British boyfriend went to Malay wedding for the first time | EP.6 | British boyfriend in Malaysia

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  • @MsColdies
    @MsColdies Рік тому +225

    Hi ben. It is actually normal to wear baju melayu in malay weddings since it is the traditional outfit. Sometimes, ppl usually wear only the baju, not the entire set. But i would always like and appreciate to see ppl with full set of baju melayu coming to the weddings. It just shows that they are full of courtesy and the look amazing too. Btw, i wish ben n jade to have their weddings in Malaysia soon!

    • @syigloo
      @syigloo Рік тому +8

      Yes, back in the 80s, 90s men wore proper attire which is baju melayu to weddings. Then they changed the trend & wore formal batik shirts. But nowadays men are too lazy to wear formal attire. They just wear any non formal polo shirts instead, which i found less respectful to the people who invite them. Please guys, wear formal attire to weddings & appropriately to show our respect to the invitation.

    • @deniealnieal1037
      @deniealnieal1037 Рік тому +4

      Nowadays only family members or someone related to the groom/bride wore them lol

  • @zafir7007
    @zafir7007 Рік тому +34

    The idea of a Malay wedding is to feed as many people as possible. It gives blessing to the bride and groom as one of the first act as a family is to feed people.

  • @baizhuisadeks
    @baizhuisadeks Рік тому +103

    dasol turning into makcik mode was one of the highlights of the video 🤣 soo funny HAHAHAAHA.
    and the clothes from hijabista hub looked so good on you both 🤩 i love it!

  • @akaiyukihana
    @akaiyukihana Рік тому +73

    Wearing baju melayu to a wedding is proper. It's quite traditional.

  • @FolderName92
    @FolderName92 Рік тому +30

    ben's wearing the baju melayu is quite good actually for the event. it just that nowadays, no one wanna wear the baju melayu completed with samping from the morning for an event that started later, and only for a while, but it still happens, esp during weekend. and love that color on you guys 🎉

  • @nurulzeety1050
    @nurulzeety1050 Рік тому +27

    Dasol outfit look so gorgeous, jade n ben feel like husband and wife 😊

  • @AzizOthman
    @AzizOthman Рік тому +122

    omg ngl that baju melayu looks so nice 😫😫😫

    • @ttasmirah9002
      @ttasmirah9002 Рік тому +4

      Sbb tu hairan knp zaman skrg.. kat Malaysia makin pelik2 fashion.. klau pegi majlis kahwin.. klau kat Brunei d panggil cara Melayu.. katalah sbuah majlis kahwin tu ada 5 sesi Adat Istiadat.. mmg kena sedia 5 psg prsalinan baju Melayu lengkap.. 😅 pakai baju lain.. mmg org pndang atas bwah..

    • @politikbebas2335
      @politikbebas2335 Рік тому +1

      @@ttasmirah9002kat Malaysia ada jugak..kadang sampai 10 pasang..tp baju cina la..Korea la ..akak ipar aku pelik2..siap pakai kimono..😂😂😂

  • @sawaalbino
    @sawaalbino Рік тому +40

    The teasing at weddings for singles are worse if the wedding is for their younger siblings

  • @salmaishaq9512
    @salmaishaq9512 Рік тому +18

    He never panicked..... but he didn't function well. Hehe... that's epic. 😂😂😂 btw nice couple outfit. Me always appreciate men in traditional clothes when attending the wedding party

  • @ferfrenz
    @ferfrenz Рік тому +13

    Dasol eonnie, since when you hv the makcik mode and become one of them??? 😂 so cuteee thooo my God! 💗

  • @yukionna77
    @yukionna77 Рік тому +9

    😂😂kesian Ben..dasol being makcik bawang 😂jade always love the foods

  • @xchaix
    @xchaix Рік тому +38

    makcik Dasol teamed up. ahahahhaha

  • @walynbahaman1308
    @walynbahaman1308 Рік тому +28

    Dasol look like one of typical Malay mak cik- mak cik😂😂😂. Hahahaha

  • @Qqqis___
    @Qqqis___ Рік тому +16

    Poor jade...😅😅hahahhaha i think he's going cultural shock, there's a lot more to see if you stay here in Malaysia longer. All the best learning malaysian culture 👍🏼

  • @adamzack9259
    @adamzack9259 Рік тому +11

    hahahaha..very funny scene when Ben ran over of the bridal stage and how Jade & Dasol planned on it ...😂😂 ...

