I have exactly the same fear when it comes to pregnancy. And I dont know how to manage to deal with it, especially when people around me are judgingly waiting for me to get pregnant. I'm 32 now, andI really hope that you, Clare don't have the same issue in your family, and you can freely decide what you think its best for you!
I don’t have a fear of pregnancy I just think it’s really selfish to bring a child into the world when we are already dealing with overpopulation and how f-Ed up the world already is, it’s much better to adopt a child
@@sophiedenmark7763 I think we should stop being so judgemental of other ppl choice...Wanting a child isn't selfish and it still okay if ppl want to have them naturally in my opinion (sorry if I sound rude or if I make grammar fault english isn't my first language 😅 )
Spoiler Alert for the Video: Okay so if Seji is Nanami’s Dad then I’m really interested to see who her mom is. Her mom would have had to agree to giving nanami to Seji’s Parents. If we ever do get a Nanami and Nita series I’d also like to see that explores as well. Love you Clare!
Thank you for talking about fear of pregnancy! There really is a pressure on women to have babies and it can get really hard. I'm 23, still young, but I already have some friends with kids. But only a thought about it scares me. And not having or wanting kids is totally okay! Can't wait for people to understand it.
I always accept it when others say that they don't want kids, are lgbtq+, or something like that. It's their own life and decision, why would I get mad at someone's decision when it isn't my own life? If I don't understand their decision, I always ask them to explain it instead of just insulting them or saying that it's a bad decision.
I always get a smile on my face when someone speaks openly about their own decisions when they know that there are people who don't support them, because they have the courage to talk about it, instead of keeping it for themselves. It just makes me happy to see that there are still people out there who act like themselves and want to be accepted because of their own opinion, instead of the people who aren't themselves because they want to live up to others expectations.
I decided I wasn't going to have kids at 17 (for a few reasons), and all I ever got was "oh, you'll change your mind when you're older!" Like.. people really thought they knew me better than I knew myself. My one aunt in particular was annoying, she didn't like kids when she was that She, but after 30, She had two. She always brought that up. Like lady. I'm. Not. You... I'm now 20 and engaged, with a partner that shares my thoughts on having children. He was the first person to ever accept my decision of not having children. Honestly, people need to stop pushing the idea that every woman *needs* to have kids. Kids are not for everyone
@@sixxgames7270 Can I say how happy I am to find someone who understands! I've been saying I don't want children since I was 16. And I got exactly the same response, you'll change your mind when you are older. Or as I got older, it would change to "Just wait until you meet the right guy" and "what if he wants children". And even my parents being "Well, we want to be grandparents". Well, I'm not going to have children just because you want to be grandparents.. I even remember a whole discussion with an old coworker who was adamant on 'knowing' that later on I would have children despite me saying I don't want any. Please just respect it if someone says they don't want children (be it men or woman). It's quite annoying to keep having these discussions with people. We know our self and others don't know us better. Everyone has their own reasons for not wanting, or wanting children, so let us respect these decisions and each other
timestamps for who needs it :) 0:58 Zoe-Rose Bloome's Parentage 4:22 Summer's non-pregnancy storyline 7:21 Ethan was supposed to die really quickly 9:35 Cody was supposed to die 13:44 Alonzo ages up 17:58: Nanami's secret heritage hope it helps!
as much as thid may help it does spoil the tea for people😔. also in Clares last one of this she said not to do this. so if you could edit this to be tea number 1,2 etc that would be great!
yes to a nanami & nita series!! yessss to an alice and alonzo series!! and if you end up having time...can we see what kota and kenai are up to? edit: funny how each pairs names start with the same letters. lol
Watching this back knowing she has a child is really special. It really shows how much a person can grow in a relatively short time. So proud of you Clare sending love to all 6 of you!
I can't get the thought of Cody's daughter going to his grave as a teen and just talking to him about school and how Aria is doing after the Cody's death out of my head now
@@sophiagough-solar3969 I'm sorry I didn't mean too I also was thinking about his daughter pulling a raven and trying to bring him back and breaking the curse between witches and vampires and being the reason why Cody got back his immortality if that makes you feel any better
I love that Summer never had children, I never want children and it makes me sad that my family gets angry at me for that just because I'm a woman. So thank you for that Clare 💗
Same here, I’m asexual but haven’t come out yet so I’ve only said I don’t want kids. When they insist and insist that I’ll want kids I want to just scream that I’m ace but then they would freak out
Same. I have tochophobia like Claire and don't really like kids anyways and my family thinks its weird and tried to change my mind. I have 7 siblings and lots of kids in my family and I'm the only one other than my aunt that doesn't like kids. I'm sorry, I know how you feel
Can we just take a second to admire how well thought out Clare makes all her plots. Not only does she make each sim individually great and have their own backstory, she also includes all races, body types and sexuality. I’ve never been too big on sims but the way Clare portrays each of them, makes me love each of her series!
