I just caught my wife cheating with a trainer at our gym and it’s hurt me so bad I’m so angry and I wanted to go destroy the guy but I didn’t want to kill my career. What also baffles me is my wife acts like she still cares but then I hear her on our cameras talking about me like a dog. Who she has turned into is crazy and she is playing the victim role while I’m the one who had to leave our home because when I found the messages it lead to an altercation so my lawyer thinks it’s best I stay away. But I’m so angry and broken by this whole situation and she wants to rush the process of divorce but I’m not going to rush for her I’m too bitter at this time.
Gary P. Don’t let it get to u. Never get married again, and leave her to the wolves bro. It’ll be painful for a while, but honestly you will mad it didn’t happen sooner !
They're always blaming men all the time! This is a bunch of bull. The women doesn't feel appreciated. How about the poor guy that is busting his butt all day long to provide. No one gives a damn about him. This is probably why so many guys don't want to get married any more. They already know a terrible percentage of women are going to cheat on them and they will get really hosed when they get divorced too.
@@1diana1995 by insinuating women cheat bc of a lack of attention from their husband…ultimately if the man did more for their wife she wouldnt screw someone else aka the man’s fault
Bruh why do you all assume that the men provide in these times...my mom makes more money than my dad while taking care of us and cooking and cleaning and used to teach us when we don't understand something. my mom made me and my brothers to be all in the medical field while the eldest didn't like the medical field so he has a master in engineering.
You know the funny thing is they never bring this up until the contract is signed hypergamy always is the reason for their lack of responsibility or accountability like being bored is an actual reason for cheating.......its pathetic dont ever marry gents
Women does act like that are either self-centered, money hungry and probably wants more excitement. Well not all women does this. Men are like that too.
@@johnrencheck2283 u can get married but be careful who u marry...unfortunately people cheat for watever reasons, some women think men dnt care and that all men cheat so they might as well do it too very idiotic but it happens...not all people cheat and there are some who can honestly commit if its being reciprocated...everyone wants attention or needs met whether sexual or emotional etc if u can meet all those needs they are less likely to cheat...some people though are greedy and just love polygamy, lack self control or trying different things so its key to know the person as much as possible...
As a woman myself, i can safely say that anyone who cheats, regardless of their gender, is self-centered. That is what you will find at the root. Someone who is only thinking of themselves and their needs. This doesn't mean they are completely selfish in every way, although some may be. It just means they are being completely selfish in this way. You will find self centered behavior at the root of all evil.
I see your thought but it's actually not. Women are based on their emotions - that's in the core of femininity. If a women feels unappreciated she will satisfy her need, there is no way around it. A man on the other hand is capable to sit through it, at least longer then most women. That's also why men for example are better in handling difficult situations often found in higher paid jobs and so on - the list goes on
People have desires, and most people together because of the convenience. Most people afraid to admit engaging without honesty is why cheating never ends, if it’s not my mother, I’m not trusting a woman.
@@nicefreemyx3044 I don’t believe thats entirely true women are more instinct driven that men which is why they don’t know why they act the way they do they just do based on emotion varies from person to person not specs gender women go by their own natural urges
You don’t have to take it, you leave the relationship. The problem with men today is that they marry women that makes less money than them and when you do that it gives women the advantage in family court if the marriage fails. It’s always best to make sure that whoever you marry makes just as much money as you or more so that if they do cheat you can walk away without your life being destroyed in family court.
So let me get this straight. It's the man's fault if he cheats (totally on board with this because it makes sense), but it's ALSO the man's fault if his wife cheats? Why am I not surprised this is the answer in a show where the primary audience demographic are women? Cheating is a choice. This means everyone is responsible for their own actions. True, your partner might not have made for the most hospitable home environment (and this affects both men and women), but they didn't force you into cheating. You made that decision on your own, therefore it's your fault because there are other options available. What if your husband or wife isn't interested in working on the relationship? Then you need to decide if you want to stay in that relationship (probably not a great idea) or divorce. Regardless, you don't cheat. If the moral implications aren't enough for you, then think about how cheating will look during the divorce settlement. Despite having "no fault" divorces today, the fact is that divorce cases are presided over a judge who's a human being, and no matter how objective they want to be, there will be bias involved and most people detest cheating. So cheating will NOT help your case, and in fact could potentially hurt it, so if you want out of a relationship, don't cheat.
I agree with you sir im tired of women and or men who claim they cheated cause the other person did or the other person didnt treat them right etc etc..just leave or stay and forgive them if thats what u want...y stoop so low to their status u are no better than them regardless if they did it first or if the person not meeting your needs and u no longer interested in them...i pray to God I dont experience this, but if I do I hope I dnt succumb to this and end up seeking comfort from another man before I end the current relationship or divorce since im married.
If they don't want to be in a relationship with the person theh are with they should divorce first then find a new lover. Why cheat? Disgusting. Maybe it's because of social media and new tv shows where they show cheating as a normal thing. Some even romanticize cheating.
The real question is why women doesn't cheat. Still trying to find the existence of one. Women always have a handful of guys in their life and they're always banging atleast 2 of them
And they call it a "Marriage License" like either individual has ANY training. Marriage needs to be redefined. It is 2021. Leave the Government out of it.
I'm never getting into a relationship. As much as I want a wife and kids i already have issues and women are so unfaithful nowadays. I just wanna die, I dont want to be here with this bs anymore
Aye man, it's the reality we're now living in. Out of self preservation relationships and marriage only benefits women and nowadays they truly want their cake and eat it too. Honestly I don't think all women who cheat jump into relationships waiting for the chance to screw a guy over and those who marry really hold their vows as truth on wedding day, but people are only tested when things get rough. Women have too many options for sex partners for natural reasons and thanks to technology they can throw as big of a net as they want to find another man. The best course of action is to focus your attention on bettering yourself, be career driven, exercise, and overall be the best version of yourself as possible. Women will notice and come but have your fun and leave it at that. If a woman truly love you and want to be with you she's not gonna throw the option of marriage in your face and if she do let her know that she is free to leave at any time. Also be careful with letting a woman stay with you and if your in the US check what states have common law marriage. I almost got wrapped into that myself after breaking up with someone who couldn't stay away from her ex's and she was eager to move in with me even if I wanted to do see other people. Figured out that was her reason/plan.
and why you wanna die over a pussy? live your life brother for yourself focus all your time on hobbies and career, you don't need partner to live happy and better life.
