Simi Garewal has done such a fantastic job with this interview...if it was anyone else we would have been deriding this couple for being in a relationship who are 30 years apart. Instead the interview was carried by Simi with such class, that this sounds like the best love story ever ! Kudos to Simi !
She’s made of fairy tales ,he’s practical, wise & a realist. He probably didn’t want to get married, she was in love with the idea of happily ever after.
@SimV239..that has to do with their three-decade age difference. Suchitra is probably in her early 20s here, while Shekhar is in his late 50s. That is a huge age gap.
30 yrs age difference is no joke. A good amount of trust, sacrifice, understanding and humor is required from both the persons. Shekhar is feeling like a 'father figure' to Suchitra and vice versa and it's natural and that's why he is behaving bit odd here.
Guys before judging shekhar let me tell you 321 theory three nights vd hero two vd producer one vd director every heroine goes thru it to become successful suchitra shud hv known This before getting hitched to Shekhar Kapur who is actor director n producer ,thisust be the reason many heroines are happy to marry no filmy guys ,
as much as this interview is good, it is actually just two people trying to avoid sounding toxic to/about each other but yet failing. moving on must've been hard but i hope they're living their best right now. :)
Thanks for the upload. I remember I missed this episode and so much wanted to watch it when it came many years ago. I was a big Shekhar fan then. Frankly, this episode clears so many points about him and their relationship. He is obviously pretentious and full of himself during this episode. Suchitra is such a darling..honest and so much in love with him. He just didn't deserve her.
It will be every man's dream to have and be loved by a woman like Suchitra. It is beaming as clear as day her love and commitment towards Shekhar and i can understand how much toll the separation would have taken on her. Shekhar is a refined and dapper intellectual, but in the corridors of emotions, he does not command my respect after viewing this interview. His career mattered to him over all humanly relations and that is petty deal as per me notwithstanding of what caliber an intellectual a person is. Suchitra showed how she would have left everything behind in case he needs him anytime. While he was discussing the if's and but's of the covenants of the contracts in doing so. Mr. Kapoor - emotions is something that binds us. You simply didn't deserve this gorgeous lady
I like the way you say "dapper intellectual". Shekar with all the intellect has clearly said he carries a lot of baggage -a complex human . He said its difficult to live with him .I saw Shekar speak for the first time and was able to comprehend his intellect closely. A CA at 22 that is very telling and the Oscars for Elizabeth. They have a daughter -Am I right ?
She was quite stubborn and I guess in her obsession for him she missed his tell tale signs of lack of commitment and fear of marriage. He’s clearly articulated why he feared a commitment and suggested a live in relationship , because he had a failed marriage and because of his difficult and apathetic nature- by his own admission. If someone said that to me I would thank them and move on. It takes years to figure out inherent tendencies and a persons nature. She obstinately pushed for marriage despite knowing all this. Maybe she thought she could change him or handle him? That’s always a lofty and most certainly an unachievable goal. They would have easily figured this out in live in without having to go through marriage and post all that heartache they did eventually.
@@archanavaidyanathan9934 As the adage goes, youth is wasted on the young. He did not want to lose a pretty young "playmate" and she was far too immature to know better. Hopefully both are living happier lives now.
@@archanavaidyanathan9934 well put Archana Suchitra Krishnamurthy was far too immatured to see the outcome of this relationship and she is a stubborn rebellious person,so who suffered in this whole gambit,the girl baby came out from this wedlock …shaker was clear not to get bonded in marriage because he knew his incapabilities for a wedding commitment and he warned her…
What no one remarks on is how youthful Shekhar looked for his age and still does. He does not appear 76 even now. I think he is a great mind and very different. His output is not much but literally everything he works on is outstanding! Suchitra was emotionally immature and she still is. I can see that in her interviews. She is a good person but a Person can either be creative or be a person pandering to the moods of a emotional and unstable person because that is exhausting and never works anyways. Anyways people drift apart when reality sets in countless times.!
SimiGerewal is the best ,classy ,articulate and she knows how to keep us glued to the screen…I love to watch her interviews and watch them again and again!kudos to you SIMI, like your pure clean white outfits your interviews are also impeccable ❤️❤️❤️❤️👌👌👌👌!!!!
They are a complete mismatch. Suchitra comes across as romantic, emotional and a tad naive whereas Shekhar seems cynical, intellectual and detached. The difference in age of about 20 years didn't help either. Plus, the man doesn't believe in marriage and that in itself is a 'red flag'.
Also he resents her journey as an artist. He is kind of jealous of how easy she has it. I can understand that but he doesn't like who she is. Some aspects of her personality he finds charming but its apparent this won't last as he is so over her. The admiration isn't there.
@@wheathusk2499 really? ur making sense..I dont think he s very attracted to her as well..I dont see chemistry either...everything is way off..he s definitely very detached like I dont think he in his real life actually admired her and told her nice words...she was awe and amazement about his stature and she hoped on that theres enough love to hold everything together...I didn't see connection between them too....
Disagree with age difference. I believe it has to do with needs, wants and personality. I have dated much younger women, who were white and we got along well. Yes, when we held hands, people could tell that she was much younger to me, but we looked good together and loved each other a lot.