It's just amazing how she says that some of the women/couples don't want children, because that is a reality. Or having some natural flaws or being overweight, which, again, naturallll
@@v-underground i don't actually think there are many white sims maybe paler sims (salma was arabic so all the callery aikens are darker skined and nita koda and kenai are half native american, summer seb and sage are half chinese , val is italian so zoey is half italian,max was latino so the villareals are part latin abel is half sweedish, the jetts adopted kiara who is dark skinned and had carrie and hunter who are black hunter married a latina and had triplets and the robins are white but faith married kaden who is also dark skinned, nanami and seji are japanese, pam even tho it really dosen't show is half african,
Sammy’s the only sim left with Emma’s DNA. If he doesn’t have a child, Emma’s branch of the family ends with his death. I don’t want it to happen, so I’m also hoping that they have a child or at least that Sammy becomes a donor so the DNA gets passed down to the next generation.
I'm the same way Claire!! I do not want kids. I have known from a really young age that I do not want kids. It has taken me a lot to get to the mindset that it is okay to not want kids. I love my niece and other people's kids, but I too get anxiety and have fear around getting pregnant and having kids of my own. Personally I like that you went down that road with Summer's storyline because not everyone has kids some don't want them and others can't have them. So it made sense that not all of your sims do have children. I love your channel and what you do with your series. Keep it up 😊
Same! I have the exact same feelings, though when I was really young I always wanted kids. But as I got older, I realized that having them just isn't something I want anymore. And that's okay! ❤
i always used to think my fear was irrational, but now this has made me realize i'm not alone! i know i'm young & opinions change, but the entire process of pregnancy terrifies me.
I’m so glad you talked about your fears of pregnancy! I’ve been with my hubby 12 years and always had an insane fear of getting pregnant and having children to the point where it was crippling to my relationship. I knew I never wanted to be a mother and have received a LOT of criticism over it, especially when I had my tubes removed. But now my pregnancy fears are gone and my relationship is so much better for it. I’ve always felt broken for my lack of maternal feelings but it’s nice knowing I’m not alone!! ❤️
The amount of progression Clare has made in the Sims is so amazing to me. When I first started watching her series it was really sweet to watch her learn more and more about the game and watch how her characters were portrayed and how their lives played out. But now I see the amount of dedication and time she puts into the storylines which I so highly respect. She’s inspired me to start my own little series (to myself) and it’s been really sweet to learn how to play the game with Clare.
I don’t know if this has been answered in a video already or not but is anyone else curious about the rags to riches fam? Like where are they all now? I wanna know about Koda bear🥺
Camryn Rae Koda is only a tiny bit older than Nita, they were born like an episode apart I think so he’s probably still a young adult like Nita, almost an adult I’m sure.
Camryn Rae I know, I wasn’t trying to be rude I was just trying to remind you because we haven’t seen Koda in a while. I’m sorry if it came across like I was being rude
As a girl who doesn't want kids and is also super weirded out by pregnancy, thank you for sticking with Summer's storyline. Please don't feel alone in your fears!
Me: I have to study Also me: watching this video RIP my grades xD Edit: Good Luck everyone and thanks for the likes 💜💜this is the most I have ever got on a comment 💜💜🍀Good Luck everyone
I saw the tea in the thumbnail and I was like "she means business" Edit: I have toca phobia too and I get judged for it as well. In fact, my fear of pregnancy is so "strong/bad" that I get worried and nauseous when I see pregnant women AND children in general. Hope you know your not the only one with this 🥰
I for one would love to see Summer’s reaction to finding out THE BIG secret. Or maybe her and Seji’s (I know I butchered that spelling, I’m so sorry)relationship is built with so much trust that he has already told her and that she loves and respects him enough to keep his secret. But the fact that Summer knew before her could be some real drama
I know this would be a difficult vid to make, but is there any chance that we could have a little re-cap of the original Sims series? I discovered the channel after quite a lot of the videos from Dream House came out. I love the series so much 💜
I’m scared of looking in mirrors, everyone thinks that it’s stupid but it makes me feel uncomfortable and sometimes my mind makes me see things in the mirror and I feel petrified.
So idea for a new series -Alonzo,Alice and Zoë move in together -Alonzo has an eating disorder and is trying to hide it -Alice and Zoë eventually figure out and try to help him -Alonzo tries to get better but is still slipping into his old habits And it would be triggering for some people but it would help raise awareness, especially with a male eating disorder storyline.
Jolette Lima I understand but she always says she wants more diversity, yet she changes everyone to be buff?? Btw I’m not hating, I love Clare so much.
I love these behind the scenes videos, it's so nice to hear the thought process about how stories went and the off camera goods we missed. It also made me really want more series. There's so many interesting characters floating around with so much potential. I'm sure it's easier for Clare to manage with less series but I'm rewatching the whole series currently and it was so special when the days of Dream House, In the City, In the Suburbs, Cats and Dogs, and Broken Dream were all interwoven but following different plots at the same time. Its silly but I'm so attached to the world and family she's built and I miss visiting each of them, getting attached to a new generation and series, and then the excitement of the series that spins off from it.
I loved Summers storyline! I also have the same fear. And I've always known it. So even now at 31 I still fear it and from that decided I don't want it. So Summers story was refreshing.
