There are plenty of organizations pushing for porn education to be taught alongside of sex education. Kids are getting exposed to the stuff long before they learn that porn might have detrimental side effects.
thomaswenker, even with the current situation now with children/teens, parents would probably be resistant to such a thing being mentioned (as they don't want their kids being exposed to it), but it's the same dumb argument that parents make against education on weed and other drugs.
pornography addiction is probably one of the most underrated mental health issues in modern society. i'm glad videos like this exist to help educate the public. great work!
@@alexeykulikov2739 Except that there are addicted girls too so we are losing from both groups. (but guys are more likely so you argument still applies)
Welcome to youtube. At least this is using those techniques to keep you interested in a topic discussing the dangers of habitual dopamine seeking behaviors.
i quit watching porn 5 weeks ago. In that time, i took up yoga, i'm set up to move out in a week, and i've quit smoking. I'm also looking for a new job. No joke.
HelterSkelter i am not convinced, neither DSM-5 nor ICD-11 classify porn as addiction or mental disorder. By your broad understanding of addiction, anything can be called addictive behaviour even eating. When obviously eating and sex are more of a needs.
This is a reason why I stopped playing video games, drastically cut down on social media and stopped with porn completely. I focus on studying and reading books. I've been a happier person since leaving all that behind.
Planning to go to university to study Computer Science with Mathematics. Trying to get my maths knowledge up so I can tackle the hardest assessment in the country.
That was exactly I gradually did three years ago. It took some time but I came - :v - in conclusion and realize that I couldn't keep with the games and everything if I want to (really) progress in my studies. And of course, I'm talking for myself.
Do a video on existential crisis. The feeling of void that cannot seem to be filled no matter what. How suicidal thoughts are not triggered by a tragedy but are a part of the daily life always going on in the back of the mind.
Get a sense of humour about small things, then larger things. As sense of humour is a natural defense. Dont feel guilty to laugh at things u cant control. Laughing doesnt mean u dont care or cant create positive change. Paradoxically jokers are actually more effective at getting things done
Just exercise. It's the easy remedy to both of these and more. You'll be more intelligent, less anxious and happier if you exercise. The benefits to your health are a cool secondary effect.
I find myself scrolling through my home page way longer than I should it's kinda scary when I catch myself. UA-cam should be used as a tool for you to find entertainment or education, but for me it's the content that finds me.
It's not exactly our fault that the song was in this video. We didn't decide to edit that song in. Besides, it's far more moronic to not understand the actual message in a medium and instead judge all of its meaning on the title alone. Are you the type of person who only reads the titles of articles in the news too, Rob? That'd be like shooting yourself in the foot.
If porn use truly enters the realm of addiction, then simply trying to stop "cold turkey" will not work. All addictions follow a similar cycle and process, and essentially act as emotional coping mechanisms (that is to say they are medicative). To break free from the cycle, one must replace the unhealthy behavior with new, efficient coping mechanisms that help regulate and sooth negative emotions.
Exactly. Humans are built by addiction, because it's the brute method our brains use to force us to try and survive. We aren't creatures of habit, but creatures of addiction. You simply need to find actually positive 'addictions'. Exercise releases dopamine, getting money releases dopamine, etc,.
That’s been my theory too, we are built in a way to get Addicted to things sooner or later, Now whether that addiction is negative or positive, that’s ur decision
I watched so much porn that I've pretty much lost the ability of arousal, I even tried prostitutes but nothing helps. I think the fact I've never had a romantic relationship, besides the odd one night stand every now and then, plays a part in my obsession. Right now I'm trying to quit porn and focus on myself without the feeling of needing sexual gratification and approval of others
@Heksje Lilly Can't believe this was 10 months ago haha. I quit for the longest time but then only this past month I've started watching it again, I don't feel as addicted as I once was though. I have been on a few dates since then but still remain single, the virus being partly to blame
I would like to see a comparison of dopamine increase when: - eating sweets (sugar) - playing computer games - watching movies - fapping - drugs - other stuff Till now I have no idea what is the worst and how different they are when it goes to dopamine increase.
@@zephenex4203 I Think porn is the worst. It is what we used to reproduce... The waves of chemicals that comes out to the brain in the frontal cortex is highly above than drugs.
@@garyleaver3714 I am gonna stand behind this commenter. Finding a hobby really helps. I started playing the piano after 3 years again and I find my self far happier then before. It’s also not as addicting as league of legends, which also kinda makes me miserable and ignore all of my problems, making me 3 years older than my classmates. Will be Four next year, but I started playing piano again and my mental kinda got reset into a far better position. Next to that I’m also back on keto and slept in, in time last night so that might have helped too. I only need to do some more sports and have to start studying for once. Once I get those things down I think I will be in a Great Place.
If I'd spent the amount of time I've spent on porn and videogames while I've been in college these 5 years on studying and applying for internships I would be in a much better position right now.
Nah, there's no point in living if you can't enjoy life. Maybe you would be "better" from the viewpoint of what society would think of you, but why is that really better? Video games, TV, porn, youtube, movie, whatever; everyone "wastes" time on something. But really, if you're enjoying your time it's not a waste.
i'm female so I look at porn a little differently, that being said the internet is a slippery slope and I have found myself down the rabbit hole all to often. now that I'm retired I unplug for a month a year and go on a motorbike trip, this year I rode over 14 thousand miles. I think immersing oneself in the real world and getting away from internet distraction really helps me get my focus back. My children however are hooked on the magic rectangle.
You going on your amazing journeys on your bike is a great outlet for you and also sends a profound message to your children that I think will eventually influence them. Great actualizing your dream!
Other female here, I wouldn't say I have a different sex drive than men but I as a person have some rather niche tastes (for one, for some reason I always find real porn to look more graphic and gross than drawn porn despite having no such problems with irl sex) so I'm more disgusted by pornhub type stuff even though I watch pornography.
Your children have obstacles that you didn't. Technology is improving so much that we as human's have everything too easy. The saying used to be, only the strong survive. Now it will be, only the smart will survive. If you do not realize the quick easy pleasures are destroying your ability to progress. You will never get out of a trap your own mind can put you in. This is something the older generation didn't have to deal with. Porn is just one of them, there will surely be more to come.