I really appreciate the author’s willingness to publicly speak on women’s infidelity. She shared some helpful information. I would’ve liked for the older gentleman on the panel to allow her to speak without interrupting so quickly after she started. Also, I found it belittling that the surgeon on the panel implied that talking to her husband was an identical experience to talking to her children. That shouldn’t have been considered funny.
If it's unacceptable for a man to cheat, then it should be unacceptable for a woman to do it too. Just end the relationship, there is no excuse for cheating, nobody can convince me otherwise.
Hypocrisy is like: If he cheats, It's his fault, And if she cheats, It's also his fault. I understand why it is said, "Feminism is a modern version of hypocrisy."
@@TyyeahBStoo in marriage u mk vow tht u will only fuck her/ him throughout the life and only fuck others if ur partner n u want it if u r not married thn there is no vow...u cn do anything
Marriage in the 21st century needs to be redefined. Get the Government out of it. Get lawyers out of it. Spend your life with someone without the contract. You then are both on your best behavior because one can leave if the other is not holding up their half of the relationship. "You need to accept me for the way I am".....Uh, no.
At the heart of an abusive and unfaithful partner is an insecure little egomaniac who can’t handle when people are happy in life. They aim to find other insecure little egomaniacs to bond with to ruin each insecure little egomaniacs partner to the point of potential depression. They thrive off the pain of others
Here's why my marriage works my wife is a Therapist. And I'm a psychologist so our communication skills are way off the charts we literally talk about some of the most uncomfortable things with no problem. I've been with her for 20 years I think I've raised my voice twice both of The Times were at my son. Don't get me wrong we're not our 20 year old selfs that can that can go out at every day of the week 3 to 5 times A-day. But we're still good for at least 3 to 4 times a week And that's with 2 kids an 8 year old and a 15 year old.
Communication is key in a relationship and it seems you guys have estavlished a high standard of this...however, this is something lacking in mine and i just got married but my man aint much of a talker, if i try to talk he says nothing in return so now i am left to talk to myself or others.. he plays games and watch footy. Oh well my fault i had some inclination he would be like this though we never lived together before...some people are not made to communicate well or just dont want to
@@carsade you need to learn to read him. If your communication is lacking. Try and engage him at something he likes to do. It helps brake the ice. If he is a gamer give it a legit try. And learn to do something he likes it mit help open up a communication line. But today's relationships are having alot of communication issues. And it's because people use information to manipulate people and sad to say they stay closed off. To protect themselves from hurt. But also don't forget to be firm and set boundaries.
This is a bit long but I hope at least one person reads it who needs it. Starting from when I was eighteen years old, I owned my 'masculine intuition' which made me adept at reading women and their non-verbal communication to the point that it took me years to realize that most men are not in touch with their own intuition. I know by experience and by intuition (which thankfully doesn't require any prior experience) that women cheat, physically and definitely emotionally, far more than men do. This isn't about who is bad or good or who is better or worse, which is the way most women interpret it. It's about facts that science and especially human psychology can readily back up. To the men, married or unmarried, who read this, if you're spoken for or are interested in getting into a relationship that you want to really invest in, *you have to be willing to see things as they in fact are* and put feelings, social expectations, and hormones on the back burner. Remember that men and women are often polar opposites: objective vs subjective; reality vs fantasy; indifference vs empathy; rational vs irrational; giver vs receiver; selfless vs selfish; etc. If you rely on facts and put feelings away long enough, your intuition will begin to kick back on... and, being honest, when it comes to female nature you may or may not choose to return to a state of confusion and unknowing. Ciao.
i tried to be objective to understand your comment but it was hard..wat were u trying to say exactly? How is it that women cheat more than men, how is this measured and what researches or statistics show this? though it woud be hard to do a solid research in this as parricipants may lie or exaggerate their answers...all human beings are different and no gender is better or worse than the other...human beings lie cheat etc etc. Men and women have feelings but biologically and or psychologically we are taught that women are more emotionally driven whereas men are not but nowadays people are changing...
@@carsade to be fair, the topic is a very lengthy one and I don't claim to have all the answers. I don't even have half the answers. What I do have is the knowledge that _all answers can be found_ or that _there is a solution for every problem._ No one is better. In every race or ethnic group, you'll see some good and some bad. The same applies with men and women. But many people are thin-skinned and hyper-sensitive these days and can only stand hearing compliments without being defensive. There need to be forums where men and women can be open and honest about each other and where there are mature and unbiased moderators who won't be intimidated by the men or let the fact that women are more vulnerable cause them to unwittingly or purposely take anyone's side. When you don't communicate about important things, they go unchallenged. These excommunicated but relevant issues are the things-- far more than finances, children, and in-laws-- that very often come back to cause strife in or destroy many marriages and relationships.
@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast sorry about your ex-wife. I hope you and your son are recovering quickly. If you ask Michael Jackson, "Why? Why?" he'll tell you that "it's human nature". And it is. With both women and men. The more both parties understand they're dealing human nature (in others and in themselves), the more they understand what's literally 'dictating' to both sides how to think, feel, and live. There are only several reasons men cheat; but there are _many_ reasons women cheat. The best way to understand and make peace with this is to get a grasp on and understanding of the good and bad driving force in both men and women that makes us the way we are. It's enlightening.
