Having insane focus is basically a superpower.

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  • Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
  • What can insane focus do for you? Well, I'm glad you asked. As someone who is as insecure as I am, it was the only way I knew to approach life and get the things I wanted - social attention, academic success (Harvard and Yale), becoming a doctor, and yes, even getting laid.
    If that's what you want, then stop reading this blurb (who reads these things anyway? Let me know in the comments if you do!) and click play already. If that's not what you want, then watch anyway and see how dumb a Harvard guy can be. Enjoy!
    For interesting MEDICAL STORIES and MYSTERIES, go to my second channel: ‪@spoonfedmed‬
    00:00 Intro
    00:28 "Secret" to Getting into Harvard
    01:30 No Advantage? No Problem!
    02:45 Oh Nvm, Big Problem!
    04:14 Aimlessness and Sorrow
    05:15 "Secret" to Getting into Yale
    06:40 Live Life With Intention
    07:34 Getting Laid
    09:59 Consistency is Key
    10:23 The Phases of Progress
    11:09 "Insane Focus" Disclaimer

КОМЕНТАРІ • 145

  • @veremoralis
    @veremoralis 7 місяців тому +33

    this is the best piece of media i've witnessed, glad to be alive

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend 7 місяців тому +33

    This guy will go far. He puts a lot of energy and focus in what he does

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Appreciate the support! Thanks for watching 🙏

  • @lakshitabhagwat8071
    @lakshitabhagwat8071 5 місяців тому +4

    I've checked twice if it's on 2x lol, no doubt you're really good in narrating

  • @metropulbish8991
    @metropulbish8991 7 місяців тому +7

    dude u deserve more views this is fire

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Means a lot to hear you say that

  • @lionlikemessenger
    @lionlikemessenger 7 місяців тому +5

    Kobe Bryant *mastered* this!!!

  • @Silent_Awareness
    @Silent_Awareness 3 місяці тому +6

    Thanks for focusing on focus!

  • @Banjatia
    @Banjatia 4 місяці тому +3

    Another fantastic video which really resonated with me. I suffered from a similar issue- I have an extreme ability to focus and apply discipline but I've often focused on the wrong things because the things I choose to focus on "sound good" and have some superficial quality I immediately like. I commit almost instantaneously and then when I feel like its too late, I want to back out and regret not focusing on something better and feel that same herculean weight to get things back on course for myself. In my adulthood now I can take a step back and push myself (though its very uncomfortable and quite unnatural given my past), to explore why I want the things that I do and learn a little bit more by playing in the shallow end of what I think I really desire and seeing if I actually like it before plunging into the depths of it.

  • @vincentmbwende9131
    @vincentmbwende9131 Місяць тому

    Very useful..I love this.. this actually helped me unlike other videos

  • @forthewine
    @forthewine 5 місяців тому +2

    your illustrations overlaid are great.

  • @pavithraselvaraj4
    @pavithraselvaraj4 6 місяців тому +4

    This was a very well packed video of advice which would normally not what I want to hear!
    I am commenting this today. I want to achieve one thing. It has been my singular goal. But I have been distracted and confused. But, laser focus is just what I need. I need to be obsessed. Will come back to tell you I have achieved that.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  6 місяців тому +2

      I have no doubt in my mind - with laser focus, there’s no way you won’t achieve your goal.

  • @libra-exe
    @libra-exe 7 місяців тому +5

    I really enjoyed the whole video without skipping 😮

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      You the main VIP! I thank you!

  • @mikem6108
    @mikem6108 3 дні тому

    Your videos are so inspiring, but in a very cerebral way. So glad I found this channel

    • @mikem6108
      @mikem6108 3 дні тому

      AND this one was fucking hilarious

  • @yaraininterest9565
    @yaraininterest9565 5 місяців тому

    Happy I found this channel!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  5 місяців тому

      I’m happy you are here too! Welcome :)

  • @maltegb
    @maltegb 7 місяців тому +12

    Once again a great video. Do not stop making them

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! I really appreciate you saying that! ❤️

  • @dhuggagursharan6692
    @dhuggagursharan6692 11 днів тому

    Jus found you n subbed you got that production 0:23

  • @ludwighoernlein3919
    @ludwighoernlein3919 7 місяців тому

    Very good work man 👍

  • @navembruf2264
    @navembruf2264 7 місяців тому

    Awesome video, here for the journey to the 100k subs.