Loved this episode and shocked about the last tea fact but it makes since and I love it, i really think that you need to do something with Alice, Zoe rose and Alonzo hopefully a new pack comes out soon that will fit them but if not I think you should do a road to fame season 2 with them or a uni series but with Alice as the main and Zoe rose and Alonzo as side characters, also I would love to see a namita mini series. Also I loved that you have made references to Charlie rose she was my favourite character ever and so I'm glad to see pieces of her live on like the rose part of Zoe rose and the eye colour and everything so thank you love this video so much
nita and nanami together still tear me up for some reason. the fact that they have the same familiars is so heartwarming. i'd be happy to see a series about them. and alonso and alice need their own asap! also, i think we all would like to know how is kota and kenai are doing.
I am glad that you have told us about your fear of pregnancy because it lets me relate to you on a different level. I am to very scared of pregnancy and birth. And it is okay to feel these things because it is your life and you are in charge of it and you should not let people on the internet push you to do something you don't want to do.
Plzz make all of the potential series you mentioned - they all sound amazing!! Alice, Zoe Rose & Alonzo ❤️ Cody and smol vamp baby ❤️ Nita and Nanami ❤️ I need more of the Callery-Aiken clan in my life!!
love the sims tea ☕️☕️☕️☕️ also don’t ever feel pressured to have a baby just because you fans want you to, having a baby is a big decision and would change your life. we will support you either way! love you clare 💗💗💗
I wish that we did get to see that japan centric episode of R.o.M, but either way a Nita and Nami series would be great! Also potentially a series on Cody and his decision to raise his daughter would be awesome too? Ahhh I love these tea videos
Ohhh, I also have a deep pregnancy fear. I can't even look at a pregnant person without feeling ill and squeamish. I'm almost 28, my husband is 31, and his mom really wants grandchildren but that's just not happening for us. My husband doesn't want children for ethical reasons, so it was never even a conversation. Same thing with newborns, I can't look at newborns. Better than I used to be, I'm okay once the baby is around 6 months old, then I can change diapers and play and all that. I'm low-key offended that people would be miffed about a sim not having babies, like that's so messed up on so many levels.
I have *hemophobia* (extreme fear of blood) and *traumatophobia* (extreme fear of having an injury/a surgery that could potentially save my life) and whenever my mom say something like "One day you're gonna be pregnant/have kids too" I start panicking. I'm really really scared of ever being pregnant too (even tho I'm too young to think about that lol) so I'm really have Clare actually went with that kind of storyline with Summer! 😊 Ty for reading my vent-like-comment-thingy lmao 💞😂
*NO ONE should put pressure on a person to do something with their body!* I always get told I'm irrational for not wanting to be pregnant and not wanting children. Or worse I get treated like my opinion is some nonsense and "I'll change my mind". So THANK YOU Clare for keeping Summer's storyline about her and her own happiness with a fulfilling life without any babaroos.
ugh my 💖!! Love & Appreciate your addition for a Non-Pregnancy Storyline, I'm subscribed to a lot of UA-camrs that are getting married/or simply aging older than 25 that are receiving that inescapable pregnancy peer-pressure that I'm sure we all adore. The belief that a woman's (or anyone) life is incomplete without the addition of children is flawed and unfair. Was pleasantly surprised by the route you took since most of your sims have the usual marriage-then-kids combo, and was excited to see an equally happy storyline without one. You seem more & more comfortable to include healthy and underrepresented storylines, and Clare we thank you☀️.
ok nita and nanami are getting a huge approval from everyone in the comments but i did want to add (for no importance) that nanami reminds me of chloe from life is strange and would look fantastic with blue hair :)
wow thank you for opening up about your tokophobia. i feel the same way and it's nice to know i'm not the only one. i'm sorry you have to deal with the pressure of not only family and friends (possibly) but all of social media to do something that is pretty much completely out of the question for you.
**Me thinking we won't have any CAS in this video** Also me: wait this is Clare, I bet there will be. Clare: Alright, let's see how Alonzo would've looked like as a teen! **Goes into CAS** Me: I KNEW IT
Yes yes yes! Clare, you mention three great ideas: I think most of us, Faith fans specially, would love to follow up on Cody's storyline with his half-vampire princess and her struggles with this species identity issue... Maybe trying out the city? Regarding next gen going to college, maybe one of Pamela's sister will try college as an adult and find that her rommates are Callery-Aiken descendants (you could even switch who to play by episode + cross over vibes) And, even if you will leave behind Island living entirely, Nanami could blackmail her dad to give her a micro home if you get what I am saying from where she could master all kinds of magic while dealing with her life being a lie and her sexual identity a headache (for how it is regarded in her culture or by her mom, even) giving space for ammens towards Raven, reconnect with Nita and glances of Summer, our fav star... I mean, I feel intrigued and these are characters worth watching (please include Koda in college or something please) and adding Cain current living situation this year promises interesting plots for everyone... Love what you did, even if I have not watched that jungle episode #Brokendream
Thank you so much for talking about the fear of pregnancy. I’m 28 and find it so hard to tell people I don’t want ‘natural’ kids or potentially kids at all. It’s comforting to feel understood. ❤️
Maybe Cody’s child should carry on his story. It might be a nice little side story where she finds out everything Cody wanted to know to continue his legacy
I would LOVE to see a Nita and nami series! The readtions of not only nami but summer as well, would make for an interesting storyline. 😁 Anyway I hope you have a great day and are happy!