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  Рік тому +2

      That’s my favorite part😂😂

  • @hawaandroid2786
    @hawaandroid2786 Рік тому +7

    Dasol hyping up Ben and Jade is so funny.

  • @NanaLurvRed
    @NanaLurvRed Рік тому +21

    One of the funniest episode😹😹😹

  • @laseus
    @laseus Рік тому +6

    Ben look so nervouse...kenchanaa Ben....go go Ben...chaiyok²

  • @TheGhostUchiha7
    @TheGhostUchiha7 Рік тому +2

    Omg Dasol look so good. The black kebaya really suits her so well. She looks like a bachelorette 😂
    Btw in Malay culture the groom and bride is treated like a King & Queen that day. Thats why you see in traditional weddings we have the Kompang (drums), the silat performance etc. Its like the whole event is to see royalty. And u can even realise the groom is dressed like a King with his Tanjak (Crown) and the keris (Distinct dagger which is a historical weapon of important warriors that is believed to even have spiritual powers in olden days)

  • @ericlai3221
    @ericlai3221 Рік тому +9

    Selamat pengantin baru! Semoga kebahagiaan dan cinta selalu menyertai perjalanan indah kehidupan kalian bersama

  • @mohdfaizaltukimon1752
    @mohdfaizaltukimon1752 Рік тому +4

    not me smiling through the whole video. Hopefully, you guys can be a beautiful family one day. shout out to Ben and Jade

  • @Akanor
    @Akanor Рік тому +10

    Say yes😂😂

  • @asyrafyap110
    @asyrafyap110 Рік тому +17

    semoga Ben & Jade cepat naik ke pelamin 😁

  • @kakitiub9361
    @kakitiub9361 Рік тому +5

    So cute both of you. And learnt something at malay wedding

  • @hidayahhehe
    @hidayahhehe Рік тому +2

    Baju hijau pokok pisang cute... U both cute🎉❤

  • @mohdroslanrashid1592
    @mohdroslanrashid1592 Рік тому +12

    Ben ... you look alike 'The Ghost In The Sky' actor.😅😅😅

  • @nuratiqa1217
    @nuratiqa1217 Рік тому +5

    😮 that baju melayu look so nice 😍

  • @amerjensen
    @amerjensen 7 місяців тому

    Dasol turning looks with this outfit, this garment was made for her 😮

  • @just_ignore_brainless_hater
    @just_ignore_brainless_hater Рік тому +13

    Love Ben & Jade slow2 diperkenalkan dengan adat2 melayu❤

  • @salmh8454
    @salmh8454 Рік тому +2

    Ben jangan tunggu lama lama😅..video yg mantap jade,dassol

  • @mohdamirhafiz2910
    @mohdamirhafiz2910 Рік тому +10

    Kampung wedding will reach 2k easily 😂..

  • @randomnetizen7065
    @randomnetizen7065 Рік тому +4

    Ngl jade's bahasa melayu sound so good

  • @cyamerols
    @cyamerols Рік тому +4

    Ben your wedding coming soon with my princess Jade.. dasol now already being a queen with in her husband as a King ❤

  • @FromPerakWithLove
    @FromPerakWithLove Рік тому +2

    Ben so funny. First time i saw western man look shy.

