SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.
JazakAllah. Reminders are -Astaghfaar -Kind word compliment each other -Dress nicely -Dont be stingy -Leave your phone tv and listen to each other -Avoid posting on social media -Avoid backbiting -Give gifts -compliment in front of family
Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.
@@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that. That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.
Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah
MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.
This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.
Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.
Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact. May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous. THANK YOU
Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏
Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.
MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.
Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.
Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.
Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.
As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤
Hmm 🤔. Better be sincere and not embarrass your spouse by false praises. He/she will hear it from others and then would not trust you. But use wisdom in helping your spouse to be better. Praise the effort. Part of growing closer is to be able to trust the other with good or constructive opinions.
Every married couple must watch this video.
ماشاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيراً يا شيخنا الفاضل الكريم
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
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SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage
A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.
Print my message
shukr alhamdulillah
JazakAllah.
Reminders are
-Astaghfaar
-Kind word compliment each other
-Dress nicely
-Dont be stingy
-Leave your phone tv and listen to each other
-Avoid posting on social media
-Avoid backbiting
-Give gifts
-compliment in front of family
Jazakum Allah Khairan
Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.
Brother please keep praying, especially the last third of the night for your marriage. May Allah bless what is good for you both, ameen.
@@syedarob3249 So you been no good to your wife and now you regret it. You hurt her. She is not living you without a reason
@@syedarob3249 Why in the night. Can I pray at
eny time. What Allah is sleeping during day or what?
@@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that.
That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
The roses at the end were so sweet 🥺♥️ may Allaah grant us righteous spouse and make us a righteous spouse and grant us al firdaws 🤲🏻
🥺
Ameen!
Ameen Ya ROBB
Ameen
@mohd hafiz Helmi
I wish I can give thousands like to this video😊 especially the roses part at the end, how nice is a community teaching us be nice to our spouse
MasyaAllah..very very very good lecture..my dad practise all the sunnah above n hes the best husband n the best dad ever💖💖💖💖🥀🌹🌺
So true.my dad also used to practice all these Sunnah and indeed he was the best dad and husband.
MashaAllah
This lecture is worth listening to a 100 times. It's one of the most comprehensive lectures I have ever listened to. Jazakallah khairal jazaa!
Very beautiful speech Imaam, may Almighty Allah bless you. I am divorced woman,, and your speech is true and very inspirational
Oh Allah I love this Deen . How can you not . ❤❤❤❤❤alhumdulillah.
This lecture is Life-changing . I wish every married couple get to see it . Jazakallahu khairan
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah
Mashallah the ending melted my heart subhanallah what a great shiekh and community to be apart of
MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.
Ma sha allah. May Allah bless my dear husband with the highest paradise.
May Allah bless our kids righteous spouse. Ameen
MashaAllah, well said, Islam has it All alhamduLillah
Jazakallahu khairan. May ALLAH bless you and reward you in this world and the hereafter
Jazak Allah kher for the beautiful lecture. May Allah SWT bless you with a long healthy life. We gain so much knowledge from you Masha Allah.
This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.
Ma shaa Allah🥺🥺💞..May Allah grant us jannah🥺🤲and good spouse's 💞
Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.
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That is true , we love kind words than gifts .
We sure do
I love this topic wallahi made me cry Alhamdulillah
ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن ماشاءالله تبارك الله
جزاك الله خير
Alhamdulillah..What a wonderful speech. Love from Riyadh.
Beautiful, beautiful lecture masha Allah..... Barack Allahu fikum shk.
May Allah reward u for ur time and effort.
Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact.
May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous.
THANK YOU
Thank you from my heart Sheikh. Love to listen to all your khutbas. May Allah SWT grant you Jannat ul Firdous! Ameen!
Mashallah, I wish I could have sat down and listened to this lecture with my then wife before we divorced in 2010, بارك الله فيك.
Great lecture. JazakAllah Khair.
MashaAllah this is an absolute gem! Jazakum Allah khair and InshaAllah we can all adopt the sunnah in our homes and hearts Ameen ya rabb al alameen
Mashallah Tabarakallah, i so love listening you ya sheik😍 may Allah swt bless u more..
Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward the sheikh for a practical nasihah. From England
Ameen
Jazaak Allah khair sir ur every word was precious yaa Allah put love and mercy between every husband and wife ameen
Mashallah , beautiful voice, beautiful quran recitation
Ma sha Allah! If only both the partners in a couple had gone through this video!!!