Suchitra is so sweet and talented. Shekhar is intelligent, but very spaced out. He lives in his own shell but he is not vicious. They were just a mismatch. Both are nice at heart...Simiji did a fantastic job in handling such extreme personalities.
If he really encouraged in true sense, then why was he not supportive to her with her acting career ?? For a person who apparently claims to be forward thinking and modern, wife's acting career should have seemed important too, rather than suppressing her !! isn't it ?
@@dr.anooshabhandarkar5441 maybe because he could see a mile away that she wasn’t really a good actor. He still encouraged her, that’s what a supportive husband does and that is commendable. Now if he goes out of his way and makes movies with her in it, gets her movies just because she is related to him then same people like you will call that “nepotism” 😊 anyway take care. ✌️
He has narcissistic traits ... gifted and talented as he is ...he would be extremely attractive to a thinking , independent woman . However he is definitely not relationship material. Feel bad for Suchitra , she was self willed, which went against her in this case .
Good observation about shekhar kpor in particular ( what's with the ameicanised accent( shekhar's speech and bad acting while being a much celebrated director) and artificial/put on sheepishness? and suchitra in general ! I cannot believe this is the same guy shekhar kpor who's so called higher order thinking skills put Spielberg etc ( forget about bombey brawly wood) to shame!!
My goodness she is so emotional, while she was singing it almost felt the sadness and deep down disappointment that she is feeling after marrying him....
As a school going n growing up gal I knew both of them separately. Both of them are vv talented and heart throbs. But today only I have come across this interview and came to know about both of them as a couple. But what a mismatch. What a huge age difference. I lost the total image of him. Y don't they choose and decide correctly, matching their age. Two lives wasted. When both are equally capable, y don't they give respect, encouragement to individuals careers and space to each other and still maintain a cordial respectful married life. Y r they not contended.
Many many years later from when this episode was shot, I read Suchitra Krishnamurthy's book (autobiography?) where she was divorced and desperate to marry again, and a little comically deranged. And I just felt how sad unequal attraction can be. Not being judgemental. It was just sad.
Never give up your career for a man specially one who gives more importance to his own career than his family...they will usually be very focussed on themselves/ own career and after initial years of attraction, they forget to love, cherish and respect you.
Karan johar should learn from this show... so much more sensible.. respectful.. decent... vulnerable.. simultaneously unveiling the other facets of stars without making any controversy out of it or demeaning anyone else..
Bad idea to emotionally blackmail someone into marrying. Dunno why people are calling him pompous, he seems sorted. She's nice too, but they definitely seem out of tune.
I wouldnt say blackmail...but sometimes you have draw a line in the sand. If one continues to be uncertain and evasive, then thats a message in itself. But maybe she was too young to see that . Hindsight though, always 20/20
@@anjuchauhan9527 she also said proposed to Karan Johar even after knowing that he is gay and one other director because she wanted to marry director/producer again.
#simigarewal is so elegant, decent - her conducting of these inquiries into people's life is respectful & genuine. Compare this with #KoffeeWithKaran, a debauched show meant to drag others down, belittle & dehumanize them. Disgraceful and disgusting.
I feel he is more of woman mindset and talk like men.. I watch this only to learn English and poise and learn classy things Simi mam or ji I love you mam
Simi is opening a can of worms here.. saw her looking on like uh! I give it a month! Anyway such a great interview this lady is more a shrink than an interviewer.
They looked good together...please watch their interview with Simi garewal....why did they separated?? It's so hard to believe....very sad....just because an actress , probably preity Zinta, entered shekar's life....everything was broken ... Suchitra loved shekhar so much....it's so prominent in every interview from those days....
Ma'am, I loved the moment when you asked, "Does she bully you, Shekhar?" And Suchitra giggles! I was only 17 at the time of this interview but the warmth of these interviews are everlasting.. During the interview Suchitra said, "my career is more important than his career for me!" May be that eventually made the difference in their marriage. I may be wrong. Shekhar was 56 then and now in 2018 he's about 72. Hats off to him for making such a successful career. We must not forget that he was the one who took A R Rahman to Mr. Andrew Lloyd Webber and eventually the rest of the world. I'm now living in Dubai but I'm originally from Pakistan where everyone knows BOLLYWOOD only. But A R Rahman's music has been the best way for me to connect to the southern part of India. Please Ma'am, do some interviews with the Stars from Tamil, Malayalam and Telugu film industries also like Mohan Lal, Akkeini Naagarjuna, Jyothika, Dulquer Salmaan, Nithya Menon, Samantha, Trisha, Ramya Krishnan, Prabhas, Manju Warrior, Fahadh Faasil, Silambarasan, etc. It'll really be a treat for all of us. I wish and pray that a new TV show by you starts very soon. I've traveled all around the world and have been watching loads of TV shows but your shows stand apart! I've been watching each and every episode and have enjoyed thoroughly. Take care. Cheers!
