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Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign... No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning. --you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
YES Alux, I understand completely that other people can't read my mind, and iam proud to say that. #TRUEALUXER I would also add one more thing to the list "I should be emotionally strong and know when to 'show' emotional weakness" I learnt this from Francis Underwood ✌️
15 Signs you’re emotionally mature 1. You chose your words carefully before you respond 2. You understand how you feel and can read that into people 3. You appreciate the little things in life 4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing 5.Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place 6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally 7. You understand that people can’t read your mind 8. You admit when your wrong and take responsibility 9.When you’re ok being vulnerable 10. You expose your to opposite points of view in order to grow 11.Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people’s opinions 12. You forgive your parents 13. You are aware of your limitations and biases 14. You know when,who and how to ask for help 15. You understand that happiness is a choice not a destination 16.We all have different growth rhythm TYPING THE SIGNS DOSENT MEAN YOU SHOULDN’T WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO
Alux get it to detail on each topic. So everyone should watch the video and go through the list 1 by 1. If your a real slider and not here to fool yourself in to thinking ur really learning
Never lie to yourself. Not looking at others as competition “Confidence is silent insecurities are loud” You resolve issues instead of attending to problems Apply the lessons from the past good/bad whether mistakes or victories See others victories & motivation as if it were your own All of these were mentioned within the 16 reasons however the language I use is a bit more direct.
Hello Aluers, Do you want to have the lasting impact from every powerful motivational video you see here. Make notes of every points when you first watch these videos to get a bird's eye view and later watch again to completely understand what they just said. Hope that helps...
1. You choose your words carefully before you respond. 2.You understand how you feel and can read that into other people. 3. You appreciate the little things in life. 4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing. 5. Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place. 6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally. 7. You understand that other people can't read your mind. 8. You admit when you are wrong and you take responsibility. 9. When you're ok with being vulnerable. 10. You expose yourself to opposite points of you in order to grow. 11. Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people's opinion. 12. You forgive your parents. 13. You are aware of your limitations and biases. 14. You know when, who and how to ask for help. 15. You understand the happiness is a choice not a destination. 16. We all have different growth rhythms. You are welcome !!! :-)
#1- you choose your words carefully before you respond. #2- you understand how you feel and can read that into other people. #3- you appreciate the little things in life. #4- you know when to quit and when to keep pushing. #5- your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place. #6- you take feedback constructively instead of personally. #7- you understand that other people can't read your life #8- you admit when you are wrong and take responsibility. #9- When you're ok with being vulnerable. #10- you expose yourself to the opposite point of view #11- your decision is based on your experience not on others' opinions. #12- you forgive your parents. #13- you are aware of your limitations and biases. #14- you know when who and how to ask help. #15- you understand that happiness is a choice and not a destination
Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign... No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning. --you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
The sign to be added can be.. "To stop judging someone we don't know about." Because it's only we seeing the other person's situation with our perspective.
This is great. I am 54 years old and I’ve gone through some shit and I’m loving my Life these days. You called it. I wish I had access to this 30 years ago, but I still got “here”. I’d add that changing/growth fucking hurts sometimes and you have to ride it out and believe that it will get better BECAUSE it really is about your attitude and you’re attitude is how you think and act. Keep up the great work. Your game is vast and I hope people are paying attention.
Emotional maturity is when you look left, and then right before crossing the street then get knocked down by an airplane. Wake up, dust off and walking away like nothing just happend.
'As opposed to'? Why not 'as well as'? Nobody looks to Pewdiepie's videos expecting sage advice, they go to Pewdiepie's videos when they've had a long, difficult day, are exhausted and want to relax to something that doesn't require them to think (which they've been doing all day).
It's A Good Video... These Below Points are Critical : 1. Appreciating Small Things and Enjoying life... 2. Managing the situation under Vulnerable Conditions... 3. Accepting Your Mistake is a Really Strength of an Individual and He / She is very much on Course Correction... 4. Valuing Other View is Very Important and helps us in Team Building... 5.Stop Blamming Parents and There is an Expiry Date to Blamming Parents...Where, You are Today, Its Because of them ( In Most Cases ) and Be Grateful... Thanks Alux for these Valuable Points... With Warm Regards, MM.Rao Mumbai, India
There is a difference between protecting someone and hiding stuff from them .. never hide major stuff from your loved one. Your parents, family and friends.