Women don't need sex like men do. For women sex is approx the same level as food but for men sex is as important as food to live a positive life. Yet women can use this stuff against men very easily by controlling them with sex
@Floris Koenis I would say not fapping made me more active idk why and to be more extrovert with women probably because of the increasing horny levels. Im still not sure if it's real or placebo but I felt that my skin completion got better, I was more flirty, less depressed and more willing to do things I would normally postpone also you appreciate more the beauty of girls. You have nothing to lose, maybe you should try 20 days and see if it works for you
Your videos are mind blowing, the amount of precious informations in them is incredible, thank you from the very bottom of my heart, you’re indirectly making my life better and that’s priceless.
I've been doing NoFap for 3 or so years now. Reached 90 days maybe only less than 10 times. Eventually, I want to make it a year, and from there, PMO no more. Tomorrow is day 80.
Gustavo Potenza Coutinho from what I’ve read your frequency of doing it during your sleep goes up a lot when you don’t do it yourself, so that’s something that a lot of people don’t account for.
In response to the last point you made about people choosing to exploit their brain's programming in favor of porn instead of real interactions, one of the sad truths for some people is that...they wouldn't have it any other way. The potential for intense porn experiences increases the threshold for pleasurable experiences such that one may not be able to see the point of giving it up, even though they know it's ruining them. It's one thing to be oblivious to your addiction to porn, alcohol, games, etc. It's another thing to look at people who have overcome their addictions. But it's heartbreaking to see those who are aware of their own addiction and yet choose to live with it, because, once again, they wouldn't have it any other way.
Heart-breaking or not, living is a mix of bonuses and tradeoffs. Your personal dopamine habits will be yours, and others may believe their mix is better. But looking from the outside and trying to understand is not always the best measure.
Now, while that is a very interesting topic, I see several issues here. Our brain is wired in a way that we seek out pleasure, whatever kind of pleasure. Like mentioned in the video, it can be sex, porn, gaming, your phone, youtube, fb, drugs and what not. Now, you cannot quit everything you’re doing and try living a let’s say dull life. Also the reset the brain thing is said easier than done. Also while I get that this video is focusing on porn in this aspect of addiction, I would’ve liked to give it a broader perspective as well as how to deal with the addictions one has. Obviously you can’t make a detailed video about porn, smoking, gaming and what not. But since our brain doesn’t distinguish between the kind of behavior we get pleasure from, I think there could’ve been some general tipps for all kinds of addictive as well as a suggestion of how much is ok. So, when I do one thing too often, I risk my brain of dumbing down dopamin receptors because my brain is constantly flooded with dopamine. Now we can’t and definitely shouldn’t stop doing things that are pleasurable. Because that would also lead to depression, anxiety and several other psychological as well as physiological problems. So when is too much too much? In my case, I actually realized for myself that in general when I watch too much porn regularly and masturbate once or twice a day, I have less sexual longing for my partner as well as problems coming during sex. I’m in my mid 30s so ED has never been an issue unless I’ve been drunk as a skunk ;-P Now, I also realize the unrest I feel if I don’t pick up my phone regularly, check emails, FB, YT, updates and so on, although making me scroll through YT and FB content and comments so much makes me feel miserable. Mostly because there is so much negativity online in different forms. When I forced myself to reduce the time spent I felt much better. Same goes for gaming, watching tv shows or movies and eating fast food or sweets. I’m also a smoker and have anxiety issues that I deal with by taking medication and therapy. So, yeah I got about everything there is. xDD The problem I have, and I don’t know if anyone has similar experiences, when I stop doing these things it makes me feel better and worse at the same time. I’m more easily on edge, feel anxious, restless. Still, my overall mood increases. The biggest issue I’m left with is, what to do with my time? I started going to a sports gym, reading, learning languages, playing the piano, hanging out with friends more often. But I am prone to overdoing things, having issues with finding the real balance. And let’s be honest, if I completely manage to quit all that stuff mentioning in the beginning of my post, I’ll definitely become more dopamine dependent on the new things I do. Long story short: Perhaps it’s just me but I believe humans need certain things that give them pleasure on a constant basis. And if the overall issue here is “too much dopamin is bad”, what is the alternative? Being miserable or just doing boring stuff and chores half your life? Is it really that unhealthy to indulge yourself in something you enjoy? Sure, smoking is bad for your physical health. The same goes for eating sugar in masses. But if people are happy with porn, games and anything else that doesn’t damage their body is it really that bad? Sure, watching porn 10 hours a day or doing anything 10 hours a day is not good. Not even going to the gym. Thus I think the most important question remains: What is just enough and when is it too much?
If you're finding your routine boring, then spice or sweeten it up a little by planning or daydreaming about your future. Yep that actually works. Why be a prisoner to your whims and past habits? When you can enjoy your present more as you set out to your future and goals while sharing it with the people you enjoy. P.S. the balance that you're talking about comes as you prioritize things. If you have enough time to fall back into habits, then you're either unmotivated, someone with no goals/passions, or someone who doesn't care about the future. So just let your future plans go wild 😁 Might help.
I think that the decreased dopamine response, is your body naturally telling yourself to "cool off", but that it is our emotional defenses / coping mechanisms that force us to just keep right on going and ignore the safety countermeasures, eventually numbing ourselves. And perhaps, even potentially dumbing down our brains a little due to over-stimulation or whatever...
So the reason they probably can't give tips on how much is harmless is because it all has addictive properties, no matter how little. ALSO we are all different, genetically and otherwise, as in we have different tolerances so we will be more or less prone to addiction than others.
This is excellent work once again. The amount of research and effort going into this is truly remarkable. It's obvious you put great care in every single animation. Keep it up.
This makes so much sense. Not even just for HSIP, but for any addiction - prominent ones these days, imo, being social media, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and screen time. Very motivating, thank you mate!
I fell 7 stories and was in a coma for 3 weeks. This accident wouldn't have happened if I wasn't an alcoholic, a constant porn user, and a constant drug user. I realized after I got out of my coma that it was the most beautiful thing because I was about a month without porn, it was like heaven. Everything looked so beautiful But I soon went back to my addicting ways, especially porn. Here I am 17 years later, and trying it again. It's really hard, but it gets easier. I sometimes am upset I have to walk around with a limp, but am truly thankful to be alive, because it could've been so much worse. Let me tell you, addictions kill, i know this 1st hand. I know sometimes life is confusing but just be patient and don't give up.
Your videos on fasting and ketosis along with this video has motivated me 1000X more than the content which are actually meant for motivation and self help. Been trying this for more than 5 years!!!!!!!!! And just watching your video in an instant motivated me to oppose my habit. I wish I could have discovered your channel in 2017 itself!!!!!!! Thanks a lot!!!!!