  • @khairikhalil980
    @khairikhalil980 Рік тому +5

    2 types of weddings. 1. Buffet Style (you come anytime) 2. Seated (with itinerary - normally in hotels)

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  Рік тому +1

      Yeah!! Same in Korea!!😆

  • @shamsurymohdsalleh3062
    @shamsurymohdsalleh3062 Рік тому +6

    Kesian Ben... hahaha

  • @sitiafiqah6598
    @sitiafiqah6598 Рік тому

    this is so funny sia 🤣 dasol makcik bawang 😂

  • @drbakshaharuddin7293
    @drbakshaharuddin7293 Рік тому

    The highlight of this episode is watching Dasol acts as the typical Makcik Bawang!

  • @kyuhxuan
    @kyuhxuan Рік тому +4

    U should join our other Malaysian race wedding too!! 😊

  • @aidasuzila4402
    @aidasuzila4402 Рік тому +2

    Dont worry ben kat kampung kami masih pakai baju kurung baju melayu pergi wedding...like hari raya❤

  • @savvy2291k
    @savvy2291k Рік тому +4

    Both of you very connected ❤

  • @knowingaida5703
    @knowingaida5703 Рік тому +32

    Don't worry Ben 🤣🤣 It is normal for the male guests to wear Baju Melayu to a wedding, not just the groom and bride's fathers. It just that maybe coincidentally most people don't wear it during the wedding that you guys attend 😂😂😂

    • @syigloo
      @syigloo Рік тому +4

      Yes, Ben is not wrong at all, he wears the right attire actually. But those guys are too lazy to wear formal clothing. Shouldn't be that way.

    • @tanaaz7593
      @tanaaz7593 11 місяців тому

      ​@@syigloo Yeahh.

  • @Tyoung902
    @Tyoung902 11 місяців тому

    Why they speak malay very nice 😭❤️ im appreciate that much

  • @jaynne313
    @jaynne313 Рік тому

    Dasol officially becomes a professional makcik2 already...

  • @MDroid-bn6eb
    @MDroid-bn6eb Рік тому +6

    Alhamdullilah Melayu maju. Kahwin di hotel, bawak kerete mewah, baju mahal2. ❤❤

  • @shuib
    @shuib 10 місяців тому

    This is truly an interesting and funny video. Jade is hilarious and witty. Impressed by your Bahasa Melayu, Dasol is naughty and Ben is cool. These days, Malay weddings are not the same, I wouldn't call it 100 percent traditional. A lot of modern elements have been infused. Then again, times are changing too.

  • @syitaaaa
    @syitaaaa Рік тому +1

    usually during wedding, groom & bride side will wearing proper traditional outfit while the guest can wearing proper casual/formal attire. But during eid, we all will wear the traditional outfit. But nowadays generation choose to wear traditional outfit especially woman/girls because it looks good in picture😆

  • @supermik
    @supermik Рік тому +10

    Actually, it's normal to wear full-fledge baju Melayu to a wedding ceremony. It is more respectful and proper.

    • @syigloo
      @syigloo Рік тому

      Yes, even my husband sticks to the tradition to show respect.

  • @jcameron223
    @jcameron223 11 місяців тому

    Wearing Baju Melayu to any wedding ceremony, shows that you’re a distinguished guest. By the way, Ben would look more handsome wearing a ‘songkok’. 😊

  • @kapitankapitalis6392
    @kapitankapitalis6392 Рік тому +1

    Ben`s outfit baju melayu fits well... nice cutting

  • @NURULJANNAHBINTIAZIZMoe
    @NURULJANNAHBINTIAZIZMoe 11 місяців тому +1

    I have a challenge for blimey to try to invite tws kpop, I'm a big tws fan🙈

  • @ryunekoyashiki
    @ryunekoyashiki Рік тому +4

    felt like Ben is an introvert person....yeah i totally can relate to that 😅😁

    • @TWbenIN
      @TWbenIN Рік тому

      He for sure is

  • @AzmanMan-z8n
    @AzmanMan-z8n Рік тому +2

    Blimeyyy come to melaka and eat ikan masak asam pedas the most popular in melaka and cendol kampung hulu

  • @mumtazahmustajab9870
    @mumtazahmustajab9870 Рік тому +1

    You will receive a high respect if you wear Baju Melayu when attending a wedding. Malaysian men should keep this tradition alive. Thank you Ben.