This is a great list, which makes it difficult to add anything to it. I always quote what Wayne Dyer says: “be open to everything and attached to nothing”. To me that is a sign of emotional maturity when someone is able to respond to life in that manner. Thanks Alux!
“You understand that other people cant rad your mind” 9 mins 29 seconds. I think another sign of emotional maturity is .. that you feel comfortable with the idea of learning something from someone far younger than you. This plays out as most people get set in their ways and feel that people younger to them know NOTHING, which is farthest from truth. I learn from books, @Alux and even the interns in my company.. as all of us can be teachers, and all of us are students for sure!
The ultimate sign of emotional maturity is Contentment. Being content in whatever state you find yourself in. That doesn't mean you don't aspire for more, but it means instead that you don't fret when you fail not boast when you succeed. But, have constant and continous joy and hope wherever you find yourself. Contentment.
Thank you ALUX, Kings of #freegame. Some signs of emotional maturity in my thinking are: 1. Accepting that you can't force success or change onto people no matter how much you love them. 2. Ability to stay focused on lifetime goals and not get sidetracked by the "tasty treats" life inevitably offers. 3. Not self-destrucing due to personal turmoil (emotionally mature people know that alcohol,pills,sexcapades etc don't erase the pain / reality of whatever may have taken place no matter how tragic it may be, and they use them responsibly or not at all). 4. Emotionally mature people are averse to shortcuts because they know that nothing good ever came easy or overnight. All from personal experience.Love to all my Aluxer's , see you in the billionaire square
9 Minutes 29 seconds in🥰 One of the signs of emotional maturity is when a personal relationship has ended❌️ understand it's over. ‼️💯 Please by all means do not misunderstand what it is I'm saying. Sometimes when a person feels something is over it's not always necessarily over. But we have to be mature enough to know when you're at the point that is actually over 👌Over mean over!‼️Move on with your life and never want someone after they've STOPED wanting you.‼️👍💯 Some people are meant to be in our lives for a reason a season or lifetime. 👌Our job is to know the difference in any relationship regardless of it being personal or professional👍 Remember you're better than that‼️💯🥰🥰🥰
Right on time ... thanks alux.. you inspired me to start up a company.. I did .. from Nigeria, a student pharmacist based in cyprus.. I know and believe alux will one day discuss my bussines success ..
Alux.com pls can you do a video on what early innovators expects after starting up in life how to handle hard times on the process... I feel it will help 🙏🏽🙏🏽
1. Emotionally mature person gives everyone a chance 2. A mature person won't judge that easily and doesn't let their prejudice influence their relationships
Emotional maturity is when you can live in the present, neither focused on bad experiences in the past, even those that happened just 1 second prior nor worrying about the future. As the saying goes Yesterday is but a dream Tomorrow is but a vision But every well-lived today Makes every Yesterday a dream of happiness And every tomorrow a vision of hope You can't control what had happened nor what will happen, what you have control of is the actions you are taking in this moment that will create the future and the "past" to come. You will be depressed if you live in the past, for you are re-enacting what will not happen again. You will be anxious if you live in the future, for you are anticipating for what has not happened. Being in the present is where you have the greatest control. - Mel Robbins Appreciating the little things in life helps as well. 9:22 "you understand that other people can't read your mind."
Hey Alux... Great fan of your work.... Such information is hard to find... Just a suggestion... Could you guys also write your own ebooks... I'd download them all
Listened to the end Especially when speaking about bosses not valuing others opinions. To add to this is, active listening is important and showing that you are a mature leader.
ERUDITE. Emotional maturity means you understand that you can't control life or the people around you, but you can control how you react and respond to these things. The ultimate emotional maturity comes with compassion and empathy for others.
"You understand that other people can't read your mind." And I will add that a person is emotionally mature when he or she is aware that one day we'll all die and that the time to have a good life is now. He or she do everything to have a meaningful, balanced, and valuable life because the time to live is now.
Another sign of emotional maturity is knowing when to shut up and when to fire your guns. It's one thing to be calm, and another to be brave. Both are qualities of a mature mind. This is a very insighful vid tho. I'd def watch it again to keep my emotional health in check.