  • @youssefhkis
    @youssefhkis 7 місяців тому

    this is million dollar advice🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @selfgrowjourney101
    @selfgrowjourney101 7 місяців тому +4

    Oh what a gem i found on youtube, this guy is sooo funny and packed with knowledge! Keep it up and cant wait for the next drop!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      I’m so happy to hear you say that! Can’t wait for you to see the next one ☝️

  • @denseregular4639
    @denseregular4639 7 місяців тому

    Enjoyed watching your video

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      So glad! Thanks for being here :)

  • @markusmanlius3804
    @markusmanlius3804 7 місяців тому +1

    Reassessing your goals inevitably diminishes that insane focus - you can not follow a path with all your ability and meanwhile contemplate if it is the right path. Personally, I would advocate a middle between following a decided goal and periodically reflecting if it is truly what you wish to achieve.
    You should very carefully devote some essential part of your time checking if you a) can improve your plan and b) still want the outcome of that plan.

  • @LittleTimmyO
    @LittleTimmyO 7 місяців тому +1

    I watch way too many videos, and podcasts. This was actually really good.
    Do you do 1 on 1 coaching?

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for saying that! Really appreciated. Email me at spoonfedmed@gmail.com

  • @Jerolff123
    @Jerolff123 Місяць тому

    Probs for the honesty

  • @stuffedtoylover
    @stuffedtoylover 9 днів тому

    incredible

  • @danielwillis12
    @danielwillis12 7 місяців тому +6

    You just passed 500 subscribers! Congrats man, much deserved 🙌

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you Daniel! So awe inspiring to see things like this are resonating with people :)

    • @AnkitKewat-yg9we
      @AnkitKewat-yg9we 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@spoonfedstudyHey u r evolving tremendously!! Now ur 1k+ damn ,though u deserve even more literally especially for ur story telling,tone along with the body language and the most importantly ur arts ❤That's the cherry on top
      Feedbacks:-
      i) Actually get some keypoints or takeaways dude!! 😮well not everybody is sane enough to get the lesson(the story was awsm n all but any real point to impliment honestly?)
      ii)You should create even more attracting thumbnails😅well little dopamine things u know if u know (they already r but can be further enhanced)
      iii)Use some references and quotes to sound smart as other youtubers and along with ur creativity u,ll reach the far !!
      iv) Never quit cuz u r litrly brilliant u,ll reach even more than u think(well not for those cases u r thinking😂)if not today then tomorrow🎉!! SAYONARA!!(lemme stop procrastinating now as I learnt from ur story that if u just resist the urge unlike others u would have what others aren't😂)

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Wow thank you for taking the time to write all of that. Will keep in mind for future videos :)

    • @Loki_Dokie
      @Loki_Dokie 7 місяців тому

      7k lol 🎉

  • @self_improvement_d
    @self_improvement_d 7 місяців тому +2

    Very high quality video for the amount of subs you have

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate you saying that! Hope to keep on growing

  • @m4gnus2
    @m4gnus2 7 місяців тому +21

    I Think you’re gonna be very succesful on UA-cam. You’re good with talking and body language. And editing.
    How do I find focus? And courage. And discipline

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +7

      Thank you for the words of support! The next video I’m working on is actually on this subject! Stay tuned!

    • @uwakweemmanuel7643
      @uwakweemmanuel7643 7 місяців тому

      @@spoonfedstudyI really can’t wait cos I would love to make cool videos like this.

  • @viniciussouza7198
    @viniciussouza7198 7 місяців тому

    haha love the story about dating, most people are not that open with their rejections, I wonder where you are at that now, any improvements? Also great channel, happy to find it

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Gonna try and be as vulnerable as possible with this channel and give the unfiltered truth from experience! Yes, I found my lady ❤️

  • @renegade_of_funk
    @renegade_of_funk 5 місяців тому

    Would you mind sharing, or a link to a video that may already contain this information, the method and applications or process you use to put your hand drawn items onto the screen, which is what I assume your iPad or other device?