I love how everything says that women are not the victims and they just keep on playing that card by saying that women don't feel affection so ultimately it's the man's fault.
Yes that's right 1st women marry to ugly rich guy 2nd have an affair 3rd divorce him and get compensation from him You have all the examples like black rich man marry to blonde white girl and divorce happens and people who says that man having 2 or 3 wives it's wives fault of marriang to him
I’m very faithful, but my marriage is not going well at all, I realized this a long time ago, and it’s sad! Sometimes I want to run, sometimes I want to feel in love, I’m so confused! I just know I don’t desire my husband like before, honestly I ask myself so many times we have been together 13 years and I’m not feeling it, I always wonder why you have to stay forever with somebody you are not feeling it anymore! I was always very judgmental until it happened to me!
True, that's the feminist perception, that women need careers, a bag, independence e.t.c in order to attract a man. That's what WOMEN want in a man, not the other way around.
2:31💯 On the other note Doesn’t make it right nor ok! Talk to your spouse first! Tell them you are fantasizing sexaully about others and that these are the issues they are feeling that make them feel the fantasy may soon become reality. If you care about that person you will do that.
its easy to blame somebody else and that goes both ways but admiting your wrong takes courage if both parts know what they did wrong and improve together it can work out but if the other on only blame the other it gone end wrong.
Cheating takes way too much effort and time...it also hurts not only the other person but you as well, if you're feeling down and need something new go shopping for a new purse not a new man 🤔
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, INFATUATION, OBSESSION, A SOURCE OF VALIDATION, AN EGO BOOSTER, A FORM OF ESCAPE or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER. "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." -1 Corinthians 13:6
Cheating is a choice one makes it’s never forced, if a individual is that unhappy in their relationship just separate end of story it doesn’t even have to be mega complicated and with broken hearts and all that. People do that shit to be slick and think it’s a game. I for one never promotes cheating on any level it’s dead wrong and karma always come full circle especially if the person you are with is the person you asked for so why cheat?. People need to grow that’s the real issue.
The 2 things I'm looking for in a woman are; someone who hasn't had sex before marriage, and someone I'm attracted to. It's hard to find a woman with just those two!
But even if she is a virgin and you get married she will get bored. She will hear other women talking about her not enjoying life and all that. Then divorce and she will start the hoe phase. Women are lost man, there is no hope.
@@saraali1538 I don’t know much about Asian countries. I’m personally attracted to middle eastern women 😋. They’re religious and most of them wait for their husband but they don’t marry anyone from another country usually as well 😟.
My freshly ex wife loved her Instagram, also because she knew I had no Instagram account. The last year of our marriage I felt she was cheating very strongly! I never caught her, but I felt it in my soul! She detached herself from me! Stayed on the damn phone! Stopped calling me!! Very disrespectful, so moved out, she had also filed divorce! .Never asked me to come back!
Im in a relationship now but if this one fails im done.i put the effort in and I just think what il do if just enjoy life and see women but not get emotionally attached....
this is just sick gota love the gold diging hors nowa days now if you don't spend all your time and money on 24/7 they going to leave you for someone else
Thanks to realizing women cheat, I'm happily single and dont care if the population dwindles to hell. It's not my problem anymore just like environmental issues like global warming, hungry people, crime rate increases etc. I'm choosing myself because everyone else can do whatever they want but when I want to do my own thing, apparently society has to "allow" you to be happy? Naa I'm happy now without being with friends or Girlfriends, I'm happy not married, I'm happy not stressing about adults that act like kids. Stay single boys, she for the streets. Toys and hands can be your partner because sex toys don't cheat and your hands won't whine and complain while making you feel bad for women problems and slaving your lives away to a woman that belongs to the STREETS ❤
People have desires, some people are together due to convenience. Most people afraid to admit real conversations,engaging without honesty is why cheating never ends, if it’s not my mother, I’m not trusting a woman.
When a woman speaks about being board, never been here, I’ve never done that , I would like to go back to go do things she never been engaged with, forget it , let her go safe your energy.
At this point men are starting to wake up because of people like Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit podcast which teaches about the inner dynamics between male and female and certain topics like this!!
Weak minded, weak willed people cheat. If you wish to make an immature high school kid choice, that's on you, don't blame others for your weakness. If you're unhappy in anything in your life, make a change and stop blaming others. Just up and leave. Its very simple, whether you have kids or not. Life is all a choice. I'm fortunate to be an extremely strong willed but deeply loving person. I can love and leave just as easily.
Both sides require attention and feeling appreciated by the other. One side blames the other and vice versa because thats the American way to blame others. A relationship will only survive if both sides are givers and care about the others feelings. When one side is selfish then they only care about themselves so the other side suffers and that is when the temptation of cheating enters the picture. Why would you have to plan anything and put it on a calendar......just do it.....take a weekend trip....do special things because you want to....not because you have to. As far as the intimate side of things....yes, a long love making session is great but I have to admit that sometimes those little quickies can be so hot as well. Its not always the big things that mean the most but just giving each other attention and asking how their day was can mean more than anything. People overlook this but communication is the most important part. Leave her little sweet love notes and make her feel special and in turn she will make you feel the same way.
I got tired of my cheating spouse. I had to contract a hacker *CYBER_KOR* on instagram who helped me get access to his social media account.. I got to see how much he had been playing on my emotions. He didn't know I could log in and out of his facebook chat .. his WhatsApp is +1 347 830 3644
They see it coming. They aren't paying attention. Men are proactive in relationships in the beginning. Then, women are put on the shelf. Do you ladies.
I am a MBBS doctor, what I have learnt is that men are slow learners, If divorce your husband Your are helping him to become a better person, And a good husband in days to come.
That's one of the reasons.. but also cus there horny and want sex and cant resist a male. Goes both ways tho, some men cant resist and some women cant resist sex. Preety simple to honest.