  • @rabiatuladawiyah0008
    @rabiatuladawiyah0008 Рік тому +1

    “How u know that?” - Ben
    “Well, I’m almost Malaysian 😂😂” - Jade
    This made me laugh non stop tho 😂

  • @wargaalam
    @wargaalam Рік тому +2

    Jade, all people are waiting for Ben to say Yes for wedding.. aiyoo

    • @TWbenIN
      @TWbenIN Рік тому

      I think it’s the other way around! Jade has to say yes!

    • @wargaalam
      @wargaalam Рік тому

      @@TWbenIN no it looks like Jade is ready but Ben doesn't wanna has commitment yet. So Ben has to say Yes to himself first as Jade is already waiting for the Ben's proposal

  • @dearika90
    @dearika90 Рік тому

    i like when you sympathy with 'single be asking when to married' hahaha its already like bonus question in our culture

  • @tangcheekong9778
    @tangcheekong9778 Рік тому +5

    Ben!When!!...
    ...when will Ben finally accept to being king for a day?,🤔

  • @haslinamy4659
    @haslinamy4659 Рік тому

    Totally can relate I brought my american bf to malay wedding. He was very shy but foods bring everyone togather and wonder why people like to take pict with him. 😂😂

  • @YusriTheYus
    @YusriTheYus Рік тому +3

    I hear the bells ring!! 🔔

  • @amerjensen
    @amerjensen 7 місяців тому

    Jade technically Malaysian💯

  • @fastremix9806
    @fastremix9806 Рік тому +7

    Ben betul2 nmpk gementar 😂😂

  • @RunsingBagaiNakGila
    @RunsingBagaiNakGila Рік тому +1

    Ben 10 had a mission, thats why he ran away swiftly~~

  • @SongHwaRin
    @SongHwaRin Рік тому +5

    First 🎉🎉

  • @Ong.s_Jukebox
    @Ong.s_Jukebox Рік тому +4

    Cultural appropriation, lol. Only westerners have the time to worry about that. Us here are very proud when we see foreigners appreciating our culture.

  • @kopxpert
    @kopxpert 10 місяців тому +1

    0:20 "Morning Dumpling".... omg Jade, u like cringey stuff? 🤣😂

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  10 місяців тому

      No cause my face round like dumpling 🥹🥲

    • @kopxpert
      @kopxpert 10 місяців тому

      @@Blimeywow 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @hawaandroid2786
    @hawaandroid2786 Рік тому +2

    Ben, actually the correct attire to wear to wedding for men is Baju Melayu.,Sadly many just come wearing normal cloth nowadays

  • @X_101
    @X_101 Рік тому

    🥰🥰cantik kacak dan menawan berseri2 wajah,,,memakai ber baju kurung melayu,,

  • @phyzL
    @phyzL Рік тому +1

    The thought of marriage really freaks Ben out

  • @saraeff6845
    @saraeff6845 Рік тому

    Jade’s malay is pretty good 😍

  • @nurilraimi6307
    @nurilraimi6307 Рік тому

    This is modern wedding… i hope you guys will have the chance to experience more traditional wedding

  • @MinahBelohz
    @MinahBelohz Рік тому

    I love makcik dasol😂

  • @mumtazahmustajab9870
    @mumtazahmustajab9870 Рік тому +1

    The wedding march is actually common. In the olden days, the march can be in the whole kampung before arriving to the wedding location. It also depends if the wedding is organized by the bride's family or by the groom's family. Traditionally there would be 2 weddings: bride side first, then groom side. However there occasions where the bride's family and groom's family would organize the wedding together (share the cost and saves time too).

  • @soundthatblindingguy5469
    @soundthatblindingguy5469 Рік тому

    Say yes say yes!!

