YES! The day has finally come. I am SO excited about going to your show tonight. I've been waiting for the "Upcoming Shows" to say Los Angeles. Thank you!
I'm teaching my teenage sons, too. When they go to the doctor, they sign themselves in, etc. I told them I'm here bc the law said I had to b. Teaching them how to "take care of business!" and communicate effectively to people.
Lord, if this wasn't my Mama. Didn't want to be in my business, but always was and answered the questions before I could. 😂😂😂 Love and miss you, Mama. I wish you were here.
😂 This was me LoL Because My two would be complaining about several things stressing me for days then get there & ONLY mention one thing ..... 😮OOoh No sweetie let Me remind you... Not waking me up in the middle of the night talking about what you forgot to ask the Dr. LoL
Jokes are on point as always but the best take away is teach your daughters to advocate for themselves!!! It is soooooooo important!! Teach them to ask questions until they fully understand. Trust them when they tell you something doesn't feel right. They are the ones living in their bodies, teach them to trust their instincts.
I sure wish my mom had been in the room with me when I had my first pap smear due to increasingly painful periods (that will hopefully be going away real soon because ain't nobody got time for that lol). Foolishly I thought having a Black female gynecologist would make the experience less traumatic because 'skinfolk' but that could not have been more of a mistake. I know there are incredible Black female gynecologists out there, but unfortunately, she was not one of them and the experience was horrendous to say the least. Shoving a cold speculum up a virgin vagina without explanation nearly sent me across the room and then she had that Drill Segreant tone when telling me to relax. I was like, lady I'm about to throw hands if you don't get that metal medieval torture device out of my untouched box lol. Needless to say, I didn't have another pap smear for nearly ten years (not wise, don't do it) and the next one was with a White male doctor who was goofy as heck but so gentle, understanding, and explained everything before he did it not while he was doing. Still not a pleasant process but I got through it much better. Ladies, please do teach our younger ones to speak up and that it is okay to say no.
I had a similar experience for my first one. I wasn’t educated enough on it. Women who haven’t had sex don’t need the speculum at all actually. Didn’t know that. And you can also ask for a small speculum. It’s less evasive. That’s what my 2nd gynecologist did ( this was a black one female and she talked me through it because I told her I was nervous)
@@malstarrainbow Can also ask for a pediatric speculum and be firm. People first don't believe you are a virgin and then they don't believe you know what you need. Black women in healthcare are always dismissed as just complaining and making noise. Well, make that noise until someone listens and don't settle, go to every doctor you want until you are satisfied!
Chile this brought back some memories 😂😂😂the doctor had to tell me your 18 your mother don’t have to be in the room with you …I’m like in my head doc you don’t know my momma she ain’t going nowhere … you ain’t about to get my a$$ beat asking her to leave this room 😂😂😂
I went with my friend to her 15 year old daughter's 1st. GYNE appointment. A few minutes in, she came out screaming and hollering about how her daughter couldn't kick her out of the room when she wasn't even old enough to pay her own bills or live on her own. I was so embarrassed! 😂
I’m hollin😂😂. If this ain’t my mama. My mom went to the doctor w/me ONE time. But when she was older & I went to her appt,she told me to let her do all of the talking😂😂
The last time I was with my mom in presence of a dr, I had just gotten out of surgery. They had given me intravenous Morphin for the pain ( breast reduction), and she tore them a new one asking them to stop asap. I shed a tear because, let me tell you that I got the best sleep of my life before she got there.😂😂
I ❤️ everything about this!! I'm a woman of a particular age now, and just celebrated 31 years of marriage. MY Mom went with me to the doctor right before I got married. You should have heard my Mom speak up when the gyn asked what I used for birth control. I said "nothing because I'm not doing anything." The doctor was in disbelief & you should have seen the look on his face after he examined me. My Mom looked at him & I wanted to hide!