Another sign of Emotional Maturity: When your sad, you know how to understand that sadness and turn that sadness into happiness through having a motivation to change
@@alux thank you alux lovely friend and I'll see you tomorrow ❤️💙difanately I'll come next year completely . it's sure alux friend ❤️💙(no issue alux friend.i con take it easy.i was meet plenty of insult in my life.and I never give up you and your channel up to particular year.its sure and I'm gonna sleep and I'll see you tomorrow .🙏)
Erudite. I think 3 signs of emotional maturity is that you're not afraid of failure, you're not afraid of failure and are able to understand that it is a precursor to success. And you also understand that you are not perfect but a work in progress, you may never attain "perfection", you will achieve excellence. You also understand that beauty and success is subjective, you are not swayed by the media and what seems to be the most popular definition of success, but instead, you figure out what these mean to you and live accordingly.
Watched video 9mins 29 seconds / Thankyou, it echoed a lot of themes, that my youngest son (30’s age group) has described about working with colleagues who are resisting change, block constructive communication, have difficulty understanding certain design themes ( at one point he drew them a graph, another day drew a design, another day invited questions.) Challenging when there are deadlines to meet. A clear case of time values, missed, unwillingness to attend meetings. ) Yes he survived, didn’t bull dose way through. Later life turned it upside down, with some funny laughable out comes. So l now understand more fully is past dilemmas and keep encouraging to question, what did he learn, how does he feel and to look back and see how many big or little learning steps he’s taken. Stay positive. Be patient with other people’s views and opinions. Be true to oneself.
One more sign we are emotionally mature is we practice delayed gratification. We wait patiently for what we want while waiting we prepare for what we want such as a romantic relationship.
Number 16 is fucking relatable. At first i used get annoyed when i was with people who are not as grown up as i wish them to be. But afterwards one of my friend make me understand that this is natural. There is nothing wrong in it.
Another 2 point: 1. "When you can differentiate between things as controllable and uncontrollable, especially when the lines are blurry" 2. "Fighting for the vision rather than getting lost in competition"
Erudite... here's another one: You can shift out of highly emotional moments on demand just by shifting your focus from what is causing that emotion to something that makes you feel more calm. If you can master that, then the people who think they can control you by pushing your buttons are suddenly rendered powerless. That is emotional maturity.
A key point that helps me is having compassion. Try not to be sympathetic, I try to be empathetic. That has ALWAYS helped me out when dealing with difficult people and situations.
you learn to forgive even without receiving an apology. bec in the end, forgiving is all about freeing yourself (of burdens) & not the person who wronged you.
Know, that many don’t have the same definition for words, words are a label for a concept. If one’s reply you get doesn’t fit with your statement, their is a chance that they didn’t hear correctly or have different meaning for a word or words you used. If are unable to get them to tell you what they > understood, < and NOT > what you said < and there is a big difference between the two concepts. Wish to know what they understood you to say. If you can’t get them to tell their understanding and becomes argument over what you said, they to INSIST to tell you what you said, then minimize your involvement with them, unless like drama.
Emotionally mature people realize that while other people's issues may be causing some problems for you right now, in the end they're the ones who are stuck with themselves. Those problems will follow them around wherever they go. You can't fix everyone around you, but you can move on and be a better person yourself.
Not being too expressive about your emotions in situation of success and failure...Realizing that every thing is temporary. This might be a sign of emotional maturity according to my opinion
A sign I believe of emotional maturity is coming to the realization that you can pick your stresses and everyone else’s life outcomes are your responsibility . Not everything is worth getting into an ordeal over, shape your own perspective and continue to pursue the path of success that suits you.
Emotionally mature people don't pay alot of attention about what other say about them. They realize that life is about ups and downs so they don't feel triumph when they win or feel miserable when they fail.
when winning or succeeding, you appreciate the hard work and become humble. when struggling or failing, a valuable lesson of self-reflect on what you could have done differently and embracing the opportunity to do things right.
Erudite, You understand that emotions are contagious, thus you influence people through the emotions they think are theirs when in reality they are just being contagied by what you intentionally show.
An erudite man once said, "Emotional maturity allows you to leave a relationship on good terms with the other person. Forgive, if necessary; apologize if necessary. Realize that sometimes two people just aren't compatible in that way."
To me another one may be " even after rejected or ignored by near and dear not showing any anger or disrespect to them rather appreciate their good qualities"
Shown at 9 minutes 29 seconds I do understand that other people can’t read my mind 🙏 I believe another sign of emotional maturity is our accountability to the discipline we apply to achieving our goals in life.
"Erudite" The creators of this video demonstrate their emotional erudition throughout the signs. An additional one may be: distinguishing when to use previous experiences to wisely assess situations, and when to relegate them to the status of bad memories (so that they don't impact your ability to take calculated risks and decide to be happy).