I would like to add that not only Twitter, Facebook or porn create these problems. But I also noticed that watching videos like this one on UA-cam where I say to myself "hey, I learned something" the consequences are the same. I noticed that I start craving videos like this one. I strongly want to point out that this video is great to start reflecting your own behavior. Keep your eyes open because I think personally that all the media around us is specially designed to create that addictive behavior.
found the channel recently and am almost done binge watching them now so I know what you mean. Luckily being addicted to knowledge isn't so harmful like most addictions.
I cannot underline how great your videos are on the standpoint of content and delivery of said content. This is easily one of the best ones you've produced; and that's saying something!
OMG SAME! I mean I like reading but not at the beginning it’s hard to start and it also takes time to get you interested. Like watching a movie, the beginning is meh but when you get into it it’s the best.
i like that it's not just about nofap and porn, but about how brain works. Because the mechanism is the same, you can think about other addictions and how they shape your behavior and, ultimately, your life. Great video!
Great video! Haven't heard the scientific explanation of NoFap. You walked an extra mile to create every video, really appreciate your efforts and for this awesome channel.
It's so interesting that you go into the science of it all. I got the feeling about these things a while back. I couldn't quantify it, but I knew that using my phone, watching porn daily, and using drugs of any sort was doing all sorts of negative things to my body and mindset, and now I know it also reduces healthy brain functions too. Great video, thanks! I've already committed to reducing and even eliminating most of these things. Hard to not use my phone, but staying away from social media is the key really.
8:21 Sidenote: we could see the act of taking a substance as the actual addiction factor, since it goes together with the substance (obviously) and can be addicting as an action itself and stimulate dopamine as of itself too.
peer preassure of korean idiots ...donald trump won because of peer preassure of fake news ..you can make idiots start a new meme viral if you work behing the scene working in the existence of a fake peer preasure online with bots or what ever ..all talking about the new meme
I liked the chart where you showed the dopamine levels of both sex and food consumption. I would agree that the graph is accurate if the participant participates in both activities but I would also state that if someone took a vow of celibacy, dopamine levels well go up the roof with food consumption. A perfect example of this is catholic priests. ( There are a large percentage of Priests that are clinically obese and they sure do love food. Also in my own life of choosing not to engage in sex any more untill marriage (which was a choice I made about ten years ago for religious reasons and not scientific at the time)has caused me over the years to become a huge foodie. When I was in college the joke of my neighbors was they waisted their money on booze, weed, and cigarettes but I waisted my money on gourmet food. On occasion when I felt like drinking or getting high I would order pizza, burgers etc for them and trade with them becaue they were usually stuck with just eating top ramin😁. It worked out very well for both of us. Later in life when I began smoking weed a lot more I slowly began the phase of eating top ramin, pb and j sandwiches, granola bars, etc to support my consumption of weed. Haha. Another bizarre sidenote. I noticed weed would causs me to have a strong desire to look at porn which is why I cut back on the weed. Now I'm eating expensive food again haha. As you can see I have an addictive personality.
yea they're pretty lame and put all their money in this stock as if its guaranteed to fix their problems. i think it works but you dont become superman.
Thanks for the video, it's a very interesting topic. I especially like how you end it, 17:26. "In the case of humans, a big brain has been a very effective tool for protecting the important germ cells and the genetic information they carry. But, we're a little too smart for our own good. We learned how to exploit the programming that paired survival and reproduction with pleasure. With a few taps on a magic rectangle, we can access pure distilled pleasure, completely separated from its original purpose: survival and reproduction."
NoFap journey, I will edit this comment every day from now on to see how much I can resist. I have a girlfriend and I am motivated to change my life, I want to do this especially for her but I'm sure this is gonna help me out aswell. I am currently depressed, let's see if this helps a little. Day 1) not a challenge luckily Day 2) still easy, I'm motivated to continue
Keep at it man, I know you can do it. I've recently started my journey as well and trust me, I feel alot better and I'm able to focus on my work more as well.
Samaria Outlaw i actually had a revelation to myself the other week. It’s nearly impossible to deny meaning when you are in pain. So when you self harm your force yourself to recognize meaning in life. Despite your mind possibly thinking otherwise at the time. So in conclusion I think self harm is used by most so that they can remind themselves there is meaning to life even if they can’t find it the pain will force the meaning into them.
*"Nowadays, in 30 minutes you can see more people sexually erotically displaying themselves more than our ancestors did in their lifetime"* A sense of accomplishment more than I have with my marriage
I'll be the first to admit this, I never really made any kind of solid connection which is why I typically struggle with the majority of things until your video came out. Thank you.
I've been addicted to porn for a little over a decade now, starting when I was 11. I have every symptom you brought up. And it has truly fucked up my entire life. This is an amazing video and I've learned a lot about why I'm fucked up and with that knowledge I'll be better capable to combat it.
The reasearch seemed to be very focused on the efects of porn in the brain of a male. I wonder if reasearch with women would have exactly the same results, or show something different.
@@Cyrillius1 no women don't need sex like men do society lies to us men. For women sex is approx a type of small pleasure activity nothing more but for men it's as important as food hence women don't watch porn as much because they can easily have sex in real life with as many men yet men can't think of it buddy
So.. all the thing i still need to do. Stop watching porn, start working out (again), start meditating, start a healthier diet, start sleeping right and last but not least stop playing video games and watching videos for 8+ hours per day.... jezus christ
This man needs to guide us with his research methods. Very logical and thorough. I think w can all benefit by combining our research and sharing it with each other and create a network effect to propel this channel and its content ever more forward. Like if you agree.
I'm thinking that another thing that makes porn worse is that the topic of sex is rarely discussed among most modern societies with internet access, and being able to receive any kind of information on sex from the internet for the first time probably cause the dopamine to shoot up higher since this information is completely new
My Brain: Learns about Dopamine.
Releases Dopamine. 😎
That's an outstanding move!
Gold!
Indian spotted
brain: stonks
mototruco😎👌🏿
Wish they taught this to teenagers during Sex Ed...
Brian Kerogoi I agree, but it's still better to find out before you start a habit in my opinion.
Super Soviet Yeah I miss the church too 😂
There are plenty of organizations pushing for porn education to be taught alongside of sex education. Kids are getting exposed to the stuff long before they learn that porn might have detrimental side effects.