  • @2Uno2
    @2Uno2 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey Man, no matter if I stumble upon one of Your videos again or not, You made something click Bro, rather You want to be successful in dating women or successful in talking to entrepreneurs, it all starts with taking an extra step in Your everyday routine to maximize that potential.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      I appreciate that! Thanks for being here! Hope to see you around in the future!

  • @nikikovacs1923
    @nikikovacs1923 8 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for this inspiring video ! I've also had my share of "awkward cringefests". :o)

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  8 місяців тому +1

      Haha glad to hear I’m not the only one! 😅

  • @lionlikemessenger
    @lionlikemessenger 7 місяців тому +42

    So, did you ever improve your dating life? You never mention the outcome.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +68

      Yes, I finally found my lady ❤️

    • @brownboiharit
      @brownboiharit 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@spoonfedstudywith that energy ofcourse man 😌

    • @tinaswisphers3433
      @tinaswisphers3433 6 місяців тому +6

      Bro literally got married 😆

    • @ciunasday5222
      @ciunasday5222 3 місяці тому +6

      Only a guy would ask! Girls spot the wedding ring!

    • @puttsky7
      @puttsky7 16 днів тому

      What is your motivation to be a UA-camr?

  • @Dan-bx3sw
    @Dan-bx3sw 6 місяців тому

    Thanks!

    • @Dan-bx3sw
      @Dan-bx3sw 6 місяців тому

      Really well done. Have a beer on me.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  6 місяців тому

      Thank you Dan! My next drink will be dedicated to you.👍 Seriously, thank you

  • @colleanobrien3288
    @colleanobrien3288 7 місяців тому

    I totally read the blurb

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Hahaa nice! Thanks for letting me know

  • @pepperpeterpiperpickled9805
    @pepperpeterpiperpickled9805 7 місяців тому +2

    When you mentioned Harvard, I was expecting to hear some research about how focus changes the brain and/or elevates all cognitive function or something....
    What did this have to do with focus? This was more about goal setting, wasnt it?

  • @kursadalb
    @kursadalb Місяць тому +1

    This is a fantastic video, and you deserve to be a UA-cam productivity & self development superstar. I love the sense of humor, and the care and attention you clearly put into crafting the messages. I am always looking forward to your new videos.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  Місяць тому

      Wow, you are incredibly kind and awesome for taking the time to letting me know that. Words can’t appreciate how I feel right now. Grateful to have you in my life ❤️

  • @yesimkhanh9932
    @yesimkhanh9932 2 місяці тому

    I want to keep this channel only for myself:pppp but if serious could you please make a video on how to combat burn out

  • @ebenezerokinedo1748
    @ebenezerokinedo1748 7 місяців тому +1

    I enjoy watching your video, do you know why?
    It comes from a place of experience

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Nice! Thanks for letting me know. Will be sure to draw from more examples in my life in future videos

  • @TahmidUllah
    @TahmidUllah 7 місяців тому +1

    Hi I'm a premed currently facing a lot of aimlessness and sorrow in my gap year. I found your channel yesterday and love your video style and the messages you convey. Keep going, I have a feeling your channel will be big!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Best of luck to you. It’s a long journey but if you stick with it, you’ll be on the other side in no time

  • @translash
    @translash 7 місяців тому +1

    hilarious!!! love it man keep it going

  • @gabchomp
    @gabchomp 5 місяців тому

    The lil drawings are so cute! Do you do them yourself??

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you! I do! It's pretty time-consuming work but having fun with it!

  • @amrmohammed3055
    @amrmohammed3055 7 місяців тому +2

    Great insights! Focus is indeed a great superpower!!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for the kind words and for commenting!

  • @rivalrepairs
    @rivalrepairs 7 місяців тому +2

    HAHA the "insert joke here" bits are the best!. Also here before 1M subs as this seems inevitable. I can see your laser focus is your superpower and I want some of that :-)

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Haha thank you for the kind words! That would be amazing 🤩. Fingers crossed until then