Jazaka Allah khran sheikh shukran may Allah reward you for your beautiful advice alhadumlilah
May Allah make us of the righteous spouse. IN Sha Allah 🤲. Great lecture by sheikh .May Allah bless Him and his Family.
Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏
May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala grant you ease and touch your husband's heart to be kind ..aameen
Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.
Mashaallah very useful lecture for couples.
Please, do use subtitles as some people are hard of hearing or totally deaf and would really enjoy listening to your lectures. Insha Allah.
MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️awesome tips.
In shaa Allah will follow..
The last part was😀😀😀 I miss that gift😭
MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.
MashaAllah, the best lecture and as thoughtful gift. I wish all imams/masjids did that.
Great words please pray for me am searching for a wife ya shaykh. May Allah blessed you and your family.
truly a Gem, Ustadh Bajour
Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.
Masha allah..
What a beautiful speech
Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.
May Allah SWT bless you,
You are such a charismatic scholar
absolutely 💯
Alhamdullillah
Masha Allah love the idea of the gift in the end haha
Omgggg sooo good. Last part was epic 😁❤️
beautiful talk....ma sha Allah Tabarakallah
Jazak allahu khairan this was so beautiful. May Allah bless you all and give you Sakina in your homes AMIN
Some man never appreciate what ever the wife does for him ,he puts her down all the time mostly in front of others
Try marital counseling. Haleh banani has good videos on UA-cam, but you can also check with your local masjid.
Yes my husband also do.
@@21972012145525 my husband never admits his abuse towards me he thinks it’s always my fault
@@imranhassim6731 we can only pray there is nothing else we can do
@@aleeza7866 May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease
This was an amazing lecture thank you so much xxx
Love this! Much needed advice! ❤
MashaAllah.. one of the most wonderful speeches I heard on this topic.. Barakallahu feek yaa usthad
MashaAllah, the best idea ever, Jezak Allau khair.
Ameeen thank you for a lesson and a Dua Sheikh
Ma shaa Allah ...Nice talks BaarakAllahu feekum
Very important advices
May Allah bless you
Alhamdulillah it's good to have such as positive man giving positive advice. It's encouraging and motivating.
May Allah grant us a good spouse and offspring
May Allah's love and mercy be on you forever
Jazak Allah khayr
Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah ❤❤❤❤❤ soo benificial video
😌😇🤗🤝🏾🫂🤲🏾❤💓💗💟 May Allah Guide Us, Insh'llah, Allahumma Ameen. Allahumm Alim ❤️ 🤲🏾
Subhanallah
ما شاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيرا 🙏
Subhanallah , even if a mistake is made , he will remind you of the passed mistakes in your cooking .
Very beautiful lecture and so much we can all learn from . Thank you so much .
Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.
Masha Allah
Mashallah
جزاک الله خیرا یا استاد فاضل
haha felt so good after listening you ... allah bless u
Salaam. How did u reach that deep knowledge and faith. Love to hear your mesg.its full of wisdom . We trully feel your love in imparting that wisdom.
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
mashahallah ❤️
This is awesome advice. May ALLAH swt bless and reward you dear Ustaz Bajour.
You are a great blessing to the Ummah.
Jazakallahu khairan.
Amiin Yaa Rabbal a'laamin. Same to you sheikh
Mashallah
الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا
Amin
Ma Sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰
Alhamdulillah
Mashaallah india
Alhumdulillah
Love you
Subhan Allah what a beautiful message, how can we contact you sheikh for our Counselling
Jazak Allah Khair
Great brother
Jazak Allah Khairun. Can we still donate on the upper left corner to Epic masjid?
Alhamudulillah
Surah Ar-Rum, Ayah no. 21
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I feel so depressed and alone. I cant find a spouse but have everything else.
👌👍
A good surprise when you come home, not you're divorced. Or Asalaam alaikum habibti, meet your new co-wife.🙄
As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤
Wow
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Hmm 🤔. Better be sincere and not embarrass your spouse by false praises. He/she will hear it from others and then would not trust you. But use wisdom in helping your spouse to be better. Praise the effort. Part of growing closer is to be able to trust the other with good or constructive opinions.