An admirable couple and intelligently taking part in covrsation . Happy to 👂 a talented and melodious voice meticulous mannered person a rare quality.rather an out standing quality. Thanks 🙏 thanks 🙏
The Interview Is Clear enough to showcase the relationship would not have worked out... Simi Garewal saw thru her insecurities probably. He didn't deserve her bcz he thought she got is all very easily and couldn't leave him even though he was nvr really around
Simi and Shekar looks mature both in looks and talks and Suchitra is immature and innocent in front of them...a lesson ..ger married to person of yr age
28:36 that must have hurt. How can you say this to someone you love, your wife. You are a great man, i hope you improved for better. And again at 38:10 this man is so hurtful to this wonderful woman.
in my mind Sh. Shekhar ji is a genius an intellect of creativity a person who can produce and deliver the art imaginatively. Happy to see him a personality of positivity. Thanks 🙏 thanks ☺️
A great interview but a sad ending for both of them . I do not want to be judgemental to both of them as human beings or as a couple . I have recently read Suchitra's book Drama queen. It is very well written . She has the flair for writing and is a courageous woman . She looks beautiful in this video .
What a tragedy this marriage ended as badly as it seems from the news! Though by implication, one can already hear the cracks already present in that marriage which would later become insurmountable.
Suchitra is from a rich family, she stayed in Napean Sea Road before becoming an actor. That's a posh neighbourhood, so PG in Mumbai suburbs is definitely a struggle
Shekhur confessed he needed solitude for his work. From 1st part of interview, it’s clear he’s self-absorbed with the type & standard of work he does & his ambitions. He was perhaps unsure about the marriage from onset. He knew the type of person he was, his baggage was heavy or he was lazy as he sounded to do the pursuing - which left Suchitra with no option than to pressurise him for marriage. The Elizabeth sequel, 2007 took its toll on the marriage ultimately as the last straw to break it.
He had an attractive personality n was awe when I saw his Digjam advertisement. I was in school at that time. Lekin mujhe Shekhar ji thode egoistic type lage. He was not like his Mama Dev Anand ji.
stupidity of the government and the film industry at that time.they didnt allow bandit queen to go for the best foreign to the oscars, india lost such a talented director...sad
Bandid queen and d acting of seema biswas ,and ofcourse brilliant direction by shekhar kapur ....i guess even he n seema wer prepared that the film wud not reach oscars ,as few sick minded groups wud not allow to send it ....though if u maka biopic on dons of india ...defanately they will allowed
Nothings wrong with Shekhar kapoor here. He sounds so open and encouraging. It’s his way of life. Before marrying girl should think through seriously what she is getting into if she is from a non conservative background and have a carrier
A gallant disarming style of interview is very interesting a wholesome expressions talented singing ⭐️ 🙏 artists always express their creativity in some form or the other 🙏 and inspiring performance 🎭 an interview to remember fo times to come. Thanks 🙏
A superb personality and intelligent personality and yet simplicity equally is very inspiring and pleasing an impressive performance 🎭 🙏 an enjoyable conversation
Interesting interview, but Suchitra is a bit silly. Needs to be a wee bit more mature. I can see why he was attracted to her, however I don't see why she married him. He seems to be on a completely different intellectual and emotional plane than her.
They looked good together...please watch their interview with Simi garewal....why did they separated?? It's so hard to believe....very sad....just because an actress , probably preity Zinta, entered shekar's life....everything was broken ... Suchitra loved shekhar so much....it's so prominent in every interview from those days....
Suchitra looks a bit sad in the video...the way she looks at him with those expressive eyes and Shekhar was trying to act cold and detached. Personality wise, they did not seem to be in tune with each other. And her recent play "Drama Queen" is probably an answer to all these issues in her life. I hope she is happy now and same for him too.
Saw this interview after two other recent interviews of Suchitra, including one with Siddharth Kannan. Now I got the bigger picture after hearing out Shekhar, especially since this is an old interview. Suchitra definitely comes out as an immature, star-struck, love-struck young girl who wanted to get married to her hero, without thinking of consequences. Shekhar, of course, is a worldly, suave, well-read man who knew the consequences of this marriage. Both took the wrong decision, but Shekhar b😢eing more experienced, should have held back and not got carried away. Suchitra should now refrain from giving false information in her interviews. If she has taken heavy alimony, that's not right, since it was her mistake to force him into marrying her. She had her singing career, so she could have sustained herself. As she says, Shekhar is a good father, so he would have taken care of their daughter anyway.
He said outright he was threatened into marriage.it seems that he was just buldozed into a relationship he wasn't ready for.she just pursued him into a corner and the mismatch was evident right from the beginning.it seems unfair of her to slap infidelity charges on him later.she didn't really have him in the first place.she contradict s everything she says here after the divorce and says he ruined her chances of a career.did she have one really?he seems completely disinterested and it seems she forced him into fatherhood because of her insecurities.later into messy maintanence charges too.
Simi Garaewal.dud a good job.man desn.t believe in marriage. Only temporary love.if they stay in it fir long.reason.kids.family public reactions etc.take the life if our south Indian beautifull actresses. From.Vijanthimala.Shridevi.Hemamalini.Suchithra.the list goes on.all had very difficult time at the beginning of their carrier and the Diretors or Actirs took advantage in their tender years.hope fully they will have a nice life and end of life not tragic.Women are very strong and it is God given go girls live your beatifill life as you want.❤❤❤
I am watching ⬆️ for the first time .. how people change and very conveniently say : marriage has ended . Short term memory !?! Faded memory of the moment they actually want to be with one another , I guess . After 8 years they r back in their own nests .