Won't help, see smoking, violence, etc..
thomaswenker, even with the current situation now with children/teens, parents would probably be resistant to such a thing being mentioned (as they don't want their kids being exposed to it), but it's the same dumb argument that parents make against education on weed and other drugs.
pornography addiction is probably one of the most underrated mental health issues in modern society. i'm glad videos like this exist to help educate the public. great work!
Yeahh porn its the most underrated break mental
Why care? The more addicts there are the more gals to non addicted guys, a?
@@alexeykulikov2739
Except that there are addicted girls too so we are losing from both groups.
(but guys are more likely so you argument still applies)
@@motazfawzi2504 ,the planet is overpopulated and damaged anyway, why care at all?
It's a symptom too really. Take care of yourselves guys 🤝
I need to stop sugar.
I need to stop porn.
I need to reduce cellphone and internet use.
Jesus
Be a monk!
Exactly. You need Jesus. :)
Consequently increase life. That's something to actually get exited about
Lol you are correct about all. The internet I'll use for searching and research.
well you're the one that started doing all this stuff...lol
I maintain healthy tongue posture.
Gonedridge 😂😂😂😂😂
Mewing?
:DD
But it wont change your jaw if you are in your 20s
Liopergon SD yes it can, and tell me what bone is directly correlated with the jaw?
Ironic how this video itself relies on dopamine-exciting imagery.
Welcome to youtube. At least this is using those techniques to keep you interested in a topic discussing the dangers of habitual dopamine seeking behaviors.
Gotta keep up with the time, the low attention span times.
Irony is a top force here yes
@@ohood4863 haven't seen someone speak like that, or with that much insight in a jiffy
Listen to the words and you wont feel that way.
i quit watching porn 5 weeks ago. In that time, i took up yoga, i'm set up to move out in a week, and i've quit smoking. I'm also looking for a new job. No joke.
Congrats 👏
Dimi000 Congrats!
How's it going for you? @Dimi000
@@thebipedCentaur Its great! i Dont even think about it much. No porn is the new normal for me . i dont do no fap though!! I just do watch porn
@@hrldsjR absolutely dude.
this should be a part of guide on how to exit the matrix
lmao damn straight
You are so on point
this entire channel could be a guide
Wait, wasn´t a bullet to the head the way to exit the matrix?
thanks for the free motivation jajaaj
I am addicted to information I want to know everything that happens on the world, that's why I am on youtube everyday
Same
@@Helter195 exactly
HelterSkelter there are no real issues beside youtube
HelterSkelter porn is not addiction.
HelterSkelter i am not convinced, neither DSM-5 nor ICD-11 classify porn as addiction or mental disorder. By your broad understanding of addiction, anything can be called addictive behaviour even eating. When obviously eating and sex are more of a needs.
I'm addicted to UA-cam please help
PewDiePie Huskitine guess he's doing NoTube
Get lost! (you're welcome)
when I left Facebook, I became addicted to Instagram, now that I am leaving Instagram I am more and more dependent on UA-cam
Better than Porn
@@RodrigoMera once you leave youtube you'll be addicted to living your life
This is a reason why I stopped playing video games, drastically cut down on social media and stopped with porn completely. I focus on studying and reading books. I've been a happier person since leaving all that behind.
Well you should also apply those knowledge into something useful for mankind or else that would only just.... a brain fap.
Planning to go to university to study Computer Science with Mathematics. Trying to get my maths knowledge up so I can tackle the hardest assessment in the country.
Nah, but BMO/IMO is hard too. I'm talking about STEP.
That was exactly I gradually did three years ago. It took some time but I came - :v - in conclusion and realize that I couldn't keep with the games and everything if I want to (really) progress in my studies.
And of course, I'm talking for myself.
Attaboy! Now you should stop watching youtube and you're all set!
If there were no more than one person per square mile, would you say then that there was almost... No Homo?
thanks for the release of dopamine bro
Underrated comment of the decade!
@Sounds Nice that doesn't mean they live separated lol. It was only a calculation _if_ they did live on their own.
Get out.
Laughed too hard at this. 🤦🏻♀️😂
Do a video on existential crisis. The feeling of void that cannot seem to be filled no matter what. How suicidal thoughts are not triggered by a tragedy but are a part of the daily life always going on in the back of the mind.
Get a sense of humour about small things, then larger things. As sense of humour is a natural defense. Dont feel guilty to laugh at things u cant control. Laughing doesnt mean u dont care or cant create positive change. Paradoxically jokers are actually more effective at getting things done
go to the gym
Go to the shelter and get a puppy.
Check out @exurb1a
You're in a rut, you need to switch up your lifestyle
do a video on depression and social anxiety
i dont get to eat anymore? : - (
Eating healthy helps ^^
Just exercise. It's the easy remedy to both of these and more. You'll be more intelligent, less anxious and happier if you exercise. The benefits to your health are a cool secondary effect.
It's a statistical fact that going on a long enough fasting will cure all of your problems.
watch CGP Grey's "7 ways to maximize misery" and then don't do any of that.
You should make a video on how UA-cam changes the brain.
Iam truly addicted,watching 6 hours a day and i cannot stop.
I find myself scrolling through my home page way longer than I should it's kinda scary when I catch myself. UA-cam should be used as a tool for you to find entertainment or education, but for me it's the content that finds me.
and facebook or twitter..
I learned how to speak english from watching youtube, but now eventhough i've learned all i need to, i can’t stop watching around 10-12 hrs a day.
Everyone that keeps asking for this didnt pay much attention to what he said.
The Mitochondria is the Powerhouse of the cell
Isn't it Mitochondrium if it's only one?
I'm not sure, I'm german.
Mitochondrion is the power house of the cell. Mitochondria are the powerhouses of the cell/cells.
Don't Stay In School by Boyinaband. I heard it too.
Don't use/spread dumb memes to dismiss education. That's moronic and you're shooting yourself in the foot
It's not exactly our fault that the song was in this video. We didn't decide to edit that song in.
Besides, it's far more moronic to not understand the actual message in a medium and instead judge all of its meaning on the title alone. Are you the type of person who only reads the titles of articles in the news too, Rob? That'd be like shooting yourself in the foot.
If porn use truly enters the realm of addiction, then simply trying to stop "cold turkey" will not work. All addictions follow a similar cycle and process, and essentially act as emotional coping mechanisms (that is to say they are medicative).
To break free from the cycle, one must replace the unhealthy behavior with new, efficient coping mechanisms that help regulate and sooth negative emotions.
Exactly. Humans are built by addiction, because it's the brute method our brains use to force us to try and survive.