This woman doesn't know what she's talking about as far as what high quality men are looking for. They are looking for a traditional woman NOT the modern woman she speaks of. She doesn't understand men. She only understands women. Let's see her sit down and espouse that nonsense with Kevin Samuels who would vehemently disagree with her on what men want, and Kevin is a man so i think he knows more about men than she does.
Women cheat the same reason men do, it's something NEW, so what if we took the marriage relationship and nurtured it the same as u would an affair situation. Imagine the possibilities there when u water your own pasture!!!!
My (now ex) boyfriend physically abused me and told me that if I ever broke up with him he would find me and make sure I was so injured I couldn't walk right. I obviously wanted to break up with him but dreaded being abused and felt too trapped and blinded to seek help. I found a safe haven with another guy friend who really cared about me and then we started getting intimate (not actually having sex but doing other things). It was this guy who gave me the courage and took off the blinders to get legal help and therefore have the courage to break up with him. Point of the story, sometimes women are trapped or in serious danger and they might need someone to help them out of it.
DEFCON G20 always blame men for being assholes, but who chose them and who created them? Answer is women why? Because of their lack of appreciation for genuine nice guys and choosing bad boys for fun ad excitement.
I just caught my wife cheating with a trainer at our gym and it’s hurt me so bad I’m so angry and I wanted to go destroy the guy but I didn’t want to kill my career. What also baffles me is my wife acts like she still cares but then I hear her on our cameras talking about me like a dog. Who she has turned into is crazy and she is playing the victim role while I’m the one who had to leave our home because when I found the messages it lead to an altercation so my lawyer thinks it’s best I stay away. But I’m so angry and broken by this whole situation and she wants to rush the process of divorce but I’m not going to rush for her I’m too bitter at this time.
Gary P. Don’t let it get to u. Never get married again, and leave her to the wolves bro. It’ll be painful for a while, but honestly you will mad it didn’t happen sooner !
Sounds like your wife hit a switch and aint coming back.. Watch gone girl and you'll know wat im talking about
divorce, there is no fixing it, move on
@@ultrararesabra6159This guy gets it
Dont blame the guy my friend. It's all the woman especially when shes taken.
They're always blaming men all the time! This is a bunch of bull. The women doesn't feel appreciated. How about the poor guy that is busting his butt all day long to provide. No one gives a damn about him. This is probably why so many guys don't want to get married any more. They already know a terrible percentage of women are going to cheat on them and they will get really hosed when they get divorced too.
How did they put it on men lol?
Only western women.
@@1diana1995 by insinuating women cheat bc of a lack of attention from their husband…ultimately if the man did more for their wife she wouldnt screw someone else aka the man’s fault
@@ank7652 agreed
Bruh why do you all assume that the men provide in these times...my mom makes more money than my dad while taking care of us and cooking and cleaning and used to teach us when we don't understand something. my mom made me and my brothers to be all in the medical field while the eldest didn't like the medical field so he has a master in engineering.
Not cheating is easy! Say no and if your unhappy leave. So tired of people blaming others and social media for their choices!
Jazi Hughey social media provides the choices.
I'd tip you in bitcoin just for that comment
Joseph Hamby people have been cheating long before social media. You can find people to cheat with anywhere.
Yes
Exactly there's people who believe women can cheat but men cannot. It's wrong no matter what gender you are
Thank you for reminding me why I will never get married again.
Go your own way!
No one cares
gypsy 1999 I smell shitty pants
@@DarkLight-sz1vp So go change it
that's good, if you want pleasure bring the hookers, at-least they are loyal to what they are and not try to hide their true identity
That white women looks guilty as....
Fr I noticed that immediately. The look she gave the black woman just screams guilty.🤣
She wants the spotlight ⚡︎
She was talking about her 😹😹😹😹
women not feeling appreciated actually means you're not enough for her or that she's making excuse to find other men.
When hypergamy kicks in
You know the funny thing is they never bring this up until the contract is signed hypergamy always is the reason for their lack of responsibility or accountability like being bored is an actual reason for cheating.......its pathetic dont ever marry gents
Excuses pathetic
Women does act like that are either self-centered, money hungry and probably wants more excitement. Well not all women does this. Men are like that too.
@@johnrencheck2283 u can get married but be careful who u marry...unfortunately people cheat for watever reasons, some women think men dnt care and that all men cheat so they might as well do it too very idiotic but it happens...not all people cheat and there are some who can honestly commit if its being reciprocated...everyone wants attention or needs met whether sexual or emotional etc if u can meet all those needs they are less likely to cheat...some people though are greedy and just love polygamy, lack self control or trying different things so its key to know the person as much as possible...
As a woman myself, i can safely say that anyone who cheats, regardless of their gender, is self-centered. That is what you will find at the root. Someone who is only thinking of themselves and their needs. This doesn't mean they are completely selfish in every way, although some may be. It just means they are being completely selfish in this way. You will find self centered behavior at the root of all evil.
Agreed its a selfish act and can also be issues with self ! Insecurity , childhood sexual abuse / traumas that come out later.
@@crownedmelaninqueen That means you have to give that excuse to men who cheat on their wives not just women that's biased
Frederick LaFrance Where in this message did I assign gender to my comment ? 🤷🏾♀️
@@crownedmelaninqueen most of the people I've met say that about women who cheat
Frederick LaFrance Yes I follow you.
How come when men feel unappreciated and neglected, we just gotta sit there and take it? That's messed up
I see your thought but it's actually not. Women are based on their emotions - that's in the core of femininity. If a women feels unappreciated she will satisfy her need, there is no way around it. A man on the other hand is capable to sit through it, at least longer then most women. That's also why men for example are better in handling difficult situations often found in higher paid jobs and so on - the list goes on
People have desires, and most people together because of the convenience.
Most people afraid to admit engaging without honesty is why cheating never ends, if it’s not my mother, I’m not trusting a woman.