It was a tough interview ,Simi did a great job Plus I believe blaming anyone in these two is incorrect , I have seen in other interviews and got more clarity with this interview that Shekhar didn't want marriage ,he was ok with live in because he wanted to show her how he is before taking any steps but she went back to her home ,then when Shekhar was out for shooting she went to her house and started forcing for marriage ,where Shekhar also mentioned she threatened him for marriage and she interrupted , she is saying I wanted marriage because I felt it should have been ,but she forgot that there shouldn't be any force and thats what she faced after marriage I believe ,I feel she is immature and wanted fantasy world,she just wanted him in her life as a challenge she took it that if I love someone he should be mine ,after marriage she felt he.should always listen to her and be.with her ,where this person is artist,wants to innovate in his career ,she also says Shekhar is not allowed to be in her shows ,conscious of only him I don't understand this part ,many things I believe she went wrong and he is very silent ,but at the same time hr is clear where he says I cannot leave my contract and come back ,may be where he meant if the.wife says every now and then I am feeling lonely pls come he cannot leave that contract as it takes lot of finance plus every husband jokes of her face ,body just for fun I believe thats what he meant of how you become model I didnt find he would have been serious about it Any ways these two knows better ,jus wanted to say not every time Men are wrong and should be blame just because the women are out spoken ,Men don't do that usually
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Simi Garewal has done such a fantastic job with this interview...if it was anyone else we would have been deriding this couple for being in a relationship who are 30 years apart. Instead the interview was carried by Simi with such class, that this sounds like the best love story ever ! Kudos to Simi !
I feel terribly sorry for Suchitra. She had so much potential in her. Can't blame her. Love indeed is blind at times.
She’s made of fairy tales ,he’s practical, wise & a realist. He probably didn’t want to get married, she was in love with the idea of happily ever after.
@SimV239..that has to do with their three-decade age difference. Suchitra is probably in her early 20s here, while Shekhar is in his late 50s. That is a huge age gap.
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I can keep watching Simi’s interviews for hours and hours!! She is the BEST!!!!!
Thank you for such sweet words. It means a lot!!
Simi is just so amazing and eloquent. Please make a comeback Simi with another rendezvous series
30 yrs age difference is no joke. A good amount of trust, sacrifice, understanding and humor is required from both the persons. Shekhar is feeling like a 'father figure' to Suchitra and vice versa and it's natural and that's why he is behaving bit odd here.
Guys before judging shekhar let me tell you 321 theory three nights vd hero two vd producer one vd director every heroine goes thru it to become successful suchitra shud hv known
This before getting hitched to Shekhar Kapur who is actor director n producer ,thisust be the reason many heroines are happy to marry no filmy guys ,
@@vkvk792 Not every actress is a whore, dude. Get that rotten thought out of your mind.
There’s so much pain on Suchitra’s face when singing, she sounds lovely, want to hear the whole song! 👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Actresses back then looked so healthy & naturally beautiful.
as much as this interview is good, it is actually just two people trying to avoid sounding toxic to/about each other but yet failing. moving on must've been hard but i hope they're living their best right now. :)
Thanks for the upload. I remember I missed this episode and so much wanted to watch it when it came many years ago. I was a big Shekhar fan then. Frankly, this episode clears so many points about him and their relationship. He is obviously pretentious and full of himself during this episode. Suchitra is such a darling..honest and so much in love with him. He just didn't deserve her.
pahari75 And you are judgemental dude.
It will be every man's dream to have and be loved by a woman like Suchitra. It is beaming as clear as day her love and commitment towards Shekhar and i can understand how much toll the separation would have taken on her. Shekhar is a refined and dapper intellectual, but in the corridors of emotions, he does not command my respect after viewing this interview. His career mattered to him over all humanly relations and that is petty deal as per me notwithstanding of what caliber an intellectual a person is. Suchitra showed how she would have left everything behind in case he needs him anytime. While he was discussing the if's and but's of the covenants of the contracts in doing so. Mr. Kapoor - emotions is something that binds us. You simply didn't deserve this gorgeous lady
I like the way you say "dapper intellectual". Shekar with all the intellect has clearly said he carries a lot of baggage -a complex human . He said its difficult to live with him .I saw Shekar speak for the first time and was able to comprehend his intellect closely. A CA at 22 that is very telling and the Oscars for Elizabeth. They have a daughter -Am I right ?
She was quite stubborn and I guess in her obsession for him she missed his tell tale signs of lack of commitment and fear of marriage. He’s clearly articulated why he feared a commitment and suggested a live in relationship , because he had a failed marriage and because of his difficult and apathetic nature- by his own admission. If someone said that to me I would thank them and move on. It takes years to figure out inherent tendencies and a persons nature. She obstinately pushed for marriage despite knowing all this. Maybe she thought she could change him or handle him? That’s always a lofty and most certainly an unachievable goal. They would have easily figured this out in live in without having to go through marriage and post all that heartache they did eventually.