I don’t understand how someone can disagree with me, when they can’t tell me accurately what my point is. They don’t have to respond with same words, however the basic meaning of their reply must convey the same meaning; and if they refuse to tell their understanding, or if insist to tell me what I mean that not okay; it great if say “tell me again “ or “please explain” or I didn’t understand .... I didn’t get .... this reply say they wish to understand and care. If they don’t wish to tell their understanding, know you have a problem with this person, regardless how little the subject matter is. If refuse to respond on a little thing, how will they be on a big thing? I don’t know how one can disagree, when they don’t know my point, or are unable or refuse to tell their understanding? Not to tell their understanding, is disrespectful. Plus shows no desire to communicate, period.
Hello Aluxers, What would you add to our list?
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Love the short intro's y'all are just the best
Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign...
No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning.
--you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
926, I went back and looked while I was sitting at traffic light. Did I miss something or do I have to look again when morning errands are done? ;)
@@koshalpandey5898 One of my many sayings - everything in life (as far as bad experiences go) is a education
YES Alux, I understand completely that other people can't read my mind, and iam proud to say that. #TRUEALUXER
I would also add one more thing to the list "I should be emotionally strong and know when to 'show' emotional weakness" I learnt this from Francis Underwood ✌️
15 Signs you’re emotionally mature
1. You chose your words carefully before you respond
2. You understand how you feel and can read that into people
3. You appreciate the little things in life
4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing
5.Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place
6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally
7. You understand that people can’t read your mind
8. You admit when your wrong and take responsibility
9.When you’re ok being vulnerable
10. You expose your to opposite points of view in order to grow
11.Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people’s opinions
12. You forgive your parents
13. You are aware of your limitations and biases
14. You know when,who and how to ask for help
15. You understand that happiness is a choice not a destination
16.We all have different growth rhythm
TYPING THE SIGNS DOSENT MEAN YOU SHOULDN’T WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO
Bro thanks for saving me some time @Just Watching
Thanks bro.
Alux get it to detail on each topic. So everyone should watch the video and go through the list 1 by 1. If your a real slider and not here to fool yourself in to thinking ur really learning
Thank You so Much for this comment
i was waiting for someone to do this 😂
Here is another sign:
You know when to leave an environment when love and respect is no longer served, instead of sticking with people.
I hope I learn this one early on my life.
true
Another sign according to me:
You know it's okay to want a life that others don't understand.
I like A lux a lot I wished I knew these fifty years ago . Thanks A lux it’s never too late
that is a big one
💯
Yes!
Never lie to yourself.
Not looking at others as competition
“Confidence is silent insecurities are loud”
You resolve issues instead of attending to problems
Apply the lessons from the past good/bad whether mistakes or victories
See others victories & motivation as if it were your own
All of these were mentioned within the 16 reasons however the language I use is a bit more direct.
This one is real hard! Perhaps it would be more approachable to detect when you are lying to yourself.
Very True.
"When you have a Million Dollar vision, don't surround yourself with 1 cent minds."
This is so funny 😆😆😆
Hello Aluers,
Do you want to have the lasting impact from every powerful motivational video you see here. Make notes of every points when you first watch these videos to get a bird's eye view and later watch again to completely understand what they just said.
Hope that helps...
I really agree with that!
Most actually have trouble cutting ties with such friends.
“You can’t be mad at someone if you haven’t communicated to them what they’re doing wrong.”
vlogster of the net I love this quote
1. You choose your words carefully before you respond.
2.You understand how you feel and can read that into other people.
3. You appreciate the little things in life.
4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing.
5. Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place.
6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally.
7. You understand that other people can't read your mind.
8. You admit when you are wrong and you take responsibility.
9. When you're ok with being vulnerable.
10. You expose yourself to opposite points of you in order to grow.
11. Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people's opinion.
12. You forgive your parents.
13. You are aware of your limitations and biases.
14. You know when, who and how to ask for help.
15. You understand the happiness is a choice not a destination.
16. We all have different growth rhythms.
You are welcome !!! :-)
thanks buddy
there's the cap
Emotional maturity is taking time to acknowledge your feelings without indulging them.
Shown on the screen 9 minutes 29 seconds
This comment carries a lot of weight. Couldn’t have said it better.
Emotional maturity is when your emotions grow a white beard
I think “exploiting” your feelings is what’s to be avoided; not indulging in them is to deny what makes you human.
