HOW TO SET SYSTEMS INSTEAD OF GOALS | a system that will change your life

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  • "You don't rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems." HOW TO SET SYSTEMS INSTEAD OF GOALS | a system that will change your life
    In this video I share why goals are incomplete and how to set systems instead. If you can get your habits, systems, and then goals in place, you can reach your dreams. If you want to reach your goals, you need to get your systems in order. This has been life-changing for me and I hope this system will change your days, weeks, months, and life as well.
    ✨ I turned this video into a planner!!! You can check out the 2023 Goal Planner + Visualization workbooks out at: alexiskingsley.com ✨
    Links 👇
    ✅ Rachel Hollis Website: starttoday.com/
    ✅ Start Today Priority Planner: The Priority Planners are no longer in stock, but an alternative: alexiskingsley.com
    ✅ Start Today 10 Goals Journal: starttoday.com/pages/shop
    ✅ Desire Map Feelings List: drive.google.com/file/d/15EyX...
    Videos to Watch Next 🎥
    🎉 New Year Reset Series:
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    ✨ Part 2: Set systems to achieve your big goals: • How To Design Your Goa...
    ✨ Part 3: How to create a digital vision board: • How To Make a Digital ...
    0:00 Why it matters
    0:48 Why not just set goals?
    2:18 The Magic Pieces: Habits, Systems, Goals, and Dreams
    3:55 Design Your Life System Exercise
    17:10 Benefits of Systems
    19:55 What's at Stake & Why it Works
    21:30 Coaching

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  • @lilbrenya
    @lilbrenya 7 місяців тому +11

    My favorite line and it hits home. "Everyone can set goals, but not everyone keeps focus."

  • @ddrumcorner4682
    @ddrumcorner4682 4 місяці тому +3

    Life is so weird I find 🤷🏾‍♂️... Much respect to everyone else who I've learned from. However, I just added a new entry to my journal:
    "the most important video I've ever watched "... Don't even think I'm exaggerating either.
    For whatever reason, you resonated so much with me.. Your approach and delivery... I'm wondering why I'm only now hearing about you...
    Your channel should be in the millions I think...it will be!
    Anyways thank you!!

  • @tadiqshahid4625
    @tadiqshahid4625 2 роки тому +96

    This is precisely what I have been searching, far and wide, across UA-cam for. This video is a life-changer for me. The amount of detail gone into, combined with the ideas in Stoic philosophy, and a clear visualization of how to weave dreams, goals, systems, and habits together is why this video is a masterpiece.

  • @anchovyfish9884
    @anchovyfish9884 3 роки тому +97

    The most step-by-step and practical video about systems that I've seen so far. Thank you very much for sharing! I was already implementing some of the steps but this video reinstated the importance of the emotional aspect of it.

  • @salesprosteve
    @salesprosteve 7 місяців тому +1

    1 year later, I still watch and LOVE this!

  • @amypoole30
    @amypoole30 2 роки тому +6

    I get it with the goals. I have been following people who do yearly,quarterly,monthly etc. goal planning and task lists to the goal planning and well, I wouldn't be here if it was working. Goals are great tasks and the check lists for them are great But I knew something was missing. A system to execute to allow me to reach the goals. This so makes sense!

  • @lisadixon5915
    @lisadixon5915 2 роки тому +2

    I almost stopped the video as I couldn’t focus on what you were saying over the music. So glad I didn’t. Fabulous content.

  • @brettbarlow9581
    @brettbarlow9581 2 роки тому +23

    As a fellow INTJ I can say that these systems truly help propel me closer to my goals and aspirations. Thank you Alexis

  • @cristianomoniz
    @cristianomoniz 2 роки тому +12

    I think you know about this but…..
    It is good in life to express our thoughts to say thanks to somebody who has the ability to transform our vision into something different.
    I want to say thank you because I was lost trying to develop a system for myself and I could find all the answers.
    And now I want to let you know that I'm very very happy that I watched your video to help me out with my personal problems.
    If nobody hasn’t said that to you, I wanna say thank you.

  • @dmarkina
    @dmarkina 2 роки тому +12

    Just a reflection I had made for myself about picturing one’s dream life - it does not have to be in future. Simplify the vision and start living your dream life today ❤️ I guess what I am saying is that if one focuses the dream life on how one feels and what one does day to day, who one surrounds oneself with and what one contributes to the world, your dream life does not have to be some far away future vision, it can be attainable in the present ❤️

  • @michaeltilley6281
    @michaeltilley6281 Рік тому +2

    Look how you went from 800 subscribers to over 20.4 thousand subscribers now! You're getting there!