@@archanavaidyanathan9934 As the adage goes, youth is wasted on the young. He did not want to lose a pretty young "playmate" and she was far too immature to know better.
Hopefully both are living happier lives now.
I concur with everything that you said ..
@@archanavaidyanathan9934 well put Archana Suchitra Krishnamurthy was far too immatured to see the outcome of this relationship and she is a stubborn rebellious person,so who suffered in this whole gambit,the girl baby came out from this wedlock …shaker was clear not to get bonded in marriage because he knew his incapabilities for a wedding commitment and he warned her…
What no one remarks on is how youthful Shekhar looked for his age and still does. He does not appear 76 even now. I think he is a great mind and very different. His output is not much but literally everything he works on is outstanding! Suchitra was emotionally immature and she still is. I can see that in her interviews. She is a good person but a Person can either be creative or be a person pandering to the moods of a emotional and unstable person because that is exhausting and never works anyways. Anyways people drift apart when reality sets in countless times.!
very well put
SimiGerewal is the best ,classy ,articulate and she knows how to keep us glued to the screen…I love to watch her interviews and watch them again and again!kudos to you SIMI, like your pure clean white outfits your interviews are also impeccable ❤️❤️❤️❤️👌👌👌👌!!!!
this interview is mindblowing.some real answers
They are a complete mismatch. Suchitra comes across as romantic, emotional and a tad naive whereas Shekhar seems cynical, intellectual and detached. The difference in age of about 20 years didn't help either. Plus, the man doesn't believe in marriage and that in itself is a 'red flag'.
It is a 30 year difference, google it...
Also he resents her journey as an artist. He is kind of jealous of how easy she has it. I can understand that but he doesn't like who she is. Some aspects of her personality he finds charming but its apparent this won't last as he is so over her. The admiration isn't there.
@@wheathusk2499 really? ur making sense..I dont think he s very attracted to her as well..I dont see chemistry either...everything is way off..he s definitely very detached like I dont think he in his real life actually admired her and told her nice words...she was awe and amazement about his stature and she hoped on that theres enough love to hold everything together...I didn't see connection between them too....
Disagree with age difference. I believe it has to do with needs, wants and personality. I have dated much younger women, who were white and we got along well. Yes, when we held hands, people could tell that she was much younger to me, but we looked good together and loved each other a lot.
Not 20 actually 30 years
He seemed very intelligent and sorted person,..a complete mismatch....one can learn study human relationships by watching this episode!
"Not allows......encourages..."
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Suchitra is so sweet and talented. Shekhar is intelligent, but very spaced out. He lives in his own shell but he is not vicious. They were just a mismatch. Both are nice at heart...Simiji did a fantastic job in handling such extreme personalities.
shekar married her cus she was 19 and loved him.
I just love Shekhar Kapur. He has something that appeals. It was lovely to listen his interview thsnks
39:12 the difference of allow and encourage, not many understand. It shows how Shekhar thinks and what a sorted person he is.
It felt a little odd when she said 'allow'... thank god shekhar corrected her.
If he really encouraged in true sense, then why was he not supportive to her with her acting career ?? For a person who apparently claims to be forward thinking and modern, wife's acting career should have seemed important too, rather than suppressing her !! isn't it ?
@@dr.anooshabhandarkar5441 maybe because he could see a mile away that she wasn’t really a good actor. He still encouraged her, that’s what a supportive husband does and that is commendable. Now if he goes out of his way and makes movies with her in it, gets her movies just because she is related to him then same people like you will call that “nepotism” 😊 anyway take care. ✌️
For a 56 year old man he is handsome
Nephew of devanand ..he has to be handsome
He has narcissistic traits ... gifted and talented as he is ...he would be extremely attractive to a thinking , independent woman . However he is definitely not relationship material.
Feel bad for Suchitra , she was self willed, which went against her in this case .
Very true. She wanted marriage, children etc.
Absolutely right, she was too young and was smitten by his intellect, charm and fame probably
Good observation about shekhar kpor in particular ( what's with the ameicanised accent( shekhar's speech and bad acting while being a much celebrated director) and artificial/put on sheepishness? and suchitra in general ! I cannot believe this is the same guy shekhar kpor who's so called higher order thinking skills put Spielberg etc ( forget about bombey brawly wood) to shame!!
My goodness she is so emotional, while she was singing it almost felt the sadness and deep down disappointment that she is feeling after marrying him....
As a school going n growing up gal I knew both of them separately. Both of them are vv talented and heart throbs. But today only I have come across this interview and came to know about both of them as a couple.
But what a mismatch.
What a huge age difference.
I lost the total image of him.
Y don't they choose and decide correctly, matching their age.
Two lives wasted.
When both are equally capable, y don't they give respect, encouragement to individuals careers and space to each other and still maintain a cordial respectful married life.
Y r they not contended.
Many many years later from when this episode was shot, I read Suchitra Krishnamurthy's book (autobiography?) where she was divorced and desperate to marry again, and a little comically deranged. And I just felt how sad unequal attraction can be. Not being judgemental. It was just sad.