Great one.
#1- you choose your words carefully before you respond.
#2- you understand how you feel and can read that into other people.
#3- you appreciate the little things in life.
#4- you know when to quit and when to keep pushing.
#5- your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place.
#6- you take feedback constructively instead of personally.
#7- you understand that other people can't read your life
#8- you admit when you are wrong and take responsibility.
#9- When you're ok with being vulnerable.
#10- you expose yourself to the opposite point of view
#11- your decision is based on your experience not on others' opinions.
#12- you forgive your parents.
#13- you are aware of your limitations and biases.
#14- you know when who and how to ask help.
#15- you understand that happiness is a choice and not a destination
Emotional maturity starts when you can forgive yourself for all the mistakes you've made in the past big like small🙏
What helped me was to realize that my mistakes were really lessons that I needed to learn.
Wow, thanks for this!!!
#BigFacts
Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign...
No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning.
--you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
Koshal Pandey I love this. So so true. It’s like the stoic perspective - Amor fati or love fate
And in business, unexpected costs and problems... are just considered tuition... payment for learning!
Another Sign: You never take anything personally
“You understand that other people can’t read your mind”
The sign to be added can be..
"To stop judging someone we don't know about."
Because it's only we seeing the other person's situation with our perspective.
Self Awareness.... you know where you’re lacking and what you’re lacking and strive to improve each and everyone of them
A sign of emotional maturity I can think of is not expecting nor needing people to like you anymore
This is great. I am 54 years old and I’ve gone through some shit and I’m loving my Life these days. You called it. I wish I had access to this 30 years ago, but I still got “here”. I’d add that changing/growth fucking hurts sometimes and you have to ride it out and believe that it will get better BECAUSE it really is about your attitude and you’re attitude is how you think and act. Keep up the great work. Your game is vast and I hope people are paying attention.
Emotional maturity is when you look left, and then right before crossing the street then get knocked down by an airplane. Wake up, dust off and walking away like nothing just happend.
"Decisions are made from your experience not by others opinions." this is a valuable thing I learnt today.
You get emotionally matured that moment you understand that more people are in your life for what they can get than what they can contribute.
Shown!
"You know that feelings are merely opinions. No matter how strong they are, you also know where to look at them from."
Emotionally mature people know life is short and time is priceless, so they watch each episode of Alux as opposed to pewdiepie. Lol
'As opposed to'? Why not 'as well as'? Nobody looks to Pewdiepie's videos expecting sage advice, they go to Pewdiepie's videos when they've had a long, difficult day, are exhausted and want to relax to something that doesn't require them to think (which they've been doing all day).
Wow😂😂
Life is not an ether or world. It is an and world. Enjoy what makes you happy.
Erudite (Great word to have in any of your videos)
17: You're able to turn regrets into wisdom for future decisions.
Where do you see erudite?
On the side of the side of the building.
@@Josiah-X 👍
SHOWN
The one sign you forgot to add is this
''you are open minded & don't judge people no matter what''
Wow never realised how important being emotionally intelligent really is thanks for opening my eyes Alux🙏🙏🙏🙏
We’re here for you Joe
Another sign: not everything is about you
Today is my birthday and Alux gifted me with this inspiring content 🎁 Thanks Alux! 😉
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday 🎉
@@alux Thanks! Really appreciate it 🙏
@@beautifulskyway Thanks sir! 🙏
Happy Birthday
When your attitude towards other people isn't influenced by how their attitude is towards you but what with morals you have for yourself
"Have the ability to understand someone else and there problems before relating it to your own."
It's A Good Video...
These Below Points are Critical :
1. Appreciating Small Things and Enjoying life...
2. Managing the situation under Vulnerable Conditions...
3. Accepting Your Mistake is a Really Strength of an Individual and He / She is very much on Course Correction...
4. Valuing Other View is Very Important and helps us in Team Building...
5.Stop Blamming Parents and There is an Expiry Date to Blamming Parents...Where, You are Today, Its Because of them ( In Most Cases ) and Be Grateful...
Thanks Alux for these Valuable Points...
With Warm Regards,
MM.Rao
Mumbai, India
“You understand that other people can’t read your mind”
There is a difference between protecting someone and hiding stuff from them .. never hide major stuff from your loved one. Your parents, family and friends.