  • @navypinkdesign
    @navypinkdesign Рік тому +4

    I have been dragging my feet with certain goals and the things you say just clicked for me. Thank you for that! Also, I’m watching this for the first time at 20k subscribers. You’ve grown this channel so much in 2 years starting at 800. That’s a pretty good endorsement for your system! Brava

  • @marygrace3343
    @marygrace3343 2 роки тому +24

    I’m an INTJ as well and loved this video so much. I’m excited to set goals for 2022 and mapping it out with a system makes it so much easier

  • @morganainsleymusic
    @morganainsleymusic 3 роки тому +31

    Hey Alexis, loving this channel! As an INTJ, I love systems and this stuff is exactly what I needed to hear around this time of year in planning for 2021 - a very interesting way of approaching goals and planning. I’m starting to implement it and adjust this system to suit my needs and it’s been great so far! Thanks

  • @damarisrivera6441
    @damarisrivera6441 2 роки тому +10

    Girrrrrrlllll! This is sooo helpful; this is how goals, intentions should be taught. Thank you for taking the time to film these vids; please do more. This is truly one of your gifts 🙏🏼

  • @cocosjourney7712
    @cocosjourney7712 3 роки тому +5

    Give this girl her 1 000 subscribers please! This is really informative! I feel stress free to see that I have already doing systems in my daily life without knowing this word before recently. I really hope I can be stuck to these systems which will lead me to my dream life. Whishing everyone and happy new year.

    • @AlexisKingsley
      @AlexisKingsley  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you!! The daily inches and miles will get you there! You can do it!

  • @Lady_Cyndia
    @Lady_Cyndia Рік тому

    absolute successful living and ultimate goal is hearing the words "well done good and faithful servant"
    However - wow - my life is amazing - I have an amazing life with amazing marriage and smart capable adult children and two lovely grandchildren. Obvi my life isn't perfect but its perfect for me. Life isn't always sunny and rose smelling, yes I have sorrows and heartbreaks and family drama. That's part of being human and living life. Over all, the big picture, I'm happy and life is good.
    My big dreams include my health and seeing my grandchildren more.

  • @tammysegarra2379
    @tammysegarra2379 2 роки тому +3

    This is gold. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge and break it down so well!

  • @The_Superbillionaire
    @The_Superbillionaire Рік тому +2

    Thanks a Billion Alexis Kingsley for this video, it is so explanatory and excellent, especially the part you talked about conserving your energy and celebrating your wins.

  • @esraaabd-allah1626
    @esraaabd-allah1626 3 роки тому +5

    System is such a pleasant word! This is so actionable yet simple. Thank you Alexis!

  • @samwooseong1811
    @samwooseong1811 2 роки тому +7

    I love the fact that you are developing a system that will make you able to achieve the goals you set.
    I should learn how to build a system like you do. Thank you for sharing this! I am sure you will have 100K subscribers soon!

  • @RantPocalypse
    @RantPocalypse 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for highlighting this journal. Awesome way to set up fantastic systems in your life.
    Good luck on the 100K subscribers!

  • @mozlen5442
    @mozlen5442 Рік тому

    I really love your videos. I watched 10 of them in one sitting. Thank you.

  • @Huntingforbeauty007
    @Huntingforbeauty007 2 роки тому

    I just downloaded the Vision Planner. I was just about to start working on my plans and goals and this will prevent me from jotting things down aimlessly.I know the one thing I want to focus on and I'm ready to get this party started! thanks!

  • @ismaelba6466
    @ismaelba6466 2 роки тому

    Best video on planning and productivity on UA-cam. Keep up the good work Alexis🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @morningcoffee1111
    @morningcoffee1111 2 роки тому +2

    You got over 10k subs in a year. Something must be working. Nice work! You have to get rid of that music loop though.

  • @tostadamama
    @tostadamama 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this system! Congrats on 8K 🥳

  • @AlinaMinkova
    @AlinaMinkova 2 роки тому

    Thank you! This was interesting, looking forward to check your other videos!