Suchitra is a simple girl married to a complicated guy I guess he warned her
Yeah totally seems like it
"When someone shows you who they are..believe them"
Why didn't he leave her ?
So This is what being in an unhappy marriage looks like..
Are you in a toxic relationship????
when he corrected her allowes and enourages .. what a man
Never give up your career for a man specially one who gives more importance to his own career than his family...they will usually be very focussed on themselves/ own career and after initial years of attraction, they forget to love, cherish and respect you.
Can't agree with you more.
She didn't.
@@sagarikamukund6056 After marriage she did. The world was her oasis back then. However she rebuild herself like a phoenix so we'll done to her.
@@sagarikamukund6056 infact he told her not to act, she mentioned this in a recent interview
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Karan johar should learn from this show... so much more sensible.. respectful.. decent... vulnerable.. simultaneously unveiling the other facets of stars without making any controversy out of it or demeaning anyone else..
Totally agree
You are right
That's impossible that' joker wont learn anything from this show instead keep on making fun of other actors
Simi, a few days back Teen Deviyan and Saathi movies were on tv..you were looking ethereal..you still do
Bad idea to emotionally blackmail someone into marrying. Dunno why people are calling him pompous, he seems sorted. She's nice too, but they definitely seem out of tune.
ethnne true that
I wouldnt say blackmail...but sometimes you have draw a line in the sand. If one continues to be uncertain and evasive, then thats a message in itself. But maybe she was too young to see that . Hindsight though, always 20/20
I agree, she manipulated him
What Suchitra wanted was fame and being rich. That could be the reason for the wedding. She didn’t sound matured enough.
He didn't believe in marriage. He didn't want marriage.
He is one of the Genius, with a capital G. Just like AR rahman and sanjay leela bhansali
He is really smart and , I love the part where he said "not allows but encourages "
There is what where many men goes wrong when they believe they have allowed..two are equal no one has the capacity to allow someone
In her recent interview Suchitra clearly mentioned her husband wasn’t ok with her working in films.
@@anjuchauhan9527 she also said proposed to Karan Johar even after knowing that he is gay and one other director because she wanted to marry director/producer again.
#simigarewal is so elegant, decent - her conducting of these inquiries into people's life is respectful & genuine. Compare this with #KoffeeWithKaran, a debauched show meant to drag others down, belittle & dehumanize them. Disgraceful and disgusting.
Why compare? Simi's was a deep show. Karan's is a fun show
Shekhar kapoor was so good in the serial udaan
Madam Swimi ,,,,you look beautiful and gorgeous and your show OMG is out of the box marvelous
The way she giggles!
Love you Suchitra!
43:52
Great simi ji ....She sensed where they were heading and she gave good advice..🙏🙏
I feel he is more of woman mindset and talk like men.. I watch this only to learn English and poise and learn classy things Simi mam or ji I love you mam
Many couples who came on this show ended up in divorce after a couple of years
Oh my God 🤭😮😢 what an observation 😂😂😂
I was thinking the same
Simi is opening a can of worms here.. saw her looking on like uh! I give it a month! Anyway such a great interview this lady is more a shrink than an interviewer.
They looked good together...please watch their interview with Simi garewal....why did they separated?? It's so hard to believe....very sad....just because an actress , probably preity Zinta, entered shekar's life....everything was broken ... Suchitra loved shekhar so much....it's so prominent in every interview from those days....
Ma'am, I loved the moment when you asked, "Does she bully you, Shekhar?"
And Suchitra giggles!
I was only 17 at the time of this interview but the warmth of these interviews are everlasting..
During the interview Suchitra said, "my career is more important than his career for me!" May be that eventually made the difference in their marriage. I may be wrong.
Shekhar was 56 then and now in 2018 he's about 72. Hats off to him for making such a successful career. We must not forget that he was the one who took A R Rahman to Mr. Andrew Lloyd Webber and eventually the rest of the world.
I'm now living in Dubai but I'm originally from Pakistan where everyone knows BOLLYWOOD only. But A R Rahman's music has been the best way for me to connect to the southern part of India.
Please Ma'am, do some interviews with the Stars from Tamil, Malayalam and Telugu film industries also like Mohan Lal, Akkeini Naagarjuna, Jyothika, Dulquer Salmaan, Nithya Menon, Samantha, Trisha, Ramya Krishnan, Prabhas, Manju Warrior, Fahadh Faasil, Silambarasan, etc. It'll really be a treat for all of us. I wish and pray that a new TV show by you starts very soon.
I've traveled all around the world and have been watching loads of TV shows but your shows stand apart! I've been watching each and every episode and have enjoyed thoroughly.
Take care.
Cheers!
Why did they separate? With did use first form of verb.
A man always needs to be confident n sure on marriage. If he is not nothing will work. And women is just a complement of man
@@MeghaSahu24 dear God.... no wonder women are treated like second class citizens, when their own gender says this stuff
Shekhar kappor looked weired without moustache
Am sure she remembers her parents face everyday and regrets her rebellion
Exactly
An admirable couple and intelligently taking part in covrsation . Happy to 👂 a talented and melodious voice meticulous mannered person a rare quality.rather an out standing quality. Thanks 🙏 thanks 🙏
Loved that when he said “ not allow but encourages “. Such a beautiful man both in and out.