We aren't creatures of habit, but creatures of addiction. You simply need to find actually positive 'addictions'.
Exercise releases dopamine, getting money releases dopamine, etc,.
That’s been my theory too, we are built in a way to get Addicted to things sooner or later, Now whether that addiction is negative or positive, that’s ur decision
Replaced with what?
Well, you could argue that addiction is a behavior/habit that has taken over its own host.
Myles Schutte yoga
I watched so much porn that I've pretty much lost the ability of arousal, I even tried prostitutes but nothing helps. I think the fact I've never had a romantic relationship, besides the odd one night stand every now and then, plays a part in my obsession. Right now I'm trying to quit porn and focus on myself without the feeling of needing sexual gratification and approval of others
@Heksje Lilly Can't believe this was 10 months ago haha. I quit for the longest time but then only this past month I've started watching it again, I don't feel as addicted as I once was though. I have been on a few dates since then but still remain single, the virus being partly to blame
@Heksje Lilly haha yeah definitely reply if you remember in 10 months time :')
Have you tried Jesus?
Jordan Leach dude don’t go back into it. It isn’t worth it
Jordan how st goin?
I would like to see a comparison of dopamine increase when:
- eating sweets (sugar)
- playing computer games
- watching movies
- fapping
- drugs
- other stuff
Till now I have no idea what is the worst and how different they are when it goes to dopamine increase.
It would most likely differ from person to person.
Drugs are definitely the most stimulating (meth,heroin,some other opiates) then sex then food, the others i don't know where to place them
@@zephenex4203 I Think porn is the worst.
It is what we used to reproduce... The waves of chemicals that comes out to the brain in the frontal cortex is highly above than drugs.
the dopamine release precedes all of these.
Try to follow your intuition on that one. You don't need scientific facts for everything.
I’m addicted to read comments!!!!
What are you interested in? Find a Hobby.
you got me
big knee i like your profile picture
Same
@@garyleaver3714 I am gonna stand behind this commenter. Finding a hobby really helps. I started playing the piano after 3 years again and I find my self far happier then before. It’s also not as addicting as league of legends, which also kinda makes me miserable and ignore all of my problems, making me 3 years older than my classmates. Will be Four next year, but I started playing piano again and my mental kinda got reset into a far better position. Next to that I’m also back on keto and slept in, in time last night so that might have helped too. I only need to do some more sports and have to start studying for once. Once I get those things down I think I will be in a Great Place.
The distilling of pleasures is a quick route to addiction.
Good quote.
If I'd spent the amount of time I've spent on porn and videogames while I've been in college these 5 years on studying and applying for internships I would be in a much better position right now.
I feel ya there
It's never too late!
Nah, there's no point in living if you can't enjoy life. Maybe you would be "better" from the viewpoint of what society would think of you, but why is that really better? Video games, TV, porn, youtube, movie, whatever; everyone "wastes" time on something. But really, if you're enjoying your time it's not a waste.
@@Kanglar cope.
@@Kanglar a real loser mentality
i'm female so I look at porn a little differently, that being said the internet is a slippery slope and I have found myself down the rabbit hole all to often. now that I'm retired I unplug for a month a year and go on a motorbike trip, this year I rode over 14 thousand miles. I think immersing oneself in the real world and getting away from internet distraction really helps me get my focus back. My children however are hooked on the magic rectangle.
Brianne C who’s fault is that?
You going on your amazing journeys on your bike is a great outlet for you and also sends a profound message to your children that I think will eventually influence them. Great actualizing your dream!
Other female here, I wouldn't say I have a different sex drive than men but I as a person have some rather niche tastes (for one, for some reason I always find real porn to look more graphic and gross than drawn porn despite having no such problems with irl sex) so I'm more disgusted by pornhub type stuff even though I watch pornography.
Your children have obstacles that you didn't. Technology is improving so much that we as human's have everything too easy. The saying used to be, only the strong survive. Now it will be, only the smart will survive. If you do not realize the quick easy pleasures are destroying your ability to progress. You will never get out of a trap your own mind can put you in. This is something the older generation didn't have to deal with. Porn is just one of them, there will surely be more to come.
Women don't need sex like men do. For women sex is approx the same level as food but for men sex is as important as food to live a positive life. Yet women can use this stuff against men very easily by controlling them with sex
I’m coming up on my one year anniversary of quitting porn. It’s worth the struggle.
Hang in there brothers.
*You can do it.*
*_halp_*
You acheived what mate
@Mr.Muffinman It wasn't easy. It's really just fixing my lifestyle choices.
For me, scheduling my day, made it extremely easy.
*And sisters*
@@pragya6413 Fack whamman
Dopamine is probably why I clicked this video
I hope you enjoyed the "like" I gave you
Then it is being used properly.
Learn how to weaponize your addiction.
Same. That was dope I mean...
Dopamine is pretty much why we do anything that brings us any pleasure
@@icymoon4169 nice
Intermittent NoFapping
Delerious Dinosaur nailed it
Lollllllllllllllllllll
You can masturbate in an 8 hour window
Instead of 6 to 8 times a day. Only once a day is intermittent faping right?
ahahhahahahahahahah!!!
Okay boys. Here I start my noFAP Journey.
Wish me luck.
glhf ggwp
I’m guessing you failed after the second day
@@AthenaTheWolf 😂😂well thats what happens "sometimes"
After 20 days it does get better! Don't give up! If you do fail, don't blame yourself and keep on going, one day failure won't stop you
@Floris Koenis I would say not fapping made me more active idk why and to be more extrovert with women probably because of the increasing horny levels. Im still not sure if it's real or placebo but I felt that my skin completion got better, I was more flirty, less depressed and more willing to do things I would normally postpone also you appreciate more the beauty of girls. You have nothing to lose, maybe you should try 20 days and see if it works for you
You're seriously my favorite youtuber.
Glad to have slow internet
amazingly informative and stylish piece, seriously this should be required viewing in middle school
Agreed
I heard from a marketing mate that this Is the reason sex doesn't sell anymore.
+Tangy Pickle
As well as the fact that everything is saturated with sexual stuff ❨Ads, TV, movies etc❩
Put large bossoms in a videogame and you got my attention instantly.
#Monkmode Lets Go!
NoFap Challenge tonight!
LETS DO THIS!!!
aaaaand I failed...
such reliable
Karl Gustafsson many trustworthy
day 1 for me as well...
Your videos are mind blowing, the amount of precious informations in them is incredible, thank you from the very bottom of my heart, you’re indirectly making my life better and that’s priceless.