  • @wokewerk6759
    @wokewerk6759 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for doing this work. I will definitely rewatch and implement these strategies. Hope to give an update midyear!

  • @sujata_155
    @sujata_155 Рік тому +4

    As an INTJ, it looks so useful, thanks for sharing, although I have been doing some of this but not everything and it really helps❤️

  • @milkydropz
    @milkydropz 2 роки тому

    Amazing content! Life changing 🥰 you did a great job walking us through it.

  • @priscila5990
    @priscila5990 3 роки тому +6

    fellow INTJ here. just bought the journals. I'm hesitant about journaling but I've been unable to keep my focus on the goals I've set so I will give this a shot. Time keeps passing by... and that time is lost now. I'm in a constant reassessment of my life, but more so during this time of year so the timing for this type of content right now is perfect.

    • @trevorfrayne6418
      @trevorfrayne6418 3 роки тому

      I feel you just describe me and my life. Lol I'll go get the journals. Lol

  • @scottjackson163
    @scottjackson163 Рік тому +1

    You are incredibly good at what you do. I just ordered your planner.

  • @jimkingsland1645
    @jimkingsland1645 4 місяці тому

    I liked how you acknowledged the number of subscribers is somewhat beyond your control. I also like how you expounded upon and summarized your system of weekly plans, results, and post analysis. Greatest advice was shortening the time frame and the one goal. Very inspiring. Thank you!

  • @nakoskyranos4080
    @nakoskyranos4080 Рік тому +2

    It is always a pleasure to pass by a fellow system builder and see that you are not alone. Great video!

  • @stephaniecombs8438
    @stephaniecombs8438 3 роки тому +5

    Subscribed! Thank you so much. This was exactly what I needed and was looking for to get myself to the next level. Keeping going and best of luck on your UA-cam journey!

  • @ritaneca9817
    @ritaneca9817 2 роки тому +1

    I absolutely loved this video. I learned so much! amazing content

  • @srishtibagalkoti6822
    @srishtibagalkoti6822 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for doing this!

  • @a7xfanben
    @a7xfanben 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this, great ideas and tips presented here!

  • @leannemarie212
    @leannemarie212 8 місяців тому

    This is great! I’ve been using a system with too many questions that leave me shamed. I’m finally working towards just building a system so it’s less feelings based

  • @yesboss9273
    @yesboss9273 2 роки тому +7

    Genuinely, this is the most valuable self growth video I’ve watched in over 2 years! Needed this! Very refreshing!!! 😃😃😃

  • @purplegal05
    @purplegal05 2 роки тому +7

    New subscriber here. This is the best content on UA-cam that I have seen recently. Very unique from other channels out there and super motivating! I look forward to seeing your channel to continue to grow.

  • @getwetsoon
    @getwetsoon 2 роки тому

    This is so insiring - thank you so much !!!

  • @DonovanWillisDMK
    @DonovanWillisDMK 24 дні тому

    Very good channel and thanks for the content! Really insightful

  • @aurostar9805
    @aurostar9805 Рік тому

    I was crying over my past failures just a second ago , but then your video pops up in the best moment , Thanks .

  • @warriorprincess5795
    @warriorprincess5795 2 роки тому

    I'm glad to watch this video on New Year's Day and I just subscribed. Very helpful video

  • @reannaparker5705
    @reannaparker5705 2 роки тому

    A really underrated video! ❤ thank you for this!

  • @Alice_v2.0
    @Alice_v2.0 2 роки тому +1

    This is an absolutely brilliant video! Thank you. New subscriber. 👍🏾

  • @lachesislooms9233
    @lachesislooms9233 Рік тому +1

    I would add one layer above everything else-values. That is the ultimate hierarchy imo.

  • @Lemknown
    @Lemknown 2 роки тому

    Thanks , for teaching a valueable concept, I will use it from now.

  • @shimmyshimmycocopop8905
    @shimmyshimmycocopop8905 2 роки тому +8

    First thank you so much for creating and sharing this content!! It is a tremendous gift and has really helped me move forward with creating a life I want. ✨
    In the future could you possibly limit the music in the background. I found it extremely difficult to concentrate with the combination of the volume, particular music beat, and how fast paced you spoke. 😣

  • @colleen5236
    @colleen5236 2 роки тому

    Love it! Really explained and broken down perfectly. 😍

  • @kittennoire8427
    @kittennoire8427 2 роки тому

    This video came right on time! This is phenomenal, you have gained a new subbie here!😃😃😃👍

  • @cantesiavickers3948
    @cantesiavickers3948 2 роки тому

    Love your channel!