Can you do 15 things about life after earning a college degree? That would be great for the next Sunday motivational video in alux
Watch this one: ua-cam.com/video/sZDRWeKmpqY/v-deo.html
This is a great list, which makes it difficult to add anything to it. I always quote what Wayne Dyer says: “be open to everything and attached to nothing”. To me that is a sign of emotional maturity when someone is able to respond to life in that manner. Thanks Alux!
“You understand that other people cant rad your mind” 9 mins 29 seconds.
I think another sign of emotional maturity is .. that you feel comfortable with the idea of learning something from someone far younger than you.
This plays out as most people get set in their ways and feel that people younger to them know NOTHING, which is farthest from truth. I learn from books, @Alux and even the interns in my company.. as all of us can be teachers, and all of us are students for sure!
Understanding Fear is legit, it’s ok to be afraid. Now understand why and overcome it
Sign #1: you don't look at UA-cam videos to validate your emotional maturity.
But Awesometastic video. Really enjoyed it!!!!
The ultimate sign of emotional maturity is Contentment. Being content in whatever state you find yourself in. That doesn't mean you don't aspire for more, but it means instead that you don't fret when you fail not boast when you succeed. But, have constant and continous joy and hope wherever you find yourself. Contentment.
Thank you ALUX, Kings of #freegame.
Some signs of emotional maturity in my thinking are:
1. Accepting that you can't force success or change onto people no matter how much you love them.
2. Ability to stay focused on lifetime goals and not get sidetracked by the "tasty treats" life inevitably offers.
3. Not self-destrucing due to personal turmoil (emotionally mature people know that alcohol,pills,sexcapades etc don't erase the pain / reality of whatever may have taken place no matter how tragic it may be, and they use them responsibly or not at all).
4. Emotionally mature people are averse to shortcuts because they know that nothing good ever came easy or overnight.
All from personal experience.Love to all my Aluxer's , see you in the billionaire square
"ERUDITE" = having or showing great knowledge or learning.
Awesome Ernie
9 Minutes 29 seconds in🥰
One of the signs of emotional maturity is when a personal relationship has ended❌️ understand it's over. ‼️💯
Please by all means do not misunderstand what it is I'm saying. Sometimes when a person feels something is over it's not always necessarily over. But we have to be mature enough to know when you're at the point that is actually over 👌Over mean over!‼️Move on with your life and never want someone after they've STOPED wanting you.‼️👍💯 Some people are meant to be in our lives for a reason a season or lifetime. 👌Our job is to know the difference in any relationship regardless of it being personal or professional👍
Remember you're better than that‼️💯🥰🥰🥰
Right on time ... thanks alux.. you inspired me to start up a company.. I did .. from Nigeria, a student pharmacist based in cyprus.. I know and believe alux will one day discuss my bussines success ..
Best wishes friend. I love people trying new things, taking new great steps. Keep pushing on
We look forward to that day :)
Alux.com pls can you do a video on what early innovators expects after starting up in life how to handle hard times on the process... I feel it will help 🙏🏽🙏🏽
1. Emotionally mature person gives everyone a chance
2. A mature person won't judge that easily and doesn't let their prejudice influence their relationships
I still get upset when my Oreo drops in my milk buts that’s not on the list so 🙌🏼
Emotional maturity is when you can live in the present, neither focused on bad experiences in the past, even those that happened just 1 second prior nor worrying about the future.
As the saying goes
Yesterday is but a dream
Tomorrow is but a vision
But every well-lived today
Makes every
Yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope
You can't control what had happened nor what will happen, what you have control of is the actions you are taking in this moment that will create the future and the "past" to come.
You will be depressed if you live in the past, for you are re-enacting what will not happen again.
You will be anxious if you live in the future, for you are anticipating for what has not happened.
Being in the present is where you have the greatest control.
- Mel Robbins
Appreciating the little things in life helps as well.
9:22 "you understand that other people can't read your mind."
"9:29" - 'ERUDITE', right?
That's what I got.
I didn't see words at 9,29. Just number 7's topic.
Yes you got it!!
Agreed
George Seese it’s on the side of the building
When you acknowledged that success is an endless journey and not just a single destination...
The ability to understand, set and respect boundaries.
You can maintain a positive/close relationship with persons who have believes and values systems which are different from yours.
Knowing when, why and how some relationships can be good or bad for you.
You have ability to look at things in 360 degrees points of view. This is another high level of emotional maturity
9:29 *"you understand that other people can't read your mind"*
*Me:- Do I deserve a heart and a reply from alux*
*Alux:- Nah 😕*
You got it wrong, try again.