I've always been extremely afraid of pregnancy and people always tell me that my mind is going to change, so hearing it being talked about (and hearing that it's not weird) is really nice. Lol maybe I'm being overly sentimental but I had no idea this was a phobia and that other people felt this way too. Honestly ty :)
No one:
Zoe Rose: *cries in louis vuitton*
Can't stop laughing at this!!
Lmao
First world problems...
Hey, I just wanna say, the sim in your profile picture is beautiful!
Lol true
7:06 rewatching this now that she has a little baby of her own is so cute idk how to explain it but made me happy lmao
That moment when Clare tells us she was gonna kill like half the sims....
As much as I’d hate it, I think she should sometimes. As it’s very hard for Sims to die naturally
But she also revives them when some die
Helpahelplessnonexistingsoul Out LITERALLY SAME BRO I MISS HER
Kaylee same!
@Edgymnerch eh Eve was evil and she also killed Raven and a lot of people
I have exactly the same fear when it comes to pregnancy. And I dont know how to manage to deal with it, especially when people around me are judgingly waiting for me to get pregnant. I'm 32 now, andI really hope that you, Clare don't have the same issue in your family, and you can freely decide what you think its best for you!
I’m young but I have nightmares about pregnancy and I’m good with kids but I don’t want any babies of my own
I don’t have a fear of pregnancy I just think it’s really selfish to bring a child into the world when we are already dealing with overpopulation and how f-Ed up the world already is, it’s much better to adopt a child
@@sophiedenmark7763 I think we should stop being so judgemental of other ppl choice...Wanting a child isn't selfish and it still okay if ppl want to have them naturally in my opinion (sorry if I sound rude or if I make grammar fault english isn't my first language 😅 )
@@elianabrinker9055 same here
Clare: sips tea
Me: sips peach juice
Young Sammy: sips alcohol
Cody: sips plasma juice
Nita: sips potions
Koda: sips honey
Annabelle Helin me: In bed hiding from my parents
jana mowafy why
Hiiiiiiii clare I have a phobia of being pregnant aswell
Sip sention
Annabelle Helin
🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃
When I saw Ryder (Codys daughter) I was like: OMG, she kinda looks a lot like Faith! And then I realise Faith was Codys biological mother.....
Omg I forgot!
Wait what do you mean ryder her name is ryder as well??
@@w1u4 cody named his child after rider that's why it's called ryder
@@oa_games2234 oh i didnt know
I totally forgot about thattt !!
Spoiler Alert for the Video: Okay so if Seji is Nanami’s Dad then I’m really interested to see who her mom is. Her mom would have had to agree to giving nanami to Seji’s Parents. If we ever do get a Nanami and Nita series I’d also like to see that explores as well. Love you Clare!
Perfect
What if she died during childbirth.
Camryn Rae if I was summer I would be pissed
I know right
Alice Mckinney He’s boy that’s his sister
"I'm thirty years old"
Me: Say sike rn.
Legit tho I thought you were like 24 at most.
Actually she made her first video when she was 24-25 and her sims videos when she was 28
Haha~ she does really look younger doesn’t she?~
AllisonAllura is she looks so young
RIIIGGGGHHHTTTTT I was like "Thiiiiiiiiiirrrttttttyyyyyyy????" Clare u look so freakin good
But like, 30 is still really young.
Thank you for talking about fear of pregnancy! There really is a pressure on women to have babies and it can get really hard. I'm 23, still young, but I already have some friends with kids. But only a thought about it scares me. And not having or wanting kids is totally okay! Can't wait for people to understand it.
I always accept it when others say that they don't want kids, are lgbtq+, or something like that. It's their own life and decision, why would I get mad at someone's decision when it isn't my own life? If I don't understand their decision, I always ask them to explain it instead of just insulting them or saying that it's a bad decision.
I always get a smile on my face when someone speaks openly about their own decisions when they know that there are people who don't support them, because they have the courage to talk about it, instead of keeping it for themselves. It just makes me happy to see that there are still people out there who act like themselves and want to be accepted because of their own opinion, instead of the people who aren't themselves because they want to live up to others expectations.
I decided I wasn't going to have kids at 17 (for a few reasons), and all I ever got was "oh, you'll change your mind when you're older!" Like.. people really thought they knew me better than I knew myself. My one aunt in particular was annoying, she didn't like kids when she was that She, but after 30, She had two. She always brought that up. Like lady. I'm. Not. You... I'm now 20 and engaged, with a partner that shares my thoughts on having children. He was the first person to ever accept my decision of not having children. Honestly, people need to stop pushing the idea that every woman *needs* to have kids. Kids are not for everyone
@@sixxgames7270 Can I say how happy I am to find someone who understands! I've been saying I don't want children since I was 16. And I got exactly the same response, you'll change your mind when you are older. Or as I got older, it would change to "Just wait until you meet the right guy" and "what if he wants children". And even my parents being "Well, we want to be grandparents". Well, I'm not going to have children just because you want to be grandparents.. I even remember a whole discussion with an old coworker who was adamant on 'knowing' that later on I would have children despite me saying I don't want any. Please just respect it if someone says they don't want children (be it men or woman). It's quite annoying to keep having these discussions with people. We know our self and others don't know us better. Everyone has their own reasons for not wanting, or wanting children, so let us respect these decisions and each other
it's the same with me
timestamps for who needs it :)
0:58 Zoe-Rose Bloome's Parentage
4:22 Summer's non-pregnancy storyline
7:21 Ethan was supposed to die really quickly
9:35 Cody was supposed to die
13:44 Alonzo ages up
17:58: Nanami's secret heritage
hope it helps!