HEY COUSIIIIINNNN…!! MS cousin here! 🖐️ Thank you again sooooo much for helping me up that uneven platform at the Punchline!!😂😂 Love your work! CREATE.POST.REPEAT! 👏
😮😮. Uh uh, helicopter moms are the WORSE! I went with my daughter to her 1st gyno appt with my gynecologist. I prepared her beforehand with how to advocate for herself. That is a very private situation, and moms do not need to be in the room. My gynecologist is a man and always has a nurse in the room with him when conducting exams.
I did this in reverse with my Dad when I would go to his doctor appointments. He would look at me when they asked him questions??? And when the activity questions came up… I was like he better not be…😮 oops 😬 There were a lot of Golden Girl Sofias and Blanches around….
12/11 Houston?! 12/12 Arlington?! I cant wait!! Been following since 2020 and you've had solid points along with great topics, and hilarious skits! Gonna have to bring my best friend cause we've been subscribed since the "Millenials Are Broke But Still Have Money To Travel!" 🤣🤣 This is a full circle moment! Cause we aren't broke -yet we aint rich! But we're definitely traveling to come see you and your amazing "Vocals! -They flow like water!" 🎤💜🙌 My friend is gonna be so shocked and happy to see you on stage! Safe travels and sending positive/motivational energy your way!🙌🙌
We just got to go that first time to the gynecologist. ❤ Most of these young ladies really don't be wanting to talk and we have to at least show them the first time what you're SUPPOSED TO to DO up in here! 😅
My daughter said coming in the door that she didn’t want me to go back with her only to have the nurse come back out later to say my daughter wanted me to be in the room with her… yep if she would just listen when I am trying to tell her stuff🙄
Ooo Lawd, I did NOT like this phase with my girls; Fillng out some of their own paperwork, privacy laws, the doctors giving them an option of whether or not I could stay in the room. What??!!??!😳😒😠 I’M THE MAMA!!😤 😅😅
Baby I'm 32 and my mama still act like this with the drs when she visit with me. She my emergency contact and my medical proxy if anything go wrong so her number one saying is "i gots to kno what's going on witchu to make the right decision. So speak up and ask everything" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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YES! The day has finally come. I am SO excited about going to your show tonight. I've been waiting for the "Upcoming Shows" to say Los Angeles. Thank you!
You coming to my hometown Baltimore!! ❤❤❤
It's the code switching to talk to the staff for me 😂
Right😂😂. The switch up was real quick. ❤❤
We can switch up as many times as necessary 😂on a dime
@@yrb5512 like military personnel 👀🤣
And we all do it!
'She talking to you not me.' Followed by immediately answering every question
IMMEDIATELY 😂
😂😂😂exactly
Right 😂
All jokes aside, i know that’s right. Teach your young lady to speak up & advocate for herself!!
Cause if she don't nobody else will!!!!!!
Absolutely
Show you right!
This!!!!
"Sit up, Look like somebody"😂
" look like somebody "😂😂
That's my mother right there.
@@SoulSistah1LMmine too and damn if it’s not me with my 14 yr old daughter 😂😂😂
My Mom and my saying was "act like somebody!"
Took me out 😂
😂😂
“TALK-TALK “😂
I'm teaching my teenage sons, too. When they go to the doctor, they sign themselves in, etc. I told them I'm here bc the law said I had to b. Teaching them how to "take care of business!" and communicate effectively to people.
YES ma'am we have insurance... cause why you assume we don't 😂
"It don't take that long to look at a HOO HAW.... It's just a HOO HAW" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 the way she said it 😂
😂🤣
I'm deceased..lol
Said just like a granny. 😂😂 if she had said "purse" I would have thrown my phone down. 😂😂❤
@@thasfunooooo! I haven’t heard that one since my own grandmother died! 😂😂😂
@KerryLuckett right! I reached waaaay back for that one. I said boy, those old people were so clever. Saying things without saying THINGS. 🤣🤣🥰❤️
So this is what women say before I walk into the exam rooms 😂 and ladies PLEASE speak up for yourselves!