@@alux is it this? *"ERUDITE"*
A sign of emotional maturity is knowing that while your feelings are valid, they're just feelings.
Hey Alux...
Great fan of your work.... Such information is hard to find...
Just a suggestion... Could you guys also write your own ebooks... I'd download them all
We're actually considering doing some ebooks where we put all our work (and maybe something extra)
Listened to the end Especially when speaking about bosses not valuing others opinions. To add to this is, active listening is important and showing that you are a mature leader.
Definitely waiting... 😂 I don't mind a personal copy
ERUDITE. Emotional maturity means you understand that you can't control life or the people around you, but you can control how you react and respond to these things. The ultimate emotional maturity comes with compassion and empathy for others.
Thank you Alux, for another motivational video
You're very welcome Haritha
"You understand that other people can't read your mind." And I will add that a person is emotionally mature when he or she is aware that one day we'll all die and that the time to have a good life is now. He or she do everything to have a meaningful, balanced, and valuable life because the time to live is now.
Legend says that if Im early,Alux will comment this.🤔
Yes bro
The legend was right!
Very nice profile picture😁😃
Brilliant.
Another sign of emotional maturity is knowing when to shut up and when to fire your guns. It's one thing to be calm, and another to be brave. Both are qualities of a mature mind.
This is a very insighful vid tho. I'd def watch it again to keep my emotional health in check.
“You understand that people can’t read your mind”
Another sign of Emotional Maturity:
When your sad, you know how to understand that sadness and turn that sadness into happiness through having a motivation to change
"9:29" - ERUDITE right alux?
17. You accept that at the end nothing matters, just the change in your soul. (The emotions you give to other people)
Hey alux friend and have a Happy Sunday ❤️💙(9.29)
Happy Sunday!
@@alux thank you alux lovely friend and I'll see you tomorrow ❤️💙difanately I'll come next year completely . it's sure alux friend ❤️💙(no issue alux friend.i con take it easy.i was meet plenty of insult in my life.and I never give up you and your channel up to particular year.its sure and I'm gonna sleep and I'll see you tomorrow .🙏)
Erudite. I think 3 signs of emotional maturity is that you're not afraid of failure, you're not afraid of failure and are able to understand that it is a precursor to success. And you also understand that you are not perfect but a work in progress, you may never attain "perfection", you will achieve excellence. You also understand that beauty and success is subjective, you are not swayed by the media and what seems to be the most popular definition of success, but instead, you figure out what these mean to you and live accordingly.
How are you guys commenting so fast? 😂
You're super early Sara! Always a great feeling seeing you in the comments!
Alux.com you always make me feel like a special snowflake on Sunday’s 😂🤗
Watched video 9mins 29 seconds / Thankyou, it echoed a lot of themes, that my youngest son (30’s age group) has described about working with colleagues who are resisting change, block constructive communication, have difficulty understanding certain design themes ( at one point he drew them a graph, another day drew a design, another day invited questions.) Challenging when there are deadlines to meet. A clear case of time values, missed, unwillingness to attend meetings. ) Yes he survived, didn’t bull dose way through. Later life turned it upside down, with some funny laughable out comes. So l now understand more fully is past dilemmas and keep encouraging to question, what did he learn, how does he feel and to look back and see how many big or little learning steps he’s taken. Stay positive. Be patient with other people’s views and opinions. Be true to oneself.
One more sign we are emotionally mature is we practice delayed gratification. We wait patiently for what we want while waiting we prepare for what we want such as a romantic relationship.
Number 16 is fucking relatable. At first i used get annoyed when i was with people who are not as grown up as i wish them to be. But afterwards one of my friend make me understand that this is natural. There is nothing wrong in it.
Another 2 point:
1. "When you can differentiate between things as controllable and uncontrollable, especially when the lines are blurry"
2. "Fighting for the vision rather than getting lost in competition"
Erudite... here's another one: You can shift out of highly emotional moments on demand just by shifting your focus from what is causing that emotion to something that makes you feel more calm. If you can master that, then the people who think they can control you by pushing your buttons are suddenly rendered powerless. That is emotional maturity.
Thank you. 👍 Not lacking. Just surrounded by jealous haters. Happens when you're great 💯✔
No matter where you are in your life you always retain the humility to laugh at yourself. Take life seriously but never take yourself too seriously.