Yeah and later on he didn't want her to work and completely sabotaged her career. Very beautiful man but such a terrible partner.
The Interview Is Clear enough to showcase the relationship would not have worked out... Simi Garewal saw thru her insecurities probably. He didn't deserve her bcz he thought she got is all very easily and couldn't leave him even though he was nvr really around
Simi and Shekar looks mature both in looks and talks and Suchitra is immature and innocent in front of them...a lesson ..ger married to person of yr age
You can totally see the marriage was completely over at this point from his side
Charming and mature people, all three!!
He resembles to his uncle vijay Anand very handsome.
I agree! Strong family resemblance
No doubt this man has a certain charm !
White skin+accented English = charm according to racist mentality
I can see they both are disconnected as a couple. No wonder after couple of years they divorced!
Suchitra's recent interview with Siddharth Kanan clearly tells us why they ended up being divorced.
She is gorgeous how she took stupid decision .... Huge age difference
28:36 that must have hurt. How can you say this to someone you love, your wife. You are a great man, i hope you improved for better. And again at 38:10 this man is so hurtful to this wonderful woman.
Shekher hates women ghatiya man who shown woman nude in picture for publicity paise how can expect he will respect his wife who is so simple
in my mind Sh. Shekhar ji is a genius an intellect of creativity a person who can produce and deliver the art imaginatively. Happy to see him a personality of positivity. Thanks 🙏 thanks ☺️
Simi ❤garewal ❤ shekar ❤kapur ❤ suchitra ❤ krishna murthy ❤
When you watch ' masoom' , you can see male chauvinism played quite cleverly and subtly
It is clear, he strays, cunningly get his illegal child for acceptability by shabana, no woman can accept this shit.
He looks so much a like Sarmad Khoosat, a director/actor from Pakistan, they are sooo like.
Very true.his mannerisms are similar to sarmad khoosad
Khoosat ! 😄
True
They are punjabis. So the somilarity
She is the most amazing host ever who cradles the life unfolding before her and actually teases, no, seduces answers out of her subjects.
simi's interviews are always the best. honestly so good to watch.
A great interview but a sad ending for both of
them . I do not want to be judgemental to
both of them as human beings or as a
couple . I have recently read Suchitra's book Drama queen. It is very well written . She has the flair for
writing and is a courageous woman .
She looks beautiful in this video .
Ohh Simi u shud cum bck once again wd ur rendezvous.. we miss u.. till date drs NVR been a talk show in India lyk urs . Ur still d No 1.
Suchitra is gorgeous beautiful 😘❤️
What a tragedy this marriage ended as badly as it seems from the news! Though by implication, one can already hear the cracks already present in that marriage which would later become insurmountable.
How? Can you give me some points ?
Living in a PG was struggle ??? I lived half of my life in PG and was rockstar in my village to do that
😂
May be he was not a big loser like you, lol
For a girl it is risky those days
Suchitra is from a rich family, she stayed in Napean Sea Road before becoming an actor. That's a posh neighbourhood, so PG in Mumbai suburbs is definitely a struggle
Shekhur confessed he needed solitude for his work. From 1st part of interview, it’s clear he’s self-absorbed with the type & standard of work he does & his ambitions. He was perhaps unsure about the marriage from onset. He knew the type of person he was, his baggage was heavy or he was lazy as he sounded to do the pursuing - which left Suchitra with no option than to pressurise him for marriage. The Elizabeth sequel, 2007 took its toll on the marriage ultimately as the last straw to break it.
Shekhar is so handsome any girl would have fallen in love with him
Seems like Simi know about the fate of the marriage before they themselves
What shekhar K said about marriage and big family is true
This interview was very amazing and cool. I will make sure to check out his classic Bolly films thx Simi
Shekar's biggest problem = Over intelligence 😮
He had an attractive personality n was awe when I saw his Digjam advertisement. I was in school at that time. Lekin mujhe Shekhar ji thode egoistic type lage. He was not like his Mama Dev Anand ji.
stupidity of the government and the film industry at that time.they didnt allow bandit queen to go for the best foreign to the oscars, india lost such a talented director...sad
Bandid queen and d acting of seema biswas ,and ofcourse brilliant direction by shekhar kapur ....i guess even he n seema wer prepared that the film wud not reach oscars ,as few sick minded groups wud not allow to send it ....though if u maka biopic on dons of india ...defanately they will allowed
Nothings wrong with Shekhar kapoor here. He sounds so open and encouraging. It’s his way of life. Before marrying girl should think through seriously what she is getting into if she is from a non conservative background and have a carrier
a genius film maker indeed
I wonder what went through Simi's mind sitting across both of them at a time....
Hmmmm....
A gallant disarming style of interview is very interesting a wholesome expressions talented singing ⭐️ 🙏 artists always express their creativity in some form or the other 🙏 and inspiring performance 🎭 an interview to remember fo times to come. Thanks 🙏
He is a stalwart.ver handsome and creative
A superb personality and intelligent personality and yet simplicity equally is very inspiring and pleasing an impressive performance 🎭 🙏 an enjoyable conversation
Interesting interview, but Suchitra is a bit silly. Needs to be a wee bit more mature.