  • @Sam-yj6br
    @Sam-yj6br Рік тому +1

    Ben : "How do you know all of this Jade? "
    Jade : " Haa saya orang Malaysia " XD

  • @ed-rr1vi
    @ed-rr1vi Рік тому +1

    Cmon ben 😂

  • @narakaii2725
    @narakaii2725 Рік тому +1

    I just hope peoples will stop asking when will jade and ben get married , ofcourse its okay to ask once or twice but not more than that , ben look uncomfortable . Let wish them happy till the end . (Sorry for bad english 😊)

  • @haffuan
    @haffuan 11 місяців тому

    u guys ar sooo cuteeee

  • @RunsingBagaiNakGila
    @RunsingBagaiNakGila Рік тому +1

    Steady Jade & Ben 10....

  • @kehey
    @kehey 11 місяців тому

    kalo berani interview kim pan gon laaa🤣💪🫰

  • @syaa_selek
    @syaa_selek 11 місяців тому

    Blimey tried to watch mat kilau, a Malay movie 🔥👍🏻

  • @AmyDuan
    @AmyDuan Рік тому +1

    BEN!! WHEN????!!!!! LOL

  • @DagingKicap
    @DagingKicap Рік тому +2

    You know, each state wedding ceremony had different kind of foods and events. If you come to Johor, the groom needs to handsout pocket money to the siblings and families that was on wedding throne. Depends on the groom how many Ringgit they want to give.

  • @memetandmuradwithfamily9256
    @memetandmuradwithfamily9256 Рік тому +1

    The Malay race has many tribes and customs, each state in Malaysia has different customs and cultures

  • @GPResidence
    @GPResidence Рік тому +1

    hi cg ismadiah,

  • @frenzyhoodxfhx3963
    @frenzyhoodxfhx3963 Рік тому

    Jade is so Malaysian 😂

  • @shedaamn2259
    @shedaamn2259 Рік тому +5

    Nakal betul si dasol. Cheeky sgt

  • @TWbenIN
    @TWbenIN Рік тому

    Thanks❤

  • @Toy5290
    @Toy5290 Рік тому +6

    ini belum pergi kenduri kawin kat area felda...silap2 diorg yang lagi femes dari pengantin.

  • @malasfikirable
    @malasfikirable Рік тому +3

    👍👍👍👍👍

  • @mohdhafizesuliman4593
    @mohdhafizesuliman4593 25 днів тому

    It is common to wear baju melayu when attending wedding in Johor

  • @miorandmior
    @miorandmior 10 місяців тому

    The korean lady in the blue baju kurung looks an awful lot like ahn hye kyung 😊

  • @cikcidda9101
    @cikcidda9101 7 місяців тому

    Skrg kenapa xda video lagi😢

  • @lunarosalindalexious255
    @lunarosalindalexious255 Рік тому

    Be prepared to become celebrity ben

  • @mell7702
    @mell7702 Рік тому

    usually weddings in Malaysia isat time range so people can come simultaneously. that is why we can invite 1000 people

    • @mell7702
      @mell7702 Рік тому

      my kampung wedding invitees was 2000 people. hahaha but in KL side was only 650 people

  • @roxcemat8658
    @roxcemat8658 9 місяців тому

    Ben and Jade ..here we don't kawan Lama² nnti jadi telur busuk.

  • @jnamarketing8481
    @jnamarketing8481 Рік тому +1

    But if you have 2-3 weddings to attend in one day. You should plan your eating..dont eat to much in one event. People will get offended if you attend their wedding but don't eat.

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  Рік тому

      Ohhh that’s a really good tip🥰

  • @amahmad6912
    @amahmad6912 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @myname3715
    @myname3715 Рік тому

    Do u guys really have budu in your office?😂

  • @UNKHOWN-mn9ro
    @UNKHOWN-mn9ro Рік тому

    BLIMEY AND BEN
    When the NASI MINYAK WILL COMING?
    dont be long ok.

    • @Blimeywow
      @Blimeywow  Рік тому

      Hahahahaha team makcik💪💪
      Don’t worry I’ll push them more😏