Lord, if this wasn't my Mama. Didn't want to be in my business, but always was and answered the questions before I could. 😂😂😂 Love and miss you, Mama. I wish you were here.
“You need to talk! I don’t feel what you feel. [30 seconds later] She said her chest was hurting her!” 😂😂😂
😂 This was me LoL Because My two would be complaining about several things stressing me for days then get there & ONLY mention one thing ..... 😮OOoh No sweetie let Me remind you... Not waking me up in the middle of the night talking about what you forgot to ask the Dr. LoL
So guilty and I'm only 40... This aged me another 20 years 😂😂
I love that she represents a mom who teaches their daughter to advocate for themselves!❤❤❤
Jokes are on point as always but the best take away is teach your daughters to advocate for themselves!!! It is soooooooo important!! Teach them to ask questions until they fully understand. Trust them when they tell you something doesn't feel right. They are the ones living in their bodies, teach them to trust their instincts.
Amen!!!!!
And this is why I never let my Mom come in the room with me 😂😂
I stopped mid teens because of this attitude right here!
I drove myself.....
OMG I literally laughed out loud and watched it twice 😂
Me too and every video !
It don't take that long to look at " a hoo ha " 😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣
*EJ should have worn her “the momma mullet wig” that she uses when she yelling at “Shanetra” doing this skit.😂😂😂*
Oh that's a whole different skit lol
I sure wish my mom had been in the room with me when I had my first pap smear due to increasingly painful periods (that will hopefully be going away real soon because ain't nobody got time for that lol). Foolishly I thought having a Black female gynecologist would make the experience less traumatic because 'skinfolk' but that could not have been more of a mistake. I know there are incredible Black female gynecologists out there, but unfortunately, she was not one of them and the experience was horrendous to say the least. Shoving a cold speculum up a virgin vagina without explanation nearly sent me across the room and then she had that Drill Segreant tone when telling me to relax. I was like, lady I'm about to throw hands if you don't get that metal medieval torture device out of my untouched box lol. Needless to say, I didn't have another pap smear for nearly ten years (not wise, don't do it) and the next one was with a White male doctor who was goofy as heck but so gentle, understanding, and explained everything before he did it not while he was doing. Still not a pleasant process but I got through it much better. Ladies, please do teach our younger ones to speak up and that it is okay to say no.
I had a similar experience for my first one. I wasn’t educated enough on it. Women who haven’t had sex don’t need the speculum at all actually. Didn’t know that. And you can also ask for a small speculum. It’s less evasive. That’s what my 2nd gynecologist did ( this was a black one female and she talked me through it because I told her I was nervous)
@@malstarrainbow Can also ask for a pediatric speculum and be firm. People first don't believe you are a virgin and then they don't believe you know what you need. Black women in healthcare are always dismissed as just complaining and making noise. Well, make that noise until someone listens and don't settle, go to every doctor you want until you are satisfied!
Not the powder 😂😂😂😂
Chile this brought back some memories 😂😂😂the doctor had to tell me your 18 your mother don’t have to be in the room with you …I’m like in my head doc you don’t know my momma she ain’t going nowhere … you ain’t about to get my a$$ beat asking her to leave this room 😂😂😂
The look I would get when the Dr asked if I was sexually active. You better say no. Lord, please say no. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel violated when I go to the OBGYN😆😆😆😆😆😆
I went with my friend to her 15 year old daughter's 1st. GYNE appointment. A few minutes in, she came out screaming and hollering about how her daughter couldn't kick her out of the room when she wasn't even old enough to pay her own bills or live on her own. I was so embarrassed! 😂
Omg I work at a doctors office chile I’m hollering!🤣🤣🤣🤣
You MUSTA captured my Momma for this here! This was her at every one of my doctor's appointments when I was a teenager!😂
Speak up! Yes
LOL!!!! I love EJ Speaks!!!