I've been doing NoFap for 3 or so years now. Reached 90 days maybe only less than 10 times. Eventually, I want to make it a year, and from there, PMO no more.
Tomorrow is day 80.
Better Every Day how do you feel
Every Day Discovery how big was your load?
They have actual sex?
I won't make much effort to try and convince you to prevent prostate cancer, I believe each person should deal with their health as they wish.
Gustavo Potenza Coutinho from what I’ve read your frequency of doing it during your sleep goes up a lot when you don’t do it yourself, so that’s something that a lot of people don’t account for.
In response to the last point you made about people choosing to exploit their brain's programming in favor of porn instead of real interactions, one of the sad truths for some people is that...they wouldn't have it any other way. The potential for intense porn experiences increases the threshold for pleasurable experiences such that one may not be able to see the point of giving it up, even though they know it's ruining them. It's one thing to be oblivious to your addiction to porn, alcohol, games, etc. It's another thing to look at people who have overcome their addictions. But it's heartbreaking to see those who are aware of their own addiction and yet choose to live with it, because, once again, they wouldn't have it any other way.
Heart-breaking or not, living is a mix of bonuses and tradeoffs. Your personal dopamine habits will be yours, and others may believe their mix is better. But looking from the outside and trying to understand is not always the best measure.
Thank you for pure information, and not clickbait or cult-like mantras! This is refreshing, subbed
Wow. This video was well structured. 10/10
NoFap is getting spread to the mainstream! Woopie
Wow I can’t believe you commented
I'm the 69'th person to like that comment.
i would love to have you as my gf
lets have babies
KasumiKriss ur cute af
Now, while that is a very interesting topic, I see several issues here.
Our brain is wired in a way that we seek out pleasure, whatever kind of pleasure.
Like mentioned in the video, it can be sex, porn, gaming, your phone, youtube, fb, drugs and what not.
Now, you cannot quit everything you’re doing and try living a let’s say dull life.
Also the reset the brain thing is said easier than done.
Also while I get that this video is focusing on porn in this aspect of addiction, I would’ve liked to give it a broader perspective as well as how to deal with the addictions one has.
Obviously you can’t make a detailed video about porn, smoking, gaming and what not.
But since our brain doesn’t distinguish between the kind of behavior we get pleasure from, I think there could’ve been some general tipps for all kinds of addictive as well as a suggestion of how much is ok.
So, when I do one thing too often, I risk my brain of dumbing down dopamin receptors because my brain is constantly flooded with dopamine.
Now we can’t and definitely shouldn’t stop doing things that are pleasurable. Because that would also lead to depression, anxiety and several other psychological as well as physiological problems.
So when is too much too much?
In my case, I actually realized for myself that in general when I watch too much porn regularly and masturbate once or twice a day, I have less sexual longing for my partner as well as problems coming during sex.
I’m in my mid 30s so ED has never been an issue unless I’ve been drunk as a skunk ;-P
Now, I also realize the unrest I feel if I don’t pick up my phone regularly, check emails, FB, YT, updates and so on, although making me scroll through YT and FB content and comments so much makes me feel miserable. Mostly because there is so much negativity online in different forms.
When I forced myself to reduce the time spent I felt much better.
Same goes for gaming, watching tv shows or movies and eating fast food or sweets.
I’m also a smoker and have anxiety issues that I deal with by taking medication and therapy.
So, yeah I got about everything there is. xDD
The problem I have, and I don’t know if anyone has similar experiences, when I stop doing these things it makes me feel better and worse at the same time.
I’m more easily on edge, feel anxious, restless.
Still, my overall mood increases.
The biggest issue I’m left with is, what to do with my time?
I started going to a sports gym, reading, learning languages, playing the piano, hanging out with friends more often.
But I am prone to overdoing things, having issues with finding the real balance.
And let’s be honest, if I completely manage to quit all that stuff mentioning in the beginning of my post, I’ll definitely become more dopamine dependent on the new things I do.
Long story short: Perhaps it’s just me but I believe humans need certain things that give them pleasure on a constant basis. And if the overall issue here is “too much dopamin is bad”, what is the alternative? Being miserable or just doing boring stuff and chores half your life?
Is it really that unhealthy to indulge yourself in something you enjoy?
Sure, smoking is bad for your physical health. The same goes for eating sugar in masses.
But if people are happy with porn, games and anything else that doesn’t damage their body is it really that bad?
Sure, watching porn 10 hours a day or doing anything 10 hours a day is not good. Not even going to the gym.
Thus I think the most important question remains: What is just enough and when is it too much?
If you're finding your routine boring, then spice or sweeten it up a little by planning or daydreaming about your future. Yep that actually works.
Why be a prisoner to your whims and past habits? When you can enjoy your present more as you set out to your future and goals while sharing it with the people you enjoy.
P.S. the balance that you're talking about comes as you prioritize things. If you have enough time to fall back into habits, then you're either unmotivated, someone with no goals/passions, or someone who doesn't care about the future. So just let your future plans go wild 😁 Might help.
I think that the decreased dopamine response, is your body naturally telling yourself to "cool off", but that it is our emotional defenses / coping mechanisms that force us to just keep right on going and ignore the safety countermeasures, eventually numbing ourselves. And perhaps, even potentially dumbing down our brains a little due to over-stimulation or whatever...
So the reason they probably can't give tips on how much is harmless is because it all has addictive properties, no matter how little. ALSO we are all different, genetically and otherwise, as in we have different tolerances so we will be more or less prone to addiction than others.
Bless you for this comment
Exactly what I have been struggling for the past few years. Maybe the issue is lack of a social life
This is excellent work once again. The amount of research and effort going into this is truly remarkable. It's obvious you put great care in every single animation. Keep it up.
This makes so much sense. Not even just for HSIP, but for any addiction - prominent ones these days, imo, being social media, alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and screen time. Very motivating, thank you mate!
I fell 7 stories and was in a coma for 3 weeks. This accident wouldn't have happened if I wasn't an alcoholic, a constant porn user, and a constant drug user. I realized after I got out of my coma that it was the most beautiful thing because I was about a month without porn, it was like heaven. Everything looked so beautiful But I soon went back to my addicting ways, especially porn. Here I am 17 years later, and trying it again. It's really hard, but it gets easier. I sometimes am upset I have to walk around with a limp, but am truly thankful to be alive, because it could've been so much worse. Let me tell you, addictions kill, i know this 1st hand. I know sometimes life is confusing but just be patient and don't give up.
