Vadar of the game. The game runs strong with this one. Straight Strategy!! My hat is off to you bro. Keep on spittin that real shit.
This girl flaked on me and I was like ok no worries, and we rescheduled. She flaked again and I was like ok. Should I probably just forget her at this point?
Yes forget her move on
No bro just keep Chasing 😂
of course don't initiate contact ever again.
Ive been flaked on countless times, now im just returning the favour. Much love to you all. 👊
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Girl chases me while i am dating, told her no, when i was single again she is back in touch so i said yes to a date, she flaked, she wanted another date and in that period I had to get tickets for my members club NYE party so I asked her if she wanted to come with me, she very much did. Second date comes around, she had picked restaurant and location, she flakes earlier in the day, i say no problem hope you feel better. next day (today) I get message saying ''we still ok for NYE?'' Me, I am taking someone else, take care of yourself''. Once is bad, twice I dont take.
Red pill truth: girl flaked and i saw her with another guy 10 minutes after we were suppose to have our date
Holy shit
Bruhhhh update, what happened later on?
@AMS one more point I’d like to make is that at least for girls in their 20s which I am too is that you have to have some level of initial pursuit. Otherwise they will think you are not interested and move on. Sometimes when a girl flakes I think it’s a test to see how genuinely interested you are in her if you call her back
I tried this. But I think some women will try to push you further if you just let it slide and act nice. They begin think you will take any shit they throw your way.
AMS It would be great if this video had a part two because this video is fundamental and six minutes I feel like this video isn’t as in debt as it could be. How to handle flakes part 2 💪. PS you the plug
If she flakes just say “shit happens, hmu when you’re free sometime.” If she is testing you or has high to medium interest then she should call you back and if she doesnt then its her loss, simple as that. No matter how upset you are, dont show it.
A woman flaked on me on the first date but asked to reschedule the next day. She told me it was "because of work". I politely told her that I was not available (that was not true) and wished her a great trip (she was going to Europe for two weeks). She then left a voicemail saying we would see each other when she returns.
I'm thinking of ghosting her if she contacts me once she's back. I think it might be a power move or more simply just a lack of respect for a man's time. I have a feeling it would happen again and again dow the road if I go along with it. If work was really the true motive, it's like you have to accept that her work is more important than you.
In Europe? trying one new dude from every european country she visits, shes young. Dont worry and move on.
That would be a dumb move, and miss out on a girl that wanted to spend time with you. As a guy, I’ve flaked on a girl because of work and this was a girl I saw as a 9 and top priority to score.
Brother I glad you started your channel truth straight talk an B, S ,ain’t here peace ✅
Dope Game, Congrats on reaching 1.3K fam let me know when you free to do another stream
Solotv84 let me know what you got going on Sunday bro
Chick just canceled on me saying that her son isn’t feeling well. I sorta knew she was about to flake. I’ll text her now saying “okay, hope he feels better. Hit me up when everything’s cool...peace”
Arlyn Alston how that shit went?
Why date a single mother ? Guys with low self esteem who rarely get laid would waste their time on these kinda bitches .. Make sure your relationship is strictly sex and nothing more .
Anyone who is in sales should watch this on how to prevent cancel appts. Stay calm and follow up. 😉
Birdman hand rub as the intro is pure genius pimp.
I have learnt so much from you
Yo Unc said nigga at the end gold 🤣🤣
the bro i never had
I quit trying to pass their little tests. If a woman my age is still playing games, I cut her loose. Fucking with a woman who plays games is like buying a wrecked car. Just move on, it's not worth the trouble.
This video stood the test of time
Preach !!
Great advice 🙌🏻
Kick off the video with the “Birdman Sandusky Handrub.”
Strong finish lol 🤙🏼
They really do flake that bad, it just has to be taken as another test to pass doesn't it?
Benefits of a rotation
Is this strategy the same for online dating vs meeting in person? A girl from a dating app flaked on me, if she hits me up again do I still just invite her over? I ain’t never met her
Ayo man how you doing after 3 years how did that situation go
I was looking for this video that's what's up this is what I'm going through right now should looked at AMS video you keep it 💯👏
Learning From The Goat Himself 🐐💯
5:56 straight. . . .no chaser!
Agree with this. Non attachment, if she hits you up fine.
This Man speaks strait fire 🔥..thanks for the advice brother.
Man this was clutch. I needed this and had to scroll back in the videos to see if u ever talked about it. I know u know what you're talking about becuz I do well with women and pretty much always have but I ran into a flakey ass situation I never ran into today, on her part. I knew not to get mad and to not to pursue after that but I didn't know how I should approach it from that point forward to still get that ass if the situation presents itself lol. Good looking out. Sidenote: I'm going to my other broads house tonight and she never flake. I'm putting the first bitch in the backseat. Yea, that way.
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Thank you.
A man cancels dates cause he has to... women cancel dates cause they have two. I had a girl flake on a date says she was stuck at work. I told her “I appreciate a hard working woman and we can reschedule” she end up calling me later that night came over n got right in the bed. Don’t show you are but hurt
Appreciate that boss great strategies .I wil apply that method.
Good advice.
She flaked on a date twice. The first time she claimed there was an emergency at her Auntie House. The second time she sent me a text saying she's not going to be able to make it cause she's just not in the Mood. Therefore, I replied the following I texted okay, I'm going to make other plans. I haven't contacted her since then.
what happened after?
what if she doesn't call you tho?