@@nicefreemyx3044 I don’t believe thats entirely true women are more instinct driven that men which is why they don’t know why they act the way they do they just do based on emotion varies from person to person not specs gender women go by their own natural urges
You don’t have to take it, you leave the relationship. The problem with men today is that they marry women that makes less money than them and when you do that it gives women the advantage in family court if the marriage fails. It’s always best to make sure that whoever you marry makes just as much money as you or more so that if they do cheat you can walk away without your life being destroyed in family court.
don't get married gentlemen, don't fucking do it.
So let me get this straight. It's the man's fault if he cheats (totally on board with this because it makes sense), but it's ALSO the man's fault if his wife cheats? Why am I not surprised this is the answer in a show where the primary audience demographic are women?
Cheating is a choice. This means everyone is responsible for their own actions.
True, your partner might not have made for the most hospitable home environment (and this affects both men and women), but they didn't force you into cheating. You made that decision on your own, therefore it's your fault because there are other options available.
What if your husband or wife isn't interested in working on the relationship? Then you need to decide if you want to stay in that relationship (probably not a great idea) or divorce. Regardless, you don't cheat.
If the moral implications aren't enough for you, then think about how cheating will look during the divorce settlement. Despite having "no fault" divorces today, the fact is that divorce cases are presided over a judge who's a human being, and no matter how objective they want to be, there will be bias involved and most people detest cheating. So cheating will NOT help your case, and in fact could potentially hurt it, so if you want out of a relationship, don't cheat.
I agree with you sir im tired of women and or men who claim they cheated cause the other person did or the other person didnt treat them right etc etc..just leave or stay and forgive them if thats what u want...y stoop so low to their status u are no better than them regardless if they did it first or if the person not meeting your needs and u no longer interested in them...i pray to God I dont experience this, but if I do I hope I dnt succumb to this and end up seeking comfort from another man before I end the current relationship or divorce since im married.
Facts
They Cherating because they want revenge.
If they don't want to be in a relationship with the person theh are with they should divorce first then find a new lover. Why cheat? Disgusting. Maybe it's because of social media and new tv shows where they show cheating as a normal thing. Some even romanticize cheating.
1:06. She is so guilty...
loool didn't even notice that but you're probably right :P
She doesn't cheat on her husband
The real question is why women doesn't cheat. Still trying to find the existence of one. Women always have a handful of guys in their life and they're always banging atleast 2 of them
Rummie lmao I saw that before I even saw this comment
Rummie 😂😂😂you right
People are so weak minded now. They have no self control and adult children running around society.
Humanity died a long time ago.
@@Jellybeantiger west*
ever notice most "relationship experts" are always single? 🤣🤣
They’re single because they know relationships are stupid, which justifies their expertise even more.
true
Because they are smart
@@jakebradley1688 lol
They know relationships are dum
She's never Yours it's just your turn.
The white woman on the panel is a cheater you can tell from her body language, She has the "I have been caught" look on her face.
toneman335 Lol, I think so also!
Couples should go to marriage counseling for about three months before they get married, bet a lot of them would not get married after that
you have to do that in Mexico because getting married
And they call it a "Marriage License" like either individual has ANY training. Marriage needs to be redefined. It is 2021. Leave the Government out of it.
They will
Got me thinking
The more positive and normal you are, the less girls want you.
I'm never getting into a relationship. As much as I want a wife and kids i already have issues and women are so unfaithful nowadays. I just wanna die, I dont want to be here with this bs anymore
Aye man, it's the reality we're now living in. Out of self preservation relationships and marriage only benefits women and nowadays they truly want their cake and eat it too. Honestly I don't think all women who cheat jump into relationships waiting for the chance to screw a guy over and those who marry really hold their vows as truth on wedding day, but people are only tested when things get rough. Women have too many options for sex partners for natural reasons and thanks to technology they can throw as big of a net as they want to find another man.
The best course of action is to focus your attention on bettering yourself, be career driven, exercise, and overall be the best version of yourself as possible. Women will notice and come but have your fun and leave it at that. If a woman truly love you and want to be with you she's not gonna throw the option of marriage in your face and if she do let her know that she is free to leave at any time. Also be careful with letting a woman stay with you and if your in the US check what states have common law marriage.
I almost got wrapped into that myself after breaking up with someone who couldn't stay away from her ex's and she was eager to move in with me even if I wanted to do see other people. Figured out that was her reason/plan.
Do not go killing yourself - you have something to offer the universe. You just need more time! 🙏
and why you wanna die over a pussy? live your life brother for yourself focus all your time on hobbies and career, you don't need partner to live happy and better life.
Sounds like you need counseling. Lol. And why say women are unfaithful...EVERYONE is unfaithful buddy
Only western women
I really appreciate the author’s willingness to publicly speak on women’s infidelity. She shared some helpful information. I would’ve liked for the older gentleman on the panel to allow her to speak without interrupting so quickly after she started. Also, I found it belittling that the surgeon on the panel implied that talking to her husband was an identical experience to talking to her children. That shouldn’t have been considered funny.
If it's unacceptable for a man to cheat, then it should be unacceptable for a woman to do it too. Just end the relationship, there is no excuse for cheating, nobody can convince me otherwise.
Hypocrisy is like: If he cheats, It's his fault, And if she cheats, It's also his fault.
I understand why it is said, "Feminism is a modern version of hypocrisy."
It’s honestly true, women are emotional creatures.
I bet old school feminists are disgusted with today's feminists
@@alek6208 women are ruthless
@@Meadow0899 and evil that satan himself
The husband is supposed to please the wife…if he can’t do that..than that allows her to cheat..
Hypergamy
In the dating game, as soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise.
Wow. On point. People use all kinds of excuses to cheat. Smh
Yeah you right.
Cheating is a choice I can take accountability for my actions and I made selfish choices. Ladies stop blaming men for a mistake that can be avoided.