Thx for sharing this life experience with us :)
It does suck walking around no sex drive
Saying a prayer for tolerants231.
Is there a NSFW version?
Your videos on fasting and ketosis along with this video has motivated me 1000X more than the content which are actually meant for motivation and self help. Been trying this for more than 5 years!!!!!!!!! And just watching your video in an instant motivated me to oppose my habit. I wish I could have discovered your channel in 2017 itself!!!!!!! Thanks a lot!!!!!
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I HAVE TO BREATH THROUGH MY NOSE AND NOW THIS!?!? 😩😭😭
dude wtf, theres a reason "mouthbreather" is an insult
@@Yellow.1844 why
@@-._.-._--._.-._--._.-._--._.-. it changes your face, search for it on google.
whats next? Not eating white sugar anymore?
@@-._.-._--._.-._--._.-._--._.-. cause mouthbreathing is annoying to hear and see
I would like to add that not only Twitter, Facebook or porn create these problems. But I also noticed that watching videos like this one on UA-cam where I say to myself "hey, I learned something" the consequences are the same. I noticed that I start craving videos like this one. I strongly want to point out that this video is great to start reflecting your own behavior. Keep your eyes open because I think personally that all the media around us is specially designed to create that addictive behavior.
Yes it is
WOOOOOOOOOOT NEW VIDEO!! I think you should make a video about addiction to "What Ive Learned" videos
Cynthia B agreed. I find the guys voice really relaxing and always fall asleep to these videos haha
Cynthia B I agree! I'll find myself watching these videos over and over again
found the channel recently and am almost done binge watching them now so I know what you mean. Luckily being addicted to knowledge isn't so harmful like most addictions.
Get this out of my recommendation list! I know google has a file on me but please. Leave me alone.
Stop it ... Get some help
I cannot underline how great your videos are on the standpoint of content and delivery of said content.
This is easily one of the best ones you've produced; and that's saying something!
I jumped out from my chair and made some popcorn just for this vid.
Marc Ji haha.... we're now addicted to WHAT I've learned .!!!
thats what i thought while watching the video too xD
I read that as cop-porn
i bet your fat
very Frozen i bet your a nice and loved person
I'm addicted to collecting books but I dont like reading :[
Lol
OMG SAME! I mean I like reading but not at the beginning it’s hard to start and it also takes time to get you interested. Like watching a movie, the beginning is meh but when you get into it it’s the best.
Me too...
That's a waste...
Why we exist....
i like that it's not just about nofap and porn, but about how brain works. Because the mechanism is the same, you can think about other addictions and how they shape your behavior and, ultimately, your life. Great video!
Dude where you been, I wanna watch an extremely informative yet entertaining video.
+Dalma
Haha just saw your comment on the new video - Thanks for sticking around :)
hehe keep it coming, I love your stuff man
definitely not watching that stuff again.
Are you 4 months clean?
Great video! Haven't heard the scientific explanation of NoFap. You walked an extra mile to create every video, really appreciate your efforts and for this awesome channel.
I'm not going to argue, it just most of the videos about NoFap give even less information about this. IMHO
shiiiet, another Russian watches WIL? No wonder, given the fact Tsatsulin sucks balls.
Except he said that masturbation itself is not unhealthy. The first thing in the video.
NoFap is a meme
temyi75 можешь более развернуто насчет Цацулина, если не сложно? Да еще один russian guy here %)
There is no scientific backup for nofap, just for noporn
𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘩
*𝘻𝘪𝘱*
was that an upzip or downzip
this puts it perfectly.
Plot twist: he was unzipping a ziplock bag to snag some chips. Or cookies. Or food
Nice
How do you do italics
It's so interesting that you go into the science of it all. I got the feeling about these things a while back. I couldn't quantify it, but I knew that using my phone, watching porn daily, and using drugs of any sort was doing all sorts of negative things to my body and mindset, and now I know it also reduces healthy brain functions too. Great video, thanks! I've already committed to reducing and even eliminating most of these things. Hard to not use my phone, but staying away from social media is the key really.
I swear you could make a video about how long it takes for paint to dry and why and I would still enjoy it. Keep up the great work! 💜
Dear sir, you video presentation is very unique and highly appreciable. You surely have the ability to direct or produce full length movies. :)
Funny how like any human activity with modern tools can be projected on this template. Take even traveling which feeds nonstop novelty experiences.
Stop scrolling compulsively down the comments, addicted.
That's a nice stopping station.
But I'll continue scrolling.
*throws phone away*
You evil thing... 😡
Ö _ Ö nah just block it on porn on iPhone
that username! hahaha
I am just gonna assume you wrote this comment then threw your phone away.
Alright you convinced me and I'm gonna try it, and if it doesn't work there's no harm done. I'm all about trying new things!
Watching this dopamine induced video on UA-cam. I get a surge of dopamine when I learn new stuff
dude i swear to god im in love with this channel
8:21 Sidenote: we could see the act of taking a substance as the actual addiction factor, since it goes together with the substance (obviously) and can be addicting as an action itself and stimulate dopamine as of itself too.
Can you make one about meditation? How to properly do it and its benefits.
go look fof OSHO
jeremiah santander he did
Do a Science of Flirting !
Keep up the great work
Where are you "Pleases" and "Thank yous"?
That's a nice idea. Cause my unscientific approach makes it very hard to keep off faping
Frost Eagle Science won't save you m8
This is BY FAR the best nofap video I've seen. And I've seen a lot.
The most disturbing thing I learned from this video is that there are people who watch other people eating online...and it's a thing. WTholyF?
peer preassure of korean idiots ...donald trump won because of peer preassure of fake news ..you can make idiots start a new meme viral if you work behing the scene working in the existence of a fake peer preasure online with bots or what ever ..all talking about the new meme
Also dangerously addictive. We should class the internet as a public health risk. *sarcasm*
D S I watch it if I'm full to eat more
and that these people still watched the streaming even though the girl was in front of them
"WTholyF" looks very aesthetic!