thank you love 😚
i did this for the last tea video and i didnt get this many likes lmao but thank you this did help uwu
Thanks
tysm!! I always skip through some by accident
as much as thid may help it does spoil the tea for people😔. also in Clares last one of this she said not to do this. so if you could edit this to be tea number 1,2 etc that would be great!
yes to a nanami & nita series!! yessss to an alice and alonzo series!! and if you end up having time...can we see what kota and kenai are up to?
edit: funny how each pairs names start with the same letters. lol
Camryn Rae TEAAAAA
I agree with you!!!!
🤯
maybe seji and summer tell them because they know their about to die then the girls move into the mansion and become famous?!
*and zoe rose
Watching this back knowing she has a child is really special. It really shows how much a person can grow in a relatively short time. So proud of you Clare sending love to all 6 of you!
I can't get the thought of Cody's daughter going to his grave as a teen and just talking to him about school and how Aria is doing after the Cody's death out of my head now
Whyyy do you make me so sad?! 😭
@@sophiagough-solar3969 I'm sorry I didn't mean too I also was thinking about his daughter pulling a raven and trying to bring him back and breaking the curse between witches and vampires and being the reason why Cody got back his immortality if that makes you feel any better
@@TragicPixels Oh lord....
I don't want to cry - Cody's not dead yet!
@@justanothermoron I'm sorry
@@TragicPixels aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
It's fine tho...
Clare: Sips her tea.
Me: Sips peach juice.
Me again: Isn't it ment to be the other way round?
I read that then looked at your pic lmao
@@geneblunck9557 what u mean
Yes I’m a nerd and it’s meant ;( I’m nerdy
thats the exact same thing i said-
@@karlbeejamie9725 well i said it first
I love that Summer never had children, I never want children and it makes me sad that my family gets angry at me for that just because I'm a woman. So thank you for that Clare 💗
Same. I never want children. It's nothing bad!
I hate when people judge me because of that.
Same here - everyone is always super rude when they find that out, but it's my life and I simply don't want kids. It shouldn't be such a taboo thing.
Same here, I’m asexual but haven’t come out yet so I’ve only said I don’t want kids. When they insist and insist that I’ll want kids I want to just scream that I’m ace but then they would freak out
A K would you adopt?
Same. I have tochophobia like Claire and don't really like kids anyways and my family thinks its weird and tried to change my mind. I have 7 siblings and lots of kids in my family and I'm the only one other than my aunt that doesn't like kids. I'm sorry, I know how you feel
6:20 don’t feel pressured by anyone, it’s your life and your decisions ❤️❤️❤️ and we love you no matter what
Can we just take a second to admire how well thought out Clare makes all her plots. Not only does she make each sim individually great and have their own backstory, she also includes all races, body types and sexuality. I’ve never been too big on sims but the way Clare portrays each of them, makes me love each of her series!
Yea!! I agree, she puts so much thought into everything !!
It's just amazing how she says that some of the women/couples don't want children, because that is a reality. Or having some natural flaws or being overweight, which, again, naturallll
i disagree. hardly diverse even though there’s some. so many white sims.
@@v-underground i don't actually think there are many white sims maybe paler sims (salma was arabic so all the callery aikens are darker skined and nita koda and kenai are half native american, summer seb and sage are half chinese , val is italian so zoey is half italian,max was latino so the villareals are part latin abel is half sweedish, the jetts adopted kiara who is dark skinned and had carrie and hunter who are black hunter married a latina and had triplets and the robins are white but faith married kaden who is also dark skinned, nanami and seji are japanese, pam even tho it really dosen't show is half african,
@Jolette Lima yeah i went a little bit overbroad sorry😅 and i thought italian people were latin
AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT IS SOOOO TRIGGERED ABOUT DREAM HOUSE? CLARE SAID THAT SHE WILL STOP IT TO 100 BUT THE LAST WAS 99😅
I wasn’t triggered before but now I am cause I didn’t realize that 😤
You are not alone😤😤😤😤
I thought it was like 108
@@katherineanne2068 if you count the building and the Cas videos
@@CTvvv...7343 oh yeah
Nobody:
Literally nobody:
Not even sammy b:
Clare: *SiPs TeA*
Me
PuppyLove369 WHERES THE PEACH JUICE? Lmao
‘Not even Sammy b’ XD
I hate this comments sm
cute22running 's why dude?
i find it sweet how far she has come in not wanting to be pregnant because of fear and ohobia to having given birth to her son
I'd love to see Cody doing one last experiment : Helping Sammy and Ethan have a child the same way he did with Val and Chase.
PLEASE WE NEED THOSE BEAUTIFULL GENES 🤩😂❤
But sammy is an elder now tho
@@alishag933 but ethan isn't
@@alishag933 Cody is an elder and has a toddler, I think it would be fine but it's all up to Clare.
Sammy’s the only sim left with Emma’s DNA. If he doesn’t have a child, Emma’s branch of the family ends with his death. I don’t want it to happen, so I’m also hoping that they have a child or at least that Sammy becomes a donor so the DNA gets passed down to the next generation.