I can see why he was attracted to her, however I don't see why she married him. He seems to be on a completely different intellectual and emotional plane than her.
Father figure
The most talented man in India and a beautiful woman.
+wishmspm Why not? Have you seen his movies?
+wishmspm What kind of logic is that? Mohd Rafi is dead for 30 years but he is the best singer ever. You don't lose your talent it's permanent.
+wishmspm OK, so who according to you is the most talented film director in India?
They looked good together...please watch their interview with Simi garewal....why did they separated?? It's so hard to believe....very sad....just because an actress , probably preity Zinta, entered shekar's life....everything was broken ... Suchitra loved shekhar so much....it's so prominent in every interview from those days....
Suchitra looks a bit sad in the video...the way she looks at him with those expressive eyes and Shekhar was trying to act cold and detached. Personality wise, they did not seem to be in tune with each other. And her recent play "Drama Queen" is probably an answer to all these issues in her life. I hope she is happy now and same for him too.
Both looking very nice.
Saw this interview after two other recent interviews of Suchitra, including one with Siddharth Kannan. Now I got the bigger picture after hearing out Shekhar, especially since this is an old interview. Suchitra definitely comes out as an immature, star-struck, love-struck young girl who wanted to get married to her hero, without thinking of consequences. Shekhar, of course, is a worldly, suave, well-read man who knew the consequences of this marriage. Both took the wrong decision, but Shekhar b😢eing more experienced, should have held back and not got carried away. Suchitra should now refrain from giving false information in her interviews. If she has taken heavy alimony, that's not right, since it was her mistake to force him into marrying her. She had her singing career, so she could have sustained herself. As she says, Shekhar is a good father, so he would have taken care of their daughter anyway.
Me bhi Siddharth Kanan k interview ka baad aya hu
It's very sad this video has so less views.
Poor guy. They seem so apart, intellectually speaking..he should have said no..wasn’t fair to her either.
He said outright he was threatened into marriage.it seems that he was just buldozed into a relationship he wasn't ready for.she just pursued him into a corner and the mismatch was evident right from the beginning.it seems unfair of her to slap infidelity charges on him later.she didn't really have him in the first place.she contradict s everything she says here after the divorce and says he ruined her chances of a career.did she have one really?he seems completely disinterested and it seems she forced him into fatherhood because of her insecurities.later into messy maintanence charges too.
Are you the mistress of many men? Why so sour
She is so cute suchitra dear💓
A suave conversation with the couple a sort of very pleasing and frank talk . Happy 😆 to bea listener thanks 🙏
Simi Garaewal.dud a good job.man desn.t believe in marriage. Only temporary love.if they stay in it fir long.reason.kids.family public reactions etc.take the life if our south Indian beautifull actresses. From.Vijanthimala.Shridevi.Hemamalini.Suchithra.the list goes on.all had very difficult time at the beginning of their carrier and the Diretors or Actirs took advantage in their tender years.hope fully they will have a nice life and end of life not tragic.Women are very strong and it is God given go girls live your beatifill life as you want.❤❤❤
He seems a very sharp man.
I am watching ⬆️ for the first time .. how people change and very conveniently say : marriage has ended .
Short term memory !?! Faded memory of the moment they actually want to be with one another , I guess . After 8 years they r back in their own nests .
Ohhhh My Goshhh.. shekhar kapur is adoraaaableee. How come you able to retain the innocence in you
Handsome man shekhar. Beautyy suchii
Difficult to recognise Shekhar Kapoor when he is clean shaved 😂😂😂
He looks smart in beard
Pehli baar me Wasim Akram lga..😂😂😂
It was a tough interview ,Simi did a great job
Plus I believe blaming anyone in these two is incorrect ,
I have seen in other interviews and got more clarity with this interview that Shekhar didn't want marriage ,he was ok with live in because he wanted to show her how he is before taking any steps but she went back to her home ,then when Shekhar was out for shooting she went to her house and started forcing for marriage ,where Shekhar also mentioned she threatened him for marriage and she interrupted , she is saying I wanted marriage because I felt it should have been ,but she forgot that there shouldn't be any force and thats what she faced after marriage I believe ,I feel she is immature and wanted fantasy world,she just wanted him in her life as a challenge she took it that if I love someone he should be mine ,after marriage she felt he.should always listen to her and be.with her ,where this person is artist,wants to innovate in his career ,she also says Shekhar is not allowed to be in her shows ,conscious of only him I don't understand this part ,many things I believe she went wrong and he is very silent ,but at the same time hr is clear where he says I cannot leave my contract and come back ,may be where he meant if the.wife says every now and then I am feeling lonely pls come he cannot leave that contract as it takes lot of finance plus every husband jokes of her face ,body just for fun I believe thats what he meant of how you become model I didnt find he would have been serious about it
Any ways these two knows better ,jus wanted to say not every time Men are wrong and should be blame just because the women are out spoken ,Men don't do that usually
What unusual and bewitching personality Shekhar Kapoor is....