Leaving a situation or friend group because it hurts you more than it helps you / putting you first
A key point that helps me is having compassion. Try not to be sympathetic, I try to be empathetic. That has ALWAYS helped me out when dealing with difficult people and situations.
emotionally mature people are reflective, wholehearted, empathetic, and humble. word at 9.27 is ERUDITE
1.Action have consequences
2. No one is wrong it's just different Opinions
3. People are who they are and will remain as they are
you learn to forgive even without receiving an apology. bec in the end, forgiving is all about freeing yourself (of burdens) & not the person who wronged you.
You tell the truth especially when it’s uncomfortable and especially to those whom you claim to love
Know, that many don’t have the same definition for words, words are a label for a concept. If one’s reply you get doesn’t fit with your statement, their is a chance that they didn’t hear correctly or have different meaning for a word or words you used. If are unable to get them to tell you what they > understood, < and NOT > what you said < and there is a big difference between the two concepts. Wish to know what they understood you to say. If you can’t get them to tell their understanding and becomes argument over what you said, they to INSIST to tell you what you said, then minimize your involvement with them, unless like drama.
Another sign, you care way less, you care less about other people's opinions, you stress less about things in your life.
You know you're value.
Emotionally mature people realize that while other people's issues may be causing some problems for you right now, in the end they're the ones who are stuck with themselves. Those problems will follow them around wherever they go. You can't fix everyone around you, but you can move on and be a better person yourself.
The ability to talk to yourself in the hardest situation in a right way
"You understand that other people can't read your mind" !
True Aluxer checking in
This true Aluxer, needs to try again, you didn’t get the right word
Not being too expressive about your emotions in situation of success and failure...Realizing that every thing is temporary. This might be a sign of emotional maturity according to my opinion
'You understand that other people can't read your mind'
Additional : You realize there's growth opportunities in every situation
A sign I believe of emotional maturity is coming to the realization that you can pick your stresses and everyone else’s life outcomes are your responsibility . Not everything is worth getting into an ordeal over, shape your own perspective and continue to pursue the path of success that suits you.
Emotionally mature people don't pay alot of attention about what other say about them. They realize that life is about ups and downs so they don't feel triumph when they win or feel miserable when they fail.
when winning or succeeding, you appreciate the hard work and become humble. when struggling or failing, a valuable lesson of self-reflect on what you could have done differently and embracing the opportunity to do things right.
“Forgive your parents because they either gave you love or have you strength.” RESPECT
Shown 9:29
When you learn [there's a time and a place for everything.] I've learned that everyone is more accepting of you when this rule is applied.
another sign from me : you feeling complete yourself without thinking about finding people that would make you feeling complete :)
Erudite, You understand that emotions are contagious, thus you influence people through the emotions they think are theirs when in reality they are just being contagied by what you intentionally show.
An erudite man once said, "Emotional maturity allows you to leave a relationship on good terms with the other person. Forgive, if necessary; apologize if necessary. Realize that sometimes two people just aren't compatible in that way."
Everything in my life has been happening for me, not to me, to motivate my spiritual maturity.
To me another one may be " even after rejected or ignored by near and dear not showing any anger or disrespect to them rather appreciate their good qualities"
Shown at 9 minutes 29 seconds I do understand that other people can’t read my mind 🙏 I believe another sign of emotional maturity is our accountability to the discipline we apply to achieving our goals in life.
You are emotionally mature when you understand that you are responsible for your own emotional responses, and hold the same standard for others
"Erudite" The creators of this video demonstrate their emotional erudition throughout the signs. An additional one may be: distinguishing when to use previous experiences to wisely assess situations, and when to relegate them to the status of bad memories (so that they don't impact your ability to take calculated risks and decide to be happy).
Nice one Elle
I don’t understand how someone can disagree with me, when they can’t tell me accurately what my point is. They don’t have to respond with same words, however the basic meaning of their reply must convey the same meaning; and if they refuse to tell their understanding, or if insist to tell me what I mean that not okay; it great if say “tell me again “ or “please explain” or I didn’t understand .... I didn’t get .... this reply say they wish to understand and care. If they don’t wish to tell their understanding, know you have a problem with this person, regardless how little the subject matter is. If refuse to respond on a little thing, how will they be on a big thing? I don’t know how one can disagree, when they don’t know my point, or are unable or refuse to tell their understanding? Not to tell their understanding, is disrespectful. Plus shows no desire to communicate, period.