I'd love to see Nita and Nami be together in a series as the main characters.
Wish granted
I mean I dont necessarily ship nita and nanami
You must have been very exited
@@oa_games2234 well they're married now so... 😅😅
@Emma Lang they weren't married when she commented though
I'm the same way Claire!! I do not want kids. I have known from a really young age that I do not want kids. It has taken me a lot to get to the mindset that it is okay to not want kids. I love my niece and other people's kids, but I too get anxiety and have fear around getting pregnant and having kids of my own. Personally I like that you went down that road with Summer's storyline because not everyone has kids some don't want them and others can't have them. So it made sense that not all of your sims do have children. I love your channel and what you do with your series. Keep it up 😊
Same! I have the exact same feelings, though when I was really young I always wanted kids. But as I got older, I realized that having them just isn't something I want anymore. And that's okay! ❤
I guess I’ve just always assumed that I would have children one day but I hate the idea of pregnancy so like ew
i always used to think my fear was irrational, but now this has made me realize i'm not alone! i know i'm young & opinions change, but the entire process of pregnancy terrifies me.
Hold on, she’s 30! I actually thought she was like 24!
I am high key shocked
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The swedish Potato lol 😂🤣
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The swedish Potato lololol
5:54 CLARE IS 30 !!!!!!
She looks wayyyyy younger
Yeah! That was kind of a shocker to me, not that 30 is old just she looks more early to mid twenties
She does wear make up
Yeah she looks like she is in her twenties
@@hannahbanana9901 makeup doesn't hide much, and she wears very minimal makeup.
She made her first vid when she was 24-25 and sims videos at 28
Clare I really want a series with ALICE STREET!
Yessss and a series with nami & nita tooo
Yesss, or Kenai and Kai, they should be old enough now I think
@Camryn Rae yeah me too 😂
zoey and alonzo too!!
I’m so glad you talked about your fears of pregnancy! I’ve been with my hubby 12 years and always had an insane fear of getting pregnant and having children to the point where it was crippling to my relationship. I knew I never wanted to be a mother and have received a LOT of criticism over it, especially when I had my tubes removed. But now my pregnancy fears are gone and my relationship is so much better for it. I’ve always felt broken for my lack of maternal feelings but it’s nice knowing I’m not alone!! ❤️
Clare when she sees Alonzo as a teen: 🤤🤤🤤🤤
Ali: Am I a joke to you?
The amount of progression Clare has made in the Sims is so amazing to me. When I first started watching her series it was really sweet to watch her learn more and more about the game and watch how her characters were portrayed and how their lives played out. But now I see the amount of dedication and time she puts into the storylines which I so highly respect. She’s inspired me to start my own little series (to myself) and it’s been really sweet to learn how to play the game with Clare.
I love how Cody’s still getting the tea😂😂
Alice Mckinney I hope that next time if Cody is dead his daughter gets the tea!! 😮😁😆
@@kalanym or maybe gost cody
the fact that ypur pregnant now is so great so proud of u clare
I don’t know if this has been answered in a video already or not but is anyone else curious about the rags to riches fam? Like where are they all now? I wanna know about Koda bear🥺
Yes me too!
Camryn Rae Koda is only a tiny bit older than Nita, they were born like an episode apart I think so he’s probably still a young adult like Nita, almost an adult I’m sure.
I miss Koda too. I want an episode about him moving into the new micro house Clare built. 🏠🐻🐝
Camryn Rae I know, I wasn’t trying to be rude I was just trying to remind you because we haven’t seen Koda in a while. I’m sorry if it came across like I was being rude
@@Woralie yes justice for koda he needs it! his ace/aro storyline hasn't even started
As a girl who doesn't want kids and is also super weirded out by pregnancy, thank you for sticking with Summer's storyline. Please don't feel alone in your fears!
Me: I have to study
Also me: watching this video
RIP my grades xD
Edit: Good Luck everyone and thanks for the likes 💜💜this is the most I have ever got on a comment 💜💜🍀Good Luck everyone
same
Yup same
omg same
Same!
Same I gotta study for Mt French test tomorrow
aww, and Clare's pregnant now and she looking and doing amazing
Where’s the tea? On the floor. Clare spilt it.
I saw the tea in the thumbnail and I was like "she means business"
Edit: I have toca phobia too and I get judged for it as well. In fact, my fear of pregnancy is so "strong/bad" that I get worried and nauseous when I see pregnant women AND children in general. Hope you know your not the only one with this 🥰
Last time I was this early, Lilith wasn’t even born...
I for one would love to see Summer’s reaction to finding out THE BIG secret. Or maybe her and Seji’s (I know I butchered that spelling, I’m so sorry)relationship is built with so much trust that he has already told her and that she loves and respects him enough to keep his secret. But the fact that Summer knew before her could be some real drama
when you’re so early the comments don’t even show up
What if Cody died and his daughter dedicated her time towards bringing him back to laugh so they can be immortal together
Abby Da' girl That is kinda cute.
The whole bringing someone back from the dead thing has already been done though.