  • @CLTeamPalmBeach
    @CLTeamPalmBeach 5 місяців тому

    OMG, you are awesome - funny, truthful and flawed .... a former Duke grad, now going through this college bullshit with my public school twins. Loved your Harvard money-machine video too. The graft cheating and lies I hear about in the private high schools and how it gets rewarded is disgusting ... I don't even think I want my kids (perfect ACT, etc) around that (for $400k!!) ... in some of these private undergrads. America needs to put a focus more on values, and not manufactured values. How about we interview all these kids? Anyhow, keep making these videos .... are you a practicing doctor? If so, I'm sure you are a ROCKSTAR!!!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for the kind words Carolina. You are awesome. I hope your twins make it through hopefully with as little stress as possible, it’s tough, I hear you! To answer your question, I am a practicing doctor. Making videos in my spare time gives me a much needed creative outlet :)

  • @infinitebrian9178
    @infinitebrian9178 7 місяців тому

    holy shit - totally unexpected you're a legit dancer XD

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Haha yah I spent a lot of time dancing… a LOT

  • @NiceandhappyO3
    @NiceandhappyO3 7 місяців тому +1

    Focus and obsession ✅

  • @funatsun
    @funatsun Місяць тому

    i have an exam in 2 weeks what can i do to focus i tried watching lectures or study via books to cover whats left and to revise whats done but my focus doesnt seem to be there i also tried switching bw the subjects wht to do doc?really need ur super help rn,hope u can help and my request reach to ur ER

  • @MaanaviKashyap
    @MaanaviKashyap 7 місяців тому

    love your content

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Thank you! Much appreciated. Hope to see you again next video 👋

  • @leichtsinn6737
    @leichtsinn6737 7 місяців тому +1

    insane channel. love your stuff, love your editing stuff and most important the honesty. want to give you a tip for your shorts, cuz they are strong af. you need a more reckless and strong hook, like will change your life etc. i hate it but you got to understand those verticals pop up in front of theyre eyes und you a nobody so you got to punch them with the hook. speaking from experience, have buolt a german tiktok in mindset area up to 200k and thats what i noticed stronly. videos can even be unedited but when you promise "this something you never heard bra" it went up to 700k - 4 mio views. no guarantee but definetly worth for you. i almost never comment but your channel is pure joy. keep going anyway. found you through the youtube video with the 3-tier productivity system.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for the support and the helpful feedback! Will keep in mind for future shorts!

  • @benyaminewanganyahu
    @benyaminewanganyahu 7 місяців тому +4

    Your story is very similar to mine: I worked hard to get into my university of choice, then spent the time focusing on girls, left with lots of experiences but mediocre academic results and only a string of failed relationships. A friend of mine once said he's trying to find the love of his life and focus on his career later which, at the time, I thought was crazy. But actually it makes a lot of sense - many people are able to focus once their love-life has stabilised.
    I think most people know that focus is key but the problem is that there is opportunity cost also to focus and FOMO for almost anything especially nowadays. So it's a dilemma. In my life the only way I've found to solve it is to fail fast so that you're left with only a few choices.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +2

      I think there’s probably a lot of us out there swimming around trying to figure it out, thinking we are the only ones clueless. Thanks for sharing your story. FOMO is so real though. So much of success is predicated on drilling down on something that diluting that energy on several things at once just makes one simply mediocre at a lot. And of course, love and dating is a huge component to a lot of our lives (sometimes can feel even more important than career) that naturally it makes sense it can draw a lot of our attention.

  • @joshnova9163
    @joshnova9163 7 місяців тому

    This is Harvard Lampoon material!

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      I was too focused on dancing to even consider it back in the day but I now wish I had tried!

  • @Alex-ll4xm
    @Alex-ll4xm 6 місяців тому

    Your channel is incredible 🙌

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  6 місяців тому

      Wow, thank you for the kind words. Sincerely appreciate it Alex!

  • @garrisonsullivan6501
    @garrisonsullivan6501 5 місяців тому

    Dude, you're hilarious and informative. Much props.