Mike Mizzle fuck her. Abundance mindset
Next her
just think about what you're saying. you want to go out with somebody who can't even bother to call you. come on son !
Mike Mizzle the bitch ain’t that special bro stop it... don’t call her ass ever again
Mike Mizzle Get another bitch.
I planned a date for Saturday and Friday I asked in person since we work together, if we’re still on and she said “I’ll let you know”, if anything I’ll invite you over and cook for you”. The day comes and she disappears. She doesn’t initiate contact at all. Doesn’t give a reason why. What to do after? Btw.....This would be the first date.
How that thing went? messing with girls at work kinda risky
@@demoncutter1674 It was quiet like the library haha! Nothing happened. Kept it moving
@@Drstrangelove910 lol I feel u bro cuz that happened to me twice with the same girl I worked with and the flakes were hours before the date and I handled it like ams said and ever since she regret it
Genuinely the best advice! Way too many men act butthurt, like what the hell is thay gonna do
I always do this when women flake on me.
does it work?
Great advice!
Literally happened to me rn. The moment I was about to come over to hers for wine, she said she took some pills for a migraine that won’t go away so she can’t drink. Wanted to reschedule to a Tuesday. I said I understand, feel better. But Tuesday’s won’t work. Sunday nights work best. Hit me up when you feel better. (Exaaaactly like ams said). She said I’m sweet and she will buy the wine and the cheese and crackers cuz she feels bad. (And I was supposed to go to her place anyway in the first place so now I’m double in. Now I just gotta maneuver around her roommates which happen to be her sister and her sisters bf. Fml)
Ah yes the migraine excuse , happened to me just recently , all of my exes have had "migraine" problems. But the never took no medicine for it lol just complained about it
Today I managed to get a number off a dating site, been chatting with the girl this evening and been trying to arrange a meet up. Now she's telling me next week or the following weekend. I was having non of it . To me , that gives her the chance to meet someone else before then and then flake on me . She already told me that she has a datey thing on Wednesday, tonight is only Monday. She wants me to wait till next week or even the following weekend. To me that spells straight flake to me, so didn't schedule nothing with her .
Was I right not to?
Girls from dating sites you need to meet them like the next day . Anything longer they pick up other guys on the sites then they will flake you
Iloyd t I know this post is a few months old but it sound like to me she was a walking flaker waiting to happend, you made the correct move by keeping it pushing.
Always great advice
"Fucking Flakey Bitches" Haa! Dude you are awesome!
100% logical honestly. ANd this strategy I think would help with being able to handle flakes when they happen. Youre treating the flak like you dont give a shit and thats how you should be treating it, why let it phase you? why let it affect your mood? Honestly some good ass advice.
U r my rock ams, I got stood up, first time, I had to hear your voice to feel better from the flake just now. I got a text saying she in ER.
Bro that's exactly what i did, it was the second date with a 9.5 and she flake and said her dad is sick, so i told her: alright text me if you want to meet again, and then she texted me to take her to a restaurant , so i told her if you want to see me again it's gonna be in my place, and it absolutely work!
And it heppend before i watched the video...
This happened to me recently and it took me a few days to got it in my mind 😆
Congrats AMS on reaching 20,000 Subscribers so fast !!
I've heard so many mixed opinions and suggestions about this. Looks like i'm gonna try all and see what works.
What about if she flaked on the first date, and u already invited her to come straight over?? Invited a girl I met online over and canceled like 2hrs before because of "baby sitter issues".... then she randomly messaged me "How's your week going?" 5 days later.... I str8 ignored that shit lol. The night she canceled I told her hmu another time and let's make plans. "How's your week going" seemed more like an attention grab to me than trying to set a date, but I could be wrong. Idk if I'm being too strict but she seemed like she wasn't worth the trouble anyways (hot but divorced single mom, 2 years my senior) 🤷♂️ who knows man
Women arent going to ask you out. Her sending that message was her making herself available and hoping that you would set something up. You should’ve invited her over and if she flakes again THEN you trash the number. But single moms aren’t really worth messing with anyways.
Women rarely are just going to come to your house she doesn't know you yet? you can ask that if she rejects later on but not for a first date.
It just happened to me
She said she couldnt make it, i sent a like emoji
She replied that her cousin invited her out
I replied have fun we can bang some other time
She just replied bang?
Lol I'm tired of childish women
gorillacomando I’m crying 😂😂😂😂
🤣 she wanted the d just scared
lmfaoooo
😂😂😂
Make a level of interest video.... like describing the level or percentage.. you on a roll with these dope videos
Helpful my man
You are fucking legend mate..!! The girl she flaked on me a last 2 weeks I didn’t text her or call her or anything I said let me know when you free and was it and I meet her in club where I work she was all over me and She changed
I agree best strategy on the table in that situation.
I agree with you ahpla 💯👍🔥
Excellent advice
What if I can’t invite her over because I live with my parents?
Then u take her out , go back to her place . Lol keep it cheap , untill u get your place .
That's probably why she flaked on you 😂
God Bless you bro! Just subscribed to the channel, thanks for sharing your wisdom!
what if she says yes she wants you to bring her something? DO you bring her something then? because you just validated her
Omg thanks ams she just flaked!!