Mhm
Abby Da' girl that would be neat
That kinda sounds like Raven and Phoenix's plot
I know this would be a difficult vid to make, but is there any chance that we could have a little re-cap of the original Sims series? I discovered the channel after quite a lot of the videos from Dream House came out. I love the series so much 💜
I’m scared of looking in mirrors, everyone thinks that it’s stupid but it makes me feel uncomfortable and sometimes my mind makes me see things in the mirror and I feel petrified.
So idea for a new series
-Alonzo,Alice and Zoë move in together
-Alonzo has an eating disorder and is trying to hide it
-Alice and Zoë eventually figure out and try to help him
-Alonzo tries to get better but is still slipping into his old habits
And it would be triggering for some people but it would help raise awareness, especially with a male eating disorder storyline.
Yes plz omg
Doubt she’ll do this tbh cause she doesn’t know a lot about ED’s so doesn’t want to misinform or offend
Some people are naturally thin...
There’s no need to do an ED storyline.
taylormxrie I completely agree. I still don’t like how she changed Cody’s body type because it wasn’t to “her taste”.
Jolette Lima I understand but she always says she wants more diversity, yet she changes everyone to be buff?? Btw I’m not hating, I love Clare so much.
I love these behind the scenes videos, it's so nice to hear the thought process about how stories went and the off camera goods we missed. It also made me really want more series. There's so many interesting characters floating around with so much potential. I'm sure it's easier for Clare to manage with less series but I'm rewatching the whole series currently and it was so special when the days of Dream House, In the City, In the Suburbs, Cats and Dogs, and Broken Dream were all interwoven but following different plots at the same time. Its silly but I'm so attached to the world and family she's built and I miss visiting each of them, getting attached to a new generation and series, and then the excitement of the series that spins off from it.
I loved Summers storyline! I also have the same fear. And I've always known it. So even now at 31 I still fear it and from that decided I don't want it. So Summers story was refreshing.
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Clare : she’s sejis daughter
Me: laughing so hard because I can’t believe it true
omg I was just watching the entire series as clare uploaded this. Idk if I can watch yet since i’m not done but I want to so badly
is anyone else watching this after she gave birth to Theo?
Loved this episode and shocked about the last tea fact but it makes since and I love it, i really think that you need to do something with Alice, Zoe rose and Alonzo hopefully a new pack comes out soon that will fit them but if not I think you should do a road to fame season 2 with them or a uni series but with Alice as the main and Zoe rose and Alonzo as side characters, also I would love to see a namita mini series. Also I loved that you have made references to Charlie rose she was my favourite character ever and so I'm glad to see pieces of her live on like the rose part of Zoe rose and the eye colour and everything so thank you love this video so much
nita and nanami together still tear me up for some reason. the fact that they have the same familiars is so heartwarming. i'd be happy to see a series about them. and alonso and alice need their own asap!
also, i think we all would like to know how is kota and kenai are doing.
I would love to see a series with nita and nami, that last tea fact shocked me!!
You what's nice Clare had this fear and she I believe is currently pregnant despite having that fear in the past so good job to you Clare 😃
I WOULD LOVE a series with Nanami and Nita, maybe then having a baby with the magic
I am glad that you have told us about your fear of pregnancy because it lets me relate to you on a different level. I am to very scared of pregnancy and birth. And it is okay to feel these things because it is your life and you are in charge of it and you should not let people on the internet push you to do something you don't want to do.
I died when Clare said “tea of EVERY single flavour 😶” 😂
Plzz make all of the potential series you mentioned - they all sound amazing!!
Alice, Zoe Rose & Alonzo ❤️
Cody and smol vamp baby ❤️
Nita and Nanami ❤️
I need more of the Callery-Aiken clan in my life!!
Emma Neely I agree also...
I agree!!!
love the sims tea ☕️☕️☕️☕️
also don’t ever feel pressured to have a baby just because you fans want you to, having a baby is a big decision and would change your life. we will support you either way! love you clare 💗💗💗
Two bros chilling in their house, five feet apart cause they're *"household members"*
Me: Ugh I have a Spanish test tomorrow and a huge headache so I’ll just revise a bit and go to sleep early.
This video: *exists*
Me: Then again...
I wish that we did get to see that japan centric episode of R.o.M, but either way a Nita and Nami series would be great! Also potentially a series on Cody and his decision to raise his daughter would be awesome too? Ahhh I love these tea videos
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Ohhh, I also have a deep pregnancy fear. I can't even look at a pregnant person without feeling ill and squeamish. I'm almost 28, my husband is 31, and his mom really wants grandchildren but that's just not happening for us. My husband doesn't want children for ethical reasons, so it was never even a conversation.
Same thing with newborns, I can't look at newborns. Better than I used to be, I'm okay once the baby is around 6 months old, then I can change diapers and play and all that.
I'm low-key offended that people would be miffed about a sim not having babies, like that's so messed up on so many levels.
Is it just me, or when vampires drink out of the plasma packs it looks like they're drinking Capri-Sun??