I liked the chart where you showed the dopamine levels of both sex and food consumption. I would agree that the graph is accurate if the participant participates in both activities but I would also state that if someone took a vow of celibacy, dopamine levels well go up the roof with food consumption. A perfect example of this is catholic priests. ( There are a large percentage of Priests that are clinically obese and they sure do love food. Also in my own life of choosing not to engage in sex any more untill marriage (which was a choice I made about ten years ago for religious reasons and not scientific at the time)has caused me over the years to become a huge foodie. When I was in college the joke of my neighbors was they waisted their money on booze, weed, and cigarettes but I waisted my money on gourmet food. On occasion when I felt like drinking or getting high I would order pizza, burgers etc for them and trade with them becaue they were usually stuck with just eating top ramin😁. It worked out very well for both of us. Later in life when I began smoking weed a lot more I slowly began the phase of eating top ramin, pb and j sandwiches, granola bars, etc to support my consumption of weed. Haha. Another bizarre sidenote. I noticed weed would causs me to have a strong desire to look at porn which is why I cut back on the weed. Now I'm eating expensive food again haha. As you can see I have an addictive personality.
It's time, once again, to watch this video.
Ironically, the NoFap community is one of the biggest circlejerks I've ever seen.
yea they're pretty lame and put all their money in this stock as if its guaranteed to fix their problems. i think it works but you dont become superman.
DeliciousDishes why do you care?
this video isn't about NoFap though
DeliciousDishes
It's not about masturbation. Masturbation is healthy. It's about porn that fucks your brain.
NieCola This includes masturbation too.the point is sexual things not visual things
Thanks for the video, it's a very interesting topic. I especially like how you end it, 17:26. "In the case of humans, a big brain has been a very effective tool for protecting the important germ cells and the genetic information they carry. But, we're a little too smart for our own good. We learned how to exploit the programming that paired survival and reproduction with pleasure. With a few taps on a magic rectangle, we can access pure distilled pleasure, completely separated from its original purpose: survival and reproduction."
I thought the same thing. Regards...
idk how I got here, but this is definitely my favorite UA-cam channel now! Great job man!
the images and video clips you select are masterly choosed
Chosen
@@Katherine-sv7iz he tried
Thank you dude. You've makee want to reboot the way I'm currently loving my life. Thanks a lot! For real
Your Every Single Video is gem of wisdom..
Needless to say , I am no more a game addict or a porn addict but now I am knowledge addict
These videos are amazing! Your channel is amazing! This is one of my favorite channels. You, sir, are awesome.
Now I understand why I'm addicted to youtube. That was enlightening!
NoFap journey, I will edit this comment every day from now on to see how much I can resist. I have a girlfriend and I am motivated to change my life, I want to do this especially for her but I'm sure this is gonna help me out aswell. I am currently depressed, let's see if this helps a little.
Day 1) not a challenge luckily
Day 2) still easy, I'm motivated to continue
Keep at it man, I know you can do it. I've recently started my journey as well and trust me, I feel alot better and I'm able to focus on my work more as well.
What about now?
update
Can you do a science of self harm?
smile more uh
Endo-opioid system.
getting hurt releases adrenaline and dopamine, both are addictive
I was told that some people self Harm so that they remember they still exist 🤔
Samaria Outlaw i actually had a revelation to myself the other week. It’s nearly impossible to deny meaning when you are in pain. So when you self harm your force yourself to recognize meaning in life. Despite your mind possibly thinking otherwise at the time. So in conclusion I think self harm is used by most so that they can remind themselves there is meaning to life even if they can’t find it the pain will force the meaning into them.
*"Nowadays, in 30 minutes you can see more people sexually erotically displaying themselves more than our ancestors did in their lifetime"*
A sense of accomplishment more than I have with my marriage
i too watched the video
Cheeezaaaa.
Mudamudamuda
Buon Giorno
I was just drinking tea while I was reading your comment.
Just Drinking tea facts especially Instagram soon you click on it somebody naked all down the timeline our brains are use to see much nudity
I'll be the first to admit this, I never really made any kind of solid connection which is why I typically struggle with the majority of things until your video came out. Thank you.
I've been addicted to porn for a little over a decade now, starting when I was 11. I have every symptom you brought up. And it has truly fucked up my entire life. This is an amazing video and I've learned a lot about why I'm fucked up and with that knowledge I'll be better capable to combat it.
This video helped me to clear some space on my PC :-> Thank you, man!
This videos views will skyrocket in the near future.
I used to always start my sentences with "So". Then i realized it was like saying "um" and now I make a point to use different words
The reasearch seemed to be very focused on the efects of porn in the brain of a male. I wonder if reasearch with women would have exactly the same results, or show something different.
mainstream porn isn't really catered to women imo but you can definitely get addicted to stuff like fandom and reading dirty fanfics, it's the same
I was wondering just that, there is no información about this topic concerning women
@@Cyrillius1 no women don't need sex like men do society lies to us men. For women sex is approx a type of small pleasure activity nothing more but for men it's as important as food hence women don't watch porn as much because they can easily have sex in real life with as many men yet men can't think of it buddy
Different
@@ameyjangam2485 is it just your speculation, or are you basing this statement on actual research?
I really like how you use repeat ideas with the same images throughout your videos. It really helps tie things together
guys stick to it! I'm on nofap for some months now and it feels great!
gems mad that hes getting something out of it.
Gem Monger besides the fapping itself, the science on this video is pretty solid.
So.. all the thing i still need to do. Stop watching porn, start working out (again), start meditating, start a healthier diet, start sleeping right and last but not least stop playing video games and watching videos for 8+ hours per day.... jezus christ
Same lol, I used to work out at home but I stopped in June last year lol, also I've been sleeping at 3 a.m
The sheer number of information-loaaded books that get mentioned on this channel!
Enough to get me a year long to-read list
This man needs to guide us with his research methods. Very logical and thorough. I think w can all benefit by combining our research and sharing it with each other and create a network effect to propel this channel and its content ever more forward. Like if you agree.
Totally.
He finally did it guys
speaking of dopamine, look at the guy in 4:06 taking a big ol' sniff in the background (to the left of the guy in the green cap)
Ha! Nice eagle eyes m8!
I think he is inhaling some poppers 🤣
😂
🤦♀️
This is so well done. Thank you. Tremendously informative in so many ways.
omg he surrendered
I knew he would... Japanese surrender only when overwhelmed! hahahahaa :))))
Now we need a new topic: why is there hair around my anus
Is he japanese? I though he was just a foreigner living in japan
Yeah he's American by birth, living in Japan; I think "gaijin" is the term
Maybe he is Frank
One of the most interesting video I have found for a long time. Thanks for uploading
I'm thinking that another thing that makes porn worse is that the topic of sex is rarely discussed among most modern societies with internet access, and being able to receive any kind of information on sex from the internet for the first time probably cause the dopamine to shoot up higher since this information is completely new