  • @crowningglory6654
    @crowningglory6654 7 місяців тому

    This was hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @JoshuaNicholasCox
    @JoshuaNicholasCox Місяць тому

    Does beer, nights and massages feel like rock bottom? Might need to flip that desire drive upside down

  • @6215..
    @6215.. Місяць тому

    You are wonderful!!! I Love your chanel, my favorite now

  • @user-wq6df3pk1s
    @user-wq6df3pk1s 7 місяців тому

    We all are literally him lol (keep going man)

  • @dr.kawasaki7380
    @dr.kawasaki7380 Місяць тому

    2:40 🤣💨💨💨
    The girls can peek INSIDE u..... confidence

  • @okechukwuanudokem2060
    @okechukwuanudokem2060 7 місяців тому

    6:25 bro what does john wick have to do with this ? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Lol this video was initially completely John wick themed with more John wick doodles but changed it out last minute. Still kept that part though

  • @arifdewi785
    @arifdewi785 7 місяців тому +1

    Don't you think that some things for some people are impossible even with 100% focus and obsession? I mean I'm sure that a ton of ppl work their asses off and never achieve their goals, and that seems to be the majority of people

    • @dawnburdick6602
      @dawnburdick6602 7 місяців тому

      Life happens and we learn. We pivot. We get better.

    • @purshotambohra2131
      @purshotambohra2131 7 місяців тому

      Because goal is not the only part of the equation of success. The more important thing is how you reach there which is not everytime in your control, as some of the ingredients you might not possess.

  • @morpham
    @morpham 7 місяців тому

    The example with a bunch of asses was super motivating. Love those mini pics in your videos XD

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому +1

      Haha! I had a good time drawing them

  • @sadhariyavishal
    @sadhariyavishal 5 місяців тому +1

    Your humor 🤣 You deserve 1M.

  • @6_Minute_Man
    @6_Minute_Man 7 місяців тому

    I was here before he was famous. 1.7k

  • @therealzeon
    @therealzeon 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @aryanlamba5227
    @aryanlamba5227 5 місяців тому

    The main crux of your videos is to FOCUS AT ONE THING don't overstretch yourself. So in my case I want to excel in studies and prove to myself and others around that I am something more than they think. Also the things I have studied till now in my school is only for the carrot things such as securing good grades and not a stick which can be applied in real life. I want to change it from now on so what can I do so that my onowledge stays with me from now on ?. Pls try to be simple in language

  • @majorr7835
    @majorr7835 7 місяців тому +2

    this was just the video I needed, I’m currently in my first semester of medical school and I’ve been so distracted by pussy I’m letting a what once was a 4.0 gpa slipppppp, I’ve been tryna get both, pussy and medical school but like you said I need to focus on one. HERE I COME PUSSSSYYYY

  • @sanford360
    @sanford360 13 днів тому

    Lost me after the third “shake my booty”.

  • @nevermore6459
    @nevermore6459 7 місяців тому +1

    I have many interests but can't decide on what to focus...its literally years that I'm not getting anywhere because I start one thing then the other then I'm overwhelmed and give up again...any tips to help deciding and not getting side tracked after five minutes?

    • @lionlikemessenger
      @lionlikemessenger 7 місяців тому +2

      Just pick one, you can do the rest later once you get enough success in the first area. Look how Arnold Schwarzenegger turned bodybuilding into becoming a top actor and also Governor of the largest state in the USA. Or look at how Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson turned college football into WWF/WWE, then acting, and then maybe politics if he decides to run.
      Pick ONE. You can do the rest later.

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      If you could only pick one thing, what would it be? What would give you the most fulfillment and meaning? I’ll be making more videos on this topic so stay tuned!

  • @marconi3142
    @marconi3142 5 місяців тому +1

    Left half way through.
    How about teaching the concepts and not making it all about you.

  • @anti-histamine
    @anti-histamine 7 місяців тому +1

    Egyptian watching this😭

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

      Haha hello! Good to have you here :)

  • @TatoDobbien
    @TatoDobbien 6 місяців тому

    sos hermoso yo te doy laid

  •  Місяць тому +1

    Doc please speak slower. English is not my first language

    • @Przepoczwarzenie
      @Przepoczwarzenie Місяць тому +1

      Doc pls dont, its finally perfect speed. You! Just slow down the video, leave this one alone!

  • @rivalrepairs
    @rivalrepairs 7 місяців тому

    Great videos but slow down your speech 25%!

  • @rmp5640
    @rmp5640 4 місяці тому

    So, what is the point, how to have that super clear focus? I don't get it

  • @alexanderfallaria5657
    @alexanderfallaria5657 7 місяців тому

    Great content brother! Do you have other social media account or email so I can DM you?

    • @spoonfedstudy
      @spoonfedstudy  7 місяців тому

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