Hi Becky! I’m a long time subscriber, but I don’t think I’ve ever posted in the comments. This video went straight to my heart, as the mother of 2 girls, ages 20 & 12. It felt so reassuring to hear another mother talk about the struggles specific to this season of life. I can’t believe how quickly my children have grown and even though they are both still at home, I’m already starting to feel sad knowing that they will leave the nest all too soon. I feel so blessed that I have been able to homeschool them and be at home with them all these years, however, I worry that I have shaped my identity around that and that it will make being an empty nester even harder. Thank you for all of your great content over the years. I always enjoy your posts and appreciate your tips and advice. Sending you a big hug!! ❤😊
This was such a helpful video! I am so glad I decided to come over to your channel. It was worth it. I have an 18-year-old, and it is hard, and emotionally draining. When they are small, we can fix most of their problems, but the older they get, the less power we have to fix things. It is hard. So thank you for reminding me that I am not alone.
THANK YOU for this video! I needed this. I have a 21 and 18 year old and 2 younger ones right behind them. I’ve homeschooled the older and still homeschooling my younger ones. Raised them in a Christian home but this world is so hard to live in right now. The influences are so bad and these poor young adults are trying to enjoy and live life but it’s hard out there. I pray for them often and hope like you have said my younger children learn from all that we are going through with my older ones. It’s been a learning experience for me to to try to navigate them through this life that has changed so much since I was their age. Again, thank you for this video. I don’t feel so alone. I wish more people talked about this.
I am so glad you shared your heart in this video! This is by far the most difficult time as a mother, especially a Homeschool mother, watching them transition into adulthood. I cry almost every day. My kids are 29, 23, 19, 18, and 17. I am 53 years old, so I know a lot of my emotions are intertwines with menopause, which takes it to a whole new level. I too like to have they say, and everything they do. I definitely learned a lot with my oldest, however, the mistakes I Have made still somewhat linger on. I thought that homeschooling my children would benefit them in their spiritual journey. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I find myself blaming myself for the decisions. My oldest children are making wondering what did I do wrong? I’m thankful that I have a close friend who gently reminds me that they are adults and they make their own choices and it is not my fault. I lost my husband 13 years ago, so I am transitioning into adulthood by myself. I feel like I could ramble on and on and on. It’s 4:30 in the morning and I couldn’t sleep. I’m so glad I caught up on watching your videos. Another thing that is hard for me, is that, the channels that I have subscribed to are transitioning out of Homeschool and into other things like their hobbies. It’s just another show this part of my life ending. I loved homeschooling. My kids and I would do it all over again. I see this younger generation bringing their children upand it makes me miss those early years so much. Forgive my grammar errors lol I’m using Siri. Thank you for the encouragement, Becky!
I can so relate. My daughters are 19, 17 and 14 and I'm being tested daily and have to step back and analyze my parenting. Definitely trying times, this shall pass.
I deeply appreciate that you made this video Becky. Thank you. There is so much in life that I struggle with and feel behind in, or that I didn't do well in, but when I had my girls I put all my efforts and focus into them, and it hasn't been until recently, in trying to prepare them more for the world and just having to confront issues that are typical for their age, that I am having to revisit my own anxiety and lack of self confidence and not wanting to mess things up for them. It just feels like this intense pressure, and then throw perimenopause into the mix, and all of the other things going on, and it is quite a roller coaster ride. I feel less alone now, and I would love to see more videos like this.
My dad told me that parenting never gets easier. Whether your child is 9 or 55 years old, you will still worry and your child will still test you. What changes are your levels of worry, but that the amount of love and understanding you have for your child keeps growing and growing. Which is very needed especially in the world we live in. And that how you see your child and how they see you changes over time. It's not awlays a bad thing though. But also that sometimes your child is just going to drive you crazy. Great video Miss Becky!
I truly appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Recently, I turned 44 and have 2 boys (15 and 14), and I can tell you that I am feeling all the same things you spoke about. Some days it’s so hard for me to function with how many thoughts I have in my head (along with the crying, also). Our kids are living in such a different world than what we grew up in, so it’s even harder for us as parents to understand at times. The thing I’m learning slowly is that it’s going to take a lot of patience, prayers, and grace for ourselves and our kids. I pray for these things for you, Becky. It’s definitely a new road for us all and you’re not alone.