  • @LighthouseHorror
    @LighthouseHorror 2 роки тому +1

    enjoyed the video - thank you!

  • @DaveLopezMixing
    @DaveLopezMixing 5 місяців тому

    Alexis. You should feel very proud of yourself. This is excellent content. And I'm sure it's not a coincidence that I found it at year's end. Either the Universe sent this to me, or UA-cam's algo now pulls directly from my head. Hopefully, the former.

  • @Xyz-bo6qh
    @Xyz-bo6qh 2 роки тому

    it is really useful and nourishing my mind to change directions and to look bigger .. thank you

  • @christins2267
    @christins2267 2 роки тому

    I love how much you love this.

  • @OmemawaG
    @OmemawaG 2 роки тому

    I love how engaging your video is! 💖

  • @franh3452
    @franh3452 2 роки тому +9

    I am impressed by how you structured and presented the information in this video. Do you continue to use these systems almost a year later?

  • @salesprosteve
    @salesprosteve 2 роки тому

    Only 2 minutes in & this is great - awesome job alexis!

  • @alexa574
    @alexa574 2 роки тому

    I just found your channel and love your content! New subbie here! Looking forward to seeing your other videos. Thank you!

  • @apoorvsom9120
    @apoorvsom9120 2 роки тому +1

    Alexis, thanks for the quick summary in the beginning. Very important intj thing to do. 🥺Only INTJs can understand INTJs. 💯💯

  • @Sundertalesz
    @Sundertalesz Рік тому +1

    All of your videos are so well explained. :) definitely saving this video to reference back on but im definitely going to try and get on this system thing. As an INFP i struggle a lot with keeping good habits and meeting big goals. But lately I have really tried to kick myself into gear and get on track for the sake of my future. Im hoping to become a storyboard artists/animator one day and i need a lot of self discipline to advance my artwork and continue on a solid path. thanks again for this video. Very helpful

  • @yunahwang9110
    @yunahwang9110 2 роки тому

    Thanks for this video , it made me realise a lot ❤️

  • @syedkaleemullah4960
    @syedkaleemullah4960 3 роки тому

    Hey Alexis,
    Very interesting content. Keep up the good work and I hope you succeed in making your dreams your reality.

  • @candacerushing6882
    @candacerushing6882 4 місяці тому

    This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve found on UA-cam, and I found it at the perfect time! Thank you!
    I’m glad to see that 3 years later, you have 35,000 subscribers. Clearly, your system is working for you!

  • @vincejupiter4749
    @vincejupiter4749 6 місяців тому

    Thank you 🫡

  • @sergiodamm3705
    @sergiodamm3705 Рік тому

    I’ve needed this for a really long time

  • @VeronicaCristina
    @VeronicaCristina Рік тому

    excellent...thanks..

  • @oliwiaw6
    @oliwiaw6 3 роки тому +4

    Great video, I love how you made this video very visual and actionable!! Thank you

    • @AlexisKingsley
      @AlexisKingsley  3 роки тому

      I'm glad you liked it! It was fun to make :)

  • @mypsalm40
    @mypsalm40 3 роки тому +8

    Subscribed just to help you reach your goal this quarter!!! Thanks for breaking this down for us! So helpful!

  • @fernandor.desaneto4570
    @fernandor.desaneto4570 2 роки тому +2

    This video was really life-changing.
    Thank you so much! Greetings from Brazil!

  • @merrymary428
    @merrymary428 2 роки тому +1

    So incredibly good!!!!!!!

  • @diverstalent
    @diverstalent 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Alexis! Awesome and useful information! 😃 Sousan

  • @dianelou2262
    @dianelou2262 2 роки тому +4

    Ah yes, a path forward for how to set goals, Thank You!!
    Question - I'm new to quarterly goals, how do you just choose one? What do you do with your other hours of the day? Why can't I work on 3 goals? Does it overwhelm ppl and they end up giving up? I want to build my business AND get fit. Do I treat the other goals as little side projects that I kind of do but my plans and focus are more about the big one goal? Or go haaard on that one, and next goal cycle choose the other goal? I feel like always choosing my business other things in my life will fall behind, like making a lovely home, and sustaining health.