I have *hemophobia* (extreme fear of blood) and *traumatophobia* (extreme fear of having an injury/a surgery that could potentially save my life) and whenever my mom say something like "One day you're gonna be pregnant/have kids too" I start panicking. I'm really really scared of ever being pregnant too (even tho I'm too young to think about that lol) so I'm really have Clare actually went with that kind of storyline with Summer! 😊
Ty for reading my vent-like-comment-thingy lmao 💞😂
I HAVE WAITED SOOO LONG FOR THISSSS- it was one of my fave vids ever!!!!
you are an actual goddess ilysm
*NO ONE should put pressure on a person to do something with their body!*
I always get told I'm irrational for not wanting to be pregnant and not wanting children. Or worse I get treated like my opinion is some nonsense and "I'll change my mind". So THANK YOU Clare for keeping Summer's storyline about her and her own happiness with a fulfilling life without any babaroos.
I would literally LOVE to see a series with nanami and nita like my hapa japanese self is QUAKING LMAOOO
Would you think that she would believe us if we told her that she literally has a baby boy now?😂😭
Nah I wa scrolling in the comments here to see if someone would of mentioned it
Yass been waiting for this vid!! ❤️❤️
Clare biting her lip and thirsting over a sim whilst designing him is the most relatable thing ever. 😉😂😍
Yass, ive been looking forward to one of these for agessss!!! Love these
i’m not even kidding. you should become a fantasy author. your story lines are so interesting and well developed
clare, you look gorgeous❤️
ugh my 💖!!
Love & Appreciate your addition for a Non-Pregnancy Storyline, I'm subscribed to a lot of UA-camrs that are getting married/or simply aging older than 25 that are receiving that inescapable pregnancy peer-pressure that I'm sure we all adore. The belief that a woman's (or anyone) life is incomplete without the addition of children is flawed and unfair. Was pleasantly surprised by the route you took since most of your sims have the usual marriage-then-kids combo, and was excited to see an equally happy storyline without one. You seem more & more comfortable to include healthy and underrepresented storylines, and Clare we thank you☀️.
I’m really missing your bitlife controls my sims series please can you do another one or an update on violets family! Also so happy I’m early!
Clare is amazing that she comes out about her own insecuritys and most people don't do that so thank you clare thank you ❤️♥️
I would have loved to see Nami’s storyline, could you do a mini series about that please ❤️?
Who’s watching this after Clare was pregnant?
yoo
Absolute yes to a followup on Nita nanami! I would looove to see them together and also go deeper into Nanami's origins 😍
Yesss a Nita and Nanami series!
YESSSSS do the Seji and his sisster (daughter) also did Nanamis mother die during childbirth??
ok nita and nanami are getting a huge approval from everyone in the comments but i did want to add (for no importance) that nanami reminds me of chloe from life is strange and would look fantastic with blue hair :)
O mah gawhd yesss
My French teacher severely burned herself with her tea. That’s the tea
Yes please make a Nita and Nanami series
And that’s ten tea sis!
Love u Clare!❤️❤️
wow thank you for opening up about your tokophobia. i feel the same way and it's nice to know i'm not the only one. i'm sorry you have to deal with the pressure of not only family and friends (possibly) but all of social media to do something that is pretty much completely out of the question for you.
Claire: *mentions Stranger Things*
Me: sTrANgEr tHiNgS?? When did this happen!
Yesss do a nita/nami series! I think they would be absolutely perfect in a tiny house too. I just get those vibes from them.
**Me thinking we won't have any CAS in this video**
Also me: wait this is Clare, I bet there will be.
Clare: Alright, let's see how Alonzo would've looked like as a teen! **Goes into CAS**
Me: I KNEW IT
Yes yes yes!
Clare, you mention three great ideas:
I think most of us, Faith fans specially, would love to follow up on Cody's storyline with his half-vampire princess and her struggles with this species identity issue... Maybe trying out the city?
Regarding next gen going to college, maybe one of Pamela's sister will try college as an adult and find that her rommates are Callery-Aiken descendants (you could even switch who to play by episode + cross over vibes)
And, even if you will leave behind Island living entirely, Nanami could blackmail her dad to give her a micro home if you get what I am saying from where she could master all kinds of magic while dealing with her life being a lie and her sexual identity a headache (for how it is regarded in her culture or by her mom, even) giving space for ammens towards Raven, reconnect with Nita and glances of Summer, our fav star...
I mean, I feel intrigued and these are characters worth watching (please include Koda in college or something please) and adding Cain current living situation this year promises interesting plots for everyone... Love what you did, even if I have not watched that jungle episode #Brokendream
You should do a series with Alonzo, Alice, and Zoe maybe one of them could live in the tiny house 🤔
Can you upload these households to the gallery
Clares hair looks so good 😍😍😍
I’m re watching this and Clare is pregnant now…
Thank you so much for talking about the fear of pregnancy. I’m 28 and find it so hard to tell people I don’t want ‘natural’ kids or potentially kids at all. It’s comforting to feel understood. ❤️
Maybe Cody’s child should carry on his story. It might be a nice little side story where she finds out everything Cody wanted to know to continue his legacy
I would LOVE to see a Nita and nami series! The readtions of not only nami but summer as well, would make for an interesting storyline. 😁 Anyway I hope you have a great day and are happy!
Alice should be a character in a tiny living series
I've always been extremely afraid of pregnancy and people always tell me that my mind is going to change, so hearing it being talked about (and hearing that it's not weird) is really nice. Lol maybe I'm being overly sentimental but I had no idea this was a phobia and that other people felt this way too. Honestly ty :)