If you are a red pill aware man you already knew this
If your gf got guy friends or hangs out with a ex she gotta go
And vice versa
Yup!
BIG FACTS
That's why you stay single for life it's way better 😍
Ya hopeless lol and thats comin from an alpha.
@@laidback6154 I honestly think that is the best way to live ur life
It’s cheaper to stay single
I hear that ! For real ! I should have stayed single 4 life ! Period !!
@@rachelsimbhu4383 yup it's better Rachel 🚶♂️
Just don't get married. PERIOD!
You don't have to be married for someone to cheat💯
@@TyyeahBStoo in marriage u mk vow tht u will only fuck her/ him throughout the life and only fuck others if ur partner n u want it
if u r not married thn there is no vow...u cn do anything
Marriage in the 21st century needs to be redefined. Get the Government out of it. Get lawyers out of it. Spend your life with someone without the contract. You then are both on your best behavior because one can leave if the other is not holding up their half of the relationship. "You need to accept me for the way I am".....Uh, no.
@@Eaglejake ...Word.
@@TyyeahBStoo is the consequences
I would be with a woman if, AND ONLY IF, she is completely trustworthy and professional.
I hope u'r willing to be the same thing for that woman.
Are you trust worthy and professional, and what do you mean by professional (careerwise or professional at being trust worthy)?
@@carsade He meant professional hooker.
Sadly only 0,0000000000?% Exist
Remember there is no excuse for cheating. No amount of validation can defend it.
When you cheat there's no why.
She's not your girl ever, it's just your turn 😉😆😆
They're blaming everything else but the person who cheats. If they were talking about men, the blame would be on them (as it should be)
At the heart of an abusive and unfaithful partner is an insecure little egomaniac who can’t handle when people are happy in life. They aim to find other insecure little egomaniacs to bond with to ruin each insecure little egomaniacs partner to the point of potential depression. They thrive off the pain of others
Here's why my marriage works my wife is a Therapist. And I'm a psychologist so our communication skills are way off the charts we literally talk about some of the most uncomfortable things with no problem. I've been with her for 20 years I think I've raised my voice twice both of The Times were at my son. Don't get me wrong we're not our 20 year old selfs that can that can go out at every day of the week 3 to 5 times A-day. But we're still good for at least 3 to 4 times a week And that's with 2 kids an 8 year old and a 15 year old.
Communication is key in a relationship and it seems you guys have estavlished a high standard of this...however, this is something lacking in mine and i just got married but my man aint much of a talker, if i try to talk he says nothing in return so now i am left to talk to myself or others.. he plays games and watch footy. Oh well my fault i had some inclination he would be like this though we never lived together before...some people are not made to communicate well or just dont want to
@@carsade you need to learn to read him. If your communication is lacking. Try and engage him at something he likes to do. It helps brake the ice. If he is a gamer give it a legit try. And learn to do something he likes it mit help open up a communication line. But today's relationships are having alot of communication issues. And it's because people use information to manipulate people and sad to say they stay closed off. To protect themselves from hurt. But also don't forget to be firm and set boundaries.
Therapist wish they where doctors. Your the prize to her duhhhh
Never marry and never get hurt ..easy solution .
Most people cheat and it’s become more the norm., it’s not your property it’s just your turn have fun enjoy life be honest and just love !
This is a bit long but I hope at least one person reads it who needs it. Starting from when I was eighteen years old, I owned my 'masculine intuition' which made me adept at reading women and their non-verbal communication to the point that it took me years to realize that most men are not in touch with their own intuition.
I know by experience and by intuition (which thankfully doesn't require any prior experience) that women cheat, physically and definitely emotionally, far more than men do. This isn't about who is bad or good or who is better or worse, which is the way most women interpret it. It's about facts that science and especially human psychology can readily back up.
To the men, married or unmarried, who read this, if you're spoken for or are interested in getting into a relationship that you want to really invest in, *you have to be willing to see things as they in fact are* and put feelings, social expectations, and hormones on the back burner. Remember that men and women are often polar opposites: objective vs subjective; reality vs fantasy; indifference vs empathy; rational vs irrational; giver vs receiver; selfless vs selfish; etc. If you rely on facts and put feelings away long enough, your intuition will begin to kick back on... and, being honest, when it comes to female nature you may or may not choose to return to a state of confusion and unknowing. Ciao.
i tried to be objective to understand your comment but it was hard..wat were u trying to say exactly? How is it that women cheat more than men, how is this measured and what researches or statistics show this? though it woud be hard to do a solid research in this as parricipants may lie or exaggerate their answers...all human beings are different and no gender is better or worse than the other...human beings lie cheat etc etc. Men and women have feelings but biologically and or psychologically we are taught that women are more emotionally driven whereas men are not but nowadays people are changing...
@@carsade to be fair, the topic is a very lengthy one and I don't claim to have all the answers. I don't even have half the answers. What I do have is the knowledge that _all answers can be found_ or that _there is a solution for every problem._ No one is better. In every race or ethnic group, you'll see some good and some bad. The same applies with men and women. But many people are thin-skinned and hyper-sensitive these days and can only stand hearing compliments without being defensive.
There need to be forums where men and women can be open and honest about each other and where there are mature and unbiased moderators who won't be intimidated by the men or let the fact that women are more vulnerable cause them to unwittingly or purposely take anyone's side. When you don't communicate about important things, they go unchallenged. These excommunicated but relevant issues are the things-- far more than finances, children, and in-laws-- that very often come back to cause strife in or destroy many marriages and relationships.
@@eyeballjellyforbreakfast sorry about your ex-wife. I hope you and your son are recovering quickly.
If you ask Michael Jackson, "Why? Why?" he'll tell you that "it's human nature". And it is. With both women and men.
The more both parties understand they're dealing human nature (in others and in themselves), the more they understand what's literally 'dictating' to both sides how to think, feel, and live.