Thank you for this. I'm 42, but I had kids late, so my girls are 10 and 8. I've been trying so hard lately to cherish these times because I see them changing so much already, and I know that things will just get more difficult every year. This world is so hard. Prayers for you and your girls. 🙏🏻🩷🩷
Soon to be 20 yr old kiddo that is going to head off 10 hours away from us for a school…doesn’t want to take car..good driver,doesn’t care to drive anywhere but it’s SOOO scarier when they leave the house…life was so hard in the baby years with mega illness but these years are hard too…just discovered need to get POA for healthcare and financial bc child is over 18 and out of state….no one would speak to us if something happened
Yes happy to see more videos about this stage of life. I am in my 40s and I feel I am definitely learning a lot about myself and trying to change the things that are not serving me. I have also been more emotional and anxious. Remember you are in the age bracket for perimenopause, so that may have something to do with your increased crying. Thanks for your video. 😊
I feel like I could write a book in this comments section! First of all, yes please we need videos on your journey of self improvement and not giving up on yourself!!! I have been having so many of those feelings lately, so definitely needing inspiration! Second, my oldest is 13.5 and I am absolutely dreading having her graduate and get a job and move out, be in relationships, etc. The whole thing terrifies me. I have 5 more behind her; so I want to get it as right as I can from the start, instead of just bumbling my way through. I seriously appreciate you doing this video, thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing your struggles in such a positive way, and with such honesty and love. My son is 13 and is very strong headed, which i know will be good in later life, but its hard when he is still learning how to channel that.
Hi Becky! I’m a long time subscriber, but I don’t think I’ve ever posted in the comments. This video went straight to my heart, as the mother of 2 girls, ages 20 & 12. It felt so reassuring to hear another mother talk about the struggles specific to this season of life. I can’t believe how quickly my children have grown and even though they are both still at home, I’m already starting to feel sad knowing that they will leave the nest all too soon. I feel so blessed that I have been able to homeschool them and be at home with them all these years, however, I worry that I have shaped my identity around that and that it will make being an empty nester even harder. Thank you for all of your great content over the years. I always enjoy your posts and appreciate your tips and advice. Sending you a big hug!! ❤😊
This was such a helpful video! I am so glad I decided to come over to your channel. It was worth it. I have an 18-year-old, and it is hard, and emotionally draining. When they are small, we can fix most of their problems, but the older they get, the less power we have to fix things. It is hard. So thank you for reminding me that I am not alone.
THANK YOU for this video! I needed this. I have a 21 and 18 year old and 2 younger ones right behind them. I’ve homeschooled the older and still homeschooling my younger ones. Raised them in a Christian home but this world is so hard to live in right now. The influences are so bad and these poor young adults are trying to enjoy and live life but it’s hard out there. I pray for them often and hope like you have said my younger children learn from all that we are going through with my older ones. It’s been a learning experience for me to to try to navigate them through this life that has changed so much since I was their age. Again, thank you for this video. I don’t feel so alone. I wish more people talked about this.
I definitely relate to this with a 14 and 18 yr old. I actually think this stage is so much harder than when they were little.
I am so glad you shared your heart in this video! This is by far the most difficult time as a mother, especially a Homeschool mother, watching them transition into adulthood. I cry almost every day. My kids are 29, 23, 19, 18, and 17. I am 53 years old, so I know a lot of my emotions are intertwines with menopause, which takes it to a whole new level. I too like to have they say, and everything they do. I definitely learned a lot with my oldest, however, the mistakes I Have made still somewhat linger on. I thought that homeschooling my children would benefit them in their spiritual journey. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I find myself blaming myself for the decisions. My oldest children are making wondering what did I do wrong? I’m thankful that I have a close friend who gently reminds me that they are adults and they make their own choices and it is not my fault. I lost my husband 13 years ago, so I am transitioning into adulthood by myself. I feel like I could ramble on and on and on. It’s 4:30 in the morning and I couldn’t sleep. I’m so glad I caught up on watching your videos. Another thing that is hard for me, is that, the channels that I have subscribed to are transitioning out of Homeschool and into other things like their hobbies. It’s just another show this part of my life ending. I loved homeschooling. My kids and I would do it all over again. I see this younger generation bringing their children upand it makes me miss those early years so much. Forgive my grammar errors lol I’m using Siri. Thank you for the encouragement, Becky!