Same here
I’m hollin😂😂. If this ain’t my mama. My mom went to the doctor w/me ONE time. But when she was older & I went to her appt,she told me to let her do all of the talking😂😂
The last time I was with my mom in presence of a dr, I had just gotten out of surgery. They had given me intravenous Morphin for the pain ( breast reduction), and she tore them a new one asking them to stop asap.
I shed a tear because, let me tell you that I got the best sleep of my life before she got there.😂😂
ME‼️‼️‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣”We have insurance” 😂😂😂😂😂 “We’ve been waiting”
1:12 this shouldn’t be funny but it is. It’s crazy how many illnesses everyone has and how we know it off the top of our heads
I love the switch up when the doctor comes in 😂! My Mama has that same takeover spirit. I believe ya'll just can't help it.
I ❤️ everything about this!! I'm a woman of a particular age now, and just celebrated 31 years of marriage. MY Mom went with me to the doctor right before I got married. You should have heard my Mom speak up when the gyn asked what I used for birth control. I said "nothing because I'm not doing anything." The doctor was in disbelief & you should have seen the look on his face after he examined me. My Mom looked at him & I wanted to hide!
Doctor's be sooooo blown when you say youre not on b.c. cause you not doing nothing. Let me be abstinent!!!!!!
I wish I had a Mom like this when I first started with that type of doctor.
"Aint nobody finna get naked and its freezin"😂😂😂 i know thats right
Everywhere we go, I have had to tell my old teen SON to speak up, speak in sentences son!!! Talk like you have good sense!
Same with my grandsons. I'm usually the one taking them to the Dr
When mama tell you to tell the doctor what's wrong but she doing all the talking. 😂
OMG, flash backs!!! LOL, so glad the GYN asked my mother to leave the room 5min into my first visit
2 seconds in and I'm already cracking up.
It was the code switching for me.
HEY COUSIIIIINNNN…!!
MS cousin here! 🖐️
Thank you again sooooo much for helping me up that uneven platform at the Punchline!!😂😂
Love your work!
CREATE.POST.REPEAT! 👏
Sounds like me at the doctor with my 17 year old!🤣🤣🤣 Definitely teaching her to speak up & ask questions!
So much pressure! I did not want to go back there.
Talk like you talk on da phone!
Don't claim any of it EJ. Yall will STOP the generational curse!!!❤❤❤
TALK!!!! Is so relatable 😅
I promise I'm glad my momma NEVER went to any Gyn Appointment. LOL
Stop it girl, I'm done wichoo! Not da WHOO HAH!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How many people thought she meant Dominican Republic?😂
Girl! We in the same family, ain't we? Hooha!!!😂
I literally have tears rolling down my face laughing 😂😂😂
Not the Hoo Haw!🤣🤣🤣
Hoo ha. That's what i call em too and it's been a while since I've heard someone else say it 😂😂😂
GIIIIIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRL-A!!!!😂😂😂😜😂😂😜😂😂😂💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
😮😮. Uh uh, helicopter moms are the WORSE! I went with my daughter to her 1st gyno appt with my gynecologist. I prepared her beforehand with how to advocate for herself. That is a very private situation, and moms do not need to be in the room. My gynecologist is a man and always has a nurse in the room with him when conducting exams.
I did this in reverse with my Dad when I would go to his doctor appointments.
He would look at me when they asked him questions???
And when the activity questions came up… I was like he better not be…😮 oops 😬
There were a lot of Golden Girl Sofias and Blanches around….
GREAT job at teaching your daughters to advocate for themselves!
Congratulations 🎉And, I'm so glad that Bleu is doing great! EIko now has a playmate. 😊
Saw you last night @Flappers in @Burbank. Girl, you were good. We had a REALLY good time. God Bless
"Kidney things"!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 EJ, you too much 😊 God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Mama Ej! They’ll use that mouth for something foolish, but they need to learn to use it productively.