There are only several reasons men cheat; but there are _many_ reasons women cheat. The best way to understand and make peace with this is to get a grasp on and understanding of the good and bad driving force in both men and women that makes us the way we are. It's enlightening.
i feel you have never interacted with a woman before
I love how everything says that women are not the victims and they just keep on playing that card by saying that women don't feel affection so ultimately it's the man's fault.
Yes that's right 1st women marry to ugly rich guy
2nd have an affair
3rd divorce him and get compensation from him
You have all the examples like black rich man marry to blonde white girl and divorce happens and people who says that man having 2 or 3 wives it's wives fault of marriang to him
Michael Obama is not a trophy wife he is a trophy football player.
😂🤣😂🤣
Listen, it's completely unnatural to spend your life with one person.
Anthony Oodie lol actually that’s complete nonsense. It’s quite natural, but will you be sexually attracted to them for a lifetime, no not likely.
You are 100% correct
I’m very faithful, but my marriage is not going well at all, I realized this a long time ago, and it’s sad! Sometimes I want to run, sometimes I want to feel in love, I’m so confused! I just know I don’t desire my husband like before, honestly I ask myself so many times we have been together 13 years and I’m not feeling it, I always wonder why you have to stay forever with somebody you are not feeling it anymore! I was always very judgmental until it happened to me!
As to the "new trophy
wife", nobody cares about a woman's accomplishments. It's a simple principle, is she hot or not.
True, that's the feminist perception, that women need careers, a bag, independence e.t.c in order to attract a man. That's what WOMEN want in a man, not the other way around.
Women careless trust me if a man has money , if he’s attractive all she wants is penis
2:31💯
On the other note
Doesn’t make it right nor ok! Talk to your spouse first! Tell them you are fantasizing sexaully about others and that these are the issues they are feeling that make them feel the fantasy may soon become reality. If you care about that person you will do that.
its easy to blame somebody else and that goes both ways but admiting your wrong takes courage if both parts know what they did wrong and improve together it can work out but if the other on only blame the other it gone end wrong.
You're forgetting one very important thing. According to women, they can do no wrong and it's always the man's fault.
The cheater is ALWAYS wrong. That is why it is called cheating.
Cheating takes way too much effort and time...it also hurts not only the other person but you as well, if you're feeling down and need something new go shopping for a new purse not a new man 🤔
* Ambrose * Thank you 😍
WTF U TALKING ABOUT U R A CHEATER UR SELF I CAN SEE THAT IN UR EYE!
Solomon Pilot which eye did you see it in I should probably get that checked?
I GUESS THE TRUTH HURTS HONEY MWAAAAAAAAAAAA
Agreed. It's too much work and guaranteed to blow up in your face.
That’s so sad for both sides!
The excuses are magical
yha ne
FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, INFATUATION, OBSESSION, A SOURCE OF VALIDATION, AN EGO BOOSTER, A FORM OF ESCAPE or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.
"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." -1 Corinthians 13:6
Lmfao, preach elsewhere cultist.
Thank you
Take the financial incentive away by removing alimony altogether and have a 50/50 auto child custody.
1:26 I don't know whether this look is why are you telling these people our secrets or thank you for teaching me
She is so much on point with the Insta thing. It's those momentarily pleasures that destroy the long term happiness.
Cheating is a choice one makes it’s never forced, if a individual is that unhappy in their relationship just separate end of story it doesn’t even have to be mega complicated and with broken hearts and all that. People do that shit to be slick and think it’s a game. I for one never promotes cheating on any level it’s dead wrong and karma always come full circle especially if the person you are with is the person you asked for so why cheat?. People need to grow that’s the real issue.
Women just own it.
Stay single guys, you'll get way more sex and less nagging. I promise
I’m considering it trust me, I dislike a sneaky woman
I don't get people who cheat, why can't you just be honest with your preferences...If you're not satisfied with me anymore just leave.
They don't want to leave because they got the resources.
The 2 things I'm looking for in a woman are; someone who hasn't had sex before marriage, and someone I'm attracted to. It's hard to find a woman with just those two!
But even if she is a virgin and you get married she will get bored. She will hear other women talking about her not enjoying life and all that. Then divorce and she will start the hoe phase. Women are lost man, there is no hope.
You’re likey to never find a women with those two
@@HPalternetive not an American women or someone that’s above the age 23 that’s for sure. Darn shame!
@@1stMikeWhite in Asian countries you can find someone above the age 28 and still virgin
@@saraali1538 I don’t know much about Asian countries. I’m personally attracted to middle eastern women 😋. They’re religious and most of them wait for their husband but they don’t marry anyone from another country usually as well 😟.
“Michelle Obama” lmao!! You mean MICHAEL! He is a transvestite
Because they can and Because their friends and family will cover for them
My freshly ex wife loved her Instagram, also because she knew I had no Instagram account. The last year of our marriage I felt she was cheating very strongly! I never caught her, but I felt it in my soul! She detached herself from me! Stayed on the damn phone! Stopped calling me!! Very disrespectful, so moved out, she had also filed divorce! .Never asked me to come back!
I just got cheated on by “ex”, she wil be alone in a month with all the bills for herself.
Divorce is 100 time better than cheating
Wife.
Im in a relationship now but if this one fails im done.i put the effort in and I just think what il do if just enjoy life and see women but not get emotionally attached....
And women get rewarded for there actions
Stay single never get married. If you really like someone have kids with them but never marry
this is just sick gota love the gold diging hors nowa days now if you don't spend all your time and money on 24/7 they going to leave you for someone else
This is all facts , a lot of prostitution
Thanks to realizing women cheat, I'm happily single and dont care if the population dwindles to hell. It's not my problem anymore just like environmental issues like global warming, hungry people, crime rate increases etc.
I'm choosing myself because everyone else can do whatever they want but when I want to do my own thing, apparently society has to "allow" you to be happy? Naa I'm happy now without being with friends or Girlfriends, I'm happy not married, I'm happy not stressing about adults that act like kids.