I can so relate. My daughters are 19, 17 and 14 and I'm being tested daily and have to step back and analyze my parenting. Definitely trying times, this shall pass.
I deeply appreciate that you made this video Becky. Thank you. There is so much in life that I struggle with and feel behind in, or that I didn't do well in, but when I had my girls I put all my efforts and focus into them, and it hasn't been until recently, in trying to prepare them more for the world and just having to confront issues that are typical for their age, that I am having to revisit my own anxiety and lack of self confidence and not wanting to mess things up for them. It just feels like this intense pressure, and then throw perimenopause into the mix, and all of the other things going on, and it is quite a roller coaster ride. I feel less alone now, and I would love to see more videos like this.
My dad told me that parenting never gets easier. Whether your child is 9 or 55 years old, you will still worry and your child will still test you. What changes are your levels of worry, but that the amount of love and understanding you have for your child keeps growing and growing. Which is very needed especially in the world we live in. And that how you see your child and how they see you changes over time. It's not awlays a bad thing though. But also that sometimes your child is just going to drive you crazy. Great video Miss Becky!
I truly appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Recently, I turned 44 and have 2 boys (15 and 14), and I can tell you that I am feeling all the same things you spoke about. Some days it’s so hard for me to function with how many thoughts I have in my head (along with the crying, also). Our kids are living in such a different world than what we grew up in, so it’s even harder for us as parents to understand at times. The thing I’m learning slowly is that it’s going to take a lot of patience, prayers, and grace for ourselves and our kids. I pray for these things for you, Becky. It’s definitely a new road for us all and you’re not alone.
This was a very encouraging video! Yes, please do more of these and also the improving yourself videos. They are just really helpful. ❤
Thank you for this. I'm 42, but I had kids late, so my girls are 10 and 8. I've been trying so hard lately to cherish these times because I see them changing so much already, and I know that things will just get more difficult every year. This world is so hard. Prayers for you and your girls. 🙏🏻🩷🩷
Soon to be 20 yr old kiddo that is going to head off 10 hours away from us for a school…doesn’t want to take car..good driver,doesn’t care to drive anywhere but it’s SOOO scarier when they leave the house…life was so hard in the baby years with mega illness but these years are hard too…just discovered need to get POA for healthcare and financial bc child is over 18 and out of state….no one would speak to us if something happened
Awe Becky! Love this! Thanks for sharing your heart!😊
Yes, all of this is so true! I have 4 boys and my oldest is almost 17. It's such a hard transition. Thanks for sharing!
Yes happy to see more videos about this stage of life. I am in my 40s and I feel I am definitely learning a lot about myself and trying to change the things that are not serving me. I have also been more emotional and anxious. Remember you are in the age bracket for perimenopause, so that may have something to do with your increased crying. Thanks for your video. 😊
I feel like I could write a book in this comments section! First of all, yes please we need videos on your journey of self improvement and not giving up on yourself!!! I have been having so many of those feelings lately, so definitely needing inspiration! Second, my oldest is 13.5 and I am absolutely dreading having her graduate and get a job and move out, be in relationships, etc. The whole thing terrifies me. I have 5 more behind her; so I want to get it as right as I can from the start, instead of just bumbling my way through. I seriously appreciate you doing this video, thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing your struggles in such a positive way, and with such honesty and love. My son is 13 and is very strong headed, which i know will be good in later life, but its hard when he is still learning how to channel that.
Thank you for sharing. I have a 14 year old and also 9 and 6 year olds.
Great video and perspective!!! My girls are coming upon their teen years now!!
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