I wish you were coming to a town near me!
I swear I go through this with my 23yr old. I'm like miss lady you are grown now. Smh
😂😂😂😂😂I I had to send this to my other daughter 😂😂😂😂
DR: are you active?
Mom: 🗣️TALK TALK
Shanedra: 👁️👄👁️
She was cute n funny at the same time 😂😂😂❤
12/11 Houston?!
12/12 Arlington?!
I cant wait!! Been following since 2020 and you've had solid points along with great topics, and hilarious skits! Gonna have to bring my best friend cause we've been subscribed since the "Millenials Are Broke But Still Have Money To Travel!" 🤣🤣
This is a full circle moment! Cause we aren't broke -yet we aint rich! But we're definitely traveling to come see you and your amazing "Vocals! -They flow like water!" 🎤💜🙌 My friend is gonna be so shocked and happy to see you on stage! Safe travels and sending positive/motivational energy your way!🙌🙌
Not the whoha! I’m on da floor!!!🤣🤣🤣
Ej speaks is tell her daughter is to speak up when you at the doctor appointment
My mom and I!❤
Girl! I know she wish her Dad brought her ❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂 .
"🍩 look at me, i'm not you" I felt that.. lol but i would explain my parents so they could tell the gp or doctor.. lol
Your hair is growing out very nicely‼️🏆👉🏽👩🏽
🤭🤭🤭
If this wasn’t me with my daughter!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 All truth, EJ!! But the code switching took me out!!!!
E.J. SPEAKS DID IT AGAIN 😂😂😂😂😂
She sure did! 🙌🏽
Lol that's whats parents do, they will make you speak up and if you don't their telling it all 😂😂
It's the accuracy for me. 😂😂😂
Glad you got that HIPAA part correct ❤👍🏾✅️
You are sooo funny!!!! Love this channel, I'm subscribed.
We just got to go that first time to the gynecologist. ❤ Most of these young ladies really don't be wanting to talk and we have to at least show them the first time what you're SUPPOSED TO to DO up in here! 😅
HHHHHHHHHAAAAAA!!!!!! 😂😂
Not a “hoo haw”!!!!! 😂😂
My daughter said coming in the door that she didn’t want me to go back with her only to have the nurse come back out later to say my daughter wanted me to be in the room with her… yep if she would just listen when I am trying to tell her stuff🙄
😂this me asking and answering all the questions for her and me telling my daughter to speak up
I am in tears 🤣
Ooo Lawd, I did NOT like this phase with my girls; Fillng out some of their own paperwork, privacy laws, the doctors giving them an option of whether or not I could stay in the room. What??!!??!😳😒😠 I’M THE MAMA!!😤 😅😅
Omg this is my mom and I’m 37 years old 😂. I literally had to quietly and calmly ask her to 🛑.
😂😂😂Siiiiiiis, you sound just like me...and my daughter is almost 27.
It’s just a who-ha lmbo 😆😂🤣
THAT PURSE!!!!! LMAO!!!!
Be looking like mom can you please stop 😂😂😂😂
that we was me and my momma till I kicked her out of all of my doctors appointments loo doing all that makes you nervous and scared!
The voice change!😂😂😂😂
Baby I'm 32 and my mama still act like this with the drs when she visit with me. She my emergency contact and my medical proxy if anything go wrong so her number one saying is "i gots to kno what's going on witchu to make the right decision. So speak up and ask everything" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
The code switching is crazy lol😂😂😂😂😂
Is this the same medical office where Miss Jackie works? Cause I noticed the name Cheryl mentioned in there...
Hilarious!!!! As Always!!!🤣
OMGOSH this sounds just like me and my child 23 and I still do this😂
Very accurate.
🤍🖤🧡This is why I go to the doctor, dentist, grocery stores, parks, museums, restaurants, movies, social gatherings ALONE!!!💯🤦🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🧡🤍🖤