Stay single boys, she for the streets. Toys and hands can be your partner because sex toys don't cheat and your hands won't whine and complain while making you feel bad for women problems and slaving your lives away to a woman that belongs to the STREETS ❤
"Affection seeking" aka attention seeking.
Why is this recommended to me?!
Selfishness and immaturity
And never able to say sorry
If u meet a person like that expect it
Who’s dumber, the person that cheats or the person that forgives the cheater? 🤔
Cheater bcz a person who forgives is dumb but really loves him/her
People have desires, some people are together due to convenience.
Most people afraid to admit real conversations,engaging without honesty is why cheating never ends, if it’s not my mother, I’m not trusting a woman.
Men do it too.
DJ Sandy C it's always women that cheat
+kathryne wright not always my dear. I know 😉😉
kathryne wright bullshit😂
DJ Sandy C the lady said at 0:14
whitney_bennion that lady said it at 0:14
I hit my pinky today. Damn it must've been the men -__-
2:09 the blonde agreeing with a smirk and twinkle in her eye
When a woman speaks about being board, never been here, I’ve never done that , I would like to go back to go do things she never been engaged with, forget it , let her go safe your energy.
Hear reading comments of Men who can’t obviously deal with this topic! 😂🤣😂- that’s EXACTLY how women get HURT WHEN they are cheated on by MEN..
Cheating is a sickness it has nothing to do being together it's fail by the parent
This is call Narcissistic. They always blend somebody else of They own low self-esteem
At this point men are starting to wake up because of people like Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit podcast which teaches about the inner dynamics between male and female and certain topics like this!!
Weak minded, weak willed people cheat. If you wish to make an immature high school kid choice, that's on you, don't blame others for your weakness. If you're unhappy in anything in your life, make a change and stop blaming others. Just up and leave. Its very simple, whether you have kids or not. Life is all a choice.
I'm fortunate to be an extremely strong willed but deeply loving person. I can love and leave just as easily.
Both sides require attention and feeling appreciated by the other. One side blames the other and vice versa because thats the American way to blame others. A relationship will only survive if both sides are givers and care about the others feelings. When one side is selfish then they only care about themselves so the other side suffers and that is when the temptation of cheating enters the picture. Why would you have to plan anything and put it on a calendar......just do it.....take a weekend trip....do special things because you want to....not because you have to. As far as the intimate side of things....yes, a long love making session is great but I have to admit that sometimes those little quickies can be so hot as well. Its not always the big things that mean the most but just giving each other attention and asking how their day was can mean more than anything. People overlook this but communication is the most important part. Leave her little sweet love notes and make her feel special and in turn she will make you feel the same way.
I got tired of my cheating spouse. I had to contract a hacker *CYBER_KOR* on instagram who helped me get access to his social media account.. I got to see how much he had been playing on my emotions. He didn't know I could log in and out of his facebook chat .. his WhatsApp is +1 347 830 3644
Is always the selfish partner trust me 💯on this
They see it coming. They aren't paying attention. Men are proactive in relationships in the beginning. Then, women are put on the shelf. Do you ladies.
I am a MBBS doctor, what I have learnt is that men are slow learners,
If divorce your husband
Your are helping him to become a better person,
And a good husband in days to come.
Why are they laughing. it can destroy a person's life.
It’s not whether they will cheat. It is whether you would be okay even if she cheats?
Ohhh okay this means nothing about normal people
Lack of communication. Lack of kindness.
That's one of the reasons.. but also cus there horny and want sex and cant resist a male.
Goes both ways tho, some men cant resist and some women cant resist sex. Preety simple to honest.
My 3 things 1 be a good person 2 be a good person 3 be a good person... hummmmm
This woman doesn't know what she's talking about as far as what high quality men are looking for. They are looking for a traditional woman NOT the modern woman she speaks of. She doesn't understand men. She only understands women.
Let's see her sit down and espouse that nonsense with Kevin Samuels who would vehemently disagree with her on what men want, and Kevin is a man so i think he knows more about men than she does.
It's a double standard. If you cheat,you cheat
Women cheat the same reason men do, it's something NEW, so what if we took the marriage relationship and nurtured it the same as u would an affair situation. Imagine the possibilities there when u water your own pasture!!!!
bornblonde9gb it's nothing new. Both have existed for millenia
bornblonde9gb no, women cheat for emotional pleasures, whilst men, cheat for physical pleasures.
And if the relationship isn't working don't end it angry. End it on good terms
I was cheated on my wife cheated on me we had a baby and I thought the baby was mine and it hurt me bad
That’s the thing they’ll stay quiet to see if they could pull it off.
Cheaters cheat because they are cheaters. You can’t make a faithful person cheat no matter what. She belongs to the streetz
My (now ex) boyfriend physically abused me and told me that if I ever broke up with him he would find me and make sure I was so injured I couldn't walk right. I obviously wanted to break up with him but dreaded being abused and felt too trapped and blinded to seek help. I found a safe haven with another guy friend who really cared about me and then we started getting intimate (not actually having sex but doing other things). It was this guy who gave me the courage and took off the blinders to get legal help and therefore have the courage to break up with him. Point of the story, sometimes women are trapped or in serious danger and they might need someone to help them out of it.
Emily Slaton did you know thats the No.1 reason men cheat.
steven roscoe or they could be nice little girls and respect there men
Emily Slaton I don't believe that for a second
Emily Slaton This type of scenario is the only reason you should ever cheat.
DEFCON G20 always blame men for being assholes, but who chose them and who created them? Answer is women why? Because of their lack of appreciation for genuine nice guys and choosing bad boys for fun ad excitement.
put sex on a calendar? what if the kids see it?
Throw the WHOLE woman 👩🏾 away.
pain
Basically no money; No honey.
More money; more honey’s.
Accountability and responsability: (most) women's kryptonite.