  • @carolinembabazi4802
    @carolinembabazi4802 2 роки тому

    Am motivated, thank you.

  • @christianvicbarnuevo8099
    @christianvicbarnuevo8099 2 роки тому

    Thank you...a very helpful content

  • @deborahdavis8632
    @deborahdavis8632 3 роки тому +4

    Very clearly presented. I am thinking about my own dreams and systems. Thank you. 😀

  • @alextorresmusic
    @alextorresmusic 3 роки тому +1

    Subscribed! Very practical and inspiring video, and even more powerful, considering you already reached and passed your goal of 1K subscribers!
    Many Thanks and Congratulations!

  • @lessandra602
    @lessandra602 3 роки тому +1

    💗💗💗😊 what A GODSEND

  • @stefan-eckhart
    @stefan-eckhart 3 місяці тому

    Love the video. I'll rewatch this from 10:55

  • @rawshn
    @rawshn 2 роки тому +8

    I'm also a system-oriented person, rather than goal-oriented.
    People often ask me how I do it. Now I have a video to lead them to instead of having to explain them myself 🤣
    And you could also add if you are not achieving your micro-goals: maybe you're doing something wrong. So modify the system!
    Thank you Alexis

  • @marq1458
    @marq1458 2 роки тому

    thank you for this. very helpful. I have the atomic habit book, I should really make time to read it.

  • @glueball214
    @glueball214 2 роки тому

    Subscribed .. thanks 💙

  • @surajsk4920
    @surajsk4920 Рік тому

    Thanks alaxa it's really helpful

  • @NavesNiche
    @NavesNiche 2 роки тому

    Very inspirational

  • @blakepeay
    @blakepeay 3 роки тому

    Love it. New sub

  • @hajarbabi2391
    @hajarbabi2391 2 роки тому

    Wow you just talked about systems which are really the same in my head so same ideas hhh✨ ,btw I am an intj too I think it' s really working keep going 👍👍👍

  • @mybrownsparklez
    @mybrownsparklez 2 роки тому

    Great video!

  • @michaeltilley6281
    @michaeltilley6281 Рік тому

    This was very motivating. I am also a strong Christian so I want to include God in my system. What I really liked about this is how organized and how it shows how to turn your goals into reality and live it daily. I like the fact that you have a morning routine and if you don't like in a week you change it. I really enjoyed this video and so I am glad to subscribe to it and learn from you!

  • @Kris7245
    @Kris7245 10 місяців тому +3

    I just discovered your channel after looking for explanations on cognitive functions and you explain everything so well! I love your channel and think you deserve more subscribers than you have. I had read Atomic Habits and have been implementing new habits but struggling when it comes to the bigger more overwhelming dreams like starting a business. This type of approach is exactly what I need.

  • @JoanneWetzel
    @JoanneWetzel 3 роки тому +4

    One of my biggest takeaways from Atomic Habits so in the New Year I’ll be working on my systems! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @AlexisKingsley
      @AlexisKingsley  3 роки тому +1

      This is gonna be YOUR year!

    • @JoanneWetzel
      @JoanneWetzel 3 роки тому

      @@AlexisKingsley Same to you! ;-) Merry Christmas!

  • @maddyIncubus
    @maddyIncubus 2 роки тому

    hey.. awesome content.. there are others who have already done it.. well good luck

  • @kathryncainmadsen5850
    @kathryncainmadsen5850 Рік тому

    I have time blindness so I always get stuck at that T. This was helpful even if the music is annoying. ;)

  • @amalaa8964
    @amalaa8964 2 роки тому

    U talking abt wanting to hit 100k subs made me go to ur channel analyze ur vid content and I FELL INLOVE definitely subbed and planning to watch ur recent vids as well thank u !!

  • @antonyplazminecraft
    @antonyplazminecraft Рік тому

    The secret to success is finally out

  • @Maria_Nizhny_Novgorod
    @Maria_Nizhny_Novgorod 3 роки тому +2

    This was so motivational! New sub.

  • @grungekookie3298
    @grungekookie3298 3 роки тому +4

    Great video! I love the content, the music is a bit distracting though.

  • @venkatesasrikanthdhulipala9486
    @venkatesasrikanthdhulipala9486 2 роки тому

    Really a correct to